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賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賴賵 丕賱鬲胤賵乇 丕賱胤亘賷毓賶 賱兀賰孬乇 賰鬲亘 兀賳丿乇賵 賲亘賷毓丌 賮賶 丕賱毓丕賱賲 ( 賰賳 爻毓賷丿丌 ) 貙 賵賴賵 賰鬲丕亘 亘爻賷胤 賵 毓賲賱賶 賵 賲賲鬲毓 噩丿丕 , 賵賷鬲丨丿孬 毓賳 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳 ... 賲賳 賳丨亘 賵賲賳 賷賯賵賲賵賳 亘賲爻丕毓丿鬲賳丕 賵賲賳 賷毓鬲賲丿賵賳 毓賱賷賳丕 賵賲賳 賳乇睾亘 賮賶 乇丐賷鬲賴賲 賵賲賳 賳乇睾亘 賮賷 丕賱丕亘鬲毓丕丿 毓賳賴賲.
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August 14, 2012
丿賱賷賱 卮丕賲賱 賱賰賷賮賷賴 丕賱鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳 賱賷爻 賮賯胤 賲賳 兀噩賱 賰爻亘 丕賱兀氐丿賯丕亍 亘賱 賱賱鬲丨賰賲 亘丕賱匕丕鬲 貙 賲賲鬲毓 賵卮賷賯 賵乇丕卅毓!! 兀丨鬲丕噩 丿丕卅賲丕 賱毓賵丿賴 賱賴 賵賯乇丕亍丞 賲賯鬲胤賮丕鬲 賲賳賴 賵鬲匕賰乇 丿乇賵爻賴 丕賱丨賰賷賲丞 .
October 28, 2012
Making Friends - Andrew Mathews
Title: Making Friends 鈥� A Guide to Getting Along with People
Written and illustrated by 鈥� ANDREW MATTHEWS (author of the international bestseller 鈥楤eing Happy!鈥�
My Views: It is a perfect teacher provided you are a dull student.This is book is about getting well along with people, that is how you can improve your relationship with them, how you can understand their attitude, how you can understand their personality, and how to overcome the problem they face and need someone to help them. If somebody has an attitude for seeking tension or problem, and he feels that everyone ignores him, he will try to attract everyone鈥檚 attention. People keep highlighting your weaknesses or problems but don鈥檛 get bogged down by this, ignore it, swallow it, digest it and silently improve upon it. Don鈥檛 let yourself go into a shell because of this, overcome this weakness or problem. If people are not happy with you, or ignore you, seek answers from them why they do it, what is the reason, what do I do that I don鈥檛 get ignored. People have a tendency to react sharply if your weakness is highlighted, like if somebody says your body has a bad odor, people, friends around you will start ignoring you, even if they are not getting bad smell at all. More happens on preception and listening than actual experience.
Like yourself, love yourself, but don鈥檛 ignore others, like others too, don鈥檛 be too proud of yourself.
Stop comparing and stop getting depressed if you are compared. Emphasize that you are you and not that person with whom you are being compared.
Avoid boasters who praise themselves and always let others down
Before changing others, change yourself, adjust, compromise and your life will be happy.
Don鈥檛 wait for others to come to you and invite to join a party, throw a party and invite people. That will start a cycle.
Get out of corner, stop hiding yourself.
Don鈥檛 wait for other to come and highlight your weaknesses, or improve you, change yourself, who knows you better than YOU.
Don鈥檛 fear of a CHANGE.
Don鈥檛 let your low esteem work in reverse.
Who is bothered about the pimples on your face, go out of your room instead of waiting in your room for pimples to leave your face (and you stop all your outdoor activities)
Quit playing games, don鈥檛 pretend, and pour your heart out. You want to go out for a dinner, but you want your wife/husband to say this. How does she/he know what you have in your mind right now? And how you are so sure that she/he will refuse? But be sure that it is NO if you don鈥檛 talk about it.
Sometimes L ive your life to fit your belief system. Mary doesn鈥檛 feel good about her. And due to this perception about her, she is usually ignored by most of her friends. Fred likes her, behaves well with her but Mary starts wondering why Fred likes her when she is not likable, and starts ignoring him, responding him. Fred feels ignored and gets a reverse message that Mary doesn鈥檛 like him. So he silently moves away from her life. Now a stage comes in Mary鈥檚 life when nobody likes her and she starts scolding herself that why nobody is there to like her. Why there are no good persons in my life. Why everyone ignores me? Lucy has a belief system that there are good people around in the world and she can always find the caring and loving people to be with. She decides not to spend any time with the people who don鈥檛 like her, or who are rude and aggressive. With this attitude she is able to find good and caring people and leave lousy people for Mary. Decide what you want to be 鈥� Mary or Lucy?
Martin has a habit of taking everybody鈥檚 work besides his own work in the office. He found a friend, who wanted to help him, but this looked abnormal to Martin and he pushed this friend away from his life. Martin thinks that all the people who don鈥檛 help him in his work and who don鈥檛 do their own work are normal.
About Book: This book is about enjoying people, dealing with prophets of doom, how to say NO sometimes, prevailing over gossip, pettiness and anger. It is about understanding that IF YOU WANT FRIENDSHIP, YOU MUST BE A FRIEND FIRST. The book is funny reading too with a lot of serious learning. It has lot of comical strips which are perfectly able to convey the message. Like one says 鈥� 鈥淭here are 70% people having problem with their partners. Ok, what about the rest of 30%. Oh, they are singles.鈥� Another one says 鈥� 鈥淏ut I don鈥檛 want to concentrate on my business, yours is more interesting than mine.鈥� There are lot many more, all interesting, funny but meaningful. Author says 鈥淏eing Happy鈥� was about yourself, this book is about people around you, people who depend on you, those you want to see, and those you avoid.
About Author: Andrew Matthew is based in Adelaide in South Australia. His first book Being Happy became a worldwide publishing phenomenon after its release in 1988. His writing, illustrating and public speaking talents are in great demand throughout North America, Europe, Southeast Asia and Australia.
Title: Making Friends 鈥� A Guide to Getting Along with People
Written and illustrated by 鈥� ANDREW MATTHEWS (author of the international bestseller 鈥楤eing Happy!鈥�
My Views: It is a perfect teacher provided you are a dull student.This is book is about getting well along with people, that is how you can improve your relationship with them, how you can understand their attitude, how you can understand their personality, and how to overcome the problem they face and need someone to help them. If somebody has an attitude for seeking tension or problem, and he feels that everyone ignores him, he will try to attract everyone鈥檚 attention. People keep highlighting your weaknesses or problems but don鈥檛 get bogged down by this, ignore it, swallow it, digest it and silently improve upon it. Don鈥檛 let yourself go into a shell because of this, overcome this weakness or problem. If people are not happy with you, or ignore you, seek answers from them why they do it, what is the reason, what do I do that I don鈥檛 get ignored. People have a tendency to react sharply if your weakness is highlighted, like if somebody says your body has a bad odor, people, friends around you will start ignoring you, even if they are not getting bad smell at all. More happens on preception and listening than actual experience.
Like yourself, love yourself, but don鈥檛 ignore others, like others too, don鈥檛 be too proud of yourself.
Stop comparing and stop getting depressed if you are compared. Emphasize that you are you and not that person with whom you are being compared.
Avoid boasters who praise themselves and always let others down
Before changing others, change yourself, adjust, compromise and your life will be happy.
Don鈥檛 wait for others to come to you and invite to join a party, throw a party and invite people. That will start a cycle.
Get out of corner, stop hiding yourself.
Don鈥檛 wait for other to come and highlight your weaknesses, or improve you, change yourself, who knows you better than YOU.
Don鈥檛 fear of a CHANGE.
Don鈥檛 let your low esteem work in reverse.
Who is bothered about the pimples on your face, go out of your room instead of waiting in your room for pimples to leave your face (and you stop all your outdoor activities)
Quit playing games, don鈥檛 pretend, and pour your heart out. You want to go out for a dinner, but you want your wife/husband to say this. How does she/he know what you have in your mind right now? And how you are so sure that she/he will refuse? But be sure that it is NO if you don鈥檛 talk about it.
Sometimes L ive your life to fit your belief system. Mary doesn鈥檛 feel good about her. And due to this perception about her, she is usually ignored by most of her friends. Fred likes her, behaves well with her but Mary starts wondering why Fred likes her when she is not likable, and starts ignoring him, responding him. Fred feels ignored and gets a reverse message that Mary doesn鈥檛 like him. So he silently moves away from her life. Now a stage comes in Mary鈥檚 life when nobody likes her and she starts scolding herself that why nobody is there to like her. Why there are no good persons in my life. Why everyone ignores me? Lucy has a belief system that there are good people around in the world and she can always find the caring and loving people to be with. She decides not to spend any time with the people who don鈥檛 like her, or who are rude and aggressive. With this attitude she is able to find good and caring people and leave lousy people for Mary. Decide what you want to be 鈥� Mary or Lucy?
Martin has a habit of taking everybody鈥檚 work besides his own work in the office. He found a friend, who wanted to help him, but this looked abnormal to Martin and he pushed this friend away from his life. Martin thinks that all the people who don鈥檛 help him in his work and who don鈥檛 do their own work are normal.
About Book: This book is about enjoying people, dealing with prophets of doom, how to say NO sometimes, prevailing over gossip, pettiness and anger. It is about understanding that IF YOU WANT FRIENDSHIP, YOU MUST BE A FRIEND FIRST. The book is funny reading too with a lot of serious learning. It has lot of comical strips which are perfectly able to convey the message. Like one says 鈥� 鈥淭here are 70% people having problem with their partners. Ok, what about the rest of 30%. Oh, they are singles.鈥� Another one says 鈥� 鈥淏ut I don鈥檛 want to concentrate on my business, yours is more interesting than mine.鈥� There are lot many more, all interesting, funny but meaningful. Author says 鈥淏eing Happy鈥� was about yourself, this book is about people around you, people who depend on you, those you want to see, and those you avoid.
About Author: Andrew Matthew is based in Adelaide in South Australia. His first book Being Happy became a worldwide publishing phenomenon after its release in 1988. His writing, illustrating and public speaking talents are in great demand throughout North America, Europe, Southeast Asia and Australia.
October 1, 2014
An easy, entertaining and inspiring read for anyone willing to take a step further in improving their relationships with anyone. :)
October 12, 2018
M峄檛 cu峄憂 s谩ch r岷 hay, th峄眂 s峄� 膽茫 gi煤p t么i r岷 nhi峄乽 trong c谩ch 峄﹏g x峄� h脿ng ng脿y, c谩ch suy ngh末 膽峄� t峄� 膽贸 tr峄� th脿nh m峄檛 con ng瓢峄漣 vui v岷� h啤n, hanh ph煤c h啤n, 膽瓢峄 m峄峣 ng瓢峄漣 t么n tr峄峮g. Cu峄憂 s谩ch 膽脿o s芒u v脿o nh峄痭g r岷痗 r峄慽 m脿 b岷 th芒n ch煤ng ta hay g岷穚 ph岷 c农ng nh瓢 c谩ch 膽峄� gi岷 quy岷縯 nh峄痭g v岷 膽峄� 膽贸 nh瓢:
- Ta ph岷 膽峄慽 x峄� v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c theo c谩ch m脿 ta mu峄憂 h峄� 膽峄慽 x峄� v峄沬 m矛nh
- Khi ch煤ng ta l脿m ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ph岷璽 媒 v脿 h峄� tr峄� n锚n gi岷璶 d峄� th矛 膽i峄乽 膽岷 ti锚n ch煤ng ta n锚n l脿m l脿 l岷痭g nghe, t么n tr峄峮g v脿 膽峄搉g c岷 v峄沬 h峄� (sau 膽贸 m峄沬 gi岷 th铆ch)
- Ta ph岷 lu么n t岷璸 c谩ch n贸i th岷璽, th岷硁g th岷痭 m峄檛 c谩ch kh茅o l茅o v峄� m峄峣 th峄� (nh瓢 khi ta t峄ヽ ai 膽贸 v峄� vi峄嘽 g矛 膽贸, h茫y n贸i th岷硁g v峄沬 h峄�)
- Ta kh么ng nh岷 thi岷縯 ph岷 l脿m v峄玜 l貌ng t岷 c岷� m峄峣 ng瓢峄漣 ta g岷穚, c峄� s峄憂g theo c谩ch ta mu峄憂, mi峄卬 l脿 ta c岷 th岷 h脿i l貌ng v峄沬 c谩ch s峄憂g 膽贸 v脿 膽峄玭g gi岷 th铆ch v峄� 膽i峄乽 膽贸 v峄沬 nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 m脿 b岷 cho l脿 kh么ng c岷 thi岷縯.
- 膼峄玭g ng岷 ng岷 trong vi峄嘽 trao 膽i nh峄痭g l峄漣 khen ng峄 m峄檛 c谩ch ch芒n th脿nh v矛 膽贸 s岷� l脿 膽峄檔g l峄眂 cho ng瓢峄漣 nh岷璶 膽瓢峄 l峄漣 khen 膽峄� ti岷縫 t峄 t峄� tin ph谩t huy, tr峄� n锚n t峄憈 h啤n.
- Lu么n c峄� g岷痭g gi峄� cho l峄漣 n贸i 膽i li峄乶 v峄沬 h脿nh 膽峄檔g, khi b岷 h峄゛ v峄沬 ai 膽贸 vi峄嘽 g矛 膽贸 th矛 h茫y l脿m, n贸 kh么ng ch峄� gi煤p b岷 th岷 膽瓢峄 gi谩 tr峄� c峄 m矛nh m脿 c貌n gi煤p b岷 膽瓢峄 t么n tr峄峮g trong m岷痶 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c.
- Kh么ng n锚n n贸i nh峄痭g g矛 m脿 m矛nh c岷 th岷 kh么ng gi岷 quy岷縯 膽瓢峄 g矛 c岷� 膽峄� tr谩nh ph岷 h峄慽 h岷璶 sau n脿y.
- V脿 cu峄慽 c霉ng l脿 ta n锚n t峄� gi煤p m矛nh tr峄� n锚n h岷h ph煤c b岷眓g c谩ch cho 膽i nhi峄乽 h啤n l脿 nh岷璶; ng峄玭g vi峄嘽 ph谩n x茅t ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c, 膽峄� h峄� c贸 kh么ng gian ri锚ng 膽峄� c岷 nh岷璶 cu峄檆 s峄憂g theo c谩ch c峄 h峄�; v脿 ph岷 nh峄� r岷眓g kh么ng ai l脿 ho脿n thi峄噉 v矛 th岷� ph岷 bi岷縯 ch岷 nh岷璶 v脿 y锚u th铆ch nh峄痭g 膽i峄僲 kh谩c bi峄噒 c峄 h峄�, t峄� 膽贸 b峄� sung, l脿m cho cu峄檆 膽峄漣 m矛nh phong ph煤, th煤 v峄� h啤n!
- Ta ph岷 膽峄慽 x峄� v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c theo c谩ch m脿 ta mu峄憂 h峄� 膽峄慽 x峄� v峄沬 m矛nh
- Khi ch煤ng ta l脿m ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ph岷璽 媒 v脿 h峄� tr峄� n锚n gi岷璶 d峄� th矛 膽i峄乽 膽岷 ti锚n ch煤ng ta n锚n l脿m l脿 l岷痭g nghe, t么n tr峄峮g v脿 膽峄搉g c岷 v峄沬 h峄� (sau 膽贸 m峄沬 gi岷 th铆ch)
- Ta ph岷 lu么n t岷璸 c谩ch n贸i th岷璽, th岷硁g th岷痭 m峄檛 c谩ch kh茅o l茅o v峄� m峄峣 th峄� (nh瓢 khi ta t峄ヽ ai 膽贸 v峄� vi峄嘽 g矛 膽贸, h茫y n贸i th岷硁g v峄沬 h峄�)
- Ta kh么ng nh岷 thi岷縯 ph岷 l脿m v峄玜 l貌ng t岷 c岷� m峄峣 ng瓢峄漣 ta g岷穚, c峄� s峄憂g theo c谩ch ta mu峄憂, mi峄卬 l脿 ta c岷 th岷 h脿i l貌ng v峄沬 c谩ch s峄憂g 膽贸 v脿 膽峄玭g gi岷 th铆ch v峄� 膽i峄乽 膽贸 v峄沬 nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 m脿 b岷 cho l脿 kh么ng c岷 thi岷縯.
- 膼峄玭g ng岷 ng岷 trong vi峄嘽 trao 膽i nh峄痭g l峄漣 khen ng峄 m峄檛 c谩ch ch芒n th脿nh v矛 膽贸 s岷� l脿 膽峄檔g l峄眂 cho ng瓢峄漣 nh岷璶 膽瓢峄 l峄漣 khen 膽峄� ti岷縫 t峄 t峄� tin ph谩t huy, tr峄� n锚n t峄憈 h啤n.
- Lu么n c峄� g岷痭g gi峄� cho l峄漣 n贸i 膽i li峄乶 v峄沬 h脿nh 膽峄檔g, khi b岷 h峄゛ v峄沬 ai 膽贸 vi峄嘽 g矛 膽贸 th矛 h茫y l脿m, n贸 kh么ng ch峄� gi煤p b岷 th岷 膽瓢峄 gi谩 tr峄� c峄 m矛nh m脿 c貌n gi煤p b岷 膽瓢峄 t么n tr峄峮g trong m岷痶 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c.
- Kh么ng n锚n n贸i nh峄痭g g矛 m脿 m矛nh c岷 th岷 kh么ng gi岷 quy岷縯 膽瓢峄 g矛 c岷� 膽峄� tr谩nh ph岷 h峄慽 h岷璶 sau n脿y.
- V脿 cu峄慽 c霉ng l脿 ta n锚n t峄� gi煤p m矛nh tr峄� n锚n h岷h ph煤c b岷眓g c谩ch cho 膽i nhi峄乽 h啤n l脿 nh岷璶; ng峄玭g vi峄嘽 ph谩n x茅t ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c, 膽峄� h峄� c贸 kh么ng gian ri锚ng 膽峄� c岷 nh岷璶 cu峄檆 s峄憂g theo c谩ch c峄 h峄�; v脿 ph岷 nh峄� r岷眓g kh么ng ai l脿 ho脿n thi峄噉 v矛 th岷� ph岷 bi岷縯 ch岷 nh岷璶 v脿 y锚u th铆ch nh峄痭g 膽i峄僲 kh谩c bi峄噒 c峄 h峄�, t峄� 膽贸 b峄� sung, l脿m cho cu峄檆 膽峄漣 m矛nh phong ph煤, th煤 v峄� h啤n!
August 15, 2019
I read about 60% of this book and lend a friend it but she didn't send me back so I think I lost it.
By the way, Andrew Matthews never disappointed us in have huge influence in our mindset, our attitude in ourselves and life. It's still that humorous in every story and words he told but not boring any more.
By the way, Andrew Matthews never disappointed us in have huge influence in our mindset, our attitude in ourselves and life. It's still that humorous in every story and words he told but not boring any more.
December 14, 2019
Well, I think it was my first non-technical book that I actually finished it. it's 30 years past at the time this was written but still, I could get some points out of it that can help me with my life.
and I wrote this:
and I wrote this:
November 28, 2021
Velmi inspiruj铆c铆 kniha, kter谩 n谩m jednoduch媒m zp暖sobem vysv臎tluje, jak (a pro膷) se spr谩vn臎 chovat ke sv媒m p艡谩tel暖m.
June 3, 2020
膼峄漣 thay 膽峄昳 khi ch煤ng ta th么i 膽岷﹜ - 膼岷痗 nh芒n t芒m d脿nh cho c谩c b岷 nh峄� mu峄憂 x茫 giao
C啤 b岷 th矛 ch煤ng ta b峄� 岷h h瓢峄焠g t峄� nh峄痭g cu峄憂 s谩ch m脿 ch煤ng ta 膽峄峜 膽岷 ti锚n, v脿 cu峄憂 s谩ch 岷h h瓢峄焠g t峄� v峄� c谩ch x茫 giao l脿 T么i t脿i gi峄廼, b岷 c农ng th岷� v脿 膼岷痗 nh芒n t芒m. Cho n锚n t峄� ch峄� nh瓢 膽ang 膽峄峜 l岷 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 t峄� 膽茫 bi岷縯 m脿 th么i. C啤 b岷 th矛 x茫 giao kh么ng x岷, b峄焛 trong cu峄檆 膽峄漣 n脿y ch煤ng ta s岷� g岷穚 v么 s峄� nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 m脿 ta s岷� ch岷硁g bao gi峄� g岷穚 l岷, th矛 sao kh么ng 膽峄� l岷 cho nhau ch煤t 岷 t瓢峄g t峄憈 nh峄�. C貌n v峄沬 b岷 b猫, th矛 n锚n ch啤i th脿nh th岷璽 v脿 h岷縯 m矛nh nh茅, d霉 c贸 th峄� b峄� b岷 b猫 ch啤i l岷 h岷縯 h峄搉.
Cu峄憂 n脿y t峄� nhai t峄沬 t岷璶 c岷� n峄痑 th谩ng m峄沬 xong. C啤 b岷 v矛 t峄� kh么ng th铆ch m岷 cu峄憂 self help l岷痬, d霉 t峄� l岷 v么 c霉ng th铆ch 膽峄峜 nh峄痭g b脿i vi岷縯 nh峄� v峄� ph谩t tri峄僴 b岷 th芒n. Cu峄憂 n脿y m岷 anh ch峄� d峄媍h c农ng h啤i ch谩n, d峄媍h ki峄僽 google translate 媒, m脿 v膬n h贸a c峄 M峄� th矛 kh谩c Vi峄噒 kh谩 nhi峄乽. N锚n t峄� ch峄� th铆ch m岷 cu峄憂 ki峄僽 ph贸ng t谩c nh瓢 膼岷痗 Nh芒n T芒m c峄 b谩c Nguy峄卬 Hi岷縩 L锚, ch峄� b岷 d峄媍h m峄沬 g岷 膽芒y 膽峄峜 c农ng ng谩n ng岷﹎ t瓢啤ng t峄�. T峄� th脿 膽峄峜 b岷 g峄慶 ti岷縩g Anh c貌n h啤n ...
V脿 t峄� ph岷 th峄玜 nh岷璶 t峄� kh么ng bi岷縯 c谩ch 膽峄峜 m岷 cu峄憂 ki峄僽 nonfiction, kh么ng th峄� 膽峄峜 t峄玭g ch峄� nh瓢 fiction 膽瓢峄, v矛 膽峄峜 xong t峄� ch岷硁g nh峄� g矛. V脿 t峄� 膽茫 谩p d峄g c谩ch 膽峄峜 m峄沬, v脿 hi峄噓 qu岷� tr么ng th岷, k岷縯 qu岷� n猫:
T峄昻g quan, g峄搈 6 ch瓢啤ng, trong 膽贸 3 ch瓢啤ng 膽岷 v峄� hi峄僽 r玫 v脿 ph谩t tri峄僴 b岷 th芒n 膽峄� h貌a h峄 v峄沬 b岷 b猫. 3 ch瓢啤ng sau l脿 v峄� hi峄僽 r玫 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c 膽峄� bi岷縯 c谩ch ch啤i v峄沬 b岷, ki峄僽 l峄盿 b岷 m脿 ch啤i 岷 m脿.
Ch瓢啤ng 1:
- 膽峄玭g qu谩 nghi锚m kh岷痗 v峄沬 b岷 th芒n
- h茫y y锚u th瓢啤ng m矛nh nhi峄乽 h啤n, ch岷 nh岷璶 nh峄痭g khi岷縨 khuy岷縯 c峄 b岷 th芒n.
Ch瓢啤ng 2:
- hi峄僽 r玫 ch铆nh m矛nh, bi岷縯 ch峄媢 tr谩ch nhi峄噈 tr瓢峄沜 cu峄檆 s峄憂g v脿 ng峄玭g 膽峄� l峄梚.
- bi岷縯 c谩ch th峄� hi峄噉 c岷 x煤c cho ph霉 h峄, nh瓢 gi岷璶 d峄梚, tr谩ch m贸c.
Ch瓢啤ng 3:
- 膽峄玭g qu谩 quan t芒m ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ngh末 g矛
- bi岷縯 c谩ch t峄� ch峄慽 v脿 n贸i kh么ng.p
Ch瓢啤ng 4
- bi岷縯 c谩ch n贸i chuy峄噉, h茫y n贸i ra nh峄痭g l峄漣 y锚u th瓢啤ng
- l岷痭g nghe 膽峄� th岷 c岷
Ch瓢啤ng 5
- h茫y bi岷縯 c谩ch khen ng峄 v脿 ph锚 b矛nh cho ph霉 h峄
- bi岷縯 khi n脿o n锚n im l岷穘g
Ch瓢啤ng 6
- h茫y cho 膽i tr瓢峄沜, h茫y gi煤p 膽峄� ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c tr瓢峄沜, v脿 b岷 s岷� nh岷璶 l岷 nhi峄乽 h啤n th岷� (t峄� 膽芒u 膽贸 kh谩c)
- t么n tr峄峮g s峄� kh谩c bi峄噒, t岷璸 trung v脿o 膽i峄僲 m岷h c峄 b岷 b猫.
D峄� l脿 s岷� 膽峄峜 h岷縯 膽峄憂g self help t峄� v峄﹖ bao n膬m trong gi谩 s谩ch b岷眓g c谩ch 膽峄峜 m峄沬 n脿y :))
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膼峄漣 Thay 膼峄昳 Khi Ch煤ng Ta Thay 膼峄昳 (T岷璸 2) - Making Friends | Andrew Matthews (1990)
S脿i G貌n, 15/12/2018 ; 庐M峄�
膼谩nh gi谩: 7/10 膽i峄僲
C啤 b岷 th矛 ch煤ng ta b峄� 岷h h瓢峄焠g t峄� nh峄痭g cu峄憂 s谩ch m脿 ch煤ng ta 膽峄峜 膽岷 ti锚n, v脿 cu峄憂 s谩ch 岷h h瓢峄焠g t峄� v峄� c谩ch x茫 giao l脿 T么i t脿i gi峄廼, b岷 c农ng th岷� v脿 膼岷痗 nh芒n t芒m. Cho n锚n t峄� ch峄� nh瓢 膽ang 膽峄峜 l岷 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 t峄� 膽茫 bi岷縯 m脿 th么i. C啤 b岷 th矛 x茫 giao kh么ng x岷, b峄焛 trong cu峄檆 膽峄漣 n脿y ch煤ng ta s岷� g岷穚 v么 s峄� nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 m脿 ta s岷� ch岷硁g bao gi峄� g岷穚 l岷, th矛 sao kh么ng 膽峄� l岷 cho nhau ch煤t 岷 t瓢峄g t峄憈 nh峄�. C貌n v峄沬 b岷 b猫, th矛 n锚n ch啤i th脿nh th岷璽 v脿 h岷縯 m矛nh nh茅, d霉 c贸 th峄� b峄� b岷 b猫 ch啤i l岷 h岷縯 h峄搉.
Cu峄憂 n脿y t峄� nhai t峄沬 t岷璶 c岷� n峄痑 th谩ng m峄沬 xong. C啤 b岷 v矛 t峄� kh么ng th铆ch m岷 cu峄憂 self help l岷痬, d霉 t峄� l岷 v么 c霉ng th铆ch 膽峄峜 nh峄痭g b脿i vi岷縯 nh峄� v峄� ph谩t tri峄僴 b岷 th芒n. Cu峄憂 n脿y m岷 anh ch峄� d峄媍h c农ng h啤i ch谩n, d峄媍h ki峄僽 google translate 媒, m脿 v膬n h贸a c峄 M峄� th矛 kh谩c Vi峄噒 kh谩 nhi峄乽. N锚n t峄� ch峄� th铆ch m岷 cu峄憂 ki峄僽 ph贸ng t谩c nh瓢 膼岷痗 Nh芒n T芒m c峄 b谩c Nguy峄卬 Hi岷縩 L锚, ch峄� b岷 d峄媍h m峄沬 g岷 膽芒y 膽峄峜 c农ng ng谩n ng岷﹎ t瓢啤ng t峄�. T峄� th脿 膽峄峜 b岷 g峄慶 ti岷縩g Anh c貌n h啤n ...
V脿 t峄� ph岷 th峄玜 nh岷璶 t峄� kh么ng bi岷縯 c谩ch 膽峄峜 m岷 cu峄憂 ki峄僽 nonfiction, kh么ng th峄� 膽峄峜 t峄玭g ch峄� nh瓢 fiction 膽瓢峄, v矛 膽峄峜 xong t峄� ch岷硁g nh峄� g矛. V脿 t峄� 膽茫 谩p d峄g c谩ch 膽峄峜 m峄沬, v脿 hi峄噓 qu岷� tr么ng th岷, k岷縯 qu岷� n猫:
T峄昻g quan, g峄搈 6 ch瓢啤ng, trong 膽贸 3 ch瓢啤ng 膽岷 v峄� hi峄僽 r玫 v脿 ph谩t tri峄僴 b岷 th芒n 膽峄� h貌a h峄 v峄沬 b岷 b猫. 3 ch瓢啤ng sau l脿 v峄� hi峄僽 r玫 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c 膽峄� bi岷縯 c谩ch ch啤i v峄沬 b岷, ki峄僽 l峄盿 b岷 m脿 ch啤i 岷 m脿.
Ch瓢啤ng 1:
- 膽峄玭g qu谩 nghi锚m kh岷痗 v峄沬 b岷 th芒n
- h茫y y锚u th瓢啤ng m矛nh nhi峄乽 h啤n, ch岷 nh岷璶 nh峄痭g khi岷縨 khuy岷縯 c峄 b岷 th芒n.
Ch瓢啤ng 2:
- hi峄僽 r玫 ch铆nh m矛nh, bi岷縯 ch峄媢 tr谩ch nhi峄噈 tr瓢峄沜 cu峄檆 s峄憂g v脿 ng峄玭g 膽峄� l峄梚.
- bi岷縯 c谩ch th峄� hi峄噉 c岷 x煤c cho ph霉 h峄, nh瓢 gi岷璶 d峄梚, tr谩ch m贸c.
Ch瓢啤ng 3:
- 膽峄玭g qu谩 quan t芒m ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ngh末 g矛
- bi岷縯 c谩ch t峄� ch峄慽 v脿 n贸i kh么ng.p
Ch瓢啤ng 4
- bi岷縯 c谩ch n贸i chuy峄噉, h茫y n贸i ra nh峄痭g l峄漣 y锚u th瓢啤ng
- l岷痭g nghe 膽峄� th岷 c岷
Ch瓢啤ng 5
- h茫y bi岷縯 c谩ch khen ng峄 v脿 ph锚 b矛nh cho ph霉 h峄
- bi岷縯 khi n脿o n锚n im l岷穘g
Ch瓢啤ng 6
- h茫y cho 膽i tr瓢峄沜, h茫y gi煤p 膽峄� ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c tr瓢峄沜, v脿 b岷 s岷� nh岷璶 l岷 nhi峄乽 h啤n th岷� (t峄� 膽芒u 膽贸 kh谩c)
- t么n tr峄峮g s峄� kh谩c bi峄噒, t岷璸 trung v脿o 膽i峄僲 m岷h c峄 b岷 b猫.
D峄� l脿 s岷� 膽峄峜 h岷縯 膽峄憂g self help t峄� v峄﹖ bao n膬m trong gi谩 s谩ch b岷眓g c谩ch 膽峄峜 m峄沬 n脿y :))
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膼峄漣 Thay 膼峄昳 Khi Ch煤ng Ta Thay 膼峄昳 (T岷璸 2) - Making Friends | Andrew Matthews (1990)
S脿i G貌n, 15/12/2018 ; 庐M峄�
膼谩nh gi谩: 7/10 膽i峄僲
January 9, 2020
This was the first book I read! I read it when I was 6 years old while I was learning to read faster. I've always been shy so this book helped me to understand how to get along whit other kids.
Also, I have a special feeling for it because it made me start reading books for fun.
Thanks a lot! <3
Also, I have a special feeling for it because it made me start reading books for fun.
Thanks a lot! <3
December 3, 2016
Like the other book "Being Happy" amazing and helpful ... while "being happy" gives you ideas about how to deal with yourself, this book "making friends" gives you ideas about how to deal with others.
March 19, 2012
A good laugh that makes you improve yourself.
July 16, 2014
Witty and enlightening.
September 17, 2015
Amazing book, i advice to read it
November 19, 2015
One of the books that had changed my life
June 7, 2019
I love this book, it basically explains the importance of loving yourself before waiting for others to love you.
Also it tells you how simple making relationships with people can be!
Also it tells you how simple making relationships with people can be!
March 7, 2020
Maybe had high expectations after reading the book being happy..it's worth a read once
July 25, 2020
Good and funny!
August 4, 2013
Very helpful !
February 22, 2020
Ch瓢啤ng 1: 膼峄玭g qu谩 nghi锚m kh岷痗 v峄沬 b岷 th芒n
- Ai c农ng c贸 nh峄痭g n峄梚 b岷 an ri锚ng. H茫y t矛m bi岷縯 膽峄� c岷� hai 膽峄乽 kh么ng ph岷 s峄憂g trong c膬ng th岷硁g.!
- Nh峄痭g c谩 nh芒n xu岷 s岷痗 c贸 kh岷� n膬ng t峄� nh岷璶 bi岷縯 v脿 膽i峄乽 ch峄塶h l脿m cho ng瓢峄漣 ta y锚u th铆ch h峄�.
- Ch岷硁g c贸 g矛 hay khi ph岷 l脿m 鈥渕峄檛 n峄璦 c峄 ai 膽贸鈥� 鈥� b岷 l脿 m峄檛 ch峄塶h th峄� th峄憂g nh岷 v脿 膽峄檆 膽谩o kia m脿.!
- M峄梚 ch煤ng ta ph岷 t峄� nh岷璶 ra gi谩 tr峄� c峄 b岷 th芒n. N岷縰 c峄� ch峄� ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c l脿m 膽i峄乽 n脿y cho b岷 th矛 b岷 s岷� li锚n t峄 th岷 v峄峮g
- B岷 c贸 th峄� b峄� sung cho ai 膽贸, cho m峄檛 m峄慽 quan h峄� ch峄� khi b岷 膽茫 l脿 ng瓢峄漣 ho脿n h岷. N岷縰 kh么ng th矛 b岷 ch峄� l脿m x岷 膽i quan h峄� 膽贸.
- N岷縰 b岷 c么 膽啤n v脿 ch谩n n岷 th矛 vi峄嘽 c峄� t矛m 膽瓢峄 ai 膽贸 th铆ch/ y锚u b岷 c农ng kh么ng gi煤p 铆ch g矛. H茫y t矛m ng瓢峄漣 b岷 c贸 th峄� cho 膽i t矛nh b岷 m脿 kh么ng mong 膽谩p l岷 g矛 c岷�.
- N岷縰 b岷 mu峄憂 g岷穚 hay l脿m quen v峄沬 b岷 m峄沬 th矛 H脙Y CH峄� 膼峄楴G TI岷綨 B漂峄欳.
- H茫y nh峄� 膽岷縩 nh峄﹏g ng瓢峄漣 m脿 b岷 mu峄憂 d脿nh th峄漣 gian 峄� b锚n h峄�.
Ch瓢啤ng 2: Kho岷g c谩ch m脿 b岷 t岷 ra - Kh么ng l峄玜 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c - Bi峄僽 l峄� s峄� gi岷璶 d峄�
- Nh峄痭g nh脿 t芒m l媒 cho r岷眓g l煤c ch煤ng ta 5 tu峄昳, ph岷 l峄沶 t铆nh c谩ch ch煤ng ta 膽茫 膽瓢峄 h矛nh th脿nh
- Khi m峄檛 h峄� th峄憂g ni峄乵 tin giam h茫m b岷 th矛 b岷 s岷� li锚n t峄 t岷 ra nh峄痭g c啤 h峄檌 cho ch铆nh m矛nh h峄峜 h峄廼 v峄� n贸. M峄檛 khi b岷 ph谩 v峄� n贸 th矛 b岷 kh么ng ph岷 h峄峜 m茫i m峄檛 b脿i h峄峜 v脿 cu峄檆 s峄憂g c峄 b岷 s岷� thay 膽峄昳.
- 鈥淣h峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 hay 膽峄� l峄梚鈥� th瓢峄漬g t岷璸 trung nhi峄乽 h啤n v脿o kh贸 kh膬n, c貌n 鈥淣h峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 h岷h ph煤c v脿 th脿nh c么ng鈥漷h矛 ch煤 t芒m nhi峄乽 h啤n 膽岷縩 gi岷 ph谩p. H茫y t峄� h峄廼 ch铆nh m矛nh:
a) 鈥淭么i mu峄憂 g矛?鈥� v脿
b) 鈥淢矛nh n锚n h脿ng 膽峄檔g nh瓢 th岷� n脿o 膽峄� 膽岷 膽瓢峄 膽i峄乽 膽贸?鈥�
- H茫y kh么n kh茅o v脿 h茫y n贸i ra s峄� th岷璽. Trung th峄眂 v峄沬 ai 膽贸 l脿 t么n tr峄峮g h峄� v脿 t峄� tr峄峮g b岷 th芒n 鈥� v脿 nh瓢 th岷� c农ng ch岷硁g kh贸 l岷痬 膽芒u!
- H茫y ch峄媢 tr谩ch nhi峄噈 v峄� c岷 x煤c c峄 m矛nh. H茫y n贸i: 鈥淭么i c岷 th岷 r岷 gi岷璶 v峄佲€︹€� h啤n l脿 n贸i 鈥淢脿y ngu qu谩!鈥�
- N岷縰 c岷 th矛 膽峄 m峄檛 v脿i ph煤t (hay v脿i gi峄�) cho ngu么i gi岷璶 r峄搃 n贸i cho minh b岷h
- H茫y ph岷 峄﹏g t铆ch c峄眂 v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 b岷 gi岷璶, ch岷硁g h岷: 鈥淓m c岷 啤n anh 膽茫 膽岷縩 膽贸n em v脿 em bi岷縯 l脿 anh r岷 kh贸 ch峄媢 khi ph岷 膽岷縩 tr峄� hai ti岷縩g 膽峄搉g h峄�. Em r岷 gi岷璶. Em kh么ng ph锚 b矛nh anh. Em ch峄� mu峄憂 anh bi岷縯 c岷 x煤c c峄 em:鈥�
- B峄檆 l峄� n峄梚 gi岷璶 d峄� l脿 h峄 l媒, mi峄卬 l脿 b岷 lu么n t峄塶h t谩o.
- Khi b岷 gi岷璶 d峄�, ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c kh么ng th铆ch nh瓢ng r峄搃 h峄� s岷� v瓢峄 qua nhanh
ch贸ng v脿 hai b锚n s岷� hi峄僽 nhau h啤n. N岷縰 b岷 kh么ng h峄� gi岷璶 t峄ヽ l脿 b岷 tr峄玭g ph岷 ch铆nh m矛nh 鈥� v岷 膽峄� kh么ng 膽瓢峄 gi岷 quy岷縯 v脿 t谩c h岷 s岷� l峄沶 h啤n.
Ch瓢啤ng 3: H茫y ng瓢ng gi岷 th铆ch v峄� cu峄檆 膽峄漣 b岷 - khi b岷 mu峄憂 n贸i kh么ng
- Ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ngh末 g矛 v峄� b岷 膽贸 kh么ng ph岷 l脿 n峄梚 lo c峄 b岷.
- Nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ch峄� t么n tr峄峮g ch煤ng ta khi ch煤ng ta t么n tr峄峮g ch铆nh b岷 th芒n m矛nh
- N岷縰 ng瓢峄漣 ta kh么ng t么n tr峄峮g b岷, chi岷縨 d峄g th峄漣 gian c峄 b岷 hay 膽峄慽 x峄� t峄� v峄沬 b岷. 鈥淭么i 膽ang l脿m g矛 膽峄� khuy岷縩 kh铆ch h峄� 膽峄慽 x峄� v峄沬 t么i nh瓢 th岷�?鈥� N岷縰 b岷 mu峄憂 h峄� thay 膽峄昳 th矛 b岷 ph岷 thay 膽峄昳.
- N岷縰 b岷 膽峄� cho m矛nh b峄� 膽贸i x峄� t峄� b岷 b峄焛 nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 b岷 y锚u th瓢啤ng th矛 k岷縯 c峄 l脿 b岷 s岷� gh茅t h峄�.
- Khi t么n tr峄峮g ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c, h茫y th脿nh th峄眂 v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh. N岷縰 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c kh么ng 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 l峄慽 s峄憂g hay quan 膽i峄僲 c峄 b岷 th矛 m岷穋 k峄� h峄�, 膽贸 kh么ng ph岷 l脿 vi峄嘽 b岷 ph岷 lo. V岷 膽峄� l脿 b岷 c贸 y锚n t芒m v峄沬 l峄慽 s峄憂g v脿 quan 膽i峄僲 c峄 ch铆nh m矛nh.?
- Ch峄� c岷 b岷 cho ph茅p m矛nh l脿 膽峄�, kh么ng c岷 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ph岷 c么ng nh岷璶.
- B岷 ph岷 h峄峜 c谩ch n贸i 鈥渒h么ng鈥�. M峄檛 khi l脿m 膽瓢峄 膽i峄乽 n脿y m脿 kh么ng c岷 th岷 c贸 l峄梚, b岷 s岷� ki峄僲 so谩t 膽瓢峄 膽峄漣 m矛nh nhi峄乽 h啤n v脿 s峄憂g h岷h ph煤c h啤n v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c c农ng nh瓢 v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh.
Ch瓢啤ng 4: Gi谩 tr峄� c峄 l峄漣 khen - L脿m nh峄痭g g矛 b岷 n贸i - M峄峣 ng瓢峄漣 膽峄乽 mu峄憂 膽瓢峄 t么n tr峄峮g - N贸i cho ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c bi岷縯 b岷 c岷 th岷 nh瓢 th岷� n脿o - Ai c农ng c岷 kh么ng gian ri锚ng
- Con ng瓢峄漣 ai c农ng th铆ch 膽瓢峄 c么ng nh岷璶, N岷縰 b岷 h峄峜 膽瓢峄 c谩ch nh矛n ra 膽i峄僲 t峄憈 c峄 ai 膽贸 v脿 khen ng峄 h峄� th矛 h峄� s岷� c岷 th岷 vui s瓢峄沶g v脿 b岷 c农ng vui theo.
- C脿ng th峄眂 hi峄噉 膽瓢峄 cam k岷縯 v峄沬 m矛nh th矛 b岷 c脿ng m岷h m岷�. 膼峄� 岷h h瓢峄焠g 膽瓢峄 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c th矛 b岷 ph岷 tin v脿o b岷 th芒n m矛nh tr瓢峄沜. M脿 膽峄� tin v脿o b岷 th芒n th矛 b岷 ph岷 tin 膽i峄乽 m矛nh n贸i v脿 l脿m 膽i峄乽 m矛nh n贸i.
- Khi 膽峄慽 m岷穞 v峄沬 nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 膽ang gi岷璶, nh峄痭g l峄漣 gi岷 th铆ch kh么ng c贸 hi峄噓 l峄眂 b岷眓g s峄� quan t芒m v脿 t么n tr峄峮g. Ch煤ng ta kh么ng n贸i 膽岷縩 nh峄痭g k峄� thu岷璽 峄� 膽芒y m脿 l脿 th谩i 膽峄�. L岷痭g nghe, th么ng c岷 v脿 t么n tr峄峮g th矛 膽岷縩 99% b岷 s岷� 铆t g岷穚 r岷痗 r峄慽 h啤n.
- Ch煤ng ta c岷 ph岷 nh岷 c岷 v峄沬 nhu c岷 c峄 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c. 膼么i khi c谩ch t峄憈 nh岷 膽峄� h貌a h峄 v峄沬 ai 膽贸 l脿 kh么ng 峄� b锚n h峄�.!
Ch瓢啤ng 5: Nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 kh么ng n锚n n贸i - Tr瓢峄沜 ti锚n h茫y h峄廼 cho r玫 - Gi岷璶 d峄� kh么ng khi岷縩 膽瓢峄 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c l脿m theo l峄漣 b岷 - 膼岷穞 ra nh峄痭g nguy锚n t岷痗 - H峄峜 t峄� sai l岷 - Gi峄沬 h岷 c峄 t矛nh b岷.!
- Nhi峄乽 khi ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ng瓢峄g m峄� b岷 v矛 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 b岷 kh么ng n贸i
- Khi岷縰 膬n n贸i c峄 t么i l脿 峄� ch峄� t么i kh么ng n贸i g矛 c岷�.
- Ch煤ng ta kh么ng ph岷 l煤c n脿o c农ng n锚n n贸i c谩i g矛. Nhi峄乽 l煤c ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c 膽谩nh gi谩 b岷 cao h啤n v矛 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 b岷 kh么ng n贸i.
- Ch峄� nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 nh峄� nhen m峄沬 hay nh岷璶 x茅t 铆ch k峄�, v脿 ch峄� c贸 h峄� b峄� x煤c ph岷.
H茫y l脿 m峄檛 ng瓢峄漣 cao th瓢峄g.
- 膼峄玭g bao gi峄� 膽i 膽谩nh l峄檔 v峄沬 heo - b岷 b峄� b岷﹏ m脿 n贸 th矛 th铆ch th煤.!
- Nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 th铆ch 膽瓢峄 ch煤 媒 v脿 th铆ch xung 膽峄檛 lu么n nghe theo tri岷縯 l媒: 鈥淣岷縰 ai 膽贸 kh么ng 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 t么i th矛 t么i ph岷 t矛m c谩ch thay 膽峄昳 anh ta鈥�. H茫y n锚n l脿m theo l峄漣 khuy锚n n脿y: 鈥淣岷縰 ai 膽贸 kh么ng 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 t么i th矛 t么i s岷� 膽峄� cho anh ta l脿m v岷瓂鈥�. Nh瓢 th岷� cu峄檆 s峄憂g s岷� d峄� d脿ng h啤n.
- H茫y kh么n ngoan h啤n ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c n岷縰 b岷 c贸 th峄� nh瓢ng 膽峄玭g c贸 n贸i v峄沬 h峄� nh瓢 v岷瓂.
Ch瓢啤ng 6: L脿m cho ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c h岷h ph煤c - N贸i chuy峄噉 v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 膽ang 膽au kh峄� - Ai l脿 ng瓢峄漣 ho脿n thi峄噉
- Th峄� th谩ch c峄 b岷 l脿 th脿nh th峄眂 v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh
- D芒ng t岷穘g kh么ng 膽i峄乽 ki峄噉 tho岷 nghe c贸 v岷� 鈥渓峄漣 khuy锚n kh么ng th峄眂 t岷库€�, nh瓢ng n贸 l岷 r岷 th峄眂 t岷�, v脿 c贸 th峄� gi岷 cho b岷 nhi峄乽 phi峄乶 mu峄檔.
- Con ng瓢峄漣 ch峄� thay 膽峄昳 khi h峄� 膽茫 s岷祅 s脿ng 膽峄� thay 膽峄昳. Ch峄� n锚n l脿m m峄檛 g瓢啤ng t峄憈. Ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c s岷� b峄� cu峄憂 theo b岷 v脿 s岷� h峄廼 l峄漣 khuy锚n c峄 b岷 膽峄� thay 膽峄昳. N岷縰 kh么ng ai h峄廼 th矛 c峄� thong th岷� l脿m vi峄嘽 c峄 m矛nh.
- Ng瓢峄漣 t峄憈 c贸 th峄� t矛m th岷, kh么ng th峄� thay 膽峄昳
- B岷 t么i kh么ng ho脿n thi峄噉 鈥� t么i c农ng kh么ng nh瓢ng ch煤ng t么i r岷 h貌a h峄 v峄沬 nhau
- H茫y th铆ch th煤 nh峄痭g 膽i峄僲 kh谩c nhau 峄� nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 xung quanh b岷. H茫y th铆ch h峄� v矛 s峄� kh谩c bi峄噒 c峄 h峄� v脿 b岷 s岷� l脿m 啤n 膽瓢峄 nhi峄乽 nh岷 cho h峄�.
- Ai c农ng c贸 nh峄痭g n峄梚 b岷 an ri锚ng. H茫y t矛m bi岷縯 膽峄� c岷� hai 膽峄乽 kh么ng ph岷 s峄憂g trong c膬ng th岷硁g.!
- Nh峄痭g c谩 nh芒n xu岷 s岷痗 c贸 kh岷� n膬ng t峄� nh岷璶 bi岷縯 v脿 膽i峄乽 ch峄塶h l脿m cho ng瓢峄漣 ta y锚u th铆ch h峄�.
- Ch岷硁g c贸 g矛 hay khi ph岷 l脿m 鈥渕峄檛 n峄璦 c峄 ai 膽贸鈥� 鈥� b岷 l脿 m峄檛 ch峄塶h th峄� th峄憂g nh岷 v脿 膽峄檆 膽谩o kia m脿.!
- M峄梚 ch煤ng ta ph岷 t峄� nh岷璶 ra gi谩 tr峄� c峄 b岷 th芒n. N岷縰 c峄� ch峄� ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c l脿m 膽i峄乽 n脿y cho b岷 th矛 b岷 s岷� li锚n t峄 th岷 v峄峮g
- B岷 c贸 th峄� b峄� sung cho ai 膽贸, cho m峄檛 m峄慽 quan h峄� ch峄� khi b岷 膽茫 l脿 ng瓢峄漣 ho脿n h岷. N岷縰 kh么ng th矛 b岷 ch峄� l脿m x岷 膽i quan h峄� 膽贸.
- N岷縰 b岷 c么 膽啤n v脿 ch谩n n岷 th矛 vi峄嘽 c峄� t矛m 膽瓢峄 ai 膽贸 th铆ch/ y锚u b岷 c农ng kh么ng gi煤p 铆ch g矛. H茫y t矛m ng瓢峄漣 b岷 c贸 th峄� cho 膽i t矛nh b岷 m脿 kh么ng mong 膽谩p l岷 g矛 c岷�.
- N岷縰 b岷 mu峄憂 g岷穚 hay l脿m quen v峄沬 b岷 m峄沬 th矛 H脙Y CH峄� 膼峄楴G TI岷綨 B漂峄欳.
- H茫y nh峄� 膽岷縩 nh峄﹏g ng瓢峄漣 m脿 b岷 mu峄憂 d脿nh th峄漣 gian 峄� b锚n h峄�.
Ch瓢啤ng 2: Kho岷g c谩ch m脿 b岷 t岷 ra - Kh么ng l峄玜 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c - Bi峄僽 l峄� s峄� gi岷璶 d峄�
- Nh峄痭g nh脿 t芒m l媒 cho r岷眓g l煤c ch煤ng ta 5 tu峄昳, ph岷 l峄沶 t铆nh c谩ch ch煤ng ta 膽茫 膽瓢峄 h矛nh th脿nh
- Khi m峄檛 h峄� th峄憂g ni峄乵 tin giam h茫m b岷 th矛 b岷 s岷� li锚n t峄 t岷 ra nh峄痭g c啤 h峄檌 cho ch铆nh m矛nh h峄峜 h峄廼 v峄� n贸. M峄檛 khi b岷 ph谩 v峄� n贸 th矛 b岷 kh么ng ph岷 h峄峜 m茫i m峄檛 b脿i h峄峜 v脿 cu峄檆 s峄憂g c峄 b岷 s岷� thay 膽峄昳.
- 鈥淣h峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 hay 膽峄� l峄梚鈥� th瓢峄漬g t岷璸 trung nhi峄乽 h啤n v脿o kh贸 kh膬n, c貌n 鈥淣h峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 h岷h ph煤c v脿 th脿nh c么ng鈥漷h矛 ch煤 t芒m nhi峄乽 h啤n 膽岷縩 gi岷 ph谩p. H茫y t峄� h峄廼 ch铆nh m矛nh:
a) 鈥淭么i mu峄憂 g矛?鈥� v脿
b) 鈥淢矛nh n锚n h脿ng 膽峄檔g nh瓢 th岷� n脿o 膽峄� 膽岷 膽瓢峄 膽i峄乽 膽贸?鈥�
- H茫y kh么n kh茅o v脿 h茫y n贸i ra s峄� th岷璽. Trung th峄眂 v峄沬 ai 膽贸 l脿 t么n tr峄峮g h峄� v脿 t峄� tr峄峮g b岷 th芒n 鈥� v脿 nh瓢 th岷� c农ng ch岷硁g kh贸 l岷痬 膽芒u!
- H茫y ch峄媢 tr谩ch nhi峄噈 v峄� c岷 x煤c c峄 m矛nh. H茫y n贸i: 鈥淭么i c岷 th岷 r岷 gi岷璶 v峄佲€︹€� h啤n l脿 n贸i 鈥淢脿y ngu qu谩!鈥�
- N岷縰 c岷 th矛 膽峄 m峄檛 v脿i ph煤t (hay v脿i gi峄�) cho ngu么i gi岷璶 r峄搃 n贸i cho minh b岷h
- H茫y ph岷 峄﹏g t铆ch c峄眂 v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 b岷 gi岷璶, ch岷硁g h岷: 鈥淓m c岷 啤n anh 膽茫 膽岷縩 膽贸n em v脿 em bi岷縯 l脿 anh r岷 kh贸 ch峄媢 khi ph岷 膽岷縩 tr峄� hai ti岷縩g 膽峄搉g h峄�. Em r岷 gi岷璶. Em kh么ng ph锚 b矛nh anh. Em ch峄� mu峄憂 anh bi岷縯 c岷 x煤c c峄 em:鈥�
- B峄檆 l峄� n峄梚 gi岷璶 d峄� l脿 h峄 l媒, mi峄卬 l脿 b岷 lu么n t峄塶h t谩o.
- Khi b岷 gi岷璶 d峄�, ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c kh么ng th铆ch nh瓢ng r峄搃 h峄� s岷� v瓢峄 qua nhanh
ch贸ng v脿 hai b锚n s岷� hi峄僽 nhau h啤n. N岷縰 b岷 kh么ng h峄� gi岷璶 t峄ヽ l脿 b岷 tr峄玭g ph岷 ch铆nh m矛nh 鈥� v岷 膽峄� kh么ng 膽瓢峄 gi岷 quy岷縯 v脿 t谩c h岷 s岷� l峄沶 h啤n.
Ch瓢啤ng 3: H茫y ng瓢ng gi岷 th铆ch v峄� cu峄檆 膽峄漣 b岷 - khi b岷 mu峄憂 n贸i kh么ng
- Ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ngh末 g矛 v峄� b岷 膽贸 kh么ng ph岷 l脿 n峄梚 lo c峄 b岷.
- Nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ch峄� t么n tr峄峮g ch煤ng ta khi ch煤ng ta t么n tr峄峮g ch铆nh b岷 th芒n m矛nh
- N岷縰 ng瓢峄漣 ta kh么ng t么n tr峄峮g b岷, chi岷縨 d峄g th峄漣 gian c峄 b岷 hay 膽峄慽 x峄� t峄� v峄沬 b岷. 鈥淭么i 膽ang l脿m g矛 膽峄� khuy岷縩 kh铆ch h峄� 膽峄慽 x峄� v峄沬 t么i nh瓢 th岷�?鈥� N岷縰 b岷 mu峄憂 h峄� thay 膽峄昳 th矛 b岷 ph岷 thay 膽峄昳.
- N岷縰 b岷 膽峄� cho m矛nh b峄� 膽贸i x峄� t峄� b岷 b峄焛 nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 b岷 y锚u th瓢啤ng th矛 k岷縯 c峄 l脿 b岷 s岷� gh茅t h峄�.
- Khi t么n tr峄峮g ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c, h茫y th脿nh th峄眂 v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh. N岷縰 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c kh么ng 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 l峄慽 s峄憂g hay quan 膽i峄僲 c峄 b岷 th矛 m岷穋 k峄� h峄�, 膽贸 kh么ng ph岷 l脿 vi峄嘽 b岷 ph岷 lo. V岷 膽峄� l脿 b岷 c贸 y锚n t芒m v峄沬 l峄慽 s峄憂g v脿 quan 膽i峄僲 c峄 ch铆nh m矛nh.?
- Ch峄� c岷 b岷 cho ph茅p m矛nh l脿 膽峄�, kh么ng c岷 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ph岷 c么ng nh岷璶.
- B岷 ph岷 h峄峜 c谩ch n贸i 鈥渒h么ng鈥�. M峄檛 khi l脿m 膽瓢峄 膽i峄乽 n脿y m脿 kh么ng c岷 th岷 c贸 l峄梚, b岷 s岷� ki峄僲 so谩t 膽瓢峄 膽峄漣 m矛nh nhi峄乽 h啤n v脿 s峄憂g h岷h ph煤c h啤n v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c c农ng nh瓢 v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh.
Ch瓢啤ng 4: Gi谩 tr峄� c峄 l峄漣 khen - L脿m nh峄痭g g矛 b岷 n贸i - M峄峣 ng瓢峄漣 膽峄乽 mu峄憂 膽瓢峄 t么n tr峄峮g - N贸i cho ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c bi岷縯 b岷 c岷 th岷 nh瓢 th岷� n脿o - Ai c农ng c岷 kh么ng gian ri锚ng
- Con ng瓢峄漣 ai c农ng th铆ch 膽瓢峄 c么ng nh岷璶, N岷縰 b岷 h峄峜 膽瓢峄 c谩ch nh矛n ra 膽i峄僲 t峄憈 c峄 ai 膽贸 v脿 khen ng峄 h峄� th矛 h峄� s岷� c岷 th岷 vui s瓢峄沶g v脿 b岷 c农ng vui theo.
- C脿ng th峄眂 hi峄噉 膽瓢峄 cam k岷縯 v峄沬 m矛nh th矛 b岷 c脿ng m岷h m岷�. 膼峄� 岷h h瓢峄焠g 膽瓢峄 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c th矛 b岷 ph岷 tin v脿o b岷 th芒n m矛nh tr瓢峄沜. M脿 膽峄� tin v脿o b岷 th芒n th矛 b岷 ph岷 tin 膽i峄乽 m矛nh n贸i v脿 l脿m 膽i峄乽 m矛nh n贸i.
- Khi 膽峄慽 m岷穞 v峄沬 nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 膽ang gi岷璶, nh峄痭g l峄漣 gi岷 th铆ch kh么ng c贸 hi峄噓 l峄眂 b岷眓g s峄� quan t芒m v脿 t么n tr峄峮g. Ch煤ng ta kh么ng n贸i 膽岷縩 nh峄痭g k峄� thu岷璽 峄� 膽芒y m脿 l脿 th谩i 膽峄�. L岷痭g nghe, th么ng c岷 v脿 t么n tr峄峮g th矛 膽岷縩 99% b岷 s岷� 铆t g岷穚 r岷痗 r峄慽 h啤n.
- Ch煤ng ta c岷 ph岷 nh岷 c岷 v峄沬 nhu c岷 c峄 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c. 膼么i khi c谩ch t峄憈 nh岷 膽峄� h貌a h峄 v峄沬 ai 膽贸 l脿 kh么ng 峄� b锚n h峄�.!
Ch瓢啤ng 5: Nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 kh么ng n锚n n贸i - Tr瓢峄沜 ti锚n h茫y h峄廼 cho r玫 - Gi岷璶 d峄� kh么ng khi岷縩 膽瓢峄 ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c l脿m theo l峄漣 b岷 - 膼岷穞 ra nh峄痭g nguy锚n t岷痗 - H峄峜 t峄� sai l岷 - Gi峄沬 h岷 c峄 t矛nh b岷.!
- Nhi峄乽 khi ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c ng瓢峄g m峄� b岷 v矛 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 b岷 kh么ng n贸i
- Khi岷縰 膬n n贸i c峄 t么i l脿 峄� ch峄� t么i kh么ng n贸i g矛 c岷�.
- Ch煤ng ta kh么ng ph岷 l煤c n脿o c农ng n锚n n贸i c谩i g矛. Nhi峄乽 l煤c ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c 膽谩nh gi谩 b岷 cao h啤n v矛 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 b岷 kh么ng n贸i.
- Ch峄� nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 nh峄� nhen m峄沬 hay nh岷璶 x茅t 铆ch k峄�, v脿 ch峄� c贸 h峄� b峄� x煤c ph岷.
H茫y l脿 m峄檛 ng瓢峄漣 cao th瓢峄g.
- 膼峄玭g bao gi峄� 膽i 膽谩nh l峄檔 v峄沬 heo - b岷 b峄� b岷﹏ m脿 n贸 th矛 th铆ch th煤.!
- Nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 th铆ch 膽瓢峄 ch煤 媒 v脿 th铆ch xung 膽峄檛 lu么n nghe theo tri岷縯 l媒: 鈥淣岷縰 ai 膽贸 kh么ng 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 t么i th矛 t么i ph岷 t矛m c谩ch thay 膽峄昳 anh ta鈥�. H茫y n锚n l脿m theo l峄漣 khuy锚n n脿y: 鈥淣岷縰 ai 膽贸 kh么ng 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 t么i th矛 t么i s岷� 膽峄� cho anh ta l脿m v岷瓂鈥�. Nh瓢 th岷� cu峄檆 s峄憂g s岷� d峄� d脿ng h啤n.
- H茫y kh么n ngoan h啤n ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c n岷縰 b岷 c贸 th峄� nh瓢ng 膽峄玭g c贸 n贸i v峄沬 h峄� nh瓢 v岷瓂.
Ch瓢啤ng 6: L脿m cho ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c h岷h ph煤c - N贸i chuy峄噉 v峄沬 ng瓢峄漣 膽ang 膽au kh峄� - Ai l脿 ng瓢峄漣 ho脿n thi峄噉
- Th峄� th谩ch c峄 b岷 l脿 th脿nh th峄眂 v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh
- D芒ng t岷穘g kh么ng 膽i峄乽 ki峄噉 tho岷 nghe c贸 v岷� 鈥渓峄漣 khuy锚n kh么ng th峄眂 t岷库€�, nh瓢ng n贸 l岷 r岷 th峄眂 t岷�, v脿 c贸 th峄� gi岷 cho b岷 nhi峄乽 phi峄乶 mu峄檔.
- Con ng瓢峄漣 ch峄� thay 膽峄昳 khi h峄� 膽茫 s岷祅 s脿ng 膽峄� thay 膽峄昳. Ch峄� n锚n l脿m m峄檛 g瓢啤ng t峄憈. Ng瓢峄漣 kh谩c s岷� b峄� cu峄憂 theo b岷 v脿 s岷� h峄廼 l峄漣 khuy锚n c峄 b岷 膽峄� thay 膽峄昳. N岷縰 kh么ng ai h峄廼 th矛 c峄� thong th岷� l脿m vi峄嘽 c峄 m矛nh.
- Ng瓢峄漣 t峄憈 c贸 th峄� t矛m th岷, kh么ng th峄� thay 膽峄昳
- B岷 t么i kh么ng ho脿n thi峄噉 鈥� t么i c农ng kh么ng nh瓢ng ch煤ng t么i r岷 h貌a h峄 v峄沬 nhau
- H茫y th铆ch th煤 nh峄痭g 膽i峄僲 kh谩c nhau 峄� nh峄痭g ng瓢峄漣 xung quanh b岷. H茫y th铆ch h峄� v矛 s峄� kh谩c bi峄噒 c峄 h峄� v脿 b岷 s岷� l脿m 啤n 膽瓢峄 nhi峄乽 nh岷 cho h峄�.
July 23, 2023
膼峄漣 thay 膽峄昳 khi ch煤ng ta thay 膽峄昳 - T岷璸 2: Making friends by Andrew Matthews
*s谩ch t贸m t岷痶
- L脿m tnao 膽峄� c贸 th峄� s峄憂g hp, thanh th岷h: V峄玜 kh贸 l岷 v峄玜 d峄�.
- Ng c峄� ch岷 mu峄憂 ng kh谩c s峄憂g theo 媒 m矛nh: Kh贸
V矛 h峄� k nh岷璶 ra 膽峄� thay 膽峄昳 ng kh谩c, 膽岷 ti锚n c岷 thay 膽峄昳 ch铆nh m矛nh.
- Ch峄� c岷 thay 膽峄昳 th谩i 膽峄� s峄憂g v脿 c谩ch c瓢 x峄�, ta c贸 th峄� 膽岷 膽c c谩c mqh t峄憈 膽岷筽, c贸 1 cs b矛nh y锚n , hp.
N峄檌 dung 1: K岷� k y锚u b岷 th芒n s岷� kh岷痗 nghi峄噒 v峄沬 ng kh谩c
-Con ng th瓢峄漬g k nh岷璶 bi岷縯 th贸i quen x岷 c峄 m矛nh, d霉 n贸 l脿 ng nh芒n khi岷縩 ng kh谩c gh茅t b峄�.
- C岷 ti岷縫 thu 媒 ki岷縩 ng kh谩c: H峄廼 nh峄痭g ng m矛nh tin t瓢峄焠g, xem m矛nh c贸 khuy岷縯 膽i峄僲 j k, suy ngh末 c谩ch c岷 thi峄噉.
K n锚n qu谩 膽峄� t芒m v脿o t岷 c岷� nh峄痭g ng kh谩c ngh末 tnao v峄� m矛nh. 膼峄玭g 膽i峄乽 ch峄塶h theo 媒 ki岷縩 膽谩m 膽么ng v矛 ta k th峄� l脿m h脿i l貌ng t岷 c岷�.
C脿ng lo l岷痭g v峄� c谩i nh矛n c峄 mng xq, ta c脿ng kh峄� s峄�. Ph岷 bi岷縯 n贸i k 膽煤ng l煤c. K c岷 thanh minh cho m峄峣 h脿nh 膽峄檔g c峄 m矛nh.
- Ch峄� thanh m矛nh khi mu峄憂 chia s岷� cs , suy ngh末 v峄沬 gia 膽矛nh, b岷 b猫.
- K n锚n qu谩 kh岷痶 khe, n锚n c贸 c谩i nh矛n bao dung h啤n v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh v脿 ng kh谩c. K n锚n b峄沬 m贸c l峄梚 l岷. N锚n y锚u th瓢啤ng b岷 th芒n v脿 mng. Tr谩nh ch峄� tr铆ch v脿 ghen t峄�.
- T么n tr峄峮g ch铆nh m矛nh 膽峄� ng kh谩c t么n tr峄峮g m矛nh. K cho ph茅p ng kh谩c 膽峄慽 x峄� t峄� v峄沬 m矛nh.
VD: m岷� qu谩 chi峄乽 con xong, k 膽峄� con l脿m vi峄嘽 l岷 ph脿n n脿n v矛 con l瓢峄漣 bi岷縩g.
N峄檌 dung 2: C啤n gi岷璶 kh么n ngoan s岷� gi煤p gi岷 quy岷縯 v岷 膽峄�.
- Gi岷璶 d峄� l脿 nh峄痭g cx t峄� nhi锚n c峄 con ng. Nh瓢ng h岷 h岷縯 mng l岷 膽c d岷 r岷眓g: Gi岷璶 d峄� l脿 膽i峄乽 k hay, ta n锚n 膽猫 n茅n c啤n gi岷璶.
- Trong 1 s峄� trg h峄, b峄檆 l峄� c啤n gi岷璶 s岷� gi煤p gi岷 quy岷縯 v岷 膽峄�. Nh瓢ng k n锚n gi岷璶 d峄� v么 t峄檌 v岷�. C岷 gi峄� 膽c t峄塶h t谩o v脿 ki峄乵 ch岷� cx. Thay 膽峄昳 c谩ch bi峄僽 hi峄噉 c啤n gi岷璶 theo c谩ch t铆ch c峄眂 h啤n, n锚u c峄� th峄� h脿nh 膽峄檔g thay v矛 x峄� v岷� 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng. 膼峄� h峄� bi岷縯 l脿 m矛nh 膽ang gi岷璶 th岷璽.
- Tuy峄噒 膽峄慽 k x煤c ph岷 ng kh谩c v矛 k gi煤p ta gi岷 quy岷縯 v岷 膽峄�, m脿 l岷 khi岷縩 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng tr峄� th脿nh k岷� th霉.
- T么n tr峄峮g ng kh谩c = t么n tr峄峮g ch铆nh m矛nh, d霉 h峄� l脿 k岷� ch岷硁g ra g矛.
- Mu峄憂 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng h峄 t谩c, tuy峄噒 膽峄慽 k x煤c ph岷 , ph锚 b矛nh, ch峄璱 m岷痭g...
- N岷縰 bu峄檆 ph岷 ph锚 b矛nh, h茫y khen ng峄 trc.
- T矛m hi峄僽 k末 v岷 膽峄� trc khi n贸i. Tr谩nh t矛nh tr岷g h谩 mi峄噉g m岷痗 quai.
- Ch峄峮 chi岷縩 thu岷璽 膽岷穞 c芒u h峄廼 膽峄� 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng n贸i c貌n m矛nh nghe => s岷� n岷痬 dc nhi峄乽 th么ng tin h啤n, kh茅o l茅o d岷玭 d岷痶 ng kia theo con 膽瓢峄漬g m矛nh mu峄憂.
- 膼峄� ch岷痗 ch岷痭 ng kh谩c l脿m g矛 cho m矛nh: Ph岷 m岷h m岷� yc l峄漣 cam k岷縯.
C岷 th岷 lu岷璶 r玫 r脿ng v脿 n贸i ra 膽i峄乽 m矛nh mu峄憂, n岷縰 k l脿m th矛 h岷璾 qu岷� tnao. ktra xem h峄� 膽茫 hi峄僽 媒 ch瓢a, yc cam k岷縯. N岷縰 k th峄眂 hi峄噉 膽煤ng cam k岷縯, ph岷 cho th岷 r玫 h岷璾 qu岷� 膽茫 n贸i t峄� trc.
Con ng lu么n tr峄憂 tr谩nh ngh末a v峄� n岷縰 c贸 th峄�.
N峄檌 dung 3: 膼峄漣 s岷� thay 膽峄昳 n岷縰 ta bi岷縯 c么ng nh岷璶 v脿 cho 膽i c贸 膽i峄乽 ki峄噉.
- Ai c农ng c岷 l峄漣 khen v脿 s峄� c么ng nh岷璶. L峄漣 khen gi煤p x贸a tan lo l岷痭g, b岷 an => Th岷 膽i峄僲 t峄憈 c峄 ng kh谩c v脿 ch芒n th脿nh khen ng峄, 膽峄� t岷 thi峄噉 c岷.
- Khen tr峄眂 ti岷縫 or thu岷璽 l岷 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 t峄憈 膽岷筽 m脿 ng kh谩c n贸i v峄� h峄�.
- T矛m 膽c 膽i峄僲 chung gi峄痑 m矛nh v脿 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng 膽峄� x芒y d峄眓g mqh g岷 g农i.
- Nh峄痭g ng thi岷縰 h貌a 膽峄搉g ch峄� mu峄憂 n贸i v峄� b岷 th芒n, nh岷 m岷h v脿o 膽i峄僲 kh谩c bi峄噒 v峄沬 ng xq, ko 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 媒 ki岷縩 ng kh谩c = > m峄峣 ng ch谩n ng岷 k mu峄憂 n贸i ch.
- C岷 bi岷縯 cho 膽i m脿 k mong nh岷璶 l岷. N岷縰 c峄� mong 膽峄 m脿 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng k h峄搃 膽谩p/ h峄搃 膽谩p k nh瓢 k矛 v峄峮g, ta l岷 bu峄搉 b峄眂.
- 膼峄� t芒m h峄搉 thanh th岷, h茫y cho 膽i k 膽i峄乽 ki峄噉. Ta c贸 l峄盿 ch峄峮 l脿 cho 膽i ho岷穋 k. M峄檛 khi 膽茫 cho 膽i, l脿 ta mu峄憂 l脿m nh瓢 v岷瓂.
膼峄慽 ph瓢啤ng k c贸 ngh末a v峄� c瓢 x峄� nh瓢 ta mong 膽峄.
- N锚n c瓢 x峄� theo c谩ch m脿 ta mu峄憂 ng kh谩c c瓢 x峄� v峄沬 m矛nh: gi煤p 膽峄�, k ph谩n x茅t, k t峄峜 m岷h, k c峄� g岷痭g thay 膽峄昳.
- Con ng ch峄� thay 膽峄昳 khi h峄� 膽茫 s岷祅 s脿ng thay 膽峄昳.
- Gi峄� tinh th岷 vui v岷� hp cho d霉 m峄峣 ng xq nh瓢 th岷� n脿o.
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膽峄峜 th锚m review/ t贸m t岷痶 s谩ch c峄 m矛nh t岷:
*s谩ch t贸m t岷痶
- L脿m tnao 膽峄� c贸 th峄� s峄憂g hp, thanh th岷h: V峄玜 kh贸 l岷 v峄玜 d峄�.
- Ng c峄� ch岷 mu峄憂 ng kh谩c s峄憂g theo 媒 m矛nh: Kh贸
V矛 h峄� k nh岷璶 ra 膽峄� thay 膽峄昳 ng kh谩c, 膽岷 ti锚n c岷 thay 膽峄昳 ch铆nh m矛nh.
- Ch峄� c岷 thay 膽峄昳 th谩i 膽峄� s峄憂g v脿 c谩ch c瓢 x峄�, ta c贸 th峄� 膽岷 膽c c谩c mqh t峄憈 膽岷筽, c贸 1 cs b矛nh y锚n , hp.
N峄檌 dung 1: K岷� k y锚u b岷 th芒n s岷� kh岷痗 nghi峄噒 v峄沬 ng kh谩c
-Con ng th瓢峄漬g k nh岷璶 bi岷縯 th贸i quen x岷 c峄 m矛nh, d霉 n贸 l脿 ng nh芒n khi岷縩 ng kh谩c gh茅t b峄�.
- C岷 ti岷縫 thu 媒 ki岷縩 ng kh谩c: H峄廼 nh峄痭g ng m矛nh tin t瓢峄焠g, xem m矛nh c贸 khuy岷縯 膽i峄僲 j k, suy ngh末 c谩ch c岷 thi峄噉.
K n锚n qu谩 膽峄� t芒m v脿o t岷 c岷� nh峄痭g ng kh谩c ngh末 tnao v峄� m矛nh. 膼峄玭g 膽i峄乽 ch峄塶h theo 媒 ki岷縩 膽谩m 膽么ng v矛 ta k th峄� l脿m h脿i l貌ng t岷 c岷�.
C脿ng lo l岷痭g v峄� c谩i nh矛n c峄 mng xq, ta c脿ng kh峄� s峄�. Ph岷 bi岷縯 n贸i k 膽煤ng l煤c. K c岷 thanh minh cho m峄峣 h脿nh 膽峄檔g c峄 m矛nh.
- Ch峄� thanh m矛nh khi mu峄憂 chia s岷� cs , suy ngh末 v峄沬 gia 膽矛nh, b岷 b猫.
- K n锚n qu谩 kh岷痶 khe, n锚n c贸 c谩i nh矛n bao dung h啤n v峄沬 ch铆nh m矛nh v脿 ng kh谩c. K n锚n b峄沬 m贸c l峄梚 l岷. N锚n y锚u th瓢啤ng b岷 th芒n v脿 mng. Tr谩nh ch峄� tr铆ch v脿 ghen t峄�.
- T么n tr峄峮g ch铆nh m矛nh 膽峄� ng kh谩c t么n tr峄峮g m矛nh. K cho ph茅p ng kh谩c 膽峄慽 x峄� t峄� v峄沬 m矛nh.
VD: m岷� qu谩 chi峄乽 con xong, k 膽峄� con l脿m vi峄嘽 l岷 ph脿n n脿n v矛 con l瓢峄漣 bi岷縩g.
N峄檌 dung 2: C啤n gi岷璶 kh么n ngoan s岷� gi煤p gi岷 quy岷縯 v岷 膽峄�.
- Gi岷璶 d峄� l脿 nh峄痭g cx t峄� nhi锚n c峄 con ng. Nh瓢ng h岷 h岷縯 mng l岷 膽c d岷 r岷眓g: Gi岷璶 d峄� l脿 膽i峄乽 k hay, ta n锚n 膽猫 n茅n c啤n gi岷璶.
- Trong 1 s峄� trg h峄, b峄檆 l峄� c啤n gi岷璶 s岷� gi煤p gi岷 quy岷縯 v岷 膽峄�. Nh瓢ng k n锚n gi岷璶 d峄� v么 t峄檌 v岷�. C岷 gi峄� 膽c t峄塶h t谩o v脿 ki峄乵 ch岷� cx. Thay 膽峄昳 c谩ch bi峄僽 hi峄噉 c啤n gi岷璶 theo c谩ch t铆ch c峄眂 h啤n, n锚u c峄� th峄� h脿nh 膽峄檔g thay v矛 x峄� v岷� 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng. 膼峄� h峄� bi岷縯 l脿 m矛nh 膽ang gi岷璶 th岷璽.
- Tuy峄噒 膽峄慽 k x煤c ph岷 ng kh谩c v矛 k gi煤p ta gi岷 quy岷縯 v岷 膽峄�, m脿 l岷 khi岷縩 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng tr峄� th脿nh k岷� th霉.
- T么n tr峄峮g ng kh谩c = t么n tr峄峮g ch铆nh m矛nh, d霉 h峄� l脿 k岷� ch岷硁g ra g矛.
- Mu峄憂 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng h峄 t谩c, tuy峄噒 膽峄慽 k x煤c ph岷 , ph锚 b矛nh, ch峄璱 m岷痭g...
- N岷縰 bu峄檆 ph岷 ph锚 b矛nh, h茫y khen ng峄 trc.
- T矛m hi峄僽 k末 v岷 膽峄� trc khi n贸i. Tr谩nh t矛nh tr岷g h谩 mi峄噉g m岷痗 quai.
- Ch峄峮 chi岷縩 thu岷璽 膽岷穞 c芒u h峄廼 膽峄� 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng n贸i c貌n m矛nh nghe => s岷� n岷痬 dc nhi峄乽 th么ng tin h啤n, kh茅o l茅o d岷玭 d岷痶 ng kia theo con 膽瓢峄漬g m矛nh mu峄憂.
- 膼峄� ch岷痗 ch岷痭 ng kh谩c l脿m g矛 cho m矛nh: Ph岷 m岷h m岷� yc l峄漣 cam k岷縯.
C岷 th岷 lu岷璶 r玫 r脿ng v脿 n贸i ra 膽i峄乽 m矛nh mu峄憂, n岷縰 k l脿m th矛 h岷璾 qu岷� tnao. ktra xem h峄� 膽茫 hi峄僽 媒 ch瓢a, yc cam k岷縯. N岷縰 k th峄眂 hi峄噉 膽煤ng cam k岷縯, ph岷 cho th岷 r玫 h岷璾 qu岷� 膽茫 n贸i t峄� trc.
Con ng lu么n tr峄憂 tr谩nh ngh末a v峄� n岷縰 c贸 th峄�.
N峄檌 dung 3: 膼峄漣 s岷� thay 膽峄昳 n岷縰 ta bi岷縯 c么ng nh岷璶 v脿 cho 膽i c贸 膽i峄乽 ki峄噉.
- Ai c农ng c岷 l峄漣 khen v脿 s峄� c么ng nh岷璶. L峄漣 khen gi煤p x贸a tan lo l岷痭g, b岷 an => Th岷 膽i峄僲 t峄憈 c峄 ng kh谩c v脿 ch芒n th脿nh khen ng峄, 膽峄� t岷 thi峄噉 c岷.
- Khen tr峄眂 ti岷縫 or thu岷璽 l岷 nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 t峄憈 膽岷筽 m脿 ng kh谩c n贸i v峄� h峄�.
- T矛m 膽c 膽i峄僲 chung gi峄痑 m矛nh v脿 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng 膽峄� x芒y d峄眓g mqh g岷 g农i.
- Nh峄痭g ng thi岷縰 h貌a 膽峄搉g ch峄� mu峄憂 n贸i v峄� b岷 th芒n, nh岷 m岷h v脿o 膽i峄僲 kh谩c bi峄噒 v峄沬 ng xq, ko 膽峄搉g 媒 v峄沬 媒 ki岷縩 ng kh谩c = > m峄峣 ng ch谩n ng岷 k mu峄憂 n贸i ch.
- C岷 bi岷縯 cho 膽i m脿 k mong nh岷璶 l岷. N岷縰 c峄� mong 膽峄 m脿 膽峄慽 ph瓢啤ng k h峄搃 膽谩p/ h峄搃 膽谩p k nh瓢 k矛 v峄峮g, ta l岷 bu峄搉 b峄眂.
- 膼峄� t芒m h峄搉 thanh th岷, h茫y cho 膽i k 膽i峄乽 ki峄噉. Ta c贸 l峄盿 ch峄峮 l脿 cho 膽i ho岷穋 k. M峄檛 khi 膽茫 cho 膽i, l脿 ta mu峄憂 l脿m nh瓢 v岷瓂.
膼峄慽 ph瓢啤ng k c贸 ngh末a v峄� c瓢 x峄� nh瓢 ta mong 膽峄.
- N锚n c瓢 x峄� theo c谩ch m脿 ta mu峄憂 ng kh谩c c瓢 x峄� v峄沬 m矛nh: gi煤p 膽峄�, k ph谩n x茅t, k t峄峜 m岷h, k c峄� g岷痭g thay 膽峄昳.
- Con ng ch峄� thay 膽峄昳 khi h峄� 膽茫 s岷祅 s脿ng thay 膽峄昳.
- Gi峄� tinh th岷 vui v岷� hp cho d霉 m峄峣 ng xq nh瓢 th岷� n脿o.
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膽峄峜 th锚m review/ t贸m t岷痶 s谩ch c峄 m矛nh t岷:
October 11, 2018
膼峄淚 THAY 膼峄擨 KHI CH脷NG TA THAY 膼峄擨 by Andrew Matthew
Xu岷 s岷痗: 5/5
膼芒y l脿 cu峄憂 s谩ch n岷眒 trong b峄� 5 cu峄憂 膼峄漣 thay 膽峄昳 khi ch煤ng ta thay 膽峄昳 c峄 Andrew Matthews:
T岷璸 1: Being happy!
T岷璸 2: Making friends
T岷璸 3: Follow your heart
T岷璸 4: Being happy teenager
T岷璸 5: Happiness now
Trung Anh 膽瓢峄 ANTS t岷穘g cu峄憂 t岷璸 2, c岷 啤n ANTS <3
T谩c gi岷� vi岷縯 bao xu岷 s岷痗. Th瓢峄漬g th矛 膽峄峜 s谩ch self-help ch峄� th岷 m峄沬 l岷� m峄檛 n峄璦, m峄檛 n峄璦 th矛 bi岷縯 r峄搃 v矛 ki峄僽 vi岷縯 chung chung, kh啤i kh啤i. C貌n 膽岷縩 膼T膼KCTT膼 th矛 100% s芒u s岷痗, n贸i v峄� nh峄痭g chuy峄噉 r岷 th瓢峄漬g xuy锚n x岷 ra khi ch煤ng ta tham gia v脿o c谩c m峄慽 quan h峄� v峄� ch峄搉g, 膽峄搉g nghi峄噋, b岷 b猫 v芒n v芒n m芒y m芒y... nh瓢ng ta ch瓢a t峄玭g suy ngh末 t岷 sao m峄慽 quan h峄� 膽贸 t峄憈 膽岷筽; 膽峄� v峄�; t峄� m岷穞 nhau. N锚n 膽峄峜 膽i t谩c gi岷� s岷� ph芒n t铆ch v脿 ch峄� r玫 v矛 sao 膽峄搉g nghi峄噋 ta t峄ヽ gi岷璶, l脿m sao v峄� ta kh么ng vui, l脿m sao b岷 b猫 r峄漣 b峄� ta... 膼峄峜 膽岷縩 膽芒u c农ng ki峄僽: 峄� v岷瓂 th矛 ra l脿 t岷 th岷� =)). R玫 r脿ng l脿 m矛nh bi岷縯 nh茅, nh瓢ng m矛nh kh么ng nh岷璶 ra th么i ahihi
N锚n l脿 h茫y 膽峄峜 膽峄� r玫 l媒 do v矛 sao ch煤ng ta th脿nh c么ng hay th岷 b岷 trong c谩c m峄慽 quan h峄� c峄 b岷 th芒n.
M峄檛 l岷 n峄痑, c岷 啤n ANTS, v脿 膽岷穋 bi峄噒 c岷 啤n V农 V芒n v矛 V芒n bi岷縯 Trung Anh th铆ch g矛 <3
Xu岷 s岷痗: 5/5
膼芒y l脿 cu峄憂 s谩ch n岷眒 trong b峄� 5 cu峄憂 膼峄漣 thay 膽峄昳 khi ch煤ng ta thay 膽峄昳 c峄 Andrew Matthews:
T岷璸 1: Being happy!
T岷璸 2: Making friends
T岷璸 3: Follow your heart
T岷璸 4: Being happy teenager
T岷璸 5: Happiness now
Trung Anh 膽瓢峄 ANTS t岷穘g cu峄憂 t岷璸 2, c岷 啤n ANTS <3
T谩c gi岷� vi岷縯 bao xu岷 s岷痗. Th瓢峄漬g th矛 膽峄峜 s谩ch self-help ch峄� th岷 m峄沬 l岷� m峄檛 n峄璦, m峄檛 n峄璦 th矛 bi岷縯 r峄搃 v矛 ki峄僽 vi岷縯 chung chung, kh啤i kh啤i. C貌n 膽岷縩 膼T膼KCTT膼 th矛 100% s芒u s岷痗, n贸i v峄� nh峄痭g chuy峄噉 r岷 th瓢峄漬g xuy锚n x岷 ra khi ch煤ng ta tham gia v脿o c谩c m峄慽 quan h峄� v峄� ch峄搉g, 膽峄搉g nghi峄噋, b岷 b猫 v芒n v芒n m芒y m芒y... nh瓢ng ta ch瓢a t峄玭g suy ngh末 t岷 sao m峄慽 quan h峄� 膽贸 t峄憈 膽岷筽; 膽峄� v峄�; t峄� m岷穞 nhau. N锚n 膽峄峜 膽i t谩c gi岷� s岷� ph芒n t铆ch v脿 ch峄� r玫 v矛 sao 膽峄搉g nghi峄噋 ta t峄ヽ gi岷璶, l脿m sao v峄� ta kh么ng vui, l脿m sao b岷 b猫 r峄漣 b峄� ta... 膼峄峜 膽岷縩 膽芒u c农ng ki峄僽: 峄� v岷瓂 th矛 ra l脿 t岷 th岷� =)). R玫 r脿ng l脿 m矛nh bi岷縯 nh茅, nh瓢ng m矛nh kh么ng nh岷璶 ra th么i ahihi
N锚n l脿 h茫y 膽峄峜 膽峄� r玫 l媒 do v矛 sao ch煤ng ta th脿nh c么ng hay th岷 b岷 trong c谩c m峄慽 quan h峄� c峄 b岷 th芒n.
M峄檛 l岷 n峄痑, c岷 啤n ANTS, v脿 膽岷穋 bi峄噒 c岷 啤n V农 V芒n v矛 V芒n bi岷縯 Trung Anh th铆ch g矛 <3
January 19, 2025
膼芒y l脿 m峄檛 trong nh峄痭g cu峄憂 s谩ch 膽岷 ti锚n m脿 m矛nh 膽峄峜. Th岷璵 ch铆 v峄� sau n脿y m矛nh c农ng th岷 铆t c贸 膽瓢峄 s谩ch n脿o cung c岷 nhi峄乽 th么ng tin, tri th峄ヽ v脿 g贸c nh矛n th煤 v峄� nh瓢 cu峄憂 s谩ch n脿y.
M矛nh 膽峄峜 n贸 v脿o n膬m l峄沺 10, h峄搃 c貌n ch岷璸 ch峄痭g v脿 ch瓢a c贸 膽瓢峄 nhi峄乽 g贸c nh矛n trong cu峄檆 s峄憂g. 膼峄慽 v峄沬 m矛nh th矛 th峄漣 膽i峄僲 膽贸 cu峄憂 s谩ch n脿y 膽茫 gi煤p m矛nh r岷 nhi峄乽 v脿 cung c岷 kh谩 nhi峄乽 th么ng tin, quan 膽i峄僲 m峄沬 v峄� cu峄檆 s峄憂g n贸 c农ng c峄� quan 膽i峄僲 c峄 m矛nh, v脿o l煤c 膽贸 v脿 膽峄慽 v峄沬 m矛nh l脿 r岷 h峄痷 铆ch, nh岷 l脿 c谩c tip h脿nh x峄� trong cu峄檆 s峄憂g
M矛nh 膽峄峜 n贸 v脿o n膬m l峄沺 10, h峄搃 c貌n ch岷璸 ch峄痭g v脿 ch瓢a c贸 膽瓢峄 nhi峄乽 g贸c nh矛n trong cu峄檆 s峄憂g. 膼峄慽 v峄沬 m矛nh th矛 th峄漣 膽i峄僲 膽贸 cu峄憂 s谩ch n脿y 膽茫 gi煤p m矛nh r岷 nhi峄乽 v脿 cung c岷 kh谩 nhi峄乽 th么ng tin, quan 膽i峄僲 m峄沬 v峄� cu峄檆 s峄憂g n贸 c农ng c峄� quan 膽i峄僲 c峄 m矛nh, v脿o l煤c 膽贸 v脿 膽峄慽 v峄沬 m矛nh l脿 r岷 h峄痷 铆ch, nh岷 l脿 c谩c tip h脿nh x峄� trong cu峄檆 s峄憂g
January 25, 2018
Making friends - Andrew Matthew
My views: Making friends is a helpful book. Andrew Matthew give you many ways to change your life by changing your attitude, perspective, lifestyle,.... Every lessons in the book are valuable, from which you can improve yourself and not only have happier life but get more affection from others.
My views: Making friends is a helpful book. Andrew Matthew give you many ways to change your life by changing your attitude, perspective, lifestyle,.... Every lessons in the book are valuable, from which you can improve yourself and not only have happier life but get more affection from others.
June 21, 2018
Q峄 th峄眂 cu峄憂 s谩ch r岷 hay. M峄梚 c芒u chuy峄噉 l岷 mang m峄檛 媒 ngh末a kh谩c nhau. M峄梚 c芒u chuy峄噉 c贸 ng岷痭, c贸 d脿i nh瓢ng 媒 ngh末a s芒u xa c峄 n贸 th矛 v岷玭 膽峄峮g l岷 m茫i.
膼贸 kh么ng c岷 ph岷 l脿 m峄檛 c芒u chuy峄噉 v末 膽岷, n贸 膽啤n gi岷 ch峄� l脿 m峄檛 c芒u chuy峄噉 v峄� c谩ch s峄憂g h岷眓g ng脿y c峄 ch煤ng ta. Nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 t瓢峄焠g ch峄玭g nh瓢 nh峄� nh岷穞 l岷 mang 媒 ngh末a l峄沶.
Khuy锚n b岷 n锚n 膽峄峜 tr峄峮 b峄� <3
膼贸 kh么ng c岷 ph岷 l脿 m峄檛 c芒u chuy峄噉 v末 膽岷, n贸 膽啤n gi岷 ch峄� l脿 m峄檛 c芒u chuy峄噉 v峄� c谩ch s峄憂g h岷眓g ng脿y c峄 ch煤ng ta. Nh峄痭g 膽i峄乽 t瓢峄焠g ch峄玭g nh瓢 nh峄� nh岷穞 l岷 mang 媒 ngh末a l峄沶.
Khuy锚n b岷 n锚n 膽峄峜 tr峄峮 b峄� <3
January 26, 2019
鈥淲hen we are over critical of ourselves, we tend to resent people who are doing better.鈥�
鈥淧eace of mind comes from a change of attitude, not circumstances.鈥�
鈥淟ove yourself and others enough to leave them alone and mind your own business.鈥�
鈥淲ith those who are different from us, we choose to be fascinated rather than disgusted.鈥�
鈥淧eace of mind comes from a change of attitude, not circumstances.鈥�
鈥淟ove yourself and others enough to leave them alone and mind your own business.鈥�
鈥淲ith those who are different from us, we choose to be fascinated rather than disgusted.鈥�
January 14, 2025
Being Happy is beter maar: Een goed behapbaar boek voor iemand die interesse in psychologie heeft of op dat moment niet helemaal tevreden over zichzelf is. Het boek werkt aan de hand van vraagstukken, casus en uitleg. Bijvoorbeeld: waarom komt die ene vriend altijd te laat? En weet zo op een speelse manier soms best confronterend te zijn.
May 13, 2018
Just like other of Andrew Matthews's series, it's full of lesson about life and simple so that everyone can read without feeling hard. This book encourage me when I feel depressed, therefore, I believe this book will do an encouragement to another person.
February 11, 2019
Ai c农ng th铆ch 膽瓢峄 khen.
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