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丕賱賲乇兀丞 賮賷 丕賱胤丕亘賯 丕賱毓賱賵賷
欧宝娱乐 Choice Award
Nominee for Readers' Favorite Fiction (2013)"賴匕賴 賴賷 胤亘賷毓丞 丕賱賲乇兀丞 賮賷 丕賱胤丕亘賯 丕賱毓賱賵賷. 賳毓囟 毓賱賶 丕賱賳賵丕噩匕. 賳賱賲 卮鬲丕鬲 兀賳賮爻賳丕. 賱丕 賳禺賱賯 賮賵囟賶 賵賱丕 賳乇鬲賰亘 丕賱兀禺胤丕亍 賵賱丕 賳鬲氐賱 亘丕賱賳丕爻 賳毓賵賷 賵賳賳賵丨 賮賷 丕賱爻丕毓丞 丕賱乇丕亘毓丞 賮噩乇賸丕. 賱丕 賳賰卮賮 丕賱兀爻乇丕乇 丨鬲賶 賱賵 賱賲 賷賰賳 賱丕卅賯賸丕 亘賳丕 丕賱丕丨鬲賮丕馗 亘賴丕. 賳亘賱睾 爻賳 丕賱兀乇亘毓賷賳 賲爻鬲賴夭卅丕鬲貙 賳胤賱賯 丕賱賳賰丕鬲 毓賳 丕丨鬲賷丕噩賳丕 廿賱賶 賰丐賵爻 丕賱賲丕乇鬲賷賳賷 賵兀賳 丕賱兀乇亘毓賷賳 賴賷 丕賱賳爻禺丞 丕賱毓氐乇賷丞 賲賳 丕賱孬賱丕孬賷賳貙 賵賱丕 賳氐乇丨 噩賴乇賸丕貙 賱丕 賳丨賳 賵賱丕 丕賱亘賯賷丞貙 亘賲丕 賷噩賵賱 賮毓賱賸丕 賮賷 禺賵丕胤乇賳丕: 賴賰匕丕 廿匕賳貙 賱丕 兀馗賳賴丕 爻鬲丨馗賶 賷賵賲賸丕 亘兀胤賮丕賱!"
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賳賵乇丕 廿賱丿乇賷丿噩貙 丕賲乇兀丞 兀乇亘毓賷賳賷丞 賷孬賯 賮賷賴丕 丕賱噩賲賷毓貙 賱賰賳 賱丕 賷賱丕丨馗賴丕 兀丨丿貙 賰兀賳賴丕 睾賷乇 賲乇卅賷丞貙 賮賱丕 鬲鬲賵丕噩丿 爻賵賶 賮賷 賴丕賲卮 賳噩丕丨丕鬲 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳. 鬲毓賷卮 丿賵乇 丕賱氐丿賷賯丞 丕賱丨賻賳賵賳 賵丕賱噩丕乇丞 丕賱賲購賳噩賽丿賻丞貙 賵丕賱賲毓賱賾賲丞 丕賱賲鬲賮丕賳賷丞貙 賵丕賱賮賳丕賳丞 丕賱鬲賷 鬲丐噩賱 賲卮丕乇賷毓賴丕 丿賵賲賸丕. 賱賰賳 賵氐賵賱 毓丕卅賱丞 卮丕賴賷丿 鈥� 廿爻賰賳丿乇貙 丕賱兀賰丕丿賷賲賷 丕賱賱亘賳丕賳賷貙 賵夭賵噩鬲賴 爻賷乇賷賳丕貙 丕賱賮賳丕賳丞 丕賱廿賷胤丕賱賷丞貙 賵丕亘賳賴賲丕 乇囟丕 鈥� 賷兀禺匕賴丕 廿賱賶 毓丕賱賲 丌禺乇 賲購孬賷乇 賵賲購毓賯賾丿. 爻毓丕丿丞 賳賵乇丕 鬲丿賮毓賴丕 賱鬲禺胤賾賷 丨丿賵丿賴丕貙 丨鬲賶 鬲氐胤丿賲 亘胤賲賵丨 爻賷乇賷賳丕 丕賱賮賳賾賷 丕賱匕賷 賱丕 賷鬲賵乇賾毓 毓賳 賮毓賱 兀賷 卮賷亍 賲賴賲丕 賰丕賳 丿賳賷卅賸丕貙 賮賷丨丿孬 賲丕 賱賲 鬲鬲賵賯毓賴 賳賵乇丕 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴丕 賰賱賴丕貙 賵鬲卮毓乇 亘賲丕 賱賲 鬲卮毓乇 亘賴 賲賳 賯亘賱: 丕賱睾囟亘.
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"兀丨亘亘鬲 噩賲丕賱 丕賱乇賵丕卅賷賾丞 丕賱睾丕囟亘貙 賵賰賱賲丕鬲賴丕 丕賱氐賾丕丿賯丞.."
兀賱賷賮 卮丕賮丕賯
"鬲購氐乇賾 丕賱乇賵丕卅賷賾丞 毓賱賶 丕賰鬲賳丕賴 丨丕賱丞 賳賮爻賷賾丞 賲毓賯賾丿丞 賯賱賾賲丕 賰購鬲亘 毓賳賴丕 亘賴匕賴 丕賱亘乇丕毓丞"
The New Yorker
"丕爻鬲賯氐丕亍 丨丕丿賾 賱胤亘丕卅毓 丕賱噩卮毓 賵丕賱丕乇鬲夭丕賯 丕賱鬲賷 鬲爻鬲兀孬乇 亘丕賱賮賳丕賳 賮賷 賱購噩賾丞 禺賱賯賴 毓賲賱賴 丕賱賮賳賷賾"
The Wall Street Journal
"廿賳 丕賱爻賾乇丿 丕賱匕賷 鬲賰鬲亘賴 賰賱賷乇 賲爻毓賵丿 賷噩匕亘 賷丕賯丞 賯丕乇卅賴 亘毓賳賮"
The New York Times Book Review
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賳賵乇丕 廿賱丿乇賷丿噩貙 丕賲乇兀丞 兀乇亘毓賷賳賷丞 賷孬賯 賮賷賴丕 丕賱噩賲賷毓貙 賱賰賳 賱丕 賷賱丕丨馗賴丕 兀丨丿貙 賰兀賳賴丕 睾賷乇 賲乇卅賷丞貙 賮賱丕 鬲鬲賵丕噩丿 爻賵賶 賮賷 賴丕賲卮 賳噩丕丨丕鬲 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳. 鬲毓賷卮 丿賵乇 丕賱氐丿賷賯丞 丕賱丨賻賳賵賳 賵丕賱噩丕乇丞 丕賱賲購賳噩賽丿賻丞貙 賵丕賱賲毓賱賾賲丞 丕賱賲鬲賮丕賳賷丞貙 賵丕賱賮賳丕賳丞 丕賱鬲賷 鬲丐噩賱 賲卮丕乇賷毓賴丕 丿賵賲賸丕. 賱賰賳 賵氐賵賱 毓丕卅賱丞 卮丕賴賷丿 鈥� 廿爻賰賳丿乇貙 丕賱兀賰丕丿賷賲賷 丕賱賱亘賳丕賳賷貙 賵夭賵噩鬲賴 爻賷乇賷賳丕貙 丕賱賮賳丕賳丞 丕賱廿賷胤丕賱賷丞貙 賵丕亘賳賴賲丕 乇囟丕 鈥� 賷兀禺匕賴丕 廿賱賶 毓丕賱賲 丌禺乇 賲購孬賷乇 賵賲購毓賯賾丿. 爻毓丕丿丞 賳賵乇丕 鬲丿賮毓賴丕 賱鬲禺胤賾賷 丨丿賵丿賴丕貙 丨鬲賶 鬲氐胤丿賲 亘胤賲賵丨 爻賷乇賷賳丕 丕賱賮賳賾賷 丕賱匕賷 賱丕 賷鬲賵乇賾毓 毓賳 賮毓賱 兀賷 卮賷亍 賲賴賲丕 賰丕賳 丿賳賷卅賸丕貙 賮賷丨丿孬 賲丕 賱賲 鬲鬲賵賯毓賴 賳賵乇丕 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴丕 賰賱賴丕貙 賵鬲卮毓乇 亘賲丕 賱賲 鬲卮毓乇 亘賴 賲賳 賯亘賱: 丕賱睾囟亘.
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"兀丨亘亘鬲 噩賲丕賱 丕賱乇賵丕卅賷賾丞 丕賱睾丕囟亘貙 賵賰賱賲丕鬲賴丕 丕賱氐賾丕丿賯丞.."
兀賱賷賮 卮丕賮丕賯
"鬲購氐乇賾 丕賱乇賵丕卅賷賾丞 毓賱賶 丕賰鬲賳丕賴 丨丕賱丞 賳賮爻賷賾丞 賲毓賯賾丿丞 賯賱賾賲丕 賰購鬲亘 毓賳賴丕 亘賴匕賴 丕賱亘乇丕毓丞"
The New Yorker
"丕爻鬲賯氐丕亍 丨丕丿賾 賱胤亘丕卅毓 丕賱噩卮毓 賵丕賱丕乇鬲夭丕賯 丕賱鬲賷 鬲爻鬲兀孬乇 亘丕賱賮賳丕賳 賮賷 賱購噩賾丞 禺賱賯賴 毓賲賱賴 丕賱賮賳賷賾"
The Wall Street Journal
"廿賳 丕賱爻賾乇丿 丕賱匕賷 鬲賰鬲亘賴 賰賱賷乇 賲爻毓賵丿 賷噩匕亘 賷丕賯丞 賯丕乇卅賴 亘毓賳賮"
The New York Times Book Review
427 pages, Hardcover
First published April 30, 2013
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Claire Messud
40听books904听followersClaire Messud is an American novelist and literature and creative writing professor. She is best known as the author of the novel The Emperor's Children (2006).
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January 4, 2015
The Woman Upstairs is an occasion to reawaken a literary hot button that I love: the unlikeable character. Plenty of people hated The Emperor鈥檚 Children for the same reason they hated The Corrections: couldn鈥檛 relate to/sympathize with the characters, wouldn鈥檛 want to be friends with them, etc. In a Publishers Weekly interview, Messud was asked about Nora, her dutiful but rage-filled, 40-something schoolteacher/wannabe artist whose life is reawakened but then betrayed by a charismatic expat and (successful) artist, her charming 8 year old son, and her scholarly husband: 鈥淚 wouldn鈥檛 want to be friends with Nora, would you? Her outlook is almost unbearably grim.鈥� To which Messud replies:
鈥淲hat kind of question is that? Would you want to be friends with Humbert Humbert? 鈥�.Hamlet?....Oedipus? Oscar Wao? Antigone? Raskolnikov?....If you鈥檙e reading to find friends, you鈥檙e in deep trouble. We read to find life, in all its possibilities. The relevant question isn鈥檛 'is this a potential friend for me?' but 'is this character alive?'"
This resonates in a big way with me. Isn't that why we read, to have complete access to a character鈥檚 deepest thoughts and feelings in all their messiness, whether via the first person or third? The kind of access we don't get to even our closest friends and relatives in real life? But a very smart 欧宝娱乐 review of this novel also notes: 鈥淚 read to find friends, and shame on any fiction writer who tries to embarrass me for that. I can't recall a single thrilling reading experience in my life that wasn't about connecting to the characters.鈥�
Which to me just solidifies the act of reading as one of the most creatively subjective pursuits there is; you can鈥檛 say a person isn't a discerning reader for having an honest reaction to a story's unlikeable characters. But at the same time I don鈥檛 like to think that The Woman Upstairs could be dismissed on this issue alone.
So what of the novel? It鈥檚 not for everyone. Is Nora unlikeable? Sure. She鈥檚 also angry, and lonely, and carries the burden of her family鈥檚 past along with her. But she鈥檚 not a character without very real humanity. Her furious, all-too-apparent self-consciousness--the way she sometimes bathes, almost luxuriously, in her anger--may be unrelatable and perhaps even repulsive, but it鈥檚 impossible not to be moved by her desire to ultimately transcend that anger in her quest to live an authentic life. To her, each member of the Shahid family, 鈥渋n my impassioned interior conversations, granted me some aspect of my most dearly held, most fiercely hidden, heart鈥檚 desires: life, art, motherhood, love and the great seductive promise that I wasn鈥檛 nothing, that I could be seen for my unvarnished self and that this hidden self, this precious girl without a mask, unseen for decades, could--that she must, indeed--leave a trace upon the world.鈥�
While it may not sway some readers, for me this makes Nora's likeability completely irrelevant. I can鈥檛 read lines like this and not be moved.
鈥淲hat kind of question is that? Would you want to be friends with Humbert Humbert? 鈥�.Hamlet?....Oedipus? Oscar Wao? Antigone? Raskolnikov?....If you鈥檙e reading to find friends, you鈥檙e in deep trouble. We read to find life, in all its possibilities. The relevant question isn鈥檛 'is this a potential friend for me?' but 'is this character alive?'"
This resonates in a big way with me. Isn't that why we read, to have complete access to a character鈥檚 deepest thoughts and feelings in all their messiness, whether via the first person or third? The kind of access we don't get to even our closest friends and relatives in real life? But a very smart 欧宝娱乐 review of this novel also notes: 鈥淚 read to find friends, and shame on any fiction writer who tries to embarrass me for that. I can't recall a single thrilling reading experience in my life that wasn't about connecting to the characters.鈥�
Which to me just solidifies the act of reading as one of the most creatively subjective pursuits there is; you can鈥檛 say a person isn't a discerning reader for having an honest reaction to a story's unlikeable characters. But at the same time I don鈥檛 like to think that The Woman Upstairs could be dismissed on this issue alone.
So what of the novel? It鈥檚 not for everyone. Is Nora unlikeable? Sure. She鈥檚 also angry, and lonely, and carries the burden of her family鈥檚 past along with her. But she鈥檚 not a character without very real humanity. Her furious, all-too-apparent self-consciousness--the way she sometimes bathes, almost luxuriously, in her anger--may be unrelatable and perhaps even repulsive, but it鈥檚 impossible not to be moved by her desire to ultimately transcend that anger in her quest to live an authentic life. To her, each member of the Shahid family, 鈥渋n my impassioned interior conversations, granted me some aspect of my most dearly held, most fiercely hidden, heart鈥檚 desires: life, art, motherhood, love and the great seductive promise that I wasn鈥檛 nothing, that I could be seen for my unvarnished self and that this hidden self, this precious girl without a mask, unseen for decades, could--that she must, indeed--leave a trace upon the world.鈥�
While it may not sway some readers, for me this makes Nora's likeability completely irrelevant. I can鈥檛 read lines like this and not be moved.
June 3, 2013
Hmmm. Lots of thoughts. There is brilliance here, in how Messud takes up anger, hunger, and loneliness. There are many problems here, like, THERE IS NO PLOT. This is the kind of book that makes people hate literary fiction. My biggest issue though, is that so much of the prose is... aimless and not in a compelling way . Also, 37, in Cambridge, is NOT THE END OF THE LINE. That is not middle-aged. In a city like Cambridge, 37 is when many women might think, "Maybe I'll settle down and have some kids." This is not universally true, but still. Come on. And maybe I'm just being oversensitive but... I don't feel middle-aged, at all. I don't feel young, I'm not delusional. But I still feel like there's a lot of life yet to live, so I'm probably personalizing this a bit. I just feel like framing Nora as a spinster misses the mark. And also, the very end, is so sharp and so breathtaking and I wish the rest of the book was as good.
Middle-aged my ass.
Also, it's weird how anger is articulated but rarely shown here. Anger seems more like an idea than an actual emotion.
Middle-aged my ass.
Also, it's weird how anger is articulated but rarely shown here. Anger seems more like an idea than an actual emotion.
July 15, 2023
If you're interested in a book with unlikeable, unreliable characters, hints of possible drama, obsession, and betrayal, melancholy and whining, endless run-on narrative from the main character, a plot that bogs down completely, and a rushed ending, then have I got the novel for you! I decided to read The Woman Upstairs after hearing an interview with Claire Messud on NPR; the book was touted as a "saga of anger and thwarted ambition". While there was plenty of anger, I couldn't find the ambition part. Unmarried, childless, elementary school teacher Nora Eldridge thinks, 鈥淚t was supposed to say 鈥楪reat Artist鈥� on my tombstone, but if I died right now it would say 鈥榮uch a good teacher/daughter/friend鈥� instead.鈥� She becomes infatuated with the whole Shahid family, and because of this association she resumes some of her own artistic endeavors, only to let them get crowded out due to her obsession.
There is a possibility that I didn't 'get' this book because I'm not terribly sophisticated and don't understand 'Great Artists', but it seems to me that adjusting our aspirations is something every single one of us has to deal with as we grow older. I hope I'm dealing with it in a more mature, productive, and reasonable way than the deluded and angry Nora.
There is a possibility that I didn't 'get' this book because I'm not terribly sophisticated and don't understand 'Great Artists', but it seems to me that adjusting our aspirations is something every single one of us has to deal with as we grow older. I hope I'm dealing with it in a more mature, productive, and reasonable way than the deluded and angry Nora.
June 26, 2013
This is a rancorous read about lost opportunities.
The narrator is bursting with rage.
Uncomfortable. Corrosive. Urgent.
But the writing.
Oh, the writing.
Masterly and picture-perfect.
And the ending?
Unforeseen.
Damn.
The narrator is bursting with rage.
Uncomfortable. Corrosive. Urgent.
But the writing.
Oh, the writing.
Masterly and picture-perfect.
And the ending?
Unforeseen.
Damn.
March 14, 2016
Did I find this book or did this book find me?
Either way, this novel was so powerful and jarring that it jumbled my thoughts and disrupted my sleep. The story is focused on the anger and anxiety 鈥� hell, let's just call it a mid-life crisis blended with some good ol' feminist rage 鈥� of Nora Eldridge, a single woman who teaches elementary school in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and who wishes she had more time to be an artist. One day, she meets a boy named Reza, and she becomes so attached to him and his parents that she feels like she's falling in love with the family. Sirena, the boy's mother, is also an artist, and the two women share an art studio for the year. Skandar, the boy's father, is a visiting scholar at Harvard, and Nora enjoys long discussions with him. Reza is a charming little boy, and Nora enjoys babysitting him when his parents are busy.
When we meet Nora, she admits she is very angry, but it's not clear what caused it. At first I thought it was being single and childless, being undervalued as a woman in a patriarchal society, being forced to be a school teacher when she really wanted to create art, etc. It is all of those things, but there is more. We don't fully understand the reasons for her anger until the end of the book, which brought a surprising conclusion to the story.
I could relate to Nora's dreams and fears and anxieties and anger, and I saw shades of women I know in her. She was very real, very well-drawn. Nora calls herself the Woman Upstairs because she feels invisible, she feels like a good girl who is overlooked and taken for granted. Nora felt more connected to the world when she was sharing part of her life with Sirena and Reza and Skandar. Early on, we sense the relationship was temporary because she called it "the year with Sirena," so at some point, she is abandoned and alone again.
My only criticisms of the book were the references to real-world events. Most of the story takes place in 2004, and I found those newsy intrusions annoying. Also, Reza was described as so cherubic and sweet that it was unbelievable. In the book, the women were more realized characters than the men and boys, and I never really understood Skandar. But overall, this book is well-written and a compelling story, and I would highly recommend it.
Update After Book Club
We had a great discussion about this novel during Book Club, and I was relieved that I wasn't the only one who reacted so strongly and personally to Nora's story. Several women said reading this book was like holding up a mirror. I am adding this caveat that Nora's attitude and writing were intense, and one of my friends was so disturbed by the book that she couldn't finish it. So this is my warning that this novel is not a carefree read.
Amazing Opening Passage
Favorite Quotes:
"I always understood that the great dilemma of my mother's life had been to glimpse freedom too late, at too high a price. She was of the generation for which the rules changed halfway, born into a world of pressed linens and three-course dinners and hairsprayed updos, in which women were educated and then deployed for domestic purposes 鈥� rather like using an elaborately embroidered tablecloth on which to serve messy children their breakfast."
"I always thought I'd get farther. I'd like to blame the world for what I've failed to do, but the failure 鈥� the failure that sometimes washes over me as anger, makes me so angry I could spit 鈥� is all mine, in the end. What made my obstacles insurmountable, what consigned me to mediocrity, is me, just me. I thought for so long, forever, that I was strong enough 鈥� or I misunderstood what strength was. I thought I could get to greatness, to my greatness, by plugging on, cleaning up each mess as it came, the way you're taught to eat your greens before you have dessert. But it turns out that's a rule for girls and sissies, because the mountain of greens is of Everest proportions, and the bowl of ice cream at the far end of the table is melting a little more with each passing second. There will be ants on it soon. And then they'll come and clear it away altogether. The hubris of it, thinking I could be a decent human being and a valuable member of family and society, and still create! Absurd. How strong did I think I was?"
"When you're the Woman Upstairs, nobody thinks of you first. Nobody calls you before anyone else, or sends you the first postcard. Once your mother dies, nobody loves you best of all."
"You know those moments, at school or college, when suddenly the cosmos seems like one vast plan after all, patterned in such a way that the novel you're reading at bedtime connects to your astronomy lecture, connects to what you heard on NPR, connects to what your friend discusses in the cafeteria at lunch 鈥� and then briefly it's as if the lid has come off the world, as if the world were a dollhouse, and you can glimpse what it would be like to see it whole, from above 鈥� a vertiginous magnificence. And then the lid falls and you fall and the reign of the ordinary resumes."
"What does it mean that the first thing every American child knows about Germany is Hitler? What if the first thing you knew was something else? And maybe some people would say that now it's important, after the Second World War, it's ethical and vital that Hitler is the first thing a child knows. But someone else can argue the opposite. And what would it do, how would it change things, if nobody were allowed to know anything about Hitler, about the war, about any of it, until first they learned about Brahms, Beethoven and Bach, about Hegel and Lessing and Fichte, about Schopenhauer, about Rilke ... one of those things you had to know and appreciate because you learned about the Nazis."
"The Woman Upstairs is like that. We keep it together. You don't make a mess and you don't make mistakes and you don't call people weeping at four in the morning. You don't reveal secrets it would be unseemly for you to have. You turn forty and you laugh about it, and make jokes about needing martinis and how forty is the new thirty, and you don't say aloud and nobody else says aloud what all of you are thinking, which is 'Well, I guess she's never going to have kids now!'"
Either way, this novel was so powerful and jarring that it jumbled my thoughts and disrupted my sleep. The story is focused on the anger and anxiety 鈥� hell, let's just call it a mid-life crisis blended with some good ol' feminist rage 鈥� of Nora Eldridge, a single woman who teaches elementary school in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and who wishes she had more time to be an artist. One day, she meets a boy named Reza, and she becomes so attached to him and his parents that she feels like she's falling in love with the family. Sirena, the boy's mother, is also an artist, and the two women share an art studio for the year. Skandar, the boy's father, is a visiting scholar at Harvard, and Nora enjoys long discussions with him. Reza is a charming little boy, and Nora enjoys babysitting him when his parents are busy.
When we meet Nora, she admits she is very angry, but it's not clear what caused it. At first I thought it was being single and childless, being undervalued as a woman in a patriarchal society, being forced to be a school teacher when she really wanted to create art, etc. It is all of those things, but there is more. We don't fully understand the reasons for her anger until the end of the book, which brought a surprising conclusion to the story.
I could relate to Nora's dreams and fears and anxieties and anger, and I saw shades of women I know in her. She was very real, very well-drawn. Nora calls herself the Woman Upstairs because she feels invisible, she feels like a good girl who is overlooked and taken for granted. Nora felt more connected to the world when she was sharing part of her life with Sirena and Reza and Skandar. Early on, we sense the relationship was temporary because she called it "the year with Sirena," so at some point, she is abandoned and alone again.
My only criticisms of the book were the references to real-world events. Most of the story takes place in 2004, and I found those newsy intrusions annoying. Also, Reza was described as so cherubic and sweet that it was unbelievable. In the book, the women were more realized characters than the men and boys, and I never really understood Skandar. But overall, this book is well-written and a compelling story, and I would highly recommend it.
Update After Book Club
We had a great discussion about this novel during Book Club, and I was relieved that I wasn't the only one who reacted so strongly and personally to Nora's story. Several women said reading this book was like holding up a mirror. I am adding this caveat that Nora's attitude and writing were intense, and one of my friends was so disturbed by the book that she couldn't finish it. So this is my warning that this novel is not a carefree read.
Amazing Opening Passage
How angry am I? You don't want to know. Nobody wants to know about that.
I'm a good girl, I'm a nice girl, I'm a straight-A, strait-laced, good daughter, good career girl, and I never stole anybody's boyfriend and I never ran out on a girlfriend, and I put up with my parents' shit and my brother's shit, and I'm not a girl anyhow, I'm over forty fucking years old, and I'm good at my job and I'm great with kids and I held my mother's hand when she died, after four years of holding her hand while she was dying, and I speak to my father every day on the telephone -- every day, mind you, and what kind of weather do you have on your side of the river, because here it's pretty gray and a bit muggy too? It was supposed to stay "Great Artist" on my tombstone, but if I died right now it would say "such a good teacher/daughter/friend" instead, and what I really want to shout, and want in big letters on that grave, too, is FUCK YOU ALL.
Don't all women feel the same? The only difference is how much we know we feel it, how in touch we are with our fury. We're all furies, except the ones who are too damned foolish, and my worry now is that we're brainwashing them from the cradle, and in the end even the ones who are smart will be too damned foolish. What do I mean? I mean the second-graders at Appleton Elementary, sometimes the first graders even, and by the time they get to my classroom, to the third grade, they're well and truly gone -- they're full of Lady Gaga and Katy Perry and French manicures and cute outfits and they care how their hair looks! In the third grade. They care more about their hair or their shoes than about galaxies or caterpillars or hieroglyphics. How did all that revolutionary talk of the seventies land us in a place where being female means playing dumb and looking good? Even worse on your tombstone than "dutiful daughter" is "looked good"; everyone used to know that. But we're lost in a world of appearances now.
Favorite Quotes:
"I always understood that the great dilemma of my mother's life had been to glimpse freedom too late, at too high a price. She was of the generation for which the rules changed halfway, born into a world of pressed linens and three-course dinners and hairsprayed updos, in which women were educated and then deployed for domestic purposes 鈥� rather like using an elaborately embroidered tablecloth on which to serve messy children their breakfast."
"I always thought I'd get farther. I'd like to blame the world for what I've failed to do, but the failure 鈥� the failure that sometimes washes over me as anger, makes me so angry I could spit 鈥� is all mine, in the end. What made my obstacles insurmountable, what consigned me to mediocrity, is me, just me. I thought for so long, forever, that I was strong enough 鈥� or I misunderstood what strength was. I thought I could get to greatness, to my greatness, by plugging on, cleaning up each mess as it came, the way you're taught to eat your greens before you have dessert. But it turns out that's a rule for girls and sissies, because the mountain of greens is of Everest proportions, and the bowl of ice cream at the far end of the table is melting a little more with each passing second. There will be ants on it soon. And then they'll come and clear it away altogether. The hubris of it, thinking I could be a decent human being and a valuable member of family and society, and still create! Absurd. How strong did I think I was?"
"When you're the Woman Upstairs, nobody thinks of you first. Nobody calls you before anyone else, or sends you the first postcard. Once your mother dies, nobody loves you best of all."
"You know those moments, at school or college, when suddenly the cosmos seems like one vast plan after all, patterned in such a way that the novel you're reading at bedtime connects to your astronomy lecture, connects to what you heard on NPR, connects to what your friend discusses in the cafeteria at lunch 鈥� and then briefly it's as if the lid has come off the world, as if the world were a dollhouse, and you can glimpse what it would be like to see it whole, from above 鈥� a vertiginous magnificence. And then the lid falls and you fall and the reign of the ordinary resumes."
"What does it mean that the first thing every American child knows about Germany is Hitler? What if the first thing you knew was something else? And maybe some people would say that now it's important, after the Second World War, it's ethical and vital that Hitler is the first thing a child knows. But someone else can argue the opposite. And what would it do, how would it change things, if nobody were allowed to know anything about Hitler, about the war, about any of it, until first they learned about Brahms, Beethoven and Bach, about Hegel and Lessing and Fichte, about Schopenhauer, about Rilke ... one of those things you had to know and appreciate because you learned about the Nazis."
"The Woman Upstairs is like that. We keep it together. You don't make a mess and you don't make mistakes and you don't call people weeping at four in the morning. You don't reveal secrets it would be unseemly for you to have. You turn forty and you laugh about it, and make jokes about needing martinis and how forty is the new thirty, and you don't say aloud and nobody else says aloud what all of you are thinking, which is 'Well, I guess she's never going to have kids now!'"
February 21, 2025
Annasue McCleave Wilson from Publishers Weekly:
"I wouldn鈥檛 want to be friends with Nora, would you? Her outlook is almost unbearably grim.鈥�
Claire Messud:
"For heaven鈥檚 sake, what kind of question is that? Would you want to be friends with Humbert Humbert? Would you want to be friends with Mickey Sabbath? Saleem Sinai? Hamlet? Krapp? Oedipus? Oscar Wao? Antigone? Raskolnikov? Any of the characters in The Corrections? Any of the characters in Infinite Jest? Any of the characters in anything Pynchon has ever written? Or Martin Amis? Or Orhan Pamuk? Or Alice Munro, for that matter? If you鈥檙e reading to find friends, you鈥檙e in deep trouble. We read to find life, in all its possibilities. The relevant question isn鈥檛 鈥渋s this a potential friend for me?鈥� but 鈥渋s this character alive?鈥� Nora鈥檚 outlook isn鈥檛 鈥渦nbearably grim鈥� at all. Nora is telling her story in the immediate wake of an enormous betrayal by a friend she has loved dearly. She is deeply upset and angry. But most of the novel is describing a time in which she felt hope, beauty, elation, joy, wonder, anticipation鈥攖hese are things these friends gave to her, and this is why they mattered so much. Her rage corresponds to the immensity of what she has lost. It doesn鈥檛 matter, in a way, whether all those emotions were the result of real interactions or of fantasy, she experienced them fully. And in losing them, has lost happiness."
What is this strange obsession with the "likeability" or "unlikeability" of Nora's character in this stupendous novel?! It seems so stale and entirely besides the point to me that I don't even know where to begin. Thank goodness for my 欧宝娱乐 friends Gloria, Marianna and Ami who were quick to jump to this woman's defense, underlining how much they actually identified and empathized with her as opposed to feeling appalled by her inner demons.
When have you last heard a female's voice so sharply defined, so feverish, so inhabited, so perceptive, so damn heartbreaking as Nora's? Here is a shimmering, complex and broken character whom Virginia Woolf would have revered. Who has never felt envy towards others? Obsessive friendships? Unrealized and stubborn aspirations that eat at you like a plague? There is no "likeability" or "unlikeability" here, only the furious will to live and hunger for feeling.
I could go on and on but I will leave the last words to Margaret Atwood, taking part in the debate in The New Yorker:
"Also, what is 鈥渓ikeable鈥�? We love to watch bad people do awful things in fictions, though we would not like it if they did those things to us in real life. The energy that drives any fictional plot comes from the darker forces, whether they be external (opponents of the heroine or hero) or internal (components of their selves)."
Think Walter White in "Breaking Bad". Isn't he one of the most riveting, complicated, morally torn and furiously alive character you've ever encountered? Nora Eldridge is cut from the same cloth.
An astounding novel.
"I wouldn鈥檛 want to be friends with Nora, would you? Her outlook is almost unbearably grim.鈥�
Claire Messud:
"For heaven鈥檚 sake, what kind of question is that? Would you want to be friends with Humbert Humbert? Would you want to be friends with Mickey Sabbath? Saleem Sinai? Hamlet? Krapp? Oedipus? Oscar Wao? Antigone? Raskolnikov? Any of the characters in The Corrections? Any of the characters in Infinite Jest? Any of the characters in anything Pynchon has ever written? Or Martin Amis? Or Orhan Pamuk? Or Alice Munro, for that matter? If you鈥檙e reading to find friends, you鈥檙e in deep trouble. We read to find life, in all its possibilities. The relevant question isn鈥檛 鈥渋s this a potential friend for me?鈥� but 鈥渋s this character alive?鈥� Nora鈥檚 outlook isn鈥檛 鈥渦nbearably grim鈥� at all. Nora is telling her story in the immediate wake of an enormous betrayal by a friend she has loved dearly. She is deeply upset and angry. But most of the novel is describing a time in which she felt hope, beauty, elation, joy, wonder, anticipation鈥攖hese are things these friends gave to her, and this is why they mattered so much. Her rage corresponds to the immensity of what she has lost. It doesn鈥檛 matter, in a way, whether all those emotions were the result of real interactions or of fantasy, she experienced them fully. And in losing them, has lost happiness."
What is this strange obsession with the "likeability" or "unlikeability" of Nora's character in this stupendous novel?! It seems so stale and entirely besides the point to me that I don't even know where to begin. Thank goodness for my 欧宝娱乐 friends Gloria, Marianna and Ami who were quick to jump to this woman's defense, underlining how much they actually identified and empathized with her as opposed to feeling appalled by her inner demons.
When have you last heard a female's voice so sharply defined, so feverish, so inhabited, so perceptive, so damn heartbreaking as Nora's? Here is a shimmering, complex and broken character whom Virginia Woolf would have revered. Who has never felt envy towards others? Obsessive friendships? Unrealized and stubborn aspirations that eat at you like a plague? There is no "likeability" or "unlikeability" here, only the furious will to live and hunger for feeling.
I could go on and on but I will leave the last words to Margaret Atwood, taking part in the debate in The New Yorker:
"Also, what is 鈥渓ikeable鈥�? We love to watch bad people do awful things in fictions, though we would not like it if they did those things to us in real life. The energy that drives any fictional plot comes from the darker forces, whether they be external (opponents of the heroine or hero) or internal (components of their selves)."
Think Walter White in "Breaking Bad". Isn't he one of the most riveting, complicated, morally torn and furiously alive character you've ever encountered? Nora Eldridge is cut from the same cloth.
An astounding novel.
December 5, 2021
IL MOMENTO LUCY JORDAN
La gente non vuole preoccuparsi per la donna del piano di sopra. 脠 una persona affidabile, organizzata, che non crea mai problemi.
La donna del piano di sopra ha la casa piena di gatti e teiere, guarda le repliche di 鈥淪ex and the City鈥�, ha un sorriso perenne e trasparente. La donna del piano di sopra 猫 invisibile.
La donna del piano di sopra si chiama Nora e racconta in prima persona partendo con un incipit alquanto rabbioso che man mano si stempera per poi rinvigorirsi nuovamente nel bel finale, che pu貌 risultare anche alquanto lancinante.
La donna del piano di sopra si chiama Nora e non Lucy Jordan come quella dell鈥檕monima bella ballata magnificamente interpretata da Marianne Faithfull (della quale io sono 鈥榝edele鈥� fan).
Epper貌, Nora si paragona a Lucy Jordan e ripete quelle parole, le parole della canzone, queste:
Al mattino il sole tocca delicatamente // gli occhi di Lucy Jordan // nella sua stanza bianca di un quartiere // nei sobborghi di una citt脿 di provincia // Lei rimane sotto le coperte // a sognare migliaia di amanti // mentre il mondo intorno a lei diventa arancione // e la stanza comincia a girare //
Ha ormai 37 anni, // e capisce che non se ne andr脿 mai // in giro per le strade di Parigi in una macchina sportiva // mentre una brezza tiepida le scompiglia i capelli.
La canzone poi prosegue pi霉 o meno cos矛:
Suo marito 猫 al lavoro, // i bambini sono a scuola // Ci sarebbero
tanti modi di passare la giornata: //
potrebbe pulire la casa per ore // o piantare fiori //
o magari correre nuda per strada // e gridare a pi霉 non posso.
D鈥檃ltra parte 猫 ormai chiaro che la vita di Lucy Jordan non 猫 quello che lei aspettava sognava voleva. Anche Nora ha ormai l鈥檈t脿 鈥� la stessa, trentasette 鈥� in cui ha smesso di credere di poter diventare la persona che voleva essere. E forse non le resta che:
lasciare il telefono squillare // mentre lei canta //
dolci filastrocche da bambina // che ha imparato seduta sulle gambe di suo pap脿.
Primo incontro con la narrativa di Claire Messud (moglie di James Wood, il critico letterario che ha fatto esplodere Elena Ferrante in America).
Ci arrivo dopo aver letto una sua intervista con Antonio Monda nella quale mi aveva colpito il mix etnico, se posso definirlo tale, alle sue spalle: americana, ma anche un po鈥� canadese, e algerina, e a quanto dice la signora, anche maltese, spagnola, perfino napoletana. E quindi, qualcuno che ha lunghe e lontane radici, e che 猫 consapevole di avere radici nell'altrove.
Il che di solito si accompagna a una buona capacit脿 d鈥檌ntrospezione psicologica. Messud conferma.
Profonda e leggera, divertente e dolorosa, racconta una storia inusuale: quella di una donna al valico dei quaranta, insegnante elementare a Cambridge, Massachusetts, che voleva fare l鈥檃rtista, ma poi sua madre la convince a cercarsi un lavoro che paga per essere autonoma e indipendente. E Nora rimane invischiata in questa palude esistenziale dalla quale sembra che possa salvarla una famiglia di stranieri che arriva in citt脿 per un soggiorno di un anno: lei 猫 italiana, Selene (Sirena in originale), lui 猫 libanese, il bambino di otto anni che finisce nella classe di Nora un mix perfetto dei due, la dolcezza fatta persona.
Nora, che non sembra aver ancora superato la morte della madre avvenuta due anni prima, si lega ai tre 鈥渟tranieri鈥�: in senso diverso da uno all鈥檃ltro, ma con tutti e tre in modo viscerale. Al punto che parla di innamoramento, e Didi, la sua amica lesbica, le chiede se voglia per caso portarsi a letto Selene. Ma cos矛 non 猫.
Mia madre impieg貌 anni a morire. 脠 un鈥檃rte difficile da padroneggiare. Mentre lei stava morendo, io cercavo di imparare a vivere.
Selene 猫 un鈥檃rtista che senza grosso sforzo riesce a risvegliare in Nora la passione per l鈥檃rte. E la nostra Nora riprende a lavorare sui suoi diorami che sono la perfetta replica delle stanze da letto di quattro donne famose, in modo diverso quattro artiste (Emily Dickinson, Virginia Woolf, Alice Neel, Edie Sedgwick): la sua arte sono quelle 鈥渃ase di bambola鈥� che riproduce e costruisce come se non si rendesse conto che Nora 猫 proprio la protagonista del dramma di Ibsen Casa di bambola. E come la Nora di Ibsen si ribella alla sua situazione, la nostra Nora sente che la sua vita galleggia in acque stagnanti, la nostra Nora 猫 attratta proprio da donne ribelli, icone di trasgressivit脿.
Non siamo le pazze in soffitta: quelle ricevono sempre un sacco di attenzione, in un modo o nell鈥檃ltro. Siamo le donne tranquille in fondo al corridoio del secondo piano, quelle che non sgarrano mai con la spazzatura, quelle che sorridono e salutano allegramente sulle scale, e che, dietro la porta chiusa, non fanno mai rumore. Nella nostra vita di tranquilla disperazione, noi siamo le donne del piano di sopra, con o senza un maledetto soriano o un fastidioso labrador saltellante, e neanche un鈥檃nima si accorge che siamo furiose.
Ho trovato la vicenda, che non ha colpi di scena, snodi cruciali, accelerazioni, suspense, a suo modo particolarmente originale ed emozionante: e confesso che questa volta per me ha giocato in un certo qual modo l鈥檈lemento identificazione (ho vissuto di recente un鈥檈sperienza simile), elemento che non 猫 mai l鈥檌deale per approcciarsi a un鈥檕pera, scritta o filmata che sia.
Se Messud avesse civettato meno col lettore 鈥� al quale si rivolge spesso con eccessiva confidenza, trascinandolo nella pagina - 猫 possibile che sarebbero scattate le cinque stelle. Ma mi fermo a quattro e so che presto legger貌 qualcos鈥檃ltro di suo.
La donna del piano di sopra.
La gente non vuole preoccuparsi per la donna del piano di sopra. 脠 una persona affidabile, organizzata, che non crea mai problemi.
La donna del piano di sopra ha la casa piena di gatti e teiere, guarda le repliche di 鈥淪ex and the City鈥�, ha un sorriso perenne e trasparente. La donna del piano di sopra 猫 invisibile.
La donna del piano di sopra si chiama Nora e racconta in prima persona partendo con un incipit alquanto rabbioso che man mano si stempera per poi rinvigorirsi nuovamente nel bel finale, che pu貌 risultare anche alquanto lancinante.
La donna del piano di sopra si chiama Nora e non Lucy Jordan come quella dell鈥檕monima bella ballata magnificamente interpretata da Marianne Faithfull (della quale io sono 鈥榝edele鈥� fan).
Epper貌, Nora si paragona a Lucy Jordan e ripete quelle parole, le parole della canzone, queste:
Al mattino il sole tocca delicatamente // gli occhi di Lucy Jordan // nella sua stanza bianca di un quartiere // nei sobborghi di una citt脿 di provincia // Lei rimane sotto le coperte // a sognare migliaia di amanti // mentre il mondo intorno a lei diventa arancione // e la stanza comincia a girare //
Ha ormai 37 anni, // e capisce che non se ne andr脿 mai // in giro per le strade di Parigi in una macchina sportiva // mentre una brezza tiepida le scompiglia i capelli.
La canzone poi prosegue pi霉 o meno cos矛:
Suo marito 猫 al lavoro, // i bambini sono a scuola // Ci sarebbero
tanti modi di passare la giornata: //
potrebbe pulire la casa per ore // o piantare fiori //
o magari correre nuda per strada // e gridare a pi霉 non posso.
D鈥檃ltra parte 猫 ormai chiaro che la vita di Lucy Jordan non 猫 quello che lei aspettava sognava voleva. Anche Nora ha ormai l鈥檈t脿 鈥� la stessa, trentasette 鈥� in cui ha smesso di credere di poter diventare la persona che voleva essere. E forse non le resta che:
lasciare il telefono squillare // mentre lei canta //
dolci filastrocche da bambina // che ha imparato seduta sulle gambe di suo pap脿.
Primo incontro con la narrativa di Claire Messud (moglie di James Wood, il critico letterario che ha fatto esplodere Elena Ferrante in America).
Ci arrivo dopo aver letto una sua intervista con Antonio Monda nella quale mi aveva colpito il mix etnico, se posso definirlo tale, alle sue spalle: americana, ma anche un po鈥� canadese, e algerina, e a quanto dice la signora, anche maltese, spagnola, perfino napoletana. E quindi, qualcuno che ha lunghe e lontane radici, e che 猫 consapevole di avere radici nell'altrove.
Il che di solito si accompagna a una buona capacit脿 d鈥檌ntrospezione psicologica. Messud conferma.
Profonda e leggera, divertente e dolorosa, racconta una storia inusuale: quella di una donna al valico dei quaranta, insegnante elementare a Cambridge, Massachusetts, che voleva fare l鈥檃rtista, ma poi sua madre la convince a cercarsi un lavoro che paga per essere autonoma e indipendente. E Nora rimane invischiata in questa palude esistenziale dalla quale sembra che possa salvarla una famiglia di stranieri che arriva in citt脿 per un soggiorno di un anno: lei 猫 italiana, Selene (Sirena in originale), lui 猫 libanese, il bambino di otto anni che finisce nella classe di Nora un mix perfetto dei due, la dolcezza fatta persona.
Nora, che non sembra aver ancora superato la morte della madre avvenuta due anni prima, si lega ai tre 鈥渟tranieri鈥�: in senso diverso da uno all鈥檃ltro, ma con tutti e tre in modo viscerale. Al punto che parla di innamoramento, e Didi, la sua amica lesbica, le chiede se voglia per caso portarsi a letto Selene. Ma cos矛 non 猫.
Mia madre impieg貌 anni a morire. 脠 un鈥檃rte difficile da padroneggiare. Mentre lei stava morendo, io cercavo di imparare a vivere.
Selene 猫 un鈥檃rtista che senza grosso sforzo riesce a risvegliare in Nora la passione per l鈥檃rte. E la nostra Nora riprende a lavorare sui suoi diorami che sono la perfetta replica delle stanze da letto di quattro donne famose, in modo diverso quattro artiste (Emily Dickinson, Virginia Woolf, Alice Neel, Edie Sedgwick): la sua arte sono quelle 鈥渃ase di bambola鈥� che riproduce e costruisce come se non si rendesse conto che Nora 猫 proprio la protagonista del dramma di Ibsen Casa di bambola. E come la Nora di Ibsen si ribella alla sua situazione, la nostra Nora sente che la sua vita galleggia in acque stagnanti, la nostra Nora 猫 attratta proprio da donne ribelli, icone di trasgressivit脿.
Non siamo le pazze in soffitta: quelle ricevono sempre un sacco di attenzione, in un modo o nell鈥檃ltro. Siamo le donne tranquille in fondo al corridoio del secondo piano, quelle che non sgarrano mai con la spazzatura, quelle che sorridono e salutano allegramente sulle scale, e che, dietro la porta chiusa, non fanno mai rumore. Nella nostra vita di tranquilla disperazione, noi siamo le donne del piano di sopra, con o senza un maledetto soriano o un fastidioso labrador saltellante, e neanche un鈥檃nima si accorge che siamo furiose.
Ho trovato la vicenda, che non ha colpi di scena, snodi cruciali, accelerazioni, suspense, a suo modo particolarmente originale ed emozionante: e confesso che questa volta per me ha giocato in un certo qual modo l鈥檈lemento identificazione (ho vissuto di recente un鈥檈sperienza simile), elemento che non 猫 mai l鈥檌deale per approcciarsi a un鈥檕pera, scritta o filmata che sia.
Se Messud avesse civettato meno col lettore 鈥� al quale si rivolge spesso con eccessiva confidenza, trascinandolo nella pagina - 猫 possibile che sarebbero scattate le cinque stelle. Ma mi fermo a quattro e so che presto legger貌 qualcos鈥檃ltro di suo.
La donna del piano di sopra.
May 29, 2022
The woman upstairs: a reliable friend and neighbor, always perfect, always on the fringe of others achievements. This is a story of Nora who grew up with her Mother鈥檚 longing, who always felt there were rules about what was possible and allowable, and who followed those rules. And because of this, she finds herself in her late 30鈥檚 with a life that she does not like.....and she has rage....lots of rage. Nora wanted to be an artist, and her Mother, who was a huge influence, told her that she could never support herself in art. Her Mother made her promise that she would never be like she ended up being: a housewife who depended upon her husband for everything. Nora abandons her passion and becomes a school teacher. The story begins with Nora reflecting upon when her life made a huge change in direction, and in her reflections we learn of her rage. She鈥檚 a 3rd grade teacher, and an interesting new family joins the school district, with Nora having the son, Reza, as a student. Reza鈥檚 mother is an Italian artist; his father is a Lebanese scholar. They are there for one year while the husband completes a fellowship at Harvard. Nora is ripe for the allure of an interesting family, especially the artist wife. Because Nora never pursued her art, she is drawn to this successful artist. The novel shows Nora鈥檚 obsession, which is alarming and boarders(some would say crossed those boarders) on mentally unhealthy. In fact, her best friends alert her to her unhealthy fixation. This story should be used as a cautionary tale to all of us who have ignored dear friends who try to alert us to our self-destructive ways. This story ends up being a psychological thriller. We, the reader, know this is NOT going to end well. We, the reader, will think 鈥淲hat are you doing?!? Stop!! You are going crazy!! Save yourself!鈥� The thriller part is knowing this is going to end badly......but how??? I found some of Messud鈥檚 long, rambling sentences to be a bit distracting at times. This is NOT a fast read, although it鈥檚 only 253 pages. I found I had to re-read many passages just to make sure I didn鈥檛 miss anything. Don鈥檛 read this if you are tired. That said, it鈥檚 worth the effort. Great story ending. I had lots of ideas of how this was going to end badly, but I never guessed how Messud ended it.
April 1, 2024
" 賵爻賷兀鬲賷賰 賵賯鬲 貙 鬲亘丿賵 賮賷賴 丨賷丕鬲賰 囟卅賷賱丞 賵孬丕亘鬲丞 賵賱丕 卮卅 賮賷賴丕 賷鬲睾賷乇 賲賳 丨賵賱賰 貙 賱賳 賷禺胤乇 賱賰 匕賱賰貙 爻鬲睾丿賵 賲賵賯賳丕賸 兀賳 丕賱兀賲賱 賱賲 賷禺賱賯 賱兀噩賱賰- 賵廿賳 賰賳鬲 兀賳丕貙 賮賮賷 丕賱賲乇丨賱丞 丕賱亘丕賰乇丞 賲賳 賵毓賷賰 賱丨賯賷賯丞 賵囟毓賰貙 賱賳 賷毓鬲乇賷賰 丨鬲賶 兀賷 卮毓賵乇 亘丕賱睾囟亘. 賲丨亘胤 貙 乇亘賲丕 貙 賲氐丿賵賲"
賮賷 乇賵丕賷丕鬲 賵丕賳鬲 亘鬲賯乇丕賴丕 亘鬲賱丕賯賷 賳賮爻賰 亘鬲賯賮 賯丿丕賲 丕賱噩賲賱 賲匕賴賵賱 !! 兀夭丕賶 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 賯丿乇鬲 鬲丿禺賱 噩賵丕賷丕 賰丿賴 !! 廿夭丕賶 毓乇賮鬲 丕賱鬲賮丕氐賷賱 丿賷 毓賳賷 !! 廿夭丕賶 賮賷 丨丿 賲賲賰賳 賷賰賵賳 卮丕乇賰賳賷 賳賮爻 丕賱賲卮丕毓乇 亘丕賱賯賵丞 丿賷 !!
賮賷 乇賵丕賷丕鬲 噩賲丕賱賴丕 賵兀賴賲賷鬲賴丕 亘鬲賰賵賳 丕賳賴丕 亘鬲賱賲爻 噩夭亍 噩賵丕賰 睾丕賱亘丕賸 亘賷賰賵賳 賲賳爻賷 賵睾賷乇 賲乇卅賷 賵賲丨丿卮 賷毓乇賮 毓賳賴 丨丕噩丞 賵爻丕毓丕鬲 亘賷亘賯賶 噩夭亍 丕賳鬲 卮禺氐賷丕賸 亘鬲鬲噩丕賴賱賴 賵亘鬲毓賲賱 賳賮爻賰 賲卮 卮丕賷賮賴 . 賵丿賴 賰丕賳 丨丕賱賷 賲毓 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 丿賷 .
丕賷賵賴 丕賳丕 賳賵乇丕 賲丕乇賷 廿丿賱乇賷丿噩 貙 賲卮 賲丿乇爻丞 賵賱丕 賮賳丕賳丞 夭賷賴丕貙 亘爻 丕賳丕 卮亘賴賴丕 貙 睾賷乇 賲乇卅賷丞 夭賷賴丕 貙 賲卮 賲賴賲丞 丕賵賶 毓賳 丨丿 賵賱丕 丨丿 丨賷丕鬲賴 賴鬲賯賮 賱賵 丕禺鬲賮賷鬲 貙 賵睾丕賱亘丕 賲丨丿卮 賴賷鬲兀孬乇 丕賵 賴賷賱丕丨馗 丨鬲賶 睾賷丕亘賷 貙 毓賳丿賶 睾囟亘 卮亘賴 睾囟亘賴丕 貙 毓賳丿賷 賲卮丕毓乇 卮亘賴 賲卮丕毓乇賴丕 貙 毓賳丿賶 乇睾亘丕鬲 卮亘賴 乇睾亘丕鬲賴丕 貙 毓卮鬲 丨丕噩丕鬲 卮亘賴 丕賱賱賶 賴賷 毓丕卮鬲賴丕 .. 鬲賲 廿爻鬲睾賱丕賱賷 賱賲氐丕賱丨 睾賷乇賷 夭賷賴丕.. 賯丿賲鬲 賲卮丕毓乇 賵廿賴鬲賲丕賲 賱賳丕爻 賲鬲爻丨賯卮 貙 丕賮鬲賰乇鬲 丕賳 賱賷丕 賲賰丕賳丞 毓丕賱賷丞 毓賳丿 賳丕爻 賲卮丕亘賴丞 賱賲賰丕賳鬲賴賲 毓賳丿賶 賵丕賰鬲卮賮鬲 亘毓丿 賰丿賴 丕賳賶 賰賳鬲 賲噩乇丿 卮禺氐 毓丕亘乇 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴賲 亘賱 賵賰賳鬲 賱賱亘毓囟 賲噩乇丿 爻賱賲 賵鬲爻賱賷丞 兀丨賷丕賳丕貙 卮禺氐 亘爻賴賵賱丞 鬲乇賲賷賴 丕賲丕 丕賱睾丕賷丞 賲賳 賵噩賵丿賴 鬲禺賱氐 賵鬲賳爻丕賴 賵賰兀賳賴 賱賲 賷賰賳 .賵睾丕賱亘丕 賲賮乇賵囟 賲賯賵賱卮 丕賱賰賱丕賲 丿賴 亘爻 毓丕丿賶 丕賳丕 賲鬲氐丕賱丨丞 賲毓 賳賮爻賷 .
"爻兀毓賷卮 賲賰鬲賮賷丞 亘匕丕鬲锟斤拷 .爻兀賵丕氐賱 丕賱賲爻賷乇 賯丿賲丕賸. 賱賳 兀賳賰爻亘 賮賷 丨賷賵丕鬲 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳 賲賳 丨賵賱賷貙 匕賱賷賱丞 賲鬲胤賱亘丞 賲丨鬲丕噩丞 胤丕賲毓丞 賮賷 賰乇賲 兀禺賱丕賯賴賲 . 賱丕 賱賳 兀賮毓賱賴丕 . 兀亘丿丕賸 賱賳 兀賮毓賱賴丕. 賱賳 兀胤賱亘 兀賷 卮卅 賲賳 兀賷 兀丨丿 "
爻丕毓丕鬲 賲卮 賱丕夭賲 鬲賰賵賳 賰賱 鬲賮丕氐賷賱 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 亘丕賱馗亘胤 卮亘賴賰 亘爻 賮賷賴丕 丨丕噩丕鬲 亘卮賰賱 賲丕 亘鬲賱賲爻賰 賵丿賴 亘賷睾賷乇 賳馗乇鬲賰 鬲賲丕賲丕賸 鬲噩丕賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞. 賵丿賴 丕賱賱賶 丨氐賱 賲毓丕賷丕 .
"賵賲賳 匕丕賰 丕賱匕賷 賷爻賷乇 噩丕賳亘賰 胤賵丕賱 丕賱胤乇賷賯 責 賱丕 兀丨丿貙 卮賰乇丕賸 噩夭賷賱丕賸 毓賱賶 爻丐丕賱賰 賵爻丨賯丕 賱賰. 賮賯丿 賯胤毓鬲 賵爻兀馗賱 兀賯胤毓 丕賱胤乇賷賯 賵丨丿賷"
丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 賲卮 乇賵丕賷丞 兀丨丿丕孬 丕賵賶 .丕賴 賮賷 鬲賮丕氐賷賱 賵丨丕噩丕鬲 亘鬲丨氐賱 亘爻 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 毓賲賵賲丕 乇鬲賲賴丕 賲卮 爻乇賷毓 賵丕賱丕丨丿丕孬 賮賷賴丕 兀丨丿丕孬 丨賷丕丞 毓丕丿賷丞 . 賴賶 丕卮亘賴 亘兀賳賴丕 鬲賰賵賳 賲匕賰乇丕鬲 丿丕禺賱賷丞 賱賱亘胤賱丞 . 亘爻 丕賱噩賲賷賱 賮賷賴丕 賵丕賱賲賴賲 亘丕賱賳爻亘丕賱賶 賴賵 兀賮賰丕乇 賵賲卮丕毓乇 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 丕賱丿丕禺賱賷丞 .賵 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 賯丿乇鬲 鬲賵氐賮 賵鬲賵氐賱 賲卮丕毓乇 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 賱丿乇噩丞 丿禺賱鬲賳賷 噩賵賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 賵噩賵賴 鬲賮丕氐賷賱賴丕 丕賱氐睾賷乇丞. 賵兀毓鬲賯丿 賱賵 賰丕賳鬲 丨丕賱鬲賷 丕賱賳賮爻賷丞 兀賮囟賱 賵賯丿乇鬲賷 毓賱賶 鬲賯賲爻 丕賱賲卮丕毓乇 丕賯賵賶 賲賳 丿賱賵賯鬲賷 賰賳鬲 丿禺賱鬲 噩賵賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 亘卮賰賱 丕賰鬲乇 亘賰鬲賷乇 賲賳 丿賱賵賯鬲賷 賰賲丕賳 .
賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 丕鬲賰賱賲 丕賵賶 毓賳 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 賲賲賰賳 毓卮丕賳 噩賵丕賷丕 丨丕噩丕鬲 賰鬲賷乇 賵丨丕噩丕鬲 毓丕賷夭丞 兀賮賰乇 賮賷賴丕 賵賰賱丕賲 賰鬲賷乇 賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 兀毓亘乇 毓賳賴 .
賳賵乇丕 賲毓賱賲丞 賲鬲賮丕賳賷丞 賵丕亘賳丞 亘丕乇丞 賵氐丿賷賯丞 噩賷丿丞 貙 丨賷丕鬲賴丕 乇賵鬲賷賳賷丞 賵毓丕丿賷丞 賵賵丨賷丿丞 .賰丕賳鬲 鬲乇睾亘 丕賳 鬲氐亘丨 賮賳丕賳丞 亘爻 賱兀賳 丕賱賮賳 賱賷爻 賱賴 賲爻鬲賯亘賱 賲囟賲賵賳 賵賲毓 毓丿丿 賲賳 丕賱丕丨丿丕孬 丕氐亘丨鬲 賲毓賱賲丞 賵丕賲囟鬲 丨賷丕鬲賴丕 丨鬲賶 馗賴乇 乇囟丕 卮丕賴賷丿 賮賷 賮氐賱賴丕 賵賯丿 丕賱鬲賯鬲賴 賯亘賱賴丕 賲乇丞 氐丿賮丞 孬賲 鬲毓乇賮鬲 毓賱賶 兀賲賴 爻賷乇賷賳丕 丕賱賮賳丕賳丞 賱賷鬲賲 亘賷賳賴賲 丨丿賷孬 賵鬲爻鬲毓賷丿 賳賵乇丕 乇睾亘鬲賴丕 賮賷 丕賱鬲乇賰賷夭 賲毓 賮賳賴丕 賵氐賳毓 賲丕 鬲乇睾亘 賮賷 氐賳毓賴 賵鬲鬲賯乇亘 丕賰孬乇 賲賳 爻賷乇賷賳丕 賵鬲鬲毓乇賮 毓賱賶 夭賵噩賴丕 兀賱賰爻賳丿乇 賵鬲賳卮兀 亘賷賳賴丕 賵亘賷賳 孬賱丕孬鬲賴賲 鬲賯丕乇亘 .
" 賮噩兀丞 賷賳亘孬賯 兀賲丕賲賰 卮卅 丌禺乇 貙 賮賷 丕賱賱丨馗丞 丕賱鬲賷 賲丕 毓丿鬲 鬲鬲賵賯毓 賮賷賴丕 卮賷卅丕賸. 賮噩兀丞 賮乇氐丞 鬲爻賳丨 貙 亘丕亘 賷賮鬲丨 貙 卮禺氐 兀賵 兀卮禺丕氐 賲丕 賰賳鬲 丨鬲賶 賱鬲鬲禺賷賱 賵噩賵丿賴賲 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賰貙 賵賴丕賴賷 鬲睾賲乇賰 - 丕賱噩匕賱 ! - 鬲卮毓乇 賵賰兀賳賲丕 賯丿 賵賯毓鬲 毓賱賶 賰賳夭 賲賮賯賵丿貙 亘毓丿 兀賳 兀賷賯賳鬲 兀賳 賰賱 丕賱匕賴亘 賯丿 丕禺鬲賮賶 賲賳 毓丕賱賲賰 賵賱賱兀亘丿. 賵賱賵賯鬲 賲丕- 賵賵賯鬲 胤賵賷賱 丨鬲賶 - 爻鬲賳爻賷賰 兀賳賰 賰賳鬲 賷賵賲丕賸 賲丕 睾丕囟亘丕賸 貙 爻鬲賳爻賷賰 丨鬲賶 賲丕賴賷丞 丕賱睾囟亘 ."
賮賰賷賮 爻鬲賰賵賳 毓賱丕賯鬲賴賲 責 賵賲丕賴賷 賲卮丕毓乇 賳賵乇丕 鬲噩丕賴賲 責 賵賰賷賮 賷鬲毓丕賲賱賵賳 賲毓賴丕責 賵賲丕匕丕 爻鬲賮毓賱 賵賲丕匕丕 爻賷丨丿孬 亘賷賳賴賲責
"賵噩賵丿賴賲 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賷 賰丕賳 兀卮亘賴 亘鬲賱賰 丕賱賱丨馗丞 : 亘丕賳卮賯丕賯 丕賱爻賲丕亍貙 亘廿卮乇丕賯丞 丕賱兀賲賱. 兀賳 丕賱丕丨鬲賲丕賱丕鬲 賱丕 鬲夭丕賱 賲賮鬲賵丨丞 毓賱賶 丕賱賲丿賶. 丕賱兀賲賱 . 兀賳 丨賷丕鬲賷 貙 乇亘賲丕 貙 乇亘賲丕 賱賲 鬲賳賯囟賽 亘毓丿. "
賲丕賴賷 丕賮賰丕乇 賵賰賷賮 賴賷 丨賷丕丞 賲賳 毓丕卮 丨賷丕丞 賵丨賷丿丞 賴丕丿卅丞 賵賲賳馗賲丞 賮賷 丕賱馗丕賴乇 賵亘丿丕禺賱賴 鬲鬲氐丕乇毓 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱兀卮賷丕亍 賵丕賱乇睾亘丕鬲 丕賱鬲賷 賷鬲賵賯 賱賮毓賱賴丕 賱賰賳 賱賷爻 賱丿賷賴 丕賱噩乇兀丞 丕賵 丕賱賯賵丞 賱賱亘丿亍 賮賷 賮毓賱 賲丕 賷乇賷丿 責責賲賳 毓丕卮 丨賷丕鬲賴 賵賱丕 兀丨丿 賷毓乇賮賴 賵賷賴鬲賲 亘賴 丨賯丕賸 !!
"賲鬲賶 賲丕 賰賳鬲 丕賱賲乇兀丞 賮賷 丕賱胤丕亘賯 丕賱毓賱賵賷貙 賮賱賳 鬲賰賵賳賷 丕賱禺丕胤乇 丕賱兀賵賱 賱兀賷 兀丨丿 . 賱丕 兀丨丿 爻賷鬲氐賱 亘賰 兀賵賱丕賸 賯亘賱 丕賱噩賲賷毓貙 賱丕 兀丨丿 爻賷亘毓孬 賱賰 亘兀賵賱 亘胤丕賯丞 亘乇賷丿賷丞 . 賲丕 廿賳 鬲賲賵鬲 兀賲賰貙 賮賱丕 兀丨丿 爻賷丨亘賰 丨亘丕賸 賷賮賵賯 丨亘賴 賱賱噩賲賷毓 ."
賵賲丕匕丕 爻賷賮毓賱 賵賰賷賮 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 氐丕丨亘 賴匕賴 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 丨賷賳 賷賱鬲賯賷 亘卮禺氐賷丕鬲 賵鬲鬲丕丨 兀賲丕賲賴 賮乇氐丞 賱兀賳 賷丨賷丕 賵賷賮毓賱 賲丕 賰丕賳 賷乇睾亘 賮賷 賮毓賱賴 責 賰賷賮 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 賴丐賱丕亍 丕賱兀卮禺丕氐 賵賲丕 賲卮丕毓乇賴 鬲噩丕賴賲 責 賵賰賷賮 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 兀賮賰丕乇賴 賵賲卮丕毓乇賴責 賵賴賱 賷賲賰賳 兀賳 賷丨丿孬 鬲睾賷賷乇 噩匕乇賷 賵丿丕卅賲 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴 乇睾賲 毓賱賲賴 兀賳 賴匕賴 丕賱卮禺氐賷丕鬲 爻鬲鬲賵丕噩丿 賱賮鬲乇丞 賲丐賯鬲丞 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴 !! 賴賱 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓賴賲 賲賳 丕賱兀爻丕爻 兀賳賴賲 賮鬲乇丞 賲丐賯鬲丞 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴 責!
"賲丕 鬲賯鬲 廿賱賷賴 氐丿賯丕賸 賴賵 賱兀丨丿賴賲 兀賳 賷爻鬲賵毓亘賳賷貙 賵賱賲 兀鬲氐賵乇 兀賳 賷賵賲丕賸 賲丕 爻賷兀鬲賷 賲賳 賷賮毓賱 匕賱賰."
賵賴賳鬲毓乇賮 賲毓 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 丕賷賴 丕賱賱賶 賵氐賱賴丕 賱賲乇丨賱丞 丕賱睾囟亘 丕賱卮丿賷丿 丕賱賱賶 噩賵丕賴丕 賵 丕賱賱賶 亘丿兀鬲 亘賷賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 .睾丕賱亘丕 賰賳鬲 賴賯賷賲 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 亘 伽 丕賵 伽.佶 亘爻 賱賲丕 賵氐賱鬲 賱賱噩夭亍 丕賱丕禺賷乇 貙賰丕賳鬲 氐賮毓丞 賵氐丿賲丞 乇賴賷亘丞 賱賷賴丕 賵氐賱鬲賳賷 丨丕賱鬲賴丕 噩丿丕 賵睾囟亘賴丕 賵 賯乇乇鬲 賲毓 丕禺乇 賯乇丕乇 賵丕禺乇 氐賮丨丞 賷賰賵賳 鬲賯賷賷賲賷 佶 賳噩賵賲 .
丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 兀爻賱賵亘賴丕 丨賱賵 賵丕賱兀丨丿丕孬 亘鬲丨賰賷賴丕 賳賵乇丕 賮亘賳鬲毓乇賮 毓賱賶 賰賱 丨丕噩丞 賲賳 禺賱丕賱 兀賮賰丕乇賴丕 賵賳馗乇鬲賴丕 .丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 毓丿丿 氐賮丨丕鬲賴丕 賲卮 賯賱賷賱 賵夭賶 賲丕賯賱鬲 兀丨丿丕孬賴丕 亘胤賷卅丞 賵亘鬲毓鬲賲丿 丕賰鬲乇 毓賱賶 賲卮丕毓乇 賵丨賵丕乇丕鬲 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 丕賱丿丕禺賱賷丞 .
伲贍 / 伽 / 佗贍佗伲
丕鬲囟丨賱賶 亘毓丿 賲丕 賳夭賱鬲 丕賱乇賮賷賵 丕賳 丿賴 丕賱乇賮賷賵 乇賯賲 佶贍贍 賱賷丕 馃槃馃帀馃帀馃帀馃帀
賮賷 乇賵丕賷丕鬲 賵丕賳鬲 亘鬲賯乇丕賴丕 亘鬲賱丕賯賷 賳賮爻賰 亘鬲賯賮 賯丿丕賲 丕賱噩賲賱 賲匕賴賵賱 !! 兀夭丕賶 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 賯丿乇鬲 鬲丿禺賱 噩賵丕賷丕 賰丿賴 !! 廿夭丕賶 毓乇賮鬲 丕賱鬲賮丕氐賷賱 丿賷 毓賳賷 !! 廿夭丕賶 賮賷 丨丿 賲賲賰賳 賷賰賵賳 卮丕乇賰賳賷 賳賮爻 丕賱賲卮丕毓乇 亘丕賱賯賵丞 丿賷 !!
賮賷 乇賵丕賷丕鬲 噩賲丕賱賴丕 賵兀賴賲賷鬲賴丕 亘鬲賰賵賳 丕賳賴丕 亘鬲賱賲爻 噩夭亍 噩賵丕賰 睾丕賱亘丕賸 亘賷賰賵賳 賲賳爻賷 賵睾賷乇 賲乇卅賷 賵賲丨丿卮 賷毓乇賮 毓賳賴 丨丕噩丞 賵爻丕毓丕鬲 亘賷亘賯賶 噩夭亍 丕賳鬲 卮禺氐賷丕賸 亘鬲鬲噩丕賴賱賴 賵亘鬲毓賲賱 賳賮爻賰 賲卮 卮丕賷賮賴 . 賵丿賴 賰丕賳 丨丕賱賷 賲毓 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 丿賷 .
丕賷賵賴 丕賳丕 賳賵乇丕 賲丕乇賷 廿丿賱乇賷丿噩 貙 賲卮 賲丿乇爻丞 賵賱丕 賮賳丕賳丞 夭賷賴丕貙 亘爻 丕賳丕 卮亘賴賴丕 貙 睾賷乇 賲乇卅賷丞 夭賷賴丕 貙 賲卮 賲賴賲丞 丕賵賶 毓賳 丨丿 賵賱丕 丨丿 丨賷丕鬲賴 賴鬲賯賮 賱賵 丕禺鬲賮賷鬲 貙 賵睾丕賱亘丕 賲丨丿卮 賴賷鬲兀孬乇 丕賵 賴賷賱丕丨馗 丨鬲賶 睾賷丕亘賷 貙 毓賳丿賶 睾囟亘 卮亘賴 睾囟亘賴丕 貙 毓賳丿賷 賲卮丕毓乇 卮亘賴 賲卮丕毓乇賴丕 貙 毓賳丿賶 乇睾亘丕鬲 卮亘賴 乇睾亘丕鬲賴丕 貙 毓卮鬲 丨丕噩丕鬲 卮亘賴 丕賱賱賶 賴賷 毓丕卮鬲賴丕 .. 鬲賲 廿爻鬲睾賱丕賱賷 賱賲氐丕賱丨 睾賷乇賷 夭賷賴丕.. 賯丿賲鬲 賲卮丕毓乇 賵廿賴鬲賲丕賲 賱賳丕爻 賲鬲爻丨賯卮 貙 丕賮鬲賰乇鬲 丕賳 賱賷丕 賲賰丕賳丞 毓丕賱賷丞 毓賳丿 賳丕爻 賲卮丕亘賴丞 賱賲賰丕賳鬲賴賲 毓賳丿賶 賵丕賰鬲卮賮鬲 亘毓丿 賰丿賴 丕賳賶 賰賳鬲 賲噩乇丿 卮禺氐 毓丕亘乇 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴賲 亘賱 賵賰賳鬲 賱賱亘毓囟 賲噩乇丿 爻賱賲 賵鬲爻賱賷丞 兀丨賷丕賳丕貙 卮禺氐 亘爻賴賵賱丞 鬲乇賲賷賴 丕賲丕 丕賱睾丕賷丞 賲賳 賵噩賵丿賴 鬲禺賱氐 賵鬲賳爻丕賴 賵賰兀賳賴 賱賲 賷賰賳 .賵睾丕賱亘丕 賲賮乇賵囟 賲賯賵賱卮 丕賱賰賱丕賲 丿賴 亘爻 毓丕丿賶 丕賳丕 賲鬲氐丕賱丨丞 賲毓 賳賮爻賷 .
"爻兀毓賷卮 賲賰鬲賮賷丞 亘匕丕鬲锟斤拷 .爻兀賵丕氐賱 丕賱賲爻賷乇 賯丿賲丕賸. 賱賳 兀賳賰爻亘 賮賷 丨賷賵丕鬲 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳 賲賳 丨賵賱賷貙 匕賱賷賱丞 賲鬲胤賱亘丞 賲丨鬲丕噩丞 胤丕賲毓丞 賮賷 賰乇賲 兀禺賱丕賯賴賲 . 賱丕 賱賳 兀賮毓賱賴丕 . 兀亘丿丕賸 賱賳 兀賮毓賱賴丕. 賱賳 兀胤賱亘 兀賷 卮卅 賲賳 兀賷 兀丨丿 "
爻丕毓丕鬲 賲卮 賱丕夭賲 鬲賰賵賳 賰賱 鬲賮丕氐賷賱 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 亘丕賱馗亘胤 卮亘賴賰 亘爻 賮賷賴丕 丨丕噩丕鬲 亘卮賰賱 賲丕 亘鬲賱賲爻賰 賵丿賴 亘賷睾賷乇 賳馗乇鬲賰 鬲賲丕賲丕賸 鬲噩丕賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞. 賵丿賴 丕賱賱賶 丨氐賱 賲毓丕賷丕 .
"賵賲賳 匕丕賰 丕賱匕賷 賷爻賷乇 噩丕賳亘賰 胤賵丕賱 丕賱胤乇賷賯 責 賱丕 兀丨丿貙 卮賰乇丕賸 噩夭賷賱丕賸 毓賱賶 爻丐丕賱賰 賵爻丨賯丕 賱賰. 賮賯丿 賯胤毓鬲 賵爻兀馗賱 兀賯胤毓 丕賱胤乇賷賯 賵丨丿賷"
丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 賲卮 乇賵丕賷丞 兀丨丿丕孬 丕賵賶 .丕賴 賮賷 鬲賮丕氐賷賱 賵丨丕噩丕鬲 亘鬲丨氐賱 亘爻 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 毓賲賵賲丕 乇鬲賲賴丕 賲卮 爻乇賷毓 賵丕賱丕丨丿丕孬 賮賷賴丕 兀丨丿丕孬 丨賷丕丞 毓丕丿賷丞 . 賴賶 丕卮亘賴 亘兀賳賴丕 鬲賰賵賳 賲匕賰乇丕鬲 丿丕禺賱賷丞 賱賱亘胤賱丞 . 亘爻 丕賱噩賲賷賱 賮賷賴丕 賵丕賱賲賴賲 亘丕賱賳爻亘丕賱賶 賴賵 兀賮賰丕乇 賵賲卮丕毓乇 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 丕賱丿丕禺賱賷丞 .賵 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 賯丿乇鬲 鬲賵氐賮 賵鬲賵氐賱 賲卮丕毓乇 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 賱丿乇噩丞 丿禺賱鬲賳賷 噩賵賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 賵噩賵賴 鬲賮丕氐賷賱賴丕 丕賱氐睾賷乇丞. 賵兀毓鬲賯丿 賱賵 賰丕賳鬲 丨丕賱鬲賷 丕賱賳賮爻賷丞 兀賮囟賱 賵賯丿乇鬲賷 毓賱賶 鬲賯賲爻 丕賱賲卮丕毓乇 丕賯賵賶 賲賳 丿賱賵賯鬲賷 賰賳鬲 丿禺賱鬲 噩賵賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 亘卮賰賱 丕賰鬲乇 亘賰鬲賷乇 賲賳 丿賱賵賯鬲賷 賰賲丕賳 .
賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 丕鬲賰賱賲 丕賵賶 毓賳 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 賲賲賰賳 毓卮丕賳 噩賵丕賷丕 丨丕噩丕鬲 賰鬲賷乇 賵丨丕噩丕鬲 毓丕賷夭丞 兀賮賰乇 賮賷賴丕 賵賰賱丕賲 賰鬲賷乇 賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 兀毓亘乇 毓賳賴 .
賳賵乇丕 賲毓賱賲丞 賲鬲賮丕賳賷丞 賵丕亘賳丞 亘丕乇丞 賵氐丿賷賯丞 噩賷丿丞 貙 丨賷丕鬲賴丕 乇賵鬲賷賳賷丞 賵毓丕丿賷丞 賵賵丨賷丿丞 .賰丕賳鬲 鬲乇睾亘 丕賳 鬲氐亘丨 賮賳丕賳丞 亘爻 賱兀賳 丕賱賮賳 賱賷爻 賱賴 賲爻鬲賯亘賱 賲囟賲賵賳 賵賲毓 毓丿丿 賲賳 丕賱丕丨丿丕孬 丕氐亘丨鬲 賲毓賱賲丞 賵丕賲囟鬲 丨賷丕鬲賴丕 丨鬲賶 馗賴乇 乇囟丕 卮丕賴賷丿 賮賷 賮氐賱賴丕 賵賯丿 丕賱鬲賯鬲賴 賯亘賱賴丕 賲乇丞 氐丿賮丞 孬賲 鬲毓乇賮鬲 毓賱賶 兀賲賴 爻賷乇賷賳丕 丕賱賮賳丕賳丞 賱賷鬲賲 亘賷賳賴賲 丨丿賷孬 賵鬲爻鬲毓賷丿 賳賵乇丕 乇睾亘鬲賴丕 賮賷 丕賱鬲乇賰賷夭 賲毓 賮賳賴丕 賵氐賳毓 賲丕 鬲乇睾亘 賮賷 氐賳毓賴 賵鬲鬲賯乇亘 丕賰孬乇 賲賳 爻賷乇賷賳丕 賵鬲鬲毓乇賮 毓賱賶 夭賵噩賴丕 兀賱賰爻賳丿乇 賵鬲賳卮兀 亘賷賳賴丕 賵亘賷賳 孬賱丕孬鬲賴賲 鬲賯丕乇亘 .
" 賮噩兀丞 賷賳亘孬賯 兀賲丕賲賰 卮卅 丌禺乇 貙 賮賷 丕賱賱丨馗丞 丕賱鬲賷 賲丕 毓丿鬲 鬲鬲賵賯毓 賮賷賴丕 卮賷卅丕賸. 賮噩兀丞 賮乇氐丞 鬲爻賳丨 貙 亘丕亘 賷賮鬲丨 貙 卮禺氐 兀賵 兀卮禺丕氐 賲丕 賰賳鬲 丨鬲賶 賱鬲鬲禺賷賱 賵噩賵丿賴賲 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賰貙 賵賴丕賴賷 鬲睾賲乇賰 - 丕賱噩匕賱 ! - 鬲卮毓乇 賵賰兀賳賲丕 賯丿 賵賯毓鬲 毓賱賶 賰賳夭 賲賮賯賵丿貙 亘毓丿 兀賳 兀賷賯賳鬲 兀賳 賰賱 丕賱匕賴亘 賯丿 丕禺鬲賮賶 賲賳 毓丕賱賲賰 賵賱賱兀亘丿. 賵賱賵賯鬲 賲丕- 賵賵賯鬲 胤賵賷賱 丨鬲賶 - 爻鬲賳爻賷賰 兀賳賰 賰賳鬲 賷賵賲丕賸 賲丕 睾丕囟亘丕賸 貙 爻鬲賳爻賷賰 丨鬲賶 賲丕賴賷丞 丕賱睾囟亘 ."
賮賰賷賮 爻鬲賰賵賳 毓賱丕賯鬲賴賲 責 賵賲丕賴賷 賲卮丕毓乇 賳賵乇丕 鬲噩丕賴賲 責 賵賰賷賮 賷鬲毓丕賲賱賵賳 賲毓賴丕責 賵賲丕匕丕 爻鬲賮毓賱 賵賲丕匕丕 爻賷丨丿孬 亘賷賳賴賲責
"賵噩賵丿賴賲 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賷 賰丕賳 兀卮亘賴 亘鬲賱賰 丕賱賱丨馗丞 : 亘丕賳卮賯丕賯 丕賱爻賲丕亍貙 亘廿卮乇丕賯丞 丕賱兀賲賱. 兀賳 丕賱丕丨鬲賲丕賱丕鬲 賱丕 鬲夭丕賱 賲賮鬲賵丨丞 毓賱賶 丕賱賲丿賶. 丕賱兀賲賱 . 兀賳 丨賷丕鬲賷 貙 乇亘賲丕 貙 乇亘賲丕 賱賲 鬲賳賯囟賽 亘毓丿. "
賲丕賴賷 丕賮賰丕乇 賵賰賷賮 賴賷 丨賷丕丞 賲賳 毓丕卮 丨賷丕丞 賵丨賷丿丞 賴丕丿卅丞 賵賲賳馗賲丞 賮賷 丕賱馗丕賴乇 賵亘丿丕禺賱賴 鬲鬲氐丕乇毓 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱兀卮賷丕亍 賵丕賱乇睾亘丕鬲 丕賱鬲賷 賷鬲賵賯 賱賮毓賱賴丕 賱賰賳 賱賷爻 賱丿賷賴 丕賱噩乇兀丞 丕賵 丕賱賯賵丞 賱賱亘丿亍 賮賷 賮毓賱 賲丕 賷乇賷丿 責責賲賳 毓丕卮 丨賷丕鬲賴 賵賱丕 兀丨丿 賷毓乇賮賴 賵賷賴鬲賲 亘賴 丨賯丕賸 !!
"賲鬲賶 賲丕 賰賳鬲 丕賱賲乇兀丞 賮賷 丕賱胤丕亘賯 丕賱毓賱賵賷貙 賮賱賳 鬲賰賵賳賷 丕賱禺丕胤乇 丕賱兀賵賱 賱兀賷 兀丨丿 . 賱丕 兀丨丿 爻賷鬲氐賱 亘賰 兀賵賱丕賸 賯亘賱 丕賱噩賲賷毓貙 賱丕 兀丨丿 爻賷亘毓孬 賱賰 亘兀賵賱 亘胤丕賯丞 亘乇賷丿賷丞 . 賲丕 廿賳 鬲賲賵鬲 兀賲賰貙 賮賱丕 兀丨丿 爻賷丨亘賰 丨亘丕賸 賷賮賵賯 丨亘賴 賱賱噩賲賷毓 ."
賵賲丕匕丕 爻賷賮毓賱 賵賰賷賮 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 氐丕丨亘 賴匕賴 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 丨賷賳 賷賱鬲賯賷 亘卮禺氐賷丕鬲 賵鬲鬲丕丨 兀賲丕賲賴 賮乇氐丞 賱兀賳 賷丨賷丕 賵賷賮毓賱 賲丕 賰丕賳 賷乇睾亘 賮賷 賮毓賱賴 責 賰賷賮 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 賴丐賱丕亍 丕賱兀卮禺丕氐 賵賲丕 賲卮丕毓乇賴 鬲噩丕賴賲 責 賵賰賷賮 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 兀賮賰丕乇賴 賵賲卮丕毓乇賴責 賵賴賱 賷賲賰賳 兀賳 賷丨丿孬 鬲睾賷賷乇 噩匕乇賷 賵丿丕卅賲 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴 乇睾賲 毓賱賲賴 兀賳 賴匕賴 丕賱卮禺氐賷丕鬲 爻鬲鬲賵丕噩丿 賱賮鬲乇丞 賲丐賯鬲丞 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴 !! 賴賱 爻賷鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓賴賲 賲賳 丕賱兀爻丕爻 兀賳賴賲 賮鬲乇丞 賲丐賯鬲丞 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賴 責!
"賲丕 鬲賯鬲 廿賱賷賴 氐丿賯丕賸 賴賵 賱兀丨丿賴賲 兀賳 賷爻鬲賵毓亘賳賷貙 賵賱賲 兀鬲氐賵乇 兀賳 賷賵賲丕賸 賲丕 爻賷兀鬲賷 賲賳 賷賮毓賱 匕賱賰."
賵賴賳鬲毓乇賮 賲毓 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 丕賷賴 丕賱賱賶 賵氐賱賴丕 賱賲乇丨賱丞 丕賱睾囟亘 丕賱卮丿賷丿 丕賱賱賶 噩賵丕賴丕 賵 丕賱賱賶 亘丿兀鬲 亘賷賴 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 .睾丕賱亘丕 賰賳鬲 賴賯賷賲 丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 亘 伽 丕賵 伽.佶 亘爻 賱賲丕 賵氐賱鬲 賱賱噩夭亍 丕賱丕禺賷乇 貙賰丕賳鬲 氐賮毓丞 賵氐丿賲丞 乇賴賷亘丞 賱賷賴丕 賵氐賱鬲賳賷 丨丕賱鬲賴丕 噩丿丕 賵睾囟亘賴丕 賵 賯乇乇鬲 賲毓 丕禺乇 賯乇丕乇 賵丕禺乇 氐賮丨丞 賷賰賵賳 鬲賯賷賷賲賷 佶 賳噩賵賲 .
丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 兀爻賱賵亘賴丕 丨賱賵 賵丕賱兀丨丿丕孬 亘鬲丨賰賷賴丕 賳賵乇丕 賮亘賳鬲毓乇賮 毓賱賶 賰賱 丨丕噩丞 賲賳 禺賱丕賱 兀賮賰丕乇賴丕 賵賳馗乇鬲賴丕 .丕賱乇賵丕賷丞 毓丿丿 氐賮丨丕鬲賴丕 賲卮 賯賱賷賱 賵夭賶 賲丕賯賱鬲 兀丨丿丕孬賴丕 亘胤賷卅丞 賵亘鬲毓鬲賲丿 丕賰鬲乇 毓賱賶 賲卮丕毓乇 賵丨賵丕乇丕鬲 丕賱卮禺氐賷丞 丕賱丿丕禺賱賷丞 .
伲贍 / 伽 / 佗贍佗伲
丕鬲囟丨賱賶 亘毓丿 賲丕 賳夭賱鬲 丕賱乇賮賷賵 丕賳 丿賴 丕賱乇賮賷賵 乇賯賲 佶贍贍 賱賷丕 馃槃馃帀馃帀馃帀馃帀
April 1, 2015
I really wanted to read this book as it provoked a stir in the media about the "likability" factor of a character. That, coupled with a friends urging, lead me right up the stairs. This book seems to be one that produces so many different reactions by different readers. For me, I was hooked right away, and couldn't put it down.
It actually disturbs me that the question of whether or not Nora (the main character) is likable or not was even brought up. I found her fascinating, and the thought of whether or not I liked her never occurred to me. This really brings up the question of stereotypes in our society, and just how prevalent they are. I found Messud's writing absolutely brilliant, and was enthralled the entire time.
While this book does lack a solid plot, there is so much to chew on. It revolves around Nora, a schoolteacher, who is "the woman upstairs." In the beginning Nora talked about her anger, anger that she is trapped in a world that is a sham. One she feels has limited her in every way. Describing the woman upstairs, she says "We're the quiet women at the end of the 3rd floor hallway, who's trash is always tidy, who smiles brightly in the stairwell with a cheerful greeting, and who, from behind closed doors, never makes a sound...we are furious...we're completely invisible..." She also asks a hypothetical question, given the chance, would we rather fly, or be invisible. She states that most choose to fly, but right away I chose to be invisible, which is maybe why I loved this book so much. But then again, I had never considered Nora's type of invisible.
The entire story centers on a particular period of time in Nora's life where she felt alive and hopeful again. It happens when a particular couple and their young son enter her life and she becomes madly obsessed with them. She falls in love with them, each in a different and profound way. Her dream has always been to be an artist. She feels life has passed her by at the age of 37. To feel this way at 37? Yet, as I look at societies obsession with youth, and, how few women I see over that age, especially in acting, television, and the music industry, it gives me pause. Yet another societal stereotype Messud has cleverly inserted into her story. As Nora's dream was to become an artist, her feelings may not be that far off the mark. Yet, as she is drawn into this families life, she experiences a new passion for her art, and everything she assumed was lost to her. However, these passions only awaken through others. It becomes a scary look into a woman who has no self.
I can't help but look at women who's lives are so bound by what others think of them, how the outside must always look in perfect order, and just how damaging this is. And, where it could lead, through the character of Nora. The ending of this book packs a wallop, and left me wanting to know more. Highly Recommended!
It actually disturbs me that the question of whether or not Nora (the main character) is likable or not was even brought up. I found her fascinating, and the thought of whether or not I liked her never occurred to me. This really brings up the question of stereotypes in our society, and just how prevalent they are. I found Messud's writing absolutely brilliant, and was enthralled the entire time.
While this book does lack a solid plot, there is so much to chew on. It revolves around Nora, a schoolteacher, who is "the woman upstairs." In the beginning Nora talked about her anger, anger that she is trapped in a world that is a sham. One she feels has limited her in every way. Describing the woman upstairs, she says "We're the quiet women at the end of the 3rd floor hallway, who's trash is always tidy, who smiles brightly in the stairwell with a cheerful greeting, and who, from behind closed doors, never makes a sound...we are furious...we're completely invisible..." She also asks a hypothetical question, given the chance, would we rather fly, or be invisible. She states that most choose to fly, but right away I chose to be invisible, which is maybe why I loved this book so much. But then again, I had never considered Nora's type of invisible.
The entire story centers on a particular period of time in Nora's life where she felt alive and hopeful again. It happens when a particular couple and their young son enter her life and she becomes madly obsessed with them. She falls in love with them, each in a different and profound way. Her dream has always been to be an artist. She feels life has passed her by at the age of 37. To feel this way at 37? Yet, as I look at societies obsession with youth, and, how few women I see over that age, especially in acting, television, and the music industry, it gives me pause. Yet another societal stereotype Messud has cleverly inserted into her story. As Nora's dream was to become an artist, her feelings may not be that far off the mark. Yet, as she is drawn into this families life, she experiences a new passion for her art, and everything she assumed was lost to her. However, these passions only awaken through others. It becomes a scary look into a woman who has no self.
I can't help but look at women who's lives are so bound by what others think of them, how the outside must always look in perfect order, and just how damaging this is. And, where it could lead, through the character of Nora. The ending of this book packs a wallop, and left me wanting to know more. Highly Recommended!
July 12, 2017
The book title is fantastic; just those few words create an image of someone lonely. Who would want to be the woman upstairs? Not me, that鈥檚 for sure.
Nora, the sad schoolteacher who narrates this story, doesn鈥檛 want to be the woman upstairs either. But she can鈥檛 change her M.O. no matter how hard she tries. Nora equates the woman upstairs with mediocrity, and mediocrity implies a lack of adventure, a lack of success, and a lack of passion. She hopes she is finally breaking out of the mold when she falls in love with Sirena, a glamorous Italian artist with a beautiful son and husband.
Nora isn鈥檛 just in love, she is obsessed, and her obsession fills her every waking moment. But Nora never professes her love, and her love affair remains a fantasy. Nora is extremely self-conscious and constantly wonders what Sirena thinks of her. Since the story is told from Nora鈥檚 point of view, we don鈥檛 really know what Sirena thinks of her either, until the book ends (and packs a wallop).
Nora, who always wanted to be an artist, is influenced by Sirena, and they rent a studio space together. Nora starts devoting all her free time to art, although she thinks it鈥檚 a sham. She is creating dollhouses inhabited by famous people, and is merely reenacting history, whereas Sirena is creating original art鈥攂ig, bizarre multi-media installations. Sirena asks Nora for help with her project, and Nora is thrilled. Mostly, it gives Nora an excuse to be around Sirena, though she likes the art part too.
In some ways, it鈥檚 easy to relate to Nora. She is full of major regret. She always wanted to be an artist, but like so many of us, she sacrificed art to earn a decent living. Did she sell out? Did we? I identified with her unwillingness to network and kiss up, which the art worlds demand. Who wants to schmooze? Who wants the competition? And then on top of that, there鈥檚 the fear of failing. Nora just wants to create art, not struggle with egos and practicalities. She feels like she missed her chance to pursue what she really wanted to do. Or had she just been too scared or lazy to go after her dream? Did she get hung up with money and comfort? These are the things that Nora ponders.
My major complaint is that not much happens. At the beginning of the book, Nora is pissed, very pissed. Her anger is strong and passionate and aggressive, and I was getting revved up with her. I was ready for the rest of the book to be high drama, but the intensity drops off immediately as she flashes back to the events that led up to her being pissed, and it鈥檚 slow going. The old Nora (who occupies most of the book) is super passive and spends most of the time mulling things over. I count about five events; the rest is brilliant internal monologue. Don鈥檛 get me wrong鈥擨 love brilliant internal monologues. But I don鈥檛 like it when they overpower the book, when I find myself saying, 鈥淗urry up, now. Get to the point. Let鈥檚 have something HAPPEN!鈥�
Okay, I know, picky, picky. But indeed I have some other complaints:
It鈥檚 all in the ending: Or is it? The ending, though super clever and astounding, left me wanting a little more closure. So what happened THEN? (At least it was WAY better than the ending in 鈥淭he Other Typist,鈥� which was ambiguous and REALLY frustrating.)
Those damn dashes: The writer went a little dash crazy, especially toward the end of the book. Overusing dashes, like overusing parentheses, makes the writing sloppy; every fragment seems like an afterthought or a bit of stream of consciousness.
Art smarts: Way too many detailed descriptions of art pieces! A little is okay, but a lot means I have to work too hard. My head hurts. I want dialogue, I want relationships. I don鈥檛 want descriptive text. Granted, the art pieces were super edgy and weird and 3-D, but still...
Fuck: Saying fuck is fine, but please use it like you mean it. Nora speaks pretty formally, so I didn鈥檛 buy it when she said fuck, and it was made worse by the fact that she used it very sparingly. In my experience, you either say fuck a lot or you don鈥檛 say it at all. It jarred me every time. (I hope I鈥檓 not accused of the same thing. Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. So there.)
Really, how old is she?: Is Nora just 37? Huh? There鈥檚 a disconnect between the way Nora acts and her supposed age. I didn鈥檛 buy it that she鈥檚 so set in her ways at 37. She thinks she missed the boat, that her life is almost over, that it鈥檚 too late to pursue art. What? She鈥檚 still a baby! Her habits and even her thoughts seem like those of someone who's 50, or 60, or even 70. I鈥檓 64 and I felt like she was my peer! She needs a lot more pep in her step for me to believe she鈥檚 in her mid-30s.
It鈥檚 strange that this book resembles 鈥淭he Other Typist鈥� so much: both books have a female narrator who is sad and solitary and who becomes obsessed with a charismatic woman. And both have tons of internal monologues. Nora is definitely more likable and endearing than Rose in 鈥淭he Other Typist,鈥� which made me like 鈥淭he Woman Upstairs鈥� better.
What鈥檚 the final verdict? It鈥檚 one of those books that I liked more after I finished reading it. And it鈥檚 one of those books where I highlighted a lot, which always ups the rating. It鈥檚 a good story with great insight into a complex character, and the ending is priceless. The book just gets bogged down in Nora鈥檚 thoughts, at the expense of dialogue and action. I do recommend it; I don鈥檛 think others will be so annoyed by the lack of action. It鈥檚 a good read. It gets a 4.0 despite my complaint board.
Nora, the sad schoolteacher who narrates this story, doesn鈥檛 want to be the woman upstairs either. But she can鈥檛 change her M.O. no matter how hard she tries. Nora equates the woman upstairs with mediocrity, and mediocrity implies a lack of adventure, a lack of success, and a lack of passion. She hopes she is finally breaking out of the mold when she falls in love with Sirena, a glamorous Italian artist with a beautiful son and husband.
Nora isn鈥檛 just in love, she is obsessed, and her obsession fills her every waking moment. But Nora never professes her love, and her love affair remains a fantasy. Nora is extremely self-conscious and constantly wonders what Sirena thinks of her. Since the story is told from Nora鈥檚 point of view, we don鈥檛 really know what Sirena thinks of her either, until the book ends (and packs a wallop).
Nora, who always wanted to be an artist, is influenced by Sirena, and they rent a studio space together. Nora starts devoting all her free time to art, although she thinks it鈥檚 a sham. She is creating dollhouses inhabited by famous people, and is merely reenacting history, whereas Sirena is creating original art鈥攂ig, bizarre multi-media installations. Sirena asks Nora for help with her project, and Nora is thrilled. Mostly, it gives Nora an excuse to be around Sirena, though she likes the art part too.
In some ways, it鈥檚 easy to relate to Nora. She is full of major regret. She always wanted to be an artist, but like so many of us, she sacrificed art to earn a decent living. Did she sell out? Did we? I identified with her unwillingness to network and kiss up, which the art worlds demand. Who wants to schmooze? Who wants the competition? And then on top of that, there鈥檚 the fear of failing. Nora just wants to create art, not struggle with egos and practicalities. She feels like she missed her chance to pursue what she really wanted to do. Or had she just been too scared or lazy to go after her dream? Did she get hung up with money and comfort? These are the things that Nora ponders.
My major complaint is that not much happens. At the beginning of the book, Nora is pissed, very pissed. Her anger is strong and passionate and aggressive, and I was getting revved up with her. I was ready for the rest of the book to be high drama, but the intensity drops off immediately as she flashes back to the events that led up to her being pissed, and it鈥檚 slow going. The old Nora (who occupies most of the book) is super passive and spends most of the time mulling things over. I count about five events; the rest is brilliant internal monologue. Don鈥檛 get me wrong鈥擨 love brilliant internal monologues. But I don鈥檛 like it when they overpower the book, when I find myself saying, 鈥淗urry up, now. Get to the point. Let鈥檚 have something HAPPEN!鈥�
Okay, I know, picky, picky. But indeed I have some other complaints:
It鈥檚 all in the ending: Or is it? The ending, though super clever and astounding, left me wanting a little more closure. So what happened THEN? (At least it was WAY better than the ending in 鈥淭he Other Typist,鈥� which was ambiguous and REALLY frustrating.)
Those damn dashes: The writer went a little dash crazy, especially toward the end of the book. Overusing dashes, like overusing parentheses, makes the writing sloppy; every fragment seems like an afterthought or a bit of stream of consciousness.
Art smarts: Way too many detailed descriptions of art pieces! A little is okay, but a lot means I have to work too hard. My head hurts. I want dialogue, I want relationships. I don鈥檛 want descriptive text. Granted, the art pieces were super edgy and weird and 3-D, but still...
Fuck: Saying fuck is fine, but please use it like you mean it. Nora speaks pretty formally, so I didn鈥檛 buy it when she said fuck, and it was made worse by the fact that she used it very sparingly. In my experience, you either say fuck a lot or you don鈥檛 say it at all. It jarred me every time. (I hope I鈥檓 not accused of the same thing. Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. So there.)
Really, how old is she?: Is Nora just 37? Huh? There鈥檚 a disconnect between the way Nora acts and her supposed age. I didn鈥檛 buy it that she鈥檚 so set in her ways at 37. She thinks she missed the boat, that her life is almost over, that it鈥檚 too late to pursue art. What? She鈥檚 still a baby! Her habits and even her thoughts seem like those of someone who's 50, or 60, or even 70. I鈥檓 64 and I felt like she was my peer! She needs a lot more pep in her step for me to believe she鈥檚 in her mid-30s.
It鈥檚 strange that this book resembles 鈥淭he Other Typist鈥� so much: both books have a female narrator who is sad and solitary and who becomes obsessed with a charismatic woman. And both have tons of internal monologues. Nora is definitely more likable and endearing than Rose in 鈥淭he Other Typist,鈥� which made me like 鈥淭he Woman Upstairs鈥� better.
What鈥檚 the final verdict? It鈥檚 one of those books that I liked more after I finished reading it. And it鈥檚 one of those books where I highlighted a lot, which always ups the rating. It鈥檚 a good story with great insight into a complex character, and the ending is priceless. The book just gets bogged down in Nora鈥檚 thoughts, at the expense of dialogue and action. I do recommend it; I don鈥檛 think others will be so annoyed by the lack of action. It鈥檚 a good read. It gets a 4.0 despite my complaint board.
March 25, 2017
The Woman Upstairs by Claire Messud is a 2013 Knopf publication.
I checked out this book after looking through a 鈥楤ooklist鈥� with listed books centered around betrayal and obsession. I鈥檇 never heard of it, but it sounded intriguing.
The story starts off with Nora Eldridge meeting a new student in her class, which puts her in touch with the boy鈥檚 mother, Sirena. The two women discover they share a passion for art and become very good friends, even renting a studio together.
But, Nora has just lost her mother, is caring for her elderly father, is not married and her life hasn鈥檛 exactly panned out like she had intended. For whatever reason, she begins to latch onto her new friend, Sirena, her husband Skandar and their son, Reza. The attachment quickly escalates into an unhealthy obsession and of course this never ends well. But, this story has an added twist to that theme and it鈥檚 the anticipation of that development that kept me turning pages, wondering when the other shoe was going to drop.
Well, hum. I鈥檓 not sure what to make of this one. Nora is one weird chickadee. I suppose she had dedicated so much time to caring for her mother, going through the normal routine of teaching school, and hanging out with her regular friends, that she was looking for some kind of excitement, something or someone to come along and pull her out of her ordinary routine and add a dash of color to her otherwise dull existence.
But, I didn鈥檛 understand the depth of that attachment or why she clung to it so ferociously for so long. Without seeming to realize it, she traded her bland routine for another routine, one that still kept her from being fully appreciated or living life outside her comfort zone.
The bombshell is a real stunner, and would certainly account for the roiling anger Nora is expressing at the beginning of the book. It was, of course, the final straw for Nora. You鈥檒l have to read the book to see how she responds to this revelation.
This is more a character study than anything, and the story only remains interesting for a while, then soon begins to drag, so that it was almost torturous having to slog through the last quarter of the book which was dull and lifeless, just to get to the big reveal.
The story came to a shockingly abrupt end, but the point was made succinctly, so perhaps nothing more need be added.
Overall, this one was slightly off the beaten path for me, but had its merits. It wasn鈥檛 great, but it was okay.
3 stars
I checked out this book after looking through a 鈥楤ooklist鈥� with listed books centered around betrayal and obsession. I鈥檇 never heard of it, but it sounded intriguing.
The story starts off with Nora Eldridge meeting a new student in her class, which puts her in touch with the boy鈥檚 mother, Sirena. The two women discover they share a passion for art and become very good friends, even renting a studio together.
But, Nora has just lost her mother, is caring for her elderly father, is not married and her life hasn鈥檛 exactly panned out like she had intended. For whatever reason, she begins to latch onto her new friend, Sirena, her husband Skandar and their son, Reza. The attachment quickly escalates into an unhealthy obsession and of course this never ends well. But, this story has an added twist to that theme and it鈥檚 the anticipation of that development that kept me turning pages, wondering when the other shoe was going to drop.
Well, hum. I鈥檓 not sure what to make of this one. Nora is one weird chickadee. I suppose she had dedicated so much time to caring for her mother, going through the normal routine of teaching school, and hanging out with her regular friends, that she was looking for some kind of excitement, something or someone to come along and pull her out of her ordinary routine and add a dash of color to her otherwise dull existence.
But, I didn鈥檛 understand the depth of that attachment or why she clung to it so ferociously for so long. Without seeming to realize it, she traded her bland routine for another routine, one that still kept her from being fully appreciated or living life outside her comfort zone.
The bombshell is a real stunner, and would certainly account for the roiling anger Nora is expressing at the beginning of the book. It was, of course, the final straw for Nora. You鈥檒l have to read the book to see how she responds to this revelation.
This is more a character study than anything, and the story only remains interesting for a while, then soon begins to drag, so that it was almost torturous having to slog through the last quarter of the book which was dull and lifeless, just to get to the big reveal.
The story came to a shockingly abrupt end, but the point was made succinctly, so perhaps nothing more need be added.
Overall, this one was slightly off the beaten path for me, but had its merits. It wasn鈥檛 great, but it was okay.
3 stars
February 7, 2017
Nora Eldridge is a primary school teacher who at forty-two has sacrificed her dream to become an artist to live in the numbing comfort of economic stability and independence, a woman who perfectly fits the role attached to her gender: dutiful daughter, involved professional, reliable friend, model citizen.
But she is also the woman upstairs, the person everybody forgets the moment she turns around the corner, the agreeable teacher who dotes on her students because she doesn鈥檛 have children of her own, the middle-aged woman who is content in her resigned singleness. But deep down, underneath the artificial mask of clownish kindness, she is boiling with anger for her mundane life, humiliated by the way people take her for granted, indignant at the way life has cheated on her.
And so when the Sahids enter her suffocating, dull world, she seizes them as a drowning man will clutch a straw and pretends to become a surrogate wife, mother and artist to the oblivious family, crossing the line of the morally dubious, showing her ugly side without subterfuge and baring her dark soul to the reader unashamedly.
I was cheering for Nora and for Messud in the first pages of this psychological roller-coaster, for the subversive undertone that mines Messud鈥檚 straightforward voice, basking in their protest against the sexist role assigned to women in literature, as in many other aspects of our culture, and was ready to empathize with this unconventional, maybe even despicable heroine.
I respect what Messud was trying to achieve when she gave life to this modern 鈥淢iss Brodie鈥�. Female protagonists have been simplified or overlooked for years while their male counterparts were more thoroughly delineated, in all their vibrant complexities and inconsistencies, provided with articulated expression to vouch for their unethical actions. Nora was created to break the mold, to expose her selfish needs, her middle-class quandaries, to disgust readers by the way she grovels in self-pity. Nora was supposed to become equal to any other flawed human being regardless of class or gender, to rise above convention and speak for the many women who live trapped in their circumstances.
Leaving style aside, which I think is rather unimpressive in delivery, my main concern is that as I approached the end of Nora鈥檚 confession, I felt she was measured by the very same standards she was trying to rebel against, restricting her to a limited form of expression that belittled her in the eyes of others. Her rage has no consequence and is born in silence.
Art or no art, dreams or no dreams, I expected greater things from Nora鈥檚 anger. I expected a grand finale, an outrageous outcome, and I merely got a feeble implosion of a woman realizing she has lived a lie imposed by her inflated delusions of grandeur. No need to go upstairs, women like Nora abound everywhere.
But she is also the woman upstairs, the person everybody forgets the moment she turns around the corner, the agreeable teacher who dotes on her students because she doesn鈥檛 have children of her own, the middle-aged woman who is content in her resigned singleness. But deep down, underneath the artificial mask of clownish kindness, she is boiling with anger for her mundane life, humiliated by the way people take her for granted, indignant at the way life has cheated on her.
And so when the Sahids enter her suffocating, dull world, she seizes them as a drowning man will clutch a straw and pretends to become a surrogate wife, mother and artist to the oblivious family, crossing the line of the morally dubious, showing her ugly side without subterfuge and baring her dark soul to the reader unashamedly.
I was cheering for Nora and for Messud in the first pages of this psychological roller-coaster, for the subversive undertone that mines Messud鈥檚 straightforward voice, basking in their protest against the sexist role assigned to women in literature, as in many other aspects of our culture, and was ready to empathize with this unconventional, maybe even despicable heroine.
I respect what Messud was trying to achieve when she gave life to this modern 鈥淢iss Brodie鈥�. Female protagonists have been simplified or overlooked for years while their male counterparts were more thoroughly delineated, in all their vibrant complexities and inconsistencies, provided with articulated expression to vouch for their unethical actions. Nora was created to break the mold, to expose her selfish needs, her middle-class quandaries, to disgust readers by the way she grovels in self-pity. Nora was supposed to become equal to any other flawed human being regardless of class or gender, to rise above convention and speak for the many women who live trapped in their circumstances.
Leaving style aside, which I think is rather unimpressive in delivery, my main concern is that as I approached the end of Nora鈥檚 confession, I felt she was measured by the very same standards she was trying to rebel against, restricting her to a limited form of expression that belittled her in the eyes of others. Her rage has no consequence and is born in silence.
Art or no art, dreams or no dreams, I expected greater things from Nora鈥檚 anger. I expected a grand finale, an outrageous outcome, and I merely got a feeble implosion of a woman realizing she has lived a lie imposed by her inflated delusions of grandeur. No need to go upstairs, women like Nora abound everywhere.
July 27, 2023
It seems this book has really divided opinion. I have to say I really enjoyed it and found it entertaining and believable.
鈥業 felt as though three-dimensional people and events were becoming two-dimensional in the telling, and as though they were smaller as well as flatter, that they were just less for being spoken鈥�
鈥業 felt as though three-dimensional people and events were becoming two-dimensional in the telling, and as though they were smaller as well as flatter, that they were just less for being spoken鈥�
September 1, 2013
Lots of women don鈥檛 like the main character of this book. They see her as pathetic. This is a common view of the 鈥渟mugly married." It's easy to look down your nose at the main character if you have all the adornments of female success, the most important of which is that someone has found you sexually desirable enough to marry you. And once you have children, the deal is sealed. You are woman, hear you roar!
Nora is a 37-year-old school teacher whose mother who truly loved her is dead and whose aging father needs her. Nora is the utility person. Life's bat boy. The filler of water bottles and cleaner of equipment but never gets to play the game. The center of no one's life but the agent of many lives. A person of talent unpracticed which time will turn to mediocrity because it was simply never developed. A person so inconsequential that those she thinks are closest to her will humiliate her if it serves their own ends. And she's angry because now she knows all this with certainty.
Naturally, she has lied to herself about this truth. It's called coping. And this is where the writer I think advances beyond a lot of readers. We all lie to ourselves about some critical truth in our lives. Unless you have caught yourself in some lie on which your identity stands, and then have had some unexpected circumstance bring you right up against that lie so powerfully that it can literally knock you to your knees, you may simply lack the experience to fully appreciate this book. A lot of people don't like the book I think because most of us just keep whistling right to the grave.
Lots of young reviewers have complained that 37 is not old in hip Cambridge. But biology is biology. I wonder to the extent this current generation is whistling away--thinking life goes on and on with the same endless options as fleeting youth. That 37 is still young for a woman and children and family always a future option. That 70 is not really THAT old and dependence some far off and not inevitable future. Good luck with that view. Life is a bell curve, with a beginning and, yes an end. With options declining as you go and the peak coming much sooner than today's young seem to want to face. I think this too irritates a lot of people about this book. Nora at the book's end has dropped these self-deceptions because only by viewing painful realities as they are can she really live life.
Nora is a 37-year-old school teacher whose mother who truly loved her is dead and whose aging father needs her. Nora is the utility person. Life's bat boy. The filler of water bottles and cleaner of equipment but never gets to play the game. The center of no one's life but the agent of many lives. A person of talent unpracticed which time will turn to mediocrity because it was simply never developed. A person so inconsequential that those she thinks are closest to her will humiliate her if it serves their own ends. And she's angry because now she knows all this with certainty.
Naturally, she has lied to herself about this truth. It's called coping. And this is where the writer I think advances beyond a lot of readers. We all lie to ourselves about some critical truth in our lives. Unless you have caught yourself in some lie on which your identity stands, and then have had some unexpected circumstance bring you right up against that lie so powerfully that it can literally knock you to your knees, you may simply lack the experience to fully appreciate this book. A lot of people don't like the book I think because most of us just keep whistling right to the grave.
Lots of young reviewers have complained that 37 is not old in hip Cambridge. But biology is biology. I wonder to the extent this current generation is whistling away--thinking life goes on and on with the same endless options as fleeting youth. That 37 is still young for a woman and children and family always a future option. That 70 is not really THAT old and dependence some far off and not inevitable future. Good luck with that view. Life is a bell curve, with a beginning and, yes an end. With options declining as you go and the peak coming much sooner than today's young seem to want to face. I think this too irritates a lot of people about this book. Nora at the book's end has dropped these self-deceptions because only by viewing painful realities as they are can she really live life.
July 23, 2016
Claire Messud's piece does not end like it begins. Perhaps that's a good thing, for most books. We want to see stories change, characters learn things, events take us from one place to another, and so I did and do with this book. But the first part was deceptive.
Messud sets up this book to be about an angry third-grade school teacher in Cambridge, Massachusetts who started her life meaning to be an artist, and ended up, through the force of her mother's example, financial timidity, and, eventually, through guilt over her chosen sell-out career, becoming a teacher. She has now been an elementary teacher for years upon years and is a very good one, respected and loved by parents as someone who "gets kids". This means that she manifests in the world as patient, giving, kind, curious and fair, and the sort of teacher who creates learning experiences her students can enjoy.
And this book was supposed to be about her resentment of that, about female frustration and containment (even if, in this day and age, it is a partial self-containment). It starts like an angry diary entry that anyone might write on a particularly petulant Wednesday evening or particularly drunk Saturday, or perhaps even one of those anonymous teacher blogs where educators vent their frustration without the fear of being fired. It's petty and vicious and small, filled with the sort of teeny-tiny embittered reflections and persecutions that only upper-middle-class white ladies have the time to dwell on and remember in such precise detail. (The parent who told her she "gets kids" for the first time, her obsessing and reading that as someone not seeing her as fully adult or responsible. The way she perceives herself as a "Woman Upstairs," as a sort of outdated cliche of a repressed, "nice" woman who hardly speaks a word out of turn and rages in quiet desperation on the inside, prickling at every mention of her "art" with resentment.) She was fascinating in the sense that her inner monologues, resentments and sadnesses read like those of a teenager- that is, someone who spends an awful lot of time concerned with trying to establish their own identity, mostly through worrying about what others perceive about them and projecting it onto themselves. The sort of identity making we do before we trust it to come from inside of us (at least as much as we can.)
It was an incredibly accurate portrayal, in that sense, of that sort of mindset. I expected that we would see this pettiness and sadness and gradually strip away the layers to find the beauty. Or perhaps I expected that after her initial ugly outburst, we would be taken at least with some sort of sympathy through all the things that made her the way that she is and why, perhaps in just as ugly a fashion, but in a way that made her pettiness understandable (perhaps she was hiding from something large?). In any case, I felt confident that Messud was working on a separate plane from our narrator, and she would be able to show us her mind and let us explore while also showing us everything that her character was missing, all the things little and small that made her what she was that she refused to see.
However, as the book went on, I lost that faith. I think Messud did attempt this on one or two occasions, but slowly and surely, I came to the conclusion that she was siding with our character in a really unhelpful way that brought down whatever potential she had. Nora becomes less and less complex. For the first part of the novel, I had assumed that Messud was hiding Claire's real pain and sadness and we would get there, but no. It turns out that everything is right on the surface and no deeper than it appears. Clare is exactly the sort of person who never took charge of her own life, who always did what others told her, who made choice after choice out of timidity or an inability to understand the life of the artist beyond the surface- she is a person who absolutely could have changed her own life and possessed all the native talent and drive that she needed to do so. Then she took it and buried it and redirected that drive into her second-choice profession, her anger, and maintaining a simulacra of her dream, so she can convince herself that it is not quite gone. It is the tired dilemma of middle-managers, frustrated housewives and anyone who ever went into the "family business" without much of a second thought. These people chose, or they slid into, or they let themselves be drawn down easy paths and then not only did that but stayed on those paths for more than a decade. I am impatient with that occurring and then turning around and claiming grand tragedy. It is, at most, a subject to be treated with quiet melancholia, wise understanding, and, perhaps, if you feel something is missing in your life, an attempt to find something else to fulfill it. I think this is especially the case when, like Nora, . Nora, by the middle of the book, came off as someone who either had no idea what she wanted, or wanted things that were STILL for outer show, in her late thirties.
And worse, I think that I am supposed to sympathize with Nora and go along with her incredibly cliched and worn-out mid-life crisis. I think I am supposed to see her acting out all these antics, all the ones that she missed out on in high school and college, as sad, as things that draw me to her. And the worst part of that is a) that I don't. and b) that I am the target audience, to a great degree for this book, and I STILL don't. I am a teacher, I am someone who enjoys teaching but also thought she might have a different career, who has felt the sort of repressed rage Nora expressed at the beginning, been in the self-contained cage. But the way that Nora handles it reveals that the character a) either has no depth or no progress beyond those young, heady years where she experienced the artist's lifestyle and gave it up or b) knows she made a wrong choice and is dealing with it in a very juvenile and inappropriate manner, or, worse, c)鈥� the author thinks she is having her deal with it in an understandable and relatable manner that I am supposed to recognize and do not. And I really think that it is C.
I am so, so tired of encountering this middle-aged woman stereotype in literature, and not seeing justice done to her and her experiences. There is still a place for literature about these women, who still exist all over this country and beyond. Men too. It isn't exclusive to women. It's worth engaging with them to see why they do what they do and how it all could have been different.
Was this book an attempt to explain such a stereotype to me? To see the mundane, not brave, everyday person-ness of where it comes from? Perhaps. But it failed to make it compelling. It failed to show me a person worth caring about, who deserved better.
There were two moments of truth later in the book, where I felt that, finally, some truth and commentary was happening that hinted to me that perhaps Messud's editorial position was not the same as her narrator's. Both of them occurred in conversations with her father. Nora is walking with her father, who tells her that he has had a strange phone call from her brother. On the phone call he noticed something odd about him, speculated as to a possible problem between him and his wife based on his evasive answers to his questions. He showed an analytical brain far at odds with Nora's conception of him as a desperate old man who sits around doing nothing but waiting for her next visit. She shuts him down with some platitude, and he goes silent. The second moment occurred when they were discussing her mother. Nora spouted some romanticized claptrap about her mother's gardening, and why the plants that wouldn't grow frustrated her so much- something about how they were the only thing she could control in her life and even they wouldn't do what she told them to. Her father basically laughs in her face, as if he can't believe it, and tells her about just how controlling her mother really was- that she decided everything in their lives, right down to what he wore and what they ate each night, where they lived, how it was decorated, when they went out and who their friends were. Nora can't believe it and dismisses her father's insight- her father goes silent again. Just as he does on the other occasion when he dares to speak his mind to her. These two moments illuminated a great deal about her relationship with her father- why she keeps up the weekly visits (duty, a sense of picking up her mother's role and playing it, taking on her mother's conceptualization of her father), why he likes to see her (her conceptions are just like they were when his beloved wife was alive, she's still in her daughter role), and why he acts the part of a silent, doddering old man for her (because that's how she prefers that he be).
Unfortunately, there was so much less insight offered about the other characters and Nora's interpretation of their actions. The way that the scenes were constructed, we see everything through Nora's paranoid and self-involved eyes. It's problematic that we see everything inside her head. The insights Messud gives her are commonplace, and beyond that鈥� she's a startlingly unappealing character to read about. Her obsession with her artist friend and her husband does not yield poetic insights, her odd fixation on a small boy is odd in a way that the book does not redeem.
After we take this whole journey with her through her year of her obsession, I'm left scratching my head and asking why. I can see why this character considers it important, in the narrative she tells herself, but I don't see it otherwise. I don't see what it did for her. She makes the sort of change a middle-aged woman who once wanted to be an artist might make- a big one, I suppose, but it seems only temporary. And, just like all her other changes, it is outward ONLY. On the inside, she seems just the same as she was at the beginning.
And you know what? It is not impossible to humanize this woman- to make her rise above accusations of First World Problems, of delusional oppression and self-involved and pampered choices. It can, in fact, be heartbreaking. I've seen it done. I've seen it done in literature- my review of the Awakening lists several examples of it, in literature written earlier in the century by great women artists.
But you know the one that always gets to me?
Have you guys ever seen Paris Je T'aime? I don't love every part of that movie. But I will tell you the part that I do love, that I love so much and I am so affected by that I start crying almost before the segment even starts. I can't even watch it. It's the last film, the one about the middle aged American post-lady who takes a vacation to Paris by herself. The one where she reads about her trip in French to what is clearly her French class back home?
Here it is if you haven't seen it:
Oh god, I can't even deal with it. It was difficult even to look up that moment on youtube without crying. It's like a compulsion. Every time I see it, I feel an immediate connection to this woman. I feel like I see her whole, little, sad, quiet life on her own. I see her struggling to make the best of it, I imagine the conversation she had with herself when she decided to take conversational French and how hard she probably works on it in her spare time, when she can. I see the treats she gives her dogs and how much she loves them. I see her quiet resignation and acceptance of her small place in the universe, and how hard, despite clear, innocently expressed heartbreak, she tries to go on anyway. How she's fixated on France as the thing that will bring her life meaning and give her joy- like so many other writers and artists and great people before her. How even the smallest and quietest person can find the sort of ineffable, beautiful joy that we usually associate only with the great and brilliant. She is pathetic and small and has some bitterness and regret, and she is wonderful in so many ways. My connection to her is visceral, and I feel every small wince and slight she experiences, however insignificant it might seem to others.
There is next to nothing of this in Messud's book, not after the riotously angry beginning. I already know this stereotype. I don't need her to recount and rehash it. And it offers me nothing more beyond it.
I had hoped that this book would give me more reasons to fight for women like Carol, to express well deserved anger and show me why, within the confines of mundane life. But perhaps I expected too much of her. I don't know.
Either way, I am walking away disappointed.
Carol deserved better.
Messud sets up this book to be about an angry third-grade school teacher in Cambridge, Massachusetts who started her life meaning to be an artist, and ended up, through the force of her mother's example, financial timidity, and, eventually, through guilt over her chosen sell-out career, becoming a teacher. She has now been an elementary teacher for years upon years and is a very good one, respected and loved by parents as someone who "gets kids". This means that she manifests in the world as patient, giving, kind, curious and fair, and the sort of teacher who creates learning experiences her students can enjoy.
And this book was supposed to be about her resentment of that, about female frustration and containment (even if, in this day and age, it is a partial self-containment). It starts like an angry diary entry that anyone might write on a particularly petulant Wednesday evening or particularly drunk Saturday, or perhaps even one of those anonymous teacher blogs where educators vent their frustration without the fear of being fired. It's petty and vicious and small, filled with the sort of teeny-tiny embittered reflections and persecutions that only upper-middle-class white ladies have the time to dwell on and remember in such precise detail. (The parent who told her she "gets kids" for the first time, her obsessing and reading that as someone not seeing her as fully adult or responsible. The way she perceives herself as a "Woman Upstairs," as a sort of outdated cliche of a repressed, "nice" woman who hardly speaks a word out of turn and rages in quiet desperation on the inside, prickling at every mention of her "art" with resentment.) She was fascinating in the sense that her inner monologues, resentments and sadnesses read like those of a teenager- that is, someone who spends an awful lot of time concerned with trying to establish their own identity, mostly through worrying about what others perceive about them and projecting it onto themselves. The sort of identity making we do before we trust it to come from inside of us (at least as much as we can.)
It was an incredibly accurate portrayal, in that sense, of that sort of mindset. I expected that we would see this pettiness and sadness and gradually strip away the layers to find the beauty. Or perhaps I expected that after her initial ugly outburst, we would be taken at least with some sort of sympathy through all the things that made her the way that she is and why, perhaps in just as ugly a fashion, but in a way that made her pettiness understandable (perhaps she was hiding from something large?). In any case, I felt confident that Messud was working on a separate plane from our narrator, and she would be able to show us her mind and let us explore while also showing us everything that her character was missing, all the things little and small that made her what she was that she refused to see.
However, as the book went on, I lost that faith. I think Messud did attempt this on one or two occasions, but slowly and surely, I came to the conclusion that she was siding with our character in a really unhelpful way that brought down whatever potential she had. Nora becomes less and less complex. For the first part of the novel, I had assumed that Messud was hiding Claire's real pain and sadness and we would get there, but no. It turns out that everything is right on the surface and no deeper than it appears. Clare is exactly the sort of person who never took charge of her own life, who always did what others told her, who made choice after choice out of timidity or an inability to understand the life of the artist beyond the surface- she is a person who absolutely could have changed her own life and possessed all the native talent and drive that she needed to do so. Then she took it and buried it and redirected that drive into her second-choice profession, her anger, and maintaining a simulacra of her dream, so she can convince herself that it is not quite gone. It is the tired dilemma of middle-managers, frustrated housewives and anyone who ever went into the "family business" without much of a second thought. These people chose, or they slid into, or they let themselves be drawn down easy paths and then not only did that but stayed on those paths for more than a decade. I am impatient with that occurring and then turning around and claiming grand tragedy. It is, at most, a subject to be treated with quiet melancholia, wise understanding, and, perhaps, if you feel something is missing in your life, an attempt to find something else to fulfill it. I think this is especially the case when, like Nora, . Nora, by the middle of the book, came off as someone who either had no idea what she wanted, or wanted things that were STILL for outer show, in her late thirties.
And worse, I think that I am supposed to sympathize with Nora and go along with her incredibly cliched and worn-out mid-life crisis. I think I am supposed to see her acting out all these antics, all the ones that she missed out on in high school and college, as sad, as things that draw me to her. And the worst part of that is a) that I don't. and b) that I am the target audience, to a great degree for this book, and I STILL don't. I am a teacher, I am someone who enjoys teaching but also thought she might have a different career, who has felt the sort of repressed rage Nora expressed at the beginning, been in the self-contained cage. But the way that Nora handles it reveals that the character a) either has no depth or no progress beyond those young, heady years where she experienced the artist's lifestyle and gave it up or b) knows she made a wrong choice and is dealing with it in a very juvenile and inappropriate manner, or, worse, c)鈥� the author thinks she is having her deal with it in an understandable and relatable manner that I am supposed to recognize and do not. And I really think that it is C.
I am so, so tired of encountering this middle-aged woman stereotype in literature, and not seeing justice done to her and her experiences. There is still a place for literature about these women, who still exist all over this country and beyond. Men too. It isn't exclusive to women. It's worth engaging with them to see why they do what they do and how it all could have been different.
Was this book an attempt to explain such a stereotype to me? To see the mundane, not brave, everyday person-ness of where it comes from? Perhaps. But it failed to make it compelling. It failed to show me a person worth caring about, who deserved better.
There were two moments of truth later in the book, where I felt that, finally, some truth and commentary was happening that hinted to me that perhaps Messud's editorial position was not the same as her narrator's. Both of them occurred in conversations with her father. Nora is walking with her father, who tells her that he has had a strange phone call from her brother. On the phone call he noticed something odd about him, speculated as to a possible problem between him and his wife based on his evasive answers to his questions. He showed an analytical brain far at odds with Nora's conception of him as a desperate old man who sits around doing nothing but waiting for her next visit. She shuts him down with some platitude, and he goes silent. The second moment occurred when they were discussing her mother. Nora spouted some romanticized claptrap about her mother's gardening, and why the plants that wouldn't grow frustrated her so much- something about how they were the only thing she could control in her life and even they wouldn't do what she told them to. Her father basically laughs in her face, as if he can't believe it, and tells her about just how controlling her mother really was- that she decided everything in their lives, right down to what he wore and what they ate each night, where they lived, how it was decorated, when they went out and who their friends were. Nora can't believe it and dismisses her father's insight- her father goes silent again. Just as he does on the other occasion when he dares to speak his mind to her. These two moments illuminated a great deal about her relationship with her father- why she keeps up the weekly visits (duty, a sense of picking up her mother's role and playing it, taking on her mother's conceptualization of her father), why he likes to see her (her conceptions are just like they were when his beloved wife was alive, she's still in her daughter role), and why he acts the part of a silent, doddering old man for her (because that's how she prefers that he be).
Unfortunately, there was so much less insight offered about the other characters and Nora's interpretation of their actions. The way that the scenes were constructed, we see everything through Nora's paranoid and self-involved eyes. It's problematic that we see everything inside her head. The insights Messud gives her are commonplace, and beyond that鈥� she's a startlingly unappealing character to read about. Her obsession with her artist friend and her husband does not yield poetic insights, her odd fixation on a small boy is odd in a way that the book does not redeem.
After we take this whole journey with her through her year of her obsession, I'm left scratching my head and asking why. I can see why this character considers it important, in the narrative she tells herself, but I don't see it otherwise. I don't see what it did for her. She makes the sort of change a middle-aged woman who once wanted to be an artist might make- a big one, I suppose, but it seems only temporary. And, just like all her other changes, it is outward ONLY. On the inside, she seems just the same as she was at the beginning.
And you know what? It is not impossible to humanize this woman- to make her rise above accusations of First World Problems, of delusional oppression and self-involved and pampered choices. It can, in fact, be heartbreaking. I've seen it done. I've seen it done in literature- my review of the Awakening lists several examples of it, in literature written earlier in the century by great women artists.
But you know the one that always gets to me?
Have you guys ever seen Paris Je T'aime? I don't love every part of that movie. But I will tell you the part that I do love, that I love so much and I am so affected by that I start crying almost before the segment even starts. I can't even watch it. It's the last film, the one about the middle aged American post-lady who takes a vacation to Paris by herself. The one where she reads about her trip in French to what is clearly her French class back home?
Here it is if you haven't seen it:
Oh god, I can't even deal with it. It was difficult even to look up that moment on youtube without crying. It's like a compulsion. Every time I see it, I feel an immediate connection to this woman. I feel like I see her whole, little, sad, quiet life on her own. I see her struggling to make the best of it, I imagine the conversation she had with herself when she decided to take conversational French and how hard she probably works on it in her spare time, when she can. I see the treats she gives her dogs and how much she loves them. I see her quiet resignation and acceptance of her small place in the universe, and how hard, despite clear, innocently expressed heartbreak, she tries to go on anyway. How she's fixated on France as the thing that will bring her life meaning and give her joy- like so many other writers and artists and great people before her. How even the smallest and quietest person can find the sort of ineffable, beautiful joy that we usually associate only with the great and brilliant. She is pathetic and small and has some bitterness and regret, and she is wonderful in so many ways. My connection to her is visceral, and I feel every small wince and slight she experiences, however insignificant it might seem to others.
There is next to nothing of this in Messud's book, not after the riotously angry beginning. I already know this stereotype. I don't need her to recount and rehash it. And it offers me nothing more beyond it.
I had hoped that this book would give me more reasons to fight for women like Carol, to express well deserved anger and show me why, within the confines of mundane life. But perhaps I expected too much of her. I don't know.
Either way, I am walking away disappointed.
Carol deserved better.
February 8, 2022
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賱賰賳賴丕 丿丕禺賱賷丕 睾丕囟亘丞 賵爻丕禺胤丞 毓賱賶 賳賮爻賴丕 賵丨賷丕鬲賴丕 賵丕禺鬲賷丕乇丕鬲賴丕
賵賮賷 丕賱賵賯鬲 丕賱鬲賷 鬲鬲賵賯賮 賮賷賴 毓賳 丕賱兀丨賱丕賲 鬲兀鬲賷賴丕 丕賱丨賷丕丞 亘丕賱賱丕賲鬲賵賯毓
丕賱匕賷 賷亘丿賵 賵賰兀賳賴 毓丕賱賲 噩丿賷丿 賵賲孬賷乇 賱賰賳賴 賷購禺賮賷 丕賱賲夭賷丿 賲賳 丕賱禺賷亘丕鬲 賵丕賱兀賱賲
鬲丿賵乇 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 丨賵賱 賲賮乇丿丕鬲 丕賱丕爻鬲賯賱丕賱賷丞, 丕賱賵丨丿丞, 丕賱丕爻鬲睾賱丕賱, 丕賱鬲賳丕夭賱丕鬲
丕賱毓賷卮 賮賷 丕賱兀賵賴丕賲 賵丕賱乇睾亘丞 賮賷 丕賱卮毓賵乇 亘丕賱丨亘 賵丕賱丕賴鬲賲丕賲
賴賷 丕賱賲乇兀丞 丕賱賴丕丿卅丞 賵丕賱賲購賱鬲夭賲丞 亘賵丕噩亘丕鬲賴丕 賵毓賲賱賴丕 賵毓賱丕賯丕鬲賴丕
賱賰賳賴丕 丿丕禺賱賷丕 睾丕囟亘丞 賵爻丕禺胤丞 毓賱賶 賳賮爻賴丕 賵丨賷丕鬲賴丕 賵丕禺鬲賷丕乇丕鬲賴丕
賵賮賷 丕賱賵賯鬲 丕賱鬲賷 鬲鬲賵賯賮 賮賷賴 毓賳 丕賱兀丨賱丕賲 鬲兀鬲賷賴丕 丕賱丨賷丕丞 亘丕賱賱丕賲鬲賵賯毓
丕賱匕賷 賷亘丿賵 賵賰兀賳賴 毓丕賱賲 噩丿賷丿 賵賲孬賷乇 賱賰賳賴 賷購禺賮賷 丕賱賲夭賷丿 賲賳 丕賱禺賷亘丕鬲 賵丕賱兀賱賲
鬲丿賵乇 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 丨賵賱 賲賮乇丿丕鬲 丕賱丕爻鬲賯賱丕賱賷丞, 丕賱賵丨丿丞, 丕賱丕爻鬲睾賱丕賱, 丕賱鬲賳丕夭賱丕鬲
丕賱毓賷卮 賮賷 丕賱兀賵賴丕賲 賵丕賱乇睾亘丞 賮賷 丕賱卮毓賵乇 亘丕賱丨亘 賵丕賱丕賴鬲賲丕賲
May 6, 2013
At the age of thirty-seven she realized she'd never
Ride through Paris in a sports car with the warm wind in her hair.
So she let the phone keep ringing and she sat there softly singing
Little nursery rhymes she'd memorized in her daddy's easy chair.*
The woman upstairs is reliable, organized, and never causes any trouble. Even her trash is always tidy.
Nora Eldridge has lived her life as a "woman upstairs." She's a popular third grade teacher. She gets children. She has come to realize that her life has a shape and a horizon. Her paintings will not be on display in the Louvre. She will never be president or even ride through Paris with the wind in her hair. She will more than likely remain childless.
Her dissatisfaction with her own stalled life leads Nora to become infatuated with the family of one of her students. The Shahids are perfect. The child, utterly charming. His father, an intriguing intellectual. And his mother, a successful, confident artist - essentially everything Nora is not.
She tries to explain to her friend, "...I think. 'You haven't been here' and 'You haven't seen that,' and I'm suddenly filled with wonder, like the sky opening, you know, to think that all this exists, and hope, because I might someday experience some of it -- the smells, the sounds, what the light is like." Meeting the Shahids has engendered a feeling of possibility and hope. Hope that maybe, just maybe..."it isn't all over yet."
But sometimes, infatuation can take a dark turn into obsession, and Nora is teetering dangerously on the brink.
When she loses touch with the Shahids briefly over the holidays, Nora frets, "The one thing I didn't want to believe was that they were going about their days in that dingy town house in perfect and consoling uneventfulness, and simply not thinking of me at all. I started to be angry, a little. Who were they to ignore me?"
It was easy for me to identify with Nora. I'm a frustrated, nonproductive artist. I envy those with drive, ambition and creativity. Messud has created a fascinating character who may stretch the boundaries of decency, but always remains believable and realistic. Listen as Nora discusses her fear of aging:
I will continue. I will not spill into the lives of others, greedily sucking and wanting and needing. I will not. I will ask nothing of anyone...
But somehow, she has allowed exactly this fearful vulnerability to happen when if comes to her dealings with the Shahids.
The Woman Upstairs is like that. We keep it together. You don't make a mess and you don't make mistakes and you don't call people weeping at four in the morning.
Will Nora remain a Woman Upstairs, or will she let her freak flag fly and learn to live?
...the person I am in my head is so far from the person I am in the world...I've learned it's a mistake to reveal her at all.
No, Nora. It's not. Let her out.
* The Ballad of Lucy Jordan by Shel Silverstein
Ride through Paris in a sports car with the warm wind in her hair.
So she let the phone keep ringing and she sat there softly singing
Little nursery rhymes she'd memorized in her daddy's easy chair.*
The woman upstairs is reliable, organized, and never causes any trouble. Even her trash is always tidy.
Nora Eldridge has lived her life as a "woman upstairs." She's a popular third grade teacher. She gets children. She has come to realize that her life has a shape and a horizon. Her paintings will not be on display in the Louvre. She will never be president or even ride through Paris with the wind in her hair. She will more than likely remain childless.
Her dissatisfaction with her own stalled life leads Nora to become infatuated with the family of one of her students. The Shahids are perfect. The child, utterly charming. His father, an intriguing intellectual. And his mother, a successful, confident artist - essentially everything Nora is not.
She tries to explain to her friend, "...I think. 'You haven't been here' and 'You haven't seen that,' and I'm suddenly filled with wonder, like the sky opening, you know, to think that all this exists, and hope, because I might someday experience some of it -- the smells, the sounds, what the light is like." Meeting the Shahids has engendered a feeling of possibility and hope. Hope that maybe, just maybe..."it isn't all over yet."
But sometimes, infatuation can take a dark turn into obsession, and Nora is teetering dangerously on the brink.
When she loses touch with the Shahids briefly over the holidays, Nora frets, "The one thing I didn't want to believe was that they were going about their days in that dingy town house in perfect and consoling uneventfulness, and simply not thinking of me at all. I started to be angry, a little. Who were they to ignore me?"
It was easy for me to identify with Nora. I'm a frustrated, nonproductive artist. I envy those with drive, ambition and creativity. Messud has created a fascinating character who may stretch the boundaries of decency, but always remains believable and realistic. Listen as Nora discusses her fear of aging:
I will continue. I will not spill into the lives of others, greedily sucking and wanting and needing. I will not. I will ask nothing of anyone...
But somehow, she has allowed exactly this fearful vulnerability to happen when if comes to her dealings with the Shahids.
The Woman Upstairs is like that. We keep it together. You don't make a mess and you don't make mistakes and you don't call people weeping at four in the morning.
Will Nora remain a Woman Upstairs, or will she let her freak flag fly and learn to live?
...the person I am in my head is so far from the person I am in the world...I've learned it's a mistake to reveal her at all.
No, Nora. It's not. Let her out.
* The Ballad of Lucy Jordan by Shel Silverstein
December 8, 2017
When is a book a piece of art, or a literary masterpiece without art as part of the equation, or just a novel?
This book is not really the story of a lonely, 42-year-old single school teacher in Cambridge Massachussets. Nora Eldridge is the protagonist who by cheer coincidence is challenged to start living, work on her ambition to be an artist, and break away from the monotonous routine with which she meandered though life, with an almost emotional sterile reserve against the onslaught of life which resulted in her ending up being totally on her own as The Women Upstairs.
That's the storyline, the fragile skeleton that is supporting the structural building blocks of emotions that started out with pure definitions of love, friendship, trust, loyalty, and bonding, and ended up in pure totally justified rage - all consuming, almost uncontrollable destruction of everything she ever accepted in her life as good and pure.
I was really captured by this book, although I initially felt uneasy with the cynism and neediness in Nora's conduct, until I figured out that I did not feel comfortable with this book because I was afraid of becoming her. The feelings of loss and hopelessness flowed beneath her choices up to a point where she no longer could ignore or deny it. And then the rage came, and she finally understood what it took to really live. It took one year of radical changes in her life to kick-start a revolution with the vast energy of a volcanic mental and emotional eruption. It's the only way stars are born in our personal universes.
It was a sad literary read, honestly. But at the same time it was one of the most brilliant books, truly a piece of work art, that I have come across.
That's all I want to say about this book. It is a deeply touching experience. 272 pages. Five stars for that!
This book is not really the story of a lonely, 42-year-old single school teacher in Cambridge Massachussets. Nora Eldridge is the protagonist who by cheer coincidence is challenged to start living, work on her ambition to be an artist, and break away from the monotonous routine with which she meandered though life, with an almost emotional sterile reserve against the onslaught of life which resulted in her ending up being totally on her own as The Women Upstairs.
That's the storyline, the fragile skeleton that is supporting the structural building blocks of emotions that started out with pure definitions of love, friendship, trust, loyalty, and bonding, and ended up in pure totally justified rage - all consuming, almost uncontrollable destruction of everything she ever accepted in her life as good and pure.
I was really captured by this book, although I initially felt uneasy with the cynism and neediness in Nora's conduct, until I figured out that I did not feel comfortable with this book because I was afraid of becoming her. The feelings of loss and hopelessness flowed beneath her choices up to a point where she no longer could ignore or deny it. And then the rage came, and she finally understood what it took to really live. It took one year of radical changes in her life to kick-start a revolution with the vast energy of a volcanic mental and emotional eruption. It's the only way stars are born in our personal universes.
It was a sad literary read, honestly. But at the same time it was one of the most brilliant books, truly a piece of work art, that I have come across.
That's all I want to say about this book. It is a deeply touching experience. 272 pages. Five stars for that!
August 26, 2015
37 year-old Nora Eldridge is one strange woman. As a lonely and unsatisfied school teacher with artistic ambitions, she befriends the parents of one of her young students and ends up obsessed with them. While she neglects her elderly father and forgets scheduled commitments at school, she succumbs to the needs of her so called new friends whom she now "loves" (in various ways) and desperately devotes all her free time; and the ending, well, not a surprise.
I struggled through the better part of this novel without interest. Not for me.
January 17, 2014
The Woman Upstairs seems truly one of those books that mood dictates its reading as well as its liking. My first start found it wanting so I dropped it for something more fast paced. But like a bur it kept pricking me to pick it up. Then the 2013 awards started rolling in. In addition it seemed to be a favorite of many of my GoodReads friends. So pick it up I did.
The Woman Upstairs hurled me to the floor with its bleakness, wrenched my heart with such despair, yet somehow left me hopeful, hopeful not only for myself but for its narrator. It is exquisite. It is a story for women, perhaps middle-aged but certainly does not leave out those older and yes, even, younger. So many of us will see something of ourselves on these pages.
The simple synopsis - Nora, a middle-aged teacher becomes entangled with a foreign student and his family.
The Shahid's, all three, student, Reza, mother, Sirena, father, Skandar, are in America while Skandar teaches at Harvard. Nora is first enraptured with her student from the first time he walks into her classroom. Then she meets Sirena, an alluring, somewhat mysterious, and glamorous Italian artist. Nora and Sirena strike a friendship that goes beyond the relationship of teacher/parent, a relationship that Nora self questions but one she can't resist. The bound is cemented when they rent and share an art studio where each will explore their creativity. It is here, in this studio that Skandar enters and becomes a subtle but important part of the picture.
The title enthralls me with its imagery. Just think what it means. A woman who like a child is seen and not heard, who doesn't complain, who wants nothing, who makes no waves, a woman who sits in her upper room and watches life go by. This is not say she is not angry. Anger rears its ugly head throughout. In fact the very first line tells you there is something brewing.
"How angry am I? You don't want to know. Nobody wants to know about that."
It will take you some time and maybe some perseverance to find angers culmination and why.
There are so many beautiful thoughts and passages here but to quote them seems wrong when not taken in context.
I'm not going to over think my thoughts or what I've written. I loved The Woman Upstairs. It is an exceptional study of women, art, relationships, friendship, betrayal, love, longing, and where we fit in this world.
The Woman Upstairs hurled me to the floor with its bleakness, wrenched my heart with such despair, yet somehow left me hopeful, hopeful not only for myself but for its narrator. It is exquisite. It is a story for women, perhaps middle-aged but certainly does not leave out those older and yes, even, younger. So many of us will see something of ourselves on these pages.
The simple synopsis - Nora, a middle-aged teacher becomes entangled with a foreign student and his family.
The Shahid's, all three, student, Reza, mother, Sirena, father, Skandar, are in America while Skandar teaches at Harvard. Nora is first enraptured with her student from the first time he walks into her classroom. Then she meets Sirena, an alluring, somewhat mysterious, and glamorous Italian artist. Nora and Sirena strike a friendship that goes beyond the relationship of teacher/parent, a relationship that Nora self questions but one she can't resist. The bound is cemented when they rent and share an art studio where each will explore their creativity. It is here, in this studio that Skandar enters and becomes a subtle but important part of the picture.
The title enthralls me with its imagery. Just think what it means. A woman who like a child is seen and not heard, who doesn't complain, who wants nothing, who makes no waves, a woman who sits in her upper room and watches life go by. This is not say she is not angry. Anger rears its ugly head throughout. In fact the very first line tells you there is something brewing.
"How angry am I? You don't want to know. Nobody wants to know about that."
It will take you some time and maybe some perseverance to find angers culmination and why.
There are so many beautiful thoughts and passages here but to quote them seems wrong when not taken in context.
I'm not going to over think my thoughts or what I've written. I loved The Woman Upstairs. It is an exceptional study of women, art, relationships, friendship, betrayal, love, longing, and where we fit in this world.
May 20, 2013
This book was totally different from what I imagined it to be. The writing constantly threw me off. This book is the epitome of run on sentences. I think there needs to be smaller sentences with more meaning. Stringing sentences together with semicolons does not emphasize a point better. I thought I could get over this type of writing style鈥攊f you鈥檇 call it that鈥攂ut I never really did.
Sadly though, not even a reworking of the writing style could save this book. The story is amazingly bland. Woman meets a family that she falls in love with and spends the rest of the novel ruminating over it. That鈥檚 all there really is to this story; In between that scenario, there is a dull description of artistic work to fill in loose ends. If you鈥檙e into art then all the power to you, but for those who aren't, it鈥檚 a tedious waste of time reading it as it does not advance the plot overall.
The main character confuses me greatly. Instead of letting the character judge for yourself what she represents, she constantly feels the need to explain her actions, why she鈥檚 thinking the way she is, and to prove how wrong the reader is. She should shut up and let the reader decide. She constantly tries to associate herself with being a woman upstairs, but her actions throughout the book prove to be contradictory鈥攁n aspect of the book that I probably liked better than anything else.
Overall, I did not like it. Not the writing, not the plot, and not the character (the other ones were ok). I do thank 欧宝娱乐 for providing me this book though; it鈥檚 the first ARC I鈥檝e ever received.
Sadly though, not even a reworking of the writing style could save this book. The story is amazingly bland. Woman meets a family that she falls in love with and spends the rest of the novel ruminating over it. That鈥檚 all there really is to this story; In between that scenario, there is a dull description of artistic work to fill in loose ends. If you鈥檙e into art then all the power to you, but for those who aren't, it鈥檚 a tedious waste of time reading it as it does not advance the plot overall.
The main character confuses me greatly. Instead of letting the character judge for yourself what she represents, she constantly feels the need to explain her actions, why she鈥檚 thinking the way she is, and to prove how wrong the reader is. She should shut up and let the reader decide. She constantly tries to associate herself with being a woman upstairs, but her actions throughout the book prove to be contradictory鈥攁n aspect of the book that I probably liked better than anything else.
Overall, I did not like it. Not the writing, not the plot, and not the character (the other ones were ok). I do thank 欧宝娱乐 for providing me this book though; it鈥檚 the first ARC I鈥檝e ever received.
September 9, 2015
Nora Eldridge, 37, second grade school teacher, is the woman upstairs. 'She's reliable, and organized, and she doesn't cause any trouble.' In reality, she is a frustrated artist, unmarried and unwanted, living a life of quiet desperation. Smiling on the outside, screaming on the inside, Nora struggles to tamp down the rising anger of missing out on what should have been her life.
An incident at school involving one of her young students puts Nora in close touch with the boy's parents. She becomes obsessed with them, insinuating herself into their lives, feeling that she is becoming part of the family. She thinks of them to the exclusion of anything else, concocting plans where she can spend even more time with them. It is inevitable that something will happen to mar this unhealthy mix.
Growing up, I lived in a neighborhood filled with huge old two-story houses. The elderly couple next door rented their upstairs bedrooms to single women. These ladies rarely had visitors, they caught the bus at the end of the block to go to work each day, came home to their rooms, and generally were not seen again until the next day. I was a little kid and didn't think much about it, but the title of this book made me think of them. Looking back, it must have been a lonely life for these women. Or maybe not. I hope not.
An incident at school involving one of her young students puts Nora in close touch with the boy's parents. She becomes obsessed with them, insinuating herself into their lives, feeling that she is becoming part of the family. She thinks of them to the exclusion of anything else, concocting plans where she can spend even more time with them. It is inevitable that something will happen to mar this unhealthy mix.
Growing up, I lived in a neighborhood filled with huge old two-story houses. The elderly couple next door rented their upstairs bedrooms to single women. These ladies rarely had visitors, they caught the bus at the end of the block to go to work each day, came home to their rooms, and generally were not seen again until the next day. I was a little kid and didn't think much about it, but the title of this book made me think of them. Looking back, it must have been a lonely life for these women. Or maybe not. I hope not.
December 14, 2013
Here鈥檚 a little video I made about this book:
For practical advice about how women can thrive and control their destinies, check out 鈥淟ean In鈥� by Facebook鈥檚 ever-gracious COO, Sheryl Sandberg.
But maybe after a hard day of believing in yourself and using 鈥渨e鈥� words, you just want to luxuriate in a fire of cleansing rage. Go ahead: Push the billionaire鈥檚 affirmations aside and listen instead to the she-devil in Claire Messud鈥檚 ferocious new novel. Lean in 鈥� she鈥檒l singe your eyebrows off.
鈥淭he Woman Upstairs鈥� arrives at a curious time in our national conversation about gender roles. Decades after the protests over the Equal Rights Amendment, 鈥渁ngry feminist鈥� is still a slur, as though anger were a ridiculous reaction to persistent social inequality. Worse, the words 鈥渂itter鈥� and 鈥渟hrill鈥� sit in their silos, ready to be launched at any woman who drops her pleasant smile while debating day-care availability, reproductive rights or sexual harassment.
What a slap in the face, then, to be hit by Messud鈥檚 opening line: 鈥淗ow angry am I? You don鈥檛 want to know.鈥�
This is Nora Eldridge: 42, single, childless, a respected teacher at Appleton Elementary in Cambridge, Mass. 鈥淒on鈥檛 all women feel the same?鈥� she insists. 鈥淭he only difference is how much we know we feel it, how in touch we are with our fury. . . . I鈥檒l set the world on fire. I just might.鈥�
Think Medea as a third-grade teacher.
Even the title of this novel is marinated in bile. Like someone scratching an infected wound, Nora returns to the phrase 鈥渢he woman upstairs鈥� again and again: 鈥淲e鈥檙e not the madwomen in the attic 鈥� they get lots of play, one way or another,鈥� she says. 鈥淲e鈥檙e the quiet woman at the end of the third-floor hallway, whose trash is always tidy, who smiles brightly in the stairwell with a cheerful greeting, and who, from behind closed doors, never makes a sound. In our lives of quiet desperation, the woman upstairs is who we are, without a goddamn tabby or a pesky lolloping Labrador, and not a soul registers that we are furious. We鈥檙e completely invisible.鈥�
This may be rage, but it鈥檚 fantastically smart rage 鈥� anger that never distorts, even in the upper registers. When Nora complains about women like herself who dutifully tuck themselves away, she ricochets from Charlotte Bronte to Jean Rhys to Henry David Thoreau to Ralph Ellison. Wherever she digs, she hits rich veins of indignation.
Messud鈥檚 previous novel, the wonderful 鈥淓mperor鈥檚 Children,鈥� sprawled out over more than 400 witty pages to skewer Manhattan鈥檚 young cultural elite. Her new book is an entirely different creature: a tightly wound monologue with the intensity of a novella that reads more like a curse.
What exactly has ruffled the antique doily covering Nora鈥檚 dull, respectable life 鈥� 鈥渁 world in which the day鈥檚 great excitement is the arrival of the Garnet Hill catalog鈥�? What stirred her wrath just as she was settling down to the arthritic realization that 鈥測our life has a shape and a horizon, and that you鈥檒l probably never be president, or a millionaire, and that if you鈥檙e a childless woman, you will quite possibly remain that way鈥�?
It starts with an 8-year-old boy. Reza Shahid is an adorable student from France who joins her third-grade class for a year. One day, after some bullies beat him up, Nora calls Reza鈥檚 mother, Sirena, with the bad news. An Italian married to a Lebanese academic, Sirena is an up-and-coming installation artist. She鈥檚 glamorous and irresistible, the sort of magnetic personality who manipulates with delectable flattery. The two women immediately become friends. Nora vibrates in a state of 鈥渏oyful panic,鈥� her own long-dormant artistic ambitions suddenly bloom, and she dares to unpack her 鈥渓ifelong secret certainty of specialness.鈥�
Anger provides the heat, but the novel鈥檚 real energy comes from its intellectual fuel, its all-consuming analytical drive. Nora and Sirena rent a studio together, and soon they鈥檙e spending weekends and evenings on their art: Sirena鈥檚 piece is a vast, surreal re-creation of Wonderland, while Nora constructs a tiny replica of Emily Dickinson鈥檚 bedroom (鈥淚鈥檓 nobody! Who are you?鈥�). Those disparate art projects suggest what separates these two very different women. Between the heaves of storm, Nora can be an engaging commentator on everything from aesthetics to international relations to aging.
Indeed, awakened by Sirena鈥檚 encouragement from years of narrowly constrained duty, Nora feels aroused and delighted. All should be lovely, but Messud keeps this friendship tightly sealed in Nora鈥檚 obsessive, ruminative voice. There鈥檚 something clammy and claustrophobic about her affection. Soon she鈥檚 babysitting Reza and fantasizing about Sirena鈥檚 husband. You can catch the faint scent of some toxic mold from 鈥淭he Prime of Miss Jean Brodie鈥� or 鈥淣otes on a Scandal鈥� or even 鈥淭he Talented Mr. Ripley.鈥� Yet Nora claims, 鈥淚f you鈥檇 told me my own story about someone else, I would have assured you that this person was completely unhinged鈥� 鈥� demonstrating exactly the kind of self-knowledge that keeps the reader off-balance.
Even as that psychological drama races toward a dark climax, Nora seduces us with her piercing assessment of the way young women are acculturated, the way older women are trapped. 鈥淲hen you鈥檙e a girl, you never let on that you are proud, or that you know you鈥檙e better at history, or biology, or French, than the girl who sits beside you,鈥� she says. 鈥淚t doesn鈥檛 occur to you, as you fashion your mask so carefully, that it will grow into your skin and graft itself, come to seem irremovable.鈥� If Nora is a monster, she鈥檚 also a sympathetic and perceptive victim. But of what? Bad luck? Self-pity? A chauvinistic society?
A more polemic, far less enjoyable novel would hand us the answer. But Messud isn鈥檛 writing an op-ed, and her story鈥檚 feminist critique of America rubs raw against her deconstruction of sisterhood. What eventually rises above these gender issues is Nora鈥檚 pained howl. It doesn鈥檛 matter if you鈥檙e a man or a woman: It鈥檚 hard not to feel your own shameful anxieties and fragile hopes being flayed by these braided strands of confession and blame.
Lean in. I dare you.
For practical advice about how women can thrive and control their destinies, check out 鈥淟ean In鈥� by Facebook鈥檚 ever-gracious COO, Sheryl Sandberg.
But maybe after a hard day of believing in yourself and using 鈥渨e鈥� words, you just want to luxuriate in a fire of cleansing rage. Go ahead: Push the billionaire鈥檚 affirmations aside and listen instead to the she-devil in Claire Messud鈥檚 ferocious new novel. Lean in 鈥� she鈥檒l singe your eyebrows off.
鈥淭he Woman Upstairs鈥� arrives at a curious time in our national conversation about gender roles. Decades after the protests over the Equal Rights Amendment, 鈥渁ngry feminist鈥� is still a slur, as though anger were a ridiculous reaction to persistent social inequality. Worse, the words 鈥渂itter鈥� and 鈥渟hrill鈥� sit in their silos, ready to be launched at any woman who drops her pleasant smile while debating day-care availability, reproductive rights or sexual harassment.
What a slap in the face, then, to be hit by Messud鈥檚 opening line: 鈥淗ow angry am I? You don鈥檛 want to know.鈥�
This is Nora Eldridge: 42, single, childless, a respected teacher at Appleton Elementary in Cambridge, Mass. 鈥淒on鈥檛 all women feel the same?鈥� she insists. 鈥淭he only difference is how much we know we feel it, how in touch we are with our fury. . . . I鈥檒l set the world on fire. I just might.鈥�
Think Medea as a third-grade teacher.
Even the title of this novel is marinated in bile. Like someone scratching an infected wound, Nora returns to the phrase 鈥渢he woman upstairs鈥� again and again: 鈥淲e鈥檙e not the madwomen in the attic 鈥� they get lots of play, one way or another,鈥� she says. 鈥淲e鈥檙e the quiet woman at the end of the third-floor hallway, whose trash is always tidy, who smiles brightly in the stairwell with a cheerful greeting, and who, from behind closed doors, never makes a sound. In our lives of quiet desperation, the woman upstairs is who we are, without a goddamn tabby or a pesky lolloping Labrador, and not a soul registers that we are furious. We鈥檙e completely invisible.鈥�
This may be rage, but it鈥檚 fantastically smart rage 鈥� anger that never distorts, even in the upper registers. When Nora complains about women like herself who dutifully tuck themselves away, she ricochets from Charlotte Bronte to Jean Rhys to Henry David Thoreau to Ralph Ellison. Wherever she digs, she hits rich veins of indignation.
Messud鈥檚 previous novel, the wonderful 鈥淓mperor鈥檚 Children,鈥� sprawled out over more than 400 witty pages to skewer Manhattan鈥檚 young cultural elite. Her new book is an entirely different creature: a tightly wound monologue with the intensity of a novella that reads more like a curse.
What exactly has ruffled the antique doily covering Nora鈥檚 dull, respectable life 鈥� 鈥渁 world in which the day鈥檚 great excitement is the arrival of the Garnet Hill catalog鈥�? What stirred her wrath just as she was settling down to the arthritic realization that 鈥測our life has a shape and a horizon, and that you鈥檒l probably never be president, or a millionaire, and that if you鈥檙e a childless woman, you will quite possibly remain that way鈥�?
It starts with an 8-year-old boy. Reza Shahid is an adorable student from France who joins her third-grade class for a year. One day, after some bullies beat him up, Nora calls Reza鈥檚 mother, Sirena, with the bad news. An Italian married to a Lebanese academic, Sirena is an up-and-coming installation artist. She鈥檚 glamorous and irresistible, the sort of magnetic personality who manipulates with delectable flattery. The two women immediately become friends. Nora vibrates in a state of 鈥渏oyful panic,鈥� her own long-dormant artistic ambitions suddenly bloom, and she dares to unpack her 鈥渓ifelong secret certainty of specialness.鈥�
Anger provides the heat, but the novel鈥檚 real energy comes from its intellectual fuel, its all-consuming analytical drive. Nora and Sirena rent a studio together, and soon they鈥檙e spending weekends and evenings on their art: Sirena鈥檚 piece is a vast, surreal re-creation of Wonderland, while Nora constructs a tiny replica of Emily Dickinson鈥檚 bedroom (鈥淚鈥檓 nobody! Who are you?鈥�). Those disparate art projects suggest what separates these two very different women. Between the heaves of storm, Nora can be an engaging commentator on everything from aesthetics to international relations to aging.
Indeed, awakened by Sirena鈥檚 encouragement from years of narrowly constrained duty, Nora feels aroused and delighted. All should be lovely, but Messud keeps this friendship tightly sealed in Nora鈥檚 obsessive, ruminative voice. There鈥檚 something clammy and claustrophobic about her affection. Soon she鈥檚 babysitting Reza and fantasizing about Sirena鈥檚 husband. You can catch the faint scent of some toxic mold from 鈥淭he Prime of Miss Jean Brodie鈥� or 鈥淣otes on a Scandal鈥� or even 鈥淭he Talented Mr. Ripley.鈥� Yet Nora claims, 鈥淚f you鈥檇 told me my own story about someone else, I would have assured you that this person was completely unhinged鈥� 鈥� demonstrating exactly the kind of self-knowledge that keeps the reader off-balance.
Even as that psychological drama races toward a dark climax, Nora seduces us with her piercing assessment of the way young women are acculturated, the way older women are trapped. 鈥淲hen you鈥檙e a girl, you never let on that you are proud, or that you know you鈥檙e better at history, or biology, or French, than the girl who sits beside you,鈥� she says. 鈥淚t doesn鈥檛 occur to you, as you fashion your mask so carefully, that it will grow into your skin and graft itself, come to seem irremovable.鈥� If Nora is a monster, she鈥檚 also a sympathetic and perceptive victim. But of what? Bad luck? Self-pity? A chauvinistic society?
A more polemic, far less enjoyable novel would hand us the answer. But Messud isn鈥檛 writing an op-ed, and her story鈥檚 feminist critique of America rubs raw against her deconstruction of sisterhood. What eventually rises above these gender issues is Nora鈥檚 pained howl. It doesn鈥檛 matter if you鈥檙e a man or a woman: It鈥檚 hard not to feel your own shameful anxieties and fragile hopes being flayed by these braided strands of confession and blame.
Lean in. I dare you.
March 16, 2017
I don't appreciate art well enough. I don't appreciate literary fiction well enough. I'm all for a quick fix! Review to come later on :)
Oh yea.. forgot I say bloody glad for it to end!
**
I decided to leave this preview prequel here.. kind of says what I was thinking at the time. I had forgotten to review and read this a month ago.
This is good serious literary fiction. Problem being, I don鈥檛 love the genre. I am surrounded by so many books both at work and at home that I continually keep picking up new ones. This is a good thing of course, and I am a lucky happy girl surrounded by my books. In this instance on my lunch break and having forgotten my book due to the usual morning rush, I picked up a lovely unread copy of a book that was on my TBR. Yes, I am able to contain myself to this list, sometimes.
As in (which I loved), art plays a central role. I鈥檓 not an expert here, but those that are more keen will appreciate it more than I, and it鈥檚 a shame that I don鈥檛 as the parallels are there in abundance. Serious themes of obsessive love and self-identity and are paramount here as a smart woman ingratiates herself into the lives of one of her students鈥� families. It鈥檚 a whirlwind of sculpture, love, madness and withholding oneself for that terribly out of reach passionate maddening love. And what an ending it was.
Excellent writing, fantastic really. Just not for moi.
Oh yea.. forgot I say bloody glad for it to end!
**
I decided to leave this preview prequel here.. kind of says what I was thinking at the time. I had forgotten to review and read this a month ago.
This is good serious literary fiction. Problem being, I don鈥檛 love the genre. I am surrounded by so many books both at work and at home that I continually keep picking up new ones. This is a good thing of course, and I am a lucky happy girl surrounded by my books. In this instance on my lunch break and having forgotten my book due to the usual morning rush, I picked up a lovely unread copy of a book that was on my TBR. Yes, I am able to contain myself to this list, sometimes.
As in (which I loved), art plays a central role. I鈥檓 not an expert here, but those that are more keen will appreciate it more than I, and it鈥檚 a shame that I don鈥檛 as the parallels are there in abundance. Serious themes of obsessive love and self-identity and are paramount here as a smart woman ingratiates herself into the lives of one of her students鈥� families. It鈥檚 a whirlwind of sculpture, love, madness and withholding oneself for that terribly out of reach passionate maddening love. And what an ending it was.
Excellent writing, fantastic really. Just not for moi.
June 13, 2013
In the beginning I experienced a couple of jolts, first being reminded of Zoe Heller's because Nora the narrator is a teacher, and an artist, and obsessed with another woman (along with that woman's child and husband); and then of Siri Hustvedt's , because of the miniature rooms that Nora makes. The Neil LaBute film The Shape of Things also came to mind. All about the nature of art, all about obsession of many kinds.
Maybe because I was reminded of those other stories, I thought I didn't like this book at first, but the further I got into it, the more I did as it has its own voice and its own story to tell. Inside Nora's head, at different times, you feel claustrophobic, recognize yourself, get lost in her long sentences and asides, agree with her or want to tell her to 'get a life' -- well, she wants that too. I thought of the quote from Thoreau: "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation."
At the crucial time, I saw the ending coming, but the revelation was delayed for so long that the tension was heightened anyway.
You sense the many literary references even when you're not sure of them and they're woven seamlessly within Nora's thoughts. And then there's the name Nora, evoking Ibsen's for me, as if this Nora is a manipulated doll too, though not in a house, but in one of her own miniature rooms.
Maybe because I was reminded of those other stories, I thought I didn't like this book at first, but the further I got into it, the more I did as it has its own voice and its own story to tell. Inside Nora's head, at different times, you feel claustrophobic, recognize yourself, get lost in her long sentences and asides, agree with her or want to tell her to 'get a life' -- well, she wants that too. I thought of the quote from Thoreau: "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation."
At the crucial time, I saw the ending coming, but the revelation was delayed for so long that the tension was heightened anyway.
You sense the many literary references even when you're not sure of them and they're woven seamlessly within Nora's thoughts. And then there's the name Nora, evoking Ibsen's for me, as if this Nora is a manipulated doll too, though not in a house, but in one of her own miniature rooms.
August 19, 2021
Why is this so low scoring on 欧宝娱乐? I remember when it came out lots of debate about books with an unlikeable main character. Is that really the problem people have with this book, because I loved it, and I loved Nora. She's angry inside, frustrated, sometimes naive, self-absorbed, but so human. Show me a woman who hasn't felt one or all of those things at one time. I thought she was incredibly complex and I loved this story - similar in many ways to Notes on a Scandal by Zoe Heller, which I also love. Nora is a 39 year old school teacher in Cambridge, Ma. Single and frustrated with how she hasn't fulfilled her ambition to be an artist, she meets the Shahid family who are in Cambridge for a year, and falls in love with each of them in turn. But maybe they only appear to love her back. Highly recommended.
June 3, 2013
While I was reading this book a co-worker was celebrating his 30th birthday and a discussion ensued about those big birthays, 20, 30 etc. Then turning to me, who it so happens was the oldest person within earshot, they asked me which one I thought was the hardest. "40," I said, thinking to myself that I had not yet reached the big 6-0 which I anticipate will be excruciating. Not to mention 70 or 80. Then again, there was 40. Where had my youth gone? How did I fritter it away? What had I accomplished? Had I truly settled into this life? Is this what my life was to be? Just this?
So if something exciting and interesting had entered my life just then what would I have done? Would I have clasped onto it like the "woman upstairs"? Would I have obsessed like her? Would I have been blinded beyond reason?
I believe I can answer that with a no. It wouldn't have been like me to do that. But this book realizes, in a disturbing manner, one possible scenario of one woman, an upright, respectable woman who naievely does just that. First let me discuss the "upstairs" part. Think about it. What happens downstairs? Life happens - visitors, meals, parties, the mail gets dropped in the slot. What happens upstairs? Sleeping, dressing, bathing. Quiet, private, routine - normal stuff that everyone does. But let's look at the house like a body. The upstairs is the brain. But the activity, the uncontrollable and the exciting stuff happens below the head. Everything from digestion to sex to stubbing your toe.
So here's this 40-year-old "upstairs" woman who, seething inside over her quiet temporal life, is drawn to an exotic family circle of three - child, woman, man. Being allowed inside this woman's mind was one unsettling read. She even states at one point that noone would share these thoughts. But SHE does. "Please, please, please, stop." I wanted to shout. Reading this was like having tapeworm. There's the inkling that something disturbing is going on and is going to happen. And that feeling just grows and winds its way around inside the reader and at the end. Of course, you find out that yes, you do have tapeworm, you naieve and unknowing numbskull.
But, remember, society thinks she's normal. And, yes, she is - but for this one obsessive year. Perhaps it COULD happen to anyone.
Overall, I found this to be good literature. Some truly unique tangents of thought on art, wise interjections on life and society. This is a book about rooms and houses, art and artists and their worlds - real and created and what happens when those worlds intercept. And what separates those who "achieve" and those who don't.
So if something exciting and interesting had entered my life just then what would I have done? Would I have clasped onto it like the "woman upstairs"? Would I have obsessed like her? Would I have been blinded beyond reason?
I believe I can answer that with a no. It wouldn't have been like me to do that. But this book realizes, in a disturbing manner, one possible scenario of one woman, an upright, respectable woman who naievely does just that. First let me discuss the "upstairs" part. Think about it. What happens downstairs? Life happens - visitors, meals, parties, the mail gets dropped in the slot. What happens upstairs? Sleeping, dressing, bathing. Quiet, private, routine - normal stuff that everyone does. But let's look at the house like a body. The upstairs is the brain. But the activity, the uncontrollable and the exciting stuff happens below the head. Everything from digestion to sex to stubbing your toe.
So here's this 40-year-old "upstairs" woman who, seething inside over her quiet temporal life, is drawn to an exotic family circle of three - child, woman, man. Being allowed inside this woman's mind was one unsettling read. She even states at one point that noone would share these thoughts. But SHE does. "Please, please, please, stop." I wanted to shout. Reading this was like having tapeworm. There's the inkling that something disturbing is going on and is going to happen. And that feeling just grows and winds its way around inside the reader and at the end. Of course, you find out that yes, you do have tapeworm, you naieve and unknowing numbskull.
But, remember, society thinks she's normal. And, yes, she is - but for this one obsessive year. Perhaps it COULD happen to anyone.
Overall, I found this to be good literature. Some truly unique tangents of thought on art, wise interjections on life and society. This is a book about rooms and houses, art and artists and their worlds - real and created and what happens when those worlds intercept. And what separates those who "achieve" and those who don't.
May 9, 2013
I am not sure what to make of this novel because I found much of it vaguely disturbing. Nora is the good girl, someone who one can count on, someone who has always tried to do the right thing, and she is our unreliable narrator. She has in her class the young son of a Lebanese father and a Italian mother, a mother who is an artist which is what Nora had aspired to become. She puts together small dioramas of famous rooms and people and feels in many ways that life has passed her by, a life that is once again illuminated by this family. She becomes obsessed with this family, which brings us to a betrayal and a chance of reemergence for Nora. This novel is slowly paced, drawn out as the reader learns of Nora's earlier life and what has led to this situation. I am not sure how I felt about this, as many times I almost quit reading but was than drawn back in by a phrase or observation. This was a different psychological novel, was good but I never became quite attached to the character of Nora. To me she seemed whiny much of the time and this has never appealed to me in a character.
September 29, 2015
This one bounced around in my head for a few days 鈥� three stars? No four stars! No鈥hree stars. Maybe four stars? Ultimately I landed on 3.5 stars, rounding down to a very strong 3 STARS. I thoroughly enjoyed the book but I struggled mightily with the ending. Let me circle back to that a bit later.
I wonder if those who exude self-confidence when they walk into a room would be bored to death by this book. I wonder if those steeped in soaring self-esteem and dogged self-assuredness would scoff at the story鈥檚 main character. I wonder if those who wear iron fisted command and control on their sleeves would abandon this read after the first few pages. Would an extrovert, flamboyant or otherwise, stare blankly at the pages thinking WTF is this all about?
But if at times it feels like life has passed you by when you blinked your eyes. Or somehow, somewhere you lost your inner voice or maybe never developed a true inner voice of your very own. If maybe your perception of circumstances and challenges of life turned you far away from your aspirations and dreams onto a path somehow dictated by validation by others, you might just fall for Nora Eldridge. During parts of this book I deeply understood her flawed thought process and floated on a sea of empathy for her. At other times, not so much. I wanted to yell, 鈥淲ake up and live!鈥�
Nora Marie Eldridge is forty-two years old and up until recently was a third grade school teacher at Appleton Elementary School in Cambridge. She was supposed to be a great artist by now with lots of children. Entering middle age she is a good girl, a dutiful daughter, a favorite teacher who really 鈥済ot鈥� her kids, a straight-A, straight laced student, very self-controlled in her classroom. Nora sees herself as neither young nor old, neither pretty nor plain, not married nor divorced but just single, childless, a spinster in another era. She is the invisible, innocuous woman living at the far end of the hallway on the third floor of the apartment building, tidy, neat, clean, and quiet, The Woman Upstairs 鈥� but furious and full of rage! She wants to make her nothingness count! Her life has been a Fun House, distorted, misunderstood, misrepresented and misleading; a masquerade! She has her art in the classroom and lots of children but this was absolutely NOT what she had in mind in Mr. Crace鈥檚 art classroom in high school when she decided to become an artist.
Nora tells her story when at 37 years old she entered her Shahid years! Reza Shahid is 8 years old and the newest student in her class. His mother Sirena, Italian by birth, is a true professional artist, exhibiting her work in Paris and New York. Both Reza and Sirena are in Cambridge for the next year while Skandar Shahib, a college professor of Lebanese decent in Paris, completes his fellowship at Harvard University to write his book about ethics and history. When Reza is bullied at school, Nora meets Sirena and the seeds of her emotionally distorted relationship with the Shahids are planted and take very deep roots. Over the next year Nora is infatuated with the Shahids, shares a studio in Somerville with Sirena, baby sits for Reza and takes long walks home from the Shahid鈥檚 Cambridge condo to Nora鈥檚 apartment building with Skandar. The Shahids are her family, Reza her child. She feels electric and alive with them but she never vocalizes her feelings. The real Shahids are very different than Nora鈥檚 Wonderland fantasy of them.
This story is an interesting psychological exploration of middle age, missed opportunities and perceptions and assumptions about life and how those assumptions bump up against reality. For Nora the Shahids are her version of Chehvok鈥檚 Black Monks, the ones that would uncover, liberate and unfurl the real Nora Eldridge, long ago buried under years of acquiescence to external demands and expectations. After five years of the Shahids she realizes she鈥檚 still in the Fun House and she's PISSED!
The ending was out of the blue, a ferocious twist that blew me away. My complaint is the end was so swift and sudden I was left feeling unsatisfied and unsatiated, longing for so much more. The psychological exploration was decent but not nearly deep enough for my tastes. The writing was hypnotic and fluid, coaxing me on from page to page to page. But I feel another 70-100 pages could have made this a glorious 5 STAR read.
Nonetheless, I am very happy I experienced the life of Nora Marie Eldridge!
My friend Kelli had a completely different reaction to this book. Click through to read her insightful review /review/show...
I wonder if those who exude self-confidence when they walk into a room would be bored to death by this book. I wonder if those steeped in soaring self-esteem and dogged self-assuredness would scoff at the story鈥檚 main character. I wonder if those who wear iron fisted command and control on their sleeves would abandon this read after the first few pages. Would an extrovert, flamboyant or otherwise, stare blankly at the pages thinking WTF is this all about?
But if at times it feels like life has passed you by when you blinked your eyes. Or somehow, somewhere you lost your inner voice or maybe never developed a true inner voice of your very own. If maybe your perception of circumstances and challenges of life turned you far away from your aspirations and dreams onto a path somehow dictated by validation by others, you might just fall for Nora Eldridge. During parts of this book I deeply understood her flawed thought process and floated on a sea of empathy for her. At other times, not so much. I wanted to yell, 鈥淲ake up and live!鈥�
Nora Marie Eldridge is forty-two years old and up until recently was a third grade school teacher at Appleton Elementary School in Cambridge. She was supposed to be a great artist by now with lots of children. Entering middle age she is a good girl, a dutiful daughter, a favorite teacher who really 鈥済ot鈥� her kids, a straight-A, straight laced student, very self-controlled in her classroom. Nora sees herself as neither young nor old, neither pretty nor plain, not married nor divorced but just single, childless, a spinster in another era. She is the invisible, innocuous woman living at the far end of the hallway on the third floor of the apartment building, tidy, neat, clean, and quiet, The Woman Upstairs 鈥� but furious and full of rage! She wants to make her nothingness count! Her life has been a Fun House, distorted, misunderstood, misrepresented and misleading; a masquerade! She has her art in the classroom and lots of children but this was absolutely NOT what she had in mind in Mr. Crace鈥檚 art classroom in high school when she decided to become an artist.
Nora tells her story when at 37 years old she entered her Shahid years! Reza Shahid is 8 years old and the newest student in her class. His mother Sirena, Italian by birth, is a true professional artist, exhibiting her work in Paris and New York. Both Reza and Sirena are in Cambridge for the next year while Skandar Shahib, a college professor of Lebanese decent in Paris, completes his fellowship at Harvard University to write his book about ethics and history. When Reza is bullied at school, Nora meets Sirena and the seeds of her emotionally distorted relationship with the Shahids are planted and take very deep roots. Over the next year Nora is infatuated with the Shahids, shares a studio in Somerville with Sirena, baby sits for Reza and takes long walks home from the Shahid鈥檚 Cambridge condo to Nora鈥檚 apartment building with Skandar. The Shahids are her family, Reza her child. She feels electric and alive with them but she never vocalizes her feelings. The real Shahids are very different than Nora鈥檚 Wonderland fantasy of them.
This story is an interesting psychological exploration of middle age, missed opportunities and perceptions and assumptions about life and how those assumptions bump up against reality. For Nora the Shahids are her version of Chehvok鈥檚 Black Monks, the ones that would uncover, liberate and unfurl the real Nora Eldridge, long ago buried under years of acquiescence to external demands and expectations. After five years of the Shahids she realizes she鈥檚 still in the Fun House and she's PISSED!
The ending was out of the blue, a ferocious twist that blew me away. My complaint is the end was so swift and sudden I was left feeling unsatisfied and unsatiated, longing for so much more. The psychological exploration was decent but not nearly deep enough for my tastes. The writing was hypnotic and fluid, coaxing me on from page to page to page. But I feel another 70-100 pages could have made this a glorious 5 STAR read.
Nonetheless, I am very happy I experienced the life of Nora Marie Eldridge!
My friend Kelli had a completely different reaction to this book. Click through to read her insightful review /review/show...
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