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300 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1981
The Government makes paper airplanes out of our lives and flies us out the windows. Some people return home. Some do not. War they all say, is war, and some people survive.Out of all the countries in the world, Canada is the one I have most seriously considered for emigration purposes. The stereotypes Americans have for that northern border are notorious; kind, peaceful, oh so funny with their maple syrup and their Mounties, Mounties being a nickname for the Royal Canadian Mounted Police, shortened to RCMP and used with devastating effect within the pages of this book. As the popularly Socrates attributed quote exclaims, one that in actuality is not found within the realms of Plato's character craft of his esteemed teacher: I know that I know nothing.
Where do any of us come from in this cold country? Oh, Canada, whether it is admitted or not, we come from you we come from you. From the same soil, the slugs and slime and bogs and twigs and roots. We come from the country that plucks its people out like weeds and flings them into the roadside. We grow in ditches and sloughs, untended and spindly. We erupt in the valleys and mountainsides, in small towns and back alleys, sprouting upside down on the prairies, our hair wild as spiders' legs, our feet rooted nowhere. We grow where we are not seen, we flourish where we are not heard, the thick undergrowth of an unlikely planting. Where do we come from, Obasan? We come from cemeteries full of skeletons with wild roses in their grinning teeth. We come from our untold tales that wait for their telling. We come from Canada, this land that is like every land, filled with the wise, the fearful, the compassionate, the corrupt.Let the new flowers grow; our humanity lies in remembering the fruit that rotted and fell for the flowering.
In one of Stephen's books, there is a story of a child with long golden ringlets called Goldilocks who one day comes to a quaint house in the woods lived in by a family of bears. Clearly, we are that bear family in this strange house in the middle of the woodsOccasionally, Naomi directly voices her struggles to live up to Obasan's ideals
We must always honor the wishes of others before our own. We will make the way smooth by restraining emotion. Though we might wish Grandma and Grandpa to stay, we must watch them go. To try to meet one's own needs in spite of the wishes of others is to be “wagamama� - selfish and inconsiderate. Obasan teaches me not to be wagamama by always heeding everyone's needs... It is such a tangle trying to decipher the needs and intents of othersOf course, the tangle is complicated by others' considerateness.
”Some people,� Aunt Emily answered sharply, “are so busy seeing all sides of every issue that they neutralize concern and prevent necessary action. There's no strength in seeing all sides unless you can act where real measureable injustice exists. A lot of academic talk just immobilizes the oppressed and maintains oppressors in their positions of power�Naomi recoils from what she sees as stridency here, but I really like to hear a fiction author deploying the language of social justice with such precision. This might be a violation of the injunction to show not tell, but as a teacher I can see that it is BOTH, form and illustration, and value it as such, because it begins to make politics accessible and relevant to the reader, as Emily intends to make it for Naomi. In my country, school education certainly makes zero effort to do that, so hurray for books picking up the slack.
I am clinging to my mother's leg, a flesh shaft that grows from the ground, a tree trunk of which I am an offshoot � a young branch attached by right of flesh and blood. Where she is rooted, I am rooted. If she walks, I will walk. Her blood is whispering through my veins. The shaft of her leg is the shaft of my body and I am her thoughtsWithout telling, without explicitness, the theme of belonging and connection is vital. Naomi repeatedly experiences separation and loss. She introduces herself at the start, subtly, as discontented, melancholy, but it took me a long time to come to know this later Naomi through the unfolding of the child Naomi's memories. Each episode of trauma breaks or damages a strand in the weave that wraps her, affirms her. This includes abuse by a neighbour, the many departures of close family members and the loss of language:
Some of the children attend Japanese-language classes but I hear Obasan and Uncle whispering that it is unwise to have us go. The RCMP, they are saying, are always looking for signs of disloyalty to CanadaWhile Naomi values her Japanese heritage and traditions, especially bathing, her older brother reacts to the racism around them by rejecting anything 'too Japanese'. I liked how this was emphasised by, for example, the different lunches that the two children take to school:”my lunch that Obasan made is two moist and sticky rice balls with a salty red plum* in the center of each, a boiled egg to the side with a tight square of lightly boiled greens. Stephen has peanut-butter sandwiches, an apple, and a thermos of soup�. Obasan prepares a nourishing meal for each child, respecting their very different preferences.
“Birds could all talk once. Bird language. Now all they can say is their own names. That's all. Can't say any more than their names. Just like some people. Specially in the city, eh? Me, me, me.� He jabs his chest with his thumb and grunts. “But smart peple don't talk too much. Redskins know that. The King bird warned them a long time ago.�Rough Lock Bill gives up the conversation at this point, but returns to save Naomi from drowning later. In this exchange, he offers the opportunity to break silence, but indicates respect for Naomi's choice to keep it. He speaks of the 'Indians' 'Redskins' as others, but we suspect that he is talking about his own people. Like the Japanese, he distances himself from a maligned identity.