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丕賱兀胤賮丕賱 賷鬲毓賱賲賵賳 賲丕 賷毓丕賷卮賵賳賴

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爻賵賮 賷爻丕毓丿賰 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 毓賱賶 兀賳 鬲氐亘丨 丕賱賵丕賱丿 丕賱匕賷 胤丕賱賲丕 丨賱賲鬲 亘兀賳 鬲賰賵賳賴貙 賵兀賳 鬲乇亘賷 兀胤賮丕賱丕賸 鬲賮禺乇 亘賴賲 丿丕卅賲丕賸貙 賰賲丕 賷毓賲賱 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱賯丕卅賲 毓賱賶 丕賱賮胤乇丞 丕賱爻賱賷賲丞 毓賱賶 賲爻丕毓丿丞 噩賷賱 噩丿賷丿 賲賳 丕賱丌亘丕亍 賮賷 鬲賳卮卅丞 兀亘賳丕卅賴賲 亘丨賰賲丞貙 賵鬲賮噩賷乇 丕賱孬乇賵丕鬲 丕賱賰丕賲賳丞 丿丕禺賱賴賲貙 賵匕賱賰 毓賳 胤乇賷賯 鬲毓賱賷賲賴賲 丕賱賯賷賲 丕賱孬賲賷賳丞 賮賷 丕賱丨賷丕丞 賲賳 禺賱丕賱 丕賱賯丿賵丞 丕賱丨爻賳丞.

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First published January 1, 1998

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October 3, 2018
賰鬲丕亘 鬲乇亘賵賷 賴丕賲 賷賵囟丨 兀孬乇 丕賱亘賷卅丞 賵丕賱爻賱賵賰賷丕鬲 賵丕賱賯賷賲 賵丕賱丕鬲噩丕賴丕鬲 丕賱爻丕卅丿丞 賮賷 鬲賱賰 丕賱亘賷卅丞 毓賱賶 卮禺氐賷丞 丕賱胤賮賱貙 賵賷賯丿賲 毓丿丿 賲賳 丕賱賯氐氐 丕賱賵丕賯毓賷丞 賵丕賱賳氐丕卅丨 丕賱毓賲賱賷丞 賲賳 兀噩賱 鬲賳卮卅丞 兀賮囟賱 賱賱胤賮賱貙 賵廿賳 賰丕賳 亘毓囟賴丕 氐毓亘 丕賱鬲胤亘賷賯 兀賵 賲孬丕賱賷 亘丿乇噩丞 賰亘賷乇丞
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October 13, 2008
Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.


If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

I remember when I was a young child, my mother had a wooden scroll (you know the kind they used to print calendars on back in the day) in our kitchen of this poem that Dorothy Law Nolte originally wrote back in the mid-fifties. Those words stuck with me, and it is no coincidence that I have a small copy of the same poem on my refrigerator door and it has been there since I had my son who is now 5 years old. I just keep reading the poem (and now this book) whenever I have doubts about my parenting skills or a spur-of-the-moment decision that I have made as a parent. I don't know if it is psychological, but I've found that it seems to "keep me on task", so to speak, with my ultimate agenda to raise a morally-conscious young man. So many parents get caught up in the day to day responsibilities of raising a child, such as feeding, bathing, clothing, sheltering, etc. that a lot of the actual "emotional raising of a person" gets lost. I've found that this book is a good "how-to guide" for any parent who is interested in helping to develop the moral compass and emotional well-being of their children. If you are a parent, i recommend that you get a copy of this book today, or better yet, you can download a copy of the poem on the internet, and apply it to the everyday teachings of your children!
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July 31, 2019
De cara, as autoras de 鈥淎s crian莽as aprendem o que vivenciam鈥� j谩 alertam: ningu茅m se prop玫e a magoar seus filhos de prop贸sito e, no entanto, 茅 isto o que os pais fazem com frequ锚ncia. Elas dizem que terminamos transmitindo nossas dificuldades emocionais para os filhos e que, parar mudar isto, 茅 preciso optar por viver de forma consciente e ter coragem de romper com padr玫es negativos.鉅赌
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O livro 茅 simples e serve para nos lembrar de coisas que, no fundo, j谩 sabemos. Sabemos, mas terminamos deixando 鈥減ara um outro dia em que eu esteja mais calma, com menos pressa, com menos coisas para fazer e mais tempo para educar鈥�. As crian莽as aprendem o que vivenciam vem nos lembrar que TODAS as nossas a莽玫es est茫o sendo absorvidas, TODOS os dias. Que a maneira como lidamos com nossos sentimentos mostra aos nossos filhos o que eles devem fazer com os seus. Portanto, devemos estar conscientes de tudo que fazemos e falamos sempre. SEMPRE!鉅赌
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N茫o adianta falar o que esperamos de nossos filhos, devemos ser exemplo. Esta 茅 a mensagem principal deste livro.鉅赌
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Gostei bastante e, embora eu esperasse um pouco mais, recomendo, sim, a leitura.



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22 reviews
April 30, 2008
Good and reinforcing of what I know to be true, makes me feel more confidant that I am a good mother. Provide the best example that you possibly can for your children and then let them be themselves and trust in that.
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August 25, 2019
I thought this book was extremely practical not just in the various acts of parenting described but also in specific ways to implement the principles including suggested wording. Not written with a Christian worldview, so read with discernment, but so many biblical principles here that a Christian parent could easily support these concepts with scripture.

鈥淐hildren are continuously learning from their parents. Your children are paying attention to you. Perhaps not what you tell them to do, but certainly to what they actually see you do. You are their first and most powerful role models. Parents can strive to teach certain values, but children will inevitably absorb whatever values are transmitted through their parents鈥� behavior, feelings, and attitudes in everyday living. How you express and manage your own freezings becomes a model that will be remembered by your children throughout their lifetimes.鈥�

鈥淚t is what we do with our children that counts, much more than what we say or even what we believe. Our values are transmitted across the generations through our behavior. Our children witness and absorb the way we live together day to day, and what they learn serves as a model for them all their lives, affecting not only them, but their children. We can think of our loving actions as a kind of chain of love that stretches both forward and back across the generations.鈥�
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Author听7 books68 followers
September 4, 2019
A pretty basic primer on the philosophy of "positive parenting," with lots of anecdotes (fictional or true? unclear) about how to do things "right" and a few examples of how to do things "wrong." More an inspirational tome than concrete guidance, with very little evidence or research to back up the assertions. Not much new for someone already on board with the parenting style advocated here, but it's an easy, accessible read, and I'm not going to dis anything too bad that helps people be more compassionate, thoughtful parents.
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May 2, 2018
This book was given as a gift for the birth of my first child, and I found it was very grounding, and not preachy and very motivating as a new parent. As a teacher I also see how the advice in these pages can be translated to my classroom.

A great book for parents, and for anyone who works with or around children of all ages!
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March 7, 2020
I don't have kids but I was curious about this book, I think this is a very interesting book that talks about kid's psychology and even though I'm not a mother I think this will help me in the future to understand more about kids. It is very important to raise a kid properly and this book talks about it. What they experience in their childhood will follow them through adulthood and that's why is important to know the correct patterns of raising a child and you can find them in this book. So even if you don't have kids now, reading this book will help you understand them.
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April 27, 2022
賮賷 氐賮丨丕鬲 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賲丕 賷購氐賱丨 賲賳 兀賳賮爻賳丕 賰賲乇亘賷賳 賮賷賻氐賱丨 丕亘賳丕亍賳丕 .. 賮丕賱兀胤賮丕賱 賷鬲毓賱賲賵賳 賲丕 賷毓丕賷卮賵賳賴..

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賰鬲丕亘 噩賲賷賱 噩丿丕 賲賲鬲毓 賮賷 胤乇丨賴 睾賳賷 賮賷 賲丨鬲賵丕賴 亘賰賱 賲賮賷丿 丕賳氐丨 亘賴 賱賰賱 兀賲 賵 兀亘 兀賵 賲毓賱賲 賵 賲毓賱賲丞
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丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賲賱卅 亘丕賱賳氐丕卅丨 丕賱賲賲賷夭丞 賱锘焚呝囏ж� 賵丕賱丌亘丕亍 丕賱賲丿毓賲丞 亘賯氐氐 鬲乇亘賵賷丞 賵丕賯毓賷丞 賱賲賵丕賯賮 鬲毓賱賲賳丕 賰賷賮賷丞 丕賱鬲毓丕賲賱 賲毓 丕亘賳丕亍賳丕
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December 26, 2015
賰鬲丕亘 賲賮賷丿 賵賲賴賲 噩丿丕賸 賱賰賱 賲乇亘賷 賱丕賳鬲賴丕噩賴 賲賳賴噩賷丞 毓賲賱賷丞 賵丕賯毓賷丞 賮賷 丕爻鬲毓乇丕囟 丕賱賯賷賲 丕賱爻賱賵賰賷丕鬲 賵丕賱亘賵丕毓孬 丕賱賲賯丕亘賱丞 賱賴丕:
賷鬲毓賱賲 丕賱兀胤賮丕賱 丕賱賯賱賯 廿匕丕 賳卮兀賵丕 賮賷 噩賵 賲賳 丕賱禺賵賮
賷鬲毓賱賲 丕賱兀胤賮丕賱 丕賱乇孬丕亍 賱丨丕賱賴賲 廿匕丕 賳卮兀賵丕 賮賷 噩賵 賷卮賷毓 賮賷賴丕 丕賱廿卮賮丕賯 賱賶 丕賱匕丕鬲
賷鬲毓賱賲 丕賱兀胤賮丕賱 鬲賯丿賷乇 丕賱卮賷亍 廿匕丕 賳卮兀賵丕 賮賷 噩賵 賲賳 丕賱廿胤乇丕亍

亘賴匕賴 丕賱賰賷賮賷丞 賷爻鬲毓乇囟 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱賯賷賲 賵丕賱爻賱賵賰賷丕鬲 賵亘賵丕毓孬賴丕貙 賲毓 鬲毓夭賷夭 丕賱毓乇囟 亘丕賱賯氐氐 賵丕賱亘賷丕賳.

賱毓賱賴 賱賵 鬲爻賳賶 賱賷 賲胤丕賱毓丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賮賷 賳爻禺鬲賴 丕賱兀氐賱賷丞 亘丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱丕賳噩賱賷夭賷丞 賰賳鬲 賯丿 賲賳丨鬲賴 鬲賯賷賷賲丕賸 兀毓賱賶 賳馗乇丕賸 賱賲丨鬲賵丕賴 賵賲賳賴噩賷丞 毓乇囟賴貙 廿賱丕 兀賳 賯乇丕亍丞 丕賱賳爻禺丞 丕賱毓乇亘賷丞 (鬲乇噩賲丞 賲賰鬲亘丞 噩乇賷乇) 賰丕賳 賮賷賴 賲賳 丕賱賲賱賱 賲丕 賷賰賮賷 賱賰賷 賷賯乇乇 丕賱賯丕乇卅 丕賱鬲賵賯賮 毓賳 丕賱賯乇丕亍丞 乇睾賲 兀賴賲賷丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘貙 賵廿賳 賰賳鬲購 賱賲 兀賯丿賲 毓賱賶 匕賱賰 賮兀賰賲賱鬲 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賰丕賲賱丕賸 毓賱賶 賲囟囟 賱賯賷賲丞 賲丨鬲賵丕賴. 賮賷 鬲賯丿賷乇賷 丕賱鬲乇噩賲丞 丕賱噩丕賮丞 丿賵賳 丕賱兀禺匕 亘毓賷賳 丕賱丕毓鬲亘丕乇 囟乇賵乇丞 兀賯賱賲丞 丕賱胤乇丨 亘賲丕 賷賳丕爻亘 丕賱孬賯丕賮丞 丕賱毓乇亘賷丞 賱賲 鬲禺丿賲 賴丿賮 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 亘氐賵乇丞 噩賷丿丞.

賲毓 匕賱賰貙 兀賳氐丨 亘賲胤丕賱毓丞 丕賱賰鬲丕亘貙 賵賰賱賷 兀賲賱 賮賷 兀賳 鬲卮賴丿 丕賱賲賰鬲亘丞 丕賱毓乇亘賷丞 賳爻禺丞 賲鬲乇噩賲丞 亘氐賵乇丞 兀賮囟賱 賲賳 賴匕丕 丕賱廿氐丿丕乇.
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79 reviews4 followers
June 23, 2018
Mi-a pl膬cut poezia plin膬 de 卯n葲elepciune. Are multe sfaturi simple 葯i realizabile pentru educa葲ia pozitiv膬 a copiilor. Paralel, se simte influen葲a cuno葯tin葲elor 葯i specificul anilor '50 卯n domeniul educa葲iei 葯i form膬rii de personalitate. Titlul face parte din categoria ce e genial e simplu: copiii 卯nva葲膬 卯ntr-adev膬r ceea ce tr膬iesc.
534 reviews1 follower
November 21, 2018
Based on Dorothy Law Nolte's poem of the same name, Children Learn What They Live expands each couplet into a magical recipe for future generations.

A book written for parents and equally inspirational for passionate educators, Nolte reminds us all of the power of influence and the need to lead by example. This book of not-so-common common sense urges parents to raise their kids with positivity, praise, truthfulness, and friendliness--creating an environment of trust and a world of difference in who our future children become.

Every parent and teacher should read and live out this book. Every citizen of the world, for that matter.
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January 5, 2020
As I scanned through the contents of this book, I began to wonder how much this book would mean to me by teaching us how we could learn through experiences, whether positive or negative. We may not realise HOW we have become who we are, but with these acceptances, fairness, friendliness, fear, criticism, pity, jealousy, tolerance, encouragement and so on that we experience can teach us how to live.

Indeed with encouragement we learn confidence, but what about jealousy? well then we learn to feel envy.

Again, this book teaches us that every events that we encounter could build up and stimulate one's growth..
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July 17, 2018
What a beautiful book! I stumbled upon this (serendipitously) at a library book sale and finally started reading it last month. This is the best parenting book I鈥檝e read so far. The author has such a kind, comforting voice, free of judgment and full of wisdom. Each chapter is simple and yet profound, and she does a great job breaking down things into manageable steps, empowering you and making you feel as if you too could be an amazing parent. I am sad the book ended; I鈥檒l miss her encouragement and stories.
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January 22, 2020
This book was something that I never read before. It's like a handbook to raising children with a compassionate, confident they need, and how parents and others can give them support. It was quite interesting reading this kind of topic, and I was able to find some connections between this book and myself. While I read this book, I look back at my past and how did I learn from the environment that I grew up. "The way we raise our children today will directly impact who they become as adults." this is a quote from this book that I found. Who I am today is coming from my past, and my future is down on myself today how I learn and live each day. I like this book :)
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August 20, 2024
賴賳丕賰 禺賲爻 乇爻丕卅賱 賷丨鬲丕噩 丕賱胤賮賱 丕賱賶 爻賲丕毓賴丕 賲乇丕鬲 賰孬賷乇丞 :
賱丕亘兀爻 丕賳 鬲賰賵賳 賲禺鬲賱賮丕 毓賳 丕禺賵鬲賰 丕賵 毓賳 丕賱丌禺乇賷賳.
賱丕亘兀爻 賮賷 丕乇鬲賰丕亘 丕賱兀禺胤丕亍 .
賱丕 亘兀爻 賮賷 丕賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丕賱賲卮丕毓乇 丕賱爻賱亘賷丞.
賱丕亘兀爻 賮賷 丕賳 鬲乇睾亘 亘丕賱賲夭賷丿.
賱丕亘兀爻 賮賷 丕賳 鬲賯賵賱 賱丕 貙 賵賱賰賳 鬲匕賰乇 丕賳 丕賱兀賲 賵丕賱兀亘 賴賲丕 丕賱賯丕卅丿丕賳.
丕賱兀胤賮丕賱 噩賲賷毓丕 賵賱丿賵丕 丕亘乇賷丕亍 賵胤賷亘賷賳 貙 賵賰賱 胤賮賱 賷兀鬲賷 丕賱賶 丕賱毓丕賱賲 賲鬲賲賷夭丕 毓賳 睾賷乇賴 賵賱賴 賲卮丕賰賱賴 丕賱禺丕氐丞貙 賵毓賱賷賳丕 賲爻丕毓丿鬲賴賲 毓賱賶 賲噩賴丞 鬲丨丿賷丕鬲賴賲 丕賱禺丕氐丞 貙 廿囟丕賮丞 丕賱賶 鬲賳賲賷丞 賲賵丕賴亘賴賲 丕賱禺丕氐丞.
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Author听25 books19 followers
March 7, 2020
Great little book packed full of excellent, thoughtful points on parenting. I love that it's structured after Nolte's heartfelt poem. This is one of those books I wish I'd read before becoming a parent. It's elegant, simple, compelling, and encouraging. I'd recommend to anyone who's considering having children or already has them.
4 of 5 stars because some updating would be helpful.
24 reviews
March 20, 2022
I thought this book was wonderful. Really helped me learn to parent with love, empathy and respect. All parents should read this book at least once. Im planning on reading this book once a year to refresh myself. Parenting is hard and it can be easy to get caught up and forget alot of whats really important.
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12 reviews
December 26, 2017
It's kind of obvious and nothing super original. But even then, it's such a beautiful read that lives up to the original poem. The kind of book that serves as an excellent reminder of what kind of parent you want to be. Very nice read.
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July 24, 2022
I would have given 5 stars but some of it could be significantly shortened. The chapters and sections within are very short but not every section was necessary to get the point across. Good information. Definitely a book I will come back to re-read.
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April 30, 2019
賰鬲丕亘 噩賲賷賱
賱賰賱 賮賰乇丞 鬲胤乇丨 賲孬丕賱 賷匕賰乇
亘毓賷丿 毓賳 丕賱賳賲胤賷丞 亘兀爻賱賵亘 亘爻賷胤 賵丕賮賰丕乇 毓賲賱賷丞
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July 11, 2019
Great book for giving your children roots and wings to prepare them for when they grow up and set sail on their own. I wish I had read this a long time ago!
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July 19, 2020
Very sound and practical advice, by the author of the poem with the same name. Everyone could gain wisdom by reading this book. This will surely be a classic for many generations ahead.
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October 23, 2021
賰鬲丕亘 鬲乇亘賵賷 賷亘賷賳 兀孬乇 丕賱爻賱賵賰賷丕鬲 賵 丕賱賳鬲丕卅噩 丕賱馗丕賴乇丞 賱丿賶 丕胤賮丕賱賳丕
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January 2, 2022
I think this will be useful to refer to clients who struggle with building meaningful and lasting relationships with their children. A strong forum on values over punishment.
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2 reviews
June 14, 2022
Excited to read this book because it is going to be inspirational reading all through the book. There will be much reflection and new learning, as modelling will shape children's lives.
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3 reviews
August 20, 2022
賰鬲丕亘 孬賯賷賱 丕賱賱睾丞 賳爻亘賷丕 賱兀賳賴 賲鬲乇噩賲 廿賱丕 兀賳賴 賷丨鬲賵賷 毓賱賶 丕賱毓丿賷丿 賲賳 丕賱丨賰賲 賵丕賱賲賵丕賯賮 丕賱丨賷丕鬲賷丞 丕賱賱胤賷賮丞 丕賱鬲賷 賷賲賰賳 兀賳 鬲賳丕爻亘 丕賱鬲乇亘賷丞 丕賱爻賵賷丞 賱兀賷 胤賮賱 賮賷 兀賷 賲噩鬲賲毓 兀乇卮丨賴 賵賱賰賳 賱賷爻 賰亘丿丕賷丞 賮賷 丕賱賯乇丕亍丞 賮賷 賲噩丕賱 丕賱鬲乇亘賷丞.
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6 reviews
April 4, 2023
Se cite葯te usor, exemple din via葲a de zi cu zi, sunt descrise emo葲iile copiilor 葯i sfaturi utile pentru ca p膬rin葲ii s膬 insufle valori ce duc la 卯ncrederea 卯n sine a copilului 葯i viitorului adult. E un ghid util pentru fiecare p膬rinte
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