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Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life
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First published March 7, 2016
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Héctor García
26books1,374followersI'm the author of several Japanese culture books: The Magic of Japan, Ikigai the Japanese Secret for a Long and Happy Life, The Book of Ichigo Ichie, Shinrinyoku, The Ikigai Journey and A Geek in Japan.
I LOVE reading and writing.
Autor de los libros sobre cultura japonesa: La Magia de Japón, Ikigai, Ichigo Ichie, Shinrinyoku, Un Geek en Japón.
I LOVE reading and writing.
Autor de los libros sobre cultura japonesa: La Magia de Japón, Ikigai, Ichigo Ichie, Shinrinyoku, Un Geek en Japón.
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November 8, 2023
"Ikigai" wasn't quite what I expected � it's not spectacular, but it's not terrible either. To be honest, I found value in about 10% of the book. It feels like a collection of Asian lifestyle concepts that the author picked up during his travels, repackaged with a mindfulness twist.
However, I would recommend it to someone looking to dip their toes into the trending practices of self-care and mental wellness. It offers quick overviews of various concepts like Tai Chi, Qigong, mindfulness, Stoicism, and more. While it doesn't delve deep into any one topic, it's a decent starting point for those curious about these practices. It's like a sampler platter of what the world has to offer for body and mind care.
However, I would recommend it to someone looking to dip their toes into the trending practices of self-care and mental wellness. It offers quick overviews of various concepts like Tai Chi, Qigong, mindfulness, Stoicism, and more. While it doesn't delve deep into any one topic, it's a decent starting point for those curious about these practices. It's like a sampler platter of what the world has to offer for body and mind care.
March 27, 2024
Up until the last two chapters, I wanted to give this book five stars. Now, I'm really contemplating to lower my rating to three stars...
All i all it's a really informative and insightful book about people, especially the ones on an island in Japan, who live more than 100 years and what they do to achieve this age. From exercises to food to their jobs and finally communities. I really enjoyed it. And then I got hit with the end of the book.
The detailed descriptions of the exercises were unnecessary. I'd rather watch a youtube video to understand properly what I have to do.
And what the hell was the last chapter? Everything in this book is about living your life stress free while doing something you love and suddenly we're talking about money and how it's better to own two businesses in case one fails? That came out of the blue and didn't fit into the rest of the book at all.
If you skip the last two chapters though, it's quite a good book.
All i all it's a really informative and insightful book about people, especially the ones on an island in Japan, who live more than 100 years and what they do to achieve this age. From exercises to food to their jobs and finally communities. I really enjoyed it. And then I got hit with the end of the book.
The detailed descriptions of the exercises were unnecessary. I'd rather watch a youtube video to understand properly what I have to do.
And what the hell was the last chapter? Everything in this book is about living your life stress free while doing something you love and suddenly we're talking about money and how it's better to own two businesses in case one fails? That came out of the blue and didn't fit into the rest of the book at all.
If you skip the last two chapters though, it's quite a good book.
April 5, 2024
If you have read two or more self-help books then this book wouldn't be of much value to you. It is a collection of the same old concepts that we have been hearing of since middle school. There is no secret to living a good life except living a healthy and balanced one.
Like any other book on self-help or mindfulness, this book mentions yoga, Tai chi, stoic philosophy and Buddhism. I have read enough about Seneca, Marcus Aurelius and Thich Nhat Hanh, and didn't find much of the information valuable.
It seemed like the author was given a task to write a self-help book and this was the work he came up with to fulfill that requirement.
A good book for anyone new to the self-help genre, but not of much value for avid readers. If the author stayed true to the title and explored the concept of Ikigai further and in detail it would have added more value. However, he chose to delve into a bunch of random things which were all over the place.
Like any other book on self-help or mindfulness, this book mentions yoga, Tai chi, stoic philosophy and Buddhism. I have read enough about Seneca, Marcus Aurelius and Thich Nhat Hanh, and didn't find much of the information valuable.
It seemed like the author was given a task to write a self-help book and this was the work he came up with to fulfill that requirement.
A good book for anyone new to the self-help genre, but not of much value for avid readers. If the author stayed true to the title and explored the concept of Ikigai further and in detail it would have added more value. However, he chose to delve into a bunch of random things which were all over the place.
April 23, 2024
This booked summed up how I feel about it in Chapter 4:
“If we already know everything a book has to tell us, we’ll get bored right away�.
Yes 😑
New rule for self help books: they’re not allowed to take direct quotes from more than 3-4 other self help books and still remain in my good graces. If all you’re going to do is summarize a bunch of other self help books� why don’t I just go read those???
Also, Why am I reading about Victor Frankl and every basic psychology 101 study? I’m HERE to learn about Ikigai from the Japanese perspective! I’m not here to explore the concept of “reason for being� from every other perspective, thanks.
Or� no thanks.
“If we already know everything a book has to tell us, we’ll get bored right away�.
Yes 😑
New rule for self help books: they’re not allowed to take direct quotes from more than 3-4 other self help books and still remain in my good graces. If all you’re going to do is summarize a bunch of other self help books� why don’t I just go read those???
Also, Why am I reading about Victor Frankl and every basic psychology 101 study? I’m HERE to learn about Ikigai from the Japanese perspective! I’m not here to explore the concept of “reason for being� from every other perspective, thanks.
Or� no thanks.
February 28, 2024
I'll be honest, this book reads like a high school senior paper rather than a deep dive into the concept of ikigai. There's a lot of poorly associated quotes to other works, with little connection to the concept of ikigai besides a couple sentences telling you, "If you find your ikigai, the topic of this chapter will help you."
The book is supposed to explain what ikigai is on a deep level and how to obtain it for yourself; at least, that was my first impression. Instead, most of the book wastes time valuing old age, spending so much time on centenarians (people over 100 years old) and how they live so long. They credit this to these people having a strong sense of their ikigai, which is great, but that doesn't explain how to find and maintain your personal ikigai and gain the benefits of old age as a result. There are chapters dedicated to how to eat to gain a centenarian lifetime, which has nothing to do with ikigai at all as far as the book tells you.
The breakdown of the topics for each section is all over the place, and it feels like you either get what you wanted from the whole section in either the first or last paragraph of the section, with nothing useful or actionable in the pages between.
The authors claim they spent over a year in a town in Okinawa whose residents live their ikigai and live longer as a result, but aside from a couple pages of superficial quotes from those residents, there's nothing offered from this year of research and exploration to help the reader further understand ikigai or how to obtain it for themselves. None.
It feels like this book is just a way for the authors to praise Japanese and Okinawan culture without really explaining why their way of life is praiseworthy in a deeper and more meaningful way. There's no elaboration, no analysis by the authors themselves, and their observations from their year living in Japan to back up their praises in an actionable way for the reader. All actionable information is regurgitated information I could find in a minute on Google. I expected some deeper analysis and philosophical discussion, and this just did not deliver. It's fine that all this self-help info is collected in one place, but when I end the book knowing nothing more about ikigai than when I read the summary of the book itself, it just feels like an exhausted waste of time.
The book is supposed to explain what ikigai is on a deep level and how to obtain it for yourself; at least, that was my first impression. Instead, most of the book wastes time valuing old age, spending so much time on centenarians (people over 100 years old) and how they live so long. They credit this to these people having a strong sense of their ikigai, which is great, but that doesn't explain how to find and maintain your personal ikigai and gain the benefits of old age as a result. There are chapters dedicated to how to eat to gain a centenarian lifetime, which has nothing to do with ikigai at all as far as the book tells you.
The breakdown of the topics for each section is all over the place, and it feels like you either get what you wanted from the whole section in either the first or last paragraph of the section, with nothing useful or actionable in the pages between.
The authors claim they spent over a year in a town in Okinawa whose residents live their ikigai and live longer as a result, but aside from a couple pages of superficial quotes from those residents, there's nothing offered from this year of research and exploration to help the reader further understand ikigai or how to obtain it for themselves. None.
It feels like this book is just a way for the authors to praise Japanese and Okinawan culture without really explaining why their way of life is praiseworthy in a deeper and more meaningful way. There's no elaboration, no analysis by the authors themselves, and their observations from their year living in Japan to back up their praises in an actionable way for the reader. All actionable information is regurgitated information I could find in a minute on Google. I expected some deeper analysis and philosophical discussion, and this just did not deliver. It's fine that all this self-help info is collected in one place, but when I end the book knowing nothing more about ikigai than when I read the summary of the book itself, it just feels like an exhausted waste of time.
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March 22, 2024Major takeaway: When we spend our days doing something that is meaningful to us, we live more fully. We see how in every moment, an opportunity to live into our purpose. When searching for our purpose, our intuition and curiosity can be very powerful internal compasses. When we find this purpose, our ikigai, pursue and nurture it. Through this, it can be used to bring both beauty and utility to the world around us.
A quote from Mitsuo Aida:
"In the here and the now, everything in your life, is in my life."
"Here. Now."
In a life full of possibilities live into joy and thankfulness.
A quote from Mitsuo Aida:
"In the here and the now, everything in your life, is in my life."
"Here. Now."
In a life full of possibilities live into joy and thankfulness.
June 12, 2024
Good book to read in a crisis. Moral of the story is we are all going to die from stress :)
April 13, 2024
I am now familiar with the concept of hate reading just to finish the book. Do not read.
July 29, 2024
An interesting concept but it essentially explains you should eat well, sleep a lot and not be stressed 🤷🏼♀�
April 5, 2025
"IKIGAI" by Hector Garcia is a beautifully insightful exploration of the Japanese concept of 'Ikigai' which loosely translates to "a reason for being." This book is more than just a self-help guide; it's a philosophical journey that blends cultural insights, personal anecdotes, and practical advice to help readers uncover their own purpose in life.
Garcia, along with co-author Francesc Miralles, masterfully breaks down complex ideas into relatable, easy-to-digest concepts. The chapters are filled with fascinating stories from the residents of Okinawa, one of the world’s Blue Zones known for its high longevity, which adds authenticity and depth to the narrative.
What I particularly loved was the blend of practical tips with profound reflections. The exercises and prompts encourage self-reflection without feeling preachy or overwhelming. It's a book that invites you to pause, think, and apply the principles in your own life. In addition, what touched me most was how the book doesn’t just tell you to find your purpose—it shows you how to feel it in your everyday life. The exercises aren’t heavy-handed; they’re little sparks that made me pause and think, “Oh, I’ve been doing that, but I never realized it was meaningful.�
If I had to nitpick, the pacing sometimes feels a bit repetitive, especially when revisiting similar ideas across chapters. However, the core message is strong enough to outweigh this minor flaw. It’s like a friend reminding you of something important over and over until it really sinks in. What I do not like a bit is the deflection from the course and moving more towards Chinese tradition and arts.
In the end, 'IKIGAI' is not just a read—it’s an experience that lingers long after you've turned the last page. A must-read for anyone seeking clarity, purpose or a little inspiration to reignite their passions. It isn’t just about finding purpose—it’s about appreciating the small moments, the quiet joys and the simple truths we often overlook. It’s a book I’ll return to whenever I need a gentle reminder to live with intention and gratitude.
IV: FIND FLOW IN EVERYTHING YOU DO
Strategy 2: Have a clear, concrete objective {Page 44}
According to a study by Boston Consulting Group, when asked about their bosses, the number one complaint of employees at multinational corporations is that they don’t “communicate the team’s mission clearly,� and that, as a result, the employees don’t know what their objectives are.
Strategy 2: Have a clear, concrete objective {Page 45}
What often happens, especially in big companies, is that the executives get lost in the details of obsessive planning, creating strategies to hide the fact that they don’t have a clear objective. It’s like heading out to sea with a map but no destination.
VII: THE IKIGAI DIET
So, eat less to live longer? {Page 84}
The calorie restriction we’ve been discussing is one of the most effective ways to add years to your life. If the body regularly consumes enough, or too many, calories, it gets lethargic and starts to wear down, expending significant energy on digestion alone.
VIII: GENTLE MOVEMENTS, LONGER LIFE
So, eat less to live longer? {Page 90}
“Metabolism slows down 90 percent after 30 minutes of sitting. The enzymes that move the bad fat from your arteries to your muscles, where it can get burned off, slow down. And after two hours, good cholesterol drops 20 percent. Just getting up for five minutes is going to get things going again. These things are so simple they’re almost stupid,�
For me it is ⭐⭐⭐⭐� (4.5/5)
Garcia, along with co-author Francesc Miralles, masterfully breaks down complex ideas into relatable, easy-to-digest concepts. The chapters are filled with fascinating stories from the residents of Okinawa, one of the world’s Blue Zones known for its high longevity, which adds authenticity and depth to the narrative.
What I particularly loved was the blend of practical tips with profound reflections. The exercises and prompts encourage self-reflection without feeling preachy or overwhelming. It's a book that invites you to pause, think, and apply the principles in your own life. In addition, what touched me most was how the book doesn’t just tell you to find your purpose—it shows you how to feel it in your everyday life. The exercises aren’t heavy-handed; they’re little sparks that made me pause and think, “Oh, I’ve been doing that, but I never realized it was meaningful.�
If I had to nitpick, the pacing sometimes feels a bit repetitive, especially when revisiting similar ideas across chapters. However, the core message is strong enough to outweigh this minor flaw. It’s like a friend reminding you of something important over and over until it really sinks in. What I do not like a bit is the deflection from the course and moving more towards Chinese tradition and arts.
In the end, 'IKIGAI' is not just a read—it’s an experience that lingers long after you've turned the last page. A must-read for anyone seeking clarity, purpose or a little inspiration to reignite their passions. It isn’t just about finding purpose—it’s about appreciating the small moments, the quiet joys and the simple truths we often overlook. It’s a book I’ll return to whenever I need a gentle reminder to live with intention and gratitude.
Few Major Takeaways from the book are:
IV: FIND FLOW IN EVERYTHING YOU DO
Strategy 2: Have a clear, concrete objective {Page 44}
According to a study by Boston Consulting Group, when asked about their bosses, the number one complaint of employees at multinational corporations is that they don’t “communicate the team’s mission clearly,� and that, as a result, the employees don’t know what their objectives are.
Strategy 2: Have a clear, concrete objective {Page 45}
What often happens, especially in big companies, is that the executives get lost in the details of obsessive planning, creating strategies to hide the fact that they don’t have a clear objective. It’s like heading out to sea with a map but no destination.
VII: THE IKIGAI DIET
So, eat less to live longer? {Page 84}
The calorie restriction we’ve been discussing is one of the most effective ways to add years to your life. If the body regularly consumes enough, or too many, calories, it gets lethargic and starts to wear down, expending significant energy on digestion alone.
VIII: GENTLE MOVEMENTS, LONGER LIFE
So, eat less to live longer? {Page 90}
“Metabolism slows down 90 percent after 30 minutes of sitting. The enzymes that move the bad fat from your arteries to your muscles, where it can get burned off, slow down. And after two hours, good cholesterol drops 20 percent. Just getting up for five minutes is going to get things going again. These things are so simple they’re almost stupid,�
For me it is ⭐⭐⭐⭐� (4.5/5)
February 24, 2024
This book was a little bit of a letdown for me, because it was marketed largely as a focus on the culture of Ikigai found in many centenarians living in places like Okinawa Japan. However instead it seemed to be several summaries of different schools of philosophy that could contribute to mental well being and thus result in a longer life combined with little diet and exercise guides. A lot of Western and Chinese philosophy was also studied, despite not being the advertised focus of the book and the author also took a concerning stance on modern therapy not being effective because people can be "fixed" almost instantly if they just discover their purpose. Which is of course a dangerous comment to make as someone writing what turned out to essentially be a "self-help" book. Less than 40% of the book actually focused specifically on the philosophy and mindset that contributes to long lives in Okinawa and other parts of Japan. I wish I hadn't purchased the book, but alas it was required reading for a class.
January 16, 2025
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I didn't know but there are actually sofa books that are not really for the self help part but for the aesthetic vibes ✨✨. I always thought suffer books are supposed to be serious and meaningful and such but this one makes it so that it's pretty much just for vibes 😊. Self of books don't have to be THAT serious, it can even only be formed by genuine thoughts and advices that the author would think would be beneficial to people. It may not be that deep and "helpful" but it sure does tray and be unique from all the other self help books that promised you that it will ✨change your life �.
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I didn't know but there are actually sofa books that are not really for the self help part but for the aesthetic vibes ✨✨. I always thought suffer books are supposed to be serious and meaningful and such but this one makes it so that it's pretty much just for vibes 😊. Self of books don't have to be THAT serious, it can even only be formed by genuine thoughts and advices that the author would think would be beneficial to people. It may not be that deep and "helpful" but it sure does tray and be unique from all the other self help books that promised you that it will ✨change your life �.
✧･�: *✧･�:*Pre-Read✧･�: *✧･�:
Ok here we go, nother self help book
March 28, 2025
This was interesting. I read the audiobook and the narration was decent. RTC.
October 20, 2024
this book reads like a college essay: well-researched yet dry and impersonal, poorly argumented with no coherent red thread.
what I liked: I learned some stuff about Eastern philosophy and Japanese schools of psychology. I had never encountered anything about them and would've loved to learn even more! Also, as a person who takes on many creative projects, it was nice to learn some productivity tips on how I can work on them in a structured way through entering what they call 'flow'.
remarks: this book tries to juggle 200 balls and ends up dropping all of them. they establish why it's important to have a sense of purpose in life (ikigai) - great, promising start - and then go on to talk about the secrets of longevity. Maybe I'm daft but how are these two concepts related? They don't provide a justification about why a long life necessarily = a purposeful life - they expect the reader to take this for granted.
I can't believe two intelligent and accomplished adults sat down, planned and wrote a whole book, interviewed dozens of centennarians, then PUBLISHED said book - and the best advice for a long and healthy life that they came up with was: "just smile and don't worry".
i'm sorry - what???? did I miss something?
There also seems to be a certain critical awareness/clear voice of the author that is missing from the book. They idolize and stereotype Japanese culture - raving about their old population and productive habits without even acknowledging that Japan has the highest rates of burnout and suicide in the whole world. The statistics indicate that the Japanese population is HAUNTED by constantly having to achieve, produce, create - which comes at the expense of their wellbeing.
But hey, let's publish a cute little self-help book about a buddhist population that passionately makes sushi and drinks green tea and turns 120 years old and lives in cute little rural communities and leave all of that other unpleasant stuff out.
what I liked: I learned some stuff about Eastern philosophy and Japanese schools of psychology. I had never encountered anything about them and would've loved to learn even more! Also, as a person who takes on many creative projects, it was nice to learn some productivity tips on how I can work on them in a structured way through entering what they call 'flow'.
remarks: this book tries to juggle 200 balls and ends up dropping all of them. they establish why it's important to have a sense of purpose in life (ikigai) - great, promising start - and then go on to talk about the secrets of longevity. Maybe I'm daft but how are these two concepts related? They don't provide a justification about why a long life necessarily = a purposeful life - they expect the reader to take this for granted.
I can't believe two intelligent and accomplished adults sat down, planned and wrote a whole book, interviewed dozens of centennarians, then PUBLISHED said book - and the best advice for a long and healthy life that they came up with was: "just smile and don't worry".
i'm sorry - what???? did I miss something?
There also seems to be a certain critical awareness/clear voice of the author that is missing from the book. They idolize and stereotype Japanese culture - raving about their old population and productive habits without even acknowledging that Japan has the highest rates of burnout and suicide in the whole world. The statistics indicate that the Japanese population is HAUNTED by constantly having to achieve, produce, create - which comes at the expense of their wellbeing.
But hey, let's publish a cute little self-help book about a buddhist population that passionately makes sushi and drinks green tea and turns 120 years old and lives in cute little rural communities and leave all of that other unpleasant stuff out.
April 4, 2024
I needed a book to take with me to London, and didn’t want to start a new series. I needed up finishing it in my four hours of travel. I was a quicker read than I expected. I really want to give a 3.5. but I’ll give it a 4. I think my expectations were too high for this book. With that said, there is still a lot of positives about this book. It’s just a bit strange for me that two non-Japanese humans wrote this book. So I feel like there is less intimacy with the subject than if it were written from the perspective of someone who has lived this way of life since birth.
Self help books like this also make me realize how fucked western civilization is.
Self help books like this also make me realize how fucked western civilization is.
June 24, 2024
Why is no one talking about how misleading the name of the book is? Isn’t a book named Ikigai supposed to be talking about Ikigai (the literal meaning of the word is purpose of life)? Instead, all the book talks about is how to live a long life. I don’t get how people are not seeing this.
December 26, 2024
pqp acho que vou morrer cedo então
January 30, 2025
Interesting and informative! Definitely gave me some ideas of things I’d like to get better at implementing in my own life.
February 26, 2025
Lovely, cute, cosy and surprisingly helpful. Have recommended to a few of my friends who need to find their Ikigai (I got mine #smug). Deffo a little taster doesn’t go too in depth but liked it for that reason.
November 26, 2024
Written like a high school persuasive essay with concepts on how to live longer. Now I’m not here to tell someone what their purpose in life should be but I don’t think it should be living longer. Quality over quantity and whatnot. 2 stars for the lil paragraph on Studio Ghibli and Hayao Miyazaki!!
April 9, 2024
This book is NOT a book about finding your purpose (ie, Ikigai). It’s a book about living a long life (ie, not Ikigai). More so, it doesn’t provide any structured or practical advice to take away and implement. It’s mostly anecdotes. It’s as helpful as the ramblings of an old man. It spends a lot of time on what old people have done in their lives, and attributes that to their longevity, which is a tenuous connection at best. Not surprising, one thing a lot of notable or notably old people have in common is a purpose! But this book gives no practical or valuable advice on how to work through identifying your own purpose (beyond suggesting that you try doing some art).
April 3, 2024
An interesting read. Some of the concepts are well-known and logical, but others are less familliar. It is always interesting to see different perspectives and try to learn something from different cultures. Eventhough aspects like: Keep moving, eat healthy and find the thing you are passionate about seem logical it is usefull to deepen your knowledge on these aspects to find what works for you.
August 11, 2024
actual rating: 3.5 stars
September 20, 2024
A delightful little book, packed full of wisdom that everyone should read!
March 14, 2024
Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life the book.
I picked it up because it sounded interesting and was a tiny 3 hour long audiobook.
Unfortunately it could've been 1 hour and still repeated itself too much.
While I understand the core idea of Ikigai being the intersection of
1. What you love
2. What you are good at
3. What the world needs
4. What you can be paid for
It completely ignores the incompatibility of this and the capitalism of today where what you can be paid for that allows you to live is much more limited.
It touted famous artists and their achievements as them following their Ikigai, completely ignoring the confirmation bias of that individual being the one to succeed while 1000's would've attempted the same and been forced to find alternative work despite it being something they love and are good at.
There are no original ideas in this book, which is fine. But it doesn't become anything more than the sum of its parts by collating it. I can tell you this with confidence as the book covered Logotherapy and the entire content relating to that came directly from Mans Search for Meaning with no additional information or any original commentary around it.
I honestly believe each chapter in this book has been an A Current Affair story about a particular way to achieve long life; you won't believe how they do it!
Spoiler Alert:
A good diet, a non sedentary life style and healthy community connections.
Oh try and live a stress free life, get a good amount of sleep too.
Thanks book why hadn't I thought of that yet?
Also the only advice for finding your Ikigai was
- What activity lets you enter your flow state?
- Okay now try activities similar to it
- Okay now try other activities.
I picked it up because it sounded interesting and was a tiny 3 hour long audiobook.
Unfortunately it could've been 1 hour and still repeated itself too much.
While I understand the core idea of Ikigai being the intersection of
1. What you love
2. What you are good at
3. What the world needs
4. What you can be paid for
It completely ignores the incompatibility of this and the capitalism of today where what you can be paid for that allows you to live is much more limited.
It touted famous artists and their achievements as them following their Ikigai, completely ignoring the confirmation bias of that individual being the one to succeed while 1000's would've attempted the same and been forced to find alternative work despite it being something they love and are good at.
There are no original ideas in this book, which is fine. But it doesn't become anything more than the sum of its parts by collating it. I can tell you this with confidence as the book covered Logotherapy and the entire content relating to that came directly from Mans Search for Meaning with no additional information or any original commentary around it.
I honestly believe each chapter in this book has been an A Current Affair story about a particular way to achieve long life; you won't believe how they do it!
Spoiler Alert:
A good diet, a non sedentary life style and healthy community connections.
Oh try and live a stress free life, get a good amount of sleep too.
Thanks book why hadn't I thought of that yet?
Also the only advice for finding your Ikigai was
- What activity lets you enter your flow state?
- Okay now try activities similar to it
- Okay now try other activities.
September 23, 2024
3.25 stars ⭐️ Takeaway for myself:
- Drink loads of tea! High-quality green or white tea. Jasmine tea comes the closest to what the Okinawa people drink.
- Eat your fruits and vegetables é
- Eat until you’re 80% full
- Meet up with loads of friends
- Start a vegetable garden 🌱🍄🫛
- Doe een zonnegroet (hatha yoga) :)
- Look into stoicism and zen bhuddism
- Always work two jobs. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Makes you more resilient and versatile.
when you’re multitasking:
- Productivity reduces with at least 60%
- The IQ is lowered with 10 points
- You’re more prone to symptoms of depression, bad quality of sleep and feelings of social exclusion
Conclusion: multitasking is good for absolutely nothing
How to maximise chances of getting into flow 🧘🏻♀�
1. put your phone off or on do not disturb
2. Find a spot where you’re not distracted
3. Have standard moment where you check your email. E.g. every morning when you open your computer and when you stop working.
4. Meditate and/ or exercise
Other facts I’ve learned:
- People have 60.000 thoughts a day 🧠
- Think of wabi sabi = the Japanese concept of looking for beauty in imperfections 🧌
- Ichi go ichi e = this moment only exists right here, right now 🥹
- Nietzsche’s quote ‘what doesn’t kill me makes me stronger� (no, Kelly Clarkson did not say it first) inspired Nicholas Taleb to propose the word ‘antifragile� to describe a hydra’s quality to become stronger after being hit (from Greek mythology). Is this what inspired the kpop song antifragile?!?!
- Drink loads of tea! High-quality green or white tea. Jasmine tea comes the closest to what the Okinawa people drink.
- Eat your fruits and vegetables é
- Eat until you’re 80% full
- Meet up with loads of friends
- Start a vegetable garden 🌱🍄🫛
- Doe een zonnegroet (hatha yoga) :)
- Look into stoicism and zen bhuddism
- Always work two jobs. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Makes you more resilient and versatile.
when you’re multitasking:
- Productivity reduces with at least 60%
- The IQ is lowered with 10 points
- You’re more prone to symptoms of depression, bad quality of sleep and feelings of social exclusion
Conclusion: multitasking is good for absolutely nothing
How to maximise chances of getting into flow 🧘🏻♀�
1. put your phone off or on do not disturb
2. Find a spot where you’re not distracted
3. Have standard moment where you check your email. E.g. every morning when you open your computer and when you stop working.
4. Meditate and/ or exercise
Other facts I’ve learned:
- People have 60.000 thoughts a day 🧠
- Think of wabi sabi = the Japanese concept of looking for beauty in imperfections 🧌
- Ichi go ichi e = this moment only exists right here, right now 🥹
- Nietzsche’s quote ‘what doesn’t kill me makes me stronger� (no, Kelly Clarkson did not say it first) inspired Nicholas Taleb to propose the word ‘antifragile� to describe a hydra’s quality to become stronger after being hit (from Greek mythology). Is this what inspired the kpop song antifragile?!?!
August 28, 2024
While filled with good (but rarely novel) tidbits like "eat until you're full" or "move everyday", this book infuriated me endlessly. That's probably because this book was written for the neurotypical as well as those who don't have to live paycheck to paycheck. The entire chapter on logotherapy was so dismissive of mental illness, literally referring to it as "spiritual anguish" and attributing anxiety and feelings of emptiness to a lack of purpose in life. The advice of slowing down also can be helpful, if you are of a certain socioeconomic status and can afford to slow down. Self help books should always be approached with caution naturally, but I will not be taking advice from a book that tells me to skip dessert, sorry.
On the flip side, it was genuinely lovely to hear about the centenarians in Japan and their communities and the importance of friendship and smiling, so I'll give it that. The anecdotes from 100 year olds about dancing keeping them young are especially close to my heart.
Ultimately(as any conscious consumer should do obviously) I'm only taking the pieces of advice that spoke with me (which, like one reviewer said, was only like 10% of this book). And I'm most definitely not skipping dessert.
On the flip side, it was genuinely lovely to hear about the centenarians in Japan and their communities and the importance of friendship and smiling, so I'll give it that. The anecdotes from 100 year olds about dancing keeping them young are especially close to my heart.
Ultimately(as any conscious consumer should do obviously) I'm only taking the pieces of advice that spoke with me (which, like one reviewer said, was only like 10% of this book). And I'm most definitely not skipping dessert.
April 1, 2025
Uzun zamandır okuduğum mutluluk üzerine Taoist felsefeyi konu alan, uzun ve mutlu yaşam sırlarını veren kitapların toplamı ve hatta bir tık altında olduğunu söyleyebilirim.
Bu türdeki kitaplarda hep söylediğim gibi hiç duymadığımız, hayatın gizli sırrını veren nitelikte kitaplar değiller, sadece günlük hayatta unuttuğumuz şeyleri kendinize hatırlatmak amacıyla okuyabileceğiniz türden kitaplar o yüzden büyük bir beklentim yoktu. Hayatta hep duyduğumuz az kaygı, çok hareket, ağırdan almak, odaklanmak, doğayla iç içe olmak, gülümsemek, düzenli uyku ve egzersiz, az yemek gibi başlıca şeylerin bizi mutluluğa iteceğini ve uzun yaşayacağımızı anlatıyor. Belirttiğim gibi ilk defa duyduğumuz ve şaşırtan bilgiler değil, yazar güzel bir çalışma yapmış bazı şeyleri kendimize hatırlamak amacıyla okunabilir.
Fakat, eleştirmem gereken nokta şu ki; kitap gündemden ve insanların çoğunun yaşadığı hayattan çok uzak ele alınmış. Sanki böyle yaşamayı biz tercih etmişiz gibi, sanki kısa anlık hazlar olan (abur cubur yemek, telefona bakmak) gibi şeyleri kökten kesip kendimize 1 günlüğüne interneti kesip hayata odaklanacak vaktimiz varmış ve birden fazla iş yapmadan tek işe odaklanabilirmişiz gibi şeylerin kitapta yazması çok ütopik ve rasyonellikten çok uzak. Çalışmak zorunda olmasam, maddi yeterliliğim olsa ve kaygılanacak başka bir şeyim olmasa zaten ben de isterim köyüme dönüp hayvanlarla ve tarlayla ilgilenip doğayla iç içe yaşarken yavaş bir hayat sürüp işlerime odaklanmak ve internetten telefondan uzak bir hayat sürüp mutlu olmak gerçekten basit ve güzel olurdu :) Ama maalesef böyle bir hayat şuan mümkün değil ama bunu söyleyip vazgeçmek de doğru değil. Şahsen şuan yapabileceğim tek şey bu hayatı ve zorluklarını kabul edip olabildiğince mutlu bir hayat yaşamaya çalışmak...
Bu türdeki kitaplarda hep söylediğim gibi hiç duymadığımız, hayatın gizli sırrını veren nitelikte kitaplar değiller, sadece günlük hayatta unuttuğumuz şeyleri kendinize hatırlatmak amacıyla okuyabileceğiniz türden kitaplar o yüzden büyük bir beklentim yoktu. Hayatta hep duyduğumuz az kaygı, çok hareket, ağırdan almak, odaklanmak, doğayla iç içe olmak, gülümsemek, düzenli uyku ve egzersiz, az yemek gibi başlıca şeylerin bizi mutluluğa iteceğini ve uzun yaşayacağımızı anlatıyor. Belirttiğim gibi ilk defa duyduğumuz ve şaşırtan bilgiler değil, yazar güzel bir çalışma yapmış bazı şeyleri kendimize hatırlamak amacıyla okunabilir.
Fakat, eleştirmem gereken nokta şu ki; kitap gündemden ve insanların çoğunun yaşadığı hayattan çok uzak ele alınmış. Sanki böyle yaşamayı biz tercih etmişiz gibi, sanki kısa anlık hazlar olan (abur cubur yemek, telefona bakmak) gibi şeyleri kökten kesip kendimize 1 günlüğüne interneti kesip hayata odaklanacak vaktimiz varmış ve birden fazla iş yapmadan tek işe odaklanabilirmişiz gibi şeylerin kitapta yazması çok ütopik ve rasyonellikten çok uzak. Çalışmak zorunda olmasam, maddi yeterliliğim olsa ve kaygılanacak başka bir şeyim olmasa zaten ben de isterim köyüme dönüp hayvanlarla ve tarlayla ilgilenip doğayla iç içe yaşarken yavaş bir hayat sürüp işlerime odaklanmak ve internetten telefondan uzak bir hayat sürüp mutlu olmak gerçekten basit ve güzel olurdu :) Ama maalesef böyle bir hayat şuan mümkün değil ama bunu söyleyip vazgeçmek de doğru değil. Şahsen şuan yapabileceğim tek şey bu hayatı ve zorluklarını kabul edip olabildiğince mutlu bir hayat yaşamaya çalışmak...
November 25, 2024
Якби не любила так Японію то об'єктивно тут стояли 2 зірки.
Автори явно люблять Японію і це плюс і мінус одночасно. Книжка дуже ідеалізована, відчуття рожевих окулярів не зникає. Спочатку мені подобалися ці розповіді про зоряні чаші, про сумоїстів, про острів довгожителів але з часом з'явилося відчуття газети "Порадниця". А саме, твердження по типу "зелений чай з жасмином вирощеним на Окінаві усуває побічні дії ліків від раку" і жодного посилання на наукові дослідження і такого там багато. Також кілька останніх розділів починаючи з розділу про фізичні вправи викликають враження того що автори вирішили вставити конспектик прочитаних книг з саморозвитку. Згадується, наприклад, "Антикрихкість" Талеба і порада мати кілька джерел доходу (що зовсім не корелює ні з темою, ні з вайбом книжки але хай буде) а в наступному розділі вже тезисно підводяться висновки з життя довгожителів де кажуть що треба бути ближче до природи.
Автори явно люблять Японію і це плюс і мінус одночасно. Книжка дуже ідеалізована, відчуття рожевих окулярів не зникає. Спочатку мені подобалися ці розповіді про зоряні чаші, про сумоїстів, про острів довгожителів але з часом з'явилося відчуття газети "Порадниця". А саме, твердження по типу "зелений чай з жасмином вирощеним на Окінаві усуває побічні дії ліків від раку" і жодного посилання на наукові дослідження і такого там багато. Також кілька останніх розділів починаючи з розділу про фізичні вправи викликають враження того що автори вирішили вставити конспектик прочитаних книг з саморозвитку. Згадується, наприклад, "Антикрихкість" Талеба і порада мати кілька джерел доходу (що зовсім не корелює ні з темою, ні з вайбом книжки але хай буде) а в наступному розділі вже тезисно підводяться висновки з життя довгожителів де кажуть що треба бути ближче до природи.
February 15, 2025
This was one of my first self guide books and it was pretty good.
It teached much about the culture of japan and what to do to fulfill your happiness.
I earned a lot of tipps but sometimes there were parts where i really couldn’t identify myself with.
In the end it was a smooth read and i learned a lot but i would wish as a european to have gathered more tipps how i can fulfill this „IKIGAI�.
It seems easy as a japanese person but i do not have their recourses or lifestyle�
It wasn’t bad but it didn’t give me what i expected 🤷🏽♀�
3/5 stars ^^
It teached much about the culture of japan and what to do to fulfill your happiness.
I earned a lot of tipps but sometimes there were parts where i really couldn’t identify myself with.
In the end it was a smooth read and i learned a lot but i would wish as a european to have gathered more tipps how i can fulfill this „IKIGAI�.
It seems easy as a japanese person but i do not have their recourses or lifestyle�
It wasn’t bad but it didn’t give me what i expected 🤷🏽♀�
3/5 stars ^^
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