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368 pages, Paperback
First published November 7, 2017
When I put in my offer on the apartment, I had thought it only needed to be rafraichi, merely "refreshed." I had been concerned with oven clocks, removing paper from the wall, and the toilet paper holder I found on Pinterest that I became obsessed with, a no-nonsense, utilitarian curve of white porcelain where the roll rests, and the paper hangs perfunctorily through a slot in the bottom. She was now telling me the apartment needed to be rénové . . . complètement.. My stomach felt as if it had suddenly turned to lead, dropping in disappointment.
Americans are results-oriented, and when we want something, we find the easiest and quickest way to make it happen. If there is a problem, we figure out how to make it work. In France, the process takes precedence. Things first begin with working on understanding existentially why the problem exists.
The French have an unusual relationship with rules. They have a lot of them and they provide a fixed order to life that reassures the French. Most people are quick to invoke the rules, but those rules don't necessarily apply to them. Thus, skirting the rules is a national pastime.
Going into situations with a dzܱçDzof cynicism is the key to living in France. It manifest itself by being exigeant (demanding). If you take what's first offered, there's a good possibility that you're getting duped.