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The book 'How to stop worrying & start living' suggest many ways to conquer worry and lead a wonderful life.
The book mentions fundamental facts to know about worry and magic formula for solving worry-some situations.
Psychologists & Doctors'
Worry can make even the most stolid person ill.
Worry may cause nervous breakdown.
Worry can even cause tooth decay
Worry is one of the factors for High Blood Pressure.
Worry makes you tense and nervous and affect the nerves of your stomach.
The book suggests basic techniques in analysing worry, step by step, in order to cope up with them.
A very interesting feature of the book is 'How to eliminate 50% of your business worries'.
The book offers 7 ways to cultivate a mental attitude that will bring you peace and happiness. Also, the golden rule for conquering worry, keeping your energy & spirits high.
The book consists of some True Stories which will help the readers in conquering worry to lead you to success in life.
The book is full of similar incidences and narrations which will make our readers to understand the situation in an easy way and lead a happy life. A must read book for everyone.
The book mentions fundamental facts to know about worry and magic formula for solving worry-some situations.
Psychologists & Doctors'
Worry can make even the most stolid person ill.
Worry may cause nervous breakdown.
Worry can even cause tooth decay
Worry is one of the factors for High Blood Pressure.
Worry makes you tense and nervous and affect the nerves of your stomach.
The book suggests basic techniques in analysing worry, step by step, in order to cope up with them.
A very interesting feature of the book is 'How to eliminate 50% of your business worries'.
The book offers 7 ways to cultivate a mental attitude that will bring you peace and happiness. Also, the golden rule for conquering worry, keeping your energy & spirits high.
The book consists of some True Stories which will help the readers in conquering worry to lead you to success in life.
The book is full of similar incidences and narrations which will make our readers to understand the situation in an easy way and lead a happy life. A must read book for everyone.
572 pages
First published January 1, 1944
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Dale Carnegie
1,542听books8,777听followersDale Carnegie was an American writer and teacher of courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), a bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (1948), Lincoln the Unknown (1932), and several other books.
One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior towards them.
One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior towards them.
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November 11, 2015
"Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune."
This book (along with other books by Dale Carnegie) can be life-changing. The book takes the incessant problem of worry, head on. It says that of all the liars in the world most of the time it's our own fears and worries. Worry doesn't take away your troubles but it do take away your peace, that's the main message of the book. He starts very scientifically by searching the causes behind the worry, by taking many case studies. The advice given in the book are really helpful. Its a classic book that must be read if you are in depression and want to come out of it.
Carnegie wrote this book into eight parts.
PART I: Fundamental facts you should know about worry.
Often we worry because we take the burden of both the past and the future with us today. That makes the situation look much more difficult. What we should do is to focus just on today.To solve worry situations, there are three steps you should do. First, ask yourself 鈥渨hat is the worst that could happen?鈥�. Second, be willing to accept the worst if necessary. Third, calmly try to fix the situation you have accepted.
PART II: Basic Techniques in Analyzing Worry.
To overcome worrying, you should know how to analyze and solve worry problems. You can do that by finding and collecting all the facts, analyzing those facts, making a decision, and act on it. We usually worry about something we are uncertain about. Once we get everything clear, we can see what we should do about it.
PART III: How to Break the Worry Habit Before it Breaks You.
There is one simple way to crowd worry out of your mind: make yourself busy. When our mind is occupied with work, we won鈥檛 have time to worry. I think it applies not only to worry, but to all kinds of negative thoughts as well. We will greatly decrease their influence if we are busy doing something constructive. Often we aren鈥檛 happy because we try to change things we can鈥檛 change. One should learn to identify those things and accept them.
PART IV: Ways to Cultivate a Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace and Happiness.
There is a 鈥渕agic鈥� way to cure depression: make other people happy. If you focus on how to make others happy, you will inevitable make yourself happy. The less you think about yourself, the more you will be happy.
One more important Rule: Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let expect it.
PART V: The Perfect Way to Conquer Worry.
Carnegie wrote in his book that one day when his father returned from Maryville, where the banker had threatened to foreclose the mortgage, he stopped his horses on a bridge crossing a river, got off the wagon, and stood for a long time looking down at the water, debating with himself whether he should jump in and end it all.
Years later, Carnegie Sr. told him that the only reason he didn鈥檛 jump was because of his mother鈥檚 deep, abiding, and joyous belief that if we loved God and kept His commandments everything would come out all right. His Mother was right. Everything did come out all right in the end. His Father lived forty-two happy years longer, and died in 1941, at the age of eighty-nine.
PART VI: How to Keep From Worrying About Criticism.
Do your work as good as possible and then open your umbrella so that the rain of criticisms won鈥檛 touch you. Once I鈥檝e done my best, I can be happy no matter what people say.
One of the best teachers is your own experience. You can learn from it by taking notes of the fool things you have done and criticize yourself. If you constantly do this, you will constantly improve yourself.
PART VII: 6 Ways to Prevent Fatigue and Worry and Keep Your Energy and Spirits High.
Dale Carnegie listed down the following six ways in his book: Rest before you get tired; Learn to relax at your work; Learn to relax at home; Apply good working habits (clear your desk of all papers except those relating to the immediate problem at hand; do things in the order of their importance; when you face a problem, solve it then and there if you have the facts necessary to make a decision; and learn to organize, deputize, and supervise); To prevent worry and fatigue, put enthusiasm into your work; and Remember that no one was ever killed by lack of sleep. It is worrying about insomnia that does the damage 鈥� not the insomnia itself. If you can鈥檛 sleep, get up and work or read until you do feel sleepy.
While it may seem counter intuitive, one of the best ways to increase your productivity is to take rest regularly. Take rest before you feel tired. Doing this simple thing will energize yourself throughout the day and enable you to accomplish more.
Learning to banish boredom is essential for happiness. An effective way to do that is by making what you do interesting. Even things that look boring can be made interesting if you are creative.
PART VIII: 鈥淗ow I Conquered Worry鈥�.
This part contains many stories of individuals who applied the principles outlined in previous parts. There are also some new tips that haven鈥檛 been covered before.
.....................................................................
Reading How to Stop Worrying and Start Living is like reading centuries鈥� worth of wisdom in one book.
Highly Recommended!
This book (along with other books by Dale Carnegie) can be life-changing. The book takes the incessant problem of worry, head on. It says that of all the liars in the world most of the time it's our own fears and worries. Worry doesn't take away your troubles but it do take away your peace, that's the main message of the book. He starts very scientifically by searching the causes behind the worry, by taking many case studies. The advice given in the book are really helpful. Its a classic book that must be read if you are in depression and want to come out of it.
Carnegie wrote this book into eight parts.
PART I: Fundamental facts you should know about worry.
Often we worry because we take the burden of both the past and the future with us today. That makes the situation look much more difficult. What we should do is to focus just on today.To solve worry situations, there are three steps you should do. First, ask yourself 鈥渨hat is the worst that could happen?鈥�. Second, be willing to accept the worst if necessary. Third, calmly try to fix the situation you have accepted.
PART II: Basic Techniques in Analyzing Worry.
To overcome worrying, you should know how to analyze and solve worry problems. You can do that by finding and collecting all the facts, analyzing those facts, making a decision, and act on it. We usually worry about something we are uncertain about. Once we get everything clear, we can see what we should do about it.
PART III: How to Break the Worry Habit Before it Breaks You.
There is one simple way to crowd worry out of your mind: make yourself busy. When our mind is occupied with work, we won鈥檛 have time to worry. I think it applies not only to worry, but to all kinds of negative thoughts as well. We will greatly decrease their influence if we are busy doing something constructive. Often we aren鈥檛 happy because we try to change things we can鈥檛 change. One should learn to identify those things and accept them.
PART IV: Ways to Cultivate a Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace and Happiness.
There is a 鈥渕agic鈥� way to cure depression: make other people happy. If you focus on how to make others happy, you will inevitable make yourself happy. The less you think about yourself, the more you will be happy.
One more important Rule: Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let expect it.
PART V: The Perfect Way to Conquer Worry.
Carnegie wrote in his book that one day when his father returned from Maryville, where the banker had threatened to foreclose the mortgage, he stopped his horses on a bridge crossing a river, got off the wagon, and stood for a long time looking down at the water, debating with himself whether he should jump in and end it all.
Years later, Carnegie Sr. told him that the only reason he didn鈥檛 jump was because of his mother鈥檚 deep, abiding, and joyous belief that if we loved God and kept His commandments everything would come out all right. His Mother was right. Everything did come out all right in the end. His Father lived forty-two happy years longer, and died in 1941, at the age of eighty-nine.
PART VI: How to Keep From Worrying About Criticism.
Do your work as good as possible and then open your umbrella so that the rain of criticisms won鈥檛 touch you. Once I鈥檝e done my best, I can be happy no matter what people say.
One of the best teachers is your own experience. You can learn from it by taking notes of the fool things you have done and criticize yourself. If you constantly do this, you will constantly improve yourself.
PART VII: 6 Ways to Prevent Fatigue and Worry and Keep Your Energy and Spirits High.
Dale Carnegie listed down the following six ways in his book: Rest before you get tired; Learn to relax at your work; Learn to relax at home; Apply good working habits (clear your desk of all papers except those relating to the immediate problem at hand; do things in the order of their importance; when you face a problem, solve it then and there if you have the facts necessary to make a decision; and learn to organize, deputize, and supervise); To prevent worry and fatigue, put enthusiasm into your work; and Remember that no one was ever killed by lack of sleep. It is worrying about insomnia that does the damage 鈥� not the insomnia itself. If you can鈥檛 sleep, get up and work or read until you do feel sleepy.
While it may seem counter intuitive, one of the best ways to increase your productivity is to take rest regularly. Take rest before you feel tired. Doing this simple thing will energize yourself throughout the day and enable you to accomplish more.
Learning to banish boredom is essential for happiness. An effective way to do that is by making what you do interesting. Even things that look boring can be made interesting if you are creative.
PART VIII: 鈥淗ow I Conquered Worry鈥�.
This part contains many stories of individuals who applied the principles outlined in previous parts. There are also some new tips that haven鈥檛 been covered before.
.....................................................................
Reading How to Stop Worrying and Start Living is like reading centuries鈥� worth of wisdom in one book.
Highly Recommended!
January 31, 2025
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孬賲 卮乇毓 賷鬲丨丿孬 毓賳 丕賱爻亘亘 丕賱乇卅賷爻賷 賱賱賯賱賯, 賵賷賯鬲亘爻 賲賳 鬲賵賲丕爻 賰丕乇賱賷賱 亘兀賳賴:
"賱賷爻 毓賱賷賳丕 兀賳 賳鬲胤賱毓 廿賱賶 賴丿賮 賷賱賵丨 賱賳丕 亘丕賴鬲丕賸 毓賱賶 丕賱亘毓丿, 賵廿賳賲丕 毓賱賷賳丕 兀賳 賳賳噩夭 賲丕 亘賷賳 兀賷丿賷賳丕 賲賳 毓賲賱 賵丕囟丨 亘賷賾賳"
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孬賲 賷卮乇毓 賷爻乇丿 賵賷賮氐賱 賵噩賴丞 賳馗乇賴:
"廿賳賷 兀乇賷丿賰 兀賳 鬲賳馗乇 廿賱賶 丨賷丕鬲賰 賰兀賳賴丕 爻丕毓丞 夭噩丕噩賷丞 賰鬲賱賰 丕賱鬲賷 丕爻鬲禺丿賲鬲 賯丿賷賲丕賸 賱鬲丨丿賷丿 丕賱賵賯鬲. 兀賳鬲 鬲毓賱賲 兀賳 賴賳丕賰 丌賱丕賮丕賸 賲賳 丨亘丕鬲 丕賱乇賲賱 鬲賵囟毓 賮賷 賳氐賮 賴匕賴 丕賱爻丕毓丞 丕賱兀毓賱賶 賮鬲賲乇 亘亘胤亍, 賵賮賷 賳馗丕賲 丿賯賷賯 賲賳 禺賱丕賱 丕賱乇賯亘丞 丕賱囟賷賯丞 廿賱賶 賳氐賮賴丕 丕賱兀爻賮賱, 賮賱丕 兀賳鬲 賵賱丕 兀賳丕 賳爻鬲胤賷毓 兀賳 賳丿賮毓 亘兀賰孬乇 賲賳 丨亘丞 賵丕丨丿丞 廿賱賶 毓賳賯 丕賱爻丕毓丞 丿賵賳 兀賳 賳氐賷亘賴丕 亘禺賱賱. 賵兀賳鬲 賵兀賳丕 賵丕賱賳丕爻 噩賲賷毓丕賸 賰賴匕賴 丕賱爻丕毓丞 丕賱夭噩丕噩賷丞. 賮毓賳丿賲丕 賳氐丨賵 賮賷 丕賱氐亘丕丨 賳噩丿 賲卅丕鬲 丕賱兀毓賲丕賱 賮賷 丕賳鬲馗丕乇賳丕, 賮廿匕丕 賱賲 賳氐賮 丕賱兀毓賲丕賱 賰賱丕賸 亘丿賵乇賴, 賵毓賱賶 丨丿賴, 賮賷 亘胤亍 賵丕賳鬲馗丕賲, 賰賲丕 鬲賳夭賱賯 丨亘丕鬲 丕賱乇賲賱 賲賳 毓賳賯 丕賱爻丕毓丞 丕賱夭噩丕噩賷丞, 賮廿賳賳丕 賳毓乇囟 賰賷丕賳賳丕 丕賱噩爻賲丕賳賷 賵丕賱毓賯賱賷 賱禺胤乇 丕賱鬲丨胤賷賲"
賵賴匕丕 賱丕 賷毓賳賷 廿賴賲丕賱 丕賱賲爻鬲賯亘賱 鬲賲丕賲丕賸 賵賱賰賳:
丕賱鬲賮賰賷乇 丕賱賲鬲夭賳 賷毓丕賱噩 丕賱兀爻亘丕亘 賵丕賱賳鬲丕卅噩, 賵賷賮囟賷 廿賱賶 禺胤丞 賲賳胤賯賷丞 廿賳卮丕卅賷丞, 賵兀賲丕 丕賱鬲賮賰賷乇 丕賱兀丨賲賯 賮賷賮囟賷 廿賱賶 丕賱鬲賵鬲乇 賵丕賱丕賳賴賷丕乇 丕賱毓氐亘賷.
孬賲 賷丨匕乇賳丕 亘賲丕 賰鬲亘"爻鬲賷賮賳 賱賷賰賵賰" 賷賯賵賱:
"賲丕 兀毓噩亘 丕賱丨賷丕丞! 賷賯賵賱 丕賱胤賮賱: 賲鬲賶 兀卮亘 賮兀氐亘丨 睾賱丕賲丕賸責.. 賵賷賯賵賱 丕賱睾賱丕賲, 賲鬲賶 兀鬲乇毓乇毓 賮兀氐亘丨 卮丕亘丕賸責.. 賵賷賯賵賱 丕賱卮丕亘: 賲鬲賶 兀鬲夭賵噩責 .. 賮廿匕丕 鬲夭賵噩 賯丕賱: 賲鬲賶 兀氐亘丨 卮賷禺丕賸 賲鬲賮乇睾丕賸責 .. 賮廿匕丕 賵丕鬲鬲賴 丕賱卮賷禺賵禺丞 , 鬲胤賱毓 廿賱賶 丕賱賲乇丨賱丞 丕賱鬲賷 賯胤毓賴丕 賲賳 毓賲乇賴, 賮廿匕丕 賴賷 鬲賱賵丨 賰兀賳 乇賷丨丕賸 丕賰鬲爻丨鬲賴丕 丕賰鬲爻丕丨丕 . 廿賳賳丕 賱丕 賳鬲毓賱賲 廿賱丕 亘毓丿 賮賵丕鬲 丕賱兀賵丕賳, 兀賳 賯賷賲丞 丕賱丨賷丕丞 賮賷 兀賳 賳丨賷丕賴丕, 賮賷 兀賳 賳丨賷丕 賰賱 賷賵賲 賲賳賴丕 賵賰賱 爻丕毓丞"
賵賷噩丿乇 亘賷 兀賳 兀匕賰乇 賱賰賲, 兀賳賳賷 賯賲鬲 亘鬲亘丿賷賱 賱賮馗 "毓賳丿賲丕" 亘賭"賲鬲賶" 賰賷 賷爻鬲賯賷賲 賲毓賳賶 丕賱賳氐 丕賱爻丕亘賯, 賮賰賱丕 丕賱賰賱賲鬲丕賳 匕賵 兀氐賱 廿賳噩賱賷夭賷 賵丕丨丿 賵賴賷 賰賱賲丞 "when", 賵賱丕 兀丿乇賶 爻亘亘 賱賲孬賱 賴匕丕 丕賱禺胤兀 賮賷 賮賴賲 爻賷丕賯 丕賱噩賲賱丞 丕賱賵丕囟丨 賰丕賱卮賲爻, 爻賵賶 兀賳 丕賱賲鬲乇噩賲 丕爻鬲賴鬲乇 賰孬賷乇丕賸, 賮乇睾賲 兀賳 丕賱鬲乇丕亘胤 丕賱賱睾賵賷 賱賱賰鬲丕亘 噩賷丿, 廿賱丕 兀賳賴 鬲賵噩丿 亘毓囟 丕賱兀禺胤丕亍 賮賷 丕賱鬲乇噩賲丞, 賵丕賱鬲賷 賱丕 賷噩亘 兀賳 鬲孬賷乇 賯賱賯賰賲 賮賴賷 賯賱賷賱丞 丕賱鬲賰乇丕乇 賵亘爻賷胤丞 亘丨賷孬 兀賳賰賲 賯丿 賱丕 鬲毓賵丕 亘賵噩賵丿賴丕 兀氐賱丕.
賵賰丕賳 丕賱賮氐賱 丕賱兀賵賱 亘丿丕賷丞 賲賵賮賯丞 賲賮毓賲丞 亘丕賱賯氐氐 丕賱鬲賷 賷丿賾毓賷 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 兀賳賴丕 賰賱賴丕 丨賯賷賯賷丞, 賵兀賳丕 兀賲賷賱 賱鬲氐丿賷賯賴 亘毓丿 丕賱鬲丿賯賷賯 賮賷 丕賱賯氐氐,
賵賱賰賳賷 丕賮鬲賯丿鬲 賵噩賵丿 廿丿乇丕噩 亘毓囟 丕賱卮乇賵丨丕鬲 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞 賵丕賱毓氐亘賷丞 賱賱賲卮賰賱丞,
- 賮賲孬賱丕賸 賷賲賰賳賳賷 兀賳 兀夭賷丿 毓賱賶 賲丕 賯丕賱賴 丕賱賰丕鬲亘, 亘兀賳 丕賱毓賯賱 賷賲賷賱 丿丕卅賲丕賸 賱兀賳 賷鬲禺賱氐 賲賳 丕賱兀賱賲 丕賱匕賷 賷丨賱 亘賴, 賵丕賱匕賷 賯丿 賷賳鬲噩 毓賳 丕賱鬲賮賰賷乇 丕賱賲鬲夭丕賷丿 噩乇丕亍 丕賱賯賱賯. 賮賷賯賵賲 丕賱毓賯賱 賮賷 爻亘賷賱 丕賱鬲禺賱氐 賲賳 賴匕丕 丕賱兀賱賲 亘丿賮毓 丕賱噩爻丿 賱丨丕賱丞 丕賱賳賵賲, 賮鬲卮毓乇 亘丕賱賳毓丕爻 賵丕賱丨丕噩丞 賱賱賳賵賲, 賵亘丕賱鬲兀賰賷丿 賮兀賳鬲 賱賳 鬲爻鬲胤賷毓 丨賱 賲卮丕賰賱賰 賵兀賳鬲 賳丕卅賲.
- 賰賲丕 兀賳賳賷 賷賲賰賳賳賷 丕賱廿卮丕乇丞 廿賱賶 丕賱亘丨孬 丕賱匕賷 鬲丨丿孬 毓賳 兀賳 丕賱丨囟丕乇丞 賯丿 亘丿兀鬲 亘毓丿 胤賮乇丞 噩賷賳賷丞 丨丿孬鬲 賱賱亘卮乇 噩毓賱鬲賴賲 兀賯賱 毓賳賮丕賸 賵兀賰孬乇 亘乇賵丿丕 賵鬲丨賰賲丕賸 賮賷 丕賳賮毓丕賱丕鬲賴賲, 賵賱賳 賳賰賵賳 賲禺胤卅賷賳 毓賳丿賲丕 賳賯賵賱 亘兀賳 丕賱賯賱賯 賵丕賱丕囟胤乇丕亘丕鬲 丕賱賳丕鬲噩丞 毓賳賴 鬲賯毓 囟賲賳 賴匕丕 丕賱丕賳賮毓丕賱丕鬲.
- 賵兀賷囟丕賸 賰賳鬲 賱兀匕賷賾賱 丕賱賮氐賱 丕賱匕賷 賷鬲丨丿孬 毓賳 丕賱兀賲乇丕囟 丕賱鬲賷 鬲爻亘亘賴丕 丕賱賯賱賯, 亘兀賳 丕賱賯賱賯 賵丕賱丕賰鬲卅丕亘 丕賱賳丕鬲噩 毓賳賴 賷購囟毓賮 丕賱噩賴丕夭 丕賱賲賳丕毓賷, 賵賷賯賱賱 賲賳 賰乇丕鬲 丕賱丿賲 丕賱亘賷囟丕亍 丕賱賲爻卅賵賱丞 毓賳 丕賱丿賮丕毓 毓賳 丕賱噩爻賲 囟丿 賲禺鬲賱賮 丕賱兀賲乇丕囟.
賵賱毓丿賲 賵噩賵丿 賲孬賱 鬲賱賰 丕賱卮乇賵丨丕鬲 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞 丌孬乇鬲 兀賳 兀賲賳毓 毓賳賴 丕賱賳噩賲丞 丕賱禺丕賲爻丞, 賵賴匕丕 亘丕賱胤亘毓 賱丕 賷賳賯氐 賲賳 賲丨鬲賵賶 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賰鬲賵孬賷賯 賱賱賵賯丕卅毓 賵丕賱鬲賷 噩乇賶 丕爻鬲賳亘丕胤 "賯賵丕賳賷賳" 鬲丨賰賲 毓賲賱賷丞 丕賱賯賱賯 賲賳賴丕, 丨鬲賶 賵廿賳 賰丕賳 睾丕卅亘丕賸 賵噩賵丿 "賳馗乇賷丞" 鬲卮乇丨 賱賲丕匕丕 賷丨丿孬 賰賱 賴匕丕. 賮賳丨賳 丕賱丌賳 賳毓鬲賲丿 毓賱賶 "賯賵丕賳賷賳" 賳賷賵鬲賳 丕賱鬲賷 鬲丨賰賲 丕賱噩丕匕亘賷丞 賲賳 禺賱丕賱 丕賱賵賯丕卅毓 丕賱鬲賷 卮丕賴丿賴丕, 賵賷夭賵賾丿賳丕 兀賷賳卮鬲賷賳 亘賭"丕賱賳馗乇賷丞" 丕賱賲賳丕爻亘丞 丕賱鬲賷 鬲賮爻乇 賱賳丕 賱賲丕匕丕 鬲丨丿孬 丕賱噩丕匕亘賷丞 !!
廿匕丕賸 賮賱丿賶 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 賳賯氐 賮賷 丕賱賲乇丕噩毓 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞, 賵賷亘丿賵 兀賳 賱賳卮兀鬲賴 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞 丕賱賲鬲賵丕囟毓丞 丕賱爻亘亘 丕賱兀賰亘乇. 賵賱賲 賷丐孬乇 賴匕丕 賮賷 賳賯氐 丕賱賲乇丕噩毓 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞 賮賯胤, 亘賱 噩毓賱賳賷 兀鬲丨爻爻 賲爻丿爻賷 -賲賻賱賻賰賻鬲賽賷 丕賱賳賯丿賷丞- 毓賳丿賲丕 賷購賵乇賽丿 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 兀賻賷賾丞 卮賵丕賴丿 賷氐賮賴丕 亘丕賱毓賱賲賷丞, 賱兀賳 鬲胤亘賷賯 丕賱賯賵丕賳賷賳 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞 毓賱賶 賲賵囟賵毓丕鬲賴 噩丕亍 亘丕賱睾 丕賱乇賰丕賰丞.
賰賲丕 兀賳賳賷 賱丕丨馗鬲 兀賳賴 賷鬲毓賲丿 毓賳丿賲丕 賷爻乇丿 丕賱卮賵丕賴丿 丕賱毓賱賲賷丞 兀賵 丕賱丨賱賵賱 丕賱丿賷賳賷丞 兀賳 賷賳卮兀 毓亘丕乇丕鬲 鬲丨鬲賲賱 丕賱鬲兀賵賷賱 亘卮賰賱 賰亘賷乇 賮賷 氐丕賱丨 丕賱丨賱賵賱 丕賱賵賴賲賷丞 丕賱爻賴賱丞 賱賱賯丕乇卅, 乇睾賲 兀賳賴丕 賲亘賳賷丞 毓賱賶 兀爻爻 氐丨賷丨丞, 賱賰賳賴 賰丕賳 賷乇賷丿 兀賳 賷賻賲購胤 賲丿丕賴丕 賰丨賱賵賱 賱兀亘毓丿 賲賲丕 鬲爻鬲胤賷毓 丕賱丕丨鬲賲丕賱!!
丕賱賰鬲丕亘 毓賲賵賲丕 賷爻鬲丨賯 丕賱賯乇丕亍丞 賱賱匕賷賳 毓丕賳賵丕 丕賱賯賱賯 賲孬賱賷, 賮丨鬲賶 賵廿賳 賰賳鬲 鬲毓賱賲 賲丨鬲賵賶 賳氐丕卅丨賴 賲爻亘賯丕賸, 賮賱爻賵賮 鬲購爻賻乇賽賾賷 毓賳賰 賵鬲卮丿 賲賳 兀夭賿乇賰 賯氐氐 丕賱賲乇囟賶 丕賱爻丕亘賯賷賳 丕賱匕賷 賳噩丨賵丕 賮賷 鬲禺胤賷 毓賯亘丞 丕賱賯賱賯. 兀賲丕 賲賳 賱賲 賷毓丕賳賵丕 賲賳 噩丨賷賲 丕賱賯賱賯 賯亘賱丕賸 賵賷賯乇亍賵賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賱賱鬲爻賱賷丞, 賮賯丿 賷氐賷亘賴賲 丕賱賲賱賱 賲賳 噩乇丕亍 鬲賱賰 丕賱賯氐氐, 亘賱 賵賯丿 賷毓鬲亘乇賵賳賴丕 兀爻賵兀 噩夭亍 賮賷 丕賱賰鬲丕亘.
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鬲丨丿賷孬:
賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賴賵 丕賱兀氐賱 丕賱兀噩賳亘賷 賱賰鬲丕亘 "賱丕 鬲丨夭賳", 丨賷孬 賯丕賲 毓丕卅囟 丕賱賯乇賳賷 亘爻乇賯丞 丕賱賲丨鬲賵賶 丕賱兀爻丕爻賷 賱賱賰鬲丕亘, 賵丨賵賾賱賴 廿賱賶 禺胤亘丞 噩賲毓丞, 亘廿毓丕丿丞 爻乇丿賴 亘胤乇賷賯鬲賴 丕賱禺丕氐丞 亘毓丿 廿囟賮丕亍 賲丕 賷毓乇賮賴 賲賳 兀丨丕丿賷孬 賵丌賷丕鬲 丕賱賯乇丌賳 賵兀亘賷丕鬲 賱卮毓乇丕亍 毓乇亘, 丿賵賳 匕賰乇 丕賱賲氐丿乇 丕賱兀噩賳亘賷 丨鬲賶. 賵賴匕賴 爻乇賯丞 兀丿亘賷丞 賱丕 賷噩亘 丕賱爻賰賵鬲 毓賳賴丕, 亘賱 賵賲賯丕胤毓丞 賰鬲丕亘 丕賱賯乇賳賷 丨鬲賶 賷毓鬲匕乇 毓賲丕 賮毓賱賴, 賮丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賱賴 丨賯賵賯 兀丿亘賷丞 賵賮賰乇賷丞 賵賲丕丿賷丞, 賵賱賷爻 睾賳賷賲丞 賱賴.
丕賱賲氐丿乇 賲丿賵賳丞 賲孬丕賱:
August 5, 2024
I almost forgot I had read this book before.
Day-tight compartments strategy is very effective for me.
When I was studying in college, I was so worried about everything. Sometimes I could not concentrate on everything because I worried too much.
Most of the time, you don't know what you are worrying about.
Luckily, I discovered this book in a bookstore. I read one of the chapters regarding "Day tight compartment". I did not buy the book that day. I came back to the bookstore and read again the same chapter.
It helped me a lot and I became more peaceful and positive thinking. Finally, I bought this book to keep and reread many years ago.
Thanks to the author Dale Carnegie.
Day-tight compartments strategy is very effective for me.
When I was studying in college, I was so worried about everything. Sometimes I could not concentrate on everything because I worried too much.
Most of the time, you don't know what you are worrying about.
Luckily, I discovered this book in a bookstore. I read one of the chapters regarding "Day tight compartment". I did not buy the book that day. I came back to the bookstore and read again the same chapter.
It helped me a lot and I became more peaceful and positive thinking. Finally, I bought this book to keep and reread many years ago.
Thanks to the author Dale Carnegie.
January 11, 2012
I think the problem with this book is that it's mostly based on persuasive voice. Once the effects of that wear off, it's hard to be convinced to change an ingrained habit. Although, what helps is a desperation to do so.
There are many examples in this book, but very little "this is why it works". Even more so, the further you go into it, the more the author sounds like "What's the matter with you? Don't you see? Why don't you do this?"; and I think, if this were a person-to-person argument, that's the least effective attitude to take on convincing someone to change something. If one can't get over that tone and recognize their own need, they won't get very much out of this.
Dale Carnegie says he was a salesman at some point, and this shows in the way he speaks in his writing. As we get exposed to more and more commercial approaches in daily life, it makes this approach aged - we know better than to listen to every salesman, no matter how convincing he can be. There needs to be more `meat`on what he says in this book, regardless of that it is true wisdom. He is too proud of his abilities to persuade, and relies mainly on this, over good information. He sounds more like a nagging mother.
Really, what determines the quality of such a book is: did this actually help, and how effectively? Not the language, voice, or nice examples. For me, it has not swayed me in a profound way that would cause me to change, and I feel like there is still a lot of labour left on my part.
There are many examples in this book, but very little "this is why it works". Even more so, the further you go into it, the more the author sounds like "What's the matter with you? Don't you see? Why don't you do this?"; and I think, if this were a person-to-person argument, that's the least effective attitude to take on convincing someone to change something. If one can't get over that tone and recognize their own need, they won't get very much out of this.
Dale Carnegie says he was a salesman at some point, and this shows in the way he speaks in his writing. As we get exposed to more and more commercial approaches in daily life, it makes this approach aged - we know better than to listen to every salesman, no matter how convincing he can be. There needs to be more `meat`on what he says in this book, regardless of that it is true wisdom. He is too proud of his abilities to persuade, and relies mainly on this, over good information. He sounds more like a nagging mother.
Really, what determines the quality of such a book is: did this actually help, and how effectively? Not the language, voice, or nice examples. For me, it has not swayed me in a profound way that would cause me to change, and I feel like there is still a lot of labour left on my part.
June 18, 2012
Fundamental Facts You Should Know About Worry
Rule 1 - If you want to avoid worry, do what Sir William Osler did" Live in "day-tight compartments." Don't stew about the future. Just live each day until bedtime.
Rule 2 - The next time Trouble - with a Capital T - backs you up in a corner, try the magic formula of Willis H. Carrier:
a. Ask yourself, "What is the worst that can possibly happen if I can't solve my problem?"
b. Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst - if necessary.
c. Then calmly try to improve upon the worst - which you have already mentally agreed to accept.
Rule 3 - Remind yourself of the exorbitant price you can pay for worry in terms of your health. "Those who do not know how to fight worry die young."
Basic Techniques in Analyzing Worry
Rule 1 - Get the facts. Remember that Dean Hakes of Columbia University said that "half the worry in the world is caused by people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision.
Rule 2 - After carefully weighing all the facts, come to a decision.
Rule 3 - Once a decision is carefully reached, act! Get busy carrying out your decision - and dismiss all anxiety about the outcome.
Rule 4 - When you or any of your associates, are tempted to worry about a problem, write out and and answer the following questions:
a. What is the problem?
b. What is the cause of the problem?
c. What are all the possible solutions?
d. What is the best solution?
How to Break the Worry Habit Before It Breaks You
Rule 1 - Crowd worry out of your mind by keeping busy. Plenty of action is one of the best therapies ever devised for curing the "wibber gibbers."
Rule 2 - Don't fuss about trifles. Don't permit little things - the mere termites of life - to ruin your happiness.
Rule 3 - Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries. Ask yourself: "What are the odds against this thing's happening at all?"
Rule 4 - Cooperate with the inevitable. If you know a circumstance is beyond your power to change or revise, say to yourself: "It is so; it cannot be otherwise."
Rule 5 - Put a "stop-loss" order on your worries. Decide just how much anxiety a thing may be worth - and refuse to give it any more.
Rule 6 - Let the past bury its dead. Don't saw sawdust.
Seven Ways to Cultivate a Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace and Happiness
Rule 1 - Let's fill our minds with thoughts of peace, courage, health, and hope, for "our life is what our thoughts make of it."
Rule 2 - Let's never try to get even with our enemies, because if we do we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them. Let's do as General Eisenhower does: let's never waste a minute thinking about people we don't like.
Rule 3 - A. Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let's expect it. Let's remember that Jesus healed ten lepers in one day - and only one thanked Him. Why should we expect more gratitude than Jesus got?
B. Let's remember that the only way to find happiness is not to expect gratitude - but to give for the joy of giving.
C. Let's remember that gratitude is a "cultivated" trait; so if we want our children to be grateful, we must train them to be grateful.
Rule 4 - Count your blessings - not your troubles!
Rule 5 - Let's not imitate others. Let's find ourselves to be ourselves, for "envy is ignorance" and "imitation is suicide."
Rule 6 - When fate hands us a lemon, let's try to make lemonade.
Rule 7 - Let's forget our own unhappiness - by trying to create a little happiness for others. "When you are good to others, you are the best to yourself."
How to Keep from Worrying about Criticism
Rule 1 - Unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. It often means that you have aroused jealousy and envy. Remember that no one ever kicks a dead dog.
Rule 2 - Do the very best you can; and then put up your umbrella and keep the rain of criticism from running down the back of your neck.
Rule 3 - Let's keep a record of the fool things we have done and criticize ourselves. Since we can't hope to be perfect, let's do what E. H. Little did: let's ask for unbiased, helpful, constructive criticism.
Six Ways to Prevent Fatigue and Worry and Keep Your Energy and Spirits High
Rule 1 - Rest before you get tired.
Rule 2 - Learn to relax at your work.
Rule 3 - Learn to relax at home.
Rule 4 - Apply these four good working habits:
a. Clear your desk of all papers except those relating to the immediate problem at hand.
b. Do things in the order of their importance.
c. When you face a problem, solve it then and there if you have facts necessary to make a decision.
d. Learn to organize, deputize, and supervise.
Rule 5 - To prevent worry and fatigue, put enthusiasm into your work.
Rule 6 - Remember, no one was ever killed by lack of sleep. It is worrying about insomnia that does the damage - not the insomnia.
Rule 1 - If you want to avoid worry, do what Sir William Osler did" Live in "day-tight compartments." Don't stew about the future. Just live each day until bedtime.
Rule 2 - The next time Trouble - with a Capital T - backs you up in a corner, try the magic formula of Willis H. Carrier:
a. Ask yourself, "What is the worst that can possibly happen if I can't solve my problem?"
b. Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst - if necessary.
c. Then calmly try to improve upon the worst - which you have already mentally agreed to accept.
Rule 3 - Remind yourself of the exorbitant price you can pay for worry in terms of your health. "Those who do not know how to fight worry die young."
Basic Techniques in Analyzing Worry
Rule 1 - Get the facts. Remember that Dean Hakes of Columbia University said that "half the worry in the world is caused by people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision.
Rule 2 - After carefully weighing all the facts, come to a decision.
Rule 3 - Once a decision is carefully reached, act! Get busy carrying out your decision - and dismiss all anxiety about the outcome.
Rule 4 - When you or any of your associates, are tempted to worry about a problem, write out and and answer the following questions:
a. What is the problem?
b. What is the cause of the problem?
c. What are all the possible solutions?
d. What is the best solution?
How to Break the Worry Habit Before It Breaks You
Rule 1 - Crowd worry out of your mind by keeping busy. Plenty of action is one of the best therapies ever devised for curing the "wibber gibbers."
Rule 2 - Don't fuss about trifles. Don't permit little things - the mere termites of life - to ruin your happiness.
Rule 3 - Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries. Ask yourself: "What are the odds against this thing's happening at all?"
Rule 4 - Cooperate with the inevitable. If you know a circumstance is beyond your power to change or revise, say to yourself: "It is so; it cannot be otherwise."
Rule 5 - Put a "stop-loss" order on your worries. Decide just how much anxiety a thing may be worth - and refuse to give it any more.
Rule 6 - Let the past bury its dead. Don't saw sawdust.
Seven Ways to Cultivate a Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace and Happiness
Rule 1 - Let's fill our minds with thoughts of peace, courage, health, and hope, for "our life is what our thoughts make of it."
Rule 2 - Let's never try to get even with our enemies, because if we do we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them. Let's do as General Eisenhower does: let's never waste a minute thinking about people we don't like.
Rule 3 - A. Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let's expect it. Let's remember that Jesus healed ten lepers in one day - and only one thanked Him. Why should we expect more gratitude than Jesus got?
B. Let's remember that the only way to find happiness is not to expect gratitude - but to give for the joy of giving.
C. Let's remember that gratitude is a "cultivated" trait; so if we want our children to be grateful, we must train them to be grateful.
Rule 4 - Count your blessings - not your troubles!
Rule 5 - Let's not imitate others. Let's find ourselves to be ourselves, for "envy is ignorance" and "imitation is suicide."
Rule 6 - When fate hands us a lemon, let's try to make lemonade.
Rule 7 - Let's forget our own unhappiness - by trying to create a little happiness for others. "When you are good to others, you are the best to yourself."
How to Keep from Worrying about Criticism
Rule 1 - Unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. It often means that you have aroused jealousy and envy. Remember that no one ever kicks a dead dog.
Rule 2 - Do the very best you can; and then put up your umbrella and keep the rain of criticism from running down the back of your neck.
Rule 3 - Let's keep a record of the fool things we have done and criticize ourselves. Since we can't hope to be perfect, let's do what E. H. Little did: let's ask for unbiased, helpful, constructive criticism.
Six Ways to Prevent Fatigue and Worry and Keep Your Energy and Spirits High
Rule 1 - Rest before you get tired.
Rule 2 - Learn to relax at your work.
Rule 3 - Learn to relax at home.
Rule 4 - Apply these four good working habits:
a. Clear your desk of all papers except those relating to the immediate problem at hand.
b. Do things in the order of their importance.
c. When you face a problem, solve it then and there if you have facts necessary to make a decision.
d. Learn to organize, deputize, and supervise.
Rule 5 - To prevent worry and fatigue, put enthusiasm into your work.
Rule 6 - Remember, no one was ever killed by lack of sleep. It is worrying about insomnia that does the damage - not the insomnia.
February 24, 2007
The advice Carnegie gives is all stuff you've heard before, but he pairs it with compelling stories about people who've taken the worrying to an extreme and who've totally turned their lives around by ditching their angst. Some of my favorite points:
Fatigue comes from stress, not from work.
Becoming wise is a path. As you go, remember that compassionate, considered responses make life more manageable.
Contented life is a choice.
Fatigue comes from stress, not from work.
Becoming wise is a path. As you go, remember that compassionate, considered responses make life more manageable.
Contented life is a choice.
September 27, 2012
I was so blue that I didn't have nice shoes to wear, and it was until I met a man on the wheelchair at the corner of the street. He didn't even have both legs. I helped him buy drink from the vending machine. I asked him if he was upset of sitting on the wheelchair every day. He smiled to me, "I used to be, but not now". "Do you think I can speak?", he asked me. That was a strange question. "We are talking right now", I replied unconsciously. "Do you think I can see you?", he continued. He made me wild with his nonsense question. I was about to shout at him to stop playing these crazy questions with me, but I didn't. "I don't think you are also blind, aren't you?", I talked to him loudly. He suddenly smiled to me. "You see, now I can talk to a handsome boy like you, I can see my beautiful world of love and joy, I can listen to my favorite music, so how lucky you think I am". Chill ran through my spine as soon as I heard these words. "How lucky you are", I repeated.
"What about me? Am I lucky?", I said to myself in my head. I even have my both legs walking on this soft earth. "And then what the hell I'm worried about?"......."Without nice shoes?" I laughed at myself.
He totally changed my life, changed the way I'm thinking and used to think. No matter what happens, I'm still a lucky man on the planet.
Thank you, Dale Carnegie!
"What about me? Am I lucky?", I said to myself in my head. I even have my both legs walking on this soft earth. "And then what the hell I'm worried about?"......."Without nice shoes?" I laughed at myself.
He totally changed my life, changed the way I'm thinking and used to think. No matter what happens, I'm still a lucky man on the planet.
Thank you, Dale Carnegie!
April 28, 2011
賰鬲丕亘 乇丕卅毓 亘賰賱 賲丕 鬲丨賲賱 丕賱賰賱賲丞 賲賳 賲毓丕賳賷
毓賱賶 丕賱乇睾賲 賲賳 毓丿賲 丕乇鬲賷丕丨賷 丕賱卮禺氐賷 賱兀賷 賲丨丕囟乇丕鬲 兀賵 賰鬲亘 毓賳 丕賱鬲賳賲賷丞 丕賱亘卮乇賷丞
廿賱丕 兀賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丿賴 丨丕賱丞 禺丕丕丕丕丕丕丕丕氐丞 噩丿丕
兀賵賱丕
丕賱賰賱丕賲 賳賮爻賴 睾丕賷丞 賮賷 丕賱丕丨鬲乇丕賲 賵丕賱丕賯賳丕毓 賵丕賱賵爻胤賷丞
賷毓賳賷 賱丕 亘賷賴賵賳 賲賳 丕賱賲卮丕賰賱 丕賱賰亘賷乇丞.. 賵賱丕 亘賷賰亘乇 賲賳 丕賱丨丕噩丕鬲 丕賱亘爻賷胤丞 賮賵賯 賲丕 鬲爻鬲丨賯
賲卮 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賱賶 廿賳賰 賴鬲鬲丨賵賱 賱賲賱丕賰 賲丕 亘賷賴賲賵卮 丕賱賲卮丕賰賱
賱賰賳 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 亘胤乇賷賯丞 賲丨鬲乇賲丞 賵賲毓鬲丿賱丞.. 亘丨賷孬 賷毓乇賮賰 廿夭丕賷 鬲賵丕噩賴賴丕 亘丕賱賯丿乇 丕賱賲賳丕爻亘 亘丿賵賳 賲丕 鬲賯囟賷 毓賱賶 賳賮爻賰 賵賱丕 鬲丿賲乇 丨賷丕鬲賰
孬丕賳賷丕
兀睾賱亘 丕賱賲賵丕賯賮 丕賱賱賷 亘賷毓乇囟賴丕 丨氐賱鬲 賱賲卮丕賴賷乇貙 賷毓賳賷 兀丨丿丕孬 賲賲賰賳 丕賱賵氐賵賱 賱兀氐賱賴丕
賲卮 賲噩乇丿 賵丕丨丿 毓賲賱.. 賵賵丕丨丿 兀毓乇賮賴 賯丕賱.. 賵爻賲毓鬲 毓賳 丨丿 乇丕丨
孬丕賱孬丕
丕賱丨賱賵賱 丕賱賱賷 毓乇囟賴丕 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 賲賳胤賯賷丞 賱丨丿 賰亘賷乇貙 亘丨賷孬 廿賳賴丕 賲賲賰賳 鬲賳賮毓 賲毓 兀睾賱亘 丕賱兀丨賵丕賱 賵丕賱賲卮丕賰賱
睾賷乇 廿賳賴丕 "毓賯賱丕賳賷丞".. 賷毓賳賷 賲卮 毓賱賶 胤乇賷賯丞 丕賱亘爻 賮賷 廿賷丿賰 兀爻鬲賰 鬲毓丕賯亘 賳賮爻賰 亘賷賴.. 賵丕卮乇亘 亘賯 賲賷丞 賲卮 毓丕乇賮 廿賷賴 賵丕賱丨丕噩丕鬲 丿賷
亘丕賱毓賰爻.. 亘賷毓乇賮賰 廿夭丕賷 鬲賳馗賲 鬲賮賰賷乇賰 亘卮賰賱 賰賵賷爻 亘丨賷孬 鬲賵氐賱 賱兀賯氐賶 丨丕噩丞 賮賷 廿賷丿賰 廿賳賰 鬲毓賲賱賴丕
賵亘毓丿 賰丿賴 鬲爻賱賲 兀賲乇賰 賱賱賴貙 賵賲丕 鬲卮睾賱卮 賳賮爻賰 亘丕賱賱賷 賲卮 賮賷 廿賷丿賰
丕賱胤亘毓丞 丕賱賱賷 賯乇賷鬲賴丕 賴賷 胤亘毓丞 賲賰鬲亘丞 丕賱禺丕賳噩賷貙 鬲乇噩賲丞 毓亘丿 丕賱賲賳毓賲 丕賱夭賷丕丿賷
賵丿賷 丕賱胤亘毓丞 丕賱賱賷 乇卮丨賴丕賱賷 亘賯賵丞 丕賱卮禺氐 丕賱賱賷 賳氐丨賳丕 亘賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘
賵賱賲丕 賯乇兀鬲賴丕 毓乇賮鬲 丕賱爻亘亘
賵賴賷 廿賳 賮毓賱丕 丕賱賲鬲乇噩賲 賲丕 丕賰鬲賮丕卮 亘丕賱鬲乇噩賲丞 丕賱丨乇賮賷丞 賱賱賰賱丕賲 賵禺賱丕氐.. 賱賰賳 毓賲賱 丨丕噩丞 賲賲賰賳 賳爻賲賷賴丕 "鬲乇噩賲丞 賮賳賷丞" 亘丨賷孬 鬲爻鬲賲鬲毓 亘丕賱賰賱丕賲 丕賱賲賰鬲賵亘 乇睾賲 廿賳賴 賲卮 亘丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱兀氐賱賷丞 賱賱賰鬲丕亘丞
丨鬲賶 賮賷 丕賱兀卮毓丕乇 賵丕賱夭噩賱貙 丨丕賵賱 毓賱賶 賯丿 賲丕 賷賯丿乇 賷禺賱賷 鬲乇噩賲鬲賴丕 賮賷賴丕 卮卅 賲賳 丕賱賲賵爻賷賯賶
賮毓賱丕 兀賳氐丨 兀賷 丨丿 賷賯乇兀 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丿賴 亘鬲賲毓賳貙 賵賷丕 乇賷鬲 賱賵 鬲賰賵賳 丕賱鬲乇噩賲丞 丿賷 賳賮爻賴丕
毓賱賶 丕賱乇睾賲 賲賳 毓丿賲 丕乇鬲賷丕丨賷 丕賱卮禺氐賷 賱兀賷 賲丨丕囟乇丕鬲 兀賵 賰鬲亘 毓賳 丕賱鬲賳賲賷丞 丕賱亘卮乇賷丞
廿賱丕 兀賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丿賴 丨丕賱丞 禺丕丕丕丕丕丕丕丕氐丞 噩丿丕
兀賵賱丕
丕賱賰賱丕賲 賳賮爻賴 睾丕賷丞 賮賷 丕賱丕丨鬲乇丕賲 賵丕賱丕賯賳丕毓 賵丕賱賵爻胤賷丞
賷毓賳賷 賱丕 亘賷賴賵賳 賲賳 丕賱賲卮丕賰賱 丕賱賰亘賷乇丞.. 賵賱丕 亘賷賰亘乇 賲賳 丕賱丨丕噩丕鬲 丕賱亘爻賷胤丞 賮賵賯 賲丕 鬲爻鬲丨賯
賲卮 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賱賶 廿賳賰 賴鬲鬲丨賵賱 賱賲賱丕賰 賲丕 亘賷賴賲賵卮 丕賱賲卮丕賰賱
賱賰賳 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 亘胤乇賷賯丞 賲丨鬲乇賲丞 賵賲毓鬲丿賱丞.. 亘丨賷孬 賷毓乇賮賰 廿夭丕賷 鬲賵丕噩賴賴丕 亘丕賱賯丿乇 丕賱賲賳丕爻亘 亘丿賵賳 賲丕 鬲賯囟賷 毓賱賶 賳賮爻賰 賵賱丕 鬲丿賲乇 丨賷丕鬲賰
孬丕賳賷丕
兀睾賱亘 丕賱賲賵丕賯賮 丕賱賱賷 亘賷毓乇囟賴丕 丨氐賱鬲 賱賲卮丕賴賷乇貙 賷毓賳賷 兀丨丿丕孬 賲賲賰賳 丕賱賵氐賵賱 賱兀氐賱賴丕
賲卮 賲噩乇丿 賵丕丨丿 毓賲賱.. 賵賵丕丨丿 兀毓乇賮賴 賯丕賱.. 賵爻賲毓鬲 毓賳 丨丿 乇丕丨
孬丕賱孬丕
丕賱丨賱賵賱 丕賱賱賷 毓乇囟賴丕 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 賲賳胤賯賷丞 賱丨丿 賰亘賷乇貙 亘丨賷孬 廿賳賴丕 賲賲賰賳 鬲賳賮毓 賲毓 兀睾賱亘 丕賱兀丨賵丕賱 賵丕賱賲卮丕賰賱
睾賷乇 廿賳賴丕 "毓賯賱丕賳賷丞".. 賷毓賳賷 賲卮 毓賱賶 胤乇賷賯丞 丕賱亘爻 賮賷 廿賷丿賰 兀爻鬲賰 鬲毓丕賯亘 賳賮爻賰 亘賷賴.. 賵丕卮乇亘 亘賯 賲賷丞 賲卮 毓丕乇賮 廿賷賴 賵丕賱丨丕噩丕鬲 丿賷
亘丕賱毓賰爻.. 亘賷毓乇賮賰 廿夭丕賷 鬲賳馗賲 鬲賮賰賷乇賰 亘卮賰賱 賰賵賷爻 亘丨賷孬 鬲賵氐賱 賱兀賯氐賶 丨丕噩丞 賮賷 廿賷丿賰 廿賳賰 鬲毓賲賱賴丕
賵亘毓丿 賰丿賴 鬲爻賱賲 兀賲乇賰 賱賱賴貙 賵賲丕 鬲卮睾賱卮 賳賮爻賰 亘丕賱賱賷 賲卮 賮賷 廿賷丿賰
丕賱胤亘毓丞 丕賱賱賷 賯乇賷鬲賴丕 賴賷 胤亘毓丞 賲賰鬲亘丞 丕賱禺丕賳噩賷貙 鬲乇噩賲丞 毓亘丿 丕賱賲賳毓賲 丕賱夭賷丕丿賷
賵丿賷 丕賱胤亘毓丞 丕賱賱賷 乇卮丨賴丕賱賷 亘賯賵丞 丕賱卮禺氐 丕賱賱賷 賳氐丨賳丕 亘賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘
賵賱賲丕 賯乇兀鬲賴丕 毓乇賮鬲 丕賱爻亘亘
賵賴賷 廿賳 賮毓賱丕 丕賱賲鬲乇噩賲 賲丕 丕賰鬲賮丕卮 亘丕賱鬲乇噩賲丞 丕賱丨乇賮賷丞 賱賱賰賱丕賲 賵禺賱丕氐.. 賱賰賳 毓賲賱 丨丕噩丞 賲賲賰賳 賳爻賲賷賴丕 "鬲乇噩賲丞 賮賳賷丞" 亘丨賷孬 鬲爻鬲賲鬲毓 亘丕賱賰賱丕賲 丕賱賲賰鬲賵亘 乇睾賲 廿賳賴 賲卮 亘丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱兀氐賱賷丞 賱賱賰鬲丕亘丞
丨鬲賶 賮賷 丕賱兀卮毓丕乇 賵丕賱夭噩賱貙 丨丕賵賱 毓賱賶 賯丿 賲丕 賷賯丿乇 賷禺賱賷 鬲乇噩賲鬲賴丕 賮賷賴丕 卮卅 賲賳 丕賱賲賵爻賷賯賶
賮毓賱丕 兀賳氐丨 兀賷 丨丿 賷賯乇兀 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丿賴 亘鬲賲毓賳貙 賵賷丕 乇賷鬲 賱賵 鬲賰賵賳 丕賱鬲乇噩賲丞 丿賷 賳賮爻賴丕
February 6, 2019
This simply wasn't my cup of tea. After the first 2-3 more or less helpful tips, it feels like all we get is a many (many!) stories from individuals, who - through a sudden epiphany - learned how to overcome worry and were cured of various deceases (stomach ulcers were a big favourite) and suddenly led a happy, fulfilled life. At the end of the book, my main impression was not that of a guide through worrying times and of sound advice but of the author hammering home his message of "do not worry! do not worry!" without anything more than anecdotal evidence.
Three other points that did not sit well with me but were surely due to my (and the author's) personal backgrounds:
1) This book was written in the 1930s and it showed. It felt a rather sexist to me at times.
2) The author kept referring to many people that may or may not have been famous at the time. Personally, as a non-American, I only knew about two or three of the "celebrities" he mentioned by name and by whose stories or opinions we should have been inspired. It just did not feel legitimate. Much like I were writing a book and quoting my friends and their anecdotes as "evidence". It's not only dubious but boring.
3) The author's faith. Regardless of whether I believe in God or not, there simply was too much emphasis on how everything will sort itself out if we just believe in and rely on God. "If you're so worried that you've made yourself sick with stomach ulcers and insomnia or even cancer, just stop. Stop worrying and trust in God and everything will sort itself out!" Uh, no. I don't buy it.
It's hard to explain myself here but this may have worked for me if it weren't about a third of the whole book, and been phrased in a more neutral manner.
All that being said, I am aware that this is a self-help book not a physics textbook. Obviously, the evidence is going to be anecdotal but I still wasn't a fan of this.
Three other points that did not sit well with me but were surely due to my (and the author's) personal backgrounds:
1) This book was written in the 1930s and it showed. It felt a rather sexist to me at times.
2) The author kept referring to many people that may or may not have been famous at the time. Personally, as a non-American, I only knew about two or three of the "celebrities" he mentioned by name and by whose stories or opinions we should have been inspired. It just did not feel legitimate. Much like I were writing a book and quoting my friends and their anecdotes as "evidence". It's not only dubious but boring.
3) The author's faith. Regardless of whether I believe in God or not, there simply was too much emphasis on how everything will sort itself out if we just believe in and rely on God. "If you're so worried that you've made yourself sick with stomach ulcers and insomnia or even cancer, just stop. Stop worrying and trust in God and everything will sort itself out!" Uh, no. I don't buy it.
It's hard to explain myself here but this may have worked for me if it weren't about a third of the whole book, and been phrased in a more neutral manner.
All that being said, I am aware that this is a self-help book not a physics textbook. Obviously, the evidence is going to be anecdotal but I still wasn't a fan of this.
September 1, 2014
廿賳 賱賲 鬲賰賳 賯丿 賯乇兀鬲 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賮囟毓 賲丕 亘賷丿賷賰 噩丕賳亘丕 賵 丕亘丿兀 賯乇丕亍鬲賴 丕賱丌賳 !
賰鬲丕亘 爻賷睾賷乇 胤乇賷賯丞 鬲賮賰賷乇賰 賱賱兀亘丿 賵賷噩毓賱 丕賱丨賷丕丞 兀爻賴賱 賵兀賰孬乇 賲乇賵賳丞貙 賱賷爻 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 丕賱賰賱丕賲 丕賱丨賲丕爻賷 丕賱匕賷 賷賳鬲賴賷 亘賲噩乇丿 丕賱丕賳鬲賴丕亍 賲賳 賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘... 亘賱 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 丕賱鬲胤亘賷賯 丕賱毓賲賱賷 賵丕賱賲賲丕乇爻丞 丕賱賷賵賲賷丞 賱賲亘丕丿卅 賵兀賮賰丕乇 丿賷賱 賰丕乇賳賷噩賷 丕賱賮毓丕賱丞.
賰鬲丕亘 爻賷睾賷乇 胤乇賷賯丞 鬲賮賰賷乇賰 賱賱兀亘丿 賵賷噩毓賱 丕賱丨賷丕丞 兀爻賴賱 賵兀賰孬乇 賲乇賵賳丞貙 賱賷爻 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 丕賱賰賱丕賲 丕賱丨賲丕爻賷 丕賱匕賷 賷賳鬲賴賷 亘賲噩乇丿 丕賱丕賳鬲賴丕亍 賲賳 賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘... 亘賱 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 丕賱鬲胤亘賷賯 丕賱毓賲賱賷 賵丕賱賲賲丕乇爻丞 丕賱賷賵賲賷丞 賱賲亘丕丿卅 賵兀賮賰丕乇 丿賷賱 賰丕乇賳賷噩賷 丕賱賮毓丕賱丞.
May 12, 2019
Some books are evergreen whenever you turn their pages you will find something new. This book is time tested and paved the way for millions of people to live their life happily.
I love reading Dale Carnegie due to his writing styles. He makes everything quiet and clear. His language is pretty easy and elaboration is lucid and detailed.
The book 'How to stop worrying and start living' is a masterpiece by him. He has shown some practical steps in the way of becoming a person free from fear and non-sense worries. It totally depends on us whether we want to live happily or we want to become sad. Of course, there is a certain step in the process of achieving a worry-free life. But the basics reamins the same all the time. And the author has only reflected those basics in a clear manner.
I love reading Dale Carnegie due to his writing styles. He makes everything quiet and clear. His language is pretty easy and elaboration is lucid and detailed.
The book 'How to stop worrying and start living' is a masterpiece by him. He has shown some practical steps in the way of becoming a person free from fear and non-sense worries. It totally depends on us whether we want to live happily or we want to become sad. Of course, there is a certain step in the process of achieving a worry-free life. But the basics reamins the same all the time. And the author has only reflected those basics in a clear manner.
March 31, 2019
"Remember : today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday."
Just re-read this fantastic classic over the past few days, and thank goodness I did.
And thank you for your pioneering work, Mr. Carnegie <3
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鈥淲ork creates mental relaxation.鈥�
鈥淚t is difficult to worry if you鈥檙e doing something that requires planning and thinking.鈥�
鈥淚 went from room to room in the house, compiling a lot of jobs to be done. Scores of items needed to be repaired鈥� I am so busy now that I have no time for worry.鈥�
鈥淚 am too busy. I have no time for worry.鈥� - Winston Churchill
鈥淣inety-nine percent of the things I鈥檝e worried about actually never happened.鈥�
鈥溾€loyds of London has made countless millions of dollars on the tendency of everybody to worry about things that rarely happen鈥� They don鈥檛 call it betting, they call it insurance. But it really is betting, based on the law of averages.鈥�
鈥淏efore I learned to conquer worry, I lived through 11 years of self-made hell.鈥�
鈥淭hose who do not know how to fight worry, die young.鈥�
鈥淚 began to place a stop-loss order on every type of annoyance that came to me鈥� on my temper鈥� my regrets鈥� on all my emotional strains.鈥�
鈥淎 man is what he thinks about all day long. How could he be anything else?鈥� - Emerson
鈥淚 now know with a conviction beyond all doubt that the biggest problem you and I have to deal with - in fact almost the only problem we have to deal with - is choosing the right thoughts.鈥�
鈥淎n angry man is full of poison.鈥� - Confucius
鈥淚t is natural for people to forget to be grateful鈥� Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let鈥檚 expect it. Let鈥檚 remember that Jesus healed 10 lepers in one day, and only 1 thanked him. Why should we expect more gratitude then Jesus got ?鈥�
鈥淚 saw a man who had no legs鈥� He greeted me with a fine smile鈥� If he can be cheerful, happy, and confident without legs, I certainly can with legs鈥� Why don鈥檛 you stop right now and ask yourself 鈥榃hat in the hell am I worrying about?鈥� You will probably find that it is comparatively unimportant and insignificant.鈥�
鈥淎lways be yourself鈥� Nobody is so miserable as he who longs to be somebody other than the person he is in body and mind.鈥�
鈥淵ou and I have such abilities, so let鈥檚 stop worrying that we are not like others. You are something new in this world. Never before since the beginning of time has there ever been anybody exactly like you, and never again for all the ages to come will there be anybody exactly like you ever again.鈥�
鈥淢en do not die from overwork. They die from dissipation and worry. 鈥� from dissipation of their energies and worry because they never seem to get their work done.鈥�
鈥淭he first requisite for a good night鈥檚 sleep is a feeling of security. We need to feel that some power, greater than ourselves, will take care of us until morning鈥� One of the best sleep producing agents which my years of practice have revealed to me is prayer. I say this purely as a medical man.鈥�
鈥淭alk to your body.鈥�
鈥淩est before you get tired.鈥�
鈥淭o prevent worry and fatigue, put enthusiasm into your work.鈥�
"I only know that today, 17 years after leaving the Sahara, I still maintain that happy resignation to the inevitable... When the fierce burning winds take control of our lives and we cannot prevent them, let us accept the inevitable, and then get busy and pick up the pieces."
"...I live every day now as if it's the first day I would have ever seen, and the last I were going to see. I am excited about the daily adventure of living, and nobody in a state of excitement will be unduly troubled by worries... One of the chief reasons for success in life is enthusiasm."
"...When I was terribly depressed, I forced myself to become physically active almost every hour of the day... I'm a great believer in working up a tremendous sweat. I found that depression and worry oozed out of my system this way."
"Two months from now, I shall not be worrying about this, so why worry about it now? Why not assume now the same attitude I will have 2 months from now?"
"...I have lived; they only existed.... I know things they will never know. It is only the women whose eyes have been washed clear with tears who get the broad vision that makes them little sisters to all the world.... I have acquired a sense of humor... when a woman can joke over troubles instead of be in hysterics, nothing much can ever hurt her again." - Dorothy Dix
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Just re-read this fantastic classic over the past few days, and thank goodness I did.
And thank you for your pioneering work, Mr. Carnegie <3
Other quotes :
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鈥淲ork creates mental relaxation.鈥�
鈥淚t is difficult to worry if you鈥檙e doing something that requires planning and thinking.鈥�
鈥淚 went from room to room in the house, compiling a lot of jobs to be done. Scores of items needed to be repaired鈥� I am so busy now that I have no time for worry.鈥�
鈥淚 am too busy. I have no time for worry.鈥� - Winston Churchill
鈥淣inety-nine percent of the things I鈥檝e worried about actually never happened.鈥�
鈥溾€loyds of London has made countless millions of dollars on the tendency of everybody to worry about things that rarely happen鈥� They don鈥檛 call it betting, they call it insurance. But it really is betting, based on the law of averages.鈥�
鈥淏efore I learned to conquer worry, I lived through 11 years of self-made hell.鈥�
鈥淭hose who do not know how to fight worry, die young.鈥�
鈥淚 began to place a stop-loss order on every type of annoyance that came to me鈥� on my temper鈥� my regrets鈥� on all my emotional strains.鈥�
鈥淎 man is what he thinks about all day long. How could he be anything else?鈥� - Emerson
鈥淚 now know with a conviction beyond all doubt that the biggest problem you and I have to deal with - in fact almost the only problem we have to deal with - is choosing the right thoughts.鈥�
鈥淎n angry man is full of poison.鈥� - Confucius
鈥淚t is natural for people to forget to be grateful鈥� Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let鈥檚 expect it. Let鈥檚 remember that Jesus healed 10 lepers in one day, and only 1 thanked him. Why should we expect more gratitude then Jesus got ?鈥�
鈥淚 saw a man who had no legs鈥� He greeted me with a fine smile鈥� If he can be cheerful, happy, and confident without legs, I certainly can with legs鈥� Why don鈥檛 you stop right now and ask yourself 鈥榃hat in the hell am I worrying about?鈥� You will probably find that it is comparatively unimportant and insignificant.鈥�
鈥淎lways be yourself鈥� Nobody is so miserable as he who longs to be somebody other than the person he is in body and mind.鈥�
鈥淵ou and I have such abilities, so let鈥檚 stop worrying that we are not like others. You are something new in this world. Never before since the beginning of time has there ever been anybody exactly like you, and never again for all the ages to come will there be anybody exactly like you ever again.鈥�
鈥淢en do not die from overwork. They die from dissipation and worry. 鈥� from dissipation of their energies and worry because they never seem to get their work done.鈥�
鈥淭he first requisite for a good night鈥檚 sleep is a feeling of security. We need to feel that some power, greater than ourselves, will take care of us until morning鈥� One of the best sleep producing agents which my years of practice have revealed to me is prayer. I say this purely as a medical man.鈥�
鈥淭alk to your body.鈥�
鈥淩est before you get tired.鈥�
鈥淭o prevent worry and fatigue, put enthusiasm into your work.鈥�
"I only know that today, 17 years after leaving the Sahara, I still maintain that happy resignation to the inevitable... When the fierce burning winds take control of our lives and we cannot prevent them, let us accept the inevitable, and then get busy and pick up the pieces."
"...I live every day now as if it's the first day I would have ever seen, and the last I were going to see. I am excited about the daily adventure of living, and nobody in a state of excitement will be unduly troubled by worries... One of the chief reasons for success in life is enthusiasm."
"...When I was terribly depressed, I forced myself to become physically active almost every hour of the day... I'm a great believer in working up a tremendous sweat. I found that depression and worry oozed out of my system this way."
"Two months from now, I shall not be worrying about this, so why worry about it now? Why not assume now the same attitude I will have 2 months from now?"
"...I have lived; they only existed.... I know things they will never know. It is only the women whose eyes have been washed clear with tears who get the broad vision that makes them little sisters to all the world.... I have acquired a sense of humor... when a woman can joke over troubles instead of be in hysterics, nothing much can ever hurt her again." - Dorothy Dix
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August 13, 2011
Wow this book is really good and deserves to be read a few times over your lifetime. The best thing about it is that it can be downloaded free legally since it is so old now that the copyright laws do not apply to it (or something) all you have to do is search for it on Google with something like "How to stop worrying and start living filetype pdf" and its yours to bind or read on a computer. Even if you feel that you do not need to worry you should pick up this book and keep it on the top of your list of things to read because the insights that Dale gives on life are just priceless take for example you are really tired after work even though your work is not demanding - the reason you are probably tired is that you feel your job is boring or you don't like what you do having a job like this will get you more wasted then doing a job that is physically and mentally demanding. The book is full of great insights like this and ways to combat stress I am going to read it again now. If you have not read it then please go get it i can not recommend it enough
May 29, 2018
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兀毓噩亘賳賷 兀爻賱賵亘 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 丕賱賲賳馗賲 賵丕賱賯氐氐 丕賱鬲賷 毓乇囟賴丕 亘丕賱丕囟丕賮丞 廿賱賶 丕賱毓丿賷丿 賲賳 丕賱賳氐丕卅丨 丕賱毓賲賱賷丞 丕賱鬲賷 賷賯丿賲賴丕 賱賱賯乇丕亍
January 26, 2021
1.5 stars
Religious bigotry and preaching disguised as psychology, with some useful information mixed in. Full review to come.
Religious bigotry and preaching disguised as psychology, with some useful information mixed in. Full review to come.
May 17, 2020
Yesterday is dead and tommorow is unborn - so do not worry about them. Instead, focus only on what you can do today!
Cam asta e ideea. :)
Un clasic, nu? 葮i o carte pe c芒t de simpl膬, pe at芒t de important膬, mai ales pentru vremurile pe care le tr膬im. Practic, grijile pe care ni le facem 卯n fiecare zi ne omoar膬, fra葲ilor. Iar nenea Carnegie explic膬 卯n stilul s膬u u葯or de 卯n葲eles cum putem sc膬pa 卯n mare m膬sur膬 de stres, pentru a ne putea bucura de via葲膬. Citind cartea, mi-am dat seama de ce unii oameni pur 葯i simplu fug de joburi care presupun r膬spundere. 脦i invidiez, pentru c膬 sunt con葯tien葲i c膬 responsabilitatea 卯nseamn膬 stres, iar stresul d膬uneaz膬. Vorbesc din proprie experien葲膬. La ultimul control medical, mi s-a g膬sit un lob al ficatului de trei ori mai are dec芒t cel膬lalt. Lucrurile erau mult mai nasoale acum trei ani. Nu am fumat niciodat膬, nu mai beau de trei ani, am o alimenta葲ie bazat膬 pe plante, fac sport aproape zilnic, am sl膬bit 35 de kilograme 卯n ultimii 5 ani. Cu toate astea, nu e de ajuns. Pentru c膬 stresul - presupus de livrarea zilnic膬 a unei emisiuni tv, plus asigurarea resurselor financiare pentru at芒tea familii care depind de f膬bricu葲a asta, Starea na葲iei - este enorm. Iar eu sunt tipul care se consum膬 din orice, care pune la suflet, care reac葲ioneaz膬 imediat, de multe ori impulsiv. Eram, mai bine zis, pentru c膬 de c芒nd citesc 葯i 卯nv膬葲 at芒t de mult am reu葯it s膬 schimb radical abordarea. La cartea lui Carnegie am revenit s膬pt膬m芒na trecut膬, c膬ut芒nd bibliografie pentru cartea despre un stil de via葲膬 s膬n膬tos, la care lucrez 卯mpreun膬 cu a mea coleg膬, Alexandra Corbu. 葮i sunt acolo c芒teva sfaturi excelente. V膬 dau doar c芒teva.
Confuzia d膬 na葯tere grijilor. A葯a c膬 e bine s膬 afli ce anume nu 葲i-e clar 葯i s膬 rezolvi problema. 葮ti葲i, da? Situa葲iile pe care le tot am芒na葲i 葯i la a c膬ror rezolvare v膬 g芒ndi葲i zilnic, dar nu face葲i nimic? Astea ne distrug 卯ncet, dar sigur. 脦nfrunta葲i-le pur 葯i simplu, spune autorul. Sigur, u葯or de zis, ceva mai greu de f膬cut, nu?
Tr膬ie葯te azi, 葲ine departe de mintea ta grijile de ieri 葯i pe cele de m芒ine. Sigur, pare o prostie, dar nu e. Ideea e c膬 am芒n膬m tot timpul via葲a, fra葲ilor, nu crede葲i? Muncim ca sclavii, ne facem o familie, credit, cas膬, copii, nu neap膬rat 卯n ordinea asta, 葯i tragem tare pentru ce? Pentru ce-o s膬 fie la pensia pe care n-o apuc膬m oricum? G芒ndi葲i-v膬 la asta, pe mine m-a f膬cut s膬 vreau s膬 tr膬iesc 葯i s膬 m膬 bucur de fiecare azi.
脦nc膬 una 葯i gata: fii mai fericit concentr芒ndu-te pe p膬r葲ile pozitive ale vie葲ii 葯i fiind bucuros. Sigur c膬 asta nu 卯nseamn膬 s膬 r芒zi ca boul indiferent ce se 卯nt芒mpl膬, dar nu v膬 pute葲i 卯nchipui c芒t de mult ajut膬 o setare pozitiv膬 a min葲ii.
Cam asta e ideea. :)
Un clasic, nu? 葮i o carte pe c芒t de simpl膬, pe at芒t de important膬, mai ales pentru vremurile pe care le tr膬im. Practic, grijile pe care ni le facem 卯n fiecare zi ne omoar膬, fra葲ilor. Iar nenea Carnegie explic膬 卯n stilul s膬u u葯or de 卯n葲eles cum putem sc膬pa 卯n mare m膬sur膬 de stres, pentru a ne putea bucura de via葲膬. Citind cartea, mi-am dat seama de ce unii oameni pur 葯i simplu fug de joburi care presupun r膬spundere. 脦i invidiez, pentru c膬 sunt con葯tien葲i c膬 responsabilitatea 卯nseamn膬 stres, iar stresul d膬uneaz膬. Vorbesc din proprie experien葲膬. La ultimul control medical, mi s-a g膬sit un lob al ficatului de trei ori mai are dec芒t cel膬lalt. Lucrurile erau mult mai nasoale acum trei ani. Nu am fumat niciodat膬, nu mai beau de trei ani, am o alimenta葲ie bazat膬 pe plante, fac sport aproape zilnic, am sl膬bit 35 de kilograme 卯n ultimii 5 ani. Cu toate astea, nu e de ajuns. Pentru c膬 stresul - presupus de livrarea zilnic膬 a unei emisiuni tv, plus asigurarea resurselor financiare pentru at芒tea familii care depind de f膬bricu葲a asta, Starea na葲iei - este enorm. Iar eu sunt tipul care se consum膬 din orice, care pune la suflet, care reac葲ioneaz膬 imediat, de multe ori impulsiv. Eram, mai bine zis, pentru c膬 de c芒nd citesc 葯i 卯nv膬葲 at芒t de mult am reu葯it s膬 schimb radical abordarea. La cartea lui Carnegie am revenit s膬pt膬m芒na trecut膬, c膬ut芒nd bibliografie pentru cartea despre un stil de via葲膬 s膬n膬tos, la care lucrez 卯mpreun膬 cu a mea coleg膬, Alexandra Corbu. 葮i sunt acolo c芒teva sfaturi excelente. V膬 dau doar c芒teva.
Confuzia d膬 na葯tere grijilor. A葯a c膬 e bine s膬 afli ce anume nu 葲i-e clar 葯i s膬 rezolvi problema. 葮ti葲i, da? Situa葲iile pe care le tot am芒na葲i 葯i la a c膬ror rezolvare v膬 g芒ndi葲i zilnic, dar nu face葲i nimic? Astea ne distrug 卯ncet, dar sigur. 脦nfrunta葲i-le pur 葯i simplu, spune autorul. Sigur, u葯or de zis, ceva mai greu de f膬cut, nu?
Tr膬ie葯te azi, 葲ine departe de mintea ta grijile de ieri 葯i pe cele de m芒ine. Sigur, pare o prostie, dar nu e. Ideea e c膬 am芒n膬m tot timpul via葲a, fra葲ilor, nu crede葲i? Muncim ca sclavii, ne facem o familie, credit, cas膬, copii, nu neap膬rat 卯n ordinea asta, 葯i tragem tare pentru ce? Pentru ce-o s膬 fie la pensia pe care n-o apuc膬m oricum? G芒ndi葲i-v膬 la asta, pe mine m-a f膬cut s膬 vreau s膬 tr膬iesc 葯i s膬 m膬 bucur de fiecare azi.
脦nc膬 una 葯i gata: fii mai fericit concentr芒ndu-te pe p膬r葲ile pozitive ale vie葲ii 葯i fiind bucuros. Sigur c膬 asta nu 卯nseamn膬 s膬 r芒zi ca boul indiferent ce se 卯nt芒mpl膬, dar nu v膬 pute葲i 卯nchipui c芒t de mult ajut膬 o setare pozitiv膬 a min葲ii.
June 14, 2021
Many people sneer at self help books, but I credit Dale Carnegie's How to Stop Worrying and Start Living with being one of several books that helped me to understand and control the anxiety and panic disorder that also plagued most of the members of my family. Fear is often born from "not understanding," so I made sure to examine my fears before I gave into them.
I agree that mental health issues need to be addressed with proper medical assessment and intervention, where required, but Carnegie's books were the stepping stones that helped me take charge of my life, get a good education and then decide what I wanted to do with that education. I started to take the conventional path, but at one point, I realized that keeping up with the Joneses was not making me happy, so I made some radical lifestyle changes. We don't need as much as we want, and our possessions start to own us after a while. Always good to keep that in mind!
June 25, 2012
- Advice - live in day-tight compartments.
- Imagine the worst, accept it, and try to improve upon it. Then you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
- Get the facts, analyze them, arrive at a decision, and act on the decision. You worry more when you don't know
- what is the problem? What is the cause? What are all possible solutions? What solution do you suggest?
- being busy leaves no time for worry
- don't be bothered by the little things
- cooperate with the inevitable. Bend like the willow; don't resist like the oak
- when we change our actions, we change the feeling. Act happy even if you're not.
- You don't attract what you want, but you attract what you are
- Don't expect others to be grateful. Give for the inner joy of giving. To raise grateful children, we have to be grateful.
- quote by John Baillie - "What makes a man a Christian is neither his intellectual acceptance of certain ideas, nor his conformity to a certain rule, but his possession of a certain Spirit, and hsi participation in a certain Life."
- no one ever kicks a dead dog - if you're kicked and criticized, it means you are accomplishing something and are worthy of attention.
- people aren't thinking about you. They're thinking about themselves
- take naps.
- relax your eyes
- do things in the order of importance.
- clear desk of everything not related to the immediate problem at hand.
- don't put off decisions
- Imagine the worst, accept it, and try to improve upon it. Then you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
- Get the facts, analyze them, arrive at a decision, and act on the decision. You worry more when you don't know
- what is the problem? What is the cause? What are all possible solutions? What solution do you suggest?
- being busy leaves no time for worry
- don't be bothered by the little things
- cooperate with the inevitable. Bend like the willow; don't resist like the oak
- when we change our actions, we change the feeling. Act happy even if you're not.
- You don't attract what you want, but you attract what you are
- Don't expect others to be grateful. Give for the inner joy of giving. To raise grateful children, we have to be grateful.
- quote by John Baillie - "What makes a man a Christian is neither his intellectual acceptance of certain ideas, nor his conformity to a certain rule, but his possession of a certain Spirit, and hsi participation in a certain Life."
- no one ever kicks a dead dog - if you're kicked and criticized, it means you are accomplishing something and are worthy of attention.
- people aren't thinking about you. They're thinking about themselves
- take naps.
- relax your eyes
- do things in the order of importance.
- clear desk of everything not related to the immediate problem at hand.
- don't put off decisions
August 5, 2022
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For every ailment under the sun
There is a remedy, or there is none.
If there be one, try to find it,
If there is none, never mind it!
July 8, 2020
What a terrible book. 5% of it is good advice, 45% is destructive (get rid of your worries by drowning yourself in work) and has aged badly over the seven decades since it was written. The worst part is yet to come though. The leftover parts of this book promote a universal solution to getting over worrying - Jesus.
This book deserves to be taken off the shelves of bookstores and not by customers.
This book deserves to be taken off the shelves of bookstores and not by customers.
July 24, 2011
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2- 丕賱丕賳鬲賯丕丿 丕賱孬丕賳賷 賱賱賰鬲丕亘 乇亘賲丕 賱丕 賷乇丕賴 丕賱噩賲賷毓 賲賳胤賯賷丕 賵禺氐賵氐丕賸 丕賳 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 兀賲乇賷賰賷 賲爻賷丨賷 ... 賵賱賰賳賳賷 兀噩丿 兀賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 禺爻乇 賰孬賷乇丕賸 賱兀賳賴 賱賲 賷爻鬲賮丿 賲賳 賲亘丕丿卅 丕賱廿爻賱丕賲 ... 賵賱毓賱 丕賱賯氐丞 丕賱鬲賷 爻乇丿賴丕 賮賷 賳賴丕賷丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 毓賳 匕賱賰 丕賱乇噩賱 丕賱匕賷 毓丕卮 賲毓 毓乇亘 丕賱氐丨乇丕亍 丕賱賲丐賲賳賷賳 亘丕賱賯囟丕亍 賵丕賱賯丿乇 丿賱賷賱 毓賱賶 賰賱丕賲賷 .... 賳丨賳 賳丐賲賳 亘丕賱賯囟丕亍 賵丕賱賯丿乇 ... 亘賱 賳丐賲賳 亘兀賰孬乇 賲賳 匕賱賰 ... 賳丐賲賳 亘兀賳 賲丕 賳乇丕賴 卮乇丕賸 賯丿 賷賰賵賳 禺賷乇丕賸 賲賳 丨賷孬 賱丕 賳丿乇賷 ... 賵賱賵 兀賳賳丕 噩賲賷毓丕賸 賮賴賲賳丕 賴匕丕 丕賱賲毓賳賶 賵丕賳胤賱賯賳丕 亘賴 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賳丕 賱賲丕 丕爻鬲胤丕毓鬲 賳賵丕卅亘 丕賱丿賳賷丕 賲噩鬲賲毓丞 兀賳 鬲賯賮 賮賷 胤乇賷賯賳丕 ... 賵賱賰賳 兀毓賵丿 賮兀賯賵賱 ... 賰孬賷乇丕賸 賲丕 賳毓乇賮 爻亘賷賱 丕賱丨賯 賵丕賱丨賯賷賯賷丞 賵賱賰賳賳丕 賳乇賮囟 丕賱爻賷乇 賮賷賴 ... 毓賳丕丿 丕賱廿賳爻丕賳 賵乇毓賵賳鬲賴 賵噩賴賱賴 ... 賵賱丕 卮賷亍 睾賷乇 匕賱賰 ... 賴賵 爻亘亘 賯賱賯賳丕 賵丨夭賳賳丕 賵賰丌亘鬲賳丕
賮賷 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 兀毓賵丿 賮兀賯賵賱 ... 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 乇丕卅毓 ... 賯乇兀鬲賴 丕賱賰鬲乇賵賳賷丕 賵爻兀亘丨孬 毓賳賴 賮賷 丕賱賲賰鬲亘丕鬲 賱兀賯鬲賳賷賴 ... 賱兀賳賴 賰賳夭 賲毓乇賮賷 亘賱丕 卮賰
賯賷賲鬲 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 亘兀乇亘毓丞 賳噩賵賲 賲賳 兀氐賱 禺賲爻丞 ... 賱兀賳賴 乇丕卅毓 ... 賷爻鬲丨賯 丕賱賯乇丕亍丞 亘賱丕 卮賰 ... 賵兀賳氐丨 賰賱 廿賳爻丕賳 亘賯乇丕卅鬲賴 賲乇丞 賵賲乇鬲賷賳 賵兀賰孬乇 ... 賵丕賱丕丨鬲賮丕馗 亘賳爻禺丞 賵乇賯賷丞 賲賳賴 賷囟毓賴丕 亘賲鬲賳丕賵賱 賷丿賴 毓賱賶 丕賱丿賵丕賲
兀噩賲賱 賲丕 賮賷 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 兀賳賴 賷亘鬲毓丿 毓賳 丕賱禺賷丕賱賷丞 賵丕賱賲孬丕賱賷丞 丕賱賲胤賱賯丞 ... 賮賴賵 賷毓鬲賲丿 丿丕卅賲丕 毓賱賶 丕賱賯氐氐 丕賱賵丕賯毓賷丞 丕賱賲賵孬賯丞 亘丕賱兀爻賲丕亍 賵丕賱兀賲賰賳丞 ... 丕賱賯氐氐 丕賱鬲賷 爻乇丿賴丕 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 賲匕賴賱丞 賮賷 賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱兀丨賷丕賳 ... 鬲爻鬲睾乇亘 賲賳 賵噩賵丿 兀卮禺丕氐 丕爻鬲胤丕毓賵丕 賲賵丕噩賴丞 賲卮賰賱丕鬲賴賲 亘賴匕賴 丕賱賯賵丞 賵亘匕賱賰 丕賱孬亘丕鬲 ... 賵亘賰賱 鬲賱賰 丕賱卮噩丕毓丞
鬲爻鬲睾乇亘 賲賳 兀卮禺丕氐 賳賴囟賵丕 賲賳 丕賱賯丕毓 賵乇賮囟賵丕 丕賱丕爻鬲爻賱丕賲 賱賱賰賵丕乇孬 丕賱鬲賷 丿丕賴賲鬲 丨賷丕鬲賴賲
賷丐賱賲賳賷 兀賳賳賷 賰賱賲丕 賯乇兀鬲 兀賰孬乇 賵丕胤賱毓鬲 兀賰孬乇 兀噩丿 丿丕卅賲丕賸 兀賳 噩賲賷毓 丕賱匕賷賳 亘賱睾賵丕 丕賱賲噩丿 賵丕賱毓馗賲丞 賵丕噩賴賵丕 賲氐丕毓亘 賱丕 賷胤賷賯賴丕 丕賱賰孬賷乇賵賳 ... 賵賰兀賳 賲賮鬲丕丨 丕賱丿禺賵賱 廿賱賶 毓丕賱賲 丕賱毓馗賲丕亍 賴賵 丕賲鬲丨丕賳 賷卮賷亘 賱賴 卮毓乇 丕賱乇兀爻 賵賷賮鬲賰 亘丕賱囟毓賮丕亍 ... 賵賰兀賳賰 毓賳丿 賲賵賯賮 賲毓賷賳 爻鬲囟胤乇 丕賱丕禺鬲賷丕乇 亘賷賳 賲賵丕噩賴丞 丕賱毓丕氐賮丞 丕賵 丕賱丕爻鬲爻賱丕賲 賱賱睾乇賯
禺爻乇 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賳噩賲丞 賵丕丨丿丞 賱爻亘亘賷賳 丕孬賳賷賳 :
1- 賱兀賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 亘賲孬丕亘丞 丕賱爻賱丕丨 丕賱匕賷 賷賮賷丿賳丕 亘賱丕 卮賰 賮賷 賲賵丕噩賴丞 丕賱丨賷丕丞 賵丕賱賯賱賯 ... 賵賱賰賳 丿丕卅賲丕賸 賵賰賲丕 賮賷 噩賲賷毓 賰鬲亘 丕賱鬲賳賲賷丞 丕賱亘卮乇賷丞 賳丨鬲丕噩 賯亘賱 丕賱丕爻鬲賮丕丿丞 賲賳賴丕 廿賱賶 丕鬲禺丕匕 賯乇丕乇 丨丕爻賲 亘鬲睾賷賷乇 丨賷丕鬲賳丕 賵丕賱亘丿亍 賲賳 噩丿賷丿 ... 賴匕丕 丕賱賯乇丕乇 丕賱匕賷 賱丕 賷賲賱賰 噩賲賷毓賳丕 丕賱噩乇兀丞 毓賱賶 丕鬲禺丕匕賴 ... 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賷毓胤賷賰 丿賱賷賱丕賸 乇丕卅毓丕賸 賱鬲丨賷丕 亘爻毓丕丿丞 賵賱丕 卮賰 亘兀賳 廿匕丕 胤亘賯鬲 50% 賲賳 丕賱賲亘丕丿卅 丕賱鬲賷 爻乇丿賴丕 ( 丿賷賱 賰丕乇賳賷噩賷 ) 賮廿賳賰 爻鬲丨賷丕 亘爻毓丕丿丞 賵爻賱丕賲 ... 賵賱賰賳 !!
兀賱丕 賷毓乇賮 丕賱賰孬賷乇賵賳 賲賳丕 丕賱氐賵丕亘 賵丕賱禺胤兀 ... 賵賲毓 匕賱賰 賳爻賷乇 賮賷 賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱兀丨賷丕丞 亘胤乇賷賯 丕賱禺胤兀 賵賳鬲乇賰 丕賱氐賵丕亘
賱賲丕匕丕 責!責 乇亘賲丕 賴賷 賮胤乇丞 丕賱亘卮乇 ... 乇亘賲丕 賴賵 囟毓賮賳丕 ... 乇亘賲丕 賳丨鬲丕噩 賱鬲賱賰 丕賱賰丕乇孬丞 賵丕賱賲丨賳丞 丕賱鬲賷 賲乇 亘賴丕 兀睾賱亘 兀亘胤丕賱 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賱賳鬲禺匕 賯乇丕乇丕賸 亘鬲睾賷賷乇 丨賷丕鬲賳丕 亘毓丿 兀賳 賳賰賵賳 賯丿 賮賯丿賳丕 賰賱 卮賷亍
2- 丕賱丕賳鬲賯丕丿 丕賱孬丕賳賷 賱賱賰鬲丕亘 乇亘賲丕 賱丕 賷乇丕賴 丕賱噩賲賷毓 賲賳胤賯賷丕 賵禺氐賵氐丕賸 丕賳 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 兀賲乇賷賰賷 賲爻賷丨賷 ... 賵賱賰賳賳賷 兀噩丿 兀賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 禺爻乇 賰孬賷乇丕賸 賱兀賳賴 賱賲 賷爻鬲賮丿 賲賳 賲亘丕丿卅 丕賱廿爻賱丕賲 ... 賵賱毓賱 丕賱賯氐丞 丕賱鬲賷 爻乇丿賴丕 賮賷 賳賴丕賷丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 毓賳 匕賱賰 丕賱乇噩賱 丕賱匕賷 毓丕卮 賲毓 毓乇亘 丕賱氐丨乇丕亍 丕賱賲丐賲賳賷賳 亘丕賱賯囟丕亍 賵丕賱賯丿乇 丿賱賷賱 毓賱賶 賰賱丕賲賷 .... 賳丨賳 賳丐賲賳 亘丕賱賯囟丕亍 賵丕賱賯丿乇 ... 亘賱 賳丐賲賳 亘兀賰孬乇 賲賳 匕賱賰 ... 賳丐賲賳 亘兀賳 賲丕 賳乇丕賴 卮乇丕賸 賯丿 賷賰賵賳 禺賷乇丕賸 賲賳 丨賷孬 賱丕 賳丿乇賷 ... 賵賱賵 兀賳賳丕 噩賲賷毓丕賸 賮賴賲賳丕 賴匕丕 丕賱賲毓賳賶 賵丕賳胤賱賯賳丕 亘賴 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賳丕 賱賲丕 丕爻鬲胤丕毓鬲 賳賵丕卅亘 丕賱丿賳賷丕 賲噩鬲賲毓丞 兀賳 鬲賯賮 賮賷 胤乇賷賯賳丕 ... 賵賱賰賳 兀毓賵丿 賮兀賯賵賱 ... 賰孬賷乇丕賸 賲丕 賳毓乇賮 爻亘賷賱 丕賱丨賯 賵丕賱丨賯賷賯賷丞 賵賱賰賳賳丕 賳乇賮囟 丕賱爻賷乇 賮賷賴 ... 毓賳丕丿 丕賱廿賳爻丕賳 賵乇毓賵賳鬲賴 賵噩賴賱賴 ... 賵賱丕 卮賷亍 睾賷乇 匕賱賰 ... 賴賵 爻亘亘 賯賱賯賳丕 賵丨夭賳賳丕 賵賰丌亘鬲賳丕
賮賷 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 兀毓賵丿 賮兀賯賵賱 ... 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 乇丕卅毓 ... 賯乇兀鬲賴 丕賱賰鬲乇賵賳賷丕 賵爻兀亘丨孬 毓賳賴 賮賷 丕賱賲賰鬲亘丕鬲 賱兀賯鬲賳賷賴 ... 賱兀賳賴 賰賳夭 賲毓乇賮賷 亘賱丕 卮賰
November 26, 2015
This "holy" book contains tremendously effective, practical and scientific-based solutions to overcome stress and a state of being worry for different scenarios that might happen for a person. A marvelous, must-read book for everyone.
This book is among the very most valuable gifts you could give to a friend or family member.
This book is among the very most valuable gifts you could give to a friend or family member.
January 26, 2015
丿乇 夭賳丿诏賷 趩诏賵賳賴 丿賷丿賳 賵 卮賳賷丿賳 貙 禺蹖賱蹖 賲賴賲 丕爻鬲. 诏丕賴賷 賲賵乇丿 鬲毓乇蹖賮 賵 诏丕賴 鬲賲爻禺乇 賵 丕賳鬲賯丕丿賴丕賷 卮丿賷丿 賯乇丕乇 賲賷 诏賷乇蹖賲 丕賲丕 丕賷賳賰賴 趩賴 亘乇丿丕卮鬲賷 丕夭 丌賳賴丕 亘賰賳賷賲 賵 丕賷賳賰賴 趩賯丿乇 賵丕賯毓賷 賵 賷丕 丕夭 乇賵賷 丨爻丕丿鬲 賵 賰賷賳賴 賵 蹖丕 丨蹖賱賴 賲賷 亘丕卮賳丿貙賲賴丕乇鬲 禺丕氐賷 賲賷 禺賵丕賴丿 讴賴 亘賴 賯賵賱 倬夭乇诏丕賳貙倬蹖乇丕賴賳 倬丕乇賴 讴乇丿賳 賲蹖禺賵丕賴丿.丕賲丕 亘噩丕蹖 倬丕乇賴 讴乇丿賳 賱亘丕爻 賲蹖 卮賵丿 讴鬲丕亘蹖 亘丿爻鬲 诏乇賮鬲 賵 丿乇 禺蹖丕賱 倬蹖乇丕賴賳 倬丕乇賴 丕蹖賳 亘夭乇诏丕賳 乇賵 倬賵卮蹖丿 賵 夭賳丿诏蹖 賴丕蹖 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲蹖 乇賵 鬲噩乇亘賴 讴乇丿
趩賳丿 賯爻賲鬲 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 禺蹖賱蹖 丿賵爻 丿丕卮鬲賲
蹖讴蹖卮 ((賰爻賷 亘賴 爻诏 賲乇丿賴 賱诏丿 賳賲賷 夭賳丿)) 賰賴 賷賰 囟乇亘 丕賱賲孬賱 丌賲乇賷賰丕賷賷 丕爻鬲 賵 亘賴 诏賵賳賴 丕賷 賲鬲乇丕丿賮 丕賷賳 爻禺賳 賲卮賴賵乇 (( 亘丕丿 亘丕 賮丕賳賵爻 賴丕賷 禺丕賲賵卮 賰丕乇賷 賳丿丕乇丿))賴爻鬲卮
賵賯鬲蹖 亘夭乇诏 亘丕卮蹖 賲賵乇丿 丨賲賱丕鬲 賲賳鬲賯丿丕賳 賯乇丕乇 賲蹖诏蹖乇蹖 鬲丕 鬲賵乇丕 亘卮讴賳賳丿 賵 禺賵丿 丿蹖丿賴 卮賵賳丿
蹖讴蹖卮 賴賲 賲丕噩乇丕蹖 賵丕賯毓蹖 賲乇丿蹖 亘賵丿 讴賴 丕夭 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲丿乇賳 賵 賵丨卮蹖鬲 噩賳诏 噩賴丕賳蹖 禺爻鬲賴 卮丿賴 亘賵丿 賵 亘賴 氐丨乇丕蹖蹖 丿乇 丌賮乇蹖賯丕 賲蹖乇賴 賵 诏賵爻賮賳丿 賲蹖禺乇賴 賵 禺賱丕氐賴 丿丕賲倬乇賵乇蹖 倬蹖卮賴 賲蹖讴賳賴
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趩賳丿 賯爻賲鬲 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 禺蹖賱蹖 丿賵爻 丿丕卮鬲賲
蹖讴蹖卮 ((賰爻賷 亘賴 爻诏 賲乇丿賴 賱诏丿 賳賲賷 夭賳丿)) 賰賴 賷賰 囟乇亘 丕賱賲孬賱 丌賲乇賷賰丕賷賷 丕爻鬲 賵 亘賴 诏賵賳賴 丕賷 賲鬲乇丕丿賮 丕賷賳 爻禺賳 賲卮賴賵乇 (( 亘丕丿 亘丕 賮丕賳賵爻 賴丕賷 禺丕賲賵卮 賰丕乇賷 賳丿丕乇丿))賴爻鬲卮
賵賯鬲蹖 亘夭乇诏 亘丕卮蹖 賲賵乇丿 丨賲賱丕鬲 賲賳鬲賯丿丕賳 賯乇丕乇 賲蹖诏蹖乇蹖 鬲丕 鬲賵乇丕 亘卮讴賳賳丿 賵 禺賵丿 丿蹖丿賴 卮賵賳丿
蹖讴蹖卮 賴賲 賲丕噩乇丕蹖 賵丕賯毓蹖 賲乇丿蹖 亘賵丿 讴賴 丕夭 夭賳丿诏蹖 賲丿乇賳 賵 賵丨卮蹖鬲 噩賳诏 噩賴丕賳蹖 禺爻鬲賴 卮丿賴 亘賵丿 賵 亘賴 氐丨乇丕蹖蹖 丿乇 丌賮乇蹖賯丕 賲蹖乇賴 賵 诏賵爻賮賳丿 賲蹖禺乇賴 賵 禺賱丕氐賴 丿丕賲倬乇賵乇蹖 倬蹖卮賴 賲蹖讴賳賴
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May 17, 2017
This was such a frustrating book to read.
1. Carnegie relies very heavily on anecdotal evidence. I usually like that in self-improvement books, provided that the author also includes scientific evidence to back it all up. Carnegie does not. Furthermore, a number of the examples he uses are unconvincing at best. I mean, being diagnosed with incurable illness/paralysis but being instantaneously healed through the power of Jesus and some cheerfulness? Sure, sure, I believe you.
2. This book did not age well. At all.
When it was first published, this sort of 'toughen up, people have it worse than you' talk probably would've been more than acceptable to say to people struggling with anxiety. Nowadays, it just highlights how little the author and the society at the time understood mental health.
A bit shocking, considering that Carnegie spends an entire chapter in the beginning talking about the importance of taking care of your psychological well-being.
3. It contradicts itself. I've already mentioned that Carnegie simultaneously recommends 'taking care of your mental health' and 'to stop being selfish and gain some perspective'. In addition to that he also heavily promotes christianity, and even flat-out says that without religion it's impossible to truly enjoy life/be a good person. Hell, for a whole chapter he would not shut up about religion. That is, after saying 'it's fine to be atheist, and I'll use an example of an atheist writer here just for you'. What?
4. Another quote that pissed me off essentially said: 'be nice and friendly. It's impossible to be sad and depressed when you're being friendly and smiling at strangers.' What kind of logic is that? I spend a day saying hello, how are you? to people on the street and my sadness and worries magically go away? There are so many accounts of the most gregarious personalities secretly being depressed and anxious. Take for instance the numerous comedians and actors who have struggled with depression.
These are the main criticisms I have, but there are many more. Carnegie should've stuck to the 'become a better businessman' type of writing/lecturing. He does NOT understand psychology. This book is literally his retelling of random stories he heard and read, coupled with old aphorisms.. It's essentially: "Mrs. A got better through the power of Jesus, Mr. B stopped being anxious because he remembered about the starving children in Africa and got ashamed" x100. There are a few good bits, don't get me wrong, but the majority of the book is just garbage.
1. Carnegie relies very heavily on anecdotal evidence. I usually like that in self-improvement books, provided that the author also includes scientific evidence to back it all up. Carnegie does not. Furthermore, a number of the examples he uses are unconvincing at best. I mean, being diagnosed with incurable illness/paralysis but being instantaneously healed through the power of Jesus and some cheerfulness? Sure, sure, I believe you.
2. This book did not age well. At all.
When it was first published, this sort of 'toughen up, people have it worse than you' talk probably would've been more than acceptable to say to people struggling with anxiety. Nowadays, it just highlights how little the author and the society at the time understood mental health.
A bit shocking, considering that Carnegie spends an entire chapter in the beginning talking about the importance of taking care of your psychological well-being.
3. It contradicts itself. I've already mentioned that Carnegie simultaneously recommends 'taking care of your mental health' and 'to stop being selfish and gain some perspective'. In addition to that he also heavily promotes christianity, and even flat-out says that without religion it's impossible to truly enjoy life/be a good person. Hell, for a whole chapter he would not shut up about religion. That is, after saying 'it's fine to be atheist, and I'll use an example of an atheist writer here just for you'. What?
4. Another quote that pissed me off essentially said: 'be nice and friendly. It's impossible to be sad and depressed when you're being friendly and smiling at strangers.' What kind of logic is that? I spend a day saying hello, how are you? to people on the street and my sadness and worries magically go away? There are so many accounts of the most gregarious personalities secretly being depressed and anxious. Take for instance the numerous comedians and actors who have struggled with depression.
These are the main criticisms I have, but there are many more. Carnegie should've stuck to the 'become a better businessman' type of writing/lecturing. He does NOT understand psychology. This book is literally his retelling of random stories he heard and read, coupled with old aphorisms.. It's essentially: "Mrs. A got better through the power of Jesus, Mr. B stopped being anxious because he remembered about the starving children in Africa and got ashamed" x100. There are a few good bits, don't get me wrong, but the majority of the book is just garbage.
March 12, 2020
The book provides one with practical solutions to overcome one's worries, yet I found it quite long! I mean 300 pages of numerous examples of worrywarts in hope of the readers' identification with one of them are not necessary since their approach to prevail their fears and worries were almost the same in many cases. Carnegie's strive for assuring the reader that these examples are real by mentioning their full name and addresses was really on my nerves. The way he tried to tell the reader that just because s/he was not born so-and-so, s/he has to stop complaining about their worries was quite a self-esteem ruiner. And his strive to come up with religious names even made it worse.
讴鬲丕亘 賳讴鬲賴 賴丕蹖 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 禺賵亘蹖 丿丕乇賴 賵賱蹖 賵丕賯毓丕 300 氐賮丨賴 夭蹖丕丿蹖賴 賵 丌賵乇丿賳 丕蹖賳 賴賲賴 賲孬丕賱 亘賴 丕賲蹖丿 丕蹖賳讴賴 亘丕賱丕禺乇賴 禺賵丕賳賳丿賴 亘鬲賵賳賴 亘丕 蹖讴蹖卮賵賳 賴賲匕丕鬲 倬賳丿丕乇蹖 讴賳賴 賵 亘賴 丕囟胤乇丕亘卮 睾賱亘賴 讴賳賴 囟乇賵乇鬲蹖 賳丿丕乇賴 亘賴 禺氐賵氐 讴賴 乇賵蹖讴乇丿 丕賮乇丕丿 丿乇 睾賱亘賴 亘賴 丕囟胤乇丕亘卮賵賳 鬲賵 禺蹖賱蹖 丕夭 賲賵丕乇丿 丕夭 蹖讴 噩賳爻 賴爻鬲 賵賱蹖 賮賯胤 馗丕賴乇 賲卮讴賱丕鬲卮賵賳 亘丕賴賲 賮乇賯 賲蹖 讴賳賴. 鬲賱丕卮 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 亘乇丕蹖 丕蹖賳讴賴 丌丿乇爻 賵 丕爻賲 讴丕賲賱 丕賮乇丕丿 乇賵 亘蹖丕乇賴 亘乇禺賱丕賮 鬲氐賵乇 賲乇丨賵賲 讴賴 賮讴乇 賲蹖 讴乇丿 丕蹖賳胤賵乇 亘賴鬲乇 賲蹖鬲賵賳賴 丕胤賲蹖賳丕賳 禺賵丕賳賳丿賴 乇賵 噩賱亘 讴賳賴 賴賲 亘蹖卮鬲乇 乇賵 丕毓氐丕亘 亘賵丿.
趩蹖夭蹖 讴賴 賵丕賯毓丕 睾蹖乇賯丕亘賱 鬲丨賲賱 亘賵丿 丕蹖賳 亘賵丿 讴賴 趩賳丿噩丕 爻毓蹖 丿丕卮鬲 亘诏賴 趩賵賳 賵丕爻賴 賮賱丕賳蹖 賵 賮賱丕賳蹖 趩賳蹖賳 丕鬲賮丕賯蹖 丕賮鬲丕丿賴 丕诏乇 亘乇丕蹖 賲賳 賵 鬲賵 丕鬲賮丕賯 亘蹖丕賮鬲賴 讴賴 賲卮讴賱蹖 賳丿丕乇賴 賲丕 丿乇 亘乇丕亘乇 賮賱丕賳蹖 讴蹖 賴爻鬲蹖賲 讴賴 卮丕讴蹖 亘卮蹖賲 蹖毓賳蹖 乇爻賲丕 毓夭鬲 賳賮爻 丌丿賲蹖 乇賵 亘賴 賮丕讴 賲蹖丿賴 讴賴 丨丕賱丕 趩賵賳 賲賳 賮賱丕賳蹖 賳蹖爻鬲賲 丌丿賲 賳蹖爻鬲賲 賵 丿乇 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 賮賱丕賳蹖 賴賲 丿賯鬲 亘賴 禺乇噩 丿丕丿賴 讴賴 賲孬賱丕 丕诏乇 禺賵丕賳賳丿賴 丌丿賲 賲匕賴亘蹖 丕蹖 亘丕卮賴 賱丕賯賱 丕夭 丕蹖賳 賲賳馗乇 鬲丨鬲 鬲丕孬蹖乇 賯乇丕乇 亘诏蹖乇賴 .
賳讴鬲賴 蹖 賯丕亘賱 鬲賵噩賴 亘乇丕蹖 賲禺丕胤亘 賴丕蹖 丕蹖乇丕賳蹖 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 丕诏乇 丕夭 丿讴鬲乇 賴賱丕讴賵蹖蹖 禺賵卮鬲賵賳 賲蹖丕丿 亘丕 禺賵賳丿賳 讴鬲丕亘 賲蹖賮賴賲蹖丿 丿讴鬲乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 趩賳丿亘丕乇 禺賵賳丿賴 賵 丨鬲蹖 鬲讴蹖賴 讴賱丕賲 賴丕卮 乇賵 賴賲 丕蹖賳噩丕 倬蹖丿丕 賲蹖 讴賳蹖丿 賲孬賱丕 "丿乇 鬲丨賱蹖賱 賳賴丕蹖蹖" 蹖丕 "讴賵鬲丕賴 爻禺賳" 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 賲賳 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿
August 24, 2014
兀毓鬲亘乇 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賲賳 兀乇賵毓 丕賱賰鬲亘 丕賱毓賲賱賷丞 丕賱鬲賷 鬲噩毓賱賰 鬲鬲乇賰 毓丕丿丞 "丕賱賯賱賯" 丕賱賰乇賷賴丞 亘禺胤賵丕鬲 毓賲賱賷丞 賵賵丕賯毓賷丞
賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賱丕 睾亘丕乇 毓賱賷賴 賵賷爻鬲丨賯 卮賴乇鬲賴 賵賱賰賳賷 賮賷 丕賱丕賵賳丞 丕賱兀禺賷乇丞 亘丿兀鬲 兀丐賲賳 兀賳 賲丕 兀賯乇丐賴 賮賷 丕賱賰鬲亘 丕賱鬲賷 廿賳 氐丨 鬲爻賲賷鬲賴丕 丿賷賳賷丞 兀賵 丕賱鬲賷 鬲鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 鬲胤賵賷乇 丕賱匕丕鬲 賵毓賱賲 丕賱賳賮爻 亘卮賰賱 毓丕賲 賵賱賰賳 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵丕賱爻賳丞 兀噩丿賴丕 兀賰賲賱 賵兀卮賲賱 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲亘 丕賱兀噩賳亘賷丞 丕賱賲鬲乇噩賲丞 賵氐丿賯丕 賮賷 噩賲賷毓 賲噩丕賱丕鬲 丕賱丨賷丕丞 賵賲噩丕賱 丕賱匕丕鬲 賵毓賱賲 丕賱丕噩鬲賲丕毓 亘丕賱匕丕鬲 兀噩丿 兀賳 賰鬲亘 毓賱賲丕丐賳丕 丕賱匕賷賳 卮乇亘賵丕 賲賳 賵毓丕卅賷 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵丕賱爻賳丞 兀賰孬乇 丕賯賳丕毓丕 賵兀卮丿 鬲兀孬賷乇丕 賵兀氐丨 賯賵賱丕
賲賳 睾賷乇賴賲
亘賱 兀噩丿 兀賳 丨丿賷孬丕 賵丕丨丿丕 賲賳 兀丨丕丿賷孬 丕賱乇爻賵賱 毓賱賷賴 丕賱氐賱丕丞 賵丕賱爻賱丕賲 賷禺鬲氐乇 賰鬲丕亘 賰丕賲賱 賵賷氐賱丨 賱兀賳 賷賰賵賳 賯丕毓丿丞 賷乇噩毓 廿賱賷賴丕 .
賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賱丕 睾亘丕乇 毓賱賷賴 賵賷爻鬲丨賯 卮賴乇鬲賴 賵賱賰賳賷 賮賷 丕賱丕賵賳丞 丕賱兀禺賷乇丞 亘丿兀鬲 兀丐賲賳 兀賳 賲丕 兀賯乇丐賴 賮賷 丕賱賰鬲亘 丕賱鬲賷 廿賳 氐丨 鬲爻賲賷鬲賴丕 丿賷賳賷丞 兀賵 丕賱鬲賷 鬲鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 鬲胤賵賷乇 丕賱匕丕鬲 賵毓賱賲 丕賱賳賮爻 亘卮賰賱 毓丕賲 賵賱賰賳 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵丕賱爻賳丞 兀噩丿賴丕 兀賰賲賱 賵兀卮賲賱 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲亘 丕賱兀噩賳亘賷丞 丕賱賲鬲乇噩賲丞 賵氐丿賯丕 賮賷 噩賲賷毓 賲噩丕賱丕鬲 丕賱丨賷丕丞 賵賲噩丕賱 丕賱匕丕鬲 賵毓賱賲 丕賱丕噩鬲賲丕毓 亘丕賱匕丕鬲 兀噩丿 兀賳 賰鬲亘 毓賱賲丕丐賳丕 丕賱匕賷賳 卮乇亘賵丕 賲賳 賵毓丕卅賷 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵丕賱爻賳丞 兀賰孬乇 丕賯賳丕毓丕 賵兀卮丿 鬲兀孬賷乇丕 賵兀氐丨 賯賵賱丕
賲賳 睾賷乇賴賲
亘賱 兀噩丿 兀賳 丨丿賷孬丕 賵丕丨丿丕 賲賳 兀丨丕丿賷孬 丕賱乇爻賵賱 毓賱賷賴 丕賱氐賱丕丞 賵丕賱爻賱丕賲 賷禺鬲氐乇 賰鬲丕亘 賰丕賲賱 賵賷氐賱丨 賱兀賳 賷賰賵賳 賯丕毓丿丞 賷乇噩毓 廿賱賷賴丕 .
May 2, 2011
丿賷賱 賰丕乇賳賷噩賷 賴賵 賰丕鬲亘賷 丕賱賲賮囟賱 賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賲噩丕賱 _ 兀賷 丕賱賳鬲賲賷丞 丕賱亘卮乇賷丞 賵鬲胤賵賷乇 丕賱匕丕鬲_貙廿賳賳賷 賱丕 兀爻鬲胤賷毓 兀賳 兀賳爻賶 丕賱賰賲 丕賱賴丕卅賱 賲賳 丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 丨氐賱鬲 毓賱賷賴丕 賲賳 賰鬲丕亘賴 " 賰賷賮 鬲賰爻亘 丕賱兀氐丿賯丕亍 賵鬲丐孬乇 賮賷 丕賱賳丕爻" 貙 賯乇兀鬲賴 賮賷 賲乇丨賱丞 賲亘賰乇丞 賲賳 丕賱毓賲乇 賱賲 兀賰賳 丨賷賳賴丕 兀毓賷 卮賷卅丕賸 賲賳 丕賱鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 丕賱賳丕爻 賵丕賰鬲爻丕亘 賵丿賴賲貙 賵賯丿 賮丕丿賳賷 賰鬲丕亘賴 賵賯丿賲 賱賷 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賲丕 兀匕賰乇賴 丨鬲賶 賴匕賴 丕賱賱丨馗丞.
廿賳賳賷 兀毓賱賲 兀賳 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳丕 賱丕賷丨亘 賴匕丕 丕賱賳賵毓 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲亘 亘丕毓鬲賯丕丿賴 兀賳賴丕 賱丕鬲賯丿賲 賮丕卅丿丞 賲丨爻賵爻丞 賵廿賳賲丕 賴賷 賲噩乇丿 毓亘丕乇丕鬲 賵胤乇賯 賳毓賷賴丕 噩賷丿丕賸 賵賱爻賳丕 亘丨丕噩賴 廿賱賶 賲賳 賷毓賷丿 毓賱賷賳丕 賳賮爻 丕賱賲毓賱賵賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲賷 賳丨賮馗賴丕 毓賳 馗賴乇 睾賷亘!. 賮賷 丕毓鬲賯丕丿賷 廿賳 賴匕賴 丕賱賰鬲亘 賲氐丿乇 賲丨賮夭 賱賱兀睾賱亘賷賴 賲賳丕 賵賷賲賰賳賳丕 兀賳 賳賯乇兀 賲賳賴丕 賮賷 兀賵賯丕鬲 丕賱賮乇丕睾 兀賵 賰賭 賰鬲亘 賮乇毓賷丞 鬲夭賷丿 賲賳 丨賲丕爻賳丕 賵鬲賯丿賲賳丕. 賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賷毓賱賲 "丿賷賱" 亘賴匕丕 丕賱鬲賵噩賴 賱賱賳丕爻 賵廿毓乇丕囟賴賲 毓賳賴丕 賮賰丕賳 賲賳賴 兀賳 丕爻鬲賮鬲丨 賰鬲丕亘賴 亘賴匕丕 丕賱賲賯胤毓 丕賱匕賷 夭丕丿 賲賳 廿氐乇丕乇賷 毓賱賶 賯乇丕亍丞 賰鬲丕亘賴 賵廿賳賴丕卅賴 :
"賷丨爻賳 兀賳 兀禺亘乇賰 兀賳賰 賱賳 鬲噩丿 賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 卮賷卅丕賸 噩丿賷丿丕賸 賵賱賰賳賰 爻鬲噩丿 丕賱卮賷亍 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賲丕賷鬲噩丕賴賱賴 丕賱賳丕爻貙 賵賴匕丕 賴賵 丕賱賲賴賲 .. 賮賱丕 兀賳鬲貙 賵賱丕 兀賳丕 賳丨鬲丕噩 廿賱賶 卮賷亍 噩丿賷丿 賷賯丕賱 .. 賮廿賳賳丕 賳毓賱賲 賲丕賷賰賮賷 賱兀賳 賷噩毓賱 丨賷丕鬲賳丕 賰丕賲賱丞 賲賳 噩賲賷毓 賳賵丕丨賷賴丕. 賮毓賱鬲賳丕 賱賷爻鬲 丕賱噩賴賱貙 賵廿賳賲丕 賴賷 丕賱鬲噩丕賴賱. 賵賲賴賲丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 毓賷 鬲賰乇丕乇 丨賯丕卅賯 賯丿賷賲丞 賲毓乇賵賮丞 賲毓 鬲噩爻賲賷賴丕 賵廿亘乇丕夭賴丕貙 賱鬲丨賮夭 毓賱賶 鬲胤亘賷賯賴丕."
氐丨賷丨 兀賳賳賷 兀毓賱賲 賲爻亘賯丕賸 亘賰賱 賲丕噩丕亍 賮賷 賰鬲丕亘賴貙 賵賯丿 賯賲鬲 亘鬲胤亘賷賯 亘毓囟 賯賵丕毓丿賴 丿賵賳賲丕 卮毓賵乇 賲賳賷 . 賱賰賳賳賷 丿賴卮鬲 丨賷賳 賵噩丿鬲賳賷 睾賮賱鬲 毓賳 丕賱賰孬賷乇貙 亘毓囟 賮氐賵賱 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 噩丕亍鬲 賵賰兀賳賴丕 賱賷貙 賵賰兀賳賴丕 鬲毓賱賲 噩賷丿丕賸 賲丕 兀賲乇 亘賴 賵賲丕賱匕賷 丕丨鬲丕噩賴貙 賰賷賮 睾丕亘 毓賳賷 兀賳 兀賮毓賱 匕丕鬲 丕賱卮賷 丕賱匕賷 兀丨賮馗賴貙 丨賷賳賴丕 卮毓乇鬲 亘丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 賯丿賲賴丕 賱賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱乇丕卅毓貙 賮丕卅丿丞 賲丕賰賳鬲 賱兀鬲賳亘兀 亘賴丕.
賰丕鬲亘 賰賭" 丿賷賱 賰丕乇賳賷噩賷" 賷毓噩亘賳賷 賮賷賴 鬲爻賱爻賱 兀賮賰丕乇賴 賵鬲乇鬲賷亘賴丕貙 賵賰兀賳賴 賱丕賷乇賷丿 賲賳賰 兀賳 鬲賳賴賷 賰鬲丕亘賴 亘賱丕 賮丕卅丿丞貙 廿賳賴 賷氐乇 兀賳 賷噩毓賱賴丕 兀賲丕賲賰 賲丿丞 兀胤賵賱 亘賰孬賷乇 賲賳 鬲賱賰 丕賱鬲賷 鬲賯囟賷賴丕 賮賷 賯乇丕亍丞 賰鬲丕亘賴貙 賷鬲亘毓 賰賱 賮氐賱 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 廿賷噩丕夭 賱賱賯丕毓丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 賷丨爻賳 兀賳 鬲毓賲賱 亘賴丕 貙 孬賲 賷鬲亘毓 賳賴丕賷丞 賰賱 噩夭亍 賲禺鬲氐乇 賱丕賷夭賷丿 毓賳 氐賮丨丞 賵丕丨丿丞貙 賷禺亘乇賰 亘丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 賲賳 丕賱賲賮鬲乇囟 兀賳 鬲賰賵賳 丨氐賱鬲 毓賱賷賴丕 賵爻鬲馗賱 鬲匕賰乇賴丕 賵鬲丨賮馗賴丕 賮賷 丿賮鬲乇賰. 賵賲毓 賰賱 丕賱賯賵丕毓丿 賷兀鬲賷 亘賯氐氐 賵丕賯毓賷賴 鬲賵囟丨賴丕 賵鬲毓賲賱賰 賰賷賮 兀賳賴 賲賳 丕賱爻賴賱 鬲胤亘賷賯賴丕 賵丕賱毓賲賱 亘賴丕.
孬賲 賷禺鬲賲 賰鬲丕亘賴 亘丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲丕賱賷丞 :" 丕毓賱賲 兀禺賷乇丕賸 兀賳 賴匕丕 賱賷爻 賰鬲丕亘丕賸 賱賱鬲爻賱賷丞 賵賯鬲賱 丕賱賵賯鬲 賵廿賳賲丕 賴賵 賲乇卮丿 毓賲賱 賲賴賲鬲賴 鬲爻丿賷丿 禺胤丕賰 賮賷 胤乇賷賯 丕賱氐丨丞 賵丕賱爻毓丕丿丞 賵丕賱賳噩丕丨"
賵賰兀賳賴 賷禺亘乇賳丕 毓賳 丕賱賮丕氐賱 亘賷賳 丕爻鬲賮丕丿鬲賳丕 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲亘 兀賵 毓丿賲賴貙 廿賳賴 鬲賵噩賴賰 賵丕賳胤亘丕毓賰 丕賱鬲賷 鬲亘賳賷 毓賱賷賴 兀丨賰丕賲賰 丨鬲賶 賯亘賱 賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘貙 亘毓囟賴賲 賲賯鬲賳毓 鬲賲丕賲丕賸 兀賳 賲孬賱 賴匕賴 丕賱賰鬲亘 賱丕 賷賲賰賳 兀賳 鬲毓賵丿 毓賱賷賳丕 亘兀賷 賮丕卅丿丞 鬲匕賰乇貙 賵賴丐賱丕亍 賴賲 賲賳 兀賳氐丨賴賲 亘毓丿賲 鬲囟賷毓 賵賯鬲賴賲 賲毓 賰鬲丕亘 賱丕賷乇賷丿賵賳 賮丕卅丿鬲賴! .. 廿賳賳丕 賳丨鬲丕噩 兀賳 賳乇賷丿 丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丨鬲賶 賳丨氐賱 毓賱賷賴丕 賵亘賮丕毓賱賷丞 兀賰亘乇
廿賳賳賷 兀毓賱賲 兀賳 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳丕 賱丕賷丨亘 賴匕丕 丕賱賳賵毓 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲亘 亘丕毓鬲賯丕丿賴 兀賳賴丕 賱丕鬲賯丿賲 賮丕卅丿丞 賲丨爻賵爻丞 賵廿賳賲丕 賴賷 賲噩乇丿 毓亘丕乇丕鬲 賵胤乇賯 賳毓賷賴丕 噩賷丿丕賸 賵賱爻賳丕 亘丨丕噩賴 廿賱賶 賲賳 賷毓賷丿 毓賱賷賳丕 賳賮爻 丕賱賲毓賱賵賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲賷 賳丨賮馗賴丕 毓賳 馗賴乇 睾賷亘!. 賮賷 丕毓鬲賯丕丿賷 廿賳 賴匕賴 丕賱賰鬲亘 賲氐丿乇 賲丨賮夭 賱賱兀睾賱亘賷賴 賲賳丕 賵賷賲賰賳賳丕 兀賳 賳賯乇兀 賲賳賴丕 賮賷 兀賵賯丕鬲 丕賱賮乇丕睾 兀賵 賰賭 賰鬲亘 賮乇毓賷丞 鬲夭賷丿 賲賳 丨賲丕爻賳丕 賵鬲賯丿賲賳丕. 賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賷毓賱賲 "丿賷賱" 亘賴匕丕 丕賱鬲賵噩賴 賱賱賳丕爻 賵廿毓乇丕囟賴賲 毓賳賴丕 賮賰丕賳 賲賳賴 兀賳 丕爻鬲賮鬲丨 賰鬲丕亘賴 亘賴匕丕 丕賱賲賯胤毓 丕賱匕賷 夭丕丿 賲賳 廿氐乇丕乇賷 毓賱賶 賯乇丕亍丞 賰鬲丕亘賴 賵廿賳賴丕卅賴 :
"賷丨爻賳 兀賳 兀禺亘乇賰 兀賳賰 賱賳 鬲噩丿 賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 卮賷卅丕賸 噩丿賷丿丕賸 賵賱賰賳賰 爻鬲噩丿 丕賱卮賷亍 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賲丕賷鬲噩丕賴賱賴 丕賱賳丕爻貙 賵賴匕丕 賴賵 丕賱賲賴賲 .. 賮賱丕 兀賳鬲貙 賵賱丕 兀賳丕 賳丨鬲丕噩 廿賱賶 卮賷亍 噩丿賷丿 賷賯丕賱 .. 賮廿賳賳丕 賳毓賱賲 賲丕賷賰賮賷 賱兀賳 賷噩毓賱 丨賷丕鬲賳丕 賰丕賲賱丞 賲賳 噩賲賷毓 賳賵丕丨賷賴丕. 賮毓賱鬲賳丕 賱賷爻鬲 丕賱噩賴賱貙 賵廿賳賲丕 賴賷 丕賱鬲噩丕賴賱. 賵賲賴賲丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 毓賷 鬲賰乇丕乇 丨賯丕卅賯 賯丿賷賲丞 賲毓乇賵賮丞 賲毓 鬲噩爻賲賷賴丕 賵廿亘乇丕夭賴丕貙 賱鬲丨賮夭 毓賱賶 鬲胤亘賷賯賴丕."
氐丨賷丨 兀賳賳賷 兀毓賱賲 賲爻亘賯丕賸 亘賰賱 賲丕噩丕亍 賮賷 賰鬲丕亘賴貙 賵賯丿 賯賲鬲 亘鬲胤亘賷賯 亘毓囟 賯賵丕毓丿賴 丿賵賳賲丕 卮毓賵乇 賲賳賷 . 賱賰賳賳賷 丿賴卮鬲 丨賷賳 賵噩丿鬲賳賷 睾賮賱鬲 毓賳 丕賱賰孬賷乇貙 亘毓囟 賮氐賵賱 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 噩丕亍鬲 賵賰兀賳賴丕 賱賷貙 賵賰兀賳賴丕 鬲毓賱賲 噩賷丿丕賸 賲丕 兀賲乇 亘賴 賵賲丕賱匕賷 丕丨鬲丕噩賴貙 賰賷賮 睾丕亘 毓賳賷 兀賳 兀賮毓賱 匕丕鬲 丕賱卮賷 丕賱匕賷 兀丨賮馗賴貙 丨賷賳賴丕 卮毓乇鬲 亘丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 賯丿賲賴丕 賱賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱乇丕卅毓貙 賮丕卅丿丞 賲丕賰賳鬲 賱兀鬲賳亘兀 亘賴丕.
賰丕鬲亘 賰賭" 丿賷賱 賰丕乇賳賷噩賷" 賷毓噩亘賳賷 賮賷賴 鬲爻賱爻賱 兀賮賰丕乇賴 賵鬲乇鬲賷亘賴丕貙 賵賰兀賳賴 賱丕賷乇賷丿 賲賳賰 兀賳 鬲賳賴賷 賰鬲丕亘賴 亘賱丕 賮丕卅丿丞貙 廿賳賴 賷氐乇 兀賳 賷噩毓賱賴丕 兀賲丕賲賰 賲丿丞 兀胤賵賱 亘賰孬賷乇 賲賳 鬲賱賰 丕賱鬲賷 鬲賯囟賷賴丕 賮賷 賯乇丕亍丞 賰鬲丕亘賴貙 賷鬲亘毓 賰賱 賮氐賱 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 廿賷噩丕夭 賱賱賯丕毓丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 賷丨爻賳 兀賳 鬲毓賲賱 亘賴丕 貙 孬賲 賷鬲亘毓 賳賴丕賷丞 賰賱 噩夭亍 賲禺鬲氐乇 賱丕賷夭賷丿 毓賳 氐賮丨丞 賵丕丨丿丞貙 賷禺亘乇賰 亘丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丕賱鬲賷 賲賳 丕賱賲賮鬲乇囟 兀賳 鬲賰賵賳 丨氐賱鬲 毓賱賷賴丕 賵爻鬲馗賱 鬲匕賰乇賴丕 賵鬲丨賮馗賴丕 賮賷 丿賮鬲乇賰. 賵賲毓 賰賱 丕賱賯賵丕毓丿 賷兀鬲賷 亘賯氐氐 賵丕賯毓賷賴 鬲賵囟丨賴丕 賵鬲毓賲賱賰 賰賷賮 兀賳賴 賲賳 丕賱爻賴賱 鬲胤亘賷賯賴丕 賵丕賱毓賲賱 亘賴丕.
孬賲 賷禺鬲賲 賰鬲丕亘賴 亘丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲丕賱賷丞 :" 丕毓賱賲 兀禺賷乇丕賸 兀賳 賴匕丕 賱賷爻 賰鬲丕亘丕賸 賱賱鬲爻賱賷丞 賵賯鬲賱 丕賱賵賯鬲 賵廿賳賲丕 賴賵 賲乇卮丿 毓賲賱 賲賴賲鬲賴 鬲爻丿賷丿 禺胤丕賰 賮賷 胤乇賷賯 丕賱氐丨丞 賵丕賱爻毓丕丿丞 賵丕賱賳噩丕丨"
賵賰兀賳賴 賷禺亘乇賳丕 毓賳 丕賱賮丕氐賱 亘賷賳 丕爻鬲賮丕丿鬲賳丕 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲亘 兀賵 毓丿賲賴貙 廿賳賴 鬲賵噩賴賰 賵丕賳胤亘丕毓賰 丕賱鬲賷 鬲亘賳賷 毓賱賷賴 兀丨賰丕賲賰 丨鬲賶 賯亘賱 賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘貙 亘毓囟賴賲 賲賯鬲賳毓 鬲賲丕賲丕賸 兀賳 賲孬賱 賴匕賴 丕賱賰鬲亘 賱丕 賷賲賰賳 兀賳 鬲毓賵丿 毓賱賷賳丕 亘兀賷 賮丕卅丿丞 鬲匕賰乇貙 賵賴丐賱丕亍 賴賲 賲賳 兀賳氐丨賴賲 亘毓丿賲 鬲囟賷毓 賵賯鬲賴賲 賲毓 賰鬲丕亘 賱丕賷乇賷丿賵賳 賮丕卅丿鬲賴! .. 廿賳賳丕 賳丨鬲丕噩 兀賳 賳乇賷丿 丕賱賮丕卅丿丞 丨鬲賶 賳丨氐賱 毓賱賷賴丕 賵亘賮丕毓賱賷丞 兀賰亘乇
November 5, 2023
If you鈥檝e ever worried more than you'd like to, read this book.
鈥淣o one living has enough emotion and vigor to fight the inevitable and, at the same time, enough left over to create a new life. Choose one or the other. You can either bend with the inevitable sleetstorms of life鈥攐r you can resist them and break!鈥�
~ Dale Carnegie from How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
Dale Carnegie rocks.
If you鈥檝e read How to Win Friends and Influence People, you鈥檝e been exposed to his laid back, tell-it-like-it-is style.
If you鈥檝e got a little more worry in your life than you鈥檇 like (who doesn鈥檛, eh?!) then I think you鈥檒l love this book.
Some of my favorite big ideas from this book include:
1. What Worry Does - It鈥檚 not good.
2. Live In: - Day-tight compartments.
3. Be Willing to Have It So - Don鈥檛 argue with reality.
4. Decide - And rock it!
5. Don鈥檛 Cry - Over spilt milk.
6. Rest - *BEFORE* you get tired.
7. The Answer to Fatigue? - 4 of 鈥榚m.
8. Other People - (Aren鈥檛) thinking about you.
9. Get Busy!!! - No leisure to be miserable.
I鈥檝e summarized those Big Ideas in a video review that you can watch here:
I鈥檝e also added How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie to my collection of Philosopher鈥檚 Notes--distilling the Big Ideas into 6-page PDF and 20-minute MP3s on 600+ of the BEST self-development books ever. You can get access to all of those plus a TON more over at .
鈥淣o one living has enough emotion and vigor to fight the inevitable and, at the same time, enough left over to create a new life. Choose one or the other. You can either bend with the inevitable sleetstorms of life鈥攐r you can resist them and break!鈥�
~ Dale Carnegie from How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
Dale Carnegie rocks.
If you鈥檝e read How to Win Friends and Influence People, you鈥檝e been exposed to his laid back, tell-it-like-it-is style.
If you鈥檝e got a little more worry in your life than you鈥檇 like (who doesn鈥檛, eh?!) then I think you鈥檒l love this book.
Some of my favorite big ideas from this book include:
1. What Worry Does - It鈥檚 not good.
2. Live In: - Day-tight compartments.
3. Be Willing to Have It So - Don鈥檛 argue with reality.
4. Decide - And rock it!
5. Don鈥檛 Cry - Over spilt milk.
6. Rest - *BEFORE* you get tired.
7. The Answer to Fatigue? - 4 of 鈥榚m.
8. Other People - (Aren鈥檛) thinking about you.
9. Get Busy!!! - No leisure to be miserable.
I鈥檝e summarized those Big Ideas in a video review that you can watch here:
I鈥檝e also added How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie to my collection of Philosopher鈥檚 Notes--distilling the Big Ideas into 6-page PDF and 20-minute MP3s on 600+ of the BEST self-development books ever. You can get access to all of those plus a TON more over at .
February 15, 2009
FINALLY. I have finished this book. WHEW.
The version I read of this book was published in 1944. I don't know if newer versions have been modified at all, or not.
I would've given the book a five star rating if it hadn't been so completely TORTUROUS to get through the chauvinistic view points. Granted, most all of Carnegie's strategies for overcoming stress and worry were excellent and I plan to put many ideas to use, HOWEVER, the ideas presented in chapters like #25 titled: "How the Housewife Can Avoid Fatigue and Keep Looking Young!" are ridiculous. This chapter took me days to get through - and it was only five pages long!
For example, to quote from this, my least favorite part of the book, "Yes, you, as a housewife, have got to relax! You have one great advantage - you can lie down whenever you want to, and you can lie on the floor!...Lie flat on the floor whenever you feel tired. Stretch as tall as you can. Roll around if you want to. Do it twice a day."
HAH. If I had read this exerpt first, I would have thrown the book in the trash.
However, I was determined to acknowledge that this book was written in 1944 and attitudes towards women were much different then. So, I tried to ignore the comments about females and instead focused on the valid strategies to overcome worry.
The worthwhile strategies presented outweigh the chauvinistic attitudes.
I do recommend this book - but only if you are open-minded.
The version I read of this book was published in 1944. I don't know if newer versions have been modified at all, or not.
I would've given the book a five star rating if it hadn't been so completely TORTUROUS to get through the chauvinistic view points. Granted, most all of Carnegie's strategies for overcoming stress and worry were excellent and I plan to put many ideas to use, HOWEVER, the ideas presented in chapters like #25 titled: "How the Housewife Can Avoid Fatigue and Keep Looking Young!" are ridiculous. This chapter took me days to get through - and it was only five pages long!
For example, to quote from this, my least favorite part of the book, "Yes, you, as a housewife, have got to relax! You have one great advantage - you can lie down whenever you want to, and you can lie on the floor!...Lie flat on the floor whenever you feel tired. Stretch as tall as you can. Roll around if you want to. Do it twice a day."
HAH. If I had read this exerpt first, I would have thrown the book in the trash.
However, I was determined to acknowledge that this book was written in 1944 and attitudes towards women were much different then. So, I tried to ignore the comments about females and instead focused on the valid strategies to overcome worry.
The worthwhile strategies presented outweigh the chauvinistic attitudes.
I do recommend this book - but only if you are open-minded.
February 26, 2012
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