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320 pages, Hardcover
First published March 17, 2020
"The thing is," I told her, using that know-it-all voice that women find endlessly endearing{...}
—p.147
It was the late New York Times columnist who famously observed that "you can't kiss in cyberspace." Like a lot of declarative statements made by old people, this isn't strictly true{...}
—p.193
When the thing standing between you and your heart's desire is another person with their own wants and needs, the answer is never as simple as just laying down the law. We all understand this when someone else tries to tell us what we can and can't do, but conveniently forget it when it's our turn to give orders. This blind spot is common to people on all parts of the political spectrum, which is one reason why I don't like arguing politics much.
—p.242
"theory of mind -A controversial hypothesis that other human beings are sentient and possess thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and goals that are different from our own. In its most radical form, the theory posits that while these differences may make other people's behavior hard to understand, the question "What the fuck are you thinking?" has a real answer which reason and empathy can discover.