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丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲: 賰賷賮 鬲禺鬲丕乇 丕賱氐丿丕賯丞 賵丕賱丨亘
Few things promise us greater happiness than our relationships 鈥� yet few things more reliably deliver misery and frustration. Our error is
to suppose that we are born knowing how to love and that managing a relationship might, therefore be intuitive and easy. This book starts
from a different premise: that love is a skill to be learnt, rather than just an emotion to be felt. It calmly and charmingly takes us around
the key issues of relationships, from arguments to sex, forgiveness to communication, making sure that success in love need never again
be just a matter of luck.
to suppose that we are born knowing how to love and that managing a relationship might, therefore be intuitive and easy. This book starts
from a different premise: that love is a skill to be learnt, rather than just an emotion to be felt. It calmly and charmingly takes us around
the key issues of relationships, from arguments to sex, forgiveness to communication, making sure that success in love need never again
be just a matter of luck.
144 pages, Paperback
First published December 1, 2016
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We believe that the journey to finding fulfilment begins with self-knowledge. It is only when we have a sense of who we really are that we can make reliable decisions, particularly around love and work.
Sadly, tools and techniques for developing self-knowledge and finding fulfilment are hard to find 鈥� they鈥檙e not taught in schools, in universities, or in workplaces. Too many of us go through life without ever really understanding what鈥檚 going on in the recesses of our minds.
That鈥檚 why we created The School of Life; a resource for helping us understand ourselves, for improving our relationships, our careers and our social lives - as well as for helping us find calm and get more out of our leisure hours. We do this through films, workshops, books and gifts - as well as through a warm and supportive community.
We believe that the journey to finding fulfilment begins with self-knowledge. It is only when we have a sense of who we really are that we can make reliable decisions, particularly around love and work.
Sadly, tools and techniques for developing self-knowledge and finding fulfilment are hard to find 鈥� they鈥檙e not taught in schools, in universities, or in workplaces. Too many of us go through life without ever really understanding what鈥檚 going on in the recesses of our minds.
That鈥檚 why we created The School of Life; a resource for helping us understand ourselves, for improving our relationships, our careers and our social lives - as well as for helping us find calm and get more out of our leisure hours. We do this through films, workshops, books and gifts - as well as through a warm and supportive community.
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January 7, 2018
I bought this book as an acknowledgement of gratitude to the school of life crew, for promoting my self-understanding and emotional intelligence (as far as I believe).
Their simplified and entertaining youtube channel was my ultimate destination , whenever I caught my self red-handed escaping from an awkward feeling, instead of accepting and trying to understand it.
Compared with other relationships' books, this one offers no 鈥渉ow to make things work- recipes鈥�. It helps rather keeping in touch with the little child hiding beyond our mature character. Trying to figure out his complicated psychological and emotional map and the reasons behind his outbursts and joys. How the parental relationships , experiences, fears, disappointments and whatsoever reflect on his subconscious ,control our perception of life and lead us through it, adopting selected packs of actions and reactions.
The more we get aware of our human nature, full of unclear drives and motivations, the more we are able to give others the space to be on their own nature and to reveal their real personalities, without flooding them with our judgments and anticipations or imposing our points of view on the way they see the world. keeping in mind that they too have their own inner unsolved issues and undiscovered childish jungle.
Us giving others personal space to naturally behave and our ability not to push them to meet our expectations, is something I find cherishable and as highly valued in any kind of relationship as respect and communication. On the power of understanding and creation of this holy space has this work focused.
The book gathered a little number of the texts featured on these videos:
I owe the guys working on this channel many laughters and light bulb moments. Thanks from the bottom of my heart!
Their simplified and entertaining youtube channel was my ultimate destination , whenever I caught my self red-handed escaping from an awkward feeling, instead of accepting and trying to understand it.
Compared with other relationships' books, this one offers no 鈥渉ow to make things work- recipes鈥�. It helps rather keeping in touch with the little child hiding beyond our mature character. Trying to figure out his complicated psychological and emotional map and the reasons behind his outbursts and joys. How the parental relationships , experiences, fears, disappointments and whatsoever reflect on his subconscious ,control our perception of life and lead us through it, adopting selected packs of actions and reactions.
The more we get aware of our human nature, full of unclear drives and motivations, the more we are able to give others the space to be on their own nature and to reveal their real personalities, without flooding them with our judgments and anticipations or imposing our points of view on the way they see the world. keeping in mind that they too have their own inner unsolved issues and undiscovered childish jungle.
Us giving others personal space to naturally behave and our ability not to push them to meet our expectations, is something I find cherishable and as highly valued in any kind of relationship as respect and communication. On the power of understanding and creation of this holy space has this work focused.
The book gathered a little number of the texts featured on these videos:
I owe the guys working on this channel many laughters and light bulb moments. Thanks from the bottom of my heart!
June 24, 2020
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December 13, 20204.5/5
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賲賳 亘賴 卮禺氐賴 禺蹖賱蹖 胤乇賮丿丕乇 賳诏丕賴 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳 亘賴 毓卮賯賲. 丕賵賳 賳诏丕賴蹖 讴賴 賲毓鬲賯丿賴 亘丕蹖丿 鬲賮讴乇丕鬲 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴賲賵賳 丕夭 毓卮賯 乇賵 讴賳丕乇 亘匕丕乇蹖賲 鬲丕 亘鬲賵賳蹖賲 蹖賴 乇丕亘胤賴 賲賵賮賯 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲. 蹖丕 亘賴 乇賵夭賲乇诏蹖鈥屬囏� 賵 賵馗丕蹖賮 讴賵趩蹖讴 夭賳丿诏蹖 亘賴 趩卮賲 蹖賴 丕賲乇 賲賴賲 賳诏丕賴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 丕毓鬲賯丕丿 丿丕乇賴 亘丨孬 丿乇亘丕乇賴 丕蹖賳讴賴 噩丕蹖 丨賵賱賴 乇賵蹖 夭賲蹖賳賴 蹖丕 乇賵蹖 噩丕丨賵賱賴鈥屫й� 賴賲 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 禺蹖賱蹖 亘丨孬鈥屬囏й� 丿蹖诏賴 賴賲 賲賴賲賴. 蹖丕 鬲賵 乇丕亘胤賴 賱丕夭賲賴 讴賴 蹖讴鈥屫池臂� 爻賵丕賱鈥屬囏� 乇賵 賲爻鬲賯蹖賲丕 賵 亘丿賵賳 禺噩丕賱鬲 丕夭 賴賲 亘倬乇爻蹖賲. 賲孬賱丕賸 亘诏蹖賲 讴賴 鬲賵 丕夭 讴丿賵賲 丕禺賱丕賯 賲賳 禺賵卮鬲 賳賲蹖丕丿責 賵 亘賴賲賵賳 賴賲 亘乇 賳禺賵乇賴. 趩賵賳 丿乇 賳賴丕蹖鬲 賴賲賴 丕蹖賳鈥屬囏� 賵丕爻賴 亘賴鬲乇 讴乇丿賳 丕蹖賳 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屫池�.
蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘丨孬鈥屬囏й� 賲賵乇丿 毓賱丕賯賲 讴賴 鬲賵 爻蹖乇 毓卮賯 賴賲 亘賴 卮讴賱 噩丿蹖 亘賴卮 倬乇丿丕禺鬲賴 亘賵丿 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 賲賲讴賳賴 禺賵丿賲賵賳 蹖丕 倬丕乇鬲賳乇賲賵賳 鬲賵 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖 丕夭 夭賳丿诏蹖 亘賴 禺丕胤乇 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 讴賵丿讴蹖貙 賱噩亘丕夭丕賳賴 乇賮鬲丕乇 讴賳蹖賲. 丕蹖賳噩丕 賵馗蹖賮賴 賲丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 蹖賴 倬丕乇鬲賳乇 禺賵亘 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 丌乇賵賲 亘丕卮蹖賲 賵 丕賵賳 讴賵丿讴 賲毓氐賵賲 賵 鬲乇爻蹖丿賴 倬丕乇鬲賳乇賲賵賳 乇賵 亘亘蹖賳蹖賲. 蹖毓賳蹖 蹖賴 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖 賵丕賯毓丕 賴賲賲賵賳 亘趩賴 賲蹖鈥屫篡屬� 賵 賳蹖丕夭 丿丕乇蹖賲 胤乇賮 賲賯丕亘賱 賲丕 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賵賳 卮讴賱 亘亘蹖賳賴 鬲丕 丿賱蹖賱 睾蹖乇賲賳胤賯蹖 亘賵丿賳 乇賮鬲丕乇賲賵賳 乇賵 亘賮賴賲賴.
丿乇 讴賱 讴鬲丕亘 禺蹖賱蹖 賲賮蹖丿蹖賴 賵 禺蹖賱蹖 賳讴丕鬲 賲賴賲蹖 乇賵 诏賵卮夭丿 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 亘乇丕蹖 丕賵賳丕 讴賴 鬲賵 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屫з� 丨鬲賲丕 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿卮 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 賵 丨鬲蹖 讴爻丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賳蹖爻鬲賳. 趩賵賳 賲賲讴賳賴 乇賵夭蹖 丿乇 丌蹖賳丿賴 亘賴 丿乇丿卮賵賳 亘禺賵乇賴. 賵 噩丿丕 丕夭 賴賲賴 丕蹖賳鈥屬囏ж� 丕诏賴 賲孬賱 賲賳 亘賴 亘丨孬 乇賵丕賳 丕賳爻丕賳 毓賱丕賯賴鈥屬呝嗀屬嗀� 蹖賴 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖卮 賵丕賯毓丕 讴丕乇讴乇丿卮 卮诏賮鬲鈥屫藏団€屫堎� 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�!
蹖讴蹖 丕夭 禺賵亘蹖鈥屬囏й� 丿蹖诏賴鈥屫促� 丕蹖賳 亘賵丿 讴賴 賲胤丕賱亘 乇賵 夭蹖丕丿 讴卮 賳丿丕丿賴 亘賵丿. 鬲賵 氐丿 氐賮丨賴 丨乇賮鈥屬囏ж� 乇賵 夭丿賴 亘賵丿. 鬲賳賴丕 丕卮讴丕賱卮 讴賴 賲胤賲卅賳 賴賲 賳蹖爻鬲賲 丕卮讴丕賱 亘丕卮賴貙 丕蹖賳 亘賵丿 讴賴 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖卮 鬲讴乇丕乇 賲讴乇乇丕鬲 丿丕卮鬲. 賵丕爻賴 丕蹖賳 賲蹖鈥屭� 賮讴乇 賳讴賳賲 丕卮讴丕賱 亘丕卮賴 讴賴 趩賵賳 賲賳 賯亘賱丕 亘爻蹖丕乇蹖 丕夭 丕蹖賳 賳讴丕鬲 乇賵 丿乇 爻蹖乇 毓卮賯 禺賵賳丿賴 亘賵丿賲貙 賵丕爻賲 鬲讴乇丕乇蹖 亘賵丿. 賲賲讴賳賴 丕賵賳蹖 讴賴 丕蹖賳 丕賵賱蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘卮 丕夭 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳賴 丕蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 乇賵 賳丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮賴.
賵賯鬲蹖 賮賴賲蹖丿賲 賲丐爻爻賴鈥屰� 丌賱賳 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳 讴鬲丕亘蹖 丿乇亘丕乇賴 毓卮賯 丿丕乇賳貙 賲卮鬲丕賯 禺賵賳丿賳卮 卮丿賲. 讴鬲丕亘鈥屬囏й屰� 丿乇亘丕乇賴 毓卮賯 亘賴 賯賱賲 丌賱賳 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳貙 亘乇禺賱丕賮 讴鬲丕亘鈥屬囏й� 丿蹖诏乇卮 賵丕賯毓丕 禺賵亘賳. 賯亘賱 丕夭 丕蹖賳 賴賲 芦噩爻鬲丕乇賴丕蹖蹖 丿乇 亘丕亘 毓卮賯禄 賵 芦爻蹖乇 毓卮賯禄 乇賵 禺賵賳丿賴 亘賵丿賲. 丕賵賳 丿賵 讴鬲丕亘 乇賲丕賳 亘賵丿賳丿 讴賴 賵爻胤卮 賳讴丕鬲 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻丕賳賴 丿乇亘丕乇賴 乇丕亘胤賴 诏賳噩賵賳丿賴 卮丿賴 亘賵丿 丕賲丕 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賲丕賳 賳蹖爻鬲 賵 丿乇 賵丕賯毓 賴賲賴 丕賵賳 賳讴丕鬲 亘賴 氐賵乇鬲 蹖讴鈥屫ж池�. 丕蹖賳 亘丕乇 丌賱賳 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳 亘丿賵賳 賴蹖趩 丿丕爻鬲丕賳鈥屫池必й屰屸€屫й� 賲爻鬲賯蹖賲丕賸 賵丕乇丿 亘丨孬 卮丿賴.
賲賳 亘賴 卮禺氐賴 禺蹖賱蹖 胤乇賮丿丕乇 賳诏丕賴 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳 亘賴 毓卮賯賲. 丕賵賳 賳诏丕賴蹖 讴賴 賲毓鬲賯丿賴 亘丕蹖丿 鬲賮讴乇丕鬲 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴賲賵賳 丕夭 毓卮賯 乇賵 讴賳丕乇 亘匕丕乇蹖賲 鬲丕 亘鬲賵賳蹖賲 蹖賴 乇丕亘胤賴 賲賵賮賯 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲. 蹖丕 亘賴 乇賵夭賲乇诏蹖鈥屬囏� 賵 賵馗丕蹖賮 讴賵趩蹖讴 夭賳丿诏蹖 亘賴 趩卮賲 蹖賴 丕賲乇 賲賴賲 賳诏丕賴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 丕毓鬲賯丕丿 丿丕乇賴 亘丨孬 丿乇亘丕乇賴 丕蹖賳讴賴 噩丕蹖 丨賵賱賴 乇賵蹖 夭賲蹖賳賴 蹖丕 乇賵蹖 噩丕丨賵賱賴鈥屫й� 賴賲 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 禺蹖賱蹖 亘丨孬鈥屬囏й� 丿蹖诏賴 賴賲 賲賴賲賴. 蹖丕 鬲賵 乇丕亘胤賴 賱丕夭賲賴 讴賴 蹖讴鈥屫池臂� 爻賵丕賱鈥屬囏� 乇賵 賲爻鬲賯蹖賲丕 賵 亘丿賵賳 禺噩丕賱鬲 丕夭 賴賲 亘倬乇爻蹖賲. 賲孬賱丕賸 亘诏蹖賲 讴賴 鬲賵 丕夭 讴丿賵賲 丕禺賱丕賯 賲賳 禺賵卮鬲 賳賲蹖丕丿責 賵 亘賴賲賵賳 賴賲 亘乇 賳禺賵乇賴. 趩賵賳 丿乇 賳賴丕蹖鬲 賴賲賴 丕蹖賳鈥屬囏� 賵丕爻賴 亘賴鬲乇 讴乇丿賳 丕蹖賳 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屫池�.
蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘丨孬鈥屬囏й� 賲賵乇丿 毓賱丕賯賲 讴賴 鬲賵 爻蹖乇 毓卮賯 賴賲 亘賴 卮讴賱 噩丿蹖 亘賴卮 倬乇丿丕禺鬲賴 亘賵丿 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 賲賲讴賳賴 禺賵丿賲賵賳 蹖丕 倬丕乇鬲賳乇賲賵賳 鬲賵 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖 丕夭 夭賳丿诏蹖 亘賴 禺丕胤乇 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 讴賵丿讴蹖貙 賱噩亘丕夭丕賳賴 乇賮鬲丕乇 讴賳蹖賲. 丕蹖賳噩丕 賵馗蹖賮賴 賲丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 蹖賴 倬丕乇鬲賳乇 禺賵亘 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 丌乇賵賲 亘丕卮蹖賲 賵 丕賵賳 讴賵丿讴 賲毓氐賵賲 賵 鬲乇爻蹖丿賴 倬丕乇鬲賳乇賲賵賳 乇賵 亘亘蹖賳蹖賲. 蹖毓賳蹖 蹖賴 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖 賵丕賯毓丕 賴賲賲賵賳 亘趩賴 賲蹖鈥屫篡屬� 賵 賳蹖丕夭 丿丕乇蹖賲 胤乇賮 賲賯丕亘賱 賲丕 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賵賳 卮讴賱 亘亘蹖賳賴 鬲丕 丿賱蹖賱 睾蹖乇賲賳胤賯蹖 亘賵丿賳 乇賮鬲丕乇賲賵賳 乇賵 亘賮賴賲賴.
丿乇 讴賱 讴鬲丕亘 禺蹖賱蹖 賲賮蹖丿蹖賴 賵 禺蹖賱蹖 賳讴丕鬲 賲賴賲蹖 乇賵 诏賵卮夭丿 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 亘乇丕蹖 丕賵賳丕 讴賴 鬲賵 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屫з� 丨鬲賲丕 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿卮 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 賵 丨鬲蹖 讴爻丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賳蹖爻鬲賳. 趩賵賳 賲賲讴賳賴 乇賵夭蹖 丿乇 丌蹖賳丿賴 亘賴 丿乇丿卮賵賳 亘禺賵乇賴. 賵 噩丿丕 丕夭 賴賲賴 丕蹖賳鈥屬囏ж� 丕诏賴 賲孬賱 賲賳 亘賴 亘丨孬 乇賵丕賳 丕賳爻丕賳 毓賱丕賯賴鈥屬呝嗀屬嗀� 蹖賴 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖卮 賵丕賯毓丕 讴丕乇讴乇丿卮 卮诏賮鬲鈥屫藏団€屫堎� 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�!
蹖讴蹖 丕夭 禺賵亘蹖鈥屬囏й� 丿蹖诏賴鈥屫促� 丕蹖賳 亘賵丿 讴賴 賲胤丕賱亘 乇賵 夭蹖丕丿 讴卮 賳丿丕丿賴 亘賵丿. 鬲賵 氐丿 氐賮丨賴 丨乇賮鈥屬囏ж� 乇賵 夭丿賴 亘賵丿. 鬲賳賴丕 丕卮讴丕賱卮 讴賴 賲胤賲卅賳 賴賲 賳蹖爻鬲賲 丕卮讴丕賱 亘丕卮賴貙 丕蹖賳 亘賵丿 讴賴 噩丕賴丕蹖蹖卮 鬲讴乇丕乇 賲讴乇乇丕鬲 丿丕卮鬲. 賵丕爻賴 丕蹖賳 賲蹖鈥屭� 賮讴乇 賳讴賳賲 丕卮讴丕賱 亘丕卮賴 讴賴 趩賵賳 賲賳 賯亘賱丕 亘爻蹖丕乇蹖 丕夭 丕蹖賳 賳讴丕鬲 乇賵 丿乇 爻蹖乇 毓卮賯 禺賵賳丿賴 亘賵丿賲貙 賵丕爻賲 鬲讴乇丕乇蹖 亘賵丿. 賲賲讴賳賴 丕賵賳蹖 讴賴 丕蹖賳 丕賵賱蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘卮 丕夭 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳賴 丕蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 乇賵 賳丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮賴.
February 27, 2018
Instead of being called "Relationships", the book could have been titled "Good Enough Relationships".
Not the worst read in the world, but a bit disappointing after reading a few other books by The School of Life: it get's really repetitive.
Though I appreciate the de-Botton-like optimism and author's pathological ability to see the bright side of the disappointing life-scenarios, some of the concepts may seem a bit overreached and self-serving. I couldn't shake the feeling the book was rationalizing some of the personal failures instead of researching the relationships in a greater depth, as the book doesn't mention focus, balance, or growth, though rightly emphasizes the value of conversation.
To conclude, it's all black and white according to this book - you're either a naive romantic doomed to failure on a grandiose scale or a practical mature individual with no concept of romantic expectations. But is it really that simple? Humans are complicated, they're rarely one or another. Can't one be both? Can't one romanticise their expectations and still be able to accept a practical reality? Will all relationships fail, no expectations will be met, and the only way to survive the process is to accept it? Honestly, I am too young to agree with this conclusion.
Not the worst read in the world, but a bit disappointing after reading a few other books by The School of Life: it get's really repetitive.
Though I appreciate the de-Botton-like optimism and author's pathological ability to see the bright side of the disappointing life-scenarios, some of the concepts may seem a bit overreached and self-serving. I couldn't shake the feeling the book was rationalizing some of the personal failures instead of researching the relationships in a greater depth, as the book doesn't mention focus, balance, or growth, though rightly emphasizes the value of conversation.
To conclude, it's all black and white according to this book - you're either a naive romantic doomed to failure on a grandiose scale or a practical mature individual with no concept of romantic expectations. But is it really that simple? Humans are complicated, they're rarely one or another. Can't one be both? Can't one romanticise their expectations and still be able to accept a practical reality? Will all relationships fail, no expectations will be met, and the only way to survive the process is to accept it? Honestly, I am too young to agree with this conclusion.
May 14, 2021
HIGHLY highly recommended!!
The school of life never fails to impress me and help me develop a healthy mindset.
The school of life never fails to impress me and help me develop a healthy mindset.
June 19, 2020
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讴鬲丕亘 倬爻 丕夭 亘丕夭诏賵蹖 趩賳丿 賵噩賴 丕夭 賳诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖爻賲 亘賴 毓卮賯貙 丿乇 亘丕賯蹖 讴鬲丕亘 爻毓蹖 丿乇 噩丕蹖诏夭蹖賳蹖 丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 亘丕 丿蹖丿诏丕賴蹖 乇賵丕賳讴丕賵丕賳賴 賵 乇賵丕賳鈥屫促嗀ж池з嗁� 丿丕乇丿. 丕夭 亘乇禺賵乇丿 亘丕 丌孬丕乇 賴賳乇蹖 亘賴乇賴 賲蹖鈥屫ㄘ必� 賵 亘丕 丕蹖噩丕丿 爻賵丕賱貙 鬲賱丕卮 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗀� 丕賳鬲馗丕乇丕鬲 亘賴 胤乇夭 毓噩蹖亘蹖 丕睾乇丕賯 丌賲蹖夭 賲丕 乇丕 丕夭 毓卮賯 夭蹖乇 爻賵丕賱 亘亘乇丿. 丿乇 鬲賲丕賲 賮氐賱鈥屬囏й� 讴賵鬲丕賴 讴鬲丕亘貙 噩賳亘賴鈥屫й� 丕夭 乇賵丕亘胤 亘乇乇爻蹖 賵 賲賵乇丿 鬲丨賱蹖賱 賯乇丕乇 賲蹖鈥屭屫必�.
賳诏丕賴 賲爻賱胤 亘乇 鬲賲丕賲 讴鬲丕亘 倬蹖卮 乇賵貙 鬲睾蹖蹖乇 丕蹖賳 賳诏乇卮 睾賱胤 賵 噩丕 丕賮鬲丕丿賴 丕爻鬲貙 讴賴 毓卮賯 丨爻蹖 睾乇蹖夭蹖 丕爻鬲 讴賴 乇丕賴 禺賵丿卮 乇丕 賲蹖鈥屰屫жㄘ�. 讴鬲丕亘 丕蹖賳 賳诏乇卮 乇丕 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗀� 讴賴 毓卮賯 乇丕 賲賴丕乇鬲蹖 丕讴鬲爻丕亘蹖 亘賴 丨爻丕亘 丌賵乇丿貙 讴賴 亘丕蹖丿 亘乇丕蹖 賲丿鬲蹖 爻乇 讴賱丕爻卮 賳卮爻鬲 賵 賲丿丕賲 噩夭賵賴鈥屬囏й� 丿乇爻蹖 乇丕 賲乇賵乇 讴乇丿貙 鬲丕 亘鬲賵丕賳 丕蹖賳 睾賵賱 亘蹖 卮丕禺 賵 丿賲 乇丕 讴賴 丿賲 亘賴 丿賲 賱诏丿 賲蹖鈥屬矩必з嗀� 夭蹖乇 爻賱胤賴 诏乇賮鬲 賵 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲卮 讴乇丿.
丿丕賳蹖丕賱 毓賲丕乇蹖貙 禺乇丿丕丿 99
February 20, 2021
as drake beautifully said in the song poetic justice, 鈥渃ommunication save relations, I can tell鈥�
August 17, 2021
Kino, gr膩matas, Disneja anim膩cijas filmas u.c. uzticami avoti - negribot tie拧i 拧eit m膿s sme募amies idejas, k膩d膩m j膩b奴t p膩ru attiec墨b膩m dz墨v膿. Un tad vi募amies, ka dz墨v膿 viss ir pavisam cit膩d膩k. Daudz vielas p膩rdom膩m.
艩eit ir run膩ts gan par ikdienas s墨kumu noz墨mi, 鈥溎玸to鈥� m墨lest墨bu, neuztic墨bu, komunik膩ciju, sabiedr墨bas spiedienu u.c. t膿m膩m.
Kop膿j膩is secin膩jums var膿tu b奴t, ka mums ir j膩tiecas uz gana lab膩m attiec墨b膩m, nevis iedomu ide膩laj膩m ar 鈥渄v膿seles radinieku鈥�.
艩eit ir run膩ts gan par ikdienas s墨kumu noz墨mi, 鈥溎玸to鈥� m墨lest墨bu, neuztic墨bu, komunik膩ciju, sabiedr墨bas spiedienu u.c. t膿m膩m.
Kop膿j膩is secin膩jums var膿tu b奴t, ka mums ir j膩tiecas uz gana lab膩m attiec墨b膩m, nevis iedomu ide膩laj膩m ar 鈥渄v膿seles radinieku鈥�.
July 14, 2023
丕诏賴 鈥溬呚帝屫ㄘ€屬囏й� 毓丕卮賯 亘賵丿賳鈥澵辟� 丕夭 賴賲蹖賳 賲噩賲賵毓賴 禺賵賳丿賴 亘丕卮蹖丿 鬲丕 丨丿 夭蹖丕丿蹖 賲胤丕賱亘 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘乇丕鬲賵賳 鬲讴乇丕乇蹖 亘賴鈥屬嗀肛� 賲蹖丕丿貙 賵 鬲賵 禺賵丿 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 賴賲 鬲讴乇丕乇 亘毓囟蹖 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 禺蹖賱蹖 夭蹖丕丿 賵 禺丕乇噩 丕夭 丨賵氐賱賴鈥屫池� 丕賲丕 亘丕夭 賴賲 禺賵賳丿賳卮 禺丕賱蹖 丕夭 賱胤賮 賳蹖爻鬲. 丿賵 賮氐賱 丕夭 讴鬲丕亘 讴賴 亘賴 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屰� 噩賳爻蹖 亘蹖賳 夭賵噩鈥屬囏� 賲乇亘賵胤 賲蹖鈥屫促� 賵丕囟丨丕賸 爻丕賳爻賵乇 卮丿賴 亘賵丿 讴賴 禺蹖賱蹖 鬲賵 匕賵賯賲 夭丿. 亘賴鈥屬嗀肛辟� 亘賴鬲乇 亘賵丿 賲鬲乇噩賲 賵 賳丕卮乇 讴賱丕賸 丕蹖賳 丿賵賮氐賱 乇賵 丨匕賮 賲蹖鈥屭┴必� 鬲丕 丕蹖賳鈥屭┵� 丕蹖賳鈥屫堌臂� 賳賵卮鬲賴 乇賵 鬲蹖讴賴鈥屫屭┵� 賵 亘賴 卮毓賵乇 賲禺丕胤亘 鬲賵賴蹖賳 讴賳賳.
February 13, 2022
Sayang dengan partner bukan hal yg serta-merta ada layaknya pre-installed program komputer.
Kita kerap mengira kalau manusia lahir sudah dengan instruksi manual bagaimana caranya mencintai orang lain--lebih spesifik lagi, partner kita. Padahal, proses sayang & cinta harus dipelajari.
Ketika aku & @hasyemiraws didaulat positif melalui hasil tes PCR, kami bak diberi studi kasus oleh semesta. Di saat akan pulang ke Surabaya, kami diuji bagaimana mengomunikasikan kekesalan tanpa menyakiti pihak lain sekaligus mencari solusi atas permasahalan yg di luar kendali kami ini.
Dalam bab "Blame & Love," diberi contoh kurang lebih serupa. Karena kedekatan dua individu yg dihubungkan oleh perasaan sayang, ketika terjadi hal buruk maka langsung melampiaskannya kepada partner. Seakan-akan, dgn begitu langsung muncul penyelesaian. Namun, jika tdk dikomunikasikan dg baik malah akan menjadi "blame & leave."
Kalau boleh sombong, kami cukup bangga bisa "sat-set-wet" mencari jalan keluar--special thanks kpd @patricia.wulandari & suami yg bersedia kami repoti 馃檹. Berkat itu pula, kami belajar "to be a good teacher & to be a pupil." Atau dgn kata lain, menurunkan ego masing-masing agar emosi kami berdua menemukan ekuilibriumnya lagi.
Relationships by The School of Life menjadi bacaan reflektif bagiku. Melalui 20 bab pendek, aku jadi mengevaluasi cara memperlakukan partner: apakah sudah setara sebagaimana yg kami cita-citakan berdua? Jangan-jangan aku masih egois & lebih dominan dalam relasi ini?
Buku ini memberikan sudut pandang rasional (Classicism) untuk menyadarkan mereka yg masih mengira kalau dg "silent treatment" partner akan tahu apa mau kita apa. Atau, kalau menikah isinya selalu hepi-hepi tanpa meributkan "kok handuk basahnya ada di kasur sih sayaaang???" Faktanya, to love and to be love itu butuh usaha kedua belah pihak.
Beragam hal menarik yg kami temukan di buku ini bisa disimak di kanal YouTube Hasyemiraws. Senang deh bisa ngobrolin buku soal relasi dengan partner sendiri :3
Kita kerap mengira kalau manusia lahir sudah dengan instruksi manual bagaimana caranya mencintai orang lain--lebih spesifik lagi, partner kita. Padahal, proses sayang & cinta harus dipelajari.
Ketika aku & @hasyemiraws didaulat positif melalui hasil tes PCR, kami bak diberi studi kasus oleh semesta. Di saat akan pulang ke Surabaya, kami diuji bagaimana mengomunikasikan kekesalan tanpa menyakiti pihak lain sekaligus mencari solusi atas permasahalan yg di luar kendali kami ini.
Dalam bab "Blame & Love," diberi contoh kurang lebih serupa. Karena kedekatan dua individu yg dihubungkan oleh perasaan sayang, ketika terjadi hal buruk maka langsung melampiaskannya kepada partner. Seakan-akan, dgn begitu langsung muncul penyelesaian. Namun, jika tdk dikomunikasikan dg baik malah akan menjadi "blame & leave."
Kalau boleh sombong, kami cukup bangga bisa "sat-set-wet" mencari jalan keluar--special thanks kpd @patricia.wulandari & suami yg bersedia kami repoti 馃檹. Berkat itu pula, kami belajar "to be a good teacher & to be a pupil." Atau dgn kata lain, menurunkan ego masing-masing agar emosi kami berdua menemukan ekuilibriumnya lagi.
Relationships by The School of Life menjadi bacaan reflektif bagiku. Melalui 20 bab pendek, aku jadi mengevaluasi cara memperlakukan partner: apakah sudah setara sebagaimana yg kami cita-citakan berdua? Jangan-jangan aku masih egois & lebih dominan dalam relasi ini?
Buku ini memberikan sudut pandang rasional (Classicism) untuk menyadarkan mereka yg masih mengira kalau dg "silent treatment" partner akan tahu apa mau kita apa. Atau, kalau menikah isinya selalu hepi-hepi tanpa meributkan "kok handuk basahnya ada di kasur sih sayaaang???" Faktanya, to love and to be love itu butuh usaha kedua belah pihak.
Beragam hal menarik yg kami temukan di buku ini bisa disimak di kanal YouTube Hasyemiraws. Senang deh bisa ngobrolin buku soal relasi dengan partner sendiri :3
April 5, 2021
丨乇賮 丕氐賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 鬲賮讴蹖讴 丿賵 賲毓賳丕蹖 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲 丕夭 毓卮賯 丕爻鬲 讴賴 賲賳鬲噩 亘賴 丿賵 賳賵毓 乇丕亘胤賴 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲 亘蹖賳 夭賳 賵 賲乇丿 賲蹖 卮賵丿: 毓卮賯 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 賵 毓卮賯 讴賱丕爻蹖讴.
丕夭 賳馗乇 讴鬲丕亘貙 賲丕 亘丕 鬲氐賵蹖乇蹖 丕夭 毓卮賯 賲賵丕噩賴 賴爻鬲蹖賲 讴賴 胤蹖 蹖讴蹖 丿賵 賯乇賳 丕禺蹖乇 賵 丕夭 胤乇蹖賯 讴鬲丕亘賴丕 賵 賮蹖賱賲賴丕蹖 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 鬲氐賵蹖乇 丕氐賱蹖 丕夭 毓卮賯 亘賴 賲乇丿賲 禺賵乇丕賳丿賴 卮丿賴 賵 鬲賯乇蹖亘丕 賴賲賴 賲丕 鬲氐賵乇蹖 賮丕賳鬲夭蹖 丕夭 毓卮賯 賵 乇丕亘胤賴 亘蹖賳 夭賳 賵 卮賵賴乇 丿丕乇蹖賲 讴賴 鬲賮丕賵鬲 夭蹖丕丿蹖 亘丕 賵丕賯毓蹖鬲 丿丕乇丿. 丿乇 鬲氐賵乇 睾丕賱亘貙 丕夭丿賵丕噩 丿乇賵丕夭賴 禺賵卮亘禺鬲蹖 丕爻鬲 賵 禺賵丿 丕夭丿賵丕噩 賵 毓卮賯 丕賵賱蹖賴 蹖 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 亘蹖賳 夭賳 賵 卮賵賴乇貙 丨賱丕賱 賴賲賴 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 丕爻鬲 賵 丿賵 賳賮乇 讴賴 毓丕卮賯 賴賲 賴爻鬲賳丿貙 亘丕 丕鬲讴丕 亘賴 賴賲蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 睾乇蹖夭蹖 賲蹖 鬲賵丕賳賳丿 賴賲賴 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 乇丕 丨賱 讴賳賳丿 賵 ...
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 賲丕 賲蹖 賮賴賲丕賳丿 讴賴 趩賯丿乇 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賲蹖 讴賳蹖賲 賵 丕夭丿賵丕噩 丕賵賱 乇丕賴 丕爻鬲 賵 亘乇丕蹖 禺賵卮亘禺鬲蹖 賵 丿丕卮鬲賳 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕卮賯丕賳賴 亘丕蹖丿 夭丨賲鬲 讴卮蹖丿.
丿乇 讴賱 禺蹖賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 禺賵亘蹖 亘賵丿. 亘賴 賴賲賴 讴爻丕賳蹖 讴賴 賲鬲丕賴賱 賴爻鬲賳丿 蹖丕 賯氐丿 丿丕乇賳丿 賲鬲丕賴賱 卮賵賳丿貙 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖 讴賳賲 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇丕 亘禺賵丕賳賳丿.
丕夭 賳馗乇 讴鬲丕亘貙 賲丕 亘丕 鬲氐賵蹖乇蹖 丕夭 毓卮賯 賲賵丕噩賴 賴爻鬲蹖賲 讴賴 胤蹖 蹖讴蹖 丿賵 賯乇賳 丕禺蹖乇 賵 丕夭 胤乇蹖賯 讴鬲丕亘賴丕 賵 賮蹖賱賲賴丕蹖 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 鬲氐賵蹖乇 丕氐賱蹖 丕夭 毓卮賯 亘賴 賲乇丿賲 禺賵乇丕賳丿賴 卮丿賴 賵 鬲賯乇蹖亘丕 賴賲賴 賲丕 鬲氐賵乇蹖 賮丕賳鬲夭蹖 丕夭 毓卮賯 賵 乇丕亘胤賴 亘蹖賳 夭賳 賵 卮賵賴乇 丿丕乇蹖賲 讴賴 鬲賮丕賵鬲 夭蹖丕丿蹖 亘丕 賵丕賯毓蹖鬲 丿丕乇丿. 丿乇 鬲氐賵乇 睾丕賱亘貙 丕夭丿賵丕噩 丿乇賵丕夭賴 禺賵卮亘禺鬲蹖 丕爻鬲 賵 禺賵丿 丕夭丿賵丕噩 賵 毓卮賯 丕賵賱蹖賴 蹖 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 亘蹖賳 夭賳 賵 卮賵賴乇貙 丨賱丕賱 賴賲賴 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 丕爻鬲 賵 丿賵 賳賮乇 讴賴 毓丕卮賯 賴賲 賴爻鬲賳丿貙 亘丕 丕鬲讴丕 亘賴 賴賲蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 睾乇蹖夭蹖 賲蹖 鬲賵丕賳賳丿 賴賲賴 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 乇丕 丨賱 讴賳賳丿 賵 ...
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 賲丕 賲蹖 賮賴賲丕賳丿 讴賴 趩賯丿乇 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賲蹖 讴賳蹖賲 賵 丕夭丿賵丕噩 丕賵賱 乇丕賴 丕爻鬲 賵 亘乇丕蹖 禺賵卮亘禺鬲蹖 賵 丿丕卮鬲賳 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕卮賯丕賳賴 亘丕蹖丿 夭丨賲鬲 讴卮蹖丿.
丿乇 讴賱 禺蹖賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 禺賵亘蹖 亘賵丿. 亘賴 賴賲賴 讴爻丕賳蹖 讴賴 賲鬲丕賴賱 賴爻鬲賳丿 蹖丕 賯氐丿 丿丕乇賳丿 賲鬲丕賴賱 卮賵賳丿貙 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖 讴賳賲 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇丕 亘禺賵丕賳賳丿.
September 13, 2019
鬲賵蹖 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 亘賴 賳賯丿 丿蹖丿诏丕賴鈥屬囏й� 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 丿乇亘丕乇賴鈥屰� 毓卮賯 賵 乇賵丕亘胤 賲蹖鈥屬矩必ж藏� 讴賴 趩诏賵賳賴 丌爻蹖亘 夭丕 賴爻鬲賳丿 賵 丿丕卮鬲賳 趩賳蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴蹖 賲賳噩乇 亘賴 蹖讴 乇丕亘胤賴 禺賵亘 賳賲蹖鈥屫促�.
賵 鬲賵蹖 賮氐賱鈥屬囏й� 讴鬲丕亘 噩賳亘賴鈥屬囏й� 賲禺鬲賱賮 蹖讴 乇丕亘胤賴 乇賵 亘乇乇爻蹖 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 鬲丕 丿蹖丿 賵丕賯毓 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 亘賴 賲禺丕胤亘 亘丿賴丿 賵 賲鬲賵噩賴 賲蹖鈥屫促堐屬� 賴蹖趩 乇賵丕亘胤 丕蹖丿賴鈥屫①勠� 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇丿 賵 芦乇丕亘胤賴鈥屰� 賳爻亘鬲丕 禺賵亘禄 賴賲 禺賵丿卮 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘 丕爻鬲
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 賲賳 乇賵 蹖丕丿 蹖讴 噩賲賱賴鈥屫й� 丕賳丿丕禺鬲 讴賴 賲鬲兀爻賮丕賳賴 賳賲蹖鈥屫堎嗁� 丕夭 讴蹖爻鬲 : 卮賲丕 賳賴 亘丕 蹖丕賮鬲賳 蹖讴 丕賳爻丕賳 讴丕賲賱 亘賱讴賴 亘丕 丿蹖丿賳 讴丕賲賱 蹖讴 丕賳爻丕賳 賳丕賯氐 毓丕卮賯 賲蹖鈥屫促堐屫�.
禺賵賳丿賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賴 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 亘丕卮丿 讴賴 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 讴賲鬲乇 乇賳噩 亘讴卮蹖賲.
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倬 賳 郾: 禺賵卮鈥屫з勝� 賳卮乇 賴賳賵夭 丕爻賲 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 乇賵 噩丕蹖 賲丿乇爻賴鈥屰� 夭賳丿诏蹖 丌賱賳 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳 賳夭丿賴 讴丕乇蹖 讴賴 讴鬲丕亘鈥屫池必й� 賳蹖讴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
倬 賳 鄄: 賮讴 讴賳賲 鬲丕 蹖賴 賲丿鬲蹖 丿蹖诏賴 賲丿乇爻賴 夭賳丿诏蹖 賳禺賵賳賲 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 丨乇賮鈥屬囏� 亘丕 賵噩賵丿 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿賳 丿丕乇賳丿 鬲讴乇丕乇 賲蹖鈥屫促嗀�.
賵 鬲賵蹖 賮氐賱鈥屬囏й� 讴鬲丕亘 噩賳亘賴鈥屬囏й� 賲禺鬲賱賮 蹖讴 乇丕亘胤賴 乇賵 亘乇乇爻蹖 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 鬲丕 丿蹖丿 賵丕賯毓 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 亘賴 賲禺丕胤亘 亘丿賴丿 賵 賲鬲賵噩賴 賲蹖鈥屫促堐屬� 賴蹖趩 乇賵丕亘胤 丕蹖丿賴鈥屫①勠� 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇丿 賵 芦乇丕亘胤賴鈥屰� 賳爻亘鬲丕 禺賵亘禄 賴賲 禺賵丿卮 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘 丕爻鬲
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 賲賳 乇賵 蹖丕丿 蹖讴 噩賲賱賴鈥屫й� 丕賳丿丕禺鬲 讴賴 賲鬲兀爻賮丕賳賴 賳賲蹖鈥屫堎嗁� 丕夭 讴蹖爻鬲 : 卮賲丕 賳賴 亘丕 蹖丕賮鬲賳 蹖讴 丕賳爻丕賳 讴丕賲賱 亘賱讴賴 亘丕 丿蹖丿賳 讴丕賲賱 蹖讴 丕賳爻丕賳 賳丕賯氐 毓丕卮賯 賲蹖鈥屫促堐屫�.
禺賵賳丿賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賴 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 亘丕卮丿 讴賴 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 讴賲鬲乇 乇賳噩 亘讴卮蹖賲.
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倬 賳 郾: 禺賵卮鈥屫з勝� 賳卮乇 賴賳賵夭 丕爻賲 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 乇賵 噩丕蹖 賲丿乇爻賴鈥屰� 夭賳丿诏蹖 丌賱賳 丿賵 亘丕鬲賳 賳夭丿賴 讴丕乇蹖 讴賴 讴鬲丕亘鈥屫池必й� 賳蹖讴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
倬 賳 鄄: 賮讴 讴賳賲 鬲丕 蹖賴 賲丿鬲蹖 丿蹖诏賴 賲丿乇爻賴 夭賳丿诏蹖 賳禺賵賳賲 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 丨乇賮鈥屬囏� 亘丕 賵噩賵丿 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿賳 丿丕乇賳丿 鬲讴乇丕乇 賲蹖鈥屫促嗀�.
November 27, 2019
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鬲賯丕亘賱 亘蹖賳 毓卮賯 讴賱丕爻蹖讴 賵 毓卮賯 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴
賴乇 趩賳丿 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲蹖 讴賴 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴卮賵賳 賲蹖倬乇丿丕夭賴 賲丨丿賵丿賴 賵賱蹖 賴賲卮賵賳 賲賴賲 賵 鬲丕孬蹖乇 诏匕丕乇賳丿
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乇賮鬲丕乇 禺賵丿噩賵卮 蹖丕 丕賲賵禺鬲賴 卮丿賴責 氐丿丕賯鬲 蹖丕 丕丿亘責 睾乇蹖夭賴 蹖丕 鬲丨賱蹖賱責 趩賯丿乇 氐賲蹖賲蹖鬲責 讴蹖 亘丕蹖丿 丕鬲賵 亘讴卮賴責 丿賵 爻丕毓鬲 氐丨亘鬲 丿乇亘丕乇賴 蹖 丨賵賱賴 丨賲丕賲 丕賵蹖夭丕賳 卮丿賴貙 亘蹖賴賵丿賴 蹖丕 囟乇賵乇蹖責
鬲丕孬蹖乇丕鬲 賮蹖賱賲 賴丕 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕 丕賴賳诏 賴丕 乇賵蹖 賲丕 丿乇亘丕乇賴 蹖 毓卮賯 丕蹖丿賴鈥屫①勜�
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禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丕讴蹖丿丕 亘賴 賴賲賴 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖卮賴 趩賵賳 禺蹖賱蹖 亘賴 乇賵卮賳 卮丿賳 鬲賮讴乇丕鬲 賵 賳丨賵賴 亘乇禺賵乇丿鬲賵賳 亘丕 毓卮賯 賵 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲卮鬲乇讴 讴賲讴 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 亘毓囟蹖 賵賯鬲 賴丕 丿爻鬲 乇賵蹖 賳賯丕胤 丨爻丕爻 賵 馗乇蹖賮蹖 賲蹖匕丕乇賴 讴賴 蹖賴賵 倬蹖卮 禺賵丿鬲賵賳 亘诏蹖丿 賵丕賵賵 賲賳 趩乇丕 丕賳賯丿乇 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賮讴乇 賲蹖讴乇丿賲 蹖丕 趩乇丕 丕氐賱丕 丕蹖賳 乇丕賴 丨賱 亘賴 匕賴賳 禺賵丿賲 賳乇爻蹖丿
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亘賳馗乇賲 亘爻蹖 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 賵 噩賲毓 賵 噩賵乇 賵 囟乇賵乇蹖 賵 禺賵丕賳丿賳蹖 丌賲丿
賵 讴賱丕 賴賲賴 蹖 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕蹖 丕蹖賳 賲丿賱蹖 賳卮乇 賴賳賵夭 亘爻蹖丕乇 賯丕亘賱 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 賴爻鬲賳丿.倬爻 毓賱蹖讴賲 亘乇 禺賵丕賳丿賳卮丕賳
鬲賯丕亘賱 亘蹖賳 毓卮賯 讴賱丕爻蹖讴 賵 毓卮賯 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴
賴乇 趩賳丿 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲蹖 讴賴 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴卮賵賳 賲蹖倬乇丿丕夭賴 賲丨丿賵丿賴 賵賱蹖 賴賲卮賵賳 賲賴賲 賵 鬲丕孬蹖乇 诏匕丕乇賳丿
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乇賮鬲丕乇 禺賵丿噩賵卮 蹖丕 丕賲賵禺鬲賴 卮丿賴責 氐丿丕賯鬲 蹖丕 丕丿亘責 睾乇蹖夭賴 蹖丕 鬲丨賱蹖賱責 趩賯丿乇 氐賲蹖賲蹖鬲責 讴蹖 亘丕蹖丿 丕鬲賵 亘讴卮賴責 丿賵 爻丕毓鬲 氐丨亘鬲 丿乇亘丕乇賴 蹖 丨賵賱賴 丨賲丕賲 丕賵蹖夭丕賳 卮丿賴貙 亘蹖賴賵丿賴 蹖丕 囟乇賵乇蹖責
鬲丕孬蹖乇丕鬲 賮蹖賱賲 賴丕 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕 丕賴賳诏 賴丕 乇賵蹖 賲丕 丿乇亘丕乇賴 蹖 毓卮賯 丕蹖丿賴鈥屫①勜�
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禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丕讴蹖丿丕 亘賴 賴賲賴 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖卮賴 趩賵賳 禺蹖賱蹖 亘賴 乇賵卮賳 卮丿賳 鬲賮讴乇丕鬲 賵 賳丨賵賴 亘乇禺賵乇丿鬲賵賳 亘丕 毓卮賯 賵 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲卮鬲乇讴 讴賲讴 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 亘毓囟蹖 賵賯鬲 賴丕 丿爻鬲 乇賵蹖 賳賯丕胤 丨爻丕爻 賵 馗乇蹖賮蹖 賲蹖匕丕乇賴 讴賴 蹖賴賵 倬蹖卮 禺賵丿鬲賵賳 亘诏蹖丿 賵丕賵賵 賲賳 趩乇丕 丕賳賯丿乇 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賮讴乇 賲蹖讴乇丿賲 蹖丕 趩乇丕 丕氐賱丕 丕蹖賳 乇丕賴 丨賱 亘賴 匕賴賳 禺賵丿賲 賳乇爻蹖丿
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亘賳馗乇賲 亘爻蹖 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 賵 噩賲毓 賵 噩賵乇 賵 囟乇賵乇蹖 賵 禺賵丕賳丿賳蹖 丌賲丿
賵 讴賱丕 賴賲賴 蹖 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕蹖 丕蹖賳 賲丿賱蹖 賳卮乇 賴賳賵夭 亘爻蹖丕乇 賯丕亘賱 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 賴爻鬲賳丿.倬爻 毓賱蹖讴賲 亘乇 禺賵丕賳丿賳卮丕賳
May 16, 2021
A simple and honest book about what love and relationships really are instead of what we think they should be. We are all crazy, and we should stop chasing some romantic and unrealistic ideals and start focusing on making our 'good enough' relationships work. I'll admit that I found quite a few things I've been guilty of myself. It helps to know that my madness appears to be the norm after all.听
August 24, 2023
This book is a provocative look at how Romanticism has impacted the way we think about relationships. Throughout the book I found myself feeling forlorn and thinking, "yeah, but you're ruining it," and yet so much of it rang true. I thought that I had dismantled enough of what I thought love stories were supposed to look like, but this book took it to a whole different level. I tucked away a whole bunch of quotes to mull over and here's how the final chapter states that we'll know we're ready for love.
1. When we give up on perfection.
2. When we despair of being understood.
3. When we realize we are crazy.
4. When we are happy to be taught and calm about teaching.
5. When we realize we're not compatible.
I'd recommend this book. You'll probably disagree with pieces of it. I did. But you may also find some nuggets that shed light into any relationship in which you find yourself.
1. When we give up on perfection.
2. When we despair of being understood.
3. When we realize we are crazy.
4. When we are happy to be taught and calm about teaching.
5. When we realize we're not compatible.
I'd recommend this book. You'll probably disagree with pieces of it. I did. But you may also find some nuggets that shed light into any relationship in which you find yourself.
August 19, 2020
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丌诏丕賴丕賳賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳
賳賵卮鬲賴 卮丿賴 鬲賵爻胤 賲賵爻爻賴 "賲丿乇爻賴 夭賳丿诏蹖"
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亘禺卮蹖 丕夭 賲鬲賳 讴鬲丕亘:
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馃敇賲丕 丿乇 亘夭乇诏爻丕賱蹖 禺賵丿 亘賴 丿賳亘丕賱 亘丕夭丌賮乇蹖賳蹖 丕丨爻丕爻蹖 賴爻鬲蹖賲 讴賴 丿乇 讴賵丿讴蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿賴 丕蹖賲貙 賵 丕蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 賮賯胤 卮丕賲賱 卮賮賯鬲 賵 鬲賵噩賴 賳賲蹖卮賵丿. 毓卮賯蹖 讴賴 丕讴孬乇 賲丕 丿乇 讴賵丿讴蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿賴 丕蹖賲 爻丕夭賵讴丕乇 賴丕蹖 賲禺乇亘 賳蹖夭 丿丕卮鬲賴貨 賲孬賱 丕丨爻丕爻 囟乇賵乇鬲 讴賲讴 亘賴 亘夭乇诏鬲乇蹖 丌卮賮鬲賴貙 丕丨爻丕爻 賲丨乇賵賲蹖鬲 丕夭 賲丨亘鬲 倬丿乇 賵 賲丕丿乇 蹖丕 鬲乇爻 丕夭 禺卮賲 丌賳賴丕 賵 蹖丕 丕丨爻丕爻 賳丿丕卮鬲賳 丕賲賳蹖鬲 乇賵丕賳蹖 讴丕賮蹖 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖丕賳 丌乇夭賵 賴丕蹖 卮蹖胤賳鬲 丌賲蹖夭. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 賲賳胤賯蹖 丕爻鬲 讴賴 丿乇 亘夭乇诏爻丕賱蹖 亘毓囟蹖 丕賮乇丕丿 禺丕氐 乇丕 倬爻 亘夭賳蹖賲貙 賳賴 亘賴 丕蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 賲賳丕爻亘 賳蹖爻鬲賳丿貙 亘賱讴賴 亘賴 丕蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 亘蹖卮 丕夭 丨丿 賲賳丕爻亘 丕賳丿. 蹖毓賳蹖 亘賴 丕蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 亘爻蹖丕乇 倬禺鬲賴貙 賲鬲毓丕丿賱貙 賮賴蹖賲 賵 賯丕亘賱 丕毓鬲賲丕丿 丕賳丿 賵 賲丕 亘丕 趩賳蹖賳 禺氐賵氐蹖丕鬲蹖 亘蹖诏丕賳賴 丕蹖賲 賵 丿乇 鬲賴 丿賱 賲丕賳 亘賴 丕蹖賳 賴丕 丕毓鬲賲丕丿 賳丿丕乇蹖賲.
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丌賱賳 丿賵亘丕鬲賳貙 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 賵 賮蹖賱爻賵賮 賵 鬲丨氐蹖賱 讴乇丿賴 乇卮鬲賴 賮賱爻賮賴 丿乇 丿丕賳卮诏丕賴 賴丕乇賵丕乇丿貙 丿乇 爻丕賱 (2008) 亘賴 賴賲乇丕賴 賴蹖卅鬲蹖 鬲氐賲蹖賲 亘賴 丕蹖噩丕丿 賲賵爻爻賴 蹖 丌賲賵夭卮蹖 "賲丿乇爻賴 夭賳丿诏蹖" 蹖丕 賴賲丕賳 The school of life 诏乇賮鬲賴 賵 丕蹖賳 賲賵爻爻賴 乇丕 鬲卮讴蹖賱 丿丕丿賳丿.
賴丿賮 丕蹖賳 賲賵爻爻賴 丕蹖噩丕丿 乇丕賴 賴丕蹖蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 毓賲賵賲 賲乇丿賲 丕夭 賮賱爻賮賴 賵 丿蹖诏乇 毓賱賵賲 丕賳爻丕賳蹖 亘賴 氐賵乇鬲 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 賵 爻丕丿賴 丿乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 乇賵夭賲乇賴 丕爻鬲.
亘賴 诏賵賳賴 丕蹖 讴賴 賴賲賴 丕賳爻丕賳 賴丕蹖 讴乇賴 夭賲蹖賳 亘鬲賵丕賳賳丿 丕夭 诏賳噩蹖賳賴 鬲賲丿賳蹖 丿丕賳卮 亘卮乇蹖 亘乇丕蹖 亘賴亘賵丿 夭賳丿诏蹖 禺賵丿 賵 丕胤乇丕賮蹖丕賳卮丕賳 诏丕賲 亘乇丿丕乇賳丿.
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蹖讴蹖 丕夭 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕蹖 丕蹖賳 賲賵爻爻賴貙 讴鬲丕亘 丌诏丕賴丕賳賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳 丕爻鬲. 丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 讴賴 亘賴 氐賵乇鬲 亘蹖爻鬲 賮賯胤 賲噩夭丕 賵賱蹖 亘賴 賴賲 賲乇鬲亘胤 亘賴 趩丕倬 乇爻蹖丿賴貙 賲蹖鬲賵丕賳蹖賲 丌賲賵夭賴 賴丕蹖 賮乇丕賵丕賳蹖 乇丕 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 乇賵丕亘胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 賵 亘丕賵乇 賴丕蹖 睾賱胤 賵 乇丕蹖噩 蹖丕丿 亘诏蹖乇蹖賲.
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"丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賲丕 丕蹖賳噩丕爻鬲 讴賴 鬲氐賵乇 賲蹖讴賳蹖賲 亘丕 丿丕賳卮 趩诏賵賳賴 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 亘賴 丿賳蹖丕 賲蹖鈥屫③屰屬� 賵 亘賴 賴賲蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲 乇丕亘胤賴 乇丕 賲賴丕乇鬲蹖 睾乇蹖夭蹖 賵 丌爻丕賳 賲蹖鈥屬举嗀ж臂屬�."
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丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丕蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓 亘丕 丿蹖丿蹖 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲 亘乇乇爻蹖 賲蹖卮賵丿: 丕蹖賳 讴賴 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 賵 賲毓卮賵賯 亘賵丿賳 丌賲賵禺鬲賳蹖 丕爻鬲貙 賳賴 氐乇賮丕 賴蹖噩丕賳蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿賳蹖. 亘乇 丕爻丕爻 丕蹖賳 賮乇囟貙 亘賴 卮蹖賵賴 丕蹖 馗乇蹖賮 賵 夭蹖亘丕 亘丕 賲爻丕卅賱 賲賴賲 乇丕亘胤賴 賲丕賳貙 丕夭 亘丨孬 賵 噩丿賱 诏乇賮鬲賴 鬲丕 乇丕亘胤賴 噩賳爻蹖 賵 丕夭 毓賮賵 賵 诏匕卮鬲 诏乇賮鬲賴 鬲丕 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 賲賵孬乇貙 丌卮賳丕 賲蹖卮賵蹖賲 賵 倬蹖 賲蹖亘乇蹖賲 讴賴 丿蹖诏乇 賳亘丕蹖丿 讴丕賲蹖丕亘蹖 丿乇 毓卮賯 乇丕 賲賳賵胤 亘乇 卮丕賳爻 賵 丕賯亘丕賱 亘丿丕賳蹖賲.
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禺賵丕賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇丕 亘賴 鬲賲丕賲蹖 丌賳賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賲蹖禺賵丕賴賳丿 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕胤賮蹖 爻丕賱賲 鬲乇蹖 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮賳丿 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿 賲蹖讴賳賲.
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丿乇 倬賳丕賴 禺乇丿
丌诏丕賴丕賳賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳
賳賵卮鬲賴 卮丿賴 鬲賵爻胤 賲賵爻爻賴 "賲丿乇爻賴 夭賳丿诏蹖"
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亘禺卮蹖 丕夭 賲鬲賳 讴鬲丕亘:
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馃敇賲丕 丿乇 亘夭乇诏爻丕賱蹖 禺賵丿 亘賴 丿賳亘丕賱 亘丕夭丌賮乇蹖賳蹖 丕丨爻丕爻蹖 賴爻鬲蹖賲 讴賴 丿乇 讴賵丿讴蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿賴 丕蹖賲貙 賵 丕蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 賮賯胤 卮丕賲賱 卮賮賯鬲 賵 鬲賵噩賴 賳賲蹖卮賵丿. 毓卮賯蹖 讴賴 丕讴孬乇 賲丕 丿乇 讴賵丿讴蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿賴 丕蹖賲 爻丕夭賵讴丕乇 賴丕蹖 賲禺乇亘 賳蹖夭 丿丕卮鬲賴貨 賲孬賱 丕丨爻丕爻 囟乇賵乇鬲 讴賲讴 亘賴 亘夭乇诏鬲乇蹖 丌卮賮鬲賴貙 丕丨爻丕爻 賲丨乇賵賲蹖鬲 丕夭 賲丨亘鬲 倬丿乇 賵 賲丕丿乇 蹖丕 鬲乇爻 丕夭 禺卮賲 丌賳賴丕 賵 蹖丕 丕丨爻丕爻 賳丿丕卮鬲賳 丕賲賳蹖鬲 乇賵丕賳蹖 讴丕賮蹖 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖丕賳 丌乇夭賵 賴丕蹖 卮蹖胤賳鬲 丌賲蹖夭. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 賲賳胤賯蹖 丕爻鬲 讴賴 丿乇 亘夭乇诏爻丕賱蹖 亘毓囟蹖 丕賮乇丕丿 禺丕氐 乇丕 倬爻 亘夭賳蹖賲貙 賳賴 亘賴 丕蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 賲賳丕爻亘 賳蹖爻鬲賳丿貙 亘賱讴賴 亘賴 丕蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 亘蹖卮 丕夭 丨丿 賲賳丕爻亘 丕賳丿. 蹖毓賳蹖 亘賴 丕蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 亘爻蹖丕乇 倬禺鬲賴貙 賲鬲毓丕丿賱貙 賮賴蹖賲 賵 賯丕亘賱 丕毓鬲賲丕丿 丕賳丿 賵 賲丕 亘丕 趩賳蹖賳 禺氐賵氐蹖丕鬲蹖 亘蹖诏丕賳賴 丕蹖賲 賵 丿乇 鬲賴 丿賱 賲丕賳 亘賴 丕蹖賳 賴丕 丕毓鬲賲丕丿 賳丿丕乇蹖賲.
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丌賱賳 丿賵亘丕鬲賳貙 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 賵 賮蹖賱爻賵賮 賵 鬲丨氐蹖賱 讴乇丿賴 乇卮鬲賴 賮賱爻賮賴 丿乇 丿丕賳卮诏丕賴 賴丕乇賵丕乇丿貙 丿乇 爻丕賱 (2008) 亘賴 賴賲乇丕賴 賴蹖卅鬲蹖 鬲氐賲蹖賲 亘賴 丕蹖噩丕丿 賲賵爻爻賴 蹖 丌賲賵夭卮蹖 "賲丿乇爻賴 夭賳丿诏蹖" 蹖丕 賴賲丕賳 The school of life 诏乇賮鬲賴 賵 丕蹖賳 賲賵爻爻賴 乇丕 鬲卮讴蹖賱 丿丕丿賳丿.
賴丿賮 丕蹖賳 賲賵爻爻賴 丕蹖噩丕丿 乇丕賴 賴丕蹖蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 毓賲賵賲 賲乇丿賲 丕夭 賮賱爻賮賴 賵 丿蹖诏乇 毓賱賵賲 丕賳爻丕賳蹖 亘賴 氐賵乇鬲 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 賵 爻丕丿賴 丿乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 乇賵夭賲乇賴 丕爻鬲.
亘賴 诏賵賳賴 丕蹖 讴賴 賴賲賴 丕賳爻丕賳 賴丕蹖 讴乇賴 夭賲蹖賳 亘鬲賵丕賳賳丿 丕夭 诏賳噩蹖賳賴 鬲賲丿賳蹖 丿丕賳卮 亘卮乇蹖 亘乇丕蹖 亘賴亘賵丿 夭賳丿诏蹖 禺賵丿 賵 丕胤乇丕賮蹖丕賳卮丕賳 诏丕賲 亘乇丿丕乇賳丿.
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蹖讴蹖 丕夭 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕蹖 丕蹖賳 賲賵爻爻賴貙 讴鬲丕亘 丌诏丕賴丕賳賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳 丕爻鬲. 丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 讴賴 亘賴 氐賵乇鬲 亘蹖爻鬲 賮賯胤 賲噩夭丕 賵賱蹖 亘賴 賴賲 賲乇鬲亘胤 亘賴 趩丕倬 乇爻蹖丿賴貙 賲蹖鬲賵丕賳蹖賲 丌賲賵夭賴 賴丕蹖 賮乇丕賵丕賳蹖 乇丕 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 乇賵丕亘胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 賵 亘丕賵乇 賴丕蹖 睾賱胤 賵 乇丕蹖噩 蹖丕丿 亘诏蹖乇蹖賲.
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"丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賲丕 丕蹖賳噩丕爻鬲 讴賴 鬲氐賵乇 賲蹖讴賳蹖賲 亘丕 丿丕賳卮 趩诏賵賳賴 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 亘賴 丿賳蹖丕 賲蹖鈥屫③屰屬� 賵 亘賴 賴賲蹖賳 丿賱蹖賱 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲 乇丕亘胤賴 乇丕 賲賴丕乇鬲蹖 睾乇蹖夭蹖 賵 丌爻丕賳 賲蹖鈥屬举嗀ж臂屬�."
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丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丕蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓 亘丕 丿蹖丿蹖 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲 亘乇乇爻蹖 賲蹖卮賵丿: 丕蹖賳 讴賴 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 賵 賲毓卮賵賯 亘賵丿賳 丌賲賵禺鬲賳蹖 丕爻鬲貙 賳賴 氐乇賮丕 賴蹖噩丕賳蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿賳蹖. 亘乇 丕爻丕爻 丕蹖賳 賮乇囟貙 亘賴 卮蹖賵賴 丕蹖 馗乇蹖賮 賵 夭蹖亘丕 亘丕 賲爻丕卅賱 賲賴賲 乇丕亘胤賴 賲丕賳貙 丕夭 亘丨孬 賵 噩丿賱 诏乇賮鬲賴 鬲丕 乇丕亘胤賴 噩賳爻蹖 賵 丕夭 毓賮賵 賵 诏匕卮鬲 诏乇賮鬲賴 鬲丕 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 賲賵孬乇貙 丌卮賳丕 賲蹖卮賵蹖賲 賵 倬蹖 賲蹖亘乇蹖賲 讴賴 丿蹖诏乇 賳亘丕蹖丿 讴丕賲蹖丕亘蹖 丿乇 毓卮賯 乇丕 賲賳賵胤 亘乇 卮丕賳爻 賵 丕賯亘丕賱 亘丿丕賳蹖賲.
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禺賵丕賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇丕 亘賴 鬲賲丕賲蹖 丌賳賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賲蹖禺賵丕賴賳丿 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕胤賮蹖 爻丕賱賲 鬲乇蹖 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮賳丿 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿 賲蹖讴賳賲.
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丿乇 倬賳丕賴 禺乇丿
May 1, 2021
Very important book. Great for episodic reading as each chapter begs and deserves independent processing, mulling over, comparing and contrasting with your own lived experience. I feel if you read it in big chunks or - providence forbid - all at once, the potential of positive impact is diminished.
Moreover, one can really only derive wisdom and insight from the book having had some experience in "romantic" partnerships themselves. That's the sad truth of human condition - some lessons have to be learnt via considerable pain by every new generation.
Death to romanticism sounded like a horrible rallying cry when I started the book. By the end of it, I was more sold on it, than not. To all people over 25 or so, highly recommended!
Moreover, one can really only derive wisdom and insight from the book having had some experience in "romantic" partnerships themselves. That's the sad truth of human condition - some lessons have to be learnt via considerable pain by every new generation.
Death to romanticism sounded like a horrible rallying cry when I started the book. By the end of it, I was more sold on it, than not. To all people over 25 or so, highly recommended!
March 16, 2017
The book is essentially an organized series of essays that you can already find on "the book of life" or their YouTube channel. As an avid follower of their articles and videos I was deeply familiar with the concepts, but that didn't really make the experience of reading the book any less enjoyable. The book discusses the very same ideas that were at the core of "the course of love" by Alain de Botton. The contrast between the classical perspective on love, sex, and marriage versus the relatively new "romantic" notion that our generation is intimately familiar with through the prevalent advertisements, movies, love stories and such. It provides a rather gentle and soothing explanation of the vague miseries that an average person might go through in the context of a relationship and talks about the potential approaches to alleviate the pain. While the ultimate conclusion of the book might be that sorrow of some form is an indispensable quality of any relationship, it still manages to console us through the illumination of the true underlying causes of our sufferings. I think *knowing* the problem is the trickiest part of arriving at a solution, and this book does an excellent job of explanation.
February 3, 2020
A very thought-provoking and down to earth read about relationships.
The book鈥檚 tone is just a little too un-optimistic for my taste. I mean sure, relationships are a lot of work and they generally don鈥檛 quite match the expectations we have from growing up seeing perfect love stories everywhere in the media but hey, don鈥檛 take away all my motivation to even try.
I learned a lot from this book. Mainly that I shouldn鈥檛 have any expectations and don鈥檛 make the state of the relationship define my happiness. But also, that it鈥檚 okay to be want to have that approval. So in the end, not really that much.
So let鈥檚 keep on trying to be the best version of a loveable idiot.
The book鈥檚 tone is just a little too un-optimistic for my taste. I mean sure, relationships are a lot of work and they generally don鈥檛 quite match the expectations we have from growing up seeing perfect love stories everywhere in the media but hey, don鈥檛 take away all my motivation to even try.
I learned a lot from this book. Mainly that I shouldn鈥檛 have any expectations and don鈥檛 make the state of the relationship define my happiness. But also, that it鈥檚 okay to be want to have that approval. So in the end, not really that much.
So let鈥檚 keep on trying to be the best version of a loveable idiot.
January 25, 2022
" 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 卮乇蹖讴 夭賳丿诏蹖 賮賯胤 亘賴 丕蹖賳 賲毓賳丕爻鬲 讴賴 賲丕 鬲乇讴蹖亘蹖 禺丕氐 丕夭 乇賳噩 賴丕 乇丕 賲蹖鈥屬矩佰屫臂屬呚� 丕蹖賳 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 亘賴 賲毓賳丕蹖 丕賲蹖丿 亘賴 乇賴丕蹖蹖 丕夭 睾賲 賵 丕賳丿賵賴 賳蹖爻鬲."
禺蹖賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賲.
賳賴 賮賯胤 亘賴 禺丕胤乇 賲鬲賳卮 趩賵賳 蹖賴 丿賵爻鬲 禺蹖賱蹖 毓夭蹖夭 亘賴賲 丿丕丿. 丿爻鬲 賳賵卮鬲賴 丕卮 乇賵蹖 氐賮丨賴 丕賵賱 讴鬲丕亘賴 賵 丨鬲蹖 亘賵蹖 毓胤乇卮 賴賲 乇賵蹖 讴鬲丕亘 賲賵賳丿賴 亘賵丿 亘乇丕蹖 趩賳丿 爻丕毓鬲 馃ゲ ( 丕夭 賯卮賳诏鬲乇蹖賳 趩蹖夭賴丕蹖 丿賳蹖丕). 賵 賴賲趩賳蹖賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鬲賵 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 鬲噩乇亘賴 賴丕蹖 丕賵賱 夭賳丿诏蹖賲 賴賲乇丕賴賲 亘賵丿.
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丿賵賲蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鄄郯鄄鄄 亘賵丿 賵 賲胤丕賱亘 賵 賳讴丕鬲卮 乇賵 禺蹖賱蹖 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賲.
趩賴 丕诏乇 丿乇 乇丕亘胤賴 賴爻鬲蹖丿 蹖丕 賯乇丕乇賴 讴賴 丿乇 丌蹖賳丿賴 乇丕亘胤賴 亘丕卮蹖丿 亘賴 賳馗乇賲 禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 禺丕賱蹖 丕夭 賱胤賮 賳蹖爻鬲. 丕诏乇趩賴 讴賵鬲丕賴賴 賵 夭賵丿 禺賵賳丿賴 賲蹖卮賴 丕賲丕 賳讴丕鬲 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 丿乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 丿丕乇賴.
禺蹖賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賲.
賳賴 賮賯胤 亘賴 禺丕胤乇 賲鬲賳卮 趩賵賳 蹖賴 丿賵爻鬲 禺蹖賱蹖 毓夭蹖夭 亘賴賲 丿丕丿. 丿爻鬲 賳賵卮鬲賴 丕卮 乇賵蹖 氐賮丨賴 丕賵賱 讴鬲丕亘賴 賵 丨鬲蹖 亘賵蹖 毓胤乇卮 賴賲 乇賵蹖 讴鬲丕亘 賲賵賳丿賴 亘賵丿 亘乇丕蹖 趩賳丿 爻丕毓鬲 馃ゲ ( 丕夭 賯卮賳诏鬲乇蹖賳 趩蹖夭賴丕蹖 丿賳蹖丕). 賵 賴賲趩賳蹖賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鬲賵 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 鬲噩乇亘賴 賴丕蹖 丕賵賱 夭賳丿诏蹖賲 賴賲乇丕賴賲 亘賵丿.
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丿賵賲蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鄄郯鄄鄄 亘賵丿 賵 賲胤丕賱亘 賵 賳讴丕鬲卮 乇賵 禺蹖賱蹖 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賲.
趩賴 丕诏乇 丿乇 乇丕亘胤賴 賴爻鬲蹖丿 蹖丕 賯乇丕乇賴 讴賴 丿乇 丌蹖賳丿賴 乇丕亘胤賴 亘丕卮蹖丿 亘賴 賳馗乇賲 禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 禺丕賱蹖 丕夭 賱胤賮 賳蹖爻鬲. 丕诏乇趩賴 讴賵鬲丕賴賴 賵 夭賵丿 禺賵賳丿賴 賲蹖卮賴 丕賲丕 賳讴丕鬲 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 丿乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 丿丕乇賴.
February 12, 2021
This book answered the big question " why the marriages in india last longer?" .
Maybe my parents were right about relationships 馃馃馃
Maybe my parents were right about relationships 馃馃馃
February 15, 2022
艩pecifick茅 obobia si vy啪aduj煤 拧pecifick茅 膷铆tanie. Prim谩rnou podstatou je, mysl铆m si to, 啪e kniha vyvracia romantizovan媒 poh木ad na l谩sku, ktor媒 vn铆mame v takmer v拧etk媒ch idealizovan媒ch 木煤bostn媒ch pr铆behoch.
Kniha pozer谩 na l谩sku sk么r pragmaticky a vyzdvihuje to, 啪e napriek tomu v拧etk茅mu pekn茅mu, budeme rie拧i钮 aj 钮a啪拧ie a nemil茅 situ谩cie. Nie v拧ak pesimisticky, ale s n谩dejou budovania l谩sky ako spolo膷nej zru膷nosti.
Je tam ve木a v谩啪nych pas谩啪铆, ale aj ve木a t媒ch vtipn媒ch. A uis钮uje n谩s teda, 啪e nie je trivi谩lne 膷i ned么le啪it茅 vies钮 dvojhodinov煤 debatu o tom, 膷i by sme mali uter谩ky ve拧a钮 alebo sklada钮.
Kniha pozer谩 na l谩sku sk么r pragmaticky a vyzdvihuje to, 啪e napriek tomu v拧etk茅mu pekn茅mu, budeme rie拧i钮 aj 钮a啪拧ie a nemil茅 situ谩cie. Nie v拧ak pesimisticky, ale s n谩dejou budovania l谩sky ako spolo膷nej zru膷nosti.
Je tam ve木a v谩啪nych pas谩啪铆, ale aj ve木a t媒ch vtipn媒ch. A uis钮uje n谩s teda, 啪e nie je trivi谩lne 膷i ned么le啪it茅 vies钮 dvojhodinov煤 debatu o tom, 膷i by sme mali uter谩ky ve拧a钮 alebo sklada钮.
April 15, 2022
賵丕賯毓丕 讴鬲丕亘 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘蹖 亘賵丿
賵 禺賵賳丿賳卮 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賴 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖讴賳賲
丕賳诏丕乇 蹖讴 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗂� 賲噩乇亘 丿丕卮鬲 乇丕賴賳賲丕蹖蹖 賲蹖诏乇丿 讴賴 丕爻鬲丕賳丿丕乇丿賴丕蹖 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 亘乇丕蹖 乇丕亘胤賴 趩賴 趩蹖夭賴丕蹖蹖 賴爻鬲賳丿 賵 趩胤賵乇蹖 亘賴鬲乇賴 蹖讴 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 乇賵 賵丕賯毓 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 亘蹖蹖蹖賳蹖賲 賵 亘賴鬲乇 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲鈥屫� 讴賳蹖賲.
賵 禺賵賳丿賳卮 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賴 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖讴賳賲
丕賳诏丕乇 蹖讴 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗂� 賲噩乇亘 丿丕卮鬲 乇丕賴賳賲丕蹖蹖 賲蹖诏乇丿 讴賴 丕爻鬲丕賳丿丕乇丿賴丕蹖 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 亘乇丕蹖 乇丕亘胤賴 趩賴 趩蹖夭賴丕蹖蹖 賴爻鬲賳丿 賵 趩胤賵乇蹖 亘賴鬲乇賴 蹖讴 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 乇賵 賵丕賯毓 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 亘蹖蹖蹖賳蹖賲 賵 亘賴鬲乇 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲鈥屫� 讴賳蹖賲.
July 14, 2021
乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕胤賮蹖 讴賴 丿乇 丕丿亘蹖丕鬲 賵 爻蹖賳賲丕 鬲氐賵蹖乇 賲蹖卮賴 賵 鬲賮讴乇丕鬲 賲丕 丕夭 毓卮賯 乇賵 爻丕禺鬲賴貙 亘賴 賯丿乇蹖 讴丕匕亘 賵 亘蹖賲丕乇诏賵賳賴 爻鬲 讴賴 賲蹖鬲賵賳賴 賴乇 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕胤賮蹖 乇賵 亘賴 卮讴爻鬲 亘乇爻賵賳賴. 亘賴 賲丕 蹖丕丿 賲蹖丿賳 讴賴 賲丕 亘丕 丿丕賳卮 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 亘賴 丿賳蹖丕 丕賵賲丿蹖賲貙 賵 卮禺氐蹖 丿乇 丿賳蹖丕 亘乇丕蹖 賲丕 丌賮乇蹖丿賴 卮丿賴 讴賴 丿乇 賴賲賴 趩蹖夭 亘丕 賲丕 賴賲丕賴賳诏賴 賵 丕诏乇 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 毓丕胤賮蹖 卮讴爻鬲 賲蹖禺賵乇蹖賲 鬲賳賴丕 賵 鬲賳賴丕 蹖讴 丿賱蹖賱 丿丕乇賴貙 丕賵賳賲 丕蹖賳讴賴 卮禺氐 丿乇爻鬲 乇賵 倬蹖丿丕 賳讴乇丿蹖賲. 亘賴 賲丕 蹖丕丿 賲蹖丿賳 讴賴 亘丕賱丕禺乇賴 蹖讴蹖 賲蹖丕丿 讴賴 賴賲賴 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 賲丕 乇賵 丿乇讴 賲蹖讴賳賴貙 賳诏賮鬲賴 賴丕蹖 賲丕 乇賵 賲蹖賮賴賲賴貙 賴乇 乇賵夭 賲毓噩夭賴 賲蹖 讴賳賴 賵 賴乇诏夭 禺爻鬲賴 賳賲蹖卮賴.
丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 亘賴 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 賲卮賴賵乇賴. 丿蹖丿诏丕賴蹖 丕丨爻丕爻 诏乇丕 讴賴 賲毓鬲賯丿賴 丕诏乇 丿乇 賲爻蹖乇 毓丕卮賯蹖 賯丿賲 诏匕丕卮鬲蹖 鬲賳賴丕 賯賱亘鬲 乇賵 亘丕 禺賵丿鬲 亘亘乇.
丿乇 賲賯丕亘賱 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴貙 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 讴賱丕爻蹖讴 乇賵 丿丕乇蹖賲 讴賴 賲毓賯鬲丿賴 乇丕亘胤賴 亘丕 噩賳爻 賲禺丕賱賮 賮賯胤 倬蹖乇賵 賲賳胤賯 爻乇丿 賵 亘蹖 乇賵丨賴 賵 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳 丕丨賲賯丕賳賴 爻鬲. 丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 賲毓鬲賯丿賴 讴賴 丕夭丿賵丕噩 賮賯胤 亘乇丕蹖 鬲賵賱蹖丿 賲孬賱貙 蹖丕 鬲賯賵蹖鬲 倬丕蹖賴 丕噩鬲賲丕毓蹖 賵 孬乇賵鬲 賲毓賳蹖 丿丕乇賴. 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 賵丕讴賳卮蹖 亘賴 丕蹖賳 乇賵丕亘胤 爻乇丿 賵 亘蹖 乇賵丨 亘賵丿貙 賵 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘 賴賲 鬲賵賳爻鬲 丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賵 卮讴爻鬲 亘丿賴 賵 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 睾丕賱亘 丿乇 亘蹖丕丿. 丕賲丕 丕蹖賳 丕賮乇丕胤 丿乇 鬲賵噩賴 亘賴 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 賵 乇丿 賲賳胤賯 禺賵丿卮 亘丕毓孬 丿乇丿 賵 乇賳噩 賲丕 卮丿賴. 趩乇丕 賲丕 賴乇诏夭 丌丿賲 乇賵 丿乇爻鬲 倬蹖丿丕 賳賲蹖讴賳蹖賲責 趩乇丕 丌丿賲 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賮讴乇 賲蹖讴乇丿蹖賲 丿乇爻鬲 賴爻鬲賳貙 丕蹖賳賯丿乇 賲丕 乇賵 賳丕 丕賲蹖丿 賲蹖讴賳賳責
"丌诏丕賴丕賳賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳" 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 丕蹖賳 爻賵丕賱丕鬲賴. 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 趩蹖乇賴 丕賲乇賵夭貙 蹖毓賳蹖 丕丨爻丕爻 诏乇丕蹖蹖 氐乇賮 賲亘丕乇夭賴 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 丕夭 賲丕 賲蹖禺賵丕丿 丿賵亘丕乇賴 賲賳胤賯 乇賵 亘賴 乇丕亘胤賴 賴丕賲賵賳 亘乇诏乇丿賵賳蹖賲.
讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 賲丕 蹖丕丿 賲蹖丿賴 讴賴 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 賳蹖丕夭賲賳丿 丿丕賳卮 賵 蹖丕丿诏蹖乇蹖賴 賵 趩蹖夭蹖 賳蹖爻鬲 讴賴 匕丕鬲丕 亘賱丿 亘丕卮蹖賲貙 賵 卮丕蹖丿 亘賴鬲乇 亘丕卮賴 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 禺賵卮 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 毓卮賯 乇賵 讴賳丕乇 亘匕丕乇蹖賲 賵 讴賲蹖 亘丕 亘丿亘蹖賳蹖 亘賴卮 賳诏丕賴 讴賳蹖賲貙 亘賴 噩丕蹖 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 賲毓噩夭賴貙 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿蹖丿賳 囟毓賮 賵 賳賯氐 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲. 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 亘賴 噩丕蹖 爻蹖乇 丿乇 讴賴讴卮丕賳 賴丕貙 爻乇 馗乇賮 卮爻鬲賳 賵 丕鬲賵 讴卮蹖丿賳 丿毓賵丕 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲貙 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 亘賴 噩丕蹖 蹖讴 丌丿賲 賴賲蹖卮賴 賲賳胤賯蹖 賵 毓丕賯賱貙 禺蹖賱蹖 賵賯鬲丕 亘丕 蹖賴 亘趩賴 亘蹖 賲賳胤賯 爻乇 賵 讴丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲. 賵 亘丿賵賳蹖賲 讴賴 賴蹖趩 乇丕亘胤賴 丕蹖 賳蹖爻鬲 讴賴 丿趩丕乇 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 禺丕氐 禺賵丿卮 賳亘丕卮賴.
禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賴 讴爻丕蹖蹖 讴賴 鬲賵 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕胤賮蹖 賴爻鬲賳 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖讴賳賲貙 讴賵鬲丕賴賴貙 賵 卮丕蹖丿 亘丕 賴賲賴 卮 賲賵丕賮賯 賳亘丕卮蹖丿貙 丕丨鬲賲丕賱丕 爻乇 丨丿 賵 丨丿賵丿 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賲蹖讴賳賴 丕禺鬲賱丕賮 賳馗乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖丿. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 禺賵亘賴 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕 卮乇蹖讴 毓丕胤賮蹖鬲賵賳 丨乇賮 亘夭賳蹖丿貙 賵 亘賴 鬲賵丕賮賯 亘乇爻蹖丿. 丕賲丕 趩蹖夭蹖 讴賴 亘蹖卮鬲乇蹖賳 丕賴賲蹖鬲 乇賵 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丿丕乇賴 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲蹖 亘乇丕蹖 賮讴乇 讴乇丿賳 亘賴 賲丕 賲蹖丿賴貙 賵 丨丿丕賯賱 賲蹖賮賴賲蹖賲 讴賴 丕丨爻丕爻 氐乇賮 賯乇丕乇 賳蹖爻鬲 賲丕 乇賵 亘賴 噩丕蹖蹖 亘乇爻賵賳賴. 诏丕賴蹖 蹖讴 爻賵丕賱 丕夭 氐丿 噩賵丕亘 亘賴鬲乇賴.
賳讴鬲賴 丌禺乇 丕蹖賳讴賴 蹖讴 賮乇囟 丕爻丕爻蹖 丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 氐賵乇鬲 诏乇賮鬲賴 讴賴 賴乇诏夭 亘賴 氐乇丕丨鬲 亘蹖丕賳 賳賲蹖卮賴貙 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲丕 卮禺氐蹖 丿乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 丿丕乇蹖賲 讴賴 丕夭 賲乇丨賱賴 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 诏匕卮鬲賴. 蹖毓賳蹖 賲丕 賲蹖丿賵賳蹖賲 讴賴 丕蹖賳 卮禺氐 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 讴丕賮蹖 亘乇丕蹖 賲丕 禺賵亘 賴爻鬲. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 丕诏賴 卮乇蹖讴鬲賵賳 乇賵 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 賳讴乇丿蹖丿 卮丕蹖丿 亘賴鬲乇 亘丕卮賴 丕賵賱 讴鬲丕亘 "趩诏賵賳賴 卮乇蹖讴 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲丕賳 乇丕 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 讴賳蹖賲" 乇賵 亘禺賵賳蹖丿 亘毓丿 亘乇蹖丿 爻乇丕睾 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘.
丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 亘賴 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 賲卮賴賵乇賴. 丿蹖丿诏丕賴蹖 丕丨爻丕爻 诏乇丕 讴賴 賲毓鬲賯丿賴 丕诏乇 丿乇 賲爻蹖乇 毓丕卮賯蹖 賯丿賲 诏匕丕卮鬲蹖 鬲賳賴丕 賯賱亘鬲 乇賵 亘丕 禺賵丿鬲 亘亘乇.
丿乇 賲賯丕亘賱 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴貙 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 讴賱丕爻蹖讴 乇賵 丿丕乇蹖賲 讴賴 賲毓賯鬲丿賴 乇丕亘胤賴 亘丕 噩賳爻 賲禺丕賱賮 賮賯胤 倬蹖乇賵 賲賳胤賯 爻乇丿 賵 亘蹖 乇賵丨賴 賵 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳 丕丨賲賯丕賳賴 爻鬲. 丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 賲毓鬲賯丿賴 讴賴 丕夭丿賵丕噩 賮賯胤 亘乇丕蹖 鬲賵賱蹖丿 賲孬賱貙 蹖丕 鬲賯賵蹖鬲 倬丕蹖賴 丕噩鬲賲丕毓蹖 賵 孬乇賵鬲 賲毓賳蹖 丿丕乇賴. 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 賵丕讴賳卮蹖 亘賴 丕蹖賳 乇賵丕亘胤 爻乇丿 賵 亘蹖 乇賵丨 亘賵丿貙 賵 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘 賴賲 鬲賵賳爻鬲 丕蹖賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 乇賵 卮讴爻鬲 亘丿賴 賵 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 睾丕賱亘 丿乇 亘蹖丕丿. 丕賲丕 丕蹖賳 丕賮乇丕胤 丿乇 鬲賵噩賴 亘賴 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 賵 乇丿 賲賳胤賯 禺賵丿卮 亘丕毓孬 丿乇丿 賵 乇賳噩 賲丕 卮丿賴. 趩乇丕 賲丕 賴乇诏夭 丌丿賲 乇賵 丿乇爻鬲 倬蹖丿丕 賳賲蹖讴賳蹖賲責 趩乇丕 丌丿賲 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賮讴乇 賲蹖讴乇丿蹖賲 丿乇爻鬲 賴爻鬲賳貙 丕蹖賳賯丿乇 賲丕 乇賵 賳丕 丕賲蹖丿 賲蹖讴賳賳責
"丌诏丕賴丕賳賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳" 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 丕蹖賳 爻賵丕賱丕鬲賴. 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 趩蹖乇賴 丕賲乇賵夭貙 蹖毓賳蹖 丕丨爻丕爻 诏乇丕蹖蹖 氐乇賮 賲亘丕乇夭賴 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 丕夭 賲丕 賲蹖禺賵丕丿 丿賵亘丕乇賴 賲賳胤賯 乇賵 亘賴 乇丕亘胤賴 賴丕賲賵賳 亘乇诏乇丿賵賳蹖賲.
讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 賲丕 蹖丕丿 賲蹖丿賴 讴賴 毓卮賯 賵乇夭蹖丿賳 賳蹖丕夭賲賳丿 丿丕賳卮 賵 蹖丕丿诏蹖乇蹖賴 賵 趩蹖夭蹖 賳蹖爻鬲 讴賴 匕丕鬲丕 亘賱丿 亘丕卮蹖賲貙 賵 卮丕蹖丿 亘賴鬲乇 亘丕卮賴 丿蹖丿诏丕賴 禺賵卮 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 毓卮賯 乇賵 讴賳丕乇 亘匕丕乇蹖賲 賵 讴賲蹖 亘丕 亘丿亘蹖賳蹖 亘賴卮 賳诏丕賴 讴賳蹖賲貙 亘賴 噩丕蹖 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 賲毓噩夭賴貙 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿蹖丿賳 囟毓賮 賵 賳賯氐 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲. 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 亘賴 噩丕蹖 爻蹖乇 丿乇 讴賴讴卮丕賳 賴丕貙 爻乇 馗乇賮 卮爻鬲賳 賵 丕鬲賵 讴卮蹖丿賳 丿毓賵丕 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲貙 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 亘賴 噩丕蹖 蹖讴 丌丿賲 賴賲蹖卮賴 賲賳胤賯蹖 賵 毓丕賯賱貙 禺蹖賱蹖 賵賯鬲丕 亘丕 蹖賴 亘趩賴 亘蹖 賲賳胤賯 爻乇 賵 讴丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲. 賵 亘丿賵賳蹖賲 讴賴 賴蹖趩 乇丕亘胤賴 丕蹖 賳蹖爻鬲 讴賴 丿趩丕乇 賲卮讴賱丕鬲 禺丕氐 禺賵丿卮 賳亘丕卮賴.
禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 亘賴 賴賲賴 讴爻丕蹖蹖 讴賴 鬲賵 乇丕亘胤賴 毓丕胤賮蹖 賴爻鬲賳 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賲蹖讴賳賲貙 讴賵鬲丕賴賴貙 賵 卮丕蹖丿 亘丕 賴賲賴 卮 賲賵丕賮賯 賳亘丕卮蹖丿貙 丕丨鬲賲丕賱丕 爻乇 丨丿 賵 丨丿賵丿 鬲賵氐蹖賴 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賲蹖讴賳賴 丕禺鬲賱丕賮 賳馗乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖丿. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 禺賵亘賴 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕 卮乇蹖讴 毓丕胤賮蹖鬲賵賳 丨乇賮 亘夭賳蹖丿貙 賵 亘賴 鬲賵丕賮賯 亘乇爻蹖丿. 丕賲丕 趩蹖夭蹖 讴賴 亘蹖卮鬲乇蹖賳 丕賴賲蹖鬲 乇賵 乇丕噩毓 亘賴 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丿丕乇賴 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲蹖 亘乇丕蹖 賮讴乇 讴乇丿賳 亘賴 賲丕 賲蹖丿賴貙 賵 丨丿丕賯賱 賲蹖賮賴賲蹖賲 讴賴 丕丨爻丕爻 氐乇賮 賯乇丕乇 賳蹖爻鬲 賲丕 乇賵 亘賴 噩丕蹖蹖 亘乇爻賵賳賴. 诏丕賴蹖 蹖讴 爻賵丕賱 丕夭 氐丿 噩賵丕亘 亘賴鬲乇賴.
賳讴鬲賴 丌禺乇 丕蹖賳讴賴 蹖讴 賮乇囟 丕爻丕爻蹖 丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 氐賵乇鬲 诏乇賮鬲賴 讴賴 賴乇诏夭 亘賴 氐乇丕丨鬲 亘蹖丕賳 賳賲蹖卮賴貙 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲丕 卮禺氐蹖 丿乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 丿丕乇蹖賲 讴賴 丕夭 賲乇丨賱賴 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 诏匕卮鬲賴. 蹖毓賳蹖 賲丕 賲蹖丿賵賳蹖賲 讴賴 丕蹖賳 卮禺氐 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 讴丕賮蹖 亘乇丕蹖 賲丕 禺賵亘 賴爻鬲. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 丕诏賴 卮乇蹖讴鬲賵賳 乇賵 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 賳讴乇丿蹖丿 卮丕蹖丿 亘賴鬲乇 亘丕卮賴 丕賵賱 讴鬲丕亘 "趩诏賵賳賴 卮乇蹖讴 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲丕賳 乇丕 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 讴賳蹖賲" 乇賵 亘禺賵賳蹖丿 亘毓丿 亘乇蹖丿 爻乇丕睾 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘.
September 23, 2021
Long review.
I am not even remotely interested in what philosophers write and narrate because deep down I am well aware of plain truth that no matter how calm, composed and reasonable the writer asks you to be, it is physically impossible for us to maintain that sense of rationality when one is in the middle 0f a heated argument. One tend to say hurtful things. Period.
It can be deeply condescending thing to mention but having lived 22 years in here, and being an observant in almost half of those, I am familiar with whatever content this book had. My opinion on love and being engaged or married to someone has always been and will be fixate and that is--
"I am sure, It is not what you see and read, It is not glamour, It is not life changing, It is a change one needs to learn to cope up with, It is transitional, It has scope of improvement at any given point of life and above everything----It has a lot of potential to hurt you in uncountable ways and It is not solution to our problems and happiness".
Coming to the book in hand, I first came across Alain's work in 2017, while having a mid life crisis in my 1st year of engineering, wherein Amazon told me that "Hey, If you like GARY CHAPMAN, might as well try Alain de botton" I said No- Thank you very much. But the primal need and curiosity to know about love once in a while is a trait in-built in me.
This book, talks about every peculiar aspect of relationship leaving nothing to guess. It talks about communication, blame, infidelity, past experiences, crushes, importance of domestic chores in the grand scheme of things like spending life with each other. Past which guides our present relationship because of permanent embedded need to cope with familiar threats. Sexual orientation, extreme sex and lack of thereof, whether sex and love are mutually inclusive, if yes, who decided that, consensual partners or society? Alain covers every ground possible.
Some of the parts I already knew of in my subconscious but loved reading are----
The most comical of all times:
鈥業 promise to be disappointed by you and you alone. I promise
to make you the sole repository of my regrets, rather than to distribute them
widely through multiple affairs and a life of sexual Don Juanism. I have
surveyed the different options for unhappiness, and it is to you I have
chosen to commit myself.'
'Marry, and you will regret it; don鈥檛 marry, you will also regret it; marry or
don鈥檛 marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world鈥檚 foolishness,
you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too 鈥� Hang yourself,
you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang
yourself or don鈥檛 hang yourself, you鈥檒l regret it either way; whether you
hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen,
is the essence of all philosophy'
Okay, Here comes the not-so-comical ones.
"Strangely, even when we鈥檝e had pretty disappointing experiences, we don鈥檛
lose faith in our expectations. Hope reliably triumphs over experience"
"A particularly poignant sign of the trouble we
have with talking in relationships is the tendency to sulk. At heart, sulking
combines intense anger with an intense desire not to communicate what one
is angry about: one both desperately wants to be understood and yet is
utterly committed to not explaining oneself plainly. It happens a lot, and it鈥檚
telling us that, far from being easy and natural, good discussion in a
relationship can be very hard to manage."
"Irrational blame is at heart just a symptom of an intensity of investment in
another person. We attack because we have richly entangled our deepest
dreams and anxieties with our lover."
"Disagreement is what happens when love succeeds and you get
to know someone close up across the full range of their life."
"Our adaptations to the troubles of our past
make us all maddening prospects in the present."
All in all, if you have had, many experiences in love or being close to loving someone, what Alain says is already something you know, but it is short, and moreover it is good to read your own thoughts and feeling being articulated in 100 pages with such details.
I am not even remotely interested in what philosophers write and narrate because deep down I am well aware of plain truth that no matter how calm, composed and reasonable the writer asks you to be, it is physically impossible for us to maintain that sense of rationality when one is in the middle 0f a heated argument. One tend to say hurtful things. Period.
It can be deeply condescending thing to mention but having lived 22 years in here, and being an observant in almost half of those, I am familiar with whatever content this book had. My opinion on love and being engaged or married to someone has always been and will be fixate and that is--
"I am sure, It is not what you see and read, It is not glamour, It is not life changing, It is a change one needs to learn to cope up with, It is transitional, It has scope of improvement at any given point of life and above everything----It has a lot of potential to hurt you in uncountable ways and It is not solution to our problems and happiness".
Coming to the book in hand, I first came across Alain's work in 2017, while having a mid life crisis in my 1st year of engineering, wherein Amazon told me that "Hey, If you like GARY CHAPMAN, might as well try Alain de botton" I said No- Thank you very much. But the primal need and curiosity to know about love once in a while is a trait in-built in me.
This book, talks about every peculiar aspect of relationship leaving nothing to guess. It talks about communication, blame, infidelity, past experiences, crushes, importance of domestic chores in the grand scheme of things like spending life with each other. Past which guides our present relationship because of permanent embedded need to cope with familiar threats. Sexual orientation, extreme sex and lack of thereof, whether sex and love are mutually inclusive, if yes, who decided that, consensual partners or society? Alain covers every ground possible.
Some of the parts I already knew of in my subconscious but loved reading are----
The most comical of all times:
鈥業 promise to be disappointed by you and you alone. I promise
to make you the sole repository of my regrets, rather than to distribute them
widely through multiple affairs and a life of sexual Don Juanism. I have
surveyed the different options for unhappiness, and it is to you I have
chosen to commit myself.'
'Marry, and you will regret it; don鈥檛 marry, you will also regret it; marry or
don鈥檛 marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world鈥檚 foolishness,
you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too 鈥� Hang yourself,
you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang
yourself or don鈥檛 hang yourself, you鈥檒l regret it either way; whether you
hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen,
is the essence of all philosophy'
Okay, Here comes the not-so-comical ones.
"Strangely, even when we鈥檝e had pretty disappointing experiences, we don鈥檛
lose faith in our expectations. Hope reliably triumphs over experience"
"A particularly poignant sign of the trouble we
have with talking in relationships is the tendency to sulk. At heart, sulking
combines intense anger with an intense desire not to communicate what one
is angry about: one both desperately wants to be understood and yet is
utterly committed to not explaining oneself plainly. It happens a lot, and it鈥檚
telling us that, far from being easy and natural, good discussion in a
relationship can be very hard to manage."
"Irrational blame is at heart just a symptom of an intensity of investment in
another person. We attack because we have richly entangled our deepest
dreams and anxieties with our lover."
"Disagreement is what happens when love succeeds and you get
to know someone close up across the full range of their life."
"Our adaptations to the troubles of our past
make us all maddening prospects in the present."
All in all, if you have had, many experiences in love or being close to loving someone, what Alain says is already something you know, but it is short, and moreover it is good to read your own thoughts and feeling being articulated in 100 pages with such details.
August 17, 2024
鈥楻elationships are understood to be institutions, not just emotions鈥�.
The main premise of this book - as all books by the School of Life about relationships and romance - is to challenge what it calls the 鈥楻omantic view鈥�. This is to see love as something (almost) metaphysical, a beautiful accident that happens and then goes splendidly on without any necessary effort because of an underlying feeling.
This Romantic view is then contracted with more constructive view, what the author calls 鈥榯he Classical view鈥�, which sees relationships more as a work in progress, a joint effort that鈥檚 full of compromise, mutual learning, but also disappointments. This rather pragmatic view sees relationships as (temporary) unions of inherently flawed beings, going so far to suggest that more realistic wows would be 鈥業 promise to be disappointed by you and you alone. I promise to make you the sole repository of my regrets鈥�.
There are some more useful parts - like about 鈥榓rtificial conversations鈥� or about having a learning mindset when communicating with one鈥檚 partner, and some less useful parts, that are often a bit philosophical (like about sexual liberation). But generally the book is written so generally that I would say most people can find something relevant for them and their relationships.
In the final chapters, it is naturally a mixture between the two which is argued for, but the sometimes almost ridiculing takes on the Romantic view make one feel that the author鈥檚 perspective on relationships (and love) is rather bleak - even if that might not be fully true. So while some parts might be challenging to read for the more naive-romantic souls among us (as is often me, I have to admit), it is written as to challenge some of the assumptions of the past hundreds of years about love and functioning relationships.
Having read this book with my partner, I feel like we have learnt a lot and even often reference some parts of it (like prefacing constructive criticisms with 鈥榗an I make you more lovable?鈥�). I think this book can break a lot of taboos in a relationships, to force a different view on what it means to be partners. Emotional education is extremely undervalued in our day and age and while this is not a manual, it鈥檚 definitely a good start for discussions that can make couples not just go for the long run, but actually enjoy it together.
It鈥檚 definitely a useful guide through important discussions about what it means to not just love someone, but also to actually share life (or large parts of it) with them.
The main premise of this book - as all books by the School of Life about relationships and romance - is to challenge what it calls the 鈥楻omantic view鈥�. This is to see love as something (almost) metaphysical, a beautiful accident that happens and then goes splendidly on without any necessary effort because of an underlying feeling.
This Romantic view is then contracted with more constructive view, what the author calls 鈥榯he Classical view鈥�, which sees relationships more as a work in progress, a joint effort that鈥檚 full of compromise, mutual learning, but also disappointments. This rather pragmatic view sees relationships as (temporary) unions of inherently flawed beings, going so far to suggest that more realistic wows would be 鈥業 promise to be disappointed by you and you alone. I promise to make you the sole repository of my regrets鈥�.
There are some more useful parts - like about 鈥榓rtificial conversations鈥� or about having a learning mindset when communicating with one鈥檚 partner, and some less useful parts, that are often a bit philosophical (like about sexual liberation). But generally the book is written so generally that I would say most people can find something relevant for them and their relationships.
In the final chapters, it is naturally a mixture between the two which is argued for, but the sometimes almost ridiculing takes on the Romantic view make one feel that the author鈥檚 perspective on relationships (and love) is rather bleak - even if that might not be fully true. So while some parts might be challenging to read for the more naive-romantic souls among us (as is often me, I have to admit), it is written as to challenge some of the assumptions of the past hundreds of years about love and functioning relationships.
Having read this book with my partner, I feel like we have learnt a lot and even often reference some parts of it (like prefacing constructive criticisms with 鈥榗an I make you more lovable?鈥�). I think this book can break a lot of taboos in a relationships, to force a different view on what it means to be partners. Emotional education is extremely undervalued in our day and age and while this is not a manual, it鈥檚 definitely a good start for discussions that can make couples not just go for the long run, but actually enjoy it together.
It鈥檚 definitely a useful guide through important discussions about what it means to not just love someone, but also to actually share life (or large parts of it) with them.
April 15, 2024
I really enjoyed this book.
It came to me at a time in my life when I needed to read the harsh truths written in this book.
Was a useful, quick read ! I want to try other 鈥渟chool of life鈥� books now :)
It came to me at a time in my life when I needed to read the harsh truths written in this book.
Was a useful, quick read ! I want to try other 鈥渟chool of life鈥� books now :)
January 25, 2025
讴鬲丕亘 丿乇 丌睾丕夭 賵 亘丕乇 丿蹖诏賴 丿乇 倬丕蹖丕賳 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 鬲丕孬蹖乇 賲讴鬲亘 乇賲丕賳鬲蹖讴 賵 讴賱丕爻蹖讴 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 鬲賵囟蹖丨 賲蹖丿賴 賵 賲蹖诏賴 賴蹖趩 讴丿賵賲 讴丕賲賱賳 氐丨蹖丨 蹖丕 讴丕賲賱賳 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 賳蹖爻鬲 亘賱讴賴 鬲毓丕丿賱 亘蹖賳 丕蹖賳 丿賵 賲讴鬲亘 賲賴賲 賴爻鬲.
丿乇 卮乇賵毓 丕夭 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲丕 丿乇 賲乇丕丨賱 丕賵賱蹖賴 鬲噩乇亘蹖丕鬲 毓丕胤賮蹖 禺賵丿 趩诏賵賳賴 丕賮乇丕丿蹖 乇丕 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 賲蹖讴賳蹖賲 賵 亘賴 趩賴 賴丿賮蹖 氐丨亘鬲 賲蹖讴賳賴.
丿乇 賲賵乇丿 芦亘乇賵夭 賵 馗賴賵乇禄 鬲賵囟蹖丨 賲蹖丿賴 讴賴 趩胤賵乇 鬲乇爻 賵 丕囟胤乇丕亘 賴丕蹖 诏匕卮鬲賴鈥屰� 賴乇 卮禺氐 賲蹖鬲賵賳賴 毓丕賲賱 倬賳賴丕賳 乇賮鬲丕乇賴丕蹖 丕賲乇賵夭卮 賲禺氐賵氐賳 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤卮 亘丕卮賴.
丿賵 丕賱诏賵蹖 芦賲囟胤乇亘 蹖丕 讴賳鬲乇賱鈥屭甭� 賵 芦丕噩鬲賳丕亘诏乇 蹖丕 讴賳丕乇賴鈥屭屫甭� 乇賵 賲毓乇賮蹖 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 賲蹖诏賴 賴乇 卮禺氐 亘丕 趩賳丕賳 丕賱诏賵蹖蹖 趩賴 丨乇賮蹖 亘乇丕蹖 诏賮鬲賳 丿丕乇賴.
丿乇賲賵乇丿 賳賯丕胤 囟毓賮 賲蹖诏賴 讴賴 亘禺卮 丕噩鬲賳丕亘 賳丕倬匕蹖乇 卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴乇 賮乇丿蹖 賴爻鬲 賵 蹖丕丿丌賵乇蹖 丕蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓 讴賴 丌丿賲 讴丕賲賱 丕氐賱賳 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇賴 賲蹖鬲賵賳賴 丌乇丕賲卮 亘禺卮 亘丕卮賴.
賲蹖诏賴 丿乇 丿乇賵賳 賴賲賴鈥屰� 賲丕 讴賵丿讴蹖 賵噩賵丿 丿丕乇賴 讴賴 诏丕賴蹖 讴賳鬲乇賱 乇賮鬲丕乇賴丕蹖 賲丕 乇賵 丿爻鬲 禺賵丿卮 賲蹖诏蹖乇賴 賵 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 丕夭 賲丿賱 丿乇讴 讴賵丿讴丕賳 乇丕賴讴丕乇 賲賮蹖丿蹖 亘乇丕蹖 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲 亘丨乇丕賳 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 賴爻鬲.
丿乇賲賵乇丿 毓卮賯蹖 讴賴 賲丕 丿乇 丿賵乇丕賳 讴賵丿讴蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿蹖賲 氐丨亘鬲 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 賲蹖诏賴 賳亘丕蹖丿 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 趩賳蹖賳 毓卮賯蹖 乇賵 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 趩乇丕讴賴 賳賲蹖鬲賵賳蹖賲 賲孬賱 讴賵丿讴蹖 賮賯胤 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賴 卮丿賳 乇賵 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲貙 亘賱讴賴 亘丕蹖丿 丿賵爻鬲 賴賲 亘丿丕乇蹖賲.
丿乇賲賵乇丿 丕賴賲蹖鬲 賲爻丕卅賱 亘賴 馗丕賴乇 讴賲 丕賴賲蹖鬲 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 賲蹖诏賴貙 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲賲讴賳賴 趩賳蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 噩夭卅蹖 賲孬賱 丕賳噩丕賲 讴丕乇 賴丕蹖 禺丕賳賴貙 賵賯鬲 乇賮鬲賳 亘賴 鬲禺鬲禺賵丕亘 賵... 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 丿乇丕賲丕鬲蹖讴 倬乇乇賳诏 噩賱賵賴 賳讴賳賴 丕賲丕 丿乇 丨賯蹖賯鬲 亘爻蹖丕乇 賲賴賲 賴爻鬲賳.
丕夭 丕賴賲蹖鬲 丌賲賵夭卮 丿丕丿賳 賵 丌賲賵夭卮 丿蹖丿賳 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 賲蹖诏賴.
丕夭 丕賴賲蹖鬲 賲賳賮蹖鈥屭必й屰� 賲蹖诏賴 (丕蹖賳讴賴 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 倬蹖卮 丌賲丿賳 丕卮鬲亘丕賴丕鬲 丕夭 噩丕賳亘 胤乇賮 賲賯丕亘賱 乇丕 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 趩賵賳 讴賴 卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴乇 讴爻蹖 倬蹖趩蹖丿賴 賵 賲亘賴賲 賴爻鬲 賵 丕蹖賳讴賴 讴爻蹖 卮賳丕禺鬲 賵 丿乇讴 讴丕賲賱蹖 丕夭 賲丕 賳丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮賴 胤亘蹖毓蹖鈥屫池�).
丿乇賲賵乇丿 氐丿丕賯鬲 賵 乇丕夭 丿丕卮鬲賳 賲蹖诏賴 讴賴 诏丕賴蹖 賲丨丿賵丿 讴乇丿賳 亘毓囟蹖 毓賯丕蹖丿 賵 亘乇賳丕賲賴 乇蹖夭蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕氐賱丕丨 丕賵賳賴丕 丕夭 毓賱丕賯賴鈥屰� 亘蹖卮鬲乇蹖 爻乇趩卮賲賴 賲蹖诏蹖乇賴 鬲丕 賳卮丕賳 丿丕丿賳 賴賲賴鈥屰� 丿丕卮鬲賴 賴丕蹖 匕賴賳蹖 禺賵丿.
卮乇蹖讴 賵賮丕丿丕乇 賵 卮乇蹖讴 丌夭丕丿蹖鈥屫焚勜� 乇賵 賲毓乇賮蹖 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 賲蹖诏賴 賴乇 丿賵 鬲丕 丨丿賵丿蹖 賮丕噩毓賴 亘丕乇 賴爻鬲賳 賵 賴乇 丿賵 賴賲 亘乇丕蹖 禺賵丿 賲賳胤賯蹖 丿丕乇賳 賵 賴乇 丿賵 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤卮賵賳 賵 亘乇丕蹖 乇爻蹖丿賳 亘賴 賳賯胤賴鈥屫й� 賲卮鬲乇讴 賱丕夭賲賴 丕夭 蹖讴 爻乇蹖 丕夭 丕乇夭卮鈥屬囏ж促堎� 亘诏匕乇賳.
丿乇 丌禺乇 丿乇賲賵乇丿 鬲噩乇丿 賲蹖诏賴 讴賴 丕丨鬲賲丕賱賳 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲卮鬲乇讴 亘乇丕蹖 賴賲賴 賲賳丕爻亘 賳蹖爻鬲 賵 賲噩乇丿 賲丕賳丿賳 賴賲 亘賴 賴蹖趩 賵噩賴 丕蹖乇丕丿蹖 賳丿丕乇賴. 趩乇丕 讴賴 卮禺氐蹖 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲卮鬲乇讴 賲賳丕爻亘 賳蹖爻 賲賲讴賳賴 夭賳丿诏蹖 禺賵丿卮 賵 卮禺氐 賲賯丕亘賱卮 乇賵 亘賴 爻賲鬲 亘丿鬲乇 卮丿賳 爻賵賯 亘丿賴. 賵 丕蹖賳讴賴 乇丕亘胤賴 賴丕蹖 丿乇爻鬲 賵 賵丕賯毓蹖 乇賵 賳亘丕蹖丿 亘丕蹖丿 亘丕 乇丕亘胤賴 賴丕蹖 丿丕卅賲蹖 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 亘诏蹖乇蹖賲.
芦卮丕蹖丿 倬丕爻禺 讴丕賲賱賳 賯丿乇卮賳丕爻丕賳賴 丿乇 亘乇丕亘乇 毓卮賯貙 鬲丨爻蹖賳貙 爻鬲丕蹖卮貙 倬乇賵乇卮 丿丕丿賳 賵 丕賱亘鬲賴 亘毓丿 乇賴丕 讴乇丿賳 賵 丿賵乇 卮丿賳 丕夭 丌賳 亘丕卮丿.禄
丿乇 卮乇賵毓 丕夭 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲丕 丿乇 賲乇丕丨賱 丕賵賱蹖賴 鬲噩乇亘蹖丕鬲 毓丕胤賮蹖 禺賵丿 趩诏賵賳賴 丕賮乇丕丿蹖 乇丕 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 賲蹖讴賳蹖賲 賵 亘賴 趩賴 賴丿賮蹖 氐丨亘鬲 賲蹖讴賳賴.
丿乇 賲賵乇丿 芦亘乇賵夭 賵 馗賴賵乇禄 鬲賵囟蹖丨 賲蹖丿賴 讴賴 趩胤賵乇 鬲乇爻 賵 丕囟胤乇丕亘 賴丕蹖 诏匕卮鬲賴鈥屰� 賴乇 卮禺氐 賲蹖鬲賵賳賴 毓丕賲賱 倬賳賴丕賳 乇賮鬲丕乇賴丕蹖 丕賲乇賵夭卮 賲禺氐賵氐賳 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤卮 亘丕卮賴.
丿賵 丕賱诏賵蹖 芦賲囟胤乇亘 蹖丕 讴賳鬲乇賱鈥屭甭� 賵 芦丕噩鬲賳丕亘诏乇 蹖丕 讴賳丕乇賴鈥屭屫甭� 乇賵 賲毓乇賮蹖 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 賲蹖诏賴 賴乇 卮禺氐 亘丕 趩賳丕賳 丕賱诏賵蹖蹖 趩賴 丨乇賮蹖 亘乇丕蹖 诏賮鬲賳 丿丕乇賴.
丿乇賲賵乇丿 賳賯丕胤 囟毓賮 賲蹖诏賴 讴賴 亘禺卮 丕噩鬲賳丕亘 賳丕倬匕蹖乇 卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴乇 賮乇丿蹖 賴爻鬲 賵 蹖丕丿丌賵乇蹖 丕蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓 讴賴 丌丿賲 讴丕賲賱 丕氐賱賳 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇賴 賲蹖鬲賵賳賴 丌乇丕賲卮 亘禺卮 亘丕卮賴.
賲蹖诏賴 丿乇 丿乇賵賳 賴賲賴鈥屰� 賲丕 讴賵丿讴蹖 賵噩賵丿 丿丕乇賴 讴賴 诏丕賴蹖 讴賳鬲乇賱 乇賮鬲丕乇賴丕蹖 賲丕 乇賵 丿爻鬲 禺賵丿卮 賲蹖诏蹖乇賴 賵 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 丕夭 賲丿賱 丿乇讴 讴賵丿讴丕賳 乇丕賴讴丕乇 賲賮蹖丿蹖 亘乇丕蹖 賲丿蹖乇蹖鬲 亘丨乇丕賳 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 賴爻鬲.
丿乇賲賵乇丿 毓卮賯蹖 讴賴 賲丕 丿乇 丿賵乇丕賳 讴賵丿讴蹖 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿蹖賲 氐丨亘鬲 賲蹖讴賳賴 賵 賲蹖诏賴 賳亘丕蹖丿 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 趩賳蹖賳 毓卮賯蹖 乇賵 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲 趩乇丕讴賴 賳賲蹖鬲賵賳蹖賲 賲孬賱 讴賵丿讴蹖 賮賯胤 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賴 卮丿賳 乇賵 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖賲貙 亘賱讴賴 亘丕蹖丿 丿賵爻鬲 賴賲 亘丿丕乇蹖賲.
丿乇賲賵乇丿 丕賴賲蹖鬲 賲爻丕卅賱 亘賴 馗丕賴乇 讴賲 丕賴賲蹖鬲 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 賲蹖诏賴貙 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲賲讴賳賴 趩賳蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 噩夭卅蹖 賲孬賱 丕賳噩丕賲 讴丕乇 賴丕蹖 禺丕賳賴貙 賵賯鬲 乇賮鬲賳 亘賴 鬲禺鬲禺賵丕亘 賵... 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲 丿乇丕賲丕鬲蹖讴 倬乇乇賳诏 噩賱賵賴 賳讴賳賴 丕賲丕 丿乇 丨賯蹖賯鬲 亘爻蹖丕乇 賲賴賲 賴爻鬲賳.
丕夭 丕賴賲蹖鬲 丌賲賵夭卮 丿丕丿賳 賵 丌賲賵夭卮 丿蹖丿賳 丿乇 乇賵丕亘胤 賲蹖诏賴.
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丿乇 丌禺乇 丿乇賲賵乇丿 鬲噩乇丿 賲蹖诏賴 讴賴 丕丨鬲賲丕賱賳 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲卮鬲乇讴 亘乇丕蹖 賴賲賴 賲賳丕爻亘 賳蹖爻鬲 賵 賲噩乇丿 賲丕賳丿賳 賴賲 亘賴 賴蹖趩 賵噩賴 丕蹖乇丕丿蹖 賳丿丕乇賴. 趩乇丕 讴賴 卮禺氐蹖 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲卮鬲乇讴 賲賳丕爻亘 賳蹖爻 賲賲讴賳賴 夭賳丿诏蹖 禺賵丿卮 賵 卮禺氐 賲賯丕亘賱卮 乇賵 亘賴 爻賲鬲 亘丿鬲乇 卮丿賳 爻賵賯 亘丿賴. 賵 丕蹖賳讴賴 乇丕亘胤賴 賴丕蹖 丿乇爻鬲 賵 賵丕賯毓蹖 乇賵 賳亘丕蹖丿 亘丕蹖丿 亘丕 乇丕亘胤賴 賴丕蹖 丿丕卅賲蹖 丕卮鬲亘丕賴 亘诏蹖乇蹖賲.
芦卮丕蹖丿 倬丕爻禺 讴丕賲賱賳 賯丿乇卮賳丕爻丕賳賴 丿乇 亘乇丕亘乇 毓卮賯貙 鬲丨爻蹖賳貙 爻鬲丕蹖卮貙 倬乇賵乇卮 丿丕丿賳 賵 丕賱亘鬲賴 亘毓丿 乇賴丕 讴乇丿賳 賵 丿賵乇 卮丿賳 丕夭 丌賳 亘丕卮丿.禄
December 5, 2020
This is one of those books that I would like to give as a present to everyone.
With a warm and close tone, Alain de Botton, teaches us about love and relationships in the real life, not the romantic ideal: Things like deciding if it is OK to leave wet towels in the floor of the bathroom matters.
With a brief tour through the different views of love through history, we learn that having a relationship is quite different than the common fairy tale. Being ins a relationship means being comprehensive, communicative and care for the other, even though he/she misbehaves irrationally sometimes.
Some important points put forward by Alain de Botton are that, in one way or another, we are all a little bit mad and that inside we are not "adults". Inside our mature facade, we have our fears, and having a good relationship means accepting that the person you are with is not perfect, is not THE person that you are predestined to be with. Being in a relationship means accepting that you are lucky to have found a person good enough to want to share the journey with.
With a warm and close tone, Alain de Botton, teaches us about love and relationships in the real life, not the romantic ideal: Things like deciding if it is OK to leave wet towels in the floor of the bathroom matters.
With a brief tour through the different views of love through history, we learn that having a relationship is quite different than the common fairy tale. Being ins a relationship means being comprehensive, communicative and care for the other, even though he/she misbehaves irrationally sometimes.
Some important points put forward by Alain de Botton are that, in one way or another, we are all a little bit mad and that inside we are not "adults". Inside our mature facade, we have our fears, and having a good relationship means accepting that the person you are with is not perfect, is not THE person that you are predestined to be with. Being in a relationship means accepting that you are lucky to have found a person good enough to want to share the journey with.
February 3, 2021
Alain de Botton is one of my favorite philosopher and School of Life introduced me to this book.
Clearly, he is vocal about pitfalls of Romanticism and I personally enjoyed reading a realistic view of what to expect from relationships.
Thoroughly enjoyed reference to Soren Kierkegaard's words on existential dilemma -
If you marry, you will regret it; if you do not marry, you will also regret it; whether you marry or you do not marry, you will regret both. Laugh at the world鈥檚 follies, you will regret it; weep over them, you will also regret it; whether you laugh at the world鈥檚 follies or you weep over them, you will regret both. Believe a girl, you will regret it; if you do not believe her, you will also regret it; whether you believe a girl or you do not believe her, you will regret both. If you hang yourself, you will regret it; if you do not hang yourself, you will regret it; whether you hang yourself or you do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the sum of all practical wisdom.
Clearly, he is vocal about pitfalls of Romanticism and I personally enjoyed reading a realistic view of what to expect from relationships.
Thoroughly enjoyed reference to Soren Kierkegaard's words on existential dilemma -
If you marry, you will regret it; if you do not marry, you will also regret it; whether you marry or you do not marry, you will regret both. Laugh at the world鈥檚 follies, you will regret it; weep over them, you will also regret it; whether you laugh at the world鈥檚 follies or you weep over them, you will regret both. Believe a girl, you will regret it; if you do not believe her, you will also regret it; whether you believe a girl or you do not believe her, you will regret both. If you hang yourself, you will regret it; if you do not hang yourself, you will regret it; whether you hang yourself or you do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the sum of all practical wisdom.
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