Wali's bookshelf: all en-US Fri, 25 Apr 2025 08:50:07 -0700 60 Wali's bookshelf: all 144 41 /images/layout/goodreads_logo_144.jpg <![CDATA[What Color Is Your Parachute? A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers]]> 6932 382 Richard Nelson Bolles 1580087949 Wali 0 3.60 1970 What Color Is Your Parachute? A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers
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The Prince 28862
1. So it is that to know the nature of a people, one need be a Prince; to know the nature of a Prince, one need to be of the people.
2. If a Prince is not given to vices that make him hated, it is unsusal for his subjects to show their affection for him.
3. Opportunity made Moses, Cyrus, Romulus, Theseus, and others; their virtue domi-nated the opportunity, making their homelands noble and happy. Armed prophets win; the disarmed lose.
4. Without faith and religion, man achieves power but not glory.
5. Prominent citizens want to command and oppress; the populace only wants to be free of oppression.
6. A Prince needs a friendly populace; otherwise in diversity there is no hope.
7. A Prince, who rules as a man of valor, avoids disasters,
8. Nations based on mercenary forces will never be solid or secure.
9. Mercenaries are dangerous because of their cowardice
10. There are two ways to fight: one with laws, the other with force. The first is rightly man’s way; the second, the way of beasts.]]>
144 Niccolò Machiavelli 0937832383 Wali 0 3.85 1513 The Prince
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<![CDATA[The Emperor's New Drugs: Exploding the Antidepressant Myth]]> 6943460 Everyone knows that antidepressant drugs are miracles of modern medicine. Professor Irving Kirsch knew this as well as anyone. But, as he discovered during his research, there is a problem with what everyone knows about antidepressant drugs. It isn't true.

How did antidepressant drugs gain their reputation as a magic bullet for depression? And why has it taken so long for the story to become public? Answering these questions takes us to the point where the lines between clinical research and marketing disappear altogether.

Using the Freedom of Information Act, Kirsch accessed clinical trials that were withheld, by drug companies, from the public and from the doctors who prescribe antidepressants. What he found, and what he documents here, promises to bring revolutionary change to the way our society perceives, and consumes, antidepressants.

The Emperor's New Drugs exposes what we have failed to see before: depression is not caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain; antidepressants are significantly more dangerous than other forms of treatment and are only marginally more effective than placebos; and, there are other ways to combat depression, treatments that don't only include the empty promise of the antidepressant prescription.

This is not a book about alternative medicine and its outlandish claims. This is a book about fantasy and wishful thinking in the heart of clinical medicine, about the seductions of myth, and the final stubbornness of facts.]]>
256 Irving Kirsch 1847920837 Wali 0 4.12 2009 The Emperor's New Drugs: Exploding the Antidepressant Myth
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<![CDATA[Radical Candor: Be a Kickass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity]]> 29939161
"I raced through Radical Candor --It’s thrilling to learn a framework that shows how to be both a better boss and a better colleague. Radical Candor is packed with illuminating truths, insightful advice, and practical suggestions, all illustrated with engaging (and often funny) stories from Kim Scott’s own experiences at places like Apple, Google, and various start-ups. Indispensable." � Gretchen Rubin author of New York Times bestseller The Happiness Project

"Reading Radical Candor will help you build, lead, and inspire teams to do the best work of their lives. Kim Scott's insights--based on her experience, keen observational intelligence and analysis--will help you be a better leader and create a more effective organization." � Sheryl Sandberg author of the New York Times bestseller Lean In

"Kim Scott has a well-earned reputation as a kick-ass boss and a voice that CEOs take seriously. In this remarkable book, she draws on her extensive experience to provide clear and honest guidance on the fundamentals of leading others: how to give (and receive) feedback, how to make smart decisions, how to keep moving forward, and much more. If you manage people--whether it be 1 person or a 1,000--you need Radical Candor . Now." � Daniel Pink author of New York Times bestseller Drive

From the time we learn to speak, we’re told that if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. When you become a manager, it’s your job to say it--and your obligation.

Author Kim Scott was an executive at Google and then at Apple, where she worked with a team to develop a class on how to be a good boss. She has earned growing fame in recent years with her vital new approach to effective management, Radical Candor.

Radical Candor is a simple idea: to be a good boss, you have to Care Personally at the same time that you Challenge Directly. When you challenge without caring it’s obnoxious aggression; when you care without challenging it’s ruinous empathy. When you do neither it’s manipulative insincerity.

This simple framework can help you build better relationships at work, and fulfill your three key responsibilities as a leader: creating a culture of feedback (praise and criticism), building a cohesive team, and achieving results you’re all proud of.

Radical Candor offers a guide to those bewildered or exhausted by management, written for bosses and those who manage bosses. Taken from years of the author’s experience, and distilled clearly giving actionable lessons to the reader; it shows managers how to be successful while retaining their humanity, finding meaning in their job, and creating an environment where people both love their work and their colleagues.]]>
336 Kim Malone Scott 1250103509 Wali 0 4.05 2017 Radical Candor: Be a Kickass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity
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<![CDATA[Ultra-Processed People: The Science Behind Food That Isn't Food]]> 62586003 A manifesto to change how you eat and how you think about the human body.

It’s not you, it’s the food.

We have entered a new age of eating. For the first time in human history, most of our calories come from an entirely novel set of substances called Ultra-Processed Food. There’s a long, formal scientific definition, but it can be boiled down to this: if it’s wrapped in plastic and has at least one ingredient that you wouldn’t find in your kitchen, it’s UPF.

These products are specifically engineered to behave as addictive substances, driving excess consumption. They are now linked to the leading cause of early death globally and the number one cause of environmental destruction. Yet almost all our staple foods are ultra-processed. UPF is our food culture and for many people it is the only available and affordable food.

In this book, Chris van Tulleken, father, scientist, doctor, and award-winning BBC broadcaster, marshals the latest evidence to show how governments, scientists, and doctors have allowed transnational food companies to create a pandemic of diet-related disease. The solutions don’t lie in willpower, personal responsibility, or exercise. You’ll find no diet plan in this book―but join Chris as he undertakes a powerful self-experiment that made headlines around the world: under the supervision of colleagues at University College London he spent a month eating a diet of 80 percent UPF, typical for many children and adults in the United States. While his body became the subject of scientific scrutiny, he spoke to the world’s leading experts from academia, agriculture, and―most important―the food industry itself. But more than teaching him about the experience of the food, the diet switched off Chris’s own addiction to UPF.

In a fast-paced and eye-opening narrative he explores the origins, science, and economics of UPF to reveal its catastrophic impact on our bodies and the planet. And he proposes real solutions for doctors, for policy makers, and for all of us who have to eat. A book that won’t only upend the way you shop and eat, Ultra-Processed People will open your eyes to the need for action on a global scale.]]>
384 Chris van Tulleken 1324036729 Wali 0 4.40 2023 Ultra-Processed People: The Science Behind Food That Isn't Food
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<![CDATA[The China Study: The Most Comprehensive Study of Nutrition Ever Conducted and the Startling Implications for Diet, Weight Loss, and Long-term Health]]> 178788
In The China Study, Dr. T. Colin Campbell details the connection between nutrition and heart disease, diabetes, and cancer. The report also examines the source of nutritional confusion produced by powerful lobbies, government entities, and opportunistic scientists. The New York Times has recognized the study as the “Grand Prix of epidemiology� and the “most comprehensive large study ever undertaken of the relationship between diet and the risk of developing disease.�

The China Study is not a diet book. Dr. Campbell cuts through the haze of misinformation and delivers an insightful message to anyone living with cancer, diabetes, heart disease, obesity, and those concerned with the effects of aging.]]>
419 T. Colin Campbell 1932100660 Wali 0 4.22 2004 The China Study: The Most Comprehensive Study of Nutrition Ever Conducted and the Startling Implications for Diet, Weight Loss, and Long-term Health
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<![CDATA[Around the World in Eighty Days]]> 8200487 150 Jules Verne Wali 3 4.15 1872 Around the World in Eighty Days
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<![CDATA[How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk]]> 164277
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish transformed parenting with their breakthrough, bestselling books Siblings Without Rivalry and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. Now, they return with this essential guide that tackles the tough issues teens and parents face today.

Filled with straightforward advice and written in their trademark, down-to-earth style sure to appeal to both parents and teens, this all-new volume offers both innovative, easy-to-implement suggestions and proven techniques to build the foundation for lasting relationships. From curfews and cliques to sex and drugs, it gives parents the tools to help their children safely navigate the often stormy years of adolescence]]>
224 Adele Faber 0060741252 Wali 0 3.92 2005 How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk
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<![CDATA[Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain]]> 721609

Did you know you can beat stress, lift your mood, fight memory loss, sharpen your intellect, and function better than ever simply by elevating your heart rate and breaking a sweat? The evidence is incontrovertible: Aerobic exercise physically remodels our brains for peak performance.

In SPARK, John J. Ratey, M.D., embarks upon a fascinating and entertaining journey through the mind-body connection, presenting startling research to prove that exercise is truly our best defense against everything from depression to ADD to addiction to aggression to menopause to Alzheimer's. Filled with amazing case studies (such as the revolutionary fitness program in Naperville, Illinois, which has put this school district of 19,000 kids first in the world of science test scores), SPARK is the first book to explore comprehensively the connection between exercise and the brain. It will change forever the way you think about your morning run---or, for that matter, simply the way you think]]>
294 John J. Ratey 0316113506 Wali 0 4.11 2008 Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain
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Lincoln the Unknown 127876 The Unknown Lincoln is a biography on Abraham Lincoln, written in 1932 by Dale Carnegie. The book offers an inspiring glimpse into Lincoln's legendary life: the hardships of his early years, the difficulties of his White House days, his tragicomic marriage, and the war with the South.]]> 256 Dale Carnegie 0899683207 Wali 0 4.24 1932 Lincoln the Unknown
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<![CDATA[Feeling Great: The Revolutionary New Treatment for Depression and Anxiety]]> 54930681 Feeling Great is based on 40 years of research and more than 40,000 hours treating individuals with severe mood problems. The goal is not just a rapid and complete elimination of negative feelings but the development of joy and enlightenment.

In Feeling Great, Dr. David Burns reveals that our negative moods do not result from what's wrong with us, but rather--what's right with us. And when you listen and suddenly hear what your negative thoughts and feelings are trying to tell you, suddenly you won't need them anymore, and recovery will be just a stone's throw away.

Dr. Burns will provide you with inspiring and mind-blowing case studies along with more than 50 amazing tools to crush the negative thoughts that rob you of happiness and self-esteem.

Are you tired of feeling

Down, depressed, or unhappy?

Anxious, panicky, or insecure?

You can change the way you feel!

You owe it to yourself to FEEL GREAT!]]>
735 David D. Burns 1683733010 Wali 0 4.26 2020 Feeling Great: The Revolutionary New Treatment for Depression and Anxiety
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<![CDATA[Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End]]> 20696006 In Being Mortal, author Atul Gawande tackles the hardest challenge of his profession: how medicine can not only improve life but also the process of its ending

Medicine has triumphed in modern times, transforming birth, injury, and infectious disease from harrowing to manageable. But in the inevitable condition of aging and death, the goals of medicine seem too frequently to run counter to the interest of the human spirit. Nursing homes, preoccupied with safety, pin patients into railed beds and wheelchairs. Hospitals isolate the dying, checking for vital signs long after the goals of cure have become moot. Doctors, committed to extending life, continue to carry out devastating procedures that in the end extend suffering.

Gawande, a practicing surgeon, addresses his profession's ultimate limitation, arguing that quality of life is the desired goal for patients and families. Gawande offers examples of freer, more socially fulfilling models for assisting the infirm and dependent elderly, and he explores the varieties of hospice care to demonstrate that a person's last weeks or months may be rich and dignified.]]>
282 Atul Gawande 0805095152 Wali 0 4.47 2014 Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End
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When Breath Becomes Air 25899336
At the age of thirty-six, on the verge of completing a decade's worth of training as a neurosurgeon, Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. One day he was a doctor treating the dying, and the next he was a patient struggling to live. And just like that, the future he and his wife had imagined evaporated. When Breath Becomes Air chronicles Kalanithi's transformation from a naïve medical student "possessed," as he wrote, "by the question of what, given that all organisms die, makes a virtuous and meaningful life" into a neurosurgeon at Stanford working in the brain, the most critical place for human identity, and finally into a patient and new father confronting his own mortality.

What makes life worth living in the face of death? What do you do when the future, no longer a ladder toward your goals in life, flattens out into a perpetual present? What does it mean to have a child, to nurture a new life as another fades away? These are some of the questions Kalanithi wrestles with in this profoundly moving, exquisitely observed memoir.

Paul Kalanithi died in March 2015, while working on this book, yet his words live on as a guide and a gift to us all. "I began to realize that coming face to face with my own mortality, in a sense, had changed nothing and everything," he wrote. "Seven words from Samuel Beckett began to repeat in my head: 'I can't go on. I'll go on.'" When Breath Becomes Air is an unforgettable, life-affirming reflection on the challenge of facing death and on the relationship between doctor and patient, from a brilliant writer who became both.]]>
208 Paul Kalanithi 0812988418 Wali 0 4.41 2016 When Breath Becomes Air
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<![CDATA[The Emperor of All Maladies: A Biography of Cancer]]> 7170627 An alternative cover edition for this ISBN can be found here and here.

The Emperor of All Maladies is a magnificent, profoundly humane “biography� of cancer - from its first documented appearances thousands of years ago through the epic battles in the twentieth century to cure, control, and conquer it to a radical new understanding of its essence.

Physician, researcher, and award-winning science writer, Siddhartha Mukherjee examines cancer with a cellular biologist’s precision, a historian’s perspective, and a biographer’s passion. The result is an astonishingly lucid and eloquent chronicle of a disease humans have lived with - and perished from - for more than five thousand years.

The story of cancer is a story of human ingenuity, resilience, and perseverance, but also of hubris, paternalism, and misperception. Mukherjee recounts centuries of discoveries, setbacks, victories, and deaths, told through the eyes of his predecessors and peers, training their wits against an infinitely resourceful adversary that, just three decades ago, was thought to be easily vanquished in an all-out “war against cancer.�

The book reads like a literary thriller with cancer as the protagonist. From the Persian Queen Atossa, whose Greek slave cut off her malignant breast, to the nineteenth-century recipients of primitive radiation and chemotherapy to Mukherjee’s own leukemia patient, Carla, The Emperor of All Maladies is about the people who have soldiered through fiercely demanding regimens in order to survive—and to increase our understanding of this iconic disease.

Riveting, urgent, and surprising, The Emperor of All Maladies provides a fascinating glimpse into the future of cancer treatments. It is an illuminating book that provides hope and clarity to those seeking to demystify cancer.]]>
571 Siddhartha Mukherjee Wali 0 4.32 2010 The Emperor of All Maladies: A Biography of Cancer
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<![CDATA[Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too]]> 12816644 288 Adele Faber 0393342212 Wali 0 4.19 1972 Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too
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<![CDATA[Teach Like Your Hair's on Fire: The Methods and Madness Inside Room 56]]> 42601
From one of America’s most celebrated educators, an inspiring guide to transforming every child’s education

In a Los Angeles neighborhood plagued by guns, gangs, and drugs, there is an exceptional classroom known as Room 56. The fifth graders inside are first-generation immigrants who live in poverty and speak English as a second language. They also play Vivaldi, perform Shakespeare, score in the top 1 percent on standardized tests, and go on to attend Ivy League universities. Rafe Esquith is the teacher responsible for these accomplishments. From the man whom The New York Times calls “a genius and a saint� comes a revelatory program for educating today’s youth. In Teach Like Your Hair’s on Fire! , Rafe Esquith reveals the techniques that have made him one of the most acclaimed educators of our time. The two mottoes in Esquith’s classroom are “Be Nice, Work Hard,� and “There Are No Shortcuts.� His students voluntarily come to school at 6:30 in the morning and work until 5:00 in the afternoon. They learn to handle money responsibly, tackle algebra, and travel the country to study history. They pair Hamlet with rock and roll, and read the American classics. Teach Like Your Hair’s on Fire! is a brilliant and inspiring road map for parents, teachers, and anyone who cares about the future success of our nation’s children.]]>
256 Rafe Esquith 0670038156 Wali 0 3.93 2007 Teach Like Your Hair's on Fire: The Methods and Madness Inside Room 56
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<![CDATA[Teaching with Love and Logic: Taking Control of the Classroom]]> 139836 399 Jim Fay 0944634486 Wali 0 4.12 1995 Teaching with Love and Logic: Taking Control of the Classroom
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<![CDATA[Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise and Other Bribes]]> 541132 Punished By Rewards presents an argument unsettling to hear but impossible to dismiss.]]> 398 Alfie Kohn 0395710901 Wali 0 4.17 1993 Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise and Other Bribes
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<![CDATA[Free to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life]]> 15843125
In Free to Learn, developmental psychologist Peter Gray argues that our children, if free to pursue their own interests through play, will not only learn all they need to know, but will do so with energy and passion. Children come into this world burning to learn, equipped with the curiosity, playfulness, and sociability to direct their own education. Yet we have squelched such instincts in a school model originally developed to indoctrinate, not to promote intellectual growth.

To foster children who will thrive in today’s constantly changing world, we must entrust them to steer their own learning and development. Drawing on evidence from anthropology, psychology, and history, Gray demonstrates that free play is the primary means by which children learn to control their lives, solve problems, get along with peers, and become emotionally resilient. This capacity to learn through play evolved long ago, in hunter-gatherer bands where children acquired the skills of the culture through their own initiatives. And these instincts still operate remarkably well today, as studies at alternative, democratically administered schools show. When children are in charge of their own education, they learn better—and at lower cost than the traditional model of coercive schooling.

A brave, counterintuitive proposal for freeing our children from the shackles of the curiosity-killing institution we call school, Free to Learn suggests that it’s time to stop asking what’s wrong with our children, and start asking what’s wrong with the system. It shows how we can act—both as parents and as members of society—to improve children’s lives and promote their happiness and learning.]]>
288 Peter O. Gray 0465025994 Wali 0 4.24 2013 Free to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life
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<![CDATA[Make It Stick: The Science of Successful Learning]]> 18770267 Make It Stick turns fashionable ideas like these on their head. Drawing on recent discoveries in cognitive psychology and other disciplines, the authors offer concrete techniques for becoming more productive learners.

Memory plays a central role in our ability to carry out complex cognitive tasks, such as applying knowledge to problems never before encountered and drawing inferences from facts already known. New insights into how memory is encoded, consolidated, and later retrieved have led to a better understanding of how we learn. Grappling with the impediments that make learning challenging leads both to more complex mastery and better retention of what was learned.

Many common study habits and practice routines turn out to be counterproductive. Underlining and highlighting, rereading, cramming, and single-minded repetition of new skills create the illusion of mastery, but gains fade quickly. More complex and durable learning come from self-testing, introducing certain difficulties in practice, waiting to re-study new material until a little forgetting has set in, and interleaving the practice of one skill or topic with another. Speaking most urgently to students, teachers, trainers, and athletes, Make It Stick will appeal to all those interested in the challenge of lifelong learning and self-improvement.]]>
313 Peter C. Brown 0674729013 Wali 0 4.14 2014 Make It Stick: The Science of Successful Learning
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<![CDATA[Gödel, Escher, Bach: An Eternal Golden Braid]]> 24113 777 Douglas R. Hofstadter 0465026567 Wali 0 4.29 1979 Gödel, Escher, Bach: An Eternal Golden Braid
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<![CDATA[Out of Our Minds: Learning to Be Creative]]> 77503
'If ever there was a time when creativity was necessary for the survival and growth of any organization, it is now. This book, more than any other I know, provides important insights on how leaders can evoke and sustain those creative juices.' WARREN BENNIS]]>
288 Ken Robinson 1841121258 Wali 0 to-read 3.93 2001 Out of Our Minds: Learning to Be Creative
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الغذاء لا الدواء 18081727 512 صبري القباني Wali 0 3.67 1965 الغذاء لا الدواء
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<![CDATA[Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing]]> 50900861 Revised edition of the best-selling memoir that has been read by over a million people worldwide with translations in 29 languages.

After too many years of unfulfilling work, Bronnie Ware began searching for a job with heart. Despite having no formal qualifications or previous experience in the field, she found herself working in palliative care. During the time she spent tending to those who were dying, Bronnie's life was transformed. Later, she wrote an Internet blog post, outlining the most common regrets that the people she had cared for had expressed. The post gained so much momentum that it was viewed by more than three million readers worldwide in its first year. At the request of many, Bronnie subsequently wrote a book, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, to share her story.

Bronnie has had a colourful and diverse life. By applying the lessons of those nearing their death to her own life, she developed an understanding that it is possible for everyone, if we make the right choices, to die with peace of mind.

In this revised edition of the best-selling memoir that has been read by over a million people worldwide, with translations in 29 languages, Bronnie expresses how significant these regrets are and how we can positively address these issues while we still have the time. The Top Five Regrets of the Dying gives hope for a better world. It is a courageous, life-changing book that will leave you feeling more compassionate and inspired to live the life you are truly here to live.]]>
316 Bronnie Ware 1401956017 Wali 0 article-turned-to-book 3.90 2011 Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing
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Bullshit Jobs: A Theory 34466958 From bestselling writer David Graeber, a powerful argument against the rise of meaningless, unfulfilling jobs, and their consequences.

Does your job make a meaningful contribution to the world? In the spring of 2013, David Graeber asked this question in a playful, provocative essay titled “On the Phenomenon of Bullshit Jobs.� It went viral. After a million online views in seventeen different languages, people all over the world are still debating the answer.

There are millions of people—HR consultants, communication coordinators, telemarketing researchers, corporate lawyers—whose jobs are useless, and, tragically, they know it. These people are caught in bullshit jobs.

Graeber explores one of society’s most vexing and deeply felt concerns, indicting among other villains a particular strain of finance capitalism that betrays ideals shared by thinkers ranging from Keynes to Lincoln. Bullshit Jobs gives individuals, corporations, and societies permission to undergo a shift in values, placing creative and caring work at the center of our culture. This book is for everyone who wants to turn their vocation back into an avocation.]]>
335 David Graeber 150114331X Wali 0 4.03 2018 Bullshit Jobs: A Theory
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<![CDATA[The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert]]> 849380 271 John M. Gottman 0609805797 Wali 0 4.23 1999 The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
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<![CDATA[Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom]]> 199754 368 William Glasser 0060930144 Wali 0 4.00 1998 Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom
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<![CDATA[Parent Effectiveness Training: The Proven Program for Raising Responsible Children]]> 165548
P.E.T., or Parent Effectiveness Training, began in 1962 as the first national parent-training program to teach parents how to communicate more effectively with kids and offer step-by-step advice to resolve family conflicts so everybody wins. This beloved classic is the most studied, highly praised, and proven parenting program in the world—and it will work for you. Now revised and updated, this groundbreaking guide will show

� How to avoid being a permissive parent
� How to listen so kids will talk to you and talk so kids will listen to you
� How to teach your children to “own� their problems and to solve them
� How to apply the “No Lose� method to resolve conflicts

Using the timeless methods of P.E.T. will have immediate less fighting, fewer tantrums and lies, no need for punishment. Whether you have a toddler striking out for independence or a teenager who has already started rebelling, you’ll find P.E.T. a compassionate, effective way to instill responsibility and create a nurturing family environment in which your child will thrive.]]>
384 Thomas Gordon 0609806939 Wali 0 4.25 1970 Parent Effectiveness Training: The Proven Program for Raising Responsible Children
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Between Parent and Child 256004
In this revised edition, Dr. Alice Ginott, clinical psychologist and wife of the late Haim Ginott, and family relationship specialist Dr. H. Wallace Goddard usher this bestselling classic into the new century while retaining the book’s positive message and Haim Ginott’s warm, accessible voice. Based on the theory that parenting is a skill that can be learned, this indispensable handbook will show you how to:
� Discipline without threats, bribes, sarcasm, and punishment
� Criticize without demeaning, praise without judging, and express anger without hurting
� Acknowledge rather than argue with children’s feelings, perceptions, and opinions
� Respond so that children will learn to trust and develop self-confidence

This revolutionary book offered a straightforward prescription for empathetic yet disciplined child rearing and introduced new communication techniques that would change the way parents spoke with, and listened to, their children. Dr. Ginott’s innovative approach to parenting has influenced an entire generation of experts in the field, and now his methods can work for you, too.]]>
256 Haim G. Ginott 0609809881 Wali 0 4.26 1965 Between Parent and Child
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<![CDATA[Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart of Parenting]]> 213186 Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child is John Gottman’s groundbreaking guide to teaching children to understand and regulate their emotional world.

Intelligence That Comes from the Heart

Every parent knows the importance of equipping children with the intellectual skills they need to succeed in school and life. But children also need to master their emotions. Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child is a guide to teaching children to understand and regulate their emotional world. And as acclaimed psychologist and researcher John Gottman shows, once they master this important life skill, emotionally intelligent children will enjoy increased self-confidence, greater physical health, better performance in school, and healthier social relationships. Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child will equip parents with a five-step “emotion coaching� process that teaches how to:

-Be aware of a child's emotions
-Recognize emotional expression as an opportunity for intimacy and teaching
-Listen empathetically and validate a child's feelings
-Label emotions in words a child can understand
-Help a child come up with an appropriate way to solve a problem or deal with an upsetting issue or situation

Written for parents of children of all ages, Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child will enrich the bonds between parent and child and contribute immeasurably to the development of a generation of emotionally healthy adults.]]>
240 John M. Gottman 0684838656 Wali 0 4.17 1997 Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart of Parenting
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<![CDATA[The Whole-Brain Child: Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind]]> 10353369
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight, and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson demystify the meltdowns and aggravation, explaining the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures. The “upstairs brain,� which makes decisions and balances emotions, is under construction until the mid-twenties. And especially in young children, the right brain and its emotions tend to rule over the logic of the left brain. No wonder kids can seem—and feel—so out of control. By applying these discoveries to everyday parenting, you can turn any outburst, argument, or fear into a chance to integrate your child’s brain and foster vital growth. Raise calmer, happier children using twelve key strategies, including

Name It to Tame It: Corral raging right-brain behavior through left-brain storytelling, appealing to the left brain’s affinity for words and reasoning to calm emotional storms and bodily tension.
Engage, Don’t Enrage: Keep your child thinking and listening, instead of purely reacting.
Move It or Lose It: Use physical activities to shift your child’s emotional state.
Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By: Guide your children when they are stuck on a negative emotion, and help them understand that feelings come and go.
SIFT: Help children pay attention to the Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts within them so that they can make better decisions and be more flexible.
Connect Through Conflict: Use discord to encourage empathy and greater social success.

Complete with clear explanations, age-appropriate strategies for dealing with day-to-day struggles, and illustrations that will help you explain these concepts to your child, The Whole-Brain Child shows you how to cultivate healthy emotional and intellectual development so that your children can lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives.]]>
192 Daniel J. Siegel 0553807919 Wali 0 4.25 2011 The Whole-Brain Child: Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
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<![CDATA[What to Expect When You're Expecting]]> 174703 597 Heidi Murkoff 0761121323 Wali 0 3.77 1984 What to Expect When You're Expecting
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<![CDATA[How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success]]> 23168823
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.

Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.

"Julie Lythcott-Haims is a national treasure. . . . A must-read for every parent who senses that there is a healthier and saner way to raise our children." -Madeline Levine, author of the New York Times bestsellers The Price of Privilege and Teach Your Children Well

"For parents who want to foster hearty self-reliance instead of hollow self-esteem, How to Raise an Adult is the right book at the right time." -Daniel H. Pink, author of the New York Times bestsellers Drive and A Whole New Mind]]>
368 Julie Lythcott-Haims 1627791779 Wali 0 4.07 2015 How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
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<![CDATA[Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason]]> 111209 One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send.
More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting � including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.]]>
272 Alfie Kohn 0743487486 Wali 0 4.15 2005 Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
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Parenting With Love and Logic 46186
Establish healthy control through easy-to-implement steps without anger, threats, nagging, or power struggles.]]>
272 Foster W. Cline 1576839540 Wali 0 4.04 1990 Parenting With Love and Logic
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<![CDATA[The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity]]> 49348225 "A masterly book" --Nassim Nicholas Taleb, author of The Black Swan
"A classic" --Simon Kuper, Financial Times

In the spirit of On Bullshit and Assholes: A Theory, an economist explores the five laws that confirm our worst fears: stupid people can and do rule the world

Since time immemorial, a powerful dark force has hindered the growth of human welfare and happiness. It is more powerful than the Mafia or the military. It has global catastrophic effects and can be found anywhere from the world's most powerful boardrooms to your local pub. This is the immensely powerful force of human stupidity.

Seeing the shambolic state of human affairs, and sensing the dark force at work behind it, Carlo M. Cipolla, the late, noted professor of economic history at the University of California, Berkeley, created a vitally important economic model that would allow us to detect, know, and neutralize this threat: The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity.

If you've ever found yourself despairing at the ubiquity of stupidity among even the most 'intellectual' of people, then this hilarious, timely, and slightly alarming little book is for you. Arm yourself in the face of baffling political realities, unreasonable colleagues, or the unbridled misery of Christmas day with the in-laws with the first and only economic model for stupidity.

"Cipolla's subtle tongue-in-cheek humor made this book an underground classic in Italy. Today, under current worldwide political trends, it reads more like black humor. Keep in mind: reliable statistical data shows that 98% of the people seriously believe that they are far less stupid than the average." --Carlo Rovelli, author of Seven Brief Lessons on Physics]]>
96 Carlo M. Cipolla 0385546475 Wali 0 3.78 1976 The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity
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<![CDATA[How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk]]> 769016 Recently revised and updated with fresh insights and suggestions, How to Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen so Kids Will Talk is full of practical, innovative ways to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships.]]> 286 Adele Faber 0380811960 Wali 0 4.26 1980 How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
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مصالح الأبدان والأنفس 13793107 177 أبو زيد البلخي 9960890120 Wali 0 4.13 2005 مصالح الأبدان والأنفس
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كليلة ودمنة 2498952 366 عبد الله بن المقفع Wali 0 4.12 300 كليلة ودمنة
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حوار مع صديقي الملحد 5664022
صديقى رجل يحب الجدل ويهوى الكلام وهو يعتقد أننا نحن المؤمنون السذج نقتات بالاوهام ونضحك على أنفسنا بالجنة والحوار العين وتفوتنا لذات الدنيا ومفاتنها.. وصديقى بهذه المناسبة تخرج من فرنسا وحصل على دكتوراه وعاش مع الهيبيز وأصبح ينكر كل شئ.
قال لى ساخرا:
-انتم تقولون: ان الله موجود، وعمدة براهينكم هو قانون "السببية" الذى ينص على أن لكل صنعة صانعا ولكل خلق خالقاً ولكل وجود موجدا.. النسيج يدل على النساج والرسم على الرسام والنقش على النقاش والكون بهذا المنطق أبلغ دليل على الاله القدير الذى خلقه.
صدقنا وآمنا بهذا الخالق.. ألا يحق لنا بنفس المنطق أن نسأل.. ومن خلق الخالق.. من خلق الله الذى تحدثوننا عنه.. ألا تقودنا نفس استدلالاتكم الى هذا.. وتبعا لنفس قانون السببية.. ما رأيكم فى هذا المطب دام فضلكم؟. ونحن نقول له: سؤالك فاسد.. ولا مطب ولا حاجة فأنت تسلم بأن الله خالق ثم تقول من خلقه؟! فتجعل منه خالقا ومخلوقا فى نفس الجملة وهذا تناقض، والوجه الآخر لفساد السؤال أنك تتصور خضوع الخالق لقوانين مخلوقاته.. فالسببية قانوننا نحن أبناء الزمان والمكان.
والله الذى خلق الزمان والمكان هو بالضرورة فوق الزمان والمكان ولا يصح لنا أن نتصوره مقيدا بالزمان والمكان ولا بقوانين الزمان والمكان. والله هو الذى خلق قانون السببية فلا يجوز أن نتصوره خاضعا لقانون السببية الذى خلقه، وأنت بهذه السفسطة أشبه بالعرائس التى تتحرك بزمبلك وتتصور أن الانسان الذى صنعها لابد هو الآخر يتحرك بزمبلك.. فاذا قلنا لها بل هو يتحرك من تلقاء نفسه.. قالت: مستحيل أن يتحرك شئ من تلقاء نفسه.. انى أرى فى عالمى كل شئ يتحرك بزمبلك، وأنت بالمثل لا تتصور أن الله موجود بذاته بدون موجد.. لمجرد أنك ترى كل شئ حولك فى حاجة الى موجد.

لتحميل كتاب حوار مع صديقي الملحد برابط بسيط وسهل من هذا الرابط

وللتحميل المزيد من الكتب المباشره من الموقع]]>
160 مصطفى محمود Wali 0 3.88 1970 حوار مع صديقي الملحد
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<![CDATA[طبائع الاستبداد ومصارع الاستعباد]]> 2312458 157 Abd al-Rahman al-Kawakibi Wali 0 4.19 1902 طبائع الاستبداد ومصارع الاستعباد
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حي بن يقظان 6646964 160 Ibn Tufail Wali 0 3.79 1150 حي بن يقظان
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الرحيق المختوم 545425 بحث في السيرة النبوية.
تأليف: الشيخ صفي الرحمن المباركفوري.
قُدِّم في مسابقة رابطة العالم الإسلامي في السيرة النبوية الشريفة، وحاز البحث على المركز الأول.

"ومن منهجي في هذا الكتاب ـ عدا ما جاء في إعلان الرابطة ـ أني قررت سلوك سبيل الاعتدال، متجنبًا التطويل الممل والإيجاز المخل، وقد وجدت المصادر تختلف فيما بينها حول كثير مما يتعلق بالأحداث اختلافًا لا يحتمل الجمع والتوفيق، فاخترت سبيل الترجيح، وأثبت في الكتاب ما ترجح لدي بعد التدقيق في الدراسة والنقد، إلا أني طويت ذكر الدلائل والوجوه؛ لأن ذلك يفضي إلى طول غير مطلوب�.

أما بالنسبة لقبول الروايات وردها فقد استفدت في ذلك مما كتبه الأئمة المتقنون، واعتمدت عليهم فيما حكموا به من الصحة والحسن والضعف؛ إذ لم أجد وقتًا يكفي للخوض في هذا المجال�.�

وقد أشرت في بعض المواضع إلى بعض الدلائل ووجوه الترجيح، وذلك حينما خِفْتُ الاستغراب ممن يقرأ الكتاب، أو رأيت شبه الاتفاق فيما بين الأولين والآخرين على خلاف ما هو الصواب�.� والله ولي التوفيق�.�"

الجمعة المباركة
24/7/1396
23/7/1976م
صفي الرحمن المباركفوري
الجامعة السلفية
بنارس - الهند]]>
498 Safiur Rahman Mubarakpuri 9953320993 Wali 0 4.60 1976 الرحيق المختوم
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الرسول القائد 13403384 لمذا كان اذا اراد غزوة ورى بغيرها، ولماذا كان يأخذ بمبدأ: "الحرب خدعة".ماذا كان يحدث لو ترد قبل معركة (بدر)، عندما رأى المشركين متفوقين على اصحابه بالعدد والعدد؟
ماذا كان يحدث لو استسلم لليأس في معركة (احد) بعد ان طوقته قوات المشركين المتفوقة من كل جانب؟
ماذا كان يحدث لو ضعفت مقاومته للاحزاب في غزوة الخندق، وبخاصة بعد خيانة يهود، حين اصبح مهددا من خارج المدينة المنورة ومن داخلها؟
ماذا كان يحدث لو لم يثبت الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم مع عشرة فقط من آل بيته والمهاجرين بعد فرار المسلمين في غزوة (حنين)؟]]>
542 محمود شيت خطاب Wali 0 4.38 2002 الرسول القائد
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تدابير القدر 7667501 111 محمود شيت خطاب Wali 0 3.58 تدابير القدر
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عدالة السماء 6678971 قصص عدالة السماء كلها من الواقع، قصص تبني و لا تهدم، تعمر و لا تخرّب و تقوم القلوب و العقول معاً على أسس رصينة من الايمان العميق.]]> 108 محمود شيت خطاب Wali 0 3.85 1968 عدالة السماء
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زاراوەسازیی پێوانە 54829421 336 مەسعوود محەمەد Wali 0 2.00 زاراوەسازیی پێوانە
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<![CDATA[چەند حەشارگەیێکی ڕێزمانی کوردی]]> 55541434 105 مەسعوود محەمەد Wali 0 3.67 چەند حەشارگەیێکی ڕێزمانی کوردی
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مرۆڤ و دەوروبەر - بەرگی 3 24375265
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مەسعوود محەمەد Wali 0 4.50 152 مرۆڤ و دەوروبەر - بەرگی 3
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مرۆڤ و دەوروبەر - به‌رگ� 1 24375214
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140 مەسعوود محەمەد Wali 0 4.25 مرۆڤ و دەوروبەر - به‌رگی 1
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<![CDATA[The Fate of a Man and Early Stories]]> 425891 246 Mikhail Sholokhov 1410104249 Wali 0 4.13 1956 The Fate of a Man and Early Stories
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<![CDATA[Skin in the Game: The Hidden Asymmetries in Daily Life]]> 36064445 New York Times bestselling author of The Black Swan, a bold new work that challenges many of our long-held beliefs about risk and reward, politics and religion, finance and personal responsibility

In his most provocative and practical book yet, one of the foremost thinkers of our time redefines what it means to understand the world, succeed in a profession, contribute to a fair and just society, detect nonsense, and influence others. Citing examples ranging from Hammurabi to Seneca, Antaeus the Giant to Donald Trump, Nassim Nicholas Taleb shows how the willingness to accept one’s own risks is an essential attribute of heroes, saints, and flourishing people in all walks of life.

As always both accessible and iconoclastic, Taleb challenges long-held beliefs about the values of those who spearhead military interventions, make financial investments, and propagate religious faiths. Among his insights:

For social justice,focus on symmetry and risk sharing. You cannot make profits and transfer the risks to others, as bankers and large corporations do. You cannot get rich without owning your own risk and paying for your own losses. Forcing skin in the game corrects this asymmetry better than thousands of laws and regulations.
Ethical rules aren’t universal. You’re part of a group larger than you, but it’s still smaller than humanity in general.
Minorities, not majorities, run the world. The world is not run by consensus but by stubborn minorities imposing their tastes and ethics on others.
You can be an intellectual yet still be an idiot. “Educated philistines� have been wrong on everything from Stalinism to Iraq to low-carb diets.
Beware of complicated solutions (that someone was paid to find). A simple barbell can build muscle better than expensive new machines.
True religion is commitment, not just faith. How much you believe in something is manifested only by what you’re willing to risk for it.

The phrase “skin in the game� is one we have often heard but rarely stopped to truly dissect. It is the backbone of risk management, but it’s also an astonishingly rich worldview that, as Taleb shows in this book, applies to all aspects of our lives. As Taleb says, “The symmetry of skin in the game is a simple rule that’s necessary for fairness and justice, and the ultimate BS-buster,� and “Never trust anyone who doesn’t have skin in the game. Without it, fools and crooks will benefit, and their mistakes will never come back to haunt them.”]]>
272 Nassim Nicholas Taleb 0241300657 Wali 0 3.88 2018 Skin in the Game: The Hidden Asymmetries in Daily Life
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<![CDATA[Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets (Incerto)]]> 38315 Fooled by Randomness is a standalone book in Nassim Nicholas Taleb’s landmark Incerto series, an investigation of opacity, luck, uncertainty, probability, human error, risk, and decision-making in a world we don’t understand. The other books in the series are The Black Swan, Antifragile,and The Bed of Procrustes.]]> 368 Nassim Nicholas Taleb 0812975219 Wali 0 4.08 2001 Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets (Incerto)
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<![CDATA[The Flavor Bible: The Essential Guide to Culinary Creativity, Based on the Wisdom of America's Most Imaginative Chefs]]> 4443485 Winner of the 2009 James Beard Book Award for Best Book: Reference and Scholarship

Great cooking goes beyond following a recipe--it's knowing how to season ingredients to coax the greatest possible flavor from them. Drawing on dozens of leading chefs' combined experience in top restaurants across the country, Karen Page and Andrew Dornenburg present the definitive guide to creating "deliciousness" in any dish. Thousands of ingredient entries, organized alphabetically and cross-referenced, provide a treasure trove of spectacular flavor combinations. Readers will learn to work more intuitively and effectively with ingredients; experiment with temperature and texture; excite the nose and palate with herbs, spices, and other seasonings; and balance the sensual, emotional, and spiritual elements of an extraordinary meal.Seasoned with tips, anecdotes, and signature dishes from America's most imaginative chefs, THE FLAVOR BIBLE is an essentialreference for every kitchen.]]>
380 Andrew Dornenburg 0316118400 Wali 0 4.06 2008 The Flavor Bible: The Essential Guide to Culinary Creativity, Based on the Wisdom of America's Most Imaginative Chefs
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<![CDATA[Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder]]> 13530973
In The Black Swan Taleb outlined a problem; in Antifragile he offers a definitive solution: how to gain from disorder and chaos while being protected from fragilities and adverse events. For what he calls the "antifragile" is one step beyond robust, as it benefits from adversity, uncertainty and stressors, just as human bones get stronger when subjected to stress and tension.

Taleb stands uncertainty on its head, making it desirable, and proposing that things be built in an antifragile manner. Extremely ambitious and multidisciplinary, Antifragile provides a blueprint for how to behave—and thrive—in a world we don't understand and which is too uncertain for us to even try to understand. He who is not antifragile will perish. Why is the city state better than the nation state, why is debt bad for you, and why is almost everything modern bound to fail? The book covers innovation, health, biology, medicine, life decisions, politics, foreign policy, urban planning, war, personal finance, and economic systems. Throughout, the voice and recipes of the ancient wisdom from Phoenician, Roman, Greek, and Medieval sources are heard loud and clear.]]>
426 Nassim Nicholas Taleb 1400067820 Wali 0 4.08 2012 Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder
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<![CDATA[The Happiness Trap: How to Stop Struggling and Start Living: A Guide to ACT]]> 3250347
The techniques presented in The Happiness Trap will help readers to:

•Reduce stress and worry
•Handle painful feelings and thoughts more effectively
•Break self-defeating habits
•Overcome insecurity and self-doubt
•Create a rich, full, and meaningful life]]>
240 Russ Harris 1590305841 Wali 0 4.09 2007 The Happiness Trap: How to Stop Struggling and Start Living: A Guide to ACT
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<![CDATA[The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting up a Generation for Failure]]> 36556202
First Amendment expert Greg Lukianoff and social psychologist Jonathan Haidt show how the new problems on campus have their origins in three terrible ideas that have become increasingly woven into American childhood and what doesn’t kill you makes you weaker; always trust your feelings; and life is a battle between good people and evil people. These three Great Untruths are incompatible with basic psychological principles, as well as ancient wisdom from many cultures. They interfere with healthy development. Anyone who embraces these untruths—and the resulting culture of safetyism—is less likely to become an autonomous adult able to navigate the bumpy road of life.

Lukianoff and Haidt investigate the many social trends that have intersected to produce these untruths. They situate the conflicts on campus in the context of America’s rapidly rising political polarization, including a rise in hate crimes and off-campus provocation. They explore changes in childhood including the rise of fearful parenting, the decline of unsupervised play, and the new world of social media that has engulfed teenagers in the last decade.

This is a book for anyone who is confused by what is happening on college campuses today, or has children, or is concerned about the growing inability of Americans to live, work, and cooperate across party lines.]]>
352 Jonathan Haidt 0735224900 Wali 0 4.23 2018 The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting up a Generation for Failure
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<![CDATA[Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: Techniques for Retraining Your Brain]]> 39067892
The answers to these questions - and the path to lasting change in your life - lie in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), a well-tested collection of practical techniques for managing moods and modifying undesirable behaviors through self-awareness, critical analysis, and goal-oriented change. CBT illuminates the links between thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and physical health and uses those connections to develop concrete plans for self-improvement. Built on a solid foundation of neurological and behavioral research, CBT is an approach almost anyone can use for promoting greater mental health and improving quality of life.

In 24 engaging half-hour lectures, you'll build a robust and effective self-improvement toolkit with the expert guidance of Professor Satterfield of the University of California, San Francisco. You will explore CBT's roots in Socratic and stoic philosophy, build a toolkit of CBT techniques, and hear about the latest research about its outcomes. Additionally this intriguing and practical course allows you to take on the role of medical student, physician, psychologist, and patient.

Throughout the course you'll explore issues that cause people to seek out therapy. In some cases you'll get to hear Dr. Satterfield working with a patient, and in others you'll be delving into research to find what causes issues and how CBT helps to resolve them.

Everyone has something about their life that they would like to improve. With the tools in CBT and the desire to make your situation better, you can create lasting change in your life.]]>
Jason M. Satterfield 1629971359 Wali 0 4.06 2015 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: Techniques for Retraining Your Brain
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<![CDATA[Retrain Your Brain: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks: A Workbook for Managing Depression and Anxiety]]> 32674334 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks allows the reader to quickly connect and feel understood, and offers hope for those who are looking to regain control over their life. DR. ROBIN ZASIO, Psy. D., LCSW, director of The Anxiety Treatment Center of Sacramento, featured doctor on the A&E series Hoarders

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) has proven to be the tipping point through which many people are finally able to make significant changes and break free of anxiety and depression. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks is an interactive workbook that outlines a simple, practical plan that occurs over the course of 7 weeks, and offers real, tangible relief from anxiety and depression. This is a cumulative workbook the work you do each week builds upon that of the last and, ultimately, creates a lasting CBT tool kit that will prepare you to handle future challenges as they come.

In his private practice, licensed psychologist Dr. Seth Gillihan specializes in the use of cognitive-behavioral treatment for anxiety and depression. He concentrates on the specific needs of each patient by using the evidence-based, solution-focused treatment principles of CBT the fundamentals of which at the core of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks.

With Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks you


Become familiar with the basic principles of CBT and understand how it works Define specific goals that you ll work toward over the course of 7 weeks Learn fundamental CBT skills through guided writing exercises that apply to your current, real-life challenges
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks is the most comprehensive yet efficient workbook available for using CBT to address anxiety and depression.

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238 Seth J. Gillihan 1623157811 Wali 0 3.76 2016 Retrain Your Brain: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks: A Workbook for Managing Depression and Anxiety
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<![CDATA[Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple: 10 Strategies for Managing Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Panic, and Worry]]> 39986520
Get lasting relief from anger, panic, stress, and other mood-related conditions by applying the principles of cognitive behavioral therapy to your daily life.

From writing down your goals to addressing negative thought patterns, this accessible, easy-to-understand cognitive behavioral therapy book gives you everything you need to let the healing begin in one convenient CBT workbook. Learn to grow as a person, overcome challenges, and boost your overall health and well-being.

Explore cognitive behavior therapy

10 Soothing strategies―Discover proven CBT principles, like setting goals, maintaining mindfulness, and more. Positive self-evaluations―Track your progress and reflect on what you’ve learned along the way.Practice opportunities―Use this workbook in tandem with clinical cognitive behavioral therapy or post-therapy.

Progress toward healing with a simplified approach to cognitive behavior therapy.]]>
231 Seth J. Gillihan 1939754860 Wali 0 4.12 2018 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple: 10 Strategies for Managing Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Panic, and Worry
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<![CDATA[Cognitive Therapy: Basics and Beyond]]> 275204 338 Judith S. Beck 0898628474 Wali 0 4.16 1995 Cognitive Therapy: Basics and Beyond
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<![CDATA[Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion]]> 28815
You'll learn the six universal principles, how to use them to become a skilled persuader—and how to defend yourself against them. Perfect for people in all walks of life, the principles of Influence will move you toward profound personal change and act as a driving force for your success.]]>
320 Robert B. Cialdini 006124189X Wali 0 4.21 1984 Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion
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<![CDATA[Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams]]> 34466963 Alternate cover edition of ISBN 9781501144318.

Neuroscientist and sleep expert Matthew Walker provides a revolutionary exploration of sleep, examining how it affects every aspect of our physical and mental well-being. Charting the most cutting-edge scientific breakthroughs, and marshalling his decades of research and clinical practice, Walker explains how we can harness sleep to improve learning, mood and energy levels, regulate hormones, prevent cancer, Alzheimer's and diabetes, slow the effects of aging, and increase longevity. He also provides actionable steps towards getting a better night's sleep every night.]]>
368 Matthew Walker Wali 0 4.37 2017 Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams
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<![CDATA[Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst]]> 31170723 Why do we do the things we do?

More than a decade in the making, this game-changing book is Robert Sapolsky's genre-shattering attempt to answer that question as fully as perhaps only he could, looking at it from every angle. Sapolsky's storytelling concept is delightful but it also has a powerful intrinsic logic: he starts by looking at the factors that bear on a person's reaction in the precise moment a behavior occurs, and then hops back in time from there, in stages, ultimately ending up at the deep history of our species and its evolutionary legacy.

And so the first category of explanation is the neurobiological one. A behavior occurs—whether an example of humans at our best, worst, or somewhere in between. What went on in a person's brain a second before the behavior happened? Then Sapolsky pulls out to a slightly larger field of vision, a little earlier in time: What sight, sound, or smell caused the nervous system to produce that behavior? And then, what hormones acted hours to days earlier to change how responsive that individual is to the stimuli that triggered the nervous system? By now he has increased our field of vision so that we are thinking about neurobiology and the sensory world of our environment and endocrinology in trying to explain what happened.

Sapolsky keeps going: How was that behavior influenced by structural changes in the nervous system over the preceding months, by that person's adolescence, childhood, fetal life, and then back to his or her genetic makeup? Finally, he expands the view to encompass factors larger than one individual. How did culture shape that individual's group, what ecological factors millennia old formed that culture? And on and on, back to evolutionary factors millions of years old.

The result is one of the most dazzling tours d'horizon of the science of human behavior ever attempted, a majestic synthesis that harvests cutting-edge research across a range of disciplines to provide a subtle and nuanced perspective on why we ultimately do the things we do ... for good and for ill. Sapolsky builds on this understanding to wrestle with some of our deepest and thorniest questions relating to tribalism and xenophobia, hierarchy and competition, morality and free will, and war and peace. Wise, humane, often very funny, Behave is a towering achievement, powerfully humanizing, and downright heroic in its own right.]]>
790 Robert M. Sapolsky 1594205078 Wali 0 4.39 2017 Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst
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<![CDATA[Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us]]> 6452796 The New York Times bestseller that gives readers a paradigm-shattering new way to think about motivation

Most people believe that the best way to motivate is with rewards like money—the carrot-and-stick approach. That's a mistake, says Daniel H. Pink (author of To Sell Is Human: The Surprising Truth About Motivating Others). In this provocative and persuasive new book, he asserts that the secret to high performance and satisfaction—at work, at school, and at home—is the deeply human need to direct our own lives, to learn and create new things, and to do better by ourselves and our world.

Drawing on four decades of scientific research on human motivation, Pink exposes the mismatch between what science knows and what business does—and how that affects every aspect of life. He examines the three elements of true motivation—autonomy, mastery, and purpose—and offers smart and surprising techniques for putting these into action in a unique book that will change how we think and transform how we live.]]>
242 Daniel H. Pink 1594488843 Wali 0 3.94 2009 Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
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<![CDATA[The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil]]> 359194
Renowned social psychologist and creator of the Stanford Prison Experiment Philip Zimbardo explores the mechanisms that make good people do bad things, how moral people can be seduced into acting immorally, and what this says about the line separating good from evil.

The Lucifer Effect explains how—and the myriad reasons why—we are all susceptible to the lure of “the dark side.� Drawing on examples from history as well as his own trailblazing research, Zimbardo details how situational forces and group dynamics can work in concert to make monsters out of decent men and women.

Here, for the first time and in detail, Zimbardo tells the full story of the Stanford Prison Experiment, the landmark study in which a group of college-student volunteers was randomly divided into “guards� and “inmates� and then placed in a mock prison environment. Within a week the study was abandoned, as ordinary college students were transformed into either brutal, sadistic guards or emotionally broken prisoners.

By illuminating the psychological causes behind such disturbing metamorphoses, Zimbardo enables us to better understand a variety of harrowing phenomena, from corporate malfeasance to organized genocide to how once upstanding American soldiers came to abuse and torture Iraqi detainees in Abu Ghraib. He replaces the long-held notion of the “bad apple� with that of the “bad barrel”—the idea that the social setting and the system contaminate the individual, rather than the other way around.

This is a book that dares to hold a mirror up to mankind, showing us that we might not be who we think we are. While forcing us to reexamine what we are capable of doing when caught up in the crucible of behavioral dynamics, though, Zimbardo also offers hope. We are capable of resisting evil, he argues, and can even teach ourselves to act heroically. Like Hannah Arendt’s Eichmann in Jerusalem and Steven Pinker’s The Blank Slate, The Lucifer Effect is a shocking, engrossing study that will change the way we view human behavior.]]>
551 Philip G. Zimbardo 1400064112 Wali 0 3.91 2007 The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil
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<![CDATA[Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed]]> 37570546 From a psychotherapist, and national advice columnist comes a thought-provoking new book that takes us behind the scenes of a therapist's world -- where her patients are looking for answers (and so is she).

One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.

As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.

With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.]]>
415 Lori Gottlieb 1328662055 Wali 0 4.36 2019 Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
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<![CDATA[The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life]]> 28257707 Alternate cover edition of ISBN 9780062457738

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited�"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.]]>
212 Mark Manson Wali 0 3.87 2016 The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
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<![CDATA[Mindset: The New Psychology of Success]]> 40745 A newer edition of this book can be found here.

After decades of research, world-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D., discovered a simple but groundbreaking idea: the power of mindset. In this brilliant book, she shows how success in school, work, sports, the arts, and almost every area of human endeavor can be dramatically influenced by how we think about our talents and abilities. People with a fixed mindset � those who believe that abilities are fixed � are less likely to flourish than those with a growth mindset � those who believe that abilities can be developed. Mindset reveals how great parents, teachers, managers, and athletes can put this idea to use to foster outstanding accomplishment.

In this edition, Dweck offers new insights into her now famous and broadly embraced concept. She introduces a phenomenon she calls false growth mindset and guides people toward adopting a deeper, truer growth mindset. She also expands the mindset concept beyond the individual, applying it to the cultures of groups and organizations. With the right mindset, you can motivate those you lead, teach, and love � to transform their lives and your own.]]>
276 Carol S. Dweck Wali 0 4.09 2006 Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
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<![CDATA[Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience]]> 66354 303 Mihály Csíkszentmihályi 0060920432 Wali 0 4.11 1990 Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience
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<![CDATA[The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma]]> 18693771 A pioneering researcher transforms our understanding of trauma and offers a bold new paradigm for healing.

Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world's foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers' capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments—from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga—that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain's natural neuroplasticity. Based on Dr. van der Kolk's own research and that of other leading specialists, The Body Keeps the Score exposes the tremendous power of our relationships both to hurt and to heal—and offers new hope for reclaiming lives.]]>
464 Bessel van der Kolk 0670785938 Wali 0 4.36 2014 The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
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<![CDATA[Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind]]> 23692271 512 Yuval Noah Harari Wali 0 4.33 2011 Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind
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<![CDATA[The Invisible Gorilla: And Other Ways Our Intuitions Deceive Us]]> 7783191
Πως μπορεί ένας αστυνομικός να περάσει τρέχοντας μπροστά από μία σκηνή βίαιης επίθεσης χωρίς να τη δει;

Γιατί βραβευμένες ταινίες είναι γεμάτες λάθη στο μοντάζ;

Τί κοινό έχουν οι εγκληματίες με τους κορυφαίους σκακιστές;

Γιατί η ιλαρά και άλλες παιδικές ασθένειες επιστρέφουν;

Γιατί οι οικονομικοί διευθυντές μπορούν να μάθουν πολλά από τους μετεωρολόγους;

Ο "Αόρατος γορίλλας" αποκαλύπτει τους πολυάριθμους τρόπους με τους οποίους η διαίσθησή μας μπορεί να μας παραπλανήσει, αλλά είναι πολύ περισσότερα από ένας κατάλογος ανθρωπίνων ελαττωμάτων. Οι Τσάμπρις και Σάιμονς εξηγούν γιατί υποκύπτουμε σε αυτές τις καθημερινές ψευδαισθήσεις και τι μπορούμε να κάνουμε για προστατευτούμε από τις επιδράσεις τους. Εντέλει, το βιβλίο προσφέρει ένα είδος όρασης με ακτίνες Χ, διαπερνώντας έτσι το πέπλο των ψευδαισθήσεων που θολώνουν τις σκέψεις μας, και για πρώτη φορά ίσως να σκεφτούμε καθαρά.]]>
320 Christopher Chabris 0307459659 Wali 0 3.90 2010 The Invisible Gorilla: And Other Ways Our Intuitions Deceive Us
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<![CDATA[Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy]]> 46674
- Recognise what causes your mood swings
- Nip negative feelings in the bud
- Deal with guilt
- Handle hostility and criticism
- Overcome addiction to love and approval
- Build self-esteem
- Feel good everyday]]>
736 David D. Burns 0380810336 Wali 0 4.03 1980 Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy
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<![CDATA[Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life]]> 71730
In this internationally acclaimed text, Marshall Rosenberg offers insightful stories, anecdotes, practical exercises and role-plays that will dramatically change your approach to communication for the better. Discover how the language you use can strengthen your relationships, build trust, prevent conflicts and heal pain. Revolutionary, yet simple, Nonviolent Communication offers you the most effective tools to reduce violence and create peace in your life—one interaction at a time.]]>
220 Marshall B. Rosenberg 1892005034 Wali 0 4.32 1999 Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
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<![CDATA[The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less]]> 10639 Future Shock, a social critique of our obsession with choice, and how it contributes to anxiety, dissatisfaction and regret. Whether we're buying a pair of jeans, ordering a cup of coffee, selecting a long-distance carrier, applying to college, choosing a doctor, or setting up a 401K, everyday decisions have become increasingly complex due to the overwhelming abundance of choice with which we are presented.

In The Paradox of Choice, Barry Schwartz explains why too much of a good thing has proven detrimental to our psychological and emotional well-being. In accessible, engaging, and anecdotal prose, Schwartz explains how a culture that thrives on the availability of constantly evolving options can also foster profound dissatisfaction and self-blame in individuals, which can lead to a paralysis in decision making and, in some cases, depression.

With the latest studies on how we make choices in our personal and professional lives, Schwartz offers practical advice on how to focus on the right choices, and how to derive greater satisfaction from choices that we do make.]]>
265 Barry Schwartz 0060005696 Wali 0 3.83 2004 The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less
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<![CDATA[Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance]]> 27213329
Why do some people succeed and others fail? Sharing new insights from her landmark research on grit, Angela Duckworth explains why talent is hardly a guarantor of success. Rather, other factors can be even more crucial such as identifying our passions and following through on our commitments.

Drawing on her own powerful story as the daughter of a scientist who frequently bemoaned her lack of smarts, Duckworth describes her winding path through teaching, business consulting, and neuroscience, which led to the hypothesis that what really drives success is not genius, but a special blend of passion and long-term perseverance. As a professor at the University of Pennsylvania, Duckworth created her own character lab and set out to test her theory.

Here, she takes readers into the field to visit teachers working in some of the toughest schools, cadets struggling through their first days at West Point, and young finalists in the National Spelling Bee. She also mines fascinating insights from history and shows what can be gleaned from modern experiments in peak performance. Finally, she shares what she's learned from interviewing dozens of high achievers; from JP Morgan CEO Jamie Dimon to the cartoon editor of The New Yorker to Seattle Seahawks Coach Pete Carroll.

Winningly personal, insightful, and even life-changing, Grit is a book about what goes through your head when you fall down, and how that not talent or luck makes all the difference.]]>
277 Angela Duckworth 1443442313 Wali 0 4.07 2016 Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
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<![CDATA[12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos]]> 30257963 What does everyone in the modern world need to know? Renowned psychologist Jordan B. Peterson's answer to this most difficult of questions uniquely combines the hard-won truths of ancient tradition with the stunning revelations of cutting-edge scientific research.

Humorous, surprising, and informative, Dr. Peterson tells us why skateboarding boys and girls must be left alone, what terrible fate awaits those who criticize too easily, and why you should always pet a cat when you meet one on the street.

What does the nervous system of the lowly lobster have to tell us about standing up straight (with our shoulders back) and about success in life? Why did ancient Egyptians worship the capacity to pay careful attention as the highest of gods? What dreadful paths do people tread when they become resentful, arrogant, and vengeful? Dr. Peterson journeys broadly, discussing discipline, freedom, adventure, and responsibility, distilling the world's wisdom into 12 practical and profound rules for life. 12 Rules for Life shatters the modern commonplaces of science, faith, and human nature while transforming and ennobling the mind and spirit of its listeners.]]>
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<![CDATA[Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones]]> 40121378 Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving—every day. James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results.

If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change. You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. Here, you'll get a proven system that can take you to new heights.

Clear is known for his ability to distill complex topics into simple behaviors that can be easily applied to daily life and work. Here, he draws on the most proven ideas from biology, psychology, and neuroscience to create an easy-to-understand guide for making good habits inevitable and bad habits impossible. Along the way, readers will be inspired and entertained with true stories from Olympic gold medalists, award-winning artists, business leaders, life-saving physicians, and star comedians who have used the science of small habits to master their craft and vault to the top of their field.

Learn how to:
-Make time for new habits (even when life gets crazy);
-Overcome a lack of motivation and willpower;
- Design your environment to make success easier;
- Get back on track when you fall off course;
...and much more.

Atomic Habits will reshape the way you think about progress and success, and give you the tools and strategies you need to transform your habits--whether you are a team looking to win a championship, an organization hoping to redefine an industry, or simply an individual who wishes to quit smoking, lose weight, reduce stress, or achieve any other goal.]]>
319 James Clear Wali 0 4.34 2018 Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
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The Republic 30289 416 Plato 0140449140 Wali 0 3.97 -400 The Republic
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قورئانی پیرۆز 23278563 604 هەژار موکریانی Wali 0 4.12 قورئانی پیرۆز
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چوار نامیلکەی عەلی شەریعەتی 24057352 230 Ali Shariati Wali 0 4.14 چوار نامیلکەی عەلی شەریعەتی
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شەرەفنامە 34536686 696 Şerefxanê Bidlîsî Wali 0 4.31 1597 شەرەفنامە
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چێشتی مجێور 237891 نووسەر: هەژار موکریانی
بابەت:ژیاننامە
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560 هەژار موکریانی Wali 0 4.46 2013 چێشتی مجێور
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الشيطان يسكن في بيتنا 5987657 حصريا من كتب العالم 95 مصطفى محمود Wali 0 3.50 1973 الشيطان يسكن في بيتنا
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القرآن: محاولة لفهم عصري 5988117 216 مصطفى محمود 9770221473 Wali 0 4.14 1969 القرآن: محاولة لفهم عصري
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الشيطان يحكم 5950148 191 مصطفى محمود Wali 0 3.95 1970 الشيطان يحكم
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Waiting for Godot 17716 109 Samuel Beckett Wali 0 3.85 1952 Waiting for Godot
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العقب الحديدية 11560236 الرواية جديرة بالقراءة والاقتناء وتوجد في الانترنت نصوصا نقدية وتحليلية لها]]> 288 Jack London Wali 0 3.76 1908 العقب الحديدية
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الشيخ والبحر 10862776 صدر هذا الكتاب عن دار العلم للملايين بطبعته المجددة للمؤلف الأميركي المعروف "أرنست هامنغواي" التي نقلها إلى العربية الأديب المعروف "منير البعلبكي" الملقب ب"شيخ المترجمين".
أضيفت هذه الطبعة إلى سلسلة مكتبة الطلاب الموجهة إلى الفتية بين الحادية عشرة والخامسة عشرة من العمر. هذا الكتاب مزود بقسم للإستثمار التربوي الذي يمكن القارىء من الاستفادة لغوياً من القصة ويساعده على التحليل والمناقشة.]]>
136 Ernest Hemingway 9953913129 Wali 0 3.41 1952 الشيخ والبحر
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قصة مدينتين 7026520
في هذه الأجواء يكتب تشارلز ديكنز رائعته مصوراً الحياة بين هاتين المدينتين، عبر قصة حب ملتهبة، قصة حب وإخلاص يفوق كل تصور.

قصة امرأة عاشت طفولتها وشبابها بين هذين العالمين، عاشت القساوة والسعادة، وظلت رغم كل المصاعب والآن مخلصة لكل من حولها.

في أجواء بوليسية مشوقة كتب تشارلز ديكنز رواية تجعل القارئ يلهث وراء أحداثها، ووراء كشف الإشارات الغامضة، التي تأتي دائماً لتقدم ما أراده ديكنز من تصوير العالمين.

قصة مدينتين، عم لكبي كتاب الإنكليز الرائع الذي جمع فيه روعة الأسلوب مع تشويق الرواية مع صورة العالم الذي عاشه.]]>
525 Charles Dickens 9953633266 Wali 0 3.95 1859 قصة مدينتين
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وداع للسلاح 8075086
إن "وداع للسلاح" ليست "ملحمة غرام" ولا "روميو وجوليت الجديدة" فحسب، إنها فوق ذلك تطرح قضية الحرب والسلم على بساط المناقشة، وتصور فلسفة همنغواي في الحياة والموت، تلك الفلسفة التي تقول بأن الإنسان لم يخلق ليقهر... وتقول بأنه الفائز... وتقول بأن الفائز في الحب لا ينال شيئاً! إن وداع للسلاح "باعتراف النقاد، أعظم ما كتب همنغواي، وقد صرح هو نفسه قبيل وفاته بأنه أعاد كتابة صفحة واحدة في صفحاتها الأخيرة ثماني وثلاثين مرة.]]>
478 Ernest Hemingway Wali 0 3.32 1929 وداع للسلاح
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أوليفر تويست 7948323 576 Charles Dickens Wali 0 3.89 1838 أوليفر تويست
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الدوامة 17405559 168 Jean-Paul Sartre Wali 0 3.85 1946 الدوامة
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منطق ابن خلدون 6928795 إن الكتاب يغني القارئ الكريم عن مطالعة عدد كبير من الكتب والمصادر وهو أقرب أن يكون الجامع الشامل .
لقد عودنا الدكتور علي الوردي على طرح المسائل الإجتماعية و التاريخية والفكرية في عالمنا العربي بأسلوب قل ما نجد له نظير بموضوعيته .

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294 علي الوردي Ali Al-Wardi Wali 0 4.10 2009 منطق ابن خلدون
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وعاظ السلاطين 6286604
كتاب وعاظ السلاطين وهو عنوان كتاب للباحث الإجتماعي العراقي الدكتور علي الوردي صدرت الطبعة الأولى من هذا الكتاب سنة 1954م]]>
272 علي الوردي Ali Al-Wardi Wali 0 4.01 1954 وعاظ السلاطين
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خوارق اللاشعور 6136509 "إن التقصد والتعمد والتكلف والتعجل أمور مناقضة لحوافز اللاشعور ومضرة لها ...إن كثيراً من أسباب النجاح آتية من استلهام اللاشعور ولا صفاء الروح الآتي ، فإذا تعجل المرء أمراً وأراده وأجهد نفسه في سبيله قمع بذلك وحي اللاشعور وسار في طريق الفشل ...إن تطور المجتمع البشري ناجم عن المنافسة الحادة التي تدفع كل فرد لأن يبرع ويتفوق على غيره ، فالتطور قائم على أكوام أبدان أبدان الضحايا ،أبدان أولئك الذين فشلوا في الحياة ، فصعد على أكتافهم الناجحون ،لقد ثبت علمياً بأن قسطاً كبيراً من هذه الإنجازات الخالدة التي قام بها هؤلاء الناجحون والنابغون جاء نتيجة الإلهام الذي انبثق من أغوار اللاشعور"]]> 238 علي الوردي Ali Al-Wardi 9933493892 Wali 0 3.88 1952 خوارق اللاشعور
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رحلتي من الشك إلى الإيمان 3338544 127 مصطفى محمود Wali 0 3.98 1970 رحلتي من الشك إلى الإيمان
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مهزلة العقل البشري 6494415 وهو بالتالي لا يري بكتابه هذا تمجيد الحضارة الغربية أو أن يدعو إليها، إنما قصده القول: أنه لا بد مما ليس منه بد، فالمفاهيم الحديثة التي تأتي بها الحضارة الغربية آتية لا ريب فيها، ويقول بأنه آن الأوان فهم الحقيقة قبل فوات الأوان، إذ أن العالم الإسلامي يمد القوم بمرحلة انتقال قاسية، يعاني منها آلاماً تشبه آلام المخاض، فمنذ نصف قرن تقريباً كان العالم يعيش في القرون الوسطى، ثم جاءت الحضارة الجديدة فجأة فأخذت تجرف أمامها معظم المألوف، لذا ففي كل بيت من بيوت المسلمين عراكاً وجدالاً بين الجيل القديم والجيل الجديد، ذلك ينظر في الحياة بمنظار القرن العاشر، وهذا يريد أن ينظر إليها بمنظار القرن العشرين ويضيف قائلاً بأنه كان ينتظر من المفكرين من رجال الدين وغيرهم، أن يساعدوا قومهم من أزمة المخاض هذه، لكنهم كانوا على العكس من ذلك يحاولون أن يقفوا في طريق الإصلاح، على ضوء ذلك يمكن القول بأن الكتابة هو محاولة لسن قراءة جديدة في مجتمع إسلامي يعيش، كما يرى الباحث، بعقلية الماضين عصر التطور الذي يتطلب رؤيا ومفاهيم دينية تتماشى وذلك الواقع المُعاش.]]> 359 علي الوردي Ali Al-Wardi Wali 0 3.95 1956 مهزلة العقل البشري
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