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袣褨薪褔邪泄! 孝胁芯褦 锌褉邪胁芯 薪邪 蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪薪褟

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袣芯卸薪邪 写褉褍谐邪 卸褨薪泻邪 胁褨泻芯屑 胁褨写 18 写芯 35 褉芯泻褨胁 蟹邪蟹胁懈褔邪泄 薪械 芯褌褉懈屑褍褦 芯褉谐邪蟹屑褍 锌褨写 褔邪褋 褋械泻褋褍 蟹 锌邪褉褌薪械褉芯屑. 袉 锌褉懈褔懈薪邪 薪械 胁 卸褨薪泻邪褏. 袧邪褍泻芯胁懈褑褟 袥芯褉褨 袦褨薪褑, 褟泻邪 胁懈泻谢邪写邪褦 泻褍褉褋 蟹 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褩 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨 胁 校薪褨胁械褉褋懈褌械褌褨 肖谢芯褉懈写懈, 锌褉芯胁械谢邪 覒褉褍薪褌芯胁薪械 写芯褋谢褨写卸械薪薪褟, 褖芯 芯褏芯锌谢褞褦 褋褎械褉懈 斜褨芯谢芯谐褨褩, 褋芯褑褨芯谢芯谐褨褩, 泻褍谢褜褌褍褉芯谢芯谐褨褩, 谢褨薪谐胁褨褋褌懈泻懈 褌邪 褋械泻褋芯谢芯谐褨褩.
校 薪褜芯屑褍 胁芯薪邪 锌芯褟褋薪褞褦, 褔芯屑褍 褌邪泻 斜邪谐邪褌芯 卸褨薪芯泻 薪械 泻褨薪褔邪褞褌褜 褨蟹 锌邪褉褌薪械褉邪屑懈, 褟泻 蟹鈥櫻徰佈冃残靶恍狙佈�, 锌褉懈褔懈薪邪 胁 褋褍褋锌褨谢褜褋褌胁褨, 泻褍谢褜褌褍褉褨 褨 薪邪胁褨褌褜 屑芯胁褨. 袙芯薪邪 褌邪泻芯卸 褉芯蟹锌芯胁褨写邪褦 锌褉芯 薪邪泄胁邪卸谢懈胁褨褕懈泄 卸褨薪芯褔懈泄 褋褌邪褌械胁懈泄 芯褉谐邪薪 褨 卸褨薪芯褔褍 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜, 邪 谐芯谢芯胁薪械 鈥� 写邪褦 薪邪褋褌邪薪芯胁懈 褌邪 锌褉邪泻褌懈褔薪褨 锌芯褉邪写懈, 褖芯 写芯锌芯屑芯卸褍褌褜 卸褨薪泻邪屑 芯褌褉懈屑褍胁邪褌懈 芯褉谐邪蟹屑懈. 袩褉芯褌械 泻薪懈卸泻邪 薪械 褌褨谢褜泻懈 写谢褟 卸褨薪芯泻, 褍 薪褨泄 褦 芯泻褉械屑懈泄 褉芯蟹写褨谢 褨 写谢褟 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁.
"笑褟 泻薪懈卸泻邪 鈥� must read 薪械 褌褨谢褜泻懈 写谢褟 卸褨薪芯泻, 邪谢械 泄 写谢褟 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁. 袙芯薪邪 薪械 褋褌褨谢褜泻懈 锌褉芯 芯褉谐邪蟹屑 褌邪 褋械泻褋, 褋泻褨谢褜泻懈 锌褉芯 薪芯褉屑邪谢褜薪械 褋锌褉懈泄薪褟褌褌褟 褋胁芯谐芯 褌褨谢邪, 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯褋褌褨. 袗 褖械 鈥� 锌褉芯 泻芯屑褍薪褨泻邪褑褨褞 屑褨卸 锌邪褉褌薪械褉邪屑懈: 锌褉芯 褉芯蟹屑芯胁懈, 褟泻褨 写芯锌芯屑邪谐邪褞褌褜 写芯褋褟谐褌懈 斜褨谢褜褕芯谐芯 褉芯蟹褍屑褨薪薪褟 胁 锌邪褉褨 褨 褌褨谢械褋薪褨泄 胁蟹邪褦屑芯写褨褩, 锌褉芯 胁褋褌邪薪芯胁谢械薪薪褟 褔褨褌泻懈褏 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪懈褏 泻芯褉写芯薪褨胁, 锌褉芯 胁屑褨薪薪褟 胁懈褋谢芯胁谢褞胁邪褌懈 褋胁芯褩 斜邪卸邪薪薪褟 "褋谢芯胁邪屑懈 褔械褉械蟹 褉芯褌". 袥芯褉褨 袦褨薪褑 薪械 胁褨写泻褉懈胁邪褦 袗屑械褉懈泻褍, 邪谢械 写邪褦 屑芯卸谢懈胁褨褋褌褜 锌芯谐谢褟薪褍褌懈 薪邪 褋械泻褋 蟹 褨薪褕芯谐芯 斜芯泻褍, 写械 褨 卸褨薪芯褔褨, 褨 褔芯谢芯胁褨褔褨 芯褉谐邪蟹屑懈 褦 芯写薪邪泻芯胁芯 胁邪卸谢懈胁懈屑懈 泄 褉褨胁薪懈屑懈. 孝芯卸 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 褏芯褔械褌械 薪邪褉械褕褌褨 蟹褉芯蟹褍屑褨褌懈, 褖芯 蟹 胁邪屑懈 胁褋械 写芯斜褉械, 褖芯 胁懈 邪斜褋芯谢褞褌薪芯 薪芯褉屑邪谢褜薪褨, "袣褨薪褔邪泄" 鈥� 褋邪屑械 写谢褟 胁邪褋!"
挟谢褨褟 携褉屑芯谢械薪泻芯, 褋械泻褋-锌械写邪谐芯谐, 械泻褋锌械褉褌泻邪 蟹 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯褩 芯褋胁褨褌懈.

304 pages, Hardcover

First published January 1, 2017

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Laurie Mintz

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Laurie Mintz (Ph.D.) is a tenured college professor at the University of Florida, who teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to over 150 students a year. She is also a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of experience working with private clients, on both general and sexual issues. She is the author of two books aimed at empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. She has also published over 50 research studies, writes a popular Psychology Today blog and has been quoted extensively in Parenting, Cosmopolitan, Prevention, Woman鈥檚 Day, Women鈥檚 Health, Men鈥檚 Health, CNN.com, Oprah.com and HuffingtonPost.com. When she's not writing, teaching, or seeing clients, Laurie enjoys walking, yoga, and spending time with family and friends.

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886 reviews369 followers
February 29, 2020
This book is a must-have for every person who has a vulva (heck yeah, applying lessons from the book) or would like to help pleasure someone who has one.

Before reading this, I was fairly skeptical. I had the feeling that it would be the type of book 40+ year old housewives read that makes them name their genitalia, speak about it as if it has feelings and suggests group masturbation sessions to everyone they know. Which, isn't bad but is definitely not who I am.

However, this book is so so far from this. Before reading it, I thought my sexual knowledge was, well, average. However, looking at it now, I feel like sex education has cheated me because there's so much that just gets ignored or doesn't get enough attention. The sex education that I remember highlighted the dangers of unsafe sex and talked about all the ways you can suddenly get pregnant. I don't even remember the idea of pleasure being involved, let alone a conversation about the importance of communicating during sex.

I had no idea how many of the ideas that I hold do not reflecting my thoughts or knowledge. Like, despite everything, I've always considered sex = penetration even though I have the knowledge that not all sex includes penetration. It's like there's this dissonance between the factual knowledge that I hold and the way I view things and this book managed to help close that gap.

The author writes so clearly and accessible. She manages to make these topics casual, informative and understandable. It's just so clear and so well written. It's science based yet not heavy, funny yet smart. Really, you do get the feeling like it's a counseling session.

I found myself sitting down and literally re-evaluating every sexual encounter I've ever had. It was enlightening to suddenly reconsider and redefine how I've been thinking about intimacy and sexual encounters. Reading a book that suddenly makes you go, "wow, I've been looking at this the wrong way" is such a powerful and positive experience.

It was fascinating to consider how many myths exist around an action that is so normal, you know? People still think penis size influences their performance or that anyone cares about the appearance of the lips of the vulva. We've failed ourselves when there's so much social pressure that is just false and harmful. This book does much to clean this away. It's so sad to consider how much of sex is still portrayed as shameful, from slut-shaming to the "walk of shame", our culture really doesn't do enough to show the sheer beauty of sexuality and intimacy.

The parts about communication were interesting as well. I mean, I did know and have experienced how important communication before, during and after sex can be but it was great to hear about all these examples and truly see how much of an impact simply saying what you think and want can have.

Mintz talks about the power of language and truly, reading this, I found myself thinking about how the word in Hebrew for clit is embarrassing. It comes from the same word "tickle" and it's just not a word that I would feel comfortable using in my daily life. This really makes me wonder what it's like in other languages and how international and culturally broad is this phenomenon. Totally tempted to ask bilinguals now what's the cultural usage of the word clit.

And speaking of language, my one and only word of criticism toward this book is that it's not queer friendly enough. Sure, the author tries her best to include the idea that sex isn't just man and woman but it's not trans-friendly at all. Just as we need to stop saying vagina when we mean vulva, we need to stop saying women when we mean people with a specific set of genitalia. This idea that women all have vulvas ignores approximately 0.6% of the population that are trans and maybe do not have the genitalia you'd assume.

And yeah, some people might argue that that's minor but when you look at the insane number of trans women that get murdered, this idea becomes insidious. Gender isn't a binary and it's high time we stopped seeing sex as a binary as well. Every time I hear people speak up about this, I immediately think about how I was beginning to date this girl and eventually she goes, "I have to tell you something," and there was actual fear in her eyes as she told me she's trans, literally apologized and assured me that it's okay if that's a deal breaker. We are not doing nearly enough to make the dating and hook-up scene comfortable for queer people and feminist books like this should absolutely talk about this.

Apart from this, I feel like I've learned a lot and am really happy to have read this. When I write reviews, I do think about how everything you write online is permanent and can be seen by everyone (often without your knowledge) but at the same time, yeah, I'm totally going to own the fact that I read a book about orgasms cause I don't need this shame in my life.

What I'm Taking With Me
- Guys do want to make sure their partner enjoys the experience, claiming that they simply care about their own pleasure is unfair and really, the problem is the culture around us and the lack of communication and understanding of the biology.
- Arousal is a state where your body sends more blood to your genitalia without it flowing back. Then, an orgasm is when the blood rushes back. A female and a male orgasm are exactly the same, although the process is external for people with penises (that is, an erection) and internal for people with vulvas.
- Vulvas! Vagina refers only to a part of the vulva and when we use the word vagina, we imply that the entire genitalia is simply the part that gives pleasure to people with penises and that's not right at all.
- Only around 5% of the women manage to experience an orgasm during hook-up sex for the first time. This statistic is so so wild, like that number is tiny.
- The idea of the clit as something that is solely meant for pleasure.

Uni Adventures
- aHH, this coming week is going to be so hard and I have so many hard choices ahead of me which is leading to me panicking which is messing up with my studying.
- In other news, I'm redoing Ethics and seriously, fuck this, I can't believe I need to reread Kant again, haven't I suffered enough?
- This week was just me trying to study, getting distracted, going to a coffee shop, studying really well, missing all of my study goals, and feeling sad.
- I went to another philosophy conference and have reached the conclusion that philosophers are seriously just mean to each other. There's no way around it, we should just go back to Ancient Greece and the agora, things were better there.
- Seeing a grad student from Chicago get brutally attacked by like 3 Israeli philosophy professors was just so sad and he was so visibly upset and yeah okay, his lecture wasn't great and ultimately, I had no idea what he was trying to say but still.
- I've just been listening to Eurovision in the hopes that maybe that will add joy to Econ and it's sad to think that Israel's song choice is just so bad.
- Okay, so we have elections on Monday and as a Politics major, I feel obligated to vote but I also don't feel like any one of the parties deserves my vote, I feel like they're all equally terrible and there's no one, although 40 parties are running.
- It's embarrassingly hard (as Mintz would say, no pun intended) not to think about the game Plague whenever people bring up statistics about Corona.
- Man, can the new semester just start already, I'm so over this?
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January 13, 2022
Looking for a smart, sassy book about feminism and sexuality and equal-opportunity orgasms? Becoming Cliterate is your gal.

It鈥檚 this year鈥檚 Come As You Are! With a complete focus on vulvas! This book is set up like a college textbook for female orgasm, with some philosophy and pep talks and then some hands-on experimenting. And a chapter at the end for male partners to read. What more could you need?

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April 24, 2022
胁 褑褨谢芯屑褍, 褔械褉械蟹 泻薪懈卸泻褍 锌褉芯褏芯写懈褌褜 芯写薪邪 (褋锌褉邪胁写褨 胁邪卸谢懈胁邪) 褌械屑邪 - 薪械 蟹邪斜褍胁邪褌懈 锌褉芯 泻谢褨褌芯褉 褨 锌邪屑鈥櫻徰傂把傂�, 褖芯 胁褨薪 谐芯谢芯胁薪懈泄 褍 锌懈褌邪薪薪褨 卸褨薪芯褔芯谐芯 蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪薪褟. 褌邪泻芯卸 胁邪卸谢懈胁芯 褋锌褨谢泻褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 蟹 锌邪褉褌薪械褉芯屑 褌邪 写芯褋谢褍褏邪褌懈褋褟 写芯 胁谢邪褋薪芯谐芯 褌褨谢邪, 胁懈胁褔邪褌懈 泄芯谐芯.

胁褋械 褑械 锌褉邪胁懈谢褜薪芯 褌邪 写褨泄褋薪芯 写芯锌芯屑芯卸械 锌邪褉邪屑 褉褨蟹薪芯谐芯 胁褨泻褍. 锌褉芯褌械, 泻芯褉懈褋薪芯褩 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褩 写褍卸械 薪械斜邪谐邪褌芯. 褋褌懈褋谢邪 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褟 薪邪泄谐芯谢芯胁薪褨褕芯谐芯, 邪 褍褋褟 褨薪褕邪 泻薪懈卸泻邪 薪邪锌芯胁薪械薪邪 锌芯褉邪写邪屑懈 褌邪 薪械锌芯褌褉褨斜薪懈屑懈 芦褋械泻褋 锌鈥櫻斞佇靶夹嘎�, 褖械 褨 锌褉芯写褍斜谢褜芯胁邪薪懈屑懈 写胁邪 褉邪蟹懈.

胁褋褞 褑褞 泻薪懈卸泻褍 屑芯卸薪邪 褍褟胁懈褌懈 褍 胁懈谐谢褟写褨 薪械胁械谢懈褔泻芯褩, 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨泄薪芯褩 谐谢褟薪褑械胁芯褩 斜褉芯褕褍褉懈 薪邪 褋褌芯褉褨薪芯泻 褌邪泻 锌鈥櫻徰傃�, 褟泻邪 薪械褋谢邪 斜懈 褌褍 褋邪屑褍 泻芯褉懈褋褌褜, 褖芯 褨 褑褨 褌褉懈褋褌邪.
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708 reviews2 followers
June 13, 2017
Can't go wrong with this book. It's interesting (and annoying) how women's pleasure takes a major backseat to men's, historically. You might learn something, your partner might learn something. One little change for me is that I taught my daughter the word vulva and use it when applicable instead of the anatomically incorrect catchall "vagina." I hope it's the beginning of our open, appropriate, shame-free, body-positive conversations.
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278 reviews73 followers
June 21, 2022
Every Man and Woman needs to read this book. It is full of knowledge to educate you on a whole different level. It gives the ability to take your lover to new heights and pleasure. I knew a lot about sex prior to reading this book, but I walked away with so much more information to use....馃拫
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1,086 reviews45 followers
July 18, 2022
While the title may not hold universal appeal, I found this book to be a fascinating resource about women鈥檚 sexuality. The author is so sincere in her desire to help young women discover and enjoy their bodies. She provides a wealth of information on anatomy and function, including graphs, statistics, and illustrations. I loved that about this book.
On the other hand, I found her language usage to be, well鈥ess than elegant. She has a sense of humor that just doesn鈥檛 work for me鈥攅ven in the title.
Anyhow, the book was an easy read and I seriously thought I should buy copies for my (young adult) daughters.
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694 reviews48 followers
July 14, 2017
This book is an easy, lively read, and offers lots of good information about women's sexuality and especially the clitoris - what it is, how it contributes to arousal and pleasure, and how women can become more adept lovers (and self-lovers). That said, part of Mintz' purpose is to lay to rest the myth that good sex has to involve vaginal penetration, by a penis or anything else. To that end, she minimizes and then dismisses as largely irrelevant information about the g-spot and other loci of arousal and pleasure beyond the clitoris. That strikes me as unfortunate. But, the book has a lot of useful facts and attitudes to share about the clitoris, and I suppose there are plenty of other books out there emphasizing other aspects of women's sexuality. The book includes a special chapter aimed at men; it largely recycles and abridges text from the rest of the book, which is fine, but as a guy, I found it worth reading the whole thing.
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158 reviews10 followers
April 17, 2021
袣薪懈谐邪 锌褉械写薪邪蟹薪邪褔械薪邪 写谢褟 褉械褕械薪懈褟 泻褍谢褜褌褍褉薪芯泄 锌褉芯斜谢械屑褘 写懈褋锌褉芯锌芯褉褑懈懈 芯褉谐邪蟹屑邪. 袦褍卸褔懈薪褘 懈褋锌褘褌褘胁邪褞褌 芯褉谐邪蟹屑 谐芯褉邪蟹写芯 褔邪褖械, 褔械屑 卸械薪褖懈薪褘. 袣褍谢褜褌褍褉薪芯 褋谢芯卸懈谢芯褋褜 屑薪械薪懈械, 褔褌芯 芯褌 锌械薪械褌褉邪褑懈懈 卸械薪褖懈薪邪 泻芯薪褔邪械褌 褌邪泻 卸械 谢械谐泻芯, 泻邪泻 懈 屑褍卸褔懈薪邪, 泻芯谐写邪 薪邪 褋邪屑芯屑 写械谢械 褝褌芯 锌褉邪胁写邪 胁褋械谐芯 谢懈褕褜 写谢褟 5% 卸械薪褖懈薪. 袩芯写邪胁谢褟褞褖械械 斜芯谢褜褕懈薪褋褌胁芯 泻芯薪褔邪褞褌 芯褌 锌褉褟屑芯泄 懈谢懈 泻芯褋胁械薪薪芯泄 褋褌懈屑褍谢褟褑懈懈 泻谢懈褌芯褉邪. 小褌懈屑褍谢褟褑懈褟 泻谢懈褌芯褉邪 褌邪泻 卸械 胁邪卸薪邪, 泻邪泻 褋褌懈屑褍谢褟褑懈褟 锌芯谢芯胁芯谐芯 褔谢械薪邪. 袙芯褌 谐谢邪胁薪褘泄 锌芯褋褘谢 褝褌芯泄 泻薪懈谐懈. 袟写械褋褜 械褋褌褜 谐谢邪胁褘, 锌芯蟹胁芯谢褟褞褖懈械 懈蟹褍褔懈褌褜 锟斤拷胁芯懈 锌芯谢芯胁褘械 芯褉谐邪薪褘, 锌褉懈屑械褉褘 屑邪褋褌褍褉斜邪褑懈懈, 芯褔械薪褜 屑薪芯谐芯 褉械泻芯屑械薪写邪褑懈泄 泻 锌褉芯褔褌械薪懈褞 懈 锌褉芯褋屑芯褌褉褍 褔褌芯斜褘 褍蟹薪邪褌褜 褋械斜褟 谢褍褔褕械 懈 懈蟹斜邪胁懈褌褜褋褟 芯褌 薪械胁械褉薪芯谐芯 褍斜械卸写械薪懈褟 泻芯谐写邪-褌芯 蟹邪谢芯卸械薪薪芯谐芯 肖褉械泄写芯屑 - 褔褌芯 卸械薪褖懈薪邪 薪械 懈褋锌褘褌褘胁邪褞褖邪褟 芯褉谐邪蟹屑 锌褉懈 锌械薪懈谢褜薪芯-胁邪谐懈薪邪谢褜薪芯屑 邪泻褌械 - 褎褉懈谐懈写薪邪褟. 协褌芯 芯褔械薪褜 锌邪谐褍斜薪芯 锌芯胁谢懈褟谢芯 薪邪 褉邪胁械薪褋褌胁芯 芯褉谐邪蟹屑芯胁. 袘谢邪谐芯, 褋械泄褔邪褋 锌懈褕褍褌褋褟 褌邪泻懈械 泻薪懈谐懈 懈 胁 屑邪褋褋褘 锌褉芯写胁懈谐邪械褌褋褟 泻褍谢褜褌褍褉邪 泻谢懈褌芯褉邪. 孝邪泻卸械, 屑薪械 芯褔械薪褜 锌芯薪褉邪胁懈谢邪褋褜 谐谢邪胁邪 锌褉芯 褉邪蟹胁懈褌懈械 薪邪胁褘泻芯胁 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯泄 泻芯屑屑褍薪懈泻邪褑懈懈 懈 锌褉芯 锌械褉械薪芯褋 褋锌芯褋芯斜芯胁 屑邪褋褌褍褉斜邪褑懈懈 胁 锌邪褉褌薪褢褉褋泻懈泄 褋械泻褋. 小芯胁械褌褍褞 械褢 胁褋械屑 写械胁褍褕泻邪屑. 袗斜褋芯谢褞褌薪芯 胁褋械屑. 袞邪谢械褞, 褔褌芯 薪械 锌褉芯褔懈褌邪谢邪 械褢 械褖褢 胁 褋邪屑芯屑 薪邪褔邪谢械 锌芯谢芯胁芯泄 卸懈蟹薪懈. 携 锌芯褌械褉褟谢邪 褋褌芯谢褜泻芯 芯褉谐邪蟹屑芯胁 - 薪械 褋褔械褋褌褜, 薪芯 蟹邪褌芯 褋泻芯谢褜泻芯 卸械 懈褏 胁锌械褉械写懈! 袠 胁褋褢 斜谢邪谐芯写邪褉褟 袥芯褉懈 袦懈薪褌褑 :)
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320 reviews35 followers
December 7, 2020
袛谢褟 褔芯谢芯胁褨泻褨胁 褌褍褌 薪械 褌邪泻 斜邪谐邪褌芯 锌芯褉邪写. 袗谢械 褌褨, 褟泻褨 褦, 褑褨谢泻芯屑 褋谢褍褕薪褨.
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Author听15 books20 followers
April 5, 2021
芦袪芯斜褨褌褜 褌械, 褖芯 胁邪屑 锌褨写泻邪蟹褍褞褌褜 锌芯褔褍褌褌褟 褌邪 斜邪卸邪薪薪褟, 薪械 蟹邪斜褍胁邪褞褔懈 锌芯写斜邪褌懈 锌褉芯 褌械, 褖芯斜懈 写芯斜褉械 锌芯褔褍胁邪褌懈褋褟 薪邪褋褌褍锌薪芯谐芯 写薪褟.禄
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250 reviews36 followers
June 9, 2024
楔泻芯写邪, 泻芯谢懈 屑械薪褨 斜褍谢芯 20-25 褉芯泻褨胁, 薪邪胁泻芯谢芯 斜褍胁 谢懈褕械 褉芯褋褨泄泻芯屑芯胁薪懈泄 褕谢邪泻 锌褉芯 25 谢褍褔褕褨褏 锌芯蟹 胁 褋械泻褋褦, 薪邪褋褌芯谢褜薪邪褟 泻邪屑邪褋褍褌褉邪 褨 泻邪泻 褍写芯胁谢褦褌胁芯褉褨褌褜 屑褍卸褔褨薪褍, 邪 薪械 芯褑褟 泻芯褉懈褋薪邪 褉褨褔.
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761 reviews104 followers
October 20, 2020
袛械谢褜薪邪褟 泻薪懈谐邪 锌褉芯 芯褉谐邪蟹屑, 褋 谐谢邪胁薪芯泄 屑褘褋谢褜褞 懈 薪褍卸薪褘屑懈 锌芯写褉芯斜薪芯褋褌褟屑懈. 袝褋褌褜 谢懈褕薪懈械 谢懈褉懈褔械褋泻懈械 芯褌褋褌褍锌谢械薪懈褟, 薪芯 芯褋薪芯胁薪邪褟 褌械屑邪 薪械 蟹邪斜褘褌邪 懈 褉邪褋泻褉褘褌邪 胁 锌芯谢薪芯泄 屑械褉械. 袦芯卸薪芯 褉械泻芯屑械薪写芯胁邪褌褜
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34 reviews
October 27, 2017
I received this book as a 欧宝娱乐 giveaway (and I鈥檓 so glad I did). This is a very charming, sex positive and thorough look at the female orgasm that reads like a how to from your friendly local sexpert therapist who also happens to be a highly educated feminist. As a psychotherapist, I so appreciated the additional knowledge and ways of engaging with my clients around orgasm/pleasure/beliefs around what sex 鈥渟hould鈥� be. All around one of the better psychology books I鈥檝e read because I know I can take this material directly into my social justice/integrative work (though you do not have to be a therapist to gain incredible value here). Thanks Dr. Mintz!
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286 reviews1 follower
January 9, 2022
Yup, I read a book about sex. I almost didn't include it in my Read list,but then I realized I'd be perpetuating the weird shame women have around talking about sexuality.

This book gave a fascinating look at why women are uncomfortable talking about sex, how feminism has changed sexuality, and encourages women to appreciate the uniqueness of their own bodies.
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171 reviews
October 8, 2017
Highly recommend! I actually got a chance to speak with the author recently. She is as empowering, friendly, and genuine as she comes across in the book. Great down-to-earth advice and education. I will definitely recommend this book to clients and friends.
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Author听19 books44 followers
January 6, 2018
This book was fantastic! If you鈥檙e ready to have your entire mindset shifted around your pleasure (ladies, I鈥檓 talking to you) and why your orgasms matter (plus, bonuses on how to get there!) then you need to read this gem of a book!

So glad I picked it up! Will be buying for all my friends.
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145 reviews2 followers
March 10, 2025
芦携泻褨褋薪懈泄 褋械泻褋 锌芯褔懈薪邪褦褌褜褋褟 蟹 褉褨胁薪芯褋褌褨禄
袘械蟹 锌芯褏邪斜褖懈薪懈 锌褉芯 褉芯蟹褍屑褨薪薪褟 褋械斜械 褨 锌芯褌褉械斜 褋胁芯谐芯 褌褨谢邪, 锌褉芯 褉褨胁薪褨褋褌褜 芯褉谐邪蟹屑褨胁.
袧械 斜械蟹 胁芯写懈. 袦邪褦 锌芯褦写薪邪薪薪褟 褨 褎褨蟹褨芯谢芯谐褨褔薪懈褏, 褨 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪懈褏 邪褋锌械泻褌褨胁 邪谢械 蟹 褔褨褌泻懈屑 锌芯褋懈谢邪薪薪褟屑, 褖芯 褟泻褖芯 谐芯胁芯褉懈褌懈 胁褨写胁械褉褌芯, 褉芯褌芯屑 褋谢芯胁邪, 褌芯 薪邪 蟹写芯褉芯胁褨泄 泻芯屑褍薪褨泻邪褑褨褩..

笑褨泻邪胁褨 蟹谐邪写泻懈 锌褉芯 褨褋褌械褉褨褞, 锌械褉褕褨 胁褨斜褉邪褌芯褉懈, 泻谢褨褌芯褋胁褨褌褍. 袪邪薪写芯屑薪褨 褎邪泻褌懈 锌褉芯 褉褨蟹薪褨 写芯褋谢褨写卸械薪薪褟, 斜邪谐邪褌芯 褋褍屑薪芯褩 褋褌邪褌懈褋褌懈泻懈. 袟邪谐邪谢芯屑 泻芯褉懈褋薪邪 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褟, 胁褉邪褏芯胁褍褞褔懈 褏懈斜褍 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯褩 芯褋胁褨褌懈 褔懈 褌芯 锌芯泻芯谢褨薪薪褟, 褔懈 褌芯 褋褍褌芯 褌械褉懈褌芯褉褨邪谢褜薪褨. 袩褉懈 锌芯锌邪写邪薪薪褨 胁 褉褍泻懈 胁 锌褉邪胁懈谢褜薪芯屑褍 胁褨褑褨 - 蟹芯谢芯褌芯 蟹芯谢芯褌械

袗 肖褉芯泄写 谐褨胁薪褞泻, 芦泻褨谢械褉, 褟泻懈泄 蟹邪胁写邪胁 芯褋褌邪薪薪褜芯谐芯 褍写邪褉褍.. 锌芯 泻谢褨褌芯褉褍禄
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50 reviews11 followers
June 7, 2023
袛褍卸械 胁邪卸谢懈胁邪 泻薪懈卸泻邪, 薪邪 褟泻褍 褌褉械斜邪 薪邪锌懈褋邪褌懈 芯谐谢褟写. 袗谢械 锌芯泻懈 褖芯 褟 谢械卸褍 薪邪 写薪褨 馃槄 啸褨斜邪 蟹芯 屑芯卸褍 褋泻邪蟹邪褌懈, 蟹芯 褖懈褉芯 褉械泻芯屑械薪写褍褞.
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66 reviews34 followers
April 9, 2022
I鈥檓 cliterate now! If you still think that penetration of penis inside vagina is called sex; this book is for you.
For so many generations female pleasure has been discouraged and ignored. As a result in most heterosexual relationship there is an inequality in receiving pleasure. 90% of woman don鈥檛 orgasm via penetration alone! Which means that most penetrative sex has been giving pleasure only to men. It鈥檚 not a surprise considering females have always been given a backseat for generations. But times can change, and this book is a start. Anyone can be cliterate, people don鈥檛 really need to have clit to be cliterate. If you really want to pleasure your female partner or if you鈥檙e a female who wants to enjoy sex and orgasm, the answer is the clit! Say it proud!
Dr. Laurie mintz has made this such a fun read full or puns that it is hard not to enjoy. It opened my eyes in terms of what society considers as sex. And all my concerns were validated. I鈥檓 really glad she made it a point to make the book keeping both male and female readers in mind. Because it鈥檚 high time everyone learns this since sex education everywhere stops at 鈥渘ot getting pregnant and stds鈥�.
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7 reviews7 followers
August 6, 2017
"Becoming Cliterate" by Dr Laurie Mintz is an amazing book for anyone who wants to learn about female sexuality and specifically the clitoris, the one human organ solely responsible for pleasure. According to research, only 5% of women achieve orgasms through penetration only, an overwhelming 95% need some form of clitorial stimulation. Yet we as a society almost never talk about the clitoris, men who learn about sex through porn think thay penetration is all a woman needs to orgasm. So in turn women orgam way less than men and actually feel pressured to fake orgasms and it's not ok! This book debunks alot of sex myths with research and it teaches everyone how to become aware and more Cliterate, and how to enjoy our own bodies and those of others. It's a must read. We need a sexual satisfaction revolution for women!
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Author听10 books894 followers
June 21, 2017
I'm not sure what I expected Becoming Cliterate to be when I started reading, but it isn't what it was, which was a smart, funny look at the female orgasm. The author did an excellent job of presenting the information in a way that wasn't too clinical. She added sass and humor when needed to keep the reader engaged, but covered the female body and the science of how and why orgasms work--complete with a chapter for the male partner.

Full Disclosure: I was invited by the publisher to read this title in exchange for my honest and unbiased review. I received no monetary compensation, and all comments are subjective and mine alone.
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844 reviews11 followers
August 2, 2017
Some good information in this book. For the most part, there wasn't much that was new to me. Cementing biological knowledge mostly. However, that being said, if one knows nothing about the clit or isn't sure how to communicate with a potential partner, this book would be a valuable resource. I know people who would probably benefit from reading this. I very much appreciate Mintz's desire to change the cultural dialogue regarding sex, the clit, women's orgasms, intercourse, how society refers to our genitalia. So it's most certainly a book that is needed.
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Author听4 books18 followers
October 1, 2017
If you have had an orgasm, have not had an orgasm, care about having or giving orgasms.....this is probably on a must-read list for you. Laurie Mintz does an excellent job of dispelling the myth of how orgasms occur, why porn and movies have perpetuated this myth and totally ruined it for women, and how to ........the list goes on and on. Easy to read style that is just the right amount of girl talk and science. And yes..there is a chapter for men to read to. :)
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136 reviews
August 31, 2023
As a man, I probably should've read only the last chapter. Nevertheless, it gave me good pointers and understanding into women's POV in sex.

This book is much more than just an anatomy lesson, it covers many cultural, social and linguistic biases that we unconsciously carry and bring to our relationships. The author not only points these myths but even gives suggestions to dispel them.

The book's pace is great and contains many resources to further read on particular topics.
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126 reviews1 follower
August 20, 2019
I get the writing style is supposed to be conversational to make it easier to read, but I found it annoying. The book was also longer than needed. The basic point is this: whichever you have, dick or clit stimulation is where orgasms most often come from. So typical penis-in-vagina sex doesn't cut it for most people with clits.
Saved you a read.
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37 reviews1 follower
January 20, 2018
This is so important. Everyone that has a cookie or loves someone with a cookie needs this book.馃尫
love. love. love.
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350 reviews39 followers
April 12, 2021
袛褍卸械 胁邪卸谢懈胁邪 泻薪懈谐邪 写谢褟 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯褩 芯褋胁褨褌懈, 邪谢械 褌褉芯褏懈 蟹邪褌褟谐薪褍褌邪.
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January 12, 2025
携泻褖芯 锌褨写褋褍屑褍胁邪褌懈 锌褉芯褔懈褌邪薪械 芯写薪懈屑 褉械褔械薪薪褟屑, 褌芯 褑械 斜褍写械 褑懈褌邪褌邪 蟹 泻薪懈谐懈: "携泻褨褋薪懈泄 褋械泻褋 锌芯褔懈薪邪褦褌褜褋褟 蟹 褉褨胁薪芯褋褌褨". 笑褟 写褍屑泻邪 锌褉芯薪懈蟹褍褦 胁械褋褜 褌械泻褋褌 褨 褋褌邪褦 泄芯谐芯 芯褋薪芯胁薪懈屑 锌芯褋懈谢芯屑, 褟泻懈泄 邪胁褌芯褉泻邪 屑邪泄褋褌械褉薪芯 褉芯蟹泻褉懈胁邪褦 褔械褉械蟹 锌芯褦写薪邪薪薪褟 薪邪褍泻芯胁懈褏 褎邪泻褌褨胁, 芯褋芯斜懈褋褌懈褏 褨褋褌芯褉褨泄 褨 锌褉邪泻褌懈褔薪懈褏 锌芯褉邪写.

笑褞 泻薪懈谐褍 褟 屑芯卸褍 褖懈褉芯 锌芯褉械泻芯屑械薪写褍胁邪褌懈 胁褋褨屑, 褏褌芯 锌褉邪谐薪械 锌芯泻褉邪褖懈褌懈 褋胁芯褦 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪械 卸懈褌褌褟 鈥� 褟泻 褍 锌邪褉褨, 褌邪泻 褨 褍 褋褌芯褋褍薪泻邪褏 褨蟹 褋邪屑懈屑 褋芯斜芯褞. 袙芯薪邪 褋锌芯胁薪械薪邪 泻芯褉懈褋薪芯褩 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褩, 褔邪褋褌懈薪褍 蟹 褟泻芯褩 褟 胁褨写泻褉懈谢邪 写谢褟 褋械斜械 胁锌械褉褕械. 袨褋芯斜谢懈胁芯 褑褨薪薪懈屑 褦 褌械, 褖芯 袥芯褉褨 袦褨薪褑 蟹芯褋械褉械写卸褍褦褌褜褋褟 薪邪 褎褨蟹褨芯谢芯谐褨褔薪芯屑褍 褌邪 锌褋懈褏芯谢芯谐褨褔薪芯屑褍 邪褋锌械泻褌邪褏, 锌芯写邪褞褔懈 褨薪褎芯褉屑邪褑褨褞 泻芯屑锌谢械泻褋薪芯. 袗胁褌芯褉泻邪 薪械 谢懈褕械 锌芯褟褋薪褞褦, 褟泻 锌褉邪褑褞褦 薪邪褕械 褌褨谢芯, 邪谢械 泄 蟹胁械褉褌邪褦 褍胁邪谐褍 薪邪 胁邪卸谢懈胁褨褋褌褜 械屑芯褑褨泄, 锌械褉械泻芯薪邪薪褜 褨 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褨褏 斜邪褉鈥櫻斞€褨胁, 褖芯 屑芯卸褍褌褜 胁锌谢懈胁邪褌懈 薪邪 褟泻褨褋褌褜 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪芯谐芯 写芯褋胁褨写褍.

袨褋芯斜谢懈胁芯 蟹邪褏芯锌谢褞褞褌褜 褉械邪谢褜薪褨 锌褉懈泻谢邪写懈, 褟泻褨 锌芯泻邪蟹褍褞褌褜, 薪邪褋泻褨谢褜泻懈 褉褨蟹薪懈屑懈 屑芯卸褍褌褜 斜褍褌懈 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨 褋褑械薪邪褉褨褩 褨 褟泻 胁芯薪懈 蟹写邪褌薪褨 锌褉懈薪芯褋懈褌懈 褋锌褉邪胁卸薪褦 蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪薪褟 胁褋褨屑 褍褔邪褋薪懈泻邪屑 锌褉芯褑械褋褍. 袦褨薪褑 胁屑褨谢芯 褉褍泄薪褍褦 屑褨褎懈 褌邪 褋褌械褉械芯褌懈锌懈, 褟泻褨 褔邪褋褌芯 芯斜屑械卸褍褞褌褜 薪邪褋, 褨 写芯锌芯屑邪谐邪褦 锌芯写懈胁懈褌懈褋褟 薪邪 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪褨褋褌褜 褟泻 薪邪 写卸械褉械谢芯 褉邪写芯褋褌褨, 褋胁芯斜芯写懈 褌邪 斜谢懈蟹褜泻芯褋褌褨.

笑褟 泻薪懈谐邪 写芯锌芯屑芯卸械 蟹薪褟褌懈 胁薪褍褌褉褨褕薪褨 斜谢芯泻懈, 褉芯蟹胁褨褟褌懈 褍褋褌邪谢械薪褨 褍褟胁谢械薪薪褟 泄, 屑芯卸谢懈胁芯, 薪邪胁褨褌褜 蟹屑褨薪懈褌懈 胁邪褕械 褋褌邪胁谢械薪薪褟 写芯 胁谢邪褋薪芯谐芯 褌褨谢邪 褌邪 斜邪卸邪薪褜. 袙芯薪邪 薪邪写懈褏邪褦 薪邪 械泻褋锌械褉懈屑械薪褌懈, 蟹邪泻谢懈泻邪褦 写芯褋谢褍褏邪褌懈褋褟 写芯 褋械斜械 褨 薪械 斜芯褟褌懈褋褟 写芯褋谢褨写卸褍胁邪褌懈 褌械, 褖芯 锌褉懈薪芯褋懈褌褜 胁邪屑 蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪薪褟.

袉 薪邪胁褨褌褜 褟泻褖芯 胁懈 胁锌械胁薪械薪褨, 褖芯 胁邪褕械 褋械泻褋褍邪谢褜薪械 卸懈褌褌褟 褨写械邪谢褜薪械, 褟 胁褋械 芯写薪芯 褉邪写卸褍 锌褉懈写懈胁懈褌懈褋褟 写芯 褑褨褦褩 泻薪懈谐懈. 效芯屑褍? 袘芯 胁写芯褋泻芯薪邪谢械薪薪褞 薪械屑邪褦 屑械卸, 邪 褋邪屑芯锌褨蟹薪邪薪薪褟 鈥� 褑械 褕谢褟褏, 褟泻懈泄 蟹邪胁卸写懈 锌褉懈薪芯褋懈褌褜 薪芯胁褨 胁褨写泻褉懈褌褌褟. 袥芯褉褨 袦褨薪褑 薪邪谐邪写褍褦 薪邪屑, 褖芯 蟹邪写芯胁芯谢械薪薪褟 鈥� 褑械 薪械 褉芯蟹泻褨褕, 邪 锌褉邪胁芯, 褟泻械 屑懈 锌芯胁懈薪薪褨 锌谢械泻邪褌懈 褨 斜械褉械谐褌懈.
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107 reviews
October 11, 2023
3.5

helpful but only for heterosexual relationships (which the author acknowledges).

the only thing I have to say is the word clit does not have the right vibe. I feel like it should be called the orla or something鈥�.still workshopping it.

no quote (sorry I鈥檝e been lacking on finding quotes oopsie)
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