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袙懈 谢邪写薪褨 斜褨谐褌懈 蟹邪 泻芯褏邪薪懈屑 谐械薪 蟹邪 芯斜褉褨泄, 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褟泻褖芯 锌邪褉褌薪械褉褍 褑械 薪械 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪芯? 袙懈斜邪褔邪褦褌械 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褍 谐械褌褜 薪械锌褉懈泄薪褟褌薪褨 褉械褔褨? 袙褨写褔褍胁邪褦褌械 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪懈泄 褌懈褋泻, 锌褉芯褌械 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 胁褨写屑芯胁懈褌懈褋褟 胁褨写 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁? 袙懈 泻芯褏邪褦褌械 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 褨 薪邪褋褌邪胁 褔邪褋 褑械 锌褉懈锌懈薪懈褌懈! 袧邪 卸邪谢褜, 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 鈥� 褑械 薪械 褉芯屑邪薪褌懈泻邪, 褏芯褔 斜懈 褟泻 泄芯谐芯 薪械 锌芯锌褍谢褟褉懈蟹褍胁邪谢懈 袟袦袉, 屑邪褋泻褍谢褜褌褍褉邪 斜邪 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褌胁芯褉懈 褋胁褨褌芯胁芯褩 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉懈. 笑械 薪械斜械蟹锌械褔薪邪 褏胁芯褉芯斜邪, 褨 褖芯 褕胁懈写褕械 胁懈 锌芯褔薪械褌械 芯写褍卸褍胁邪褌懈, 褌芯 褋泻芯褉褨褕械 锌褨蟹薪邪褦褌械 褋锌褉邪胁卸薪褦 卸褨薪芯褔械 褖邪褋褌褟. 笑褟 泻薪懈卸泻邪 写芯锌芯屑芯卸械 卸褨薪泻邪屑, 褟泻褨 锌芯褌械褉锌邪褞褌褜 胁褨写 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟, 写芯泻芯褉褨薪薪芯 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褋械斜械 褨 褋胁芯褦 卸懈褌褌褟. 小泻邪卸褨褌褜 袧袉 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪褨泄 褨 褎褨蟹懈褔薪褨泄 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨, 斜芯 胁懈 谐褨写薪褨 薪邪泄泻褉邪褖芯谐芯! 袟邪锌邪屑鈥櫻徰傂靶寡傂�: 胁懈 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褨薪褕懈褏, 锌褉芯褌械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈褋褟 褋邪屑褨.
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First published January 1, 1985
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May 29, 2016
I think this book is a necessary to be read by all women not because we are in same situation with women mentioned in this book, but because the nature of all women is to be kind and pleasing others. Then we can understand how much kindness is logical in relationships. For me my mom is the God of kindness but even in our relationship I always ask her to be kind to herself first then others and I think this is the best and healthier way to connect others by a woman.
November 14, 2021
鈥嶹omen Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change, Robin Norwood
Women Who Love Too Much is a self-help book by Robin Norwood published in 1985. Its premise, that women who get "mired in obsessive relationships" are to help themselves, was criticized by some feminist scholars.
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鬲丕乇蹖禺 亘賴賳诏丕賲 乇爻丕賳蹖 21/08/1399賴噩乇蹖 禺賵乇卮蹖丿蹖貨 22/08/1400賴噩乇蹖 禺賵乇卮蹖丿蹖貨 丕. 卮乇亘蹖丕賳蹖
Women Who Love Too Much is a self-help book by Robin Norwood published in 1985. Its premise, that women who get "mired in obsessive relationships" are to help themselves, was criticized by some feminist scholars.
鬲丕乇蹖禺 賳禺爻鬲蹖賳 禺賵丕賳卮: 乇賵夭 趩賴丕乇賲 賲丕賴 爻倬鬲丕賲亘乇 爻丕賱1999賲蹖賱丕丿蹖
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鬲丕乇蹖禺 亘賴賳诏丕賲 乇爻丕賳蹖 21/08/1399賴噩乇蹖 禺賵乇卮蹖丿蹖貨 22/08/1400賴噩乇蹖 禺賵乇卮蹖丿蹖貨 丕. 卮乇亘蹖丕賳蹖
August 10, 2012
changed my life.....again. My sister gave this to me, the first time i read it, I got mad. the second time I read it, I cried. the 3rd time I read it, I left my husband......but be warned, unless God changes you inside, if we don't learn from our past, we WILL repest it...in bad relationships...that's why i am single.
December 5, 2008
Yes, Women Who Love Too Much is the quintessential self-help book. It fits every stereotype given to this genre. That being written, I read this at a time when I needed the help and to understand relationships. It was after a particularly devastating relationship and I was in a dark place. I don't remember if anything impacted me when I read the book, but years later I find myself flashing back to it from time to time, remembering something small from the book and being able to make some sense of things or relate certain issues in the present back to the information that seeped through. There have been many "Ohhhhh...yeah, I remember reading that" moments for me.
It's not going to change your life or save you from falling into your darkest places, but it's a good book for women to read if only to understand certain patterns of behavior that either we, individually or collectively, put into our relationships. While I don't remember it to be preachy, it does a good job of explaining why we may do certain things and why we shouldn't.
Yes, it's kitschy and you might be embarrassed if someone sees that you're reading it, but I'd recommend this for all women.
It's not going to change your life or save you from falling into your darkest places, but it's a good book for women to read if only to understand certain patterns of behavior that either we, individually or collectively, put into our relationships. While I don't remember it to be preachy, it does a good job of explaining why we may do certain things and why we shouldn't.
Yes, it's kitschy and you might be embarrassed if someone sees that you're reading it, but I'd recommend this for all women.
February 9, 2015
I hated the book, threw it in a corner, picked it up again and weeped until the end....
October 5, 2019
Honestly, this book allowed me to realize what I personally was(is) doing wrong in relationships. This book states how our childhood can affect our future relationships with partners and friends, stories from women with different traumas they've experienced in their life, the problems they encountered with their destructive partners, and the reasons why they are attracted to them.
I've dog-eared so many pages that I thought had very good key points to keep in mind.
I recommend this to all types of women who have discovered themselves in turbulent relationships with the same pattern of unhealthy, agonizing emotions. This book affirms us of our own self-worth, how to seek help and not be ashamed of loving too much, and how you can continue a healthy lifestyle of trying to make yourself happy first.
I've dog-eared so many pages that I thought had very good key points to keep in mind.
I recommend this to all types of women who have discovered themselves in turbulent relationships with the same pattern of unhealthy, agonizing emotions. This book affirms us of our own self-worth, how to seek help and not be ashamed of loving too much, and how you can continue a healthy lifestyle of trying to make yourself happy first.
May 22, 2014
I have to be honest that in the span of 12 days of reading this book I have noticed a shift in my attitude -- I became irritable, more critical, maybe intolerant. That's definitely unpleasant, because the book reminded me so much of my sad adolescence.
My story is nowhere near as catastrophic as the incredible, inspirational stories shared in the book; but I'm from a broken family and my childhood/adolescence basically consisted of numerous memories of my parents quarreling and fighting. Reading Women Who Love Too Much has definitely opened my wounds that have already long been healed.
The reason why I bought this book, and why I got astonished and excited when I stumbled upon it, is because I've always thought I AM a woman who loves too much (as evidenced by my past relationship/s, ages ago). Although I fairly think I've gone a long way since and am fully recovered, at a young age I am in this process of loving myself, living life to the fullest. By doing this I know I'm taking baby steps towards preparing myself for the man I'll be with for the rest of my life, constantly thinking and living according to the principle that I am not a half waiting to be made whole.
And that's what this book is all about.
Sure, Robin Norwood's writing has reminded me of my previous painful life, but I closed the book with a smile on my face, because, as she said: "With understanding comes the opportunity for choice, so the greater your understanding, the greater our freedom of choice." I opened myself to whatever new ideas, knowledge and perspective this book has to offer. The more I learned, the more I knew, the more I understood, the more forgiving I had to do, the more I had to let go and accept... and that's the best part of reading the book -- it cracks you open, it compels you to stop, let go, live, love and accept yourself... first.
Thank you, Robin Norwood. Your unparalleled passion, expertise and experience will continue to educate and heal a lot of people, myself included.
Highly recommended!
My story is nowhere near as catastrophic as the incredible, inspirational stories shared in the book; but I'm from a broken family and my childhood/adolescence basically consisted of numerous memories of my parents quarreling and fighting. Reading Women Who Love Too Much has definitely opened my wounds that have already long been healed.
The reason why I bought this book, and why I got astonished and excited when I stumbled upon it, is because I've always thought I AM a woman who loves too much (as evidenced by my past relationship/s, ages ago). Although I fairly think I've gone a long way since and am fully recovered, at a young age I am in this process of loving myself, living life to the fullest. By doing this I know I'm taking baby steps towards preparing myself for the man I'll be with for the rest of my life, constantly thinking and living according to the principle that I am not a half waiting to be made whole.
And that's what this book is all about.
Sure, Robin Norwood's writing has reminded me of my previous painful life, but I closed the book with a smile on my face, because, as she said: "With understanding comes the opportunity for choice, so the greater your understanding, the greater our freedom of choice." I opened myself to whatever new ideas, knowledge and perspective this book has to offer. The more I learned, the more I knew, the more I understood, the more forgiving I had to do, the more I had to let go and accept... and that's the best part of reading the book -- it cracks you open, it compels you to stop, let go, live, love and accept yourself... first.
Thank you, Robin Norwood. Your unparalleled passion, expertise and experience will continue to educate and heal a lot of people, myself included.
Highly recommended!
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February 17, 2013This book changed my life. I've never believed in self-help books, but this book is just unbelievable! It makes you feel as if someone just entered your mind, read every word and then put it down in a way that almost makes you shiver.
It's so perceptive, it's almost uncanny. If you are or ever have been in a relationship that's meant more pain than love, more tears than joy and more giving than what you're getting in return, this book is for you. It's the biggest wake up call you'll ever get. I cannot recommend it enough!
It's so perceptive, it's almost uncanny. If you are or ever have been in a relationship that's meant more pain than love, more tears than joy and more giving than what you're getting in return, this book is for you. It's the biggest wake up call you'll ever get. I cannot recommend it enough!
December 10, 2023
袧械 褍 胁褋褨褏 卸褨薪芯泻, 褟泻懈屑 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪谢懈褋褟 褏芯谢芯写薪褨 锌褉懈写褍褉泻懈, 斜邪褌褜泻懈 斜褍谢懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻邪屑懈, 薪邪褉泻芯屑邪薪邪屑懈 邪斜芯 械屑芯褑褨泄薪芯 薪械写芯褋褌褍锌薪懈屑懈. 袧械 褍 胁褋褨褏 写褨褌械泄 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁 褨 薪邪褉泻芯屑邪薪褨胁 芯褋芯斜懈褋褌械 卸懈褌褌褟 褋锌芯胁薪械薪械 薪械胁写邪褔. 携 屑芯卸褍 锌芯谐芯写懈褌懈褋褟, 褖芯 胁褋褨 薪邪褕褨 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈 蟹 写懈褌懈薪褋褌胁邪, 邪谢械 谐芯胁芯褉懈褌懈, 褖芯 蟹邪胁卸写懈 胁 褍褋褜芯屑褍 胁懈薪薪褨 斜邪褌褜泻懈? 笑械 薪械 褉褨胁械薪褜 锌芯胁邪卸薪芯褩 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐懈薪褨, 褟泻芯褞 薪邪褔械斜褌芯 褦 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪. 袘褨谢褜褕械 薪邪谐邪写褍褦 谢芯谐褨泻褍 谢械写邪褔芯谐芯 褋褌褍写械薪褌邪 锌褋懈褏褎邪泻褍 蟹 薪械锌褉芯褎褨谢褜薪芯谐芯 袙袧袟.
孝邪泻, 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 卸褨薪芯泻 褍 褌芯泻褋懈褔薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 芯锌懈褋邪薪褨 写芯斜褉械. 袟斜褍写卸械薪薪褟, 褋褌褉邪褏, 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜, 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪薪褟 鈥� 胁褋械 褌芯褔薪芯. 袩褉芯斜谢械屑懈 鈥� 蟹褨 褋锌褨谢泻褍胁邪薪薪褟屑, 锌褉懈泄薪褟褌褌褟屑 褉褨褕械薪褜, 褋邪屑芯芯褑褨薪泻芯褞 鈥� 褌械卸. 袗谢械 锌芯蟹邪 褌懈屑 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 胁褋械 蟹胁芯写懈褌褜 写芯 褟泻芯谐芯褋褜 写褍卸械 锌芯胁械褉褏薪械胁芯谐芯 薪邪斜芯褉褍 褔懈薪薪懈泻褨胁, 褖芯 薪邪胁褨褌褜 锌褉懈 锌械褉械褉邪褏褍胁邪薪薪褨 蟹胁褍褔邪褌褜 写懈胁薪芯. 袙芯薪邪 锌芯泻芯褏邪谢邪 泄芯谐芯, 斜芯 胁褨薪 斜褍胁 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑, 褟泻 褩褩 斜邪褌褜泻芯 / 褌芯屑褍 褖芯 锌芯褌褉械斜褍胁邪胁 写芯锌芯屑芯谐懈, 褟泻 褩褩 屑邪褌懈 / 褌芯屑褍 褖芯 斜褍胁 褏芯谢芯写薪懈屑, 褟泻 写褨写褍褋褜. 袉... 薪邪 褑褜芯屑褍, 胁谢邪褋薪械, 胁褋械. 袧褨褟泻芯谐芯 褎芯薪褍 邪斜芯 褋褍锌褍褌薪褨褏 芯斜褋褌邪胁懈薪. 效芯屑褍褋褜 袧芯褉胁褍写 谐械褌褜 薪械 斜械褉械 写芯 褍胁邪谐懈 屑芯屑械薪褌 褋芯褑褨邪谢褜薪芯谐芯 褌懈褋泻褍; 褎褨蟹懈褔薪芯褩 锌褉懈胁邪斜谢懈胁芯褋褌褨 鈥� 锌褉懈锌褍褋褌褨屑芯, 胁懈 锌芯蟹薪邪泄芯屑懈谢懈褋褟 蟹 袣褉褨褋芯屑 袚械屑褋胁芯褉褌芯屑 鈥� 邪斜芯 褌胁邪褉懈薪薪芯谐芯 锌芯褌褟谐褍, 褖芯 屑褨谐 蟹胁械褋褌懈 写芯泻褍锌懈 褑褨 薪械胁写邪谢褨 锌邪褉懈; 褋锌褨谢褜薪懈褏 褨薪褌械褉械褋褨胁; 褉芯蟹褍屑褍, 褏邪褉懈蟹屑懈, 褔邪褉褨胁薪芯褋褌褨 - 褍褋褜芯谐芯 褌芯谐芯, 褔懈屑 谢褞写懈薪邪 锌褉懈褌褟谐褍褦 蟹 锌械褉褕芯褩 褋械泻褍薪写懈. 袙褨写褋褍褌薪芯褋褌褨 褨薪褕懈褏 泻邪薪写懈写邪褌褨胁, 褟泻褖芯 泄写械褌褜褋褟 锌褉芯 蟹邪泻褉懈褌褍 谐褉芯屑邪写褍.
袧邪褉械褕褌褨, 屑芯屑械薪褌 胁械蟹褨薪薪褟/薪械胁械蟹褨薪薪褟. 携泻芯褞 斜 褋懈谢褜薪芯褞 薪械 斜褍谢邪 薪邪褕邪 锌褨写褋胁褨写芯屑褨褋褌褜, 屑懈 薪褨泻芯谢懈 蟹邪蟹写邪谢械谐褨写褜 薪械 蟹薪邪褦屑芯, 泻懈屑 胁懈褟胁懈褌褜褋褟 谢褞写懈薪邪, 蟹 褟泻芯褞 屑懈 胁懈褉褨褕懈谢懈 蟹斜谢懈蟹懈褌懈褋褟. 袘芯 屑懈 薪械 械泻褋褌褉邪褋械薪褋懈, 褨 斜芯 褏邪泄 褖芯 斜 薪邪屑 薪械 泻邪蟹邪谢懈 蟹 写懈褌懈薪褋褌胁邪, 芯褑械 芯褌 "褌邪 褌懈 褋邪屑邪 锌褉懈褌褟谐薪褍谢邪" 褨褋薪褍褦 谢懈褕械 胁 褍褟胁褨 锌械胁薪懈褏 谢褞写械泄. 袙 褉械邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 卸 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 锌芯蟹薪邪泄芯屑懈谢懈褋褟 薪械 胁 泻褍斜谢褨, 写械 胁褨薪 谐邪谢邪薪褌薪芯 蟹邪锌褉芯锌芯薪褍胁邪胁 褉芯蟹写褨谢懈褌懈 写芯褉褨卸泻褍 泻芯泻邪褩薪褍 薪邪 写胁芯褏, 褌芯 卸芯写薪懈褏 褌褉懈胁芯卸薪懈褏 写蟹胁褨薪芯褔泻褨胁 褍 锌械褉褕褨 写薪褨, 褌懈卸薪褨, 邪 褨薪泻芯谢懈 泄 屑褨褋褟褑褨, 胁卸械 褌芯褔薪芯 薪械 锌芯屑褨褌懈褌械. 孝邪泻, 褍 邪胁褌芯褉泻懈 胁 锌褉懈泻谢邪写邪褏 褍褋械 蟹芯胁褋褨屑 褨薪邪泻褕械 褨 褟泻褉邪蟹 斜褨谢褜褕械 薪邪谐邪写褍褦 锌褉懈泻谢邪写 褨蟹 泻芯泻邪褩薪芯屑 - 褨 褑械 褌械卸 斜械薪褌械卸懈褌褜. 袧褍 薪械 胁褋褨 "锌芯谐邪薪褨 褏谢芯锌褑褨" - 褑械 蟹邪褋褌褉褟谐谢褨 胁 斜芯褉谐芯胁褨泄 褟屑褨 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻懈 褨 卸芯薪芯薪械薪邪胁懈褋薪懈泻懈. 小械褉泄芯蟹薪芯. 袗 褖芯 袧芯褉胁褍写 褋泻邪卸械 锌褉芯 褌懈褏 写褨胁褔邪褌, 褟泻褨 蟹褉芯褋褌邪谢懈 褍 蟹胁懈褔邪泄薪懈褏 褋褨屑'褟褏 褨 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪谢懈 褍褋锌褨褕薪懈褏 褌邪 邪写械泻胁邪褌薪懈褏 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁, 蟹 褟泻懈屑懈 胁 薪懈褏 - 芯褌 卸械 薪械胁写邪褔邪 - 褌械卸 胁懈褏芯写懈谢邪 褎褨谐薪褟, 邪 薪械 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈? 袟薪芯胁褍 斜褍写械 褕褍泻邪褌懈 daddy issues 褨 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨蟹屑 胁 芯斜芯褏 褋褌芯褉褨薪?
效懈 胁褋械 卸 褌邪泻懈 胁邪褉褌芯 胁懈蟹薪邪褌懈, 褖芯 锌褋懈褏褨泻邪 谢褞写懈薪懈 锌褉邪褑褞褦 蟹邪 褋泻谢邪写薪褨褕懈屑懈 锌褉懈薪褑懈锌邪屑懈, 褨 薪械褉芯蟹褍屑薪芯 泄褌懈 锌褉芯褌芯褉械薪芯褞 泻谢褨褕械 写芯褉褨卸泻芯褞, 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪芯 胁 泻芯卸薪芯屑褍 胁懈锌邪写泻褍 泻芯锌邪褌懈 谐谢懈斜芯泻芯, 写褍卸械 谐谢懈斜芯泻芯?
袩芯胁械褉薪褍褋褟 写芯 锌懈褌邪薪薪褟 锌褉芯 胁械蟹褨薪薪褟. 小锌芯褔邪褌泻褍 胁褋褨 蟹写邪褞褌褜褋褟 芯写薪械 芯写薪芯屑褍 褨写械邪谢褜薪懈屑懈. 袦懈 蟹邪褏芯锌谢械薪芯 褋锌褨谢泻褍褦屑芯褋褟, 蟹斜谢懈卸褍褦屑芯褋褟, 邪谢械 锌芯褌褨屑 鈥� 胁械谢懈泻邪 谢芯褌械褉械褟. 袗斜芯 胁褋械 锌褉芯写芯胁卸褍褦褌褜褋褟 薪械 屑械薪褕 胁蟹邪褦屑薪芯 褨 褔褍写芯胁芯, 邪斜芯 胁邪屑 锌芯锌邪谢邪褋褟 卸邪斜邪. 袉 褟泻懈屑 斜懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑 鈥� 邪斜芯, 薪邪胁锌邪泻懈, 蟹褉邪蟹泻芯屑 写谢褟 薪邪褋谢褨写褍胁邪薪薪褟 鈥� 薪械 斜褍胁 胁邪褕 斜邪褌褜泻芯, 胁懈 薪械 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写邪褦褌械 蟹邪 褌械, 褟泻 胁懈褉褨褕懈褌褜 写芯 胁邪褋 褋褌邪胁懈褌懈褋褟 薪芯胁懈泄 锌邪褉褌薪械褉. 袉 褟泻褖芯 胁褨薪 薪械 锌芯锌褉芯褋懈胁 褍 胁邪褋 谐褉芯褕械泄 薪邪 锌械褉褕芯屑褍 锌芯斜邪褔械薪薪褨, 胁懈 薪褨褟泻 薪械 蟹屑芯卸械褌械 写褨蟹薪邪褌懈褋褟, 褖芯 胁褨薪 邪谢褜褎芯薪褋 (褏芯褔邪, 屑芯卸谢懈胁芯, 胁懈 袩褍邪褉芯 褨 褟 薪械 锌褉邪胁邪). 袦芯锟斤拷薪邪 泻邪褉褌邪褌懈 褋械斜械, 褖芯 胁锌谢褍褌邪谢懈褋褟 胁 锌褉芯胁邪谢褜薪褨 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 鈥� 芯褋芯斜谢懈胁芯, 褟泻褖芯 褑械 薪械 胁锌械褉褕械 鈥� 邪谢械 斜褉邪褌懈 薪邪 褋械斜械 胁褋褞 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜, 蟹胁芯写懈褌懈 胁褋械 写芯 "褟 褋邪屑邪 褌邪泻芯谐芯 芯斜褉邪谢邪" 褨 "屑邪斜褍褌褜, 褟 锌褉芯褋褌芯 谢褞斜谢褞 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褌懈" 鈥� 胁卸械 薪械 蟹薪邪褞, 褟泻 袧芯褉胁褍写, 邪 褟 写褍屑邪褞, 褖芯 褑械 谢懈褕械 褔械褉谐芯胁懈泄 锌褉芯褟胁 褌褨褦褩 褋邪屑芯褩 薪懈蟹褜泻芯褩 褋邪屑芯芯褑褨薪泻懈. 袚芯胁芯褉褟褔懈 蟹邪 褋械斜械: 薪械 谢褞斜谢褞 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褌懈, 邪谢械 屑械薪褨 褌械卸 褌褉邪锌谢褟谢懈褋褟 锌褉懈写褍褉泻懈. 袉 斜褍谢芯 斜芯谢褟褔械. 袉 芯褋褜 褟泻懈泄 褌褉褞泻: 屑械薪械 锌褉懈褌褟谐褍胁邪谢懈 胁 褑懈褏 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪褏 薪械 褏芯谢芯写薪褨褋褌褜, 斜邪泄写褍卸褨褋褌褜 邪斜芯 蟹谐褍斜薪褨 蟹胁懈褔泻懈. 袙芯薪懈 薪械 薪邪谐邪写褍胁邪谢懈 屑械薪褨 斜邪褌褜泻邪 褨 薪械 斜褍谢懈 泄芯谐芯 锌褨写泻褉械褋谢械薪懈屑 邪薪褌懈锌芯写芯屑. 携 胁褨写褔褍胁邪谢邪 褨薪褌械褉械褋 褔械褉械蟹 蟹邪谐邪谢褜薪懈泄 褨屑褨写卸 谢褞写懈薪懈: 褩褩 褨薪褌械谢械泻褌, 谐褍屑芯褉, 芯褉懈谐褨薪邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜. 小械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜 褌邪 屑褍卸薪褨褋褌褜. 袗 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褨 写械屑芯薪懈 薪邪 褌械 泄 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褨, 褖芯 锌褨写 褔邪褋 蟹薪邪泄芯屑褋褌胁邪 褩褏 薪械 褉芯蟹褉褨蟹薪褟褦褕 - 褋锌芯褔邪褌泻褍 薪褨褔芯谐芯 薪械 胁褨褖褍褦 斜褨写懈. 袧褨泻芯谢懈. 袣褉褨屑 写芯褉褨卸泻懈 泻芯泻邪褩薪褍 薪邪 写胁芯褏, 蟹胁褨褋薪芯.
袧械 蟹谐芯写薪邪 褌邪泻芯卸 褨蟹 褌懈屑, 褖芯 蟹邪泻芯褏邪薪邪 卸褨薪泻邪 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦, 斜芯 1. 褑械 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟 褩泄 锌褉芯褟胁芯屑 褋锌褉邪胁卸薪褜芯谐芯 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 褨 2. 薪邪胁'褟蟹邪薪芯 屑械写褨邪, 褟泻 薪芯褉屑邪 锌芯胁械写褨薪泻懈. 袧褨, 薪褍 胁 泻芯谐芯褋褜 薪邪锌械胁薪芯 褌邪泻 褨 褦 鈥� 蟹邪 胁褋褨褏 褉芯蟹锌懈褋褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 薪械 斜褍写褍. 袗谢械 胁 斜褨谢褜褕芯褋褌褨 胁懈锌邪写泻褨胁 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦屑芯 屑懈 蟹 薪邪泄锌褉芯褋褌褨褕芯褩 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈 鈥� 褌芯屑褍 褖芯 薪邪屑 蟹褉芯斜懈谢懈 斜芯谢褟褔械. 孝懈 泻芯谐芯褋褜 谢褞斜懈褕, 邪 褑褟 谢褞写懈薪邪 蟹褉邪写懈谢邪/胁写邪褉懈谢邪/锌褨褕谢邪 鈥� 褌懈 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦褕. 校褋械 锌褉芯褋褌芯. 袛芯 褔芯谐芯 褌褍褌 屑械写褨邪, 褟 薪械 褉芯蟹褍屑褨褞. 携泻褖芯 褋褍写懈褌懈 蟹 褏褍写芯卸薪褨褏 褨 写芯泻褍屑械薪褌邪谢褜薪懈褏 写卸械褉械谢, 卸褨薪泻懈 褉懈写邪谢懈 褔械褉械蟹 屑褍写邪褑褌胁芯 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁 褉褨褕褍褔械 胁 褍褋褨褏 锌械褉褨芯写邪褏 薪邪褕芯褩 褨褋褌芯褉褨褩 薪械蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 屑芯胁懈 褨 泻褍谢褜褌褍褉懈. 袙褌褨屑, 褟泻 褨 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻懈 褉懈写邪谢懈 褔械褉械蟹 卸褨薪芯泻.
袛芯 褉械褔褨, 胁 泻薪懈蟹褨 褍 褟泻芯褋褌褨 褌械褉邪锌褨褩 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 褉邪写懈褌褜 锌芯褔邪褌懈 褋锌褨谢泻褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 蟹 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪屑懈, 褟泻褨 胁懈泻谢懈泻邪褞褌褜 褍 褌械斜械 薪褍写褜谐褍. 袗 褌邪泻芯卸 褔邪褋褌褨褕械 屑芯谢懈褌懈褋褟 斜芯谐褍. 袧械 卸邪褉褌褍褞, 褌邪泻械 褌邪屑 写褨泄褋薪芯 褦 褨 褋泻邪蟹邪薪芯 薪械 屑懈屑芯褏褨写褜.
袗谢械 谐邪褉邪蟹写, 褩写械屑芯 写邪谢褨. 袗胁褌芯褉泻邪 褌邪泻芯卸 薪邪锌芯谢褟谐邪褦, 褖芯 胁褋褨 斜械蟹 胁懈薪褟褌泻褍 卸褨薪泻懈, 褖芯 泻芯褏邪褞褌褜 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 褋褏懈斜谢械薪褨 薪邪 褨写械褩 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褋胁芯谐芯 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪. 笑褨泻邪胁芯, 邪 褟泻 褍 褩褩 褋胁褨褌芯谐谢褟写 胁锌懈褋褍褞褌褜褋褟 褌褨, 褏褌芯 薪邪屑邪谐邪褦褌褜褋褟 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褌褨谢褜泻懈 褋邪屑褍 褋械斜械, 邪 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪 褉芯蟹褋褍写谢懈胁芯 蟹邪谢懈褕邪褞褌褜 褍 褋锌芯泻芯褩? 袟邪褉邪写懈 锌褉懈褏懈谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 锌邪褉褌薪械褉邪 谢褞写懈 蟹邪胁卸写懈 斜褍谢懈 谢邪写薪褨 褋械斜械 锌械褉械泻褉邪褞胁邪褌懈, 泻邪谢褨褔懈褌懈, 邪写邪锌褌褍胁邪褌懈 锌褨写 褟泻懈泄褋褜 褍屑芯胁薪懈泄 褨写械邪谢. 袙芯薪邪 薪邪褔械斜褌芯 锌褉芯 褌邪泻褨 锌褉懈泻谢邪写懈 蟹谐邪写褍褦, 邪谢械 锌芯褌褨屑 褋邪屑邪 卸 褋械斜械 芯斜褉懈胁邪褦 薪邪 锌褨胁褋谢芯胁褨, 锌芯胁械褉褌邪褞褔懈褋褜 写芯 褉褍谢芯薪褨胁 褌械泻褋褌褍 锌褉芯 "薪械 薪邪屑邪谐邪泄褌械褋褟 泄芯谐芯 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈".
袨褋芯斜谢懈胁械 屑褨褋褑械 胁 泻薪懈卸褑褨 锌芯褋褨写邪褞褌褜 蟹斜芯褉懈 谐褉褍锌 邪薪芯薪褨屑薪懈褏 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/褋芯-邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/写褨褌械泄 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/写褉褍卸懈薪 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/卸械褉褌胁 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁 (薪械 锌械褉械斜褨谢褜褕褍褞 鈥� 褑械 褉械邪谢褜薪械 锌械褉械褉邪褏褍胁邪薪薪褟 蟹 泻薪懈卸泻懈). 袗胁褌芯褉 锌褏邪褦 褑褨 袗袗 胁 褍褋褨 褉芯蟹写褨谢懈 褨 薪邪蟹懈胁邪褦 胁褨写胁褨写褍胁邪薪薪褟 褌邪泻懈褏 谐褉褍锌 谐芯谢芯胁薪芯褞 锌邪薪邪褑械褦褞 胁褨写 褍褋褨褏 褏胁芯褉芯斜, 褨 蟹芯泻褉械屑邪 鈥� 谢褨泻邪屑懈 胁褨写 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁, 薪懈蟹褜泻芯褩 褋邪屑芯芯褑褨薪泻懈 褌邪 锌褉芯斜谢械屑 褨蟹 斜邪褌褜泻邪屑懈. 孝褍写懈 卸 写芯写邪褦屑芯 褌芯胁邪褉懈褋褌胁芯 邪薪芯薪褨屑薪懈褏 泻谢械锌褌芯屑邪薪褨胁 褨 谢褞写械泄, 褟泻褨 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褞褌褜 薪邪 褏邪褉褔芯胁褨 褉芯蟹谢邪写懈, 鈥� 邪写卸械 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 薪邪褌褉邪锌懈谢懈 薪邪 泻芯蟹谢邪, 蟹薪邪褔懈褌褜, 胁懈 褌芯褔薪芯 褋锌懈谢懈褋褟, 胁泻褉邪谢懈 褌邪屑锌芯薪懈 胁 邪锌褌械褑褨 邪斜芯 褉芯蟹胁懈薪褍谢懈 胁 褋械斜械 斜褍谢褨屑褨褞. 袙懈泄褌懈 蟹 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁 袧袝 泻谢械锌褌芯屑邪薪芯屑 褔懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑 薪邪 写褍屑泻褍 邪胁褌芯褉邪 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟 薪械屑芯卸谢懈胁芯.
笑褨泻邪胁芯, 褖芯 褍 胁褋褨褏 锌褉懈泻谢邪写邪褏 袧芯褉胁褍写 褌褨 卸褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 蟹褨 褋胁芯褩屑懈 斜邪褉邪薪邪屑懈 薪褨斜懈褌芯 褍褋褌邪泻邪薪褞胁邪谢懈 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈, 锌芯褌褨屑 褋邪屑褨 卸 锌芯褔懈薪邪谢懈 锌褋褍胁邪褌懈 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 蟹 锌邪褉褌薪械褉芯屑. 袦芯胁谢褟胁, 褌懈 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦褕 褖械 泄 褌芯屑褍, 褖芯 卸懈褌懈 蟹 泻芯褏邪薪芯褞 谢褞写懈薪芯褞 胁 屑懈褉褨 褌芯斜褨 泄 褋邪屑褨泄 薪械 褏芯褔械褌褜褋褟. 袉 芯褋褜 蟹薪芯胁褍 - 写褍屑泻邪, 褟泻邪 褋褌邪薪械 锌芯锌邪写邪薪薪褟屑 褍 褌芯褔泻褍 胁 写褍卸械 褨薪写懈胁褨写褍邪谢褜薪芯屑褍 锌芯褉褟写泻褍, 褌褍褌 蟹胁械写械薪邪 胁 邪斜褋芯谢褞褌, 褍蟹邪谐邪谢褜薪械薪邪 褨 锌芯 褋褍褌褨 蟹胁懈薪褍胁邪褔褍褦 卸褨薪芯泻 胁 褍褋褨褏 谐褉褨褏邪褏. 小邪屑邪 褋芯斜褨 褌邪泻芯谐芯 蟹薪邪泄褕谢邪 (褌褉械斜邪 斜褍谢芯 薪邪 锌械褉褕褨泄 褋械泻褍薪写褨 蟹薪邪泄芯屑褋褌胁邪 褉芯蟹褉褨蟹薪懈褌懈, 褖芯 胁褨薪 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻!), 褋邪屑邪 泻邪泄褎褍胁邪谢邪 胁褨写 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪褜 (泻邪泄褎褍胁邪谢邪 卸, 褌邪泻? 褌邪泻??), 邪 锌芯褌褨屑 泻芯谢懈 胁褋械 芯褋褌邪褌芯褔薪芯 锌褨褕谢芯 锌芯 芯写薪芯屑褍 屑褨褋褑褞 鈥� 褌邪泻 褑械 褌芯斜褨 锌褉芯褋褌芯 薪褍写薪芯 褋褌邪谢芯, 芯褌 褌懈 泄 褋邪斜芯褌褍胁邪谢邪 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈!
孝械褉邪锌械胁褌 褨蟹 15-褉褨褔薪懈屑 褋褌邪卸械屑, 泻邪卸械褌械?
袨泻械泄, 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 斜械蟹褍屑芯胁薪芯 蟹薪邪褦, 褟泻 写芯锌芯屑芯谐褌懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褍 - 褨 袙褨泻褨锌械写褨褟 胁褌芯褉懈褌褜, 褖芯 褑械 褩褩 褋锌械褑褨邪谢褨蟹邪褑褨褟. 袗谢械 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟 褑械 褦写懈薪械, 褖芯 袧芯褉胁褍写 蟹薪邪褦 - 褨 褔芯屑褍褋褜 胁褋褌邪胁谢褟褦 泻褍写懈 褌褨谢褜泻懈 屑芯卸械. 携泻 褍 褋褌邪褉芯屑褍 邪薪械泻写芯褌褨 锌褉芯 褋褌褍写械薪褌邪, 褟泻懈泄 胁懈胁褔懈胁 褌褨谢褜泻懈 斜褨谢械褌 锌褉芯 斜谢褨褏, 邪 泄芯屑褍 褌褉邪锌懈谢芯褋褟 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟 锌褉芯 卸邪斜. "校 卸邪斜 薪械屑邪褦 褕械褉褋褌褨, 邪谢械 褟泻斜懈 斜褍谢邪, 褌芯 斜褍谢懈 斜 褨 斜谢芯褏懈. 袛芯 褉械褔褨, 锌褉芯 斜谢褨褏..."
袦芯褟 锌褉懈褟褌械谢褜泻邪 褨 褖械 泻褨谢褜泻邪 蟹薪邪泄芯屑懈褏 褋褌胁械褉写卸褍褞褌褜, 褖芯 泻薪懈谐邪 袧芯褉胁褍写 蟹屑褨薪懈谢邪 褩褏薪褨 锌芯谐谢褟写懈 薪邪 斜邪谐邪褌芯 褉械褔械泄, 邪 褌邪泻芯卸 写芯锌芯屑芯谐谢邪 芯谐芯胁褌邪褌懈褋褟 锌褨褋谢褟 泻褉邪褏褍 芯褋芯斜懈褋褌芯谐芯 卸懈褌褌褟. 孝邪 泄 褋褍写褟褔懈 蟹 胁褨写谐褍泻褨胁 薪邪 欧宝娱乐, 泻褍锌邪 卸褨薪芯泻 胁胁邪卸邪褞褌褜 褑褞 褉芯斜芯褌褍 写褍卸械 泻芯褉懈褋薪芯褞 褨 褌褉懈屑邪褞褌褜 褟泻 薪邪褋褌褨谢褜薪褍.
袦芯卸谢懈胁芯, 褟 锌褉芯褋褌芯 薪械 笑袗. 袗斜芯 蟹邪薪邪写褌芯 谢褞斜谢褞 褔褨锌谢褟褌懈褋褟. 肖褨谐 泄芯谐芯 蟹薪邪, 邪谢械 褉邪写懈褌懈 褑械 褔褌懈胁芯 屑芯卸褍 褌褨谢褜泻懈 写谢褟 蟹写芯褉芯胁芯谐芯 褌褉械薪褍胁邪薪薪褟 泻褉懈褌懈褔薪芯谐芯 屑懈褋谢械薪薪褟. 袗斜芯 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 卸懈胁械褌械 蟹 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑.
孝邪泻, 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 卸褨薪芯泻 褍 褌芯泻褋懈褔薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 芯锌懈褋邪薪褨 写芯斜褉械. 袟斜褍写卸械薪薪褟, 褋褌褉邪褏, 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜, 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪薪褟 鈥� 胁褋械 褌芯褔薪芯. 袩褉芯斜谢械屑懈 鈥� 蟹褨 褋锌褨谢泻褍胁邪薪薪褟屑, 锌褉懈泄薪褟褌褌褟屑 褉褨褕械薪褜, 褋邪屑芯芯褑褨薪泻芯褞 鈥� 褌械卸. 袗谢械 锌芯蟹邪 褌懈屑 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 胁褋械 蟹胁芯写懈褌褜 写芯 褟泻芯谐芯褋褜 写褍卸械 锌芯胁械褉褏薪械胁芯谐芯 薪邪斜芯褉褍 褔懈薪薪懈泻褨胁, 褖芯 薪邪胁褨褌褜 锌褉懈 锌械褉械褉邪褏褍胁邪薪薪褨 蟹胁褍褔邪褌褜 写懈胁薪芯. 袙芯薪邪 锌芯泻芯褏邪谢邪 泄芯谐芯, 斜芯 胁褨薪 斜褍胁 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑, 褟泻 褩褩 斜邪褌褜泻芯 / 褌芯屑褍 褖芯 锌芯褌褉械斜褍胁邪胁 写芯锌芯屑芯谐懈, 褟泻 褩褩 屑邪褌懈 / 褌芯屑褍 褖芯 斜褍胁 褏芯谢芯写薪懈屑, 褟泻 写褨写褍褋褜. 袉... 薪邪 褑褜芯屑褍, 胁谢邪褋薪械, 胁褋械. 袧褨褟泻芯谐芯 褎芯薪褍 邪斜芯 褋褍锌褍褌薪褨褏 芯斜褋褌邪胁懈薪. 效芯屑褍褋褜 袧芯褉胁褍写 谐械褌褜 薪械 斜械褉械 写芯 褍胁邪谐懈 屑芯屑械薪褌 褋芯褑褨邪谢褜薪芯谐芯 褌懈褋泻褍; 褎褨蟹懈褔薪芯褩 锌褉懈胁邪斜谢懈胁芯褋褌褨 鈥� 锌褉懈锌褍褋褌褨屑芯, 胁懈 锌芯蟹薪邪泄芯屑懈谢懈褋褟 蟹 袣褉褨褋芯屑 袚械屑褋胁芯褉褌芯屑 鈥� 邪斜芯 褌胁邪褉懈薪薪芯谐芯 锌芯褌褟谐褍, 褖芯 屑褨谐 蟹胁械褋褌懈 写芯泻褍锌懈 褑褨 薪械胁写邪谢褨 锌邪褉懈; 褋锌褨谢褜薪懈褏 褨薪褌械褉械褋褨胁; 褉芯蟹褍屑褍, 褏邪褉懈蟹屑懈, 褔邪褉褨胁薪芯褋褌褨 - 褍褋褜芯谐芯 褌芯谐芯, 褔懈屑 谢褞写懈薪邪 锌褉懈褌褟谐褍褦 蟹 锌械褉褕芯褩 褋械泻褍薪写懈. 袙褨写褋褍褌薪芯褋褌褨 褨薪褕懈褏 泻邪薪写懈写邪褌褨胁, 褟泻褖芯 泄写械褌褜褋褟 锌褉芯 蟹邪泻褉懈褌褍 谐褉芯屑邪写褍.
袧邪褉械褕褌褨, 屑芯屑械薪褌 胁械蟹褨薪薪褟/薪械胁械蟹褨薪薪褟. 携泻芯褞 斜 褋懈谢褜薪芯褞 薪械 斜褍谢邪 薪邪褕邪 锌褨写褋胁褨写芯屑褨褋褌褜, 屑懈 薪褨泻芯谢懈 蟹邪蟹写邪谢械谐褨写褜 薪械 蟹薪邪褦屑芯, 泻懈屑 胁懈褟胁懈褌褜褋褟 谢褞写懈薪邪, 蟹 褟泻芯褞 屑懈 胁懈褉褨褕懈谢懈 蟹斜谢懈蟹懈褌懈褋褟. 袘芯 屑懈 薪械 械泻褋褌褉邪褋械薪褋懈, 褨 斜芯 褏邪泄 褖芯 斜 薪邪屑 薪械 泻邪蟹邪谢懈 蟹 写懈褌懈薪褋褌胁邪, 芯褑械 芯褌 "褌邪 褌懈 褋邪屑邪 锌褉懈褌褟谐薪褍谢邪" 褨褋薪褍褦 谢懈褕械 胁 褍褟胁褨 锌械胁薪懈褏 谢褞写械泄. 袙 褉械邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 卸 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 锌芯蟹薪邪泄芯屑懈谢懈褋褟 薪械 胁 泻褍斜谢褨, 写械 胁褨薪 谐邪谢邪薪褌薪芯 蟹邪锌褉芯锌芯薪褍胁邪胁 褉芯蟹写褨谢懈褌懈 写芯褉褨卸泻褍 泻芯泻邪褩薪褍 薪邪 写胁芯褏, 褌芯 卸芯写薪懈褏 褌褉懈胁芯卸薪懈褏 写蟹胁褨薪芯褔泻褨胁 褍 锌械褉褕褨 写薪褨, 褌懈卸薪褨, 邪 褨薪泻芯谢懈 泄 屑褨褋褟褑褨, 胁卸械 褌芯褔薪芯 薪械 锌芯屑褨褌懈褌械. 孝邪泻, 褍 邪胁褌芯褉泻懈 胁 锌褉懈泻谢邪写邪褏 褍褋械 蟹芯胁褋褨屑 褨薪邪泻褕械 褨 褟泻褉邪蟹 斜褨谢褜褕械 薪邪谐邪写褍褦 锌褉懈泻谢邪写 褨蟹 泻芯泻邪褩薪芯屑 - 褨 褑械 褌械卸 斜械薪褌械卸懈褌褜. 袧褍 薪械 胁褋褨 "锌芯谐邪薪褨 褏谢芯锌褑褨" - 褑械 蟹邪褋褌褉褟谐谢褨 胁 斜芯褉谐芯胁褨泄 褟屑褨 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻懈 褨 卸芯薪芯薪械薪邪胁懈褋薪懈泻懈. 小械褉泄芯蟹薪芯. 袗 褖芯 袧芯褉胁褍写 褋泻邪卸械 锌褉芯 褌懈褏 写褨胁褔邪褌, 褟泻褨 蟹褉芯褋褌邪谢懈 褍 蟹胁懈褔邪泄薪懈褏 褋褨屑'褟褏 褨 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪谢懈 褍褋锌褨褕薪懈褏 褌邪 邪写械泻胁邪褌薪懈褏 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁, 蟹 褟泻懈屑懈 胁 薪懈褏 - 芯褌 卸械 薪械胁写邪褔邪 - 褌械卸 胁懈褏芯写懈谢邪 褎褨谐薪褟, 邪 薪械 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈? 袟薪芯胁褍 斜褍写械 褕褍泻邪褌懈 daddy issues 褨 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨蟹屑 胁 芯斜芯褏 褋褌芯褉褨薪?
效懈 胁褋械 卸 褌邪泻懈 胁邪褉褌芯 胁懈蟹薪邪褌懈, 褖芯 锌褋懈褏褨泻邪 谢褞写懈薪懈 锌褉邪褑褞褦 蟹邪 褋泻谢邪写薪褨褕懈屑懈 锌褉懈薪褑懈锌邪屑懈, 褨 薪械褉芯蟹褍屑薪芯 泄褌懈 锌褉芯褌芯褉械薪芯褞 泻谢褨褕械 写芯褉褨卸泻芯褞, 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪芯 胁 泻芯卸薪芯屑褍 胁懈锌邪写泻褍 泻芯锌邪褌懈 谐谢懈斜芯泻芯, 写褍卸械 谐谢懈斜芯泻芯?
袩芯胁械褉薪褍褋褟 写芯 锌懈褌邪薪薪褟 锌褉芯 胁械蟹褨薪薪褟. 小锌芯褔邪褌泻褍 胁褋褨 蟹写邪褞褌褜褋褟 芯写薪械 芯写薪芯屑褍 褨写械邪谢褜薪懈屑懈. 袦懈 蟹邪褏芯锌谢械薪芯 褋锌褨谢泻褍褦屑芯褋褟, 蟹斜谢懈卸褍褦屑芯褋褟, 邪谢械 锌芯褌褨屑 鈥� 胁械谢懈泻邪 谢芯褌械褉械褟. 袗斜芯 胁褋械 锌褉芯写芯胁卸褍褦褌褜褋褟 薪械 屑械薪褕 胁蟹邪褦屑薪芯 褨 褔褍写芯胁芯, 邪斜芯 胁邪屑 锌芯锌邪谢邪褋褟 卸邪斜邪. 袉 褟泻懈屑 斜懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑 鈥� 邪斜芯, 薪邪胁锌邪泻懈, 蟹褉邪蟹泻芯屑 写谢褟 薪邪褋谢褨写褍胁邪薪薪褟 鈥� 薪械 斜褍胁 胁邪褕 斜邪褌褜泻芯, 胁懈 薪械 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写邪褦褌械 蟹邪 褌械, 褟泻 胁懈褉褨褕懈褌褜 写芯 胁邪褋 褋褌邪胁懈褌懈褋褟 薪芯胁懈泄 锌邪褉褌薪械褉. 袉 褟泻褖芯 胁褨薪 薪械 锌芯锌褉芯褋懈胁 褍 胁邪褋 谐褉芯褕械泄 薪邪 锌械褉褕芯屑褍 锌芯斜邪褔械薪薪褨, 胁懈 薪褨褟泻 薪械 蟹屑芯卸械褌械 写褨蟹薪邪褌懈褋褟, 褖芯 胁褨薪 邪谢褜褎芯薪褋 (褏芯褔邪, 屑芯卸谢懈胁芯, 胁懈 袩褍邪褉芯 褨 褟 薪械 锌褉邪胁邪). 袦芯锟斤拷薪邪 泻邪褉褌邪褌懈 褋械斜械, 褖芯 胁锌谢褍褌邪谢懈褋褟 胁 锌褉芯胁邪谢褜薪褨 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 鈥� 芯褋芯斜谢懈胁芯, 褟泻褖芯 褑械 薪械 胁锌械褉褕械 鈥� 邪谢械 斜褉邪褌懈 薪邪 褋械斜械 胁褋褞 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜, 蟹胁芯写懈褌懈 胁褋械 写芯 "褟 褋邪屑邪 褌邪泻芯谐芯 芯斜褉邪谢邪" 褨 "屑邪斜褍褌褜, 褟 锌褉芯褋褌芯 谢褞斜谢褞 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褌懈" 鈥� 胁卸械 薪械 蟹薪邪褞, 褟泻 袧芯褉胁褍写, 邪 褟 写褍屑邪褞, 褖芯 褑械 谢懈褕械 褔械褉谐芯胁懈泄 锌褉芯褟胁 褌褨褦褩 褋邪屑芯褩 薪懈蟹褜泻芯褩 褋邪屑芯芯褑褨薪泻懈. 袚芯胁芯褉褟褔懈 蟹邪 褋械斜械: 薪械 谢褞斜谢褞 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褌懈, 邪谢械 屑械薪褨 褌械卸 褌褉邪锌谢褟谢懈褋褟 锌褉懈写褍褉泻懈. 袉 斜褍谢芯 斜芯谢褟褔械. 袉 芯褋褜 褟泻懈泄 褌褉褞泻: 屑械薪械 锌褉懈褌褟谐褍胁邪谢懈 胁 褑懈褏 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪褏 薪械 褏芯谢芯写薪褨褋褌褜, 斜邪泄写褍卸褨褋褌褜 邪斜芯 蟹谐褍斜薪褨 蟹胁懈褔泻懈. 袙芯薪懈 薪械 薪邪谐邪写褍胁邪谢懈 屑械薪褨 斜邪褌褜泻邪 褨 薪械 斜褍谢懈 泄芯谐芯 锌褨写泻褉械褋谢械薪懈屑 邪薪褌懈锌芯写芯屑. 携 胁褨写褔褍胁邪谢邪 褨薪褌械褉械褋 褔械褉械蟹 蟹邪谐邪谢褜薪懈泄 褨屑褨写卸 谢褞写懈薪懈: 褩褩 褨薪褌械谢械泻褌, 谐褍屑芯褉, 芯褉懈谐褨薪邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜. 小械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜 褌邪 屑褍卸薪褨褋褌褜. 袗 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褨 写械屑芯薪懈 薪邪 褌械 泄 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褨, 褖芯 锌褨写 褔邪褋 蟹薪邪泄芯屑褋褌胁邪 褩褏 薪械 褉芯蟹褉褨蟹薪褟褦褕 - 褋锌芯褔邪褌泻褍 薪褨褔芯谐芯 薪械 胁褨褖褍褦 斜褨写懈. 袧褨泻芯谢懈. 袣褉褨屑 写芯褉褨卸泻懈 泻芯泻邪褩薪褍 薪邪 写胁芯褏, 蟹胁褨褋薪芯.
袧械 蟹谐芯写薪邪 褌邪泻芯卸 褨蟹 褌懈屑, 褖芯 蟹邪泻芯褏邪薪邪 卸褨薪泻邪 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦, 斜芯 1. 褑械 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟 褩泄 锌褉芯褟胁芯屑 褋锌褉邪胁卸薪褜芯谐芯 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 褨 2. 薪邪胁'褟蟹邪薪芯 屑械写褨邪, 褟泻 薪芯褉屑邪 锌芯胁械写褨薪泻懈. 袧褨, 薪褍 胁 泻芯谐芯褋褜 薪邪锌械胁薪芯 褌邪泻 褨 褦 鈥� 蟹邪 胁褋褨褏 褉芯蟹锌懈褋褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 薪械 斜褍写褍. 袗谢械 胁 斜褨谢褜褕芯褋褌褨 胁懈锌邪写泻褨胁 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦屑芯 屑懈 蟹 薪邪泄锌褉芯褋褌褨褕芯褩 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈 鈥� 褌芯屑褍 褖芯 薪邪屑 蟹褉芯斜懈谢懈 斜芯谢褟褔械. 孝懈 泻芯谐芯褋褜 谢褞斜懈褕, 邪 褑褟 谢褞写懈薪邪 蟹褉邪写懈谢邪/胁写邪褉懈谢邪/锌褨褕谢邪 鈥� 褌懈 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦褕. 校褋械 锌褉芯褋褌芯. 袛芯 褔芯谐芯 褌褍褌 屑械写褨邪, 褟 薪械 褉芯蟹褍屑褨褞. 携泻褖芯 褋褍写懈褌懈 蟹 褏褍写芯卸薪褨褏 褨 写芯泻褍屑械薪褌邪谢褜薪懈褏 写卸械褉械谢, 卸褨薪泻懈 褉懈写邪谢懈 褔械褉械蟹 屑褍写邪褑褌胁芯 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁 褉褨褕褍褔械 胁 褍褋褨褏 锌械褉褨芯写邪褏 薪邪褕芯褩 褨褋褌芯褉褨褩 薪械蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 屑芯胁懈 褨 泻褍谢褜褌褍褉懈. 袙褌褨屑, 褟泻 褨 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻懈 褉懈写邪谢懈 褔械褉械蟹 卸褨薪芯泻.
袛芯 褉械褔褨, 胁 泻薪懈蟹褨 褍 褟泻芯褋褌褨 褌械褉邪锌褨褩 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 褉邪写懈褌褜 锌芯褔邪褌懈 褋锌褨谢泻褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 蟹 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪屑懈, 褟泻褨 胁懈泻谢懈泻邪褞褌褜 褍 褌械斜械 薪褍写褜谐褍. 袗 褌邪泻芯卸 褔邪褋褌褨褕械 屑芯谢懈褌懈褋褟 斜芯谐褍. 袧械 卸邪褉褌褍褞, 褌邪泻械 褌邪屑 写褨泄褋薪芯 褦 褨 褋泻邪蟹邪薪芯 薪械 屑懈屑芯褏褨写褜.
袗谢械 谐邪褉邪蟹写, 褩写械屑芯 写邪谢褨. 袗胁褌芯褉泻邪 褌邪泻芯卸 薪邪锌芯谢褟谐邪褦, 褖芯 胁褋褨 斜械蟹 胁懈薪褟褌泻褍 卸褨薪泻懈, 褖芯 泻芯褏邪褞褌褜 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 褋褏懈斜谢械薪褨 薪邪 褨写械褩 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褋胁芯谐芯 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪. 笑褨泻邪胁芯, 邪 褟泻 褍 褩褩 褋胁褨褌芯谐谢褟写 胁锌懈褋褍褞褌褜褋褟 褌褨, 褏褌芯 薪邪屑邪谐邪褦褌褜褋褟 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褌褨谢褜泻懈 褋邪屑褍 褋械斜械, 邪 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪 褉芯蟹褋褍写谢懈胁芯 蟹邪谢懈褕邪褞褌褜 褍 褋锌芯泻芯褩? 袟邪褉邪写懈 锌褉懈褏懈谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 锌邪褉褌薪械褉邪 谢褞写懈 蟹邪胁卸写懈 斜褍谢懈 谢邪写薪褨 褋械斜械 锌械褉械泻褉邪褞胁邪褌懈, 泻邪谢褨褔懈褌懈, 邪写邪锌褌褍胁邪褌懈 锌褨写 褟泻懈泄褋褜 褍屑芯胁薪懈泄 褨写械邪谢. 袙芯薪邪 薪邪褔械斜褌芯 锌褉芯 褌邪泻褨 锌褉懈泻谢邪写懈 蟹谐邪写褍褦, 邪谢械 锌芯褌褨屑 褋邪屑邪 卸 褋械斜械 芯斜褉懈胁邪褦 薪邪 锌褨胁褋谢芯胁褨, 锌芯胁械褉褌邪褞褔懈褋褜 写芯 褉褍谢芯薪褨胁 褌械泻褋褌褍 锌褉芯 "薪械 薪邪屑邪谐邪泄褌械褋褟 泄芯谐芯 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈".
袨褋芯斜谢懈胁械 屑褨褋褑械 胁 泻薪懈卸褑褨 锌芯褋褨写邪褞褌褜 蟹斜芯褉懈 谐褉褍锌 邪薪芯薪褨屑薪懈褏 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/褋芯-邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/写褨褌械泄 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/写褉褍卸懈薪 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁/卸械褉褌胁 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褨胁 (薪械 锌械褉械斜褨谢褜褕褍褞 鈥� 褑械 褉械邪谢褜薪械 锌械褉械褉邪褏褍胁邪薪薪褟 蟹 泻薪懈卸泻懈). 袗胁褌芯褉 锌褏邪褦 褑褨 袗袗 胁 褍褋褨 褉芯蟹写褨谢懈 褨 薪邪蟹懈胁邪褦 胁褨写胁褨写褍胁邪薪薪褟 褌邪泻懈褏 谐褉褍锌 谐芯谢芯胁薪芯褞 锌邪薪邪褑械褦褞 胁褨写 褍褋褨褏 褏胁芯褉芯斜, 褨 蟹芯泻褉械屑邪 鈥� 谢褨泻邪屑懈 胁褨写 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁, 薪懈蟹褜泻芯褩 褋邪屑芯芯褑褨薪泻懈 褌邪 锌褉芯斜谢械屑 褨蟹 斜邪褌褜泻邪屑懈. 孝褍写懈 卸 写芯写邪褦屑芯 褌芯胁邪褉懈褋褌胁芯 邪薪芯薪褨屑薪懈褏 泻谢械锌褌芯屑邪薪褨胁 褨 谢褞写械泄, 褟泻褨 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褞褌褜 薪邪 褏邪褉褔芯胁褨 褉芯蟹谢邪写懈, 鈥� 邪写卸械 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 薪邪褌褉邪锌懈谢懈 薪邪 泻芯蟹谢邪, 蟹薪邪褔懈褌褜, 胁懈 褌芯褔薪芯 褋锌懈谢懈褋褟, 胁泻褉邪谢懈 褌邪屑锌芯薪懈 胁 邪锌褌械褑褨 邪斜芯 褉芯蟹胁懈薪褍谢懈 胁 褋械斜械 斜褍谢褨屑褨褞. 袙懈泄褌懈 蟹 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁 袧袝 泻谢械锌褌芯屑邪薪芯屑 褔懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑 薪邪 写褍屑泻褍 邪胁褌芯褉邪 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟 薪械屑芯卸谢懈胁芯.
笑褨泻邪胁芯, 褖芯 褍 胁褋褨褏 锌褉懈泻谢邪写邪褏 袧芯褉胁褍写 褌褨 卸褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 蟹褨 褋胁芯褩屑懈 斜邪褉邪薪邪屑懈 薪褨斜懈褌芯 褍褋褌邪泻邪薪褞胁邪谢懈 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈, 锌芯褌褨屑 褋邪屑褨 卸 锌芯褔懈薪邪谢懈 锌褋褍胁邪褌懈 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 蟹 锌邪褉褌薪械褉芯屑. 袦芯胁谢褟胁, 褌懈 褋褌褉邪卸写邪褦褕 褖械 泄 褌芯屑褍, 褖芯 卸懈褌懈 蟹 泻芯褏邪薪芯褞 谢褞写懈薪芯褞 胁 屑懈褉褨 褌芯斜褨 泄 褋邪屑褨泄 薪械 褏芯褔械褌褜褋褟. 袉 芯褋褜 蟹薪芯胁褍 - 写褍屑泻邪, 褟泻邪 褋褌邪薪械 锌芯锌邪写邪薪薪褟屑 褍 褌芯褔泻褍 胁 写褍卸械 褨薪写懈胁褨写褍邪谢褜薪芯屑褍 锌芯褉褟写泻褍, 褌褍褌 蟹胁械写械薪邪 胁 邪斜褋芯谢褞褌, 褍蟹邪谐邪谢褜薪械薪邪 褨 锌芯 褋褍褌褨 蟹胁懈薪褍胁邪褔褍褦 卸褨薪芯泻 胁 褍褋褨褏 谐褉褨褏邪褏. 小邪屑邪 褋芯斜褨 褌邪泻芯谐芯 蟹薪邪泄褕谢邪 (褌褉械斜邪 斜褍谢芯 薪邪 锌械褉褕褨泄 褋械泻褍薪写褨 蟹薪邪泄芯屑褋褌胁邪 褉芯蟹褉褨蟹薪懈褌懈, 褖芯 胁褨薪 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻!), 褋邪屑邪 泻邪泄褎褍胁邪谢邪 胁褨写 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪褜 (泻邪泄褎褍胁邪谢邪 卸, 褌邪泻? 褌邪泻??), 邪 锌芯褌褨屑 泻芯谢懈 胁褋械 芯褋褌邪褌芯褔薪芯 锌褨褕谢芯 锌芯 芯写薪芯屑褍 屑褨褋褑褞 鈥� 褌邪泻 褑械 褌芯斜褨 锌褉芯褋褌芯 薪褍写薪芯 褋褌邪谢芯, 芯褌 褌懈 泄 褋邪斜芯褌褍胁邪谢邪 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈!
孝械褉邪锌械胁褌 褨蟹 15-褉褨褔薪懈屑 褋褌邪卸械屑, 泻邪卸械褌械?
袨泻械泄, 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 斜械蟹褍屑芯胁薪芯 蟹薪邪褦, 褟泻 写芯锌芯屑芯谐褌懈 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻褍 - 褨 袙褨泻褨锌械写褨褟 胁褌芯褉懈褌褜, 褖芯 褑械 褩褩 褋锌械褑褨邪谢褨蟹邪褑褨褟. 袗谢械 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟 褑械 褦写懈薪械, 褖芯 袧芯褉胁褍写 蟹薪邪褦 - 褨 褔芯屑褍褋褜 胁褋褌邪胁谢褟褦 泻褍写懈 褌褨谢褜泻懈 屑芯卸械. 携泻 褍 褋褌邪褉芯屑褍 邪薪械泻写芯褌褨 锌褉芯 褋褌褍写械薪褌邪, 褟泻懈泄 胁懈胁褔懈胁 褌褨谢褜泻懈 斜褨谢械褌 锌褉芯 斜谢褨褏, 邪 泄芯屑褍 褌褉邪锌懈谢芯褋褟 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟 锌褉芯 卸邪斜. "校 卸邪斜 薪械屑邪褦 褕械褉褋褌褨, 邪谢械 褟泻斜懈 斜褍谢邪, 褌芯 斜褍谢懈 斜 褨 斜谢芯褏懈. 袛芯 褉械褔褨, 锌褉芯 斜谢褨褏..."
袦芯褟 锌褉懈褟褌械谢褜泻邪 褨 褖械 泻褨谢褜泻邪 蟹薪邪泄芯屑懈褏 褋褌胁械褉写卸褍褞褌褜, 褖芯 泻薪懈谐邪 袧芯褉胁褍写 蟹屑褨薪懈谢邪 褩褏薪褨 锌芯谐谢褟写懈 薪邪 斜邪谐邪褌芯 褉械褔械泄, 邪 褌邪泻芯卸 写芯锌芯屑芯谐谢邪 芯谐芯胁褌邪褌懈褋褟 锌褨褋谢褟 泻褉邪褏褍 芯褋芯斜懈褋褌芯谐芯 卸懈褌褌褟. 孝邪 泄 褋褍写褟褔懈 蟹 胁褨写谐褍泻褨胁 薪邪 欧宝娱乐, 泻褍锌邪 卸褨薪芯泻 胁胁邪卸邪褞褌褜 褑褞 褉芯斜芯褌褍 写褍卸械 泻芯褉懈褋薪芯褞 褨 褌褉懈屑邪褞褌褜 褟泻 薪邪褋褌褨谢褜薪褍.
袦芯卸谢懈胁芯, 褟 锌褉芯褋褌芯 薪械 笑袗. 袗斜芯 蟹邪薪邪写褌芯 谢褞斜谢褞 褔褨锌谢褟褌懈褋褟. 肖褨谐 泄芯谐芯 蟹薪邪, 邪谢械 褉邪写懈褌懈 褑械 褔褌懈胁芯 屑芯卸褍 褌褨谢褜泻懈 写谢褟 蟹写芯褉芯胁芯谐芯 褌褉械薪褍胁邪薪薪褟 泻褉懈褌懈褔薪芯谐芯 屑懈褋谢械薪薪褟. 袗斜芯 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 卸懈胁械褌械 蟹 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻芯屑.
February 18, 2013
I found the first chapter really interesting, but the rest was a series of incredibly repetitive case studies that were incredibly dull. I got the point from the first chapter and there didn't seem to be much reason to keep reading it after that.
July 20, 2020
芦Women Who Love Too Much禄
Book by Robin Norwood
鉅赌
芦袞褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 泻芯褏邪褞褌褜 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈禄
袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写
鉅赌
袘褨谢褜 胁 谐褉褍写褟褏.
袦械褌械谢懈泻懈 胁 卸懈胁芯褌褨.
袟邪锌邪屑芯褉芯褔械薪薪褟.
袘邪卸邪薪薪褟 写芯褌芯褉泻褨胁 褨 斜谢懈蟹褜泻芯褋褌褨.
楔邪谢械薪褨 芯褔褨泻褍胁邪薪薪褟.
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袙褨写褔褍胁邪谢懈?
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袣芯褏邪薪薪褟 褔懈 褏胁芯褉芯斜邪?
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袟薪邪泄褌懈 褋械斜械 胁 褑褨泄 泻薪懈蟹褨 褋褌褉邪褕薪芯, 邪谢械 泻芯褉懈褋薪芯.
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笑懈褌邪褌懈:
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芦校 褉芯谢褨 锌褋懈褏芯褌械褉邪锌械胁褌邪 褟 褋胁褨写芯屑芯 薪邪屑邪谐邪褞褋褟 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨褌懈 褋褌邪胁谢械薪薪褟 写芯 卸懈褌褌褟 屑芯谐芯 薪芯胁芯谐芯 泻谢褨褦薪褌邪 蟹邪 屑褨蟹械褉薪懈屑懈 褋懈谐薪邪谢邪屑懈, 邪谢械 锌芯写褨斜薪懈泄 锌褉芯褑械褋 (薪邪斜邪谐邪褌芯 屑械薪褕 褋胁褨写芯屑懈泄) 胁懈薪懈泻邪褦 褌邪泻芯卸, 泻芯谢懈 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪褞褌褜褋褟 写胁芯褦 谢褞写械泄. 袣芯卸械薪 薪邪屑邪谐邪褦褌褜褋褟 胁褨写锌芯胁褨褋褌懈 薪邪 锌械胁薪褨 锌懈褌邪薪薪褟 锌褉芯 褨薪褕芯谐芯, 胁懈褏芯写褟褔懈 蟹 褌褨褦褩 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褩, 褟泻邪 邪胁褌芯屑邪褌懈褔薪芯 锌械褉械写邪褦褌褜褋褟 锌褨写 褔邪褋 锌械褉褕懈褏 屑芯屑械薪褌褨胁 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔褨. 袦芯胁褔邪蟹薪褨 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟, 褖芯 胁懈薪懈泻邪褞褌褜 褍 褌邪泻懈褏 褋懈褌褍邪褑褨褟褏, 蟹胁懈褔邪泄薪芯 褦 写褍卸械 锌褉芯褋褌懈屑懈:
芦效懈 屑邪褦屑芯 屑懈 褖芯褋褜 褋锌褨谢褜薪械?禄, 芦效懈 芯褌褉懈屑邪褞 褟 褟泻褍褋褜 泻芯褉懈褋褌褜 胁褨写 写褉褍卸斜懈 蟹 褌芯斜芯褞?禄, 芦袟 褌芯斜芯褞 胁械褋械谢芯?禄.
袗谢械 褔邪褋褌芯 锌芯褋褌邪褞褌褜 褨薪褕褨 锌懈褌邪薪薪褟, 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 褌芯谐芯, 褟泻懈屑懈 褦 褑褨 写胁芯褦 谢褞写械泄 褨 褔芯谐芯 胁芯薪懈 锌褉邪谐薪褍褌褜 褍 卸懈褌褌褨. 袣芯卸薪邪 卸褨薪泻邪, 褟泻邪 泻芯褏邪褦 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 蟹邪 褉邪褑褨芯薪邪谢褜薪懈屑懈, 芯褔械胁懈写薪懈屑懈 褌邪 锌褉邪泻褌懈褔薪懈屑懈 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟屑懈 锌褉懈褏芯胁褍褦 斜褨谢褜褕 胁邪卸谢懈胁械, 谐谢懈斜懈薪薪械 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟, 薪邪 褟泻械 胁芯薪邪 褖芯褋懈谢懈 锌褉邪谐薪械 蟹薪邪泄褌懈 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写褜.
芦携 褌芯斜褨 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪邪?禄 - 锌芯褌邪泄 锌懈褌邪褦 卸褨薪泻邪, 褟泻邪 泻芯褏邪褦 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈.
芦效懈 写斜邪褌懈屑械褕 锌褉芯 屑械薪械 泄 胁懈褉褨褕褍胁邪褌懈屑械褕 褍褋褨 屑芯褩 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈?禄 - 屑芯胁褔邪蟹薪芯 锌懈褌邪褦 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻, 褟泻懈泄 蟹斜懈褉邪褦褌褜褋褟 蟹褉芯斜懈褌懈 褩褩 褋胁芯褦褞 锌邪褉褌薪械褉泻芯褞.禄
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袗薪芯褌邪褑褨褟:
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芦袙懈 谢邪写薪褨 斜褨谐褌懈 蟹邪 泻芯褏邪薪懈屑 谐械薪 蟹邪 芯斜褉褨泄, 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褟泻褖芯 锌邪褉褌薪械褉褍 褑械 薪械 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪芯? 袙懈斜邪褔邪褦褌械 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褍 谐械褌褜 薪械锌褉懈泄薪褟褌薪褨 褉械褔褨? 袙褨写褔褍胁邪褦褌械 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪懈泄 褌懈褋泻, 锌褉芯褌械 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 胁褨写屑芯胁懈褌懈褋褟 胁褨写 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁? 袙懈 泻芯褏邪褦褌械 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 褨 薪邪褋褌邪胁 褔邪褋 褑械 锌褉懈锌懈薪懈褌懈! 袧邪 卸邪谢褜, 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 鈥� 褑械 薪械 褉芯屑邪薪褌懈泻邪, 褏芯褔 斜懈 褟泻 泄芯谐芯 薪械 锌芯锌褍谢褟褉懈蟹褍胁邪谢懈 袟袦袉, 屑邪褋泻褍谢褜褌褍褉邪 斜邪 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褌胁芯褉懈 褋胁褨褌芯胁芯褩 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉懈. 笑械 薪械斜械蟹锌械褔薪邪 褏胁芯褉芯斜邪, 褨 褖芯 褕胁懈写褕械 胁懈 锌芯褔薪械褌械 芯写褍卸褍胁邪褌懈, 褌芯 褋泻芯褉褨褕械 锌褨蟹薪邪褦褌械 褋锌褉邪胁卸薪褦 卸褨薪芯褔械 褖邪褋褌褟. 笑褟 泻薪懈卸泻邪 写芯锌芯屑芯卸械 卸褨薪泻邪屑, 褟泻褨 锌芯褌械褉锌邪褞褌褜 胁褨写 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟, 写芯泻芯褉褨薪薪芯 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褋械斜械 褨 褋胁芯褦 卸懈褌褌褟. 小泻邪卸褨褌褜 袧袉 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪褨泄 褨 褎褨蟹懈褔薪褨泄 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨, 斜芯 胁懈 谐褨写薪褨 薪邪泄泻褉邪褖芯谐芯! 袟邪锌邪屑鈥櫻徰傂靶寡傂�: 胁懈 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褨薪褕懈褏, 锌褉芯褌械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈褋褟 褋邪屑褨.禄
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#锌褉懈屑褏谢懈胁邪褔懈褌邪泻邪
Book by Robin Norwood
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芦袞褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 泻芯褏邪褞褌褜 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈禄
袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写
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袘褨谢褜 胁 谐褉褍写褟褏.
袦械褌械谢懈泻懈 胁 卸懈胁芯褌褨.
袟邪锌邪屑芯褉芯褔械薪薪褟.
袘邪卸邪薪薪褟 写芯褌芯褉泻褨胁 褨 斜谢懈蟹褜泻芯褋褌褨.
楔邪谢械薪褨 芯褔褨泻褍胁邪薪薪褟.
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袙褨写褔褍胁邪谢懈?
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袣芯褏邪薪薪褟 褔懈 褏胁芯褉芯斜邪?
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袟薪邪泄褌懈 褋械斜械 胁 褑褨泄 泻薪懈蟹褨 褋褌褉邪褕薪芯, 邪谢械 泻芯褉懈褋薪芯.
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笑懈褌邪褌懈:
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芦校 褉芯谢褨 锌褋懈褏芯褌械褉邪锌械胁褌邪 褟 褋胁褨写芯屑芯 薪邪屑邪谐邪褞褋褟 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨褌懈 褋褌邪胁谢械薪薪褟 写芯 卸懈褌褌褟 屑芯谐芯 薪芯胁芯谐芯 泻谢褨褦薪褌邪 蟹邪 屑褨蟹械褉薪懈屑懈 褋懈谐薪邪谢邪屑懈, 邪谢械 锌芯写褨斜薪懈泄 锌褉芯褑械褋 (薪邪斜邪谐邪褌芯 屑械薪褕 褋胁褨写芯屑懈泄) 胁懈薪懈泻邪褦 褌邪泻芯卸, 泻芯谢懈 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪褞褌褜褋褟 写胁芯褦 谢褞写械泄. 袣芯卸械薪 薪邪屑邪谐邪褦褌褜褋褟 胁褨写锌芯胁褨褋褌懈 薪邪 锌械胁薪褨 锌懈褌邪薪薪褟 锌褉芯 褨薪褕芯谐芯, 胁懈褏芯写褟褔懈 蟹 褌褨褦褩 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褩, 褟泻邪 邪胁褌芯屑邪褌懈褔薪芯 锌械褉械写邪褦褌褜褋褟 锌褨写 褔邪褋 锌械褉褕懈褏 屑芯屑械薪褌褨胁 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔褨. 袦芯胁褔邪蟹薪褨 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟, 褖芯 胁懈薪懈泻邪褞褌褜 褍 褌邪泻懈褏 褋懈褌褍邪褑褨褟褏, 蟹胁懈褔邪泄薪芯 褦 写褍卸械 锌褉芯褋褌懈屑懈:
芦效懈 屑邪褦屑芯 屑懈 褖芯褋褜 褋锌褨谢褜薪械?禄, 芦效懈 芯褌褉懈屑邪褞 褟 褟泻褍褋褜 泻芯褉懈褋褌褜 胁褨写 写褉褍卸斜懈 蟹 褌芯斜芯褞?禄, 芦袟 褌芯斜芯褞 胁械褋械谢芯?禄.
袗谢械 褔邪褋褌芯 锌芯褋褌邪褞褌褜 褨薪褕褨 锌懈褌邪薪薪褟, 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 褌芯谐芯, 褟泻懈屑懈 褦 褑褨 写胁芯褦 谢褞写械泄 褨 褔芯谐芯 胁芯薪懈 锌褉邪谐薪褍褌褜 褍 卸懈褌褌褨. 袣芯卸薪邪 卸褨薪泻邪, 褟泻邪 泻芯褏邪褦 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 蟹邪 褉邪褑褨芯薪邪谢褜薪懈屑懈, 芯褔械胁懈写薪懈屑懈 褌邪 锌褉邪泻褌懈褔薪懈屑懈 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟屑懈 锌褉懈褏芯胁褍褦 斜褨谢褜褕 胁邪卸谢懈胁械, 谐谢懈斜懈薪薪械 蟹邪锌懈褌邪薪薪褟, 薪邪 褟泻械 胁芯薪邪 褖芯褋懈谢懈 锌褉邪谐薪械 蟹薪邪泄褌懈 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写褜.
芦携 褌芯斜褨 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪邪?禄 - 锌芯褌邪泄 锌懈褌邪褦 卸褨薪泻邪, 褟泻邪 泻芯褏邪褦 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈.
芦效懈 写斜邪褌懈屑械褕 锌褉芯 屑械薪械 泄 胁懈褉褨褕褍胁邪褌懈屑械褕 褍褋褨 屑芯褩 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈?禄 - 屑芯胁褔邪蟹薪芯 锌懈褌邪褦 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻, 褟泻懈泄 蟹斜懈褉邪褦褌褜褋褟 蟹褉芯斜懈褌懈 褩褩 褋胁芯褦褞 锌邪褉褌薪械褉泻芯褞.禄
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袗薪芯褌邪褑褨褟:
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芦袙懈 谢邪写薪褨 斜褨谐褌懈 蟹邪 泻芯褏邪薪懈屑 谐械薪 蟹邪 芯斜褉褨泄, 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褟泻褖芯 锌邪褉褌薪械褉褍 褑械 薪械 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪芯? 袙懈斜邪褔邪褦褌械 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褍 谐械褌褜 薪械锌褉懈泄薪褟褌薪褨 褉械褔褨? 袙褨写褔褍胁邪褦褌械 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪懈泄 褌懈褋泻, 锌褉芯褌械 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 胁褨写屑芯胁懈褌懈褋褟 胁褨写 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁? 袙懈 泻芯褏邪褦褌械 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈, 褨 薪邪褋褌邪胁 褔邪褋 褑械 锌褉懈锌懈薪懈褌懈! 袧邪 卸邪谢褜, 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 鈥� 褑械 薪械 褉芯屑邪薪褌懈泻邪, 褏芯褔 斜懈 褟泻 泄芯谐芯 薪械 锌芯锌褍谢褟褉懈蟹褍胁邪谢懈 袟袦袉, 屑邪褋泻褍谢褜褌褍褉邪 斜邪 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褌胁芯褉懈 褋胁褨褌芯胁芯褩 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉懈. 笑械 薪械斜械蟹锌械褔薪邪 褏胁芯褉芯斜邪, 褨 褖芯 褕胁懈写褕械 胁懈 锌芯褔薪械褌械 芯写褍卸褍胁邪褌懈, 褌芯 褋泻芯褉褨褕械 锌褨蟹薪邪褦褌械 褋锌褉邪胁卸薪褦 卸褨薪芯褔械 褖邪褋褌褟. 笑褟 泻薪懈卸泻邪 写芯锌芯屑芯卸械 卸褨薪泻邪屑, 褟泻褨 锌芯褌械褉锌邪褞褌褜 胁褨写 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟, 写芯泻芯褉褨薪薪芯 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褋械斜械 褨 褋胁芯褦 卸懈褌褌褟. 小泻邪卸褨褌褜 袧袉 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪褨泄 褨 褎褨蟹懈褔薪褨泄 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨, 斜芯 胁懈 谐褨写薪褨 薪邪泄泻褉邪褖芯谐芯! 袟邪锌邪屑鈥櫻徰傂靶寡傂�: 胁懈 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褨薪褕懈褏, 锌褉芯褌械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈褋褟 褋邪屑褨.禄
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#锌褉懈屑褏谢懈胁邪褔懈褌邪泻邪
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袩械褉褕 薪褨卸 胁懈 胁褨蟹褜屑械褌械褋褟 蟹邪 褑褞 泻薪懈卸泻褍, 胁邪屑 胁邪褉褌芯 蟹薪邪褌懈 泻褨谢褜泻邪 褉械褔械泄. 袊褩 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写 鈥� 蟹薪邪薪邪 褍 褋胁褨褌褨 褨 写褍卸械 写芯褋胁褨写褔械薪邪 锌褋懈褏芯褌械褉邪锌械胁褌泻邪, 褟泻邪 褋锌械褑褨邪谢褨蟹褍褦褌褜褋褟 薪邪 锌褉芯斜谢械屑邪褏 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨, 褋锌褨胁蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨, 泻芯屑锌褍谢褜褋懈胁薪芯谐芯 锌械褉械褩写邪薪薪褟 褨 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 屑芯写械谢褟褏 谢褞斜芯胁薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁. 袟邪 褉芯泻懈 锌褉邪泻褌懈泻懈 胁芯薪邪 薪邪蟹斜懈褉邪谢邪 写械褋褟褌泻懈, 褟泻褖芯 薪械 褋芯褌薪褨 褨褋褌芯褉褨泄 鈥� 褨 写械褟泻褨 褨蟹 薪懈褏 胁芯薪邪 褉芯蟹锌芯胁褨褋褌褜 褍 褑褨泄 泻薪懈卸褑褨. 袗 褖械 胁芯薪邪 褉芯蟹胁褨薪褔邪褦 屑褨褎懈 锌褉芯 褕邪谢械薪械 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 褨 褉芯蟹锌芯胁褨褋褌褜, 褔芯屑褍 泻芯褏邪褌懈 薪邪写褌芯 褋懈谢褜薪芯 褕泻褨写谢懈胁芯 薪械 谢懈褕械 写谢褟 褌芯谐芯, 褏褌芯 泻芯褏邪褦, 邪 泄 写谢褟 褌芯谐芯, 薪邪 泻芯谐芯 褑械 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 褋锌褉褟屑芯胁邪薪械.
校 袦械褉械卸褨 褔邪褋 胁褨写 褔邪褋褍 胁懈褉懈薪邪褞褌褜 屑褨褎懈 锌褉芯 褌械, 褖芯 谢褞斜芯胁 薪褨斜懈褌芯 胁薪械褋械薪邪 袙袨袨袟 写芯 褉械褦褋褌褉褍 锌褋懈褏褨褔薪懈褏 蟹邪褏胁芯褉褞胁邪薪褜. 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写 写芯 褌邪泻芯谐芯 泻邪褌械谐芯褉懈褔薪芯谐芯 褌胁械褉写卸械薪薪褟 薪械 蟹胁械褉褌邪褦褌褜褋褟. 袧邪褌芯屑褨褋褌褜 褋褌胁械褉写卸褍褦: 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 鈥� 褑械 褋锌褉邪胁写褨 褏胁芯褉芯斜谢懈胁邪 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜, 褟泻邪 蟹褉芯褋褌邪褦 薪邪 褉芯写褞褔芯屑褍 覒褉褍薪褌褨 写懈褌褟褔懈褏 褌褉邪胁屑 卸褨薪芯泻 (褨, 褉褨写褕械, 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁), 褟泻褨 胁懈褉芯褋谢懈 褍 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑褨泄薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪邪褏. 小懈屑锌褌芯屑褨胁 褍 褑褨褦褩 褏胁芯褉芯斜懈 褦 泻褨谢褜泻邪. 携泻褖芯 胁懈 薪邪写屑褨褉褍 锌褨泻谢褍褦褌械褋褟 锌褉芯 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁, 褟泻懈屑 胁邪褕邪 褌褍褉斜芯褌邪 薪械 薪邪褋褌褨谢褜泻懈 胁卸械 泄 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪邪, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 薪邪胁鈥櫻徯费冄斞傂� 褋胁芯褦 褌芯胁邪褉懈褋褌胁芯 褨 褋胁芯褩 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 鈥� 邪斜芯 薪邪胁锌邪泻懈 谐芯褌芯胁褨 褋懈写褨褌懈 褨 褔械泻邪褌懈, 褉邪写褨褞褔懈 薪邪胁褨褌褜 泻褉懈褏褌邪屑 褍胁邪谐懈 褨 褌械锌谢邪 胁褨写 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 褌邪泻 斜芯褩褌械褋褟 斜褍褌懈 锌芯泻懈薪褍褌芯褞, 褖芯 谐芯褌芯胁褨 薪邪 胁褋械, 褖芯斜 胁褌褉懈屑邪褌懈 泄芯谐芯, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 斜械褉械褌械 薪邪 褋械斜械 斜褨谢褜褕械 锌芯谢芯胁懈薪懈 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 蟹邪 胁褋械, 褖芯 胁褨写斜褍胁邪褦褌褜褋褟 褍 胁邪褕懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 薪械 胁褨褉懈褌械, 褖芯 谐褨写薪褨 褖邪褋褌褟 鈥� 褨 褟泻褖芯 褍褋械 褑械 (褨 褉褟写 褨薪褕懈褏 芦褟泻褖芯禄) 锌褉芯 胁邪褋, 胁懈 鈥� 卸褨薪泻邪, 蟹邪泻芯褏邪薪邪 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈. 笑械 锌芯谐邪薪邪 薪芯胁懈薪邪. 袗 褏芯褉芯褕邪 薪芯胁懈薪邪 锌芯谢褟谐邪褦 褍 褌芯屑褍, 褖芯 褑褞 褏胁芯褉芯斜褍 褔懈 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜 屑芯卸薪邪 胁懈谢褨泻褍胁邪褌懈.
袗胁褌芯褉泻邪 写械褌邪谢褜薪芯 褉芯蟹锌芯胁褨写邪褦 锌褉芯 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈 褑褜芯谐芯 褟胁懈褖邪. 袛芯 褉械褔褨, 芯泻褉褨屑 胁锌谢懈胁褍 褉芯写懈薪褍 胁械谢懈泻械 蟹薪邪褔械薪薪褟 屑邪褞褌褜 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉邪 褨 锟斤拷褨薪芯, 褟泻褨 锌械褉械胁邪卸薪芯 锌褉芯锌芯薪褍褞褌褜 薪邪屑 屑芯写械谢褜 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁 褟泻 褦写懈薪芯 锌褉邪胁懈谢褜薪褍 褨 芦褉芯屑邪薪褌懈褔薪褍禄. 校褋械 褑褟 卸械褉褌芯胁薪褨褋褌褜 蟹邪褉邪写懈 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟, 谐芯褌芯胁薪褨褋褌褜 蟹薪械褏褌褍胁邪褌懈 褋胁芯褩屑 斜谢邪谐芯锌芯谢褍褔褔褟屑, 褔邪褋芯屑, 芯褋胁褨褌芯褞, 蟹写芯褉芯胁鈥櫻徯�, 谐褨写薪褨褋褌褞, 邪斜懈 胁褉褟褌褍胁邪褌懈 袡袨袚袨 鈥� 褍褋械 褑械 邪斜褋芯谢褞褌薪芯 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁褨, 薪邪 写褍屑泻褍 邪胁褌芯褉泻懈, 褉械褔褨.
袩芯-锌械褉褕械, 锌械褉械泻芯薪邪薪邪 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写, 胁懈 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褨薪褕懈褏 褍 卸芯写薪芯屑褍 褉邪蟹褨. 袟邪褌械 胁懈 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈褋褟 褋邪屑褨. 袉 褑械 谐邪褉邪薪褌褨褟 褌芯谐芯, 褖芯 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈, 褟泻懈屑懈 胁懈 薪械蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪褨, 褌械卸 蟹屑褨薪褟褌褜褋褟: 胁芯薪懈 邪斜芯 褉芯蟹胁邪谢褟褌褜褋褟, 邪斜芯 蟹屑褨褑薪褨褞褌褜. 袗谢械 褌芯褔薪芯 薪械 谢懈褕邪褌褜褋褟 褌邪泻懈屑懈 卸 薪械蟹褉褍褔薪懈屑懈, 褟泻 写芯褋褨. 袩芯-写褉褍谐械, 褖芯斜 蟹斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 蟹写芯褉芯胁褨 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 褨蟹 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪屑懈, 褌褉械斜邪 褋锌械褉褕褍 蟹斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 褩褏 褨蟹 褋芯斜芯褞. 袘芯 胁褋褨 褑褨 锌芯褕褍泻懈 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪褜, 屑械褌邪薪薪褟 胁褨写 芯写薪芯谐芯 锌芯泻懈写褜泻邪 写芯 褨薪褕芯谐芯, 胁褋褟 褑褟 薪械褍褋胁褨写芯屑谢械薪邪 锌芯褌褉械斜邪 写褉邪屑懈 褨 薪械褋褌邪斜褨谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 鈥� 褍褋械 褑械 胁褨写 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褜芯褩 锌芯褉芯卸薪械褔褨, 褟泻邪 锌芯褌褉械斜褍褦 蟹邪锌芯胁薪械薪薪褟. 孝芯屑褍 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 褉邪写懈褌褜 卸褨薪泻邪屑: 写斜邪泄褌械 锌褉芯 褋械斜械, 褋锌褉褟屑芯胁褍泄褌械 械薪械褉谐褨褞 薪邪 褌械, 褖芯斜 锌芯泻褉邪褖懈褌懈 褋胁芯褦 卸懈褌褌褟, 邪 薪械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褔懈褦褋褜, 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪 (薪邪胁褨褌褜 泻芯谢懈 褑械 蟹邪泻芯薪薪懈泄 屑褍卸) 鈥� 褑械 泄芯谐芯 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈, 褨 泄芯屑褍 卸 斜褍写械 谢褨锌褕械 褨 泻芯褉懈褋薪褨褕械, 褟泻褖芯 胁褨薪 胁懈褉褨褕褍胁邪褌懈屑械 褩褏 褋邪屑.
袧邪褋锌褉邪胁写褨, 褑械 写芯褋懈褌褜 褋泻芯褉芯褔械薪懈泄 褨 褋锌褉芯褖械薪懈泄 胁懈泻谢邪写 谐芯谢芯胁薪懈褏 屑械褋械写卸褨胁 泻薪懈卸泻懈. 袘芯 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 锌褉芯褏芯写懈褌褜褋褟 锌芯 芦泻芯褏邪薪薪褞 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈禄 写褍卸械 写械褌邪谢褜薪芯 鈥� 锌芯泻邪蟹褍褦 褉褨蟹薪褨 泄芯谐芯 胁邪褉褨邪薪褌懈, 褉褨蟹薪褨 锌褉懈泻谢邪写懈 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑褨泄薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪, 蟹 褟泻懈褏 褍褋械 锌芯褔邪谢芯褋褟. 袉 褎芯褉屑褍谢褞褦 10 薪械芯斜褏褨写薪懈褏 写谢褟 芯写褍卸邪薪薪褟 泻褉芯泻褨胁 鈥� 芯写褉邪蟹褍 锌芯锌械褉械写卸邪褞褔懈, 褖芯 锌褉芯褑械褋 褑械泄 写芯褋懈褌褜 写芯胁谐懈泄 褨 斜芯谢褨褋薪懈泄, 邪谢械 写褨褦胁懈泄.
效懈褌邪薪薪褟 褑褨褦褩 泻薪懈卸泻懈 胁懈泻谢懈胁邪褦 写褍卸械 褉褨蟹薪褨 褉械邪泻褑褨褩. 小锌芯褔邪褌泻褍 褌懈, 褟泻 褌芯泄 屑械写懈泻-锌械褉褕芯泻褍褉褋薪懈褏, 锌械褉械褌胁芯褉褞褦褕褋褟 薪邪 褨锌芯褏芯薪写褉懈泻邪 褨 褕褍泻邪褦褕 芯蟹薪邪泻懈 褏胁芯褉芯斜懈 褍 褋械斜械. 袉 鈥� 蟹邪 屑芯褩屑懈 褋锌芯褋褌械褉械卸械薪薪褟屑懈 鈥� 写褍卸械 斜邪谐邪褌芯 卸褨薪芯泻 褩褏 屑芯卸褍褌褜 褋锌褉邪胁写褨 褍 褋械斜械 胁懈褟胁懈褌懈. 袩芯褌褨屑 褌芯斜褨 褏芯褔械褌褜褋褟 锌芯写懈褋泻褍褌褍胁邪褌懈 蟹 邪胁褌芯褉泻芯褞. 袧械 锌芯褋锌械褉械褔械褌懈褋褟, 邪 蟹邪写邪褌懈 褩泄 泻褨谢褜泻邪 锌懈褌邪薪褜 褨 褍褌芯褔薪械薪褜 (锌芯褟胁邪 褌邪泻芯谐芯 斜邪卸邪薪薪褟 写谢褟 屑械薪械 邪胁褌芯屑邪褌懈褔薪芯 褦 芯蟹薪邪泻芯褞 褏芯褉芯褕芯谐芯 薪芯薪-褎褨泻褕薪褍). 袩芯褌褨屑 褌懈 褉芯蟹褍屑褨褦褕, 褖芯 褟泻褨褋褜 锌芯褉邪写懈 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写 褌芯斜褨 褌芯褔薪芯 褌褉械斜邪 蟹邪褋褌芯褋褍胁邪褌懈 褍 胁谢邪褋薪芯屑褍 卸懈褌褌褨, 斜芯 胁芯薪懈 锌褉芯褋褌褨, 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨谢褨 褨 薪邪写懈褏邪褞褌褜 薪邪 锌芯蟹懈褌懈胁薪褨 蟹屑褨薪懈.
袦芯卸谢懈胁芯, 褑械 蟹胁褍褔邪褌懈屑械 薪邪写褌芯 锌邪褎芯褋薪芯, 邪谢械 褟 斜 褋泻邪蟹邪谢邪, 褖芯 褑褟 泻薪懈谐邪 鈥� 屑邪褋褌褉褨写 写谢褟 褍褋褨褏 褞薪懈褏 写褨胁褔邪褌, 褟泻褨 褌褨谢褜泻懈 锌芯褔懈薪邪褞褌褜 斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈, 邪 褌邪泻芯卸 写谢褟 卸褨薪芯泻, 褍 褟泻懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 褔芯屑褍褋褜 褋泻谢邪写邪褞褌褜褋褟 芦薪械 褌邪泻禄. 袦械薪褨 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟, 褖芯, 胁褔邪褋薪芯 锌褉芯褔懈褌邪薪邪, 胁芯薪邪 屑芯卸械 胁斜械褉械谐褌懈 胁褨写 褔懈褋谢械薪薪懈褏 芦锌芯屑懈谢芯泻 屑芯谢芯写芯褋褌褨禄 褨 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁, 邪 胁 锌械褉褋锌械泻褌懈胁褨 鈥� 胁褨写 械锌褨蟹芯写褨胁 褋褨屑械泄薪芯谐芯 薪邪褋懈谢褜褋褌胁邪, 锌芯谢邪屑邪薪懈褏 卸懈褌褌褨胁, 褎褨蟹懈褔薪懈褏 褨 屑芯褉邪谢褜薪懈褏 褌褉邪胁屑.
校 袦械褉械卸褨 褔邪褋 胁褨写 褔邪褋褍 胁懈褉懈薪邪褞褌褜 屑褨褎懈 锌褉芯 褌械, 褖芯 谢褞斜芯胁 薪褨斜懈褌芯 胁薪械褋械薪邪 袙袨袨袟 写芯 褉械褦褋褌褉褍 锌褋懈褏褨褔薪懈褏 蟹邪褏胁芯褉褞胁邪薪褜. 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写 写芯 褌邪泻芯谐芯 泻邪褌械谐芯褉懈褔薪芯谐芯 褌胁械褉写卸械薪薪褟 薪械 蟹胁械褉褌邪褦褌褜褋褟. 袧邪褌芯屑褨褋褌褜 褋褌胁械褉写卸褍褦: 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 鈥� 褑械 褋锌褉邪胁写褨 褏胁芯褉芯斜谢懈胁邪 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜, 褟泻邪 蟹褉芯褋褌邪褦 薪邪 褉芯写褞褔芯屑褍 覒褉褍薪褌褨 写懈褌褟褔懈褏 褌褉邪胁屑 卸褨薪芯泻 (褨, 褉褨写褕械, 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁), 褟泻褨 胁懈褉芯褋谢懈 褍 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑褨泄薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪邪褏. 小懈屑锌褌芯屑褨胁 褍 褑褨褦褩 褏胁芯褉芯斜懈 褦 泻褨谢褜泻邪. 携泻褖芯 胁懈 薪邪写屑褨褉褍 锌褨泻谢褍褦褌械褋褟 锌褉芯 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁, 褟泻懈屑 胁邪褕邪 褌褍褉斜芯褌邪 薪械 薪邪褋褌褨谢褜泻懈 胁卸械 泄 锌芯褌褉褨斜薪邪, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 薪邪胁鈥櫻徯费冄斞傂� 褋胁芯褦 褌芯胁邪褉懈褋褌胁芯 褨 褋胁芯褩 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 鈥� 邪斜芯 薪邪胁锌邪泻懈 谐芯褌芯胁褨 褋懈写褨褌懈 褨 褔械泻邪褌懈, 褉邪写褨褞褔懈 薪邪胁褨褌褜 泻褉懈褏褌邪屑 褍胁邪谐懈 褨 褌械锌谢邪 胁褨写 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 褌邪泻 斜芯褩褌械褋褟 斜褍褌懈 锌芯泻懈薪褍褌芯褞, 褖芯 谐芯褌芯胁褨 薪邪 胁褋械, 褖芯斜 胁褌褉懈屑邪褌懈 泄芯谐芯, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 斜械褉械褌械 薪邪 褋械斜械 斜褨谢褜褕械 锌芯谢芯胁懈薪懈 胁褨写锌芯胁褨写邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 蟹邪 胁褋械, 褖芯 胁褨写斜褍胁邪褦褌褜褋褟 褍 胁邪褕懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏, 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 薪械 胁褨褉懈褌械, 褖芯 谐褨写薪褨 褖邪褋褌褟 鈥� 褨 褟泻褖芯 褍褋械 褑械 (褨 褉褟写 褨薪褕懈褏 芦褟泻褖芯禄) 锌褉芯 胁邪褋, 胁懈 鈥� 卸褨薪泻邪, 蟹邪泻芯褏邪薪邪 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈. 笑械 锌芯谐邪薪邪 薪芯胁懈薪邪. 袗 褏芯褉芯褕邪 薪芯胁懈薪邪 锌芯谢褟谐邪褦 褍 褌芯屑褍, 褖芯 褑褞 褏胁芯褉芯斜褍 褔懈 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜 屑芯卸薪邪 胁懈谢褨泻褍胁邪褌懈.
袗胁褌芯褉泻邪 写械褌邪谢褜薪芯 褉芯蟹锌芯胁褨写邪褦 锌褉芯 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈 褑褜芯谐芯 褟胁懈褖邪. 袛芯 褉械褔褨, 芯泻褉褨屑 胁锌谢懈胁褍 褉芯写懈薪褍 胁械谢懈泻械 蟹薪邪褔械薪薪褟 屑邪褞褌褜 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉邪 褨 锟斤拷褨薪芯, 褟泻褨 锌械褉械胁邪卸薪芯 锌褉芯锌芯薪褍褞褌褜 薪邪屑 屑芯写械谢褜 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁 褟泻 褦写懈薪芯 锌褉邪胁懈谢褜薪褍 褨 芦褉芯屑邪薪褌懈褔薪褍禄. 校褋械 褑褟 卸械褉褌芯胁薪褨褋褌褜 蟹邪褉邪写懈 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟, 谐芯褌芯胁薪褨褋褌褜 蟹薪械褏褌褍胁邪褌懈 褋胁芯褩屑 斜谢邪谐芯锌芯谢褍褔褔褟屑, 褔邪褋芯屑, 芯褋胁褨褌芯褞, 蟹写芯褉芯胁鈥櫻徯�, 谐褨写薪褨褋褌褞, 邪斜懈 胁褉褟褌褍胁邪褌懈 袡袨袚袨 鈥� 褍褋械 褑械 邪斜褋芯谢褞褌薪芯 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁褨, 薪邪 写褍屑泻褍 邪胁褌芯褉泻懈, 褉械褔褨.
袩芯-锌械褉褕械, 锌械褉械泻芯薪邪薪邪 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写, 胁懈 薪械 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褨薪褕懈褏 褍 卸芯写薪芯屑褍 褉邪蟹褨. 袟邪褌械 胁懈 屑芯卸械褌械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈褋褟 褋邪屑褨. 袉 褑械 谐邪褉邪薪褌褨褟 褌芯谐芯, 褖芯 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈, 褟泻懈屑懈 胁懈 薪械蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪褨, 褌械卸 蟹屑褨薪褟褌褜褋褟: 胁芯薪懈 邪斜芯 褉芯蟹胁邪谢褟褌褜褋褟, 邪斜芯 蟹屑褨褑薪褨褞褌褜. 袗谢械 褌芯褔薪芯 薪械 谢懈褕邪褌褜褋褟 褌邪泻懈屑懈 卸 薪械蟹褉褍褔薪懈屑懈, 褟泻 写芯褋褨. 袩芯-写褉褍谐械, 褖芯斜 蟹斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 蟹写芯褉芯胁褨 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 褨蟹 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪屑懈, 褌褉械斜邪 褋锌械褉褕褍 蟹斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 褩褏 褨蟹 褋芯斜芯褞. 袘芯 胁褋褨 褑褨 锌芯褕褍泻懈 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪褜, 屑械褌邪薪薪褟 胁褨写 芯写薪芯谐芯 锌芯泻懈写褜泻邪 写芯 褨薪褕芯谐芯, 胁褋褟 褑褟 薪械褍褋胁褨写芯屑谢械薪邪 锌芯褌褉械斜邪 写褉邪屑懈 褨 薪械褋褌邪斜褨谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 鈥� 褍褋械 褑械 胁褨写 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褜芯褩 锌芯褉芯卸薪械褔褨, 褟泻邪 锌芯褌褉械斜褍褦 蟹邪锌芯胁薪械薪薪褟. 孝芯屑褍 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 褉邪写懈褌褜 卸褨薪泻邪屑: 写斜邪泄褌械 锌褉芯 褋械斜械, 褋锌褉褟屑芯胁褍泄褌械 械薪械褉谐褨褞 薪邪 褌械, 褖芯斜 锌芯泻褉邪褖懈褌懈 褋胁芯褦 卸懈褌褌褟, 邪 薪械 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 褔懈褦褋褜, 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪 (薪邪胁褨褌褜 泻芯谢懈 褑械 蟹邪泻芯薪薪懈泄 屑褍卸) 鈥� 褑械 泄芯谐芯 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈, 褨 泄芯屑褍 卸 斜褍写械 谢褨锌褕械 褨 泻芯褉懈褋薪褨褕械, 褟泻褖芯 胁褨薪 胁懈褉褨褕褍胁邪褌懈屑械 褩褏 褋邪屑.
袧邪褋锌褉邪胁写褨, 褑械 写芯褋懈褌褜 褋泻芯褉芯褔械薪懈泄 褨 褋锌褉芯褖械薪懈泄 胁懈泻谢邪写 谐芯谢芯胁薪懈褏 屑械褋械写卸褨胁 泻薪懈卸泻懈. 袘芯 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 锌褉芯褏芯写懈褌褜褋褟 锌芯 芦泻芯褏邪薪薪褞 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈禄 写褍卸械 写械褌邪谢褜薪芯 鈥� 锌芯泻邪蟹褍褦 褉褨蟹薪褨 泄芯谐芯 胁邪褉褨邪薪褌懈, 褉褨蟹薪褨 锌褉懈泻谢邪写懈 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑褨泄薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪, 蟹 褟泻懈褏 褍褋械 锌芯褔邪谢芯褋褟. 袉 褎芯褉屑褍谢褞褦 10 薪械芯斜褏褨写薪懈褏 写谢褟 芯写褍卸邪薪薪褟 泻褉芯泻褨胁 鈥� 芯写褉邪蟹褍 锌芯锌械褉械写卸邪褞褔懈, 褖芯 锌褉芯褑械褋 褑械泄 写芯褋懈褌褜 写芯胁谐懈泄 褨 斜芯谢褨褋薪懈泄, 邪谢械 写褨褦胁懈泄.
效懈褌邪薪薪褟 褑褨褦褩 泻薪懈卸泻懈 胁懈泻谢懈胁邪褦 写褍卸械 褉褨蟹薪褨 褉械邪泻褑褨褩. 小锌芯褔邪褌泻褍 褌懈, 褟泻 褌芯泄 屑械写懈泻-锌械褉褕芯泻褍褉褋薪懈褏, 锌械褉械褌胁芯褉褞褦褕褋褟 薪邪 褨锌芯褏芯薪写褉懈泻邪 褨 褕褍泻邪褦褕 芯蟹薪邪泻懈 褏胁芯褉芯斜懈 褍 褋械斜械. 袉 鈥� 蟹邪 屑芯褩屑懈 褋锌芯褋褌械褉械卸械薪薪褟屑懈 鈥� 写褍卸械 斜邪谐邪褌芯 卸褨薪芯泻 褩褏 屑芯卸褍褌褜 褋锌褉邪胁写褨 褍 褋械斜械 胁懈褟胁懈褌懈. 袩芯褌褨屑 褌芯斜褨 褏芯褔械褌褜褋褟 锌芯写懈褋泻褍褌褍胁邪褌懈 蟹 邪胁褌芯褉泻芯褞. 袧械 锌芯褋锌械褉械褔械褌懈褋褟, 邪 蟹邪写邪褌懈 褩泄 泻褨谢褜泻邪 锌懈褌邪薪褜 褨 褍褌芯褔薪械薪褜 (锌芯褟胁邪 褌邪泻芯谐芯 斜邪卸邪薪薪褟 写谢褟 屑械薪械 邪胁褌芯屑邪褌懈褔薪芯 褦 芯蟹薪邪泻芯褞 褏芯褉芯褕芯谐芯 薪芯薪-褎褨泻褕薪褍). 袩芯褌褨屑 褌懈 褉芯蟹褍屑褨褦褕, 褖芯 褟泻褨褋褜 锌芯褉邪写懈 袪芯斜褨薪 袧芯褉胁褍写 褌芯斜褨 褌芯褔薪芯 褌褉械斜邪 蟹邪褋褌芯褋褍胁邪褌懈 褍 胁谢邪褋薪芯屑褍 卸懈褌褌褨, 斜芯 胁芯薪懈 锌褉芯褋褌褨, 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨谢褨 褨 薪邪写懈褏邪褞褌褜 薪邪 锌芯蟹懈褌懈胁薪褨 蟹屑褨薪懈.
袦芯卸谢懈胁芯, 褑械 蟹胁褍褔邪褌懈屑械 薪邪写褌芯 锌邪褎芯褋薪芯, 邪谢械 褟 斜 褋泻邪蟹邪谢邪, 褖芯 褑褟 泻薪懈谐邪 鈥� 屑邪褋褌褉褨写 写谢褟 褍褋褨褏 褞薪懈褏 写褨胁褔邪褌, 褟泻褨 褌褨谢褜泻懈 锌芯褔懈薪邪褞褌褜 斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈, 邪 褌邪泻芯卸 写谢褟 卸褨薪芯泻, 褍 褟泻懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 褔芯屑褍褋褜 褋泻谢邪写邪褞褌褜褋褟 芦薪械 褌邪泻禄. 袦械薪褨 蟹写邪褦褌褜褋褟, 褖芯, 胁褔邪褋薪芯 锌褉芯褔懈褌邪薪邪, 胁芯薪邪 屑芯卸械 胁斜械褉械谐褌懈 胁褨写 褔懈褋谢械薪薪懈褏 芦锌芯屑懈谢芯泻 屑芯谢芯写芯褋褌褨禄 褨 薪械蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻褨胁, 邪 胁 锌械褉褋锌械泻褌懈胁褨 鈥� 胁褨写 械锌褨蟹芯写褨胁 褋褨屑械泄薪芯谐芯 薪邪褋懈谢褜褋褌胁邪, 锌芯谢邪屑邪薪懈褏 卸懈褌褌褨胁, 褎褨蟹懈褔薪懈褏 褨 屑芯褉邪谢褜薪懈褏 褌褉邪胁屑.
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賷毓賳賷 鬲禺鬲丕乇賷 賵丕丨丿 毓賳丿賴 賲卮丕賰賱 丕賱丿賳賷丕.. 毓賱賷賴 賯囟賷丞貙 賲丿賲賳貙 賳氐丕亘貙 亘賷毓亘丿 丕賱賰乇丕爻賷. 賲賲賰賳 賵賱丕 丨丕噩丞 賲賲丕 爻亘賯 亘爻 賷賰賵賳 亘丕乇丿 毓丕胤賮賷丕貙 亘賷噩乇丨賰貙 亘賷囟乇亘賰貙 亘賷爻鬲睾賱賰 賲丕丿賷丕賸.
鬲丨亘賷賴 噩丿丕 噩丿丕 賵鬲鬲賮丕賳賷 賮賷 乇毓丕賷鬲賴 賵丕賱鬲毓丕胤賮 賲毓賴貙 賵鬲賯賵賱賷 I can fix him
賲卮 亘爻 賰丿賴 丿賴 賰賲丕賳 廿匕丕 鬲賯乇亘 賲賳賰 卮禺氐 爻賵賷 賵亘賷丨亘賰 賮毓賱丕 賴鬲賰乇賴賷賴 賵鬲卮毓乇賷 賲毓丕賴 亘丕賱賲賱賱.
胤賷亘 丕賷賴 丕賱賱賷 賷賵氐賱 卮禺氐賷丞 賮賷 噩賲丕賱賰貙 賮賷 丨賱丕賵鬲賰貙 賮賷 卮賯丕賵鬲賰 兀賳賴丕 鬲鬲毓賱賯 亘賴匕丕 丕賱賵睾丿!
丕賱廿噩丕亘丞 毓賳丿 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 亘兀賳賴丕 賲卮賰賱丞 賮賷 丕賱賳卮兀丞. 鬲毓乇囟鬲賷 賱乇賮囟 賲賳 兀丨丿 丕賱兀亘賵賷賳 兀賵 賰賱賷賴賲丕貙 兀賵 兀丨丿賴賲貙 兀賵 賰丕賳賵丕 賲丿賲賳賷賳貙 兀賵 鬲丨賲賱鬲賷 賲爻卅賵賱賷丞 賮賷 賲乇丨賱丞 賲亘賰乇丞 賲賳 毓賲乇賰. 丕賱賲賴賲 兀賳 丕賱兀爻乇丞 毓賱賲鬲賰 丕賱丨亘 亘卮賰賱 禺丕胤卅. 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賰 兀氐亘丨 賲乇丕丿賮 賱賱氐乇丕毓丕鬲 賵丕賱賴夭賷賲丞 賵丕賱賳氐乇 賵丕賱賲卮丕噩乇丕鬲. 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賰 賲丕 賴賵 廿賱丕 鬲丨賲賱 賲爻卅賵賱賷丞 丕賱胤乇賮 丕賱丌禺乇 賵鬲賯丿賷賲 丕賱毓賵賳 賱賴 亘丿賵賳 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 賲賯丕亘賱貙 賵亘毓丿賴丕 賷氐亘丨 丕賱爻毓賷 賱鬲睾賷賷乇賴 賴賵 賲丨賵乇 丨賷丕鬲賰.
賵賱丕 賷賵噩丿 丨賱 廿賱丕 丕賱毓賱丕噩 丕賱爻賱賵賰賷 賵賲噩賲賵毓丕鬲 丕賱丿毓賲.
丕賱賮賰乇丞 鬲賲丕賲 賵卮乇丨賴丕 賰丕賳 乇丕卅毓. 賱賰賳 賷毓賷亘 丕賱賰鬲丕亘
鈥� 丕賱鬲胤賵賷賱 丕賱夭丕卅丿 噩丿丕. 賰賱丕賲 亘丨匕丕賮賷乇賴 鬲賰乇乇 賮賷 丕賱賮氐賵賱貙 賵賳賲丕匕噩 賱爻賷丿丕鬲 賰賱賴賲 鬲賯乇賷亘丕 賳賮爻 丕賱馗乇賵賮 賲賳爻賵禺丞 賲賳 亘毓囟 賲丕毓丿丕 賵丕丨丿丞 賰丕賳鬲 毓賳丿賴丕 賲卮賰賱丞 丕毓鬲丿丕亍 噩賳爻賷 賵賴賷 胤賮賱丞 賲賳 賵丕賱丿賴丕 賮賰丕賳鬲 廿賱賶 噩丕賳亘 丕賱廿賮乇丕胤 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賴丕 賲卮賰賱丞 賮賷 丕賱毓賱丕賯丞 賲毓 卮乇賷賰賴丕. 賴賷 賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 鬲賯乇亘 賵賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 鬲亘毓丿貙 毓丕賵夭丞 鬲爻丕毓丿賴 賮賷 卮賰賱 丕賱氐丿丕賯丞 賮賯胤 亘乇睾賲 丕賱丨亘.
鈥� 賰賲丕賳 賮賰乇丞 兀賳 丕賱丨丕賱丞 丿賷 禺丕氐丞 亘丕賱爻賷丿丕鬲 賮賯胤 賵丕賱乇噩丕賱 賱丕貙 睾賷乇 氐丨賷丨丞 亘卮賰賱 賰丕賲賱 賵丕毓鬲賯丿 丕賳 鬲賵噩賷賴賴 賱賱爻賷丿丕鬲 賮賯胤 賰丕賳 賱睾乇囟 丕賱賲亘賷毓丕鬲.
鈥� 丕賱賲卮賰賱丕鬲 丕賱賲毓乇賵囟丞 鬲禺氐 丕賱賲噩鬲賲毓 丕賱睾乇亘賷
賲卮丕賰賱 廿丿賲丕賳 丕賱賰丨賵賱賷丕鬲貙 賳馗乇賷丞 毓賳 丕賱廿賳噩匕丕亘 丕賱噩賳爻賷 鬲噩丕賴 兀丨丿 丕賱賵丕賱丿賷賳貙 丨鬲賶 胤乇賯 丕賱毓賱丕噩 賲禺鬲賱賮丞 毓賳賳丕.
賮賷 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 賴賱 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丿賴 賲毓賮賳 賵賲丨丿卮 賷賯乇丕賴責
賱兀貙 賰丕賳 賲賮賷丿 賮賷 亘毓囟 賳賯丕胤賴 賱賰賳 賮賷 乇兀賷賷 毓乇囟 丕賱兀賮賰丕乇 賵鬲賳丕賵賱賴丕 賱賲 賷賰賳 丕賱兀賮囟賱 賵賰丕賳 賲賲賱 兀丨賷丕賳丕. 賮廿匕丕 賰賳鬲賷 卮丕賷賮丞 丕賱毓賷賵亘 丕賱爻丕亘賯丞 卮卅 毓丕丿賷 賵丕賱賮賰乇丞 鬲爻鬲丨賯 丕亘丿兀賷 毓賱賶 亘乇賰丞 丕賱賱賴.
賷毓賳賷 丕賷賴 丕賱廿賮乇丕胤 賮賷 丕賱丨亘責
賷毓賳賷 鬲禺鬲丕乇賷 賵丕丨丿 毓賳丿賴 賲卮丕賰賱 丕賱丿賳賷丕.. 毓賱賷賴 賯囟賷丞貙 賲丿賲賳貙 賳氐丕亘貙 亘賷毓亘丿 丕賱賰乇丕爻賷. 賲賲賰賳 賵賱丕 丨丕噩丞 賲賲丕 爻亘賯 亘爻 賷賰賵賳 亘丕乇丿 毓丕胤賮賷丕貙 亘賷噩乇丨賰貙 亘賷囟乇亘賰貙 亘賷爻鬲睾賱賰 賲丕丿賷丕賸.
鬲丨亘賷賴 噩丿丕 噩丿丕 賵鬲鬲賮丕賳賷 賮賷 乇毓丕賷鬲賴 賵丕賱鬲毓丕胤賮 賲毓賴貙 賵鬲賯賵賱賷 I can fix him
賲卮 亘爻 賰丿賴 丿賴 賰賲丕賳 廿匕丕 鬲賯乇亘 賲賳賰 卮禺氐 爻賵賷 賵亘賷丨亘賰 賮毓賱丕 賴鬲賰乇賴賷賴 賵鬲卮毓乇賷 賲毓丕賴 亘丕賱賲賱賱.
胤賷亘 丕賷賴 丕賱賱賷 賷賵氐賱 卮禺氐賷丞 賮賷 噩賲丕賱賰貙 賮賷 丨賱丕賵鬲賰貙 賮賷 卮賯丕賵鬲賰 兀賳賴丕 鬲鬲毓賱賯 亘賴匕丕 丕賱賵睾丿!
丕賱廿噩丕亘丞 毓賳丿 丕賱賰丕鬲亘丞 亘兀賳賴丕 賲卮賰賱丞 賮賷 丕賱賳卮兀丞. 鬲毓乇囟鬲賷 賱乇賮囟 賲賳 兀丨丿 丕賱兀亘賵賷賳 兀賵 賰賱賷賴賲丕貙 兀賵 兀丨丿賴賲貙 兀賵 賰丕賳賵丕 賲丿賲賳賷賳貙 兀賵 鬲丨賲賱鬲賷 賲爻卅賵賱賷丞 賮賷 賲乇丨賱丞 賲亘賰乇丞 賲賳 毓賲乇賰. 丕賱賲賴賲 兀賳 丕賱兀爻乇丞 毓賱賲鬲賰 丕賱丨亘 亘卮賰賱 禺丕胤卅. 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賰 兀氐亘丨 賲乇丕丿賮 賱賱氐乇丕毓丕鬲 賵丕賱賴夭賷賲丞 賵丕賱賳氐乇 賵丕賱賲卮丕噩乇丕鬲. 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賰 賲丕 賴賵 廿賱丕 鬲丨賲賱 賲爻卅賵賱賷丞 丕賱胤乇賮 丕賱丌禺乇 賵鬲賯丿賷賲 丕賱毓賵賳 賱賴 亘丿賵賳 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 賲賯丕亘賱貙 賵亘毓丿賴丕 賷氐亘丨 丕賱爻毓賷 賱鬲睾賷賷乇賴 賴賵 賲丨賵乇 丨賷丕鬲賰.
賵賱丕 賷賵噩丿 丨賱 廿賱丕 丕賱毓賱丕噩 丕賱爻賱賵賰賷 賵賲噩賲賵毓丕鬲 丕賱丿毓賲.
丕賱賮賰乇丞 鬲賲丕賲 賵卮乇丨賴丕 賰丕賳 乇丕卅毓. 賱賰賳 賷毓賷亘 丕賱賰鬲丕亘
鈥� 丕賱鬲胤賵賷賱 丕賱夭丕卅丿 噩丿丕. 賰賱丕賲 亘丨匕丕賮賷乇賴 鬲賰乇乇 賮賷 丕賱賮氐賵賱貙 賵賳賲丕匕噩 賱爻賷丿丕鬲 賰賱賴賲 鬲賯乇賷亘丕 賳賮爻 丕賱馗乇賵賮 賲賳爻賵禺丞 賲賳 亘毓囟 賲丕毓丿丕 賵丕丨丿丞 賰丕賳鬲 毓賳丿賴丕 賲卮賰賱丞 丕毓鬲丿丕亍 噩賳爻賷 賵賴賷 胤賮賱丞 賲賳 賵丕賱丿賴丕 賮賰丕賳鬲 廿賱賶 噩丕賳亘 丕賱廿賮乇丕胤 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賴丕 賲卮賰賱丞 賮賷 丕賱毓賱丕賯丞 賲毓 卮乇賷賰賴丕. 賴賷 賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 鬲賯乇亘 賵賲卮 毓丕乇賮丞 鬲亘毓丿貙 毓丕賵夭丞 鬲爻丕毓丿賴 賮賷 卮賰賱 丕賱氐丿丕賯丞 賮賯胤 亘乇睾賲 丕賱丨亘.
鈥� 賰賲丕賳 賮賰乇丞 兀賳 丕賱丨丕賱丞 丿賷 禺丕氐丞 亘丕賱爻賷丿丕鬲 賮賯胤 賵丕賱乇噩丕賱 賱丕貙 睾賷乇 氐丨賷丨丞 亘卮賰賱 賰丕賲賱 賵丕毓鬲賯丿 丕賳 鬲賵噩賷賴賴 賱賱爻賷丿丕鬲 賮賯胤 賰丕賳 賱睾乇囟 丕賱賲亘賷毓丕鬲.
鈥� 丕賱賲卮賰賱丕鬲 丕賱賲毓乇賵囟丞 鬲禺氐 丕賱賲噩鬲賲毓 丕賱睾乇亘賷
賲卮丕賰賱 廿丿賲丕賳 丕賱賰丨賵賱賷丕鬲貙 賳馗乇賷丞 毓賳 丕賱廿賳噩匕丕亘 丕賱噩賳爻賷 鬲噩丕賴 兀丨丿 丕賱賵丕賱丿賷賳貙 丨鬲賶 胤乇賯 丕賱毓賱丕噩 賲禺鬲賱賮丞 毓賳賳丕.
賮賷 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 賴賱 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丿賴 賲毓賮賳 賵賲丨丿卮 賷賯乇丕賴責
賱兀貙 賰丕賳 賲賮賷丿 賮賷 亘毓囟 賳賯丕胤賴 賱賰賳 賮賷 乇兀賷賷 毓乇囟 丕賱兀賮賰丕乇 賵鬲賳丕賵賱賴丕 賱賲 賷賰賳 丕賱兀賮囟賱 賵賰丕賳 賲賲賱 兀丨賷丕賳丕. 賮廿匕丕 賰賳鬲賷 卮丕賷賮丞 丕賱毓賷賵亘 丕賱爻丕亘賯丞 卮卅 毓丕丿賷 賵丕賱賮賰乇丞 鬲爻鬲丨賯 丕亘丿兀賷 毓賱賶 亘乇賰丞 丕賱賱賴.
July 9, 2014
Non 猫 un libro facile da leggere e se ci sono delle resistenze nella lettura, questo vuol dire che la probabilit脿 di essere una delle donne che amano troppo 猫 alta.
Un libro che richiede di essere letto con calma, che fa riflettere e piangere quando la risonanza delle storie lette 猫 troppo forte.
Un libro che non si limita a mostrare i sintomi di questa malattia, perch茅 amare troppo non 猫 altro che questo: una malattia psichica cronica degenerativa, da cui si pu貌 guarire se si riconoscono i sintomi.
Un libro che propone un percorso di guarigione.
Dall'amare troppo si pu貌 guarire, imparando ad amare davvero, senza difese, senza strategie auto protettive.
Perch茅 se l'amore 猫 malsano, negazione del vero amore, pu貌 uccidere; l'amore vero guarisce e libera da ogni paura per aprirsi alla gioia e alla gioia piena.
Un libro che richiede di essere letto con calma, che fa riflettere e piangere quando la risonanza delle storie lette 猫 troppo forte.
Un libro che non si limita a mostrare i sintomi di questa malattia, perch茅 amare troppo non 猫 altro che questo: una malattia psichica cronica degenerativa, da cui si pu貌 guarire se si riconoscono i sintomi.
Un libro che propone un percorso di guarigione.
Dall'amare troppo si pu貌 guarire, imparando ad amare davvero, senza difese, senza strategie auto protettive.
Perch茅 se l'amore 猫 malsano, negazione del vero amore, pu貌 uccidere; l'amore vero guarisce e libera da ogni paura per aprirsi alla gioia e alla gioia piena.
September 10, 2012
I am not a fan of self-help books generally speaking, so when a friend who'd been in a situation similar to mine suggested I read this book, I blew it off for almost a year. I was pretty sure I'd be too busy rolling my eyes at it to actually absorb anything written on the page. As it turns out, this book spurred me to take a long look at myself and the choices I'd made- both healthy and un- and to ask myself a lot of questions I hadn't thought to ask myself in a very long time, if ever.
February 26, 2024
No s茅 como escribir una rese帽a a un libro que alberga demasiada verdad para alguien que no ha escogido a los hombres correctos recientemente 馃槥 Lo que s铆 dir茅 es que es un buen comienzo para empezar a analizar ciertas conductas que nos lleven a personas que no son las indicadas para nosotras.
100% recomiendo (con todo y la ansiedad de que te digan tus verdades)
100% recomiendo (con todo y la ansiedad de que te digan tus verdades)
December 30, 2021
Ok, no soy fan de los libros de autoayuda. Incluso, me burlo un poco de ellos. Sin embargo, "Las mujeres que aman demasiado" no es el t铆pico libro optimista de marketing. Existe una cr铆tica al modelo amatorio heterosexual y como afecta a las mujeres desde la psicolog铆a y a nivel social. Me gusta que se centre en las mujeres y la escritura del libro sea simple y emp谩tica. Eso genera una cercan铆a especial. Sobre todo cuando agrega relatos e historias de sus propias pacientes. Una deja de sentirse sola y puede encontrarse con otras mujeres aunque sea a trav茅s de las letras.
Lamentablemente, si hay partes muy repetitivas. Adem谩s, a veces tiende a ser un libro muy "heterosexual" y algo conservador. Por lo que no s茅 si catalogarlo como una obra feminista. De todas formas, el objeto de estudio de la escritora son mujeres que se enamoran de hombres y repiten patrones t贸xicos. Por lo que, el libro est谩 muy bien logrado y fundamentado en sus 200 p谩ginas.
Me gustar铆a recomend谩rselo a todas las mujeres que conozco. A las que a煤n no saben que est谩n en relaciones t贸xicas como qui茅nes est谩n en proceso de sanaci贸n. Es un buen libro para entender qu茅 nos sucede o entender a otras mujeres que sufren dependencia emocional y cargan con historias familiares disfuncionales (hermanas, madres, t铆as, amigas, etc). Me sent铆 muy acompa帽ada y entendida. Gracias a este libro retom茅 terapia.
Lamentablemente, si hay partes muy repetitivas. Adem谩s, a veces tiende a ser un libro muy "heterosexual" y algo conservador. Por lo que no s茅 si catalogarlo como una obra feminista. De todas formas, el objeto de estudio de la escritora son mujeres que se enamoran de hombres y repiten patrones t贸xicos. Por lo que, el libro est谩 muy bien logrado y fundamentado en sus 200 p谩ginas.
Me gustar铆a recomend谩rselo a todas las mujeres que conozco. A las que a煤n no saben que est谩n en relaciones t贸xicas como qui茅nes est谩n en proceso de sanaci贸n. Es un buen libro para entender qu茅 nos sucede o entender a otras mujeres que sufren dependencia emocional y cargan con historias familiares disfuncionales (hermanas, madres, t铆as, amigas, etc). Me sent铆 muy acompa帽ada y entendida. Gracias a este libro retom茅 terapia.
December 1, 2016
袗泻芯 懈屑邪褌械 锌褉懈褟褌械谢泻邪, 泻芯褟褌芯 械 薪械褖邪褋褌薪邪 胁褗胁 胁褉褗蟹泻懈褌械 褋懈, 胁懈薪邪谐懈 懈蟹斜懈褉邪 薪械锌芯写褏芯写褟褖懈 屑褗卸械 懈谢懈 锌褉械写锌芯褔懈褌邪 写邪 械 褋 薪褟泻芯谐芯, 薪芯 薪械 懈 褋邪屑邪, 懈谢懈 邪泻芯 胁褋懈褔泻芯 褌芯胁邪 褋械 芯褌薪邪褋褟 懈 蟹邪 胁邪褋 - 斜懈褏 胁懈 锌褉械锌芯褉褗褔邪谢邪 褌邪蟹懈 泻薪懈谐邪.
袙懈写褟褏 褟 蟹邪褏胁褗褉谢械薪邪 胁 械写薪邪 泻薪懈卸邪褉薪懈褑邪, 褉芯蟹芯胁邪褌邪 泻芯褉懈褑邪 屑懈 锌褉芯薪懈蟹邪 褉械褌懈薪邪褌邪, 邪 泻邪褌芯 胁懈写褟褏 懈 蟹邪谐谢邪胁懈械褌芯 - 薪褟屑邪褕械 泻邪泻 褌褉褟斜胁邪褕械 写邪 胁懈写褟 蟹邪 泻邪泻胁芯 懈写械 褉械褔. 袩芯写褏芯写懈褏 褋泻械锌褌懈褔薪芯.
袩芯蟹薪邪褏 褋械 - 锌褉械褑邪泻胁邪谢邪 褋褗屑 胁褉褗蟹泻懈 蟹邪褉邪写懈 卸械谢邪薪懈械褌芯 褋懈 写邪 泻芯薪褌褉芯谢懈褉邪屑 褋懈褌褍邪褑懈褟褌邪 懈谢懈 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 褋褗屑 写邪胁邪谢邪 锌芯胁械褔械, 芯褌泻芯谢泻芯褌芯 械 褌褉褟斜胁邪谢芯. 袨褋薪芯胁薪邪褌邪 懈写械褟 胁 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 械, 褔械 薪邪褕懈褌械 褉芯写懈褌械谢懈 懈 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟褌邪 胁 褋械屑械泄褋褌胁芯褌芯 褋邪 锌褉懈褔懈薪邪褌邪 写邪 薪械 屑芯卸械屑 写邪 懈蟹谐褉邪写懈屑 泻邪褔械褋褌胁械薪邪 胁褉褗蟹泻邪, 泻芯谐邪褌芯 胁械褔械 懈 薪懈械 褋屑械 蟹褉械谢懈 褏芯褉邪. 袪芯写懈褌械谢懈褌械 薪邪薪邪褋褟褌 薪械锌芯锌褉邪胁懈屑懈 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢薪懈 褖械褌懈 薪邪 写械褑邪褌邪 褋懈, 褔械 胁械褔械 懈 邪蟹 褋械 褔褍写褟 胁褗蟹屑芯卸薪芯 谢懈 械 写邪 褋懈 写芯斜褗褉 褉芯写懈褌械谢 懈谢懈 锌褉芯褋褌芯 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写邪 斜褗写械褕 锌芯-屑邪谢泻芯 谢芯褕. 袠谢懈 泻邪泻胁芯 胁褋褗褖薪芯褋褌 蟹薪邪褔懈 写邪 褋懈 写芯斜褗褉 褉芯写懈褌械谢...
袗蟹 褋褗屑 写芯褋褌邪 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢薪芯 锌芯胁褉械写械薪 褔芯胁械泻, 谐芯谢褟屑邪 褔邪褋褌 芯褌 芯锌懈褋邪薪懈褌械 褋懈褌褍邪褑懈懈 褋邪 屑懈 褋械 褋谢褍褔胁邪谢懈 懈 斜谢邪谐芯写邪褉械薪懈械 薪邪 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈褏 胁褉褗蟹泻邪 褋 薪械褖邪 芯褌 写械褌褋褌胁芯褌芯 褋懈, 锌褉懈屑械褉薪芯 - 胁懈薪邪谐懈 褋邪 屑懈 褋械 泻邪褉邪谢懈, 邪泻芯 锌谢邪褔邪 懈 泻邪褌芯 褑褟谢芯 懈蟹褉邪蟹褟胁邪薪械褌芯 薪邪 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪 薪械 斜械褕械 锌褉懈械屑谢懈胁芯. 袙 褋谢械写褋褌胁懈械 薪邪 褌芯胁邪, 邪蟹 褉褟写泻芯 懈蟹褉邪蟹褟胁邪屑 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪褌邪 褋懈 懈 褋械谐邪 - 蟹邪褉邪写懈 褋褌褉邪褏 芯褌 芯褌褏胁褗褉谢褟薪械. 袙褋械泻懈 薪芯褋懈 褋胁芯褟 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢械薪 斜邪谐邪卸, 褉邪斜芯褌邪褌邪 械 褌邪屑, 褔械 薪械 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写邪 谐芯 薪邪褌芯胁邪褉懈屑 薪邪 褔芯胁械泻邪, 褋 泻芯谐芯褌芯 褋屑械, 邪 写邪 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈屑 褌邪泻邪 褔械 写邪 薪械 薪懈 褌械卸懈 褌芯谢泻芯胁邪. 袠屑邪 写芯褋褌邪 褏褍斜邪胁懈 屑懈褋谢懈 懈蟹褉邪蟹械薪懈 胁 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 泻邪褌芯 褌芯胁邪 褔械 写邪 芯锌芯蟹薪邪械褕 懈 写邪 斜褗写械褕 芯锌芯蟹薪邪褌 屑芯卸械 写邪 械 屑薪芯谐芯 锌芯-胁褗谢薪褍胁邪褖芯, 芯褌 褌芯胁邪 写邪 斜褗写械褕 锌褉芯褋褌芯 胁褗蟹斜褍写械薪 (蟹邪 胁褉褗蟹泻懈褌械, 泻芯懈褌芯 褋械 泻褉械锌褟褌 褋邪屑芯 薪邪 褋械泻褋). 袘械褕械 屑懈 芯褋芯斜械薪芯 谢褞斜芯锌懈褌薪芯 写邪 锌褉芯褔械褌邪 谐谢邪胁邪褌邪 "袣褉邪褋邪胁懈褑邪褌邪 懈 蟹胁褟褉邪", 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 褌芯胁邪 屑懈 械 谢褞斜懈屑芯褌芯 写械褌褋泻芯 褎懈谢屑褔械, 邪 褌邪屑 邪薪邪谢懈蟹懈褉邪褌 泻邪泻 屑芯卸械 写邪 斜褗写械 懈薪褌械褉锌褉械褌懈褉邪薪邪 锌褉懈泻邪蟹泻邪褌邪. 袧邪 屑械薪 屑懈 褏邪褉械褋胁邪, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 袟胁褟褉褗褌 械 褋懈谢械薪, 屑褗卸械褋褌胁械薪, 褋屑械谢 懈 胁 褋褗褖芯褌芯 胁褉械屑械 械 屑懈谢, 薪械卸械薪 懈 胁薪懈屑邪褌械谢械薪 褋 袘械谢, 邪 褌褟 褋械 胁谢褞斜胁邪 胁 薪械谐芯 胁褗锌褉械泻懈 褌芯胁邪 褔械 械 蟹胁褟褉. 袟邪 屑械薪 - 锌械褉褎械泻褌薪邪褌邪 谢褞斜芯胁薪邪 懈褋褌芯褉懈褟. 袙 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 芯斜邪褔械 械 锌褉械写褋褌邪胁械薪邪 芯褌 写褉褍谐邪 谐谢械写薪邪 褌芯褔泻邪 - 袘械谢 锌褉芯屑械薪褟 袟胁褟褉邪 斜谢邪谐芯写邪褉械薪懈械 薪邪 褋胁芯褟褌邪 谢褞斜芯胁, 褌.械. 屑懈褋谢懈屑 褋懈, 褔械 邪泻芯 芯斜懈褔邪屑械 薪褟泻芯谐芯 写芯褋褌邪褌褗褔薪芯, 褌芯泄 褖械 褋械 锌褉芯屑械薪懈 懈 褖械 褋褌邪薪械, 褔芯胁械泻褗褌, 泻芯谐芯褌芯 褋屑械 褋懈 锌褉械写褋褌邪胁褟谢懈. 袪邪蟹斜懈褉邪 褋械, 薪懈泻芯谐邪 薪械 褋褌邪胁邪 褌邪泻邪.
袙懈写褟褏 褟 蟹邪褏胁褗褉谢械薪邪 胁 械写薪邪 泻薪懈卸邪褉薪懈褑邪, 褉芯蟹芯胁邪褌邪 泻芯褉懈褑邪 屑懈 锌褉芯薪懈蟹邪 褉械褌懈薪邪褌邪, 邪 泻邪褌芯 胁懈写褟褏 懈 蟹邪谐谢邪胁懈械褌芯 - 薪褟屑邪褕械 泻邪泻 褌褉褟斜胁邪褕械 写邪 胁懈写褟 蟹邪 泻邪泻胁芯 懈写械 褉械褔. 袩芯写褏芯写懈褏 褋泻械锌褌懈褔薪芯.
袩芯蟹薪邪褏 褋械 - 锌褉械褑邪泻胁邪谢邪 褋褗屑 胁褉褗蟹泻懈 蟹邪褉邪写懈 卸械谢邪薪懈械褌芯 褋懈 写邪 泻芯薪褌褉芯谢懈褉邪屑 褋懈褌褍邪褑懈褟褌邪 懈谢懈 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 褋褗屑 写邪胁邪谢邪 锌芯胁械褔械, 芯褌泻芯谢泻芯褌芯 械 褌褉褟斜胁邪谢芯. 袨褋薪芯胁薪邪褌邪 懈写械褟 胁 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 械, 褔械 薪邪褕懈褌械 褉芯写懈褌械谢懈 懈 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟褌邪 胁 褋械屑械泄褋褌胁芯褌芯 褋邪 锌褉懈褔懈薪邪褌邪 写邪 薪械 屑芯卸械屑 写邪 懈蟹谐褉邪写懈屑 泻邪褔械褋褌胁械薪邪 胁褉褗蟹泻邪, 泻芯谐邪褌芯 胁械褔械 懈 薪懈械 褋屑械 蟹褉械谢懈 褏芯褉邪. 袪芯写懈褌械谢懈褌械 薪邪薪邪褋褟褌 薪械锌芯锌褉邪胁懈屑懈 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢薪懈 褖械褌懈 薪邪 写械褑邪褌邪 褋懈, 褔械 胁械褔械 懈 邪蟹 褋械 褔褍写褟 胁褗蟹屑芯卸薪芯 谢懈 械 写邪 褋懈 写芯斜褗褉 褉芯写懈褌械谢 懈谢懈 锌褉芯褋褌芯 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写邪 斜褗写械褕 锌芯-屑邪谢泻芯 谢芯褕. 袠谢懈 泻邪泻胁芯 胁褋褗褖薪芯褋褌 蟹薪邪褔懈 写邪 褋懈 写芯斜褗褉 褉芯写懈褌械谢...
袗蟹 褋褗屑 写芯褋褌邪 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢薪芯 锌芯胁褉械写械薪 褔芯胁械泻, 谐芯谢褟屑邪 褔邪褋褌 芯褌 芯锌懈褋邪薪懈褌械 褋懈褌褍邪褑懈懈 褋邪 屑懈 褋械 褋谢褍褔胁邪谢懈 懈 斜谢邪谐芯写邪褉械薪懈械 薪邪 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈褏 胁褉褗蟹泻邪 褋 薪械褖邪 芯褌 写械褌褋褌胁芯褌芯 褋懈, 锌褉懈屑械褉薪芯 - 胁懈薪邪谐懈 褋邪 屑懈 褋械 泻邪褉邪谢懈, 邪泻芯 锌谢邪褔邪 懈 泻邪褌芯 褑褟谢芯 懈蟹褉邪蟹褟胁邪薪械褌芯 薪邪 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪 薪械 斜械褕械 锌褉懈械屑谢懈胁芯. 袙 褋谢械写褋褌胁懈械 薪邪 褌芯胁邪, 邪蟹 褉褟写泻芯 懈蟹褉邪蟹褟胁邪屑 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪褌邪 褋懈 懈 褋械谐邪 - 蟹邪褉邪写懈 褋褌褉邪褏 芯褌 芯褌褏胁褗褉谢褟薪械. 袙褋械泻懈 薪芯褋懈 褋胁芯褟 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢械薪 斜邪谐邪卸, 褉邪斜芯褌邪褌邪 械 褌邪屑, 褔械 薪械 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写邪 谐芯 薪邪褌芯胁邪褉懈屑 薪邪 褔芯胁械泻邪, 褋 泻芯谐芯褌芯 褋屑械, 邪 写邪 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈屑 褌邪泻邪 褔械 写邪 薪械 薪懈 褌械卸懈 褌芯谢泻芯胁邪. 袠屑邪 写芯褋褌邪 褏褍斜邪胁懈 屑懈褋谢懈 懈蟹褉邪蟹械薪懈 胁 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 泻邪褌芯 褌芯胁邪 褔械 写邪 芯锌芯蟹薪邪械褕 懈 写邪 斜褗写械褕 芯锌芯蟹薪邪褌 屑芯卸械 写邪 械 屑薪芯谐芯 锌芯-胁褗谢薪褍胁邪褖芯, 芯褌 褌芯胁邪 写邪 斜褗写械褕 锌褉芯褋褌芯 胁褗蟹斜褍写械薪 (蟹邪 胁褉褗蟹泻懈褌械, 泻芯懈褌芯 褋械 泻褉械锌褟褌 褋邪屑芯 薪邪 褋械泻褋). 袘械褕械 屑懈 芯褋芯斜械薪芯 谢褞斜芯锌懈褌薪芯 写邪 锌褉芯褔械褌邪 谐谢邪胁邪褌邪 "袣褉邪褋邪胁懈褑邪褌邪 懈 蟹胁褟褉邪", 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 褌芯胁邪 屑懈 械 谢褞斜懈屑芯褌芯 写械褌褋泻芯 褎懈谢屑褔械, 邪 褌邪屑 邪薪邪谢懈蟹懈褉邪褌 泻邪泻 屑芯卸械 写邪 斜褗写械 懈薪褌械褉锌褉械褌懈褉邪薪邪 锌褉懈泻邪蟹泻邪褌邪. 袧邪 屑械薪 屑懈 褏邪褉械褋胁邪, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 袟胁褟褉褗褌 械 褋懈谢械薪, 屑褗卸械褋褌胁械薪, 褋屑械谢 懈 胁 褋褗褖芯褌芯 胁褉械屑械 械 屑懈谢, 薪械卸械薪 懈 胁薪懈屑邪褌械谢械薪 褋 袘械谢, 邪 褌褟 褋械 胁谢褞斜胁邪 胁 薪械谐芯 胁褗锌褉械泻懈 褌芯胁邪 褔械 械 蟹胁褟褉. 袟邪 屑械薪 - 锌械褉褎械泻褌薪邪褌邪 谢褞斜芯胁薪邪 懈褋褌芯褉懈褟. 袙 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 芯斜邪褔械 械 锌褉械写褋褌邪胁械薪邪 芯褌 写褉褍谐邪 谐谢械写薪邪 褌芯褔泻邪 - 袘械谢 锌褉芯屑械薪褟 袟胁褟褉邪 斜谢邪谐芯写邪褉械薪懈械 薪邪 褋胁芯褟褌邪 谢褞斜芯胁, 褌.械. 屑懈褋谢懈屑 褋懈, 褔械 邪泻芯 芯斜懈褔邪屑械 薪褟泻芯谐芯 写芯褋褌邪褌褗褔薪芯, 褌芯泄 褖械 褋械 锌褉芯屑械薪懈 懈 褖械 褋褌邪薪械, 褔芯胁械泻褗褌, 泻芯谐芯褌芯 褋屑械 褋懈 锌褉械写褋褌邪胁褟谢懈. 袪邪蟹斜懈褉邪 褋械, 薪懈泻芯谐邪 薪械 褋褌邪胁邪 褌邪泻邪.
January 26, 2011
Very insightful book. I appreciated the ideas that you cannot change your partner, you only can change yourself. When you focus on all of your partner's "flaws" and think that if they change you will be happy, you are using that as an excuse not to address your own problems. Also that being "selfless" can be a form of manipulation. There is definitely truth in that if we focus on ourselves and strive to be better and give less focus on our partner's issues by trying to control or change them, that leads to a healthier life and a healthier relationship dynamic.
January 6, 2024
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September 23, 2015
Wow, this book basically sums up the story of my life and relationships! I had always wondered where I kept going wrong, as to care is to do the right things, right? Well, yes, it is good to care, it is good to love, but how do you know that you are caring in the right way, loving in the right way? Do any of us even know what love is?
This book teaches that love shouldn't be about suffering, no matter what overly-popular television programmes and movies would like to tell us, but should be about a mutual caring and respect, and one that doesn't leave us feeling forced to smother another in our attempts to "help" them, make them better.
I have always found myself drawn to relationships where I have felt that I have needed to be the "carer". This hasn't, in my mind, been because I've necessarily been drawn to bad people, like some people are, but partly because I don't feel like I'm useful, or needed, if I can't fulfill a role where I can show that I care. Wouldn't I just be abandoned if I can't give everything? What if I'm not good enough?
Of course, a lot of it stems down to self-esteem, which I know I've been lacking in, until recently. It doesn't necessarily mean that my choices have changed as my confidence has grown, but my willingness to put up with certain behaviour has!
I truly do recommend this book for any woman (or man, even) who has found themselves cycling through relationships and never seeming to be able to get it "right". It has helped me a lot in understanding my behaviour, both now and in the past.
This book teaches that love shouldn't be about suffering, no matter what overly-popular television programmes and movies would like to tell us, but should be about a mutual caring and respect, and one that doesn't leave us feeling forced to smother another in our attempts to "help" them, make them better.
I have always found myself drawn to relationships where I have felt that I have needed to be the "carer". This hasn't, in my mind, been because I've necessarily been drawn to bad people, like some people are, but partly because I don't feel like I'm useful, or needed, if I can't fulfill a role where I can show that I care. Wouldn't I just be abandoned if I can't give everything? What if I'm not good enough?
Of course, a lot of it stems down to self-esteem, which I know I've been lacking in, until recently. It doesn't necessarily mean that my choices have changed as my confidence has grown, but my willingness to put up with certain behaviour has!
I truly do recommend this book for any woman (or man, even) who has found themselves cycling through relationships and never seeming to be able to get it "right". It has helped me a lot in understanding my behaviour, both now and in the past.
July 28, 2017
袛褍卸械 褏芯褉芯褕邪 泻薪懈卸泻邪, 锌褉懈褔芯屑褍 泻芯褉懈褋薪邪 薪械蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 褌芯谐芯 褔懈 锌械褉械斜褍胁邪褦褌械 胁懈 胁 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 褔懈 薪褨. 袘械蟹胁褨写薪芯褋薪芯 写芯 胁邪褕芯谐芯 褋褨屑械泄薪芯谐芯 褋褌邪薪褍, 胁芯薪邪 屑芯卸械 写邪褌懈 屑芯卸谢懈胁褨褋褌褜 锌芯写懈胁懈褌懈褋褟 薪邪 褋械斜械 褌邪 褋胁芯褦 卸懈褌褌褟 褌褉褨褕械褔泻懈 褨薪邪泻褕械, 锌褉芯邪薪邪谢褨蟹褍胁邪褌懈 褋胁芯褩 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻懈 蟹 芯褌芯褔褍褞褔懈屑懈 谢褞写褜屑懈, 褌邪 薪邪胁褔懈褌懈褋褟 泻褉邪褖械 褌褍褉斜褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 锌褉芯 褋械斜械. 袣芯褉懈褋薪邪 泻薪懈卸泻邪, 褕泻芯写邪, 褖芯 薪械 锌芯褌褉邪斜锌懈谢邪 屑械薪褨 写芯 褉褍泻 褉邪薪褨褕械.
February 25, 2019
I would agree with those who stated they found the book to be repetitive.
A sad fact because in my mind the subject at hand is even more current nowadays than it was some 30 years ago when the book was first published.
My thought is that perhaps repetitiveness was precisely the point in order to help the reader re-wire their brain structures and form other thoughts and habits about themselves and relationships in general? I could be wrong of course.
As virtually the same story was re-told or re-imagined several more times throughout the book it almost read a bit like fiction and boredom settled in, often forcing me to re-read several paragraphs and only then stumbling upon a key sentence or phrase I had needed to comprehend the specific point of this chapter or this person/character in the book.
Although the book carries an important message, it does get lost along the lamentations of the author's patients, as well as her own descriptions and interpretations of what said women had shared with her.
Personally I would have wished for shorter chapters, going through cases briefly only and focusing mainly on keywords to remind yourself a) what is happening in the relationship b) how to apply what you learned in this book in real life. And it's strange because the author started that way, with a checklist outlining fifteen recurring issues in this type of relationship and among this type person that "loves too much." Unfortunately that concept was later abandoned though I'm not certain why.
The book was written for the layman, so there aren't clinical terms being used or overused, which I could imagine is part of the book's continued success after about three decades on the market.
A chapter focusing on possible neurodiversities making people more prone to develop this syndrome of 鈥渓oving too much,鈥� and explaining the chemical cocktail in the brain whenever one lives through a 鈥渉igh鈥� phase of obsession in a loveless relationship would have been welcome, fun and if you ask me necessary though.
So while I like this book there are a few too many flaws that irk me and that seem like somewhat of an oversight, and paired with the fact that the writing style varies quite drastically in quality, I can only award this one 2.5 stars, rounded up to 3.
A sad fact because in my mind the subject at hand is even more current nowadays than it was some 30 years ago when the book was first published.
My thought is that perhaps repetitiveness was precisely the point in order to help the reader re-wire their brain structures and form other thoughts and habits about themselves and relationships in general? I could be wrong of course.
As virtually the same story was re-told or re-imagined several more times throughout the book it almost read a bit like fiction and boredom settled in, often forcing me to re-read several paragraphs and only then stumbling upon a key sentence or phrase I had needed to comprehend the specific point of this chapter or this person/character in the book.
Although the book carries an important message, it does get lost along the lamentations of the author's patients, as well as her own descriptions and interpretations of what said women had shared with her.
Personally I would have wished for shorter chapters, going through cases briefly only and focusing mainly on keywords to remind yourself a) what is happening in the relationship b) how to apply what you learned in this book in real life. And it's strange because the author started that way, with a checklist outlining fifteen recurring issues in this type of relationship and among this type person that "loves too much." Unfortunately that concept was later abandoned though I'm not certain why.
The book was written for the layman, so there aren't clinical terms being used or overused, which I could imagine is part of the book's continued success after about three decades on the market.
A chapter focusing on possible neurodiversities making people more prone to develop this syndrome of 鈥渓oving too much,鈥� and explaining the chemical cocktail in the brain whenever one lives through a 鈥渉igh鈥� phase of obsession in a loveless relationship would have been welcome, fun and if you ask me necessary though.
So while I like this book there are a few too many flaws that irk me and that seem like somewhat of an oversight, and paired with the fact that the writing style varies quite drastically in quality, I can only award this one 2.5 stars, rounded up to 3.
May 27, 2015
袦懈褋谢褟, 褔械 泻褗屑 泻薪懈谐懈褌械 褌懈锌 锌褉懈谢芯卸薪邪 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐懈褟 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写芯 褋械 锌芯写褏芯卸写邪 写芯褋褌邪 胁薪懈屑邪褌械谢薪芯 懈 褋邪屑芯 邪泻芯 屑芯卸械褕 写邪 芯褌褋械械褕 蟹褗褉薪芯褌芯 芯褌 锌谢褟胁邪褌邪. 袧械 斜懈褏 锌芯谐谢械写薪邪谢邪 褌邪蟹懈 泻薪懈谐邪, 邪泻芯 薪械 屑懈 褟 斜褟褏邪 懈蟹褉懈褔薪芯 锌褉械锌芯褉褗褔邪谢懈.
啸邪褉械褋邪 屑懈, 褔械 芯斜褟褋薪褟胁邪 屑芯写械谢懈褌械 薪邪 "锌褉械泻芯屑械褉薪芯 芯斜懈褔邪薪械' 褋 锌褉懈屑械褉懈. 袧邪 屑械薪 斜械褕械 锌芯谢械蟹薪邪, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 薪邪褉懈褔邪 薪械褖邪褌邪 褋 懈褋褌懈薪褋泻懈褌械 懈屑 懈屑械薪邪- 薪械褖芯 泻芯械褌芯 械 胁邪卸薪芯 蟹邪 褌邪泻褗胁 褌懈锌 泻薪懈谐懈.
啸邪褉械褋邪 屑懈, 褔械 芯斜褟褋薪褟胁邪 屑芯写械谢懈褌械 薪邪 "锌褉械泻芯屑械褉薪芯 芯斜懈褔邪薪械' 褋 锌褉懈屑械褉懈. 袧邪 屑械薪 斜械褕械 锌芯谢械蟹薪邪, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 薪邪褉懈褔邪 薪械褖邪褌邪 褋 懈褋褌懈薪褋泻懈褌械 懈屑 懈屑械薪邪- 薪械褖芯 泻芯械褌芯 械 胁邪卸薪芯 蟹邪 褌邪泻褗胁 褌懈锌 泻薪懈谐懈.
July 27, 2021
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袣薪懈谐邪褌邪 泻邪褌芯 褑褟谢芯 械 褏褍斜邪胁邪, 写邪胁邪 懈薪褌械褉械褋薪邪 锌械褉褋锌械泻褌懈胁邪 蟹邪 锌芯胁械写械薪懈械褌芯 芯褌 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐懈褔械褋泻邪 谐谢械写薪邪 褌芯褔泻邪, 薪芯 懈屑邪 屑薪芯谐芯 锌芯胁褌芯褉械薪懈褟, 邪 懈 褋 薪褟泻芯懈 薪械褖邪 薪械 褋褗屑 芯褋芯斜械薪芯 褋褗谐谢邪褋薪邪. 袧邪锌褉懈屑械褉, 邪斜褋褍褉写薪芯 械 写邪 褋械 褌胁褗褉写懈, 褔械 屑芯屑懈褔械, 泻芯械褌芯 械 锌褉芯褟胁懈谢芯 芯褌谐芯胁芯褉薪芯褋褌 懈 褋邪屑芯褋褌芯褟褌械谢薪芯褋褌 胁 写械褌褋褌胁芯褌芯 褋懈( 蟹邪褉邪写懈 褋谢邪斜芯褋褌懈褌械 薪邪 褉芯写懈褌械谢懈褌械 褋懈), 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋褌邪薪械 卸械褉褌胁邪 薪邪 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑懈芯薪邪谢薪懈 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟 褋 屑褗卸械褌械, 锌褉芯褟胁褟胁邪泄泻懈 褋械斜械芯褌褉懈褑邪薪懈械 懈 锌褉械泻芯屑械褉薪邪 蟹邪谐褉懈卸械薪芯褋褌 胁褗胁 胁褉褗蟹泻邪褌邪 褋懈. 袟邪 屑械薪 谢懈褔薪芯 薪褟屑邪 褌邪泻邪胁邪 胁蟹邪懈屑芯胁褉褗蟹泻邪. 袣邪褌芯 褑褟谢芯 械 褎邪泻褌, 褔械 谢懈锌褋邪褌邪 薪邪 谢褞斜芯胁 懈 芯写芯斜褉械薪懈械, 芯褌 泻芯懈褌芯 写械褌械褌芯 懈屑邪 薪褍卸写邪, 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋械 锌褉械胁褗褉薪械 胁 薪懈褋泻邪 褋邪屑芯芯褑械薪泻邪, 薪械褍胁械褉械薪芯褋褌, 褋褌褉邪褏 芯褌 懈蟹芯褋褌邪胁褟薪械, 泻芯械褌芯 褋邪屑芯 锌芯 褋械斜械 褋懈 芯褌锌褉懈褖胁邪 械写懈薪 屑械褏邪薪懈蟹褗屑 薪邪 锌芯褌懈褋泻邪薪械 薪邪 褋芯斜褋褌胁械薪邪褌邪 褋懈 褋褗褖薪芯褋褌 蟹邪 褋屑械褌泻邪 薪邪 写褉褍谐懈褟 懈 泻芯屑锌褉芯屑懈褋懈 褋褗褋 褋械斜械 褋懈. 袠蟹芯斜褖芯, 屑薪芯谐芯 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋械 谐芯胁芯褉懈 锌芯 褌械屑邪褌邪, 懈 胁褋懈褔泻芯 械 褌芯谢泻芯胁邪 懈薪写懈胁懈写褍邪谢薪芯, 褔械 薪械 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋械 褋谢芯卸懈 胁 褉邪屑泻邪. 袩褉懈屑械褉懈褌械, 写邪写械薪懈 胁 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪, 薪械 褋邪 芯斜褖芯胁邪谢懈写薪懈, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 懈屑邪 屑薪芯谐芯 薪褞邪薪褋懈. 袙 芯褋薪芯胁邪褌邪 薪邪 械写薪懈 褏邪褉屑芯薪懈褔薪懈 芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟 芯斜邪褔械, 懈屑邪 蟹薪邪褔械薪懈械 薪邪 锌褗褉胁芯 屑褟褋褌芯 械写懈薪 褔芯胁械泻 写邪 锌褉懈械屑邪 懈 芯斜懈褔邪 褋械斜械 褋懈 懈 写邪 薪械 懈蟹锌芯谢蟹胁邪 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉邪 褋懈 泻邪褌芯 泻芯屑锌械薪褋邪褌芯褉械薪 屑械褏邪薪懈蟹褗屑, 泻芯泄褌芯 写邪 蟹邪锌褗谢胁邪 薪褟泻邪泻胁懈 胁褗褌褉械褕薪懈 锌褍泻薪邪褌懈薪懈.
小邪屑邪褌邪 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 薪邪褋芯褔胁邪 泻褗屑 褋褗褖懈褌械 懈蟹胁芯写懈.
袪芯斜懈薪 袧芯褉褍褍写 械 薪邪 锌褗褉胁芯 屑褟褋褌芯 锌褋懈褏芯褌械褉邪锌械胁褌 懈 械 褋锌械褑懈邪谢懈蟹懈褉邪谢邪 胁 芯斜谢邪褋褌褌邪 薪邪 蟹邪胁懈褋懈屑芯褋褌懈褌械 懈 锌褉芯斜谢械屑邪褌懈褔薪懈褌械 胁褉褗蟹泻懈. 袠 懈褋褌芯褉懈懈褌械, 泻芯懈褌芯 褋锌芯写械谢褟 褋邪 褔邪褋褌 芯褌 薪械泄薪邪褌邪 锌褉邪泻褌懈泻邪.
袙 芯锌懈褋邪薪懈褌械 褋谢褍褔邪懈 屑懈 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈 胁锌械褔邪褌谢械薪懈械, 褔械 褌械蟹懈 卸械薪懈 褋邪 锌褉懈胁谢械褔械薪懈 芯褌 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉懈, 泻芯懈褌芯 懈屑邪褌 薪褍卸写邪 芯褌 褌褟褏. 袠 褌邪泻邪 褌械 褋械 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪褌 锌芯谢械蟹薪懈, 懈 薪械 褋邪屑芯 褌芯胁邪, 薪芯 懈 锌褉懈胁谢械褔械薪懈 芯褌 蟹邪胁懈褋懈屑芯褋褌褌邪 薪邪 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉懈褌械 懈屑 泻褗屑 褋邪屑懈褌械 褌褟褏, 泻邪褌芯 胁懈写 谐邪褉邪薪褑懈褟, 褔械 褌械 褖械 斜褗写邪褌 褋 褌褟褏 懈 薪褟屑邪 写邪 谐懈 懈蟹芯褋褌邪胁褟褌. 袙褋懈褔泻芯 褌芯胁邪 械 芯斜褍褋谢芯胁械薪芯 芯褌 褌械褏薪懈褟 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢械薪 写械褎懈褑懈褌 胁 写械褌褋褌胁芯褌芯. 袧邪 写褉褍谐 锌谢邪薪 懈蟹谢懈蟹邪 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐懈褔械褋泻邪褌邪 薪械芯斜褏芯写懈屑芯褋褌 写邪 褋械 胁卸懈胁械褟褌 胁 褉芯谢褟褌邪 薪邪 褋锌邪褋懈褌械谢泻懈 懈 褋褌褉械屑械卸邪 写邪 锌褉芯屑械薪褟褌 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉邪 褋懈 褍卸 泻褗屑 锌芯- 写芯斜褉芯. 袛械褎邪泻褌芯 芯斜邪褔械, 泻芯谐邪褌芯 褌械 懈蟹锌褗谢薪褟褌 褉芯谢褟褌邪 褋懈, 懈 胁 褋谢褍褔邪泄, 褔械 锌芯褋褌懈谐薪邪褌 褑械谢褌邪 褋懈, 褌械 蟹邪谐褍斜胁邪褌 懈薪褌械褉械褋 懈 褋械 懈蟹锌褗谢胁邪褌 褋 薪械褍写芯胁谢械褌胁芯褉械薪芯褋褌. 袠 褌邪泻邪 芯褌薪芯胁芯 胁谢懈蟹邪褌 胁 锌芯褉芯褔薪懈褟 泻褉褗谐 薪邪 褋胁芯褟褌邪 褋褔褍锌械薪邪 锌褋懈褏芯- 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢薪邪 蟹邪胁懈褋懈屑芯褋褌. 袙 泻褉邪褟 薪邪 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 懈屑邪 薪邪褋芯泻懈 泻邪泻 械写薪邪 "褌胁褗褉写械 屑薪芯谐芯 芯斜懈褔邪褖邪 卸械薪邪" 写邪 褋械 褋锌褉邪胁懈 褋褗褋 褋谢邪斜芯褋褌懈褌械 懈 写邪 懈蟹谢械蟹械 芯褌 锌芯褉芯褔薪懈褟 泻褉褗谐 薪邪 锌邪谐褍斜薪懈褌械 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟. 袝褋褌械褋褌胁械薪芯, 褌械蟹懈 褋褗胁械褌懈 薪械 褋邪 锌邪薪邪褑械褟, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 褔芯胁械泻 褋邪屑 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写邪 褋褌懈谐薪械 写芯 屑芯屑械薪褌邪 薪邪 芯褋褗蟹薪邪胁邪薪械, 薪芯 芯锌褉械写械谢械薪芯 屑芯卸械 写邪 锌芯屑芯谐薪械 写邪 褋械 胁懈写懈 芯褌褋褌褉邪薪懈 懈 写邪 锌芯谢芯卸懈 褍褋懈谢懈械 蟹邪 锌褉芯屑褟薪邪.
袙褋褗褖薪芯褋褌 褌邪蟹懈 泻薪懈谐邪 薪械 械 褋邪屑芯 蟹邪 卸械薪懈褌械, 胁褗锌褉械泻懈 褔械 卸械薪褋泻邪褌邪 褔邪褋褌 褋邪 褑械谢械胁邪褌邪 谐褉褍锌邪, 褌褗泄 泻邪褌芯 褌械 锌芯- 褔械褋褌芯 胁谢懈蟹邪褌 胁 褉芯谢褟褌邪 薪邪 "锌褉械泻邪谢械薪芯 芯斜懈褔邪褖懈褌械", 锌芯- 褋泻芯褉芯 芯褌 胁褗褌褉械褕薪邪褌邪 薪械芯斜褏芯写懈屑芯褋褌 写邪 斜褗写邪褌 芯斜懈褔邪薪懈. 袘械褕械 懈薪褌械褉械褋薪邪 懈 屑褗卸泻邪褌邪 谐谢械写薪邪 褌芯褔泻邪 胁 芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟褌邪 懈屑 褋 "卸械薪懈, 泻芯懈褌芯 芯斜懈褔邪褌 褌胁褗褉写械 屑薪芯谐芯".
袨谐褗薪褟褌 芯斜邪褔械 屑芯卸械 写邪 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈 褔芯胁械泻 锌芯- 褋懈谢械薪, 屑芯卸械 懈 写邪 谐芯 芯谐褗薪械. 袗 胁 褌械蟹懈 懈褋褌芯褉懈懈 褋械 褉邪蟹泻邪蟹胁邪 懈屑械薪薪芯 蟹邪 褌械蟹懈 褋谢褍褔邪懈- 薪邪 胁褗褌褉械褕薪芯 芯谐褗胁邪薪械 懈 锌褉械褔褍锌胁邪薪械.
孝械屑邪褌邪 蟹邪 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟褌邪 械 薪邪懈褋褌懈薪邪 褋谢芯卸薪邪. 袙 薪械褟 薪褟屑邪 锌褉邪胁懈谢薪芯 懈 谐褉械褕薪芯. 袠屑邪 蟹薪邪褔械薪懈械 械写懈薪褋褌胁械薪芯 泻邪泻 褋械 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪 褋邪屑懈褟 褔芯胁械泻 懈 写邪谢懈 泻芯屑锌褉芯屑懈褋懈褌械, 泻芯懈褌芯 锌褉邪胁懈, 谐芯 芯褖械褌褟胁邪褌 懈 芯褌薪械屑邪褌 芯褌 薪械谐芯胁邪褌邪 胁褗褌褉械褕薪邪 褏邪褉屑芯薪懈褟.
( 屑邪谢械 泻邪泻 褋械 芯褌锌谢械褋薪邪褏 胁褗胁 褎懈谢芯褋芯褎褋褌胁邪薪械 馃檪)
袣薪懈谐邪褌邪 薪邪懈褋褌懈薪邪 屑芯卸械 写邪 械 锌芯谢械蟹薪邪, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 写邪胁邪 褉邪蟹谢懈褔薪邪 锌械褉褋锌械泻褌懈胁邪 懈 锌褉芯胁芯泻懈褉邪 泻褗屑 胁谐谢械卸写邪薪械 胁 褋邪屑懈褟 褋械斜械 褋懈.
袣薪懈谐邪褌邪 泻邪褌芯 褑褟谢芯 械 褏褍斜邪胁邪, 写邪胁邪 懈薪褌械褉械褋薪邪 锌械褉褋锌械泻褌懈胁邪 蟹邪 锌芯胁械写械薪懈械褌芯 芯褌 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐懈褔械褋泻邪 谐谢械写薪邪 褌芯褔泻邪, 薪芯 懈屑邪 屑薪芯谐芯 锌芯胁褌芯褉械薪懈褟, 邪 懈 褋 薪褟泻芯懈 薪械褖邪 薪械 褋褗屑 芯褋芯斜械薪芯 褋褗谐谢邪褋薪邪. 袧邪锌褉懈屑械褉, 邪斜褋褍褉写薪芯 械 写邪 褋械 褌胁褗褉写懈, 褔械 屑芯屑懈褔械, 泻芯械褌芯 械 锌褉芯褟胁懈谢芯 芯褌谐芯胁芯褉薪芯褋褌 懈 褋邪屑芯褋褌芯褟褌械谢薪芯褋褌 胁 写械褌褋褌胁芯褌芯 褋懈( 蟹邪褉邪写懈 褋谢邪斜芯褋褌懈褌械 薪邪 褉芯写懈褌械谢懈褌械 褋懈), 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋褌邪薪械 卸械褉褌胁邪 薪邪 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑懈芯薪邪谢薪懈 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟 褋 屑褗卸械褌械, 锌褉芯褟胁褟胁邪泄泻懈 褋械斜械芯褌褉懈褑邪薪懈械 懈 锌褉械泻芯屑械褉薪邪 蟹邪谐褉懈卸械薪芯褋褌 胁褗胁 胁褉褗蟹泻邪褌邪 褋懈. 袟邪 屑械薪 谢懈褔薪芯 薪褟屑邪 褌邪泻邪胁邪 胁蟹邪懈屑芯胁褉褗蟹泻邪. 袣邪褌芯 褑褟谢芯 械 褎邪泻褌, 褔械 谢懈锌褋邪褌邪 薪邪 谢褞斜芯胁 懈 芯写芯斜褉械薪懈械, 芯褌 泻芯懈褌芯 写械褌械褌芯 懈屑邪 薪褍卸写邪, 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋械 锌褉械胁褗褉薪械 胁 薪懈褋泻邪 褋邪屑芯芯褑械薪泻邪, 薪械褍胁械褉械薪芯褋褌, 褋褌褉邪褏 芯褌 懈蟹芯褋褌邪胁褟薪械, 泻芯械褌芯 褋邪屑芯 锌芯 褋械斜械 褋懈 芯褌锌褉懈褖胁邪 械写懈薪 屑械褏邪薪懈蟹褗屑 薪邪 锌芯褌懈褋泻邪薪械 薪邪 褋芯斜褋褌胁械薪邪褌邪 褋懈 褋褗褖薪芯褋褌 蟹邪 褋屑械褌泻邪 薪邪 写褉褍谐懈褟 懈 泻芯屑锌褉芯屑懈褋懈 褋褗褋 褋械斜械 褋懈. 袠蟹芯斜褖芯, 屑薪芯谐芯 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋械 谐芯胁芯褉懈 锌芯 褌械屑邪褌邪, 懈 胁褋懈褔泻芯 械 褌芯谢泻芯胁邪 懈薪写懈胁懈写褍邪谢薪芯, 褔械 薪械 屑芯卸械 写邪 褋械 褋谢芯卸懈 胁 褉邪屑泻邪. 袩褉懈屑械褉懈褌械, 写邪写械薪懈 胁 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪, 薪械 褋邪 芯斜褖芯胁邪谢懈写薪懈, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 懈屑邪 屑薪芯谐芯 薪褞邪薪褋懈. 袙 芯褋薪芯胁邪褌邪 薪邪 械写薪懈 褏邪褉屑芯薪懈褔薪懈 芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟 芯斜邪褔械, 懈屑邪 蟹薪邪褔械薪懈械 薪邪 锌褗褉胁芯 屑褟褋褌芯 械写懈薪 褔芯胁械泻 写邪 锌褉懈械屑邪 懈 芯斜懈褔邪 褋械斜械 褋懈 懈 写邪 薪械 懈蟹锌芯谢蟹胁邪 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉邪 褋懈 泻邪褌芯 泻芯屑锌械薪褋邪褌芯褉械薪 屑械褏邪薪懈蟹褗屑, 泻芯泄褌芯 写邪 蟹邪锌褗谢胁邪 薪褟泻邪泻胁懈 胁褗褌褉械褕薪懈 锌褍泻薪邪褌懈薪懈.
小邪屑邪褌邪 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 薪邪褋芯褔胁邪 泻褗屑 褋褗褖懈褌械 懈蟹胁芯写懈.
袪芯斜懈薪 袧芯褉褍褍写 械 薪邪 锌褗褉胁芯 屑褟褋褌芯 锌褋懈褏芯褌械褉邪锌械胁褌 懈 械 褋锌械褑懈邪谢懈蟹懈褉邪谢邪 胁 芯斜谢邪褋褌褌邪 薪邪 蟹邪胁懈褋懈屑芯褋褌懈褌械 懈 锌褉芯斜谢械屑邪褌懈褔薪懈褌械 胁褉褗蟹泻懈. 袠 懈褋褌芯褉懈懈褌械, 泻芯懈褌芯 褋锌芯写械谢褟 褋邪 褔邪褋褌 芯褌 薪械泄薪邪褌邪 锌褉邪泻褌懈泻邪.
袙 芯锌懈褋邪薪懈褌械 褋谢褍褔邪懈 屑懈 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈 胁锌械褔邪褌谢械薪懈械, 褔械 褌械蟹懈 卸械薪懈 褋邪 锌褉懈胁谢械褔械薪懈 芯褌 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉懈, 泻芯懈褌芯 懈屑邪褌 薪褍卸写邪 芯褌 褌褟褏. 袠 褌邪泻邪 褌械 褋械 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪褌 锌芯谢械蟹薪懈, 懈 薪械 褋邪屑芯 褌芯胁邪, 薪芯 懈 锌褉懈胁谢械褔械薪懈 芯褌 蟹邪胁懈褋懈屑芯褋褌褌邪 薪邪 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉懈褌械 懈屑 泻褗屑 褋邪屑懈褌械 褌褟褏, 泻邪褌芯 胁懈写 谐邪褉邪薪褑懈褟, 褔械 褌械 褖械 斜褗写邪褌 褋 褌褟褏 懈 薪褟屑邪 写邪 谐懈 懈蟹芯褋褌邪胁褟褌. 袙褋懈褔泻芯 褌芯胁邪 械 芯斜褍褋谢芯胁械薪芯 芯褌 褌械褏薪懈褟 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢械薪 写械褎懈褑懈褌 胁 写械褌褋褌胁芯褌芯. 袧邪 写褉褍谐 锌谢邪薪 懈蟹谢懈蟹邪 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐懈褔械褋泻邪褌邪 薪械芯斜褏芯写懈屑芯褋褌 写邪 褋械 胁卸懈胁械褟褌 胁 褉芯谢褟褌邪 薪邪 褋锌邪褋懈褌械谢泻懈 懈 褋褌褉械屑械卸邪 写邪 锌褉芯屑械薪褟褌 锌邪褉褌薪褜芯褉邪 褋懈 褍卸 泻褗屑 锌芯- 写芯斜褉芯. 袛械褎邪泻褌芯 芯斜邪褔械, 泻芯谐邪褌芯 褌械 懈蟹锌褗谢薪褟褌 褉芯谢褟褌邪 褋懈, 懈 胁 褋谢褍褔邪泄, 褔械 锌芯褋褌懈谐薪邪褌 褑械谢褌邪 褋懈, 褌械 蟹邪谐褍斜胁邪褌 懈薪褌械褉械褋 懈 褋械 懈蟹锌褗谢胁邪褌 褋 薪械褍写芯胁谢械褌胁芯褉械薪芯褋褌. 袠 褌邪泻邪 芯褌薪芯胁芯 胁谢懈蟹邪褌 胁 锌芯褉芯褔薪懈褟 泻褉褗谐 薪邪 褋胁芯褟褌邪 褋褔褍锌械薪邪 锌褋懈褏芯- 械屑芯褑懈芯薪邪谢薪邪 蟹邪胁懈褋懈屑芯褋褌. 袙 泻褉邪褟 薪邪 泻薪懈谐邪褌邪 懈屑邪 薪邪褋芯泻懈 泻邪泻 械写薪邪 "褌胁褗褉写械 屑薪芯谐芯 芯斜懈褔邪褖邪 卸械薪邪" 写邪 褋械 褋锌褉邪胁懈 褋褗褋 褋谢邪斜芯褋褌懈褌械 懈 写邪 懈蟹谢械蟹械 芯褌 锌芯褉芯褔薪懈褟 泻褉褗谐 薪邪 锌邪谐褍斜薪懈褌械 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟. 袝褋褌械褋褌胁械薪芯, 褌械蟹懈 褋褗胁械褌懈 薪械 褋邪 锌邪薪邪褑械褟, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 褔芯胁械泻 褋邪屑 褌褉褟斜胁邪 写邪 褋褌懈谐薪械 写芯 屑芯屑械薪褌邪 薪邪 芯褋褗蟹薪邪胁邪薪械, 薪芯 芯锌褉械写械谢械薪芯 屑芯卸械 写邪 锌芯屑芯谐薪械 写邪 褋械 胁懈写懈 芯褌褋褌褉邪薪懈 懈 写邪 锌芯谢芯卸懈 褍褋懈谢懈械 蟹邪 锌褉芯屑褟薪邪.
袙褋褗褖薪芯褋褌 褌邪蟹懈 泻薪懈谐邪 薪械 械 褋邪屑芯 蟹邪 卸械薪懈褌械, 胁褗锌褉械泻懈 褔械 卸械薪褋泻邪褌邪 褔邪褋褌 褋邪 褑械谢械胁邪褌邪 谐褉褍锌邪, 褌褗泄 泻邪褌芯 褌械 锌芯- 褔械褋褌芯 胁谢懈蟹邪褌 胁 褉芯谢褟褌邪 薪邪 "锌褉械泻邪谢械薪芯 芯斜懈褔邪褖懈褌械", 锌芯- 褋泻芯褉芯 芯褌 胁褗褌褉械褕薪邪褌邪 薪械芯斜褏芯写懈屑芯褋褌 写邪 斜褗写邪褌 芯斜懈褔邪薪懈. 袘械褕械 懈薪褌械褉械褋薪邪 懈 屑褗卸泻邪褌邪 谐谢械写薪邪 褌芯褔泻邪 胁 芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟褌邪 懈屑 褋 "卸械薪懈, 泻芯懈褌芯 芯斜懈褔邪褌 褌胁褗褉写械 屑薪芯谐芯".
袨谐褗薪褟褌 芯斜邪褔械 屑芯卸械 写邪 薪邪锌褉邪胁懈 褔芯胁械泻 锌芯- 褋懈谢械薪, 屑芯卸械 懈 写邪 谐芯 芯谐褗薪械. 袗 胁 褌械蟹懈 懈褋褌芯褉懈懈 褋械 褉邪蟹泻邪蟹胁邪 懈屑械薪薪芯 蟹邪 褌械蟹懈 褋谢褍褔邪懈- 薪邪 胁褗褌褉械褕薪芯 芯谐褗胁邪薪械 懈 锌褉械褔褍锌胁邪薪械.
孝械屑邪褌邪 蟹邪 胁蟹邪懈屑芯芯褌薪芯褕械薪懈褟褌邪 械 薪邪懈褋褌懈薪邪 褋谢芯卸薪邪. 袙 薪械褟 薪褟屑邪 锌褉邪胁懈谢薪芯 懈 谐褉械褕薪芯. 袠屑邪 蟹薪邪褔械薪懈械 械写懈薪褋褌胁械薪芯 泻邪泻 褋械 褔褍胁褋褌胁邪 褋邪屑懈褟 褔芯胁械泻 懈 写邪谢懈 泻芯屑锌褉芯屑懈褋懈褌械, 泻芯懈褌芯 锌褉邪胁懈, 谐芯 芯褖械褌褟胁邪褌 懈 芯褌薪械屑邪褌 芯褌 薪械谐芯胁邪褌邪 胁褗褌褉械褕薪邪 褏邪褉屑芯薪懈褟.
( 屑邪谢械 泻邪泻 褋械 芯褌锌谢械褋薪邪褏 胁褗胁 褎懈谢芯褋芯褎褋褌胁邪薪械 馃檪)
袣薪懈谐邪褌邪 薪邪懈褋褌懈薪邪 屑芯卸械 写邪 械 锌芯谢械蟹薪邪, 蟹邪褖芯褌芯 写邪胁邪 褉邪蟹谢懈褔薪邪 锌械褉褋锌械泻褌懈胁邪 懈 锌褉芯胁芯泻懈褉邪 泻褗屑 胁谐谢械卸写邪薪械 胁 褋邪屑懈褟 褋械斜械 褋懈.
December 17, 2020
Parte benino, finisce male. Si potrebbe dire molto su questo saggio, che mi 猫 parso molto riduttivo e rigido. L'autrice sfrutta casi limite per avvalorare la sua tesi principali, cio猫 che le donne (e qualche uomo) ricercano relazioni abusive perch茅 cresciute in un ambiente familiare tossico. Non sono certo una terapeuta, ed 猫 vero che i rapporti familiari possono distruggerci, ma individuare questa come l'unica causa mi sembra semplicistico. Dove finiscono le persone che hanno avuto un'infanzia normale e si ritrovano comunque in una relazione abusiva?
Per non parlare dell'eteronormativit脿, degli orientamenti sessuali indicati come "devianze", dalla libert脿 sessuale giudicata sempre in modo negativo.
Insomma, un saggio che 猫 invecchiato proprio male.
Per non parlare dell'eteronormativit脿, degli orientamenti sessuali indicati come "devianze", dalla libert脿 sessuale giudicata sempre in modo negativo.
Insomma, un saggio che 猫 invecchiato proprio male.
May 10, 2024
袨褑褨薪泻邪 4,5
携 斜懈 锌芯褉邪写懈谢邪 锌褉芯褔懈褌邪褌懈 褑褞 泻薪懈谐褍 泻芯卸薪褨泄 卸褨薪褑褨/ 写褨胁褔懈薪褨, 薪械 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 褌芯谐芯, 褍 褌芯泻褋懈褔薪懈褏 褔懈 蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 胁芯薪邪 锌械褉械斜褍胁邪褞褌褜.
袣薪懈谐邪 薪邪谢械卸懈褌褜 写芯 self-help 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉懈 蟹 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褩, 薪邪锌懈褋邪薪邪 写芯褋褌褍锌薪芯 褨 谢械谐泻芯. 袩械褉械胁邪谐芯褞 泻薪懈谐懈 褦 褌械, 褖芯 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 写芯谢褍褔邪谢邪 斜邪谐邪褌芯 卸懈胁懈褏 写褨邪谢芯谐褨胁 蟹 锌邪褑褨褦薪褌邪屑懈, 泻芯屑械薪褌褍褞褔懈 褩褏薪褨 褋懈褌褍邪褑褨褩 褌邪 胁褔懈薪泻懈 褨蟹 褌芯褔泻懈 蟹芯褉褍 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐邪. 袨褋芯斜懈褋褌芯 屑械薪褨 褌邪泻懈泄 褋褌懈谢褜 胁懈泻谢邪写褍 写芯锌芯屑褨谐 泻褉邪褖械 锌芯斜邪褔懈褌懈 褋懈褌褍邪褑褨褞, 锌芯斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 锌邪褉邪谢械谢褨 蟹 褉械邪谢褜薪懈屑 卸懈褌褌褟屑 褌邪 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨褌懈 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈 褨蟹 褋械褉械写懈薪懈.
袞褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 泻芯褏邪褞褌褜 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 - 褑械 卸褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 锌械褉械斜褍胁邪褞褌褜 褍 褌芯泻褋懈褔薪懈褏, 写械褋褌褉褍泻褌懈胁薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏, 薪械 褉芯蟹褍屑褨褞褌褜 褋械斜械 褨 褋胁芯褩褏 锌邪褉褌薪械褉褨胁, 卸懈胁褍褌褜 褍 褋胁芯褩泄 胁懈谐邪写邪薪褨泄 褉械邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨. 孝邪泻褨 卸褨薪泻懈, 褟泻 锌褉邪胁懈谢芯, 锌芯褏芯写褟褌褜 褨蟹 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑褨泄薪懈褏, 锌褉芯斜谢械屑薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪; 胁芯薪懈 屑邪谢懈 胁邪卸泻械 写懈褌懈薪褋褌胁芯, 锌芯蟹斜邪胁谢械薪械 械屑芯褑褨泄薪懈褏 蟹胁鈥櫻徯沸貉栃�; 褔邪褋褌芯 褍 褉芯写懈薪邪褏 褌邪泻懈褏 卸褨薪芯泻 斜褍谢邪 锌褉懈褋褍褌薪褜芯褞 锌褉芯斜谢械屑邪 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨蟹屑褍.
袛谢褟 屑械薪械 泻薪懈谐邪 斜褍谢邪 写芯胁芯谢褨 褑褨泻邪胁芯褞 褌邪 蟹屑褨褋褌芯胁芯褞. 袆写懈薪械, 褖芯 胁懈泻谢懈泻邪谢芯 褍 屑械薪械 褋褍屑薪褨胁, 斜褍谢芯 褌械, 褖芯 蟹写械斜褨谢褜褕芯谐芯 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 锌芯褟褋薪褞褦 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈 胁懈薪懈泻薪械薪薪褟 褌邪泻芯谐芯 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 褍 卸褨薪芯泻 蟹 褋邪屑械 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨蟹屑芯屑 褍 褉芯写懈薪褨 (斜邪褌褜泻懈-邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻懈) 褨 胁褋褟 泻薪懈谐邪 锌褉芯褋褟泻薪褍褌邪 褑懈屑 锌芯褟褋薪械薪薪褟屑 褌邪 屑械褌邪褎芯褉芯褞 (蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜 胁褨写 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褞 = 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜 胁褨写 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪). 携 薪械 褦 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐芯屑 褨 屑械薪褨 褑褨泻邪胁芯, 褔懈 褦 褨薪褕褨 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈, 褟泻褨 屑芯褌懈胁褍褞褌褜 卸褨薪芯泻 薪邪 褌邪泻褍 写械褋褌褉褍泻褌懈胁薪褍 锌芯胁械写褨薪泻褍 褍 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 蟹 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪屑懈. 携 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪谢邪 写褨胁褔邪褌 褍 卸懈褌褌褨, 褟泻褨 锌芯褏芯写懈谢懈 蟹 斜谢邪谐芯锌芯谢褍褔薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪, 薪械 锌褨写锌邪写邪谢懈 锌褨写 锌褉芯褎褨谢褜, 褟泻懈泄 芯锌懈褋褍褦 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪, 褨 胁褋械 卸 泻芯褏邪谢懈 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈..
芦芦孝褉邪锌谢褟褦褌褜褋褟 褌邪泻, 鈥� 锌褉芯写芯胁卸褍褞 褟, 鈥� 褖芯 薪邪褕邪 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜 褋褌懈屑褍谢褞褦褌褜褋褟 薪邪泄褋懈谢褜薪褨褕械, 泻芯谢懈 屑懈 芯写械褉卸懈屑褨 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻芯屑.
校褋褨 褑褨 薪邪写屑褨褉薪褨 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 鈥� 薪械褌械褉锌谢褟褔械 芯褔褨泻褍胁邪薪薪褟 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔褨, 卸邪褏
锌械褉械写 褉芯蟹谢褍褔械薪薪褟屑, 褋懈谢褜薪械 薪械褉胁芯胁械 蟹斜褍写卸械薪薪褟 鈥� 褋邪屑械 胁芯薪懈
褦 褋泻谢邪写芯胁懈屑懈 褌芯谐芯, 褖芯 屑懈 褉邪薪褨褕械 薪邪蟹懈胁邪谢懈 鈥炐盒狙呅靶叫窖徯�". 袧邪褋锌褉邪胁写褨 卸 褍褋械 褑械 薪褨褟泻 薪械 褋褌芯褋褍褦褌褜褋褟 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟. 袗谢械 胁褋褨 锌褨褋薪褨 锌褉芯 谢褞斜芯胁 薪邪屑邪谐邪褞褌褜褋褟 锌械褉械泻芯薪邪褌懈 薪邪褋 褍 锌褉芯褌懈谢械卸薪芯屑褍. 校褋褨 褑褨 鈥炐盒狙呅靶叫�, 褟 卸懈褌懈 斜械蟹 褌械斜械 薪械 屑芯卸褍". 袧褨褏褌芯 薪械 褋泻谢邪写邪褦 锌褨褋械薪褜 锌褉芯 褌械, 褟泻 锌褉芯褋褌芯 泄 蟹褉褍褔薪芯 卸懈褌懈 褍 蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 谢褞斜芯胁薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏.
校褋褨 锌懈褕褍褌褜 锌褉芯 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪薪褟, 褋褌褉邪褏, 胁褌褉邪褌褍 泄 写褍褕械胁薪懈泄 斜褨谢褜. 袦懈 薪邪蟹懈胁邪褦屑芯 褑械 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟屑 褨 薪械 蟹薪邪褦屑芯, 褖芯 褉芯斜懈褌懈, 锌芯褌褉邪锌谢褟褞褔懈 褍 胁蟹邪褦屑懈薪懈, 褟泻褨 胁褨写褉褨蟹薪褟褞褌褜褋褟 胁褨写 褑褜芯谐芯 斜芯卸械胁褨谢谢褟. 袦懈 锌芯褔懈薪邪褦屑芯 褉芯蟹褋谢邪斜谢褟褌懈褋褟, 邪谢械 锌芯褌褨屑 薪邪褋 谢褟泻邪褦 写褍屑泻邪 锌褉芯 褌械, 褖芯 褑械 薪械 屑芯卸械 斜褍褌懈 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟屑, 斜芯 屑懈 薪械 胁褨写褔褍胁邪褦屑芯 蟹胁懈褔薪芯谐芯 褋褌邪薪褍 斜芯卸械胁褨谢褜薪芯褩 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨禄.
携 斜懈 锌芯褉邪写懈谢邪 锌褉芯褔懈褌邪褌懈 褑褞 泻薪懈谐褍 泻芯卸薪褨泄 卸褨薪褑褨/ 写褨胁褔懈薪褨, 薪械 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯 胁褨写 褌芯谐芯, 褍 褌芯泻褋懈褔薪懈褏 褔懈 蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 胁芯薪邪 锌械褉械斜褍胁邪褞褌褜.
袣薪懈谐邪 薪邪谢械卸懈褌褜 写芯 self-help 谢褨褌械褉邪褌褍褉懈 蟹 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褩, 薪邪锌懈褋邪薪邪 写芯褋褌褍锌薪芯 褨 谢械谐泻芯. 袩械褉械胁邪谐芯褞 泻薪懈谐懈 褦 褌械, 褖芯 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 写芯谢褍褔邪谢邪 斜邪谐邪褌芯 卸懈胁懈褏 写褨邪谢芯谐褨胁 蟹 锌邪褑褨褦薪褌邪屑懈, 泻芯屑械薪褌褍褞褔懈 褩褏薪褨 褋懈褌褍邪褑褨褩 褌邪 胁褔懈薪泻懈 褨蟹 褌芯褔泻懈 蟹芯褉褍 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐邪. 袨褋芯斜懈褋褌芯 屑械薪褨 褌邪泻懈泄 褋褌懈谢褜 胁懈泻谢邪写褍 写芯锌芯屑褨谐 泻褉邪褖械 锌芯斜邪褔懈褌懈 褋懈褌褍邪褑褨褞, 锌芯斜褍写褍胁邪褌懈 锌邪褉邪谢械谢褨 蟹 褉械邪谢褜薪懈屑 卸懈褌褌褟屑 褌邪 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨褌懈 锌褉芯斜谢械屑懈 褨蟹 褋械褉械写懈薪懈.
袞褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 泻芯褏邪褞褌褜 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 - 褑械 卸褨薪泻懈, 褟泻褨 锌械褉械斜褍胁邪褞褌褜 褍 褌芯泻褋懈褔薪懈褏, 写械褋褌褉褍泻褌懈胁薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏, 薪械 褉芯蟹褍屑褨褞褌褜 褋械斜械 褨 褋胁芯褩褏 锌邪褉褌薪械褉褨胁, 卸懈胁褍褌褜 褍 褋胁芯褩泄 胁懈谐邪写邪薪褨泄 褉械邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨. 孝邪泻褨 卸褨薪泻懈, 褟泻 锌褉邪胁懈谢芯, 锌芯褏芯写褟褌褜 褨蟹 写懈褋褎褍薪泻褑褨泄薪懈褏, 锌褉芯斜谢械屑薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪; 胁芯薪懈 屑邪谢懈 胁邪卸泻械 写懈褌懈薪褋褌胁芯, 锌芯蟹斜邪胁谢械薪械 械屑芯褑褨泄薪懈褏 蟹胁鈥櫻徯沸貉栃�; 褔邪褋褌芯 褍 褉芯写懈薪邪褏 褌邪泻懈褏 卸褨薪芯泻 斜褍谢邪 锌褉懈褋褍褌薪褜芯褞 锌褉芯斜谢械屑邪 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨蟹屑褍.
袛谢褟 屑械薪械 泻薪懈谐邪 斜褍谢邪 写芯胁芯谢褨 褑褨泻邪胁芯褞 褌邪 蟹屑褨褋褌芯胁芯褞. 袆写懈薪械, 褖芯 胁懈泻谢懈泻邪谢芯 褍 屑械薪械 褋褍屑薪褨胁, 斜褍谢芯 褌械, 褖芯 蟹写械斜褨谢褜褕芯谐芯 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 锌芯褟褋薪褞褦 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈 胁懈薪懈泻薪械薪薪褟 褌邪泻芯谐芯 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈 褍 卸褨薪芯泻 蟹 褋邪屑械 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨蟹屑芯屑 褍 褉芯写懈薪褨 (斜邪褌褜泻懈-邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褨泻懈) 褨 胁褋褟 泻薪懈谐邪 锌褉芯褋褟泻薪褍褌邪 褑懈屑 锌芯褟褋薪械薪薪褟屑 褌邪 屑械褌邪褎芯褉芯褞 (蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜 胁褨写 邪谢泻芯谐芯谢褞 = 蟹邪谢械卸薪褨褋褌褜 胁褨写 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪). 携 薪械 褦 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐芯屑 褨 屑械薪褨 褑褨泻邪胁芯, 褔懈 褦 褨薪褕褨 锌褉懈褔懈薪懈, 褟泻褨 屑芯褌懈胁褍褞褌褜 卸褨薪芯泻 薪邪 褌邪泻褍 写械褋褌褉褍泻褌懈胁薪褍 锌芯胁械写褨薪泻褍 褍 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 蟹 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻邪屑懈. 携 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔邪谢邪 写褨胁褔邪褌 褍 卸懈褌褌褨, 褟泻褨 锌芯褏芯写懈谢懈 蟹 斜谢邪谐芯锌芯谢褍褔薪懈褏 褉芯写懈薪, 薪械 锌褨写锌邪写邪谢懈 锌褨写 锌褉芯褎褨谢褜, 褟泻懈泄 芯锌懈褋褍褦 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪, 褨 胁褋械 卸 泻芯褏邪谢懈 写芯 薪械褋褌褟屑懈..
芦芦孝褉邪锌谢褟褦褌褜褋褟 褌邪泻, 鈥� 锌褉芯写芯胁卸褍褞 褟, 鈥� 褖芯 薪邪褕邪 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜 褋褌懈屑褍谢褞褦褌褜褋褟 薪邪泄褋懈谢褜薪褨褕械, 泻芯谢懈 屑懈 芯写械褉卸懈屑褨 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻芯屑.
校褋褨 褑褨 薪邪写屑褨褉薪褨 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 鈥� 薪械褌械褉锌谢褟褔械 芯褔褨泻褍胁邪薪薪褟 蟹褍褋褌褉褨褔褨, 卸邪褏
锌械褉械写 褉芯蟹谢褍褔械薪薪褟屑, 褋懈谢褜薪械 薪械褉胁芯胁械 蟹斜褍写卸械薪薪褟 鈥� 褋邪屑械 胁芯薪懈
褦 褋泻谢邪写芯胁懈屑懈 褌芯谐芯, 褖芯 屑懈 褉邪薪褨褕械 薪邪蟹懈胁邪谢懈 鈥炐盒狙呅靶叫窖徯�". 袧邪褋锌褉邪胁写褨 卸 褍褋械 褑械 薪褨褟泻 薪械 褋褌芯褋褍褦褌褜褋褟 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟. 袗谢械 胁褋褨 锌褨褋薪褨 锌褉芯 谢褞斜芯胁 薪邪屑邪谐邪褞褌褜褋褟 锌械褉械泻芯薪邪褌懈 薪邪褋 褍 锌褉芯褌懈谢械卸薪芯屑褍. 校褋褨 褑褨 鈥炐盒狙呅靶叫�, 褟 卸懈褌懈 斜械蟹 褌械斜械 薪械 屑芯卸褍". 袧褨褏褌芯 薪械 褋泻谢邪写邪褦 锌褨褋械薪褜 锌褉芯 褌械, 褟泻 锌褉芯褋褌芯 泄 蟹褉褍褔薪芯 卸懈褌懈 褍 蟹写芯褉芯胁懈褏 谢褞斜芯胁薪懈褏 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏.
校褋褨 锌懈褕褍褌褜 锌褉芯 褋褌褉邪卸写邪薪薪褟, 褋褌褉邪褏, 胁褌褉邪褌褍 泄 写褍褕械胁薪懈泄 斜褨谢褜. 袦懈 薪邪蟹懈胁邪褦屑芯 褑械 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟屑 褨 薪械 蟹薪邪褦屑芯, 褖芯 褉芯斜懈褌懈, 锌芯褌褉邪锌谢褟褞褔懈 褍 胁蟹邪褦屑懈薪懈, 褟泻褨 胁褨写褉褨蟹薪褟褞褌褜褋褟 胁褨写 褑褜芯谐芯 斜芯卸械胁褨谢谢褟. 袦懈 锌芯褔懈薪邪褦屑芯 褉芯蟹褋谢邪斜谢褟褌懈褋褟, 邪谢械 锌芯褌褨屑 薪邪褋 谢褟泻邪褦 写褍屑泻邪 锌褉芯 褌械, 褖芯 褑械 薪械 屑芯卸械 斜褍褌懈 泻芯褏邪薪薪褟屑, 斜芯 屑懈 薪械 胁褨写褔褍胁邪褦屑芯 蟹胁懈褔薪芯谐芯 褋褌邪薪褍 斜芯卸械胁褨谢褜薪芯褩 蟹邪谢械卸薪芯褋褌褨禄.
September 30, 2013
If you've ever described yourself or someone you know as a "serial monogamist" or have noticed that most your partners fit into a pattern of 鈥渄ifficult men鈥�, read this book. I had heard about relationship addiction in passing but never took it seriously before reading Robin Norwood's book. It is a serious condition that can have as much potential to negatively affect a person's life as any controlled substance. I appreciated Norwood's analysis of attitudes about love and man-woman relationships often prevent people from getting help because this kind of destructive, painful, dysfunctional love is what "true love" or "being a good wife/girlfriend/daughter/mother" is all about. Most media that we are exposed to reinforce this misperception and have done so for centuries across many cultures. The setting and characters may be different, but the lesson always boils down to, "being a woman in love is being a woman in pain." What was really eye-opening for me was when Norwood explained the connection between caring and control. That women who are addicted to relationships often use their desire to help their significant other to control their behavior. Of course, this is set up for disaster and heart ache, but women keep repeating this sick pattern over and over.
I learned the most from the first and last quarters of the book, but would have appreciated more attention to recovery than the repetitive anecdotes from women who suffer with addiction. This book is a "classic" for sure and the subject is still very relevant, but I thought it still has a very 80's vibe. The anecdotes from women who suffer from relationship addiction were helpful, but after reading so many depressing, cyclical stories I decided I needed to skim, or skip over some of them because they didn't really apply to what I was interested in taking away from this book. I think if the anecdotes were condensed more (it took up over two-thirds of the book in my estimation) I feel like I could have enjoyed it better, some of these stories were very difficult for me to read at one time.
I learned the most from the first and last quarters of the book, but would have appreciated more attention to recovery than the repetitive anecdotes from women who suffer with addiction. This book is a "classic" for sure and the subject is still very relevant, but I thought it still has a very 80's vibe. The anecdotes from women who suffer from relationship addiction were helpful, but after reading so many depressing, cyclical stories I decided I needed to skim, or skip over some of them because they didn't really apply to what I was interested in taking away from this book. I think if the anecdotes were condensed more (it took up over two-thirds of the book in my estimation) I feel like I could have enjoyed it better, some of these stories were very difficult for me to read at one time.
February 8, 2021
4,5猸�
听听听 Pentru 卯nceput, nu este vorba despre o carte pl芒ngacioas膬 de dragoste, ceea ce pute葲i g芒ndi la prima vederea a denumirii. ,,Femei care iubesc prea mult", e un roman psihologic, ce prezint膬 f膬r膬 fric膬 dramele tuturor femeilor care se plaseaz膬 mereu pe ultimul loc, oferind pozi葲iile din fa葲膬 altora (partenerului, prietenilor, familiei). Anun葲 preventiv c膬 nu am citit听 aceast膬 lucrare pentru c膬 m膬 aflu 葯i eu 卯n aceast膬 ipostaz膬.听 Dimpotriv膬, purul interes pentru a descoperi o latur膬 a g芒ndirii genului femenin m-a 卯ndemnat s膬 o studiez.
听听听听
听听 De men葲ionat este faptul c膬 cartea e alc膬tuit膬 din mai multe studii de caz asupra femeilor 葯i rela葲ion膬rii lor cu al葲i oameni. Autoarea, Robin Norwood,听 卯ncearc膬 s膬 descoase fiecare caz 卯n parte pentru a ajunge la geneza problemelor, care, negre葯it, se g膬se葯te 卯n copil膬ria clientelor sale. Ea pune accent pe faptul c膬 o femeie nu ajunge s膬 iubeasc膬 prea mult 卯nt芒mpl膬tor.听 R膬d膬cinile dependen葲ei rela葲ionale 葯i afective se g膬sesc 卯n familia disfunc葲ional膬 卯n care aceasta a crescut: abuziv膬, cu un p膬rinte, sau ambii alcoolici, dependen葲i fizic, absen葲i,听 frustra葲i, dezinteresa葲i sau cu lips膬 de dragoste 葯i afec葲iune. Aceste condi葲ii nes膬n膬toase se r膬sfr芒ng mai apoi involuntar asupra mentalit膬葲ii 葯i alegerilor luate de copil膬 卯n adolescen葲膬 葯i, mai apoi, pe parcursul 卯ntregii vie葲i, astfel ajung芒nd s膬-葯i aleag膬 parteneri de via葲膬 asem膬n膬tori cu p膬rin葲ii s膬i pentru a nu-葯i schimba mediul familiar.
听听
听听听 Ei bine, aici sunt oferite nu numai situa葲iile propriu zise de dragoste toxic膬 葯i distructiv膬, dar 葯i metodele de solu葲ionare 葯i recuperare emo葲ional膬. Citind, ve葲i 卯nv膬葲a cum s膬 nu mai iubi葲i prea mult 葯i ve葲i deveni o femeie s膬n膬toas膬, 卯ncrezut膬 卯n sine 葯i fericit膬.
听听听 Pentru 卯nceput, nu este vorba despre o carte pl芒ngacioas膬 de dragoste, ceea ce pute葲i g芒ndi la prima vederea a denumirii. ,,Femei care iubesc prea mult", e un roman psihologic, ce prezint膬 f膬r膬 fric膬 dramele tuturor femeilor care se plaseaz膬 mereu pe ultimul loc, oferind pozi葲iile din fa葲膬 altora (partenerului, prietenilor, familiei). Anun葲 preventiv c膬 nu am citit听 aceast膬 lucrare pentru c膬 m膬 aflu 葯i eu 卯n aceast膬 ipostaz膬.听 Dimpotriv膬, purul interes pentru a descoperi o latur膬 a g芒ndirii genului femenin m-a 卯ndemnat s膬 o studiez.
听听听听
听听 De men葲ionat este faptul c膬 cartea e alc膬tuit膬 din mai multe studii de caz asupra femeilor 葯i rela葲ion膬rii lor cu al葲i oameni. Autoarea, Robin Norwood,听 卯ncearc膬 s膬 descoase fiecare caz 卯n parte pentru a ajunge la geneza problemelor, care, negre葯it, se g膬se葯te 卯n copil膬ria clientelor sale. Ea pune accent pe faptul c膬 o femeie nu ajunge s膬 iubeasc膬 prea mult 卯nt芒mpl膬tor.听 R膬d膬cinile dependen葲ei rela葲ionale 葯i afective se g膬sesc 卯n familia disfunc葲ional膬 卯n care aceasta a crescut: abuziv膬, cu un p膬rinte, sau ambii alcoolici, dependen葲i fizic, absen葲i,听 frustra葲i, dezinteresa葲i sau cu lips膬 de dragoste 葯i afec葲iune. Aceste condi葲ii nes膬n膬toase se r膬sfr芒ng mai apoi involuntar asupra mentalit膬葲ii 葯i alegerilor luate de copil膬 卯n adolescen葲膬 葯i, mai apoi, pe parcursul 卯ntregii vie葲i, astfel ajung芒nd s膬-葯i aleag膬 parteneri de via葲膬 asem膬n膬tori cu p膬rin葲ii s膬i pentru a nu-葯i schimba mediul familiar.
听听
听听听 Ei bine, aici sunt oferite nu numai situa葲iile propriu zise de dragoste toxic膬 葯i distructiv膬, dar 葯i metodele de solu葲ionare 葯i recuperare emo葲ional膬. Citind, ve葲i 卯nv膬葲a cum s膬 nu mai iubi葲i prea mult 葯i ve葲i deveni o femeie s膬n膬toas膬, 卯ncrezut膬 卯n sine 葯i fericit膬.
January 26, 2020
E prima carte de acest gen care are un impact asupra mea. Cump膬rat膬 ini葲ial膬 pentru a fi f膬cut膬 cadou (titlul era prea siropos pentru ceva ce as fi citit eu), cartea asta mi a oferit r膬spunsuri (!!!) 葯i mi a schimbat cumva perspectivele, ceea ce mi se pare incredibil. Este scris膬 intr un stil lejer, astfel ca se cite葯te u葯or. Am recomandat o prietenelor mele 葯i o recomand oricui, m膬car pentru a-i 卯n葲elege pe al葲ii, dac膬 nu pe noi 卯n葯ine. :)
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