Bestselling author William Bennett addresses the central social issue of our time—the deline of the family—in a book as intellectually provocative and politically controversial as his landmark The Death of Outrage.
Our recent economic prosperity has masked the devastation of the American family, which is now under seige as never before. From the dramatic rise in illegitimacy, divorce, and single parenthood to the call for the recognition of gay marriages, the traditional nuclear family is being radically challenged and undermined, along with the moral and legal consensus that once supported it.
Now in The Broken Hearth , William Bennett, America's foremost conservative spokesperson on matters of family values, presents a strong, well-reasoned, and informed defense of the traditional family. Interweaving history, anthropology, law, social science, and the teachings of Western religions, he argues that marriage between a man and a woman and the creation of a permanent, loving, and nurturing environment for children is a great historical achievement, one that should not be lightly abandoned in favor of more "progressive" arrangements. Bennett displays his ability to combine fearless conviction, acute insight, and respect for his adversaries in thorough, balanced, and enlightening discussions of single parenthood, cohabitation, gay marriage, and other trends that are undercuttingthe ideal of the family as the essential foundation of society.
Looking closely at the concerns and questions that divide America, Bennett provides a powerful affirmation of family life and the values and benefits it bestows on individuals and on society as a whole.
William J. "Bill" Bennett is a politician and author who served in the Ronald Reagan and George H. W. Bush administrations, as chief of National Endowment for the Humanities and later Secretary of Education under Reagan, and Drug Czar under Bush. He is a nationally well-known figure of political and social conservatism and authored many books on politics, ethics, and international relations.
I had planned on reading this book quickly and dropping it off at the nearest thrift store when done but after reading this book I can't do that anymore. There were some remarkable arguments in this book about the basis of marriage and the devastating effects of divorce upon society that I need to be reminded of as marriage seems to be attacked from every side.
I loved what he wrote about marriage on the last pages. He quotes Tim Keller in his description of marriage as similar to a gem tumbler. "Marriage is sometimes no picnic. The truth is that marriage can lead to some startling revelations...married life brings to the surface our worst attributes; irritability and impatience, defensiveness and self-justification, insensitivity and manipulativeness and above all, selfishness. Marriage does not create these traits in us; it exposes them.
"The point, is not simply to learn to recognize faults. A good marriage teaches what it means to forgive, to let go of grievances, to yield when appropriate, to compromise and work together toward a common goal, to put the interest of another above your own. It is because these things do not come naturally that marriage is so good for so many of us."
Broken Hearth gets quickly and effectively to the heart of the matter: the state of marriage being the source of many social ills and instability. The author makes a great case by presenting the problem, addressing its supporters and critics, and proposing realistic solutions. He supplements this with case studies, as well as cultural and historical anecdotes to show the evolution of mores in the past fifty years.
I loved this book! None of the opinions were new to me, I agreed with everything, but it was great to hear the opinions out of the context of my religion and in the context of cold hard facts/statistics and politics. I am not really into politics so I was interested to learn about how legislation has affected the whole decline. There is a whole section on gay marriage that made so much sense and put into words a lot of what I have thought about. It made me appreciate so much the value that we place on marriage and family and really made me want to take action to spread that to the world. The first section talks about the history of family life and how it hasn't always been the way we currently think of an ideal family. It's not like we are fighting for something that has always been, BUT then it shows how it has evolved TO this ideal situation and our straying away from that, once we had it, has caused so many social ills.
i'm quite tired of reading that marriage is in crisis and that marriage was more successful in the past. the question of the purpose of marriage and how its changed over the years never crossed his mind. while everyone argues that women should be equal, but due to the change in gender roles and society being more accepting of single parenthood and children outside of wedlock, marriage is now doomed. can it be reversed? should it be reversed? what if the path that we're on is the better path, and that acceptance and tolerance is what a society needs, not formalities. while i value tradition, sometimes tradition needs to be tweaked.
argument well argued after, but doesn't mean that there aren't holes in it. i picked up this book for a better understanding of family in the 19th century, but there was only basic knowledge on the subj in here
This book was a gift from a mutual friend of Bennett's and mine, who knew I enjoyed his books. Bennett included a note in my copy: "To Joe Massery - I hope you enjoy this. Stay in the fight. - Bill Bennett." (I liked the note better than the book!)