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The 5 Love Languages
賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻: 賰賷賮 鬲毓亘乇 毓賳 丨亘賰 丕賱毓賲賷賯 賱卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賰
賴賱 鬲鬲丨丿孬 兀賳鬲 賵卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賰 賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 賳賮爻賴丕責 賴賵 賷乇爻賱 賱賰 丕賱夭賴賵乇 毓賳丿賲丕 賷賰賵賳 賲丕 鬲丨鬲丕噩賷賳 廿賱賷賴 丨賯丕賸 賴賵 賵賯鬲 賱賱賲丨丕丿孬丞貙 賵賴賷 鬲毓丕賳賯賰 賮賷 丕賱賵賯鬲 丕賱匕賷 鬲丨鬲丕噩 賮賷賴 亘丕賱賮毓賱 廿賱賶 賵噩亘丞 賲賳夭賱賷丞 噩賷丿丞 丕賱胤賴賷 .. 賱丕 鬲賰賲賳 丕賱賲卮賰賱丞 賮賷 丨亘賰貙 亘賱 鬲賰賲賳 賮賷 賱睾鬲賰 賱賱丨亘.
賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱匕賷 丨賯賯 兀賮囟賱 賲亘賷毓丕鬲 毓賱賶 丕賱賲爻鬲賵賶 丕賱毓丕賱賲賷貙 賷賰卮賮 丕賱丿賰鬲賵乇 (噩丕乇賷 鬲卮丕亘賲丕賳) 毓賳 丕賱賰賷賮賷丞 丕賱鬲賷 賷毓亘乇 亘賴丕 兀卮禺丕氐 賲禺鬲賱賮賵賳 毓賳 丨亘賴賲 亘胤乇賷賯丞 賲鬲亘丕賷賳丞貙 賵賮賷 丕賱丨賯賷賯丞 賴賳丕賰 禺賲爻 賱睾丕鬲 賲鬲毓丿丿丞 賱賱丨亘貙 賵賴賷:
鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲貙 賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲卮噩賷毓貙 鬲亘丕丿賱 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕貙 丕賱兀毓賲丕賱 丕賱禺丿賲賷丞貙 丕賱丕鬲氐丕賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷.
賲丕 賷毓賳賷 賱賰 丕賱賰孬賷乇 乇亘賲丕 賱丕 賷毓賳賷 卮賷卅丕賸 亘丕賱賳爻亘丞 賱卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賰貙 賵 賱賰賳 兀禺賷乇丕賸 爻鬲噩丿 丕賱賲賮鬲丕丨 賱賮賴賲 丕丨鬲賷丕噩丕鬲 丕賱胤乇賮 丕賱丌禺乇 丕賱禺丕氐丞貙 胤亘賯 丕賱賲亘丕丿卅 丕賱氐丨賷丨丞貙 賵 鬲毓賱賲 丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱氐丨賷丨丞貙 賵 賯乇賷亘丕賸 爻鬲爻鬲賲鬲毓 亘丕賱廿丨爻丕爻 丕賱毓賲賷賯 亘丕賱乇囟丕 賵 丕賱爻毓丕丿丞 賱賰賵賳賰 賯丕丿乇丕賸 毓賱賶 丕賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丕賱丨亘貙 賵 賱卮毓賵乇賰 亘兀賳賰 賲丨亘賵亘 亘丕賱賮毓賱 賱賯丕亍 賴匕丕.
賮賷 賴匕丕 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱匕賷 丨賯賯 兀賮囟賱 賲亘賷毓丕鬲 毓賱賶 丕賱賲爻鬲賵賶 丕賱毓丕賱賲賷貙 賷賰卮賮 丕賱丿賰鬲賵乇 (噩丕乇賷 鬲卮丕亘賲丕賳) 毓賳 丕賱賰賷賮賷丞 丕賱鬲賷 賷毓亘乇 亘賴丕 兀卮禺丕氐 賲禺鬲賱賮賵賳 毓賳 丨亘賴賲 亘胤乇賷賯丞 賲鬲亘丕賷賳丞貙 賵賮賷 丕賱丨賯賷賯丞 賴賳丕賰 禺賲爻 賱睾丕鬲 賲鬲毓丿丿丞 賱賱丨亘貙 賵賴賷:
鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲貙 賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲卮噩賷毓貙 鬲亘丕丿賱 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕貙 丕賱兀毓賲丕賱 丕賱禺丿賲賷丞貙 丕賱丕鬲氐丕賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷.
賲丕 賷毓賳賷 賱賰 丕賱賰孬賷乇 乇亘賲丕 賱丕 賷毓賳賷 卮賷卅丕賸 亘丕賱賳爻亘丞 賱卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賰貙 賵 賱賰賳 兀禺賷乇丕賸 爻鬲噩丿 丕賱賲賮鬲丕丨 賱賮賴賲 丕丨鬲賷丕噩丕鬲 丕賱胤乇賮 丕賱丌禺乇 丕賱禺丕氐丞貙 胤亘賯 丕賱賲亘丕丿卅 丕賱氐丨賷丨丞貙 賵 鬲毓賱賲 丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱氐丨賷丨丞貙 賵 賯乇賷亘丕賸 爻鬲爻鬲賲鬲毓 亘丕賱廿丨爻丕爻 丕賱毓賲賷賯 亘丕賱乇囟丕 賵 丕賱爻毓丕丿丞 賱賰賵賳賰 賯丕丿乇丕賸 毓賱賶 丕賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丕賱丨亘貙 賵 賱卮毓賵乇賰 亘兀賳賰 賲丨亘賵亘 亘丕賱賮毓賱 賱賯丕亍 賴匕丕.
180 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1990
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Gary Chapman
524听books3,384听followersGary Demonte Chapman is an American author and radio talk show host. Chapman is most noted for his The Five Love Languages series regarding human relationships.
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October 30, 2007
this book is a tool through which the author, gary chapman, can play out his jesus-complex disguised as a relationship self-help book. there are references from the bible throughout almost every chapter and gary likes to include generous praise from his clients who call him a "miracle worker." it's damn-near pretty close to being called god.
the book has all the hallmarks of a bestseller: easy to read (i read it in one day); hopeless circumstances that seem beyond repair; and an uplifiting ending. the more bestsellers i read, the more i realize that the formula for mainstream media isn't just used in music and movies, it's used in books, too. ugh, how annoying. i admit, i was almost sold on it, too. the author used just the right amount of despair and at the appropriate moments, instilled hope for a better future. and while hope isn't bad at all, the book lacks in addressing the complexity of relationships as well as the diversity of relationships in today's world. for example, this book may not translate well in multicultural relationships that are dictated by a whole different set of mores and values. also, i wonder how it would be relevant to queer couples or polyamourous relationships. it's quite apparent that this book is meant for hetero-white-christian-monogamous couples.
but the one major caveat of this book that isn't so much a caveat as a poorly disguised advocate of misogyny, is the case of a woman who has been abused (what type of abuse has been perpetrated isn't made explicit and gary's reluctance to do so makes me suspicious of how the church deals with issues of domestic violence). gary's advice? dismiss any of your own feelings of discomfort (being used for sex) and have sex with your husband as an act of love and hope that he will reciprocate that love. and what i don't understand is how people have overlooked this, even people who are in the psychology field. that's one thing he doesn't really address, how to identify your limits and make compromises. if you can't see the problem with this picture, i pray you never get married. or have a relationship. or speak to people.
the gender roles in this book are fucking archaic. there's this little section where gary talks about the gender differences in sexual desire. according to him, these differences are all physiologically based. men simply have more tension built-up as a result of massive sperm generation whereas women don't, and that is why women don't crave sex the way men do. instead, women only want sex if their men meet their emotional needs. what, do men not need to have their emotional needs met? are they really just fucking animals who want to empty their over-spermed dicks? why don't they just jack off into a toilet for crying out loud? oops, am i not supposed to mention masturbation in the presence of god? and gary makes women seem like fucking prudes from the latest harlequin romance, the christian edition. gag. this man has very little knowledge of couples outside the realm of christian folklore.
his section on physical touch made me laugh. i wasn't sure if the lame attempts at humor were to assuage his own discomfort or that of his audience. yes, gary, people have sex. i understand that when you tell me to rub my partner's leg with my foot that i should make sure i'm not rubbing the dog. harhar.
to be fair, he touched on the basic fundamentals of communication with your partner, but i can hardly call this book revolutionary. his book on the five languages of love for children sound more useful just because the developmental stage they are in matches the dumbed-down tone of the book. you'd think he was writing for couples who were born in a vaccuum.
i'm so over reading new york times bestsellers. we've been brainwashed into accepting that the typical mainstream formula is quality literature. i prefer real talk to fluffy shit, thank you.
the book has all the hallmarks of a bestseller: easy to read (i read it in one day); hopeless circumstances that seem beyond repair; and an uplifiting ending. the more bestsellers i read, the more i realize that the formula for mainstream media isn't just used in music and movies, it's used in books, too. ugh, how annoying. i admit, i was almost sold on it, too. the author used just the right amount of despair and at the appropriate moments, instilled hope for a better future. and while hope isn't bad at all, the book lacks in addressing the complexity of relationships as well as the diversity of relationships in today's world. for example, this book may not translate well in multicultural relationships that are dictated by a whole different set of mores and values. also, i wonder how it would be relevant to queer couples or polyamourous relationships. it's quite apparent that this book is meant for hetero-white-christian-monogamous couples.
but the one major caveat of this book that isn't so much a caveat as a poorly disguised advocate of misogyny, is the case of a woman who has been abused (what type of abuse has been perpetrated isn't made explicit and gary's reluctance to do so makes me suspicious of how the church deals with issues of domestic violence). gary's advice? dismiss any of your own feelings of discomfort (being used for sex) and have sex with your husband as an act of love and hope that he will reciprocate that love. and what i don't understand is how people have overlooked this, even people who are in the psychology field. that's one thing he doesn't really address, how to identify your limits and make compromises. if you can't see the problem with this picture, i pray you never get married. or have a relationship. or speak to people.
the gender roles in this book are fucking archaic. there's this little section where gary talks about the gender differences in sexual desire. according to him, these differences are all physiologically based. men simply have more tension built-up as a result of massive sperm generation whereas women don't, and that is why women don't crave sex the way men do. instead, women only want sex if their men meet their emotional needs. what, do men not need to have their emotional needs met? are they really just fucking animals who want to empty their over-spermed dicks? why don't they just jack off into a toilet for crying out loud? oops, am i not supposed to mention masturbation in the presence of god? and gary makes women seem like fucking prudes from the latest harlequin romance, the christian edition. gag. this man has very little knowledge of couples outside the realm of christian folklore.
his section on physical touch made me laugh. i wasn't sure if the lame attempts at humor were to assuage his own discomfort or that of his audience. yes, gary, people have sex. i understand that when you tell me to rub my partner's leg with my foot that i should make sure i'm not rubbing the dog. harhar.
to be fair, he touched on the basic fundamentals of communication with your partner, but i can hardly call this book revolutionary. his book on the five languages of love for children sound more useful just because the developmental stage they are in matches the dumbed-down tone of the book. you'd think he was writing for couples who were born in a vaccuum.
i'm so over reading new york times bestsellers. we've been brainwashed into accepting that the typical mainstream formula is quality literature. i prefer real talk to fluffy shit, thank you.
February 22, 2013
I think the basis for this self-help book is good. I totally get the "love languages" thing. My husband's "love language" is Physical Affection and mine is Quality Time. I totally see that. But this is like a "Love Language For Dummies." It talks to you like you're an idiot who has never had basic human social interaction before. And there isn't really any advice, just this guy rambling on about how smart he is for figuring out that people need to be loved in different ways. Like, his advice for someone whose spouse (not partner, not lifemate, and - in this instance, always the wife) prefers "Acts of Service" as a love language (because wives love when their husband does the laundry for them, basically) is just that -- do the laundry without being asked. Well no shit. That's not real advice, that's common sense. And if the husband were to argue "I don't have time, I work a lot so that I can provide for my family" blah blah blah, he just says "WELL MAKE TIME." Super helpful, guy.
Not to mention the book is sexist and heteronormative. Unfortunately, I did a little googling on the author AFTER the fact, and of course it is, because he's a Bible beater. I wish I had known that before I wasted my $7 on the Kindle book. I'd really like to see this concept updated and brought into the 21st century, written in such a manner as to A) actually include all walks of life, not just middle class straight white married couples, and B) actually offer advice that can be applied to a relationship.
Not to mention the book is sexist and heteronormative. Unfortunately, I did a little googling on the author AFTER the fact, and of course it is, because he's a Bible beater. I wish I had known that before I wasted my $7 on the Kindle book. I'd really like to see this concept updated and brought into the 21st century, written in such a manner as to A) actually include all walks of life, not just middle class straight white married couples, and B) actually offer advice that can be applied to a relationship.
March 16, 2011
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Doing what your spouse asks of you makes them love you more. There. I just saved you $14.
Doing what your spouse asks of you makes them love you more. There. I just saved you $14.
March 26, 2013
This book is based on the premise that everyone has a "love language". Things others say or do that make one feel "loved",they are follows:
-words of affirmation.
-recieving gifts.
-acts of service.
-physical touch.
-quality time.
Personally I want you to tell me how great I am (words of affirmation) while walking in the house with a collection of poetry for me (receiving gifts), make a beeline for the trash that needs to be taken out (acts of service), then come back in and read quietly next to me (quality time) before I ride you like the wild stallion that you are (physical touch) so where does that leave me? Which love language am I? This book was not helpful (as indicated by the shelf it's on).
-words of affirmation.
-recieving gifts.
-acts of service.
-physical touch.
-quality time.
Personally I want you to tell me how great I am (words of affirmation) while walking in the house with a collection of poetry for me (receiving gifts), make a beeline for the trash that needs to be taken out (acts of service), then come back in and read quietly next to me (quality time) before I ride you like the wild stallion that you are (physical touch) so where does that leave me? Which love language am I? This book was not helpful (as indicated by the shelf it's on).
July 7, 2015
I won't go into the circumstances which lead to this bizarre buddy read that took place at Disneyland. Sometimes life can be stranger than fiction. I will say that this book has some reasonably helpful thoughts and ideas, but... it is way too simplified and way too heteronormative and way too traditional Christian-value based to speak to me in any meaningful way.
Every single example featured a husband/breadwinner and wife/homemaker (who sometimes worked outside the home) couple. In one example, when the wife was asked to describe something positive about her husband, she says: "he let's me keep any money I earn in my part time job". Another example included a young wife who wished her husband would change the baby's diaper when he got home from work because she was busy cooking dinner (HIM: I would like her to cook dinner for when I get home from work).... WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE?!?!?!
The author didn't overtly advocate for traditional gender roles in the home, but I couldn't help but think there was a subliminal message indicating his preference for this. In the one example where the husband seemed to take on a fair share of the cooking, cleaning and other assorted domestic chores, the wife complained. She wanted him to spend more time with her. As it turned out, the wife really wanted to cook and clean, but the husband was too efficient and didn't give her a chance to do so. Oh, happy ending. Needless to say, I'm crying feminist tears at this point.
Don't get me wrong, I am all for good communication, respect and understanding how to make your spouse feel loved. But when this misogynist flavored relationship guru doled out advice to a woman in a 'horrible' marriage, I took issue. The details of horror of the marriage were largely unsaid, other than it was given that the husband cursed and said he hated his wife. This woman was very religious and clearly the idea of leaving her husband was at odds with her beliefs. Since the husband had no interest in seeking marriage counseling, the author/marriage counselor devised a unilateral plan he admitted didn't know would work. The crux of the plan was for the wife to speak to her husband in his love language, and hopefully he would eventually he would reciprocate and the love tanks would start to refill. This plan basically suggested, among other things, that the wife initiate sex with her husband (as his love language was physical touch) even though this idea did not appeal to the wife. Kind of a 'take one for the team' approach. The author clearly said that this was her decision to do so. Ok, so all this has the appearance of consenting adults and informed decisions, so where's the problem Katie? Oh, I don't know, how about emotional manipulation of the vulnerable? Call me cynical, but I picture an abused spouse reading this and thinking that I just need to have sex with my husband and maybe things will work out.
And that leads me to the other big issue I had with this book. All the case studies were simple and tidy and all had happily ever afters. Not very realistic. This author only cited success stories and provided no useful examples of how this love language thing can go wrong.
Overall, I think the idea of love languages seems reasonable, but I was sorely disappointed in the examples and approaches suggested by the author. At best, he gave an overly optimistic view of how implementing his ideas would work. (and if they don't work the first time, perhaps you could try one of his marriage $eminars or buy more of his book$) At worst, they pander to the emotionally vulnerable in abusive relationships, giving them specious relationship advice.
Every single example featured a husband/breadwinner and wife/homemaker (who sometimes worked outside the home) couple. In one example, when the wife was asked to describe something positive about her husband, she says: "he let's me keep any money I earn in my part time job". Another example included a young wife who wished her husband would change the baby's diaper when he got home from work because she was busy cooking dinner (HIM: I would like her to cook dinner for when I get home from work).... WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE?!?!?!
The author didn't overtly advocate for traditional gender roles in the home, but I couldn't help but think there was a subliminal message indicating his preference for this. In the one example where the husband seemed to take on a fair share of the cooking, cleaning and other assorted domestic chores, the wife complained. She wanted him to spend more time with her. As it turned out, the wife really wanted to cook and clean, but the husband was too efficient and didn't give her a chance to do so. Oh, happy ending. Needless to say, I'm crying feminist tears at this point.
Don't get me wrong, I am all for good communication, respect and understanding how to make your spouse feel loved. But when this misogynist flavored relationship guru doled out advice to a woman in a 'horrible' marriage, I took issue. The details of horror of the marriage were largely unsaid, other than it was given that the husband cursed and said he hated his wife. This woman was very religious and clearly the idea of leaving her husband was at odds with her beliefs. Since the husband had no interest in seeking marriage counseling, the author/marriage counselor devised a unilateral plan he admitted didn't know would work. The crux of the plan was for the wife to speak to her husband in his love language, and hopefully he would eventually he would reciprocate and the love tanks would start to refill. This plan basically suggested, among other things, that the wife initiate sex with her husband (as his love language was physical touch) even though this idea did not appeal to the wife. Kind of a 'take one for the team' approach. The author clearly said that this was her decision to do so. Ok, so all this has the appearance of consenting adults and informed decisions, so where's the problem Katie? Oh, I don't know, how about emotional manipulation of the vulnerable? Call me cynical, but I picture an abused spouse reading this and thinking that I just need to have sex with my husband and maybe things will work out.
And that leads me to the other big issue I had with this book. All the case studies were simple and tidy and all had happily ever afters. Not very realistic. This author only cited success stories and provided no useful examples of how this love language thing can go wrong.
Overall, I think the idea of love languages seems reasonable, but I was sorely disappointed in the examples and approaches suggested by the author. At best, he gave an overly optimistic view of how implementing his ideas would work. (and if they don't work the first time, perhaps you could try one of his marriage $eminars or buy more of his book$) At worst, they pander to the emotionally vulnerable in abusive relationships, giving them specious relationship advice.
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March 1, 2021So, this is one of those rare books where it was five stars until literally the end and after that...I really just didn't feel comfortable giving this book a rating at all.
At its core, this book had a great message.
Across cultures and religions there's the underlying theme of finding love...but what about maintaining it? Nurturing it through the years?
That's where the 5 love languages comes into play.
1. Words of AffirmationThe idea is that everyone has a love language, and what communicates love to one person might not necessarily be the same for the other.
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch
And up until that point of the book I was loving the message and it resonated very deeply with me. This book was verbalizing something that I had noticed for years but just didn't have the words for it.
After all, who hasn't picked up on the fact that different people like different things?
To some people - tokens of affection (i.e. flowers, post-it notes with heartfelt messages and small surprises) are what shows that you care.
And to others - having someone take time out of their day to spend with you (ie doing chores together, playing a game, or going on a date) is what matters most.
Some people need to hear "I love you" or "You are beautiful" or "You are amazing" in order to know that the other person cares.
I also liked how the author explained that love is work, that it takes a conscious effort to manifest and that it makes all the difference.
And while there were a few moments that seemed a smidge sexist or had a misogynistic slant or got a bit heavy-handed with religion, I could take it with a grain of salt (remembering that the book was written in the 1990s and that those moments weren't the focus/core concept of the book).
It was really the last example in the book that rubbed me the wrong way.
Up until that point, the author would explain a concept, provide examples of it and an anecdote of how it works in real life. And yes those examples were sometimes a bit simplistic/rosy-colored but ultimately I feel like it worked well.
The last example of the book was supposed to be the "unsalvageable marriage" one that was the end-all-be-all test of the Love Language Theory.
And (spoilers ahead) Gary Chapman was able to save the marriage by letting the wife get...hmm...I don't know entirely if it would be categorized as rape but it was borderline enough to make me feel very, very uncomfortable reading it.
Now, I do think I should preface with this is just my interpretation of the woman's story and there very well might be further extenuating circumstances that I am yet unaware of that might sway me to Chapman's side BUT....
Essentially the last woman in this book is being verbally and emotionally abused by the husband. We aren't given a TON of examples but it is heavily implied that this situation untenable - that the woman couldn't live like this anymore.
BUT she didn't want to get divorced because...reasons. Some religious but also part of her remembered her husband before he became so monstrous.
So Gary, after being assured that she is willing to do anything to save her marriage, discusses his "plan". Gary believes that her husband doesn't feel loved and that's why he lashes out.
The author and the woman go over the love languages. I don't remember what hers was but the husband's was physical.
Now physical love language can manifest itself in a few ways - could be that you just crave touch - hugs, hand-holding, resting head-on-shoulder during movies, or snuggling at night. Or it could be sex.
I'm sure you can imagine what the woman's husband wanted.
It boiled down to she felt horrible because of the way he treated her and didn't want to have sex with him which (according to the author) was the root of why the husband was so cruel.
So, the author devises an experiment.
The brilliant plan was for her to have sex with her husband - even though she didn't "feel" like she wanted to. And to stop her nagging him and essentially just pretend their marriage is going well.
I don't know if this is categorized as spousal rape because while it is clear that the woman doesn't want to have sex, she does go willingly to bed but that's only because Gary told her it is the only way to save her marriage and get her loving husband back. So. Maybe not rape but definitely made me feel awful for her.
But hey, it didn't matter anyway because her marriage is saved.
Now, I will admit that I am biased towards this example. I feel like there are just some marriages that aren't worth saving - and as soon as you cross the line towards sustained abuse, that's it.
And perhaps if the author had degrees in the field (Note: The author had MA in anthropology, masters in religious ed and PhD in adult ed but not in the field of question (clinical psychology/licensed therapist) (as far as I can tell)) or he had consulted with a professional...and if the only solution proposed was something other than "weekly sex with husband and stop complaining to him" I would feel differently but to me, this situation was serious enough to refer the woman to someone actually clinically trained to work with abuse victims opposed to armchair diagnosing the husband as sex-deprived.
Never does the author broach the subject of marriages that NEED to end in divorce. Never does he talk about what to do if you can't do it anymore. It felt like he was just pushing this love-as-the-only-answer narrative too far with that last example.
The ending just hit such a sour note for me - and I had loved this book so deeply before it.
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
August 18, 2017
This was recommended by a 鈥渇riend鈥� of my wife, which proves part of the old adage: 鈥淎 friend of thy wife, is thine enemy鈥�.
That鈥檚 from the Bible or the Decameron or Archie Comics.
I think.
I鈥檒l do the whole would-it-kill-you-to-read-something-positive-with-me-for-a-change thing if I want something in return in order spend some time with my wife. Plus, bonus, the audio book was relatively short.
I鈥檝e had to read a few scoops of self-helpcrap literature over the years, so I鈥檓 down with the lingo:
Annie Wilkes鈥檚 How to Win Friends and Influence People.
I鈥檓 OK (Neurotic, OCD, manic-depressive), You鈥檙e OK (Nymphomaniac, Daddy issues, Passive-aggressive).
Untying my 鈥渋nner child鈥� from the radiator and letting him have ice cream with my 鈥渢oxic鈥� parents.
Books that give you a 鈥渢hought for the day鈥�, you know, something cosmic and revelatory to think about and chew on for eternity (or until you close the book).
Jeff, buddy, I鈥檓 breathless with anticipation! What are the five languages of love, already?
Well, as a way to work into that, fanatical (and borderline crazy) Goodreader, let me explain the good doctor鈥檚 theory on the FIVE languages of love. Basically, we all speak a primary language and we all have a language of love that we learned from mommy and daddy.
One of five languages of love.
Five! Count 鈥榚m, Five!
What was that number again?
So, that number is five, right?
Stop dragging this out in order to post 鈥渇ive鈥� gifs.
According to Dr. Chapman, the five languages are:
Now, I鈥檓 done.
1) Giving gifts 鈥� If the last time you gave your wife flowers was when Nirvana was a thing, then this one isn鈥檛 you.
2) Words of affirmation 鈥� These don鈥檛 include: 鈥淵ou鈥檙e an idiot/moron/devil/shrew/succubus etc.鈥�
3) Acts of Service or doing stuff for your loved one or something 鈥� Helping my wife bury the hoochies that chase after our son qualifies here.
4) Quality time 鈥�
It鈥檚 not me, me, me. Maybe your wife, wants to hang with you and do stuff, like, I don鈥檛 know, talk鈥�
5) Physical touch 鈥� It鈥檚 not only smexy times, but just being there, being present.
Note to wife: Please treat every day like my birthday!
So, in a nutshell, recognize your love language and your spouse鈥檚 love language and try to accommodate them in some small way.
If I鈥檝e saved your marriage, you鈥檙e welcome or just send me a check. Make it out to 鈥淐ASH鈥�.
Warning! The doctor likes to work in the Christian stuff and this is strictly a hetero tome, so if the first is a turn off and you find the second limited, look for help elsewhere. And like anything in this world that makes money, Chapman has written enough additional books on this subject to choke a Tijuana stage show donkey.
That鈥檚 from the Bible or the Decameron or Archie Comics.
I think.
I鈥檒l do the whole would-it-kill-you-to-read-something-positive-with-me-for-a-change thing
I鈥檝e had to read a few scoops of self-help
Annie Wilkes鈥檚 How to Win Friends and Influence People.
I鈥檓 OK (Neurotic, OCD, manic-depressive), You鈥檙e OK (Nymphomaniac, Daddy issues, Passive-aggressive).
Untying my 鈥渋nner child鈥� from the radiator and letting him have ice cream with my 鈥渢oxic鈥� parents.
Books that give you a 鈥渢hought for the day鈥�, you know, something cosmic and revelatory to think about and chew on for eternity (or until you close the book).
Jeff, buddy, I鈥檓 breathless with anticipation! What are the five languages of love, already?
Well, as a way to work into that, fanatical (and borderline crazy) Goodreader, let me explain the good doctor鈥檚 theory on the FIVE languages of love. Basically, we all speak a primary language and we all have a language of love that we learned from mommy and daddy.
One of five languages of love.
Five! Count 鈥榚m, Five!
What was that number again?
So, that number is five, right?
Stop dragging this out in order to post 鈥渇ive鈥� gifs.
According to Dr. Chapman, the five languages are:
Now, I鈥檓 done.
1) Giving gifts 鈥� If the last time you gave your wife flowers was when Nirvana was a thing, then this one isn鈥檛 you.
2) Words of affirmation 鈥� These don鈥檛 include: 鈥淵ou鈥檙e an idiot/moron/devil/shrew/succubus etc.鈥�
3) Acts of Service or doing stuff for your loved one or something 鈥� Helping my wife bury the hoochies that chase after our son qualifies here.
4) Quality time 鈥�
It鈥檚 not me, me, me. Maybe your wife, wants to hang with you and do stuff, like, I don鈥檛 know, talk鈥�
5) Physical touch 鈥� It鈥檚 not only smexy times, but just being there, being present.
Note to wife: Please treat every day like my birthday!
So, in a nutshell, recognize your love language and your spouse鈥檚 love language and try to accommodate them in some small way.
If I鈥檝e saved your marriage, you鈥檙e welcome or just send me a check. Make it out to 鈥淐ASH鈥�.
Warning! The doctor likes to work in the Christian stuff and this is strictly a hetero tome, so if the first is a turn off and you find the second limited, look for help elsewhere. And like anything in this world that makes money, Chapman has written enough additional books on this subject to choke a Tijuana stage show donkey.
February 24, 2008
My mother in law gave me this book and I hesitated reading it because it sounds so cheesy (and just take a look at the cover--how dorky!) But I was stuck on vacation with nothing else to read so I reluctantly gave it a try. In a nutshell, this book has changed my life. Page after page I found myself wanting to yell, "yes! Thats exactly right!" If I could give this more than five stars, I would. Okay, maybe "changed my life" is a bit strong, but it has certainly enhanced my marriage like nothing else I've ever read or done.
The advice this author gives is so profound and universal, it can be applied successfully to any deep relationship you have (children, parents, close friends). I just can't recommend it highly enough. Every couple, whether newly together or old marrieds, could benefit from this book.
The advice this author gives is so profound and universal, it can be applied successfully to any deep relationship you have (children, parents, close friends). I just can't recommend it highly enough. Every couple, whether newly together or old marrieds, could benefit from this book.
January 23, 2021
A quick and valuable read to help you better understand how you and your partner best like to express and receive love. Great for helping you see what you truly value in a partner and what your partner truly values in you.
May 27, 2023
Ein kurzes Buch mit ganz viel Inhalt. Dabei ist der Inhalt eigentlich selbstverst盲ndlich, m枚chte man meinen. Man sollte seinem Partner zeigen, dass man ihn liebt und die Liebe nicht einschlafen lassen. Lob und Anerkennung, Z盲rtlichkeit und Hilfsbereitschaft geh枚ren beispielsweise dazu. Eigentlich selbstverst盲ndlich, aber es ist gut und auch wichtig, sich dieses immer mal wieder ins Ged盲chtnis zu rufen. Daf眉r ist dieses Buch ideal; es regt zum Nachdenken und Reflektieren an.
Mir hat es sehr gut gefallen!
Mir hat es sehr gut gefallen!
December 22, 2017
Quite disgusted by how the author counseled a woman, 鈥淎nn鈥� who said her husband cursed her, mistreated her, and said he hated her. Chapman told her to stay in the marriage for six months, and do ALL the emotional labor and follow 鈥渢he teachings of Jesus.鈥� I fear for her safety. Ann鈥檚 closest friends, who presumably knew of her situation, told her to get out. I hope she followed their advice.
December 12, 2024
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賲賳 毓賷賵亘 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵賲賲賷夭丕鬲賴 賮賷 賳賮爻 丕賱賵賯鬲貙 廿賳賴 丕鬲賰賱賲 賮賯胤 毓賳 丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 丕賱夭賵噩賷丞貙 賴賵 胤亘毓賸丕 賵丕囟丨 賲賳 丕賱睾賱丕賮 廿賳賴 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 "卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賰" 賱賰賳賷 兀毓鬲賯丿 廿賳 賰孬賷乇 賲賳 兀賮賰丕乇 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賲賲賰賳 鬲鬲胤亘賯 毓賱賶 毓賱丕賯丕鬲 丕賱氐丿丕賯丞 賲孬賱賸丕..
賱賰賳 丕賱賲賷夭丞 丕賱賱賷 賲鬲賵賯毓鬲卮 賵噩賵丿賴丕 亘氐乇丕丨丞 廿賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 亘乇丿賵 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 丕賱夭賵噩賷丞 賮賯胤貙 亘丿賵賳 兀賷 鬲胤乇賯 賱賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 禺丕乇噩 廿胤丕乇 丕賱夭賵丕噩貙 賵丿賷 賳賯胤丞 鬲丨爻亘 賱賱賰丕鬲亘 亘丕賱鬲兀賰賷丿.
賮賷賴 賮氐賱 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻 毓賳丿 丕賱兀胤賮丕賱貙 賵毓乇賮鬲 廿賳 賮賷賴 賰鬲丕亘 鬲丕賳賷 賰丕賲賱 賱賱兀胤賮丕賱 亘爻貙 賵賮賷 丨賵丕乇 卮賷賯 賲毓 賱賷賳丞 亘賳鬲 兀禺賵賷丕 (伲 爻賳賷賳 賵賳氐) 亘賯賵賱賴丕 賴賵 兀賳鬲 毓丕乇賮丞 廿賳賷 亘丨亘賰 賷丕 賱賵賱賵責 賯丕賱鬲 賱賷 丌賴貙 賮爻兀賱鬲賴丕 胤亘 賷毓賳賷 丕賷賴 亘丨亘賰責 賵賰丕賳 丕賱噩賵丕亘 丕賱丌鬲賷:
"兀賳鬲 亘鬲噩賷亘賷賱賷 丨丕噩丞 丨賱賵丞" 賷亘賯賶 丿賷 賱睾丞 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕貙 賵 "亘鬲丿賷賳賷 亘賵爻丞 賵丨囟賳 賰亘賷乇" 賷毓賳賷 丕賱鬲賵丕氐賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷貙 賵 "賳賯毓丿 賳賱毓亘 賲毓 亘毓囟 兀賳丕 賵兀賳鬲" 賷毓賳賷 鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲 :))
賵賮賷 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 禺丕賱氐 鬲賲賳賷丕鬲賷 賱賱噩賲賷毓 亘毓賱丕賯丕鬲 氐丨賷丞 噩賲賷賱丞 賰賱賴丕 丨亘 賵鬲賮丕賴賲 賵禺夭丕賳丕鬲 毓丕胤賮賷丞 賲賱賷丕賳丞 毓賱賶 乇兀賷 丕賱兀爻鬲丕匕 鬲卮丕亘賲丕賳.. 賵毓賳 賳賮爻賷 賴賮賰乇 噩丿賷賸丕 兀毓賲賱 賰丕乇賷乇 卮賷賮鬲 賵兀卮鬲睾賱 賲丕乇丿趩 賰賵賳爻賱鬲賳鬲馃檹馃徎
丕賱賲賴賲.. 兀禺賷乇賸丕 賯乇兀鬲 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 丕賱賱賷 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 賵丕丨丿丞 賲賳 兀卮賴乇 丕賱賳馗乇賷丕鬲 賵賴賷 賳馗乇賷丞 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻貙 丕賱賱賷 賴賲 賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲賯丿賷乇貙 鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲貙 鬲亘丕丿賱 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕貙 丕賱兀毓賲丕賱 丕賱禺丿賲賷丞貙 丕賱丕鬲氐丕賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷.. 賵賲卮 亘爻 賰丿丕貙 丿丕 賰賱 賱睾丞 胤賱毓 賱賷賴丕 賱賴噩丕鬲 賲禺鬲賱賮丞貙 賵丕賱賰丕鬲亘 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 賰賱 賱睾丞 亘丕賱鬲賮氐賷賱貙 賵亘賷丿毓賾賲 丕賱卮乇丨 亘鬲噩丕乇亘 賵賯氐氐 毓丿鬲 毓賱賷賴 賮賷 毓賲賱賴 賰賲爻鬲卮丕乇 夭賵丕噩貙 賵亘毓丿賷賳 亘賷賯丿賲 兀賲孬賱丞 賵丕賯鬲乇丕丨丕鬲 賱賱兀賮賰丕乇 丕賱賱賷 賲賲賰賳 丕賱賵丕丨丿 賷毓亘乇 亘賷賴丕 毓賳 丨亘賴 賱卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賴 亘毓丿 賲丕 賷毓乇賮 丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱賱賷 亘賷鬲賰賱賲賴丕..
孬賲 賮賷 丕賱賮氐賵賱 丕賱兀禺賷乇丞 亘賷賵囟丨 賮賰乇丞 廿賳 賲毓乇賮丞 賱睾丞 丕賱胤乇賮 丕賱丌禺乇 賲卮 賰賮丕賷丞貙 丕賱賲賴賲 廿賳 丕賱賵丕丨丿 賷鬲毓賱賲 賷鬲賰賱賲賴丕 丕夭丕賷貙 賵丕賱兀賴賲 賲賳 丿丕 賰賱賴 賴賷 廿乇丕丿丞 丕賱卮乇賷賰賷賳 廿賳賴賲 賷氐賱丨賵丕 毓賱丕賯鬲賴賲貙 賱兀賳 丕賱丿賳賷丕 賲卮 亘爻賷胤丞 兀賵賷 賰丿丕 賱賱兀爻賮貙 賷毓賳賷 丕賷賴 丿丕 賴賷 賲乇丕鬲賷 賱睾丞 丨亘賴丕 賴賷 賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲賯丿賷乇責 禺賱丕氐 賴賯賵賱賴丕 賰賱丕賲 丨賱賵 賲乇丞 丕賱氐亘丨 賵賲乇丞 亘賱賷賱 賵禺賱氐賳丕.. 丕賱賲卮賰賱丞 賲卮 亘鬲鬲丨賱 賰丿丕貙 丕賱賲賴賲 賴賵 廿賳 賲丨丕賵賱丕鬲 丕賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丕賱丨亘 鬲賰賵賳 賳丕亘毓丞 賲賳 廿賳 丕賱賵丕丨丿 "賷禺鬲丕乇" 丕禺鬲賷丕乇 賵丕毓賷 賵賲爻丐賵賱 廿賳賴 "賷丨亘" 卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賴 賵賷賯鬲賳毓 鬲賲丕賲 丕賱丕賯鬲賳丕毓 廿賳賴 賱丕夭賲 賷卮亘毓 丨丕噩丞 卮乇賷賰賴 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷丞 亘丕賱胤乇賷賯丞 丕賱賱賷 賷賮囟賱賴丕 賴賵..
賰匕賱賰 賲賳 兀賴賲 丕賱兀賮賰丕乇 賮賷 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賴賷 丕賱賮乇賯 亘賷賳 (鬲噩乇亘丞 丕賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘) 賵 (丕賱丕丨鬲賷丕噩 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 賱賱丨亘)貙 賴賳丕 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 丕賱賳馗乇賷丞 丕賱卮賴賷乇丞 丕賱賱賷 亘鬲賯賵賱 丕賱丨亘 亘賷賳鬲賴賷 亘毓丿 丕賱噩賵丕夭貙 賵丕爻鬲賲鬲毓賵丕 亘丕賱禺胤賵亘丞 毓卮丕賳 丿賷 丌禺乇 兀賷丕賲 爻毓賷丿丞 賮賷 丨賷丕鬲賰賲貙... 賵廿賱禺貙 丕賱賰丕鬲亘 亘賷賯丿賲 鬲賮爻賷乇 賱賱兀賮賰丕乇 丿賷 賵賴賵 廿賳賴 賮賷 賲乇丨賱丞 (丕賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘)貙 丕賱胤乇賮賷賳 亘賷亘賯賵丕 賲賳亘賴乇賷賳 亘亘毓囟 賵亘丨丕賱丞 丕賱爻毓丕丿丞 睾賷乇 丕賱賲丨丿賵丿丞 賵丕賱廿卮亘丕毓 賱賱乇睾亘丕鬲 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷丞貙 賱賰賳 丕賱丕鬲賳賷賳 睾丕賱亘賸丕 賲卮 亘賷賮賰乇賵丕 賱賯丿丕賲貙 廿賳 丕賱賲乇丨賱丞 丕賱賲丐賯鬲丞 丿賷 賲爻賷乇賴丕 鬲賳鬲賴賷貙 賵賲丨丿卮 亘賷賴鬲賲 賷賮賴賲 丨賯賷賯丞 (丕賱丕丨鬲賷丕噩 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 賱賱丨亘)貙 丕賱賱賷 賴賵 丕丨鬲賷丕噩 丿丕卅賲 賵賲爻鬲賲乇 賵胤乇賷賯丞 廿卮亘丕毓賴 賲禺鬲賱賮丞 賲賳 卮禺氐 賱賱鬲丕賳賷貙 賵亘賲噩乇丿 賲丕 賲乇丨賱丞 丕賱丕賳亘賴丕乇 丕賱兀賵賱賶 鬲禺賱氐 亘賷乇噩毓 (丕賱丕丨鬲賷丕噩 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 賱賱丨亘) 丿丕 賷毓亘乇 毓賳 賳賮爻賴貙 賵賱兀賳 賲丨丿卮 丕鬲毓賱賲 丕夭丕賷 賷卮亘毓 丕賱丕丨鬲賷丕噩 丿丕 毓賳丿 丕賱鬲丕賳賷 亘丕賱胤乇賷賯丞 丕賱賲賳丕爻亘丞貙 賴賳丕 鬲亘丿兀 丕賱賲卮丕賰賱 賲賳 賳賵毓: "兀賳鬲 賲毓丿鬲卮 亘鬲丨亘賳賷 夭賷 丕賱兀賵賱貙 兀賳鬲 丕鬲睾賷乇鬲賷 兀賵賷 亘毓丿 丕賱噩賵丕夭貙 兀賳丕 丨丕爻丞 廿賳賷 丕鬲噩賵夭鬲 賵丕丨丿 鬲丕賳賷 睾賷乇 亘鬲丕毓 丕賱禺胤賵亘丞貙... 廿賱禺"
賵鬲賲賵鬲 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 廿賰賱賷賳賰賷賸丕 毓賳丿 賴匕賴 丕賱賲乇丨賱丞貙 兀賵 賷賱噩兀 賵丕丨丿 賲賳 丕賱胤乇賮賷賳 廿賳賴 賷丿賵乇 毓賱賶 鬲噩乇亘丞 噩丿賷丿丞 賱賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賲賳 噩丿賷丿貙 毓卮丕賳 賷賲賱賶 禺夭丕賳賴 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 賲丐賯鬲賸丕 賲乇丞 鬲丕賳賷丞貙 賵賴賰匕丕..
賱賰賳 丕賱賲卮賰賱丞 丿賷 賷賲賰賳 丨賱賴丕貙 氐丨賷丨 丕賱丨賱 賲卮 爻賴賱貙 賱賰賳 賱賵 賲賳 丕賱亘丿丕賷丞 賰賱 胤乇賮 賮賰乇 亘毓賯賱丕賳賷丞 賵賵丕賯毓賷丞貙 賵賰丕賳 毓賳丿賴 廿丿乇丕賰 丨賯賷賯賷 賱丕丨鬲賷丕噩丕鬲賴 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷丞 賵胤乇賯 廿卮亘丕毓賴丕貙 賵鬲賵丕氐賱 賲毓 丕賱胤乇賮 丕賱鬲丕賳賷 亘卮賰賱 賮毓丕賱 毓卮丕賳 賷賮賴賲賵丕 亘毓囟 賵 "賷丨亘賵丕" 亘毓囟 夭賷 賲丕 賰賱 賵丕丨丿 賲丨鬲丕噩貙 丕賱兀爻鬲丕匕 鬲卮丕亘賲丕賳 亘賷賯賵賱 -賵丕賱毓賴丿丞 毓賱賶 丕賱乇丕賵賷- 廿賳 丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 亘鬲鬲氐賱丨 賵丕賱賳丕爻 亘鬲丨亘 亘毓囟 賵賷賳亘爻胤賵丕 賵賷毓賷卮賵丕 賮賷 鬲亘丕鬲 賵賳亘丕鬲.
賲賳 毓賷賵亘 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵賲賲賷夭丕鬲賴 賮賷 賳賮爻 丕賱賵賯鬲貙 廿賳賴 丕鬲賰賱賲 賮賯胤 毓賳 丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 丕賱夭賵噩賷丞貙 賴賵 胤亘毓賸丕 賵丕囟丨 賲賳 丕賱睾賱丕賮 廿賳賴 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 "卮乇賷賰 丨賷丕鬲賰" 賱賰賳賷 兀毓鬲賯丿 廿賳 賰孬賷乇 賲賳 兀賮賰丕乇 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賲賲賰賳 鬲鬲胤亘賯 毓賱賶 毓賱丕賯丕鬲 丕賱氐丿丕賯丞 賲孬賱賸丕..
賱賰賳 丕賱賲賷夭丞 丕賱賱賷 賲鬲賵賯毓鬲卮 賵噩賵丿賴丕 亘氐乇丕丨丞 廿賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 亘乇丿賵 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 丕賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 丕賱夭賵噩賷丞 賮賯胤貙 亘丿賵賳 兀賷 鬲胤乇賯 賱賱毓賱丕賯丕鬲 禺丕乇噩 廿胤丕乇 丕賱夭賵丕噩貙 賵丿賷 賳賯胤丞 鬲丨爻亘 賱賱賰丕鬲亘 亘丕賱鬲兀賰賷丿.
賮賷賴 賮氐賱 亘賷鬲賰賱賲 毓賳 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻 毓賳丿 丕賱兀胤賮丕賱貙 賵毓乇賮鬲 廿賳 賮賷賴 賰鬲丕亘 鬲丕賳賷 賰丕賲賱 賱賱兀胤賮丕賱 亘爻貙 賵賮賷 丨賵丕乇 卮賷賯 賲毓 賱賷賳丞 亘賳鬲 兀禺賵賷丕 (伲 爻賳賷賳 賵賳氐) 亘賯賵賱賴丕 賴賵 兀賳鬲 毓丕乇賮丞 廿賳賷 亘丨亘賰 賷丕 賱賵賱賵責 賯丕賱鬲 賱賷 丌賴貙 賮爻兀賱鬲賴丕 胤亘 賷毓賳賷 丕賷賴 亘丨亘賰責 賵賰丕賳 丕賱噩賵丕亘 丕賱丌鬲賷:
"兀賳鬲 亘鬲噩賷亘賷賱賷 丨丕噩丞 丨賱賵丞" 賷亘賯賶 丿賷 賱睾丞 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕貙 賵 "亘鬲丿賷賳賷 亘賵爻丞 賵丨囟賳 賰亘賷乇" 賷毓賳賷 丕賱鬲賵丕氐賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷貙 賵 "賳賯毓丿 賳賱毓亘 賲毓 亘毓囟 兀賳丕 賵兀賳鬲" 賷毓賳賷 鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲 :))
賵賮賷 丕賱賳賴丕賷丞 禺丕賱氐 鬲賲賳賷丕鬲賷 賱賱噩賲賷毓 亘毓賱丕賯丕鬲 氐丨賷丞 噩賲賷賱丞 賰賱賴丕 丨亘 賵鬲賮丕賴賲 賵禺夭丕賳丕鬲 毓丕胤賮賷丞 賲賱賷丕賳丞 毓賱賶 乇兀賷 丕賱兀爻鬲丕匕 鬲卮丕亘賲丕賳.. 賵毓賳 賳賮爻賷 賴賮賰乇 噩丿賷賸丕 兀毓賲賱 賰丕乇賷乇 卮賷賮鬲 賵兀卮鬲睾賱 賲丕乇丿趩 賰賵賳爻賱鬲賳鬲馃檹馃徎
February 9, 2022
4.5 stars
I absolutely recommend this book to EVERYONE. Whether you are married, dating, single, whatever. The ideas and concepts in this book will benefit any relationship. The idea of loving others the way they need to be loved might feel counterintuitive, but it something so essential to growing as a person and understanding what love really is.
I had always known about this book and the love languages, but this was the first time I actually read it. Of course, as with any self-help type of book, there were a few cheesy moments, which is why I docked it half a star, but overall it was a fantastic read!
I absolutely recommend this book to EVERYONE. Whether you are married, dating, single, whatever. The ideas and concepts in this book will benefit any relationship. The idea of loving others the way they need to be loved might feel counterintuitive, but it something so essential to growing as a person and understanding what love really is.
I had always known about this book and the love languages, but this was the first time I actually read it. Of course, as with any self-help type of book, there were a few cheesy moments, which is why I docked it half a star, but overall it was a fantastic read!
October 28, 2021
The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, Gary Chapman
The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a 1992 book by Gary Chapman.
It outlines five general ways that romantic partners express and experience love, which Chapman calls "love languages".
By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other.
Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction.
A newly designed love languages assessment will help you understand and strengthen your relationship. You can build a lasting, loving marriage together.
For men and women of all ages who want to express love to their spouse in a meaningful way, and improve overall communication.
This book speaks straight to the needs of troubled spouses and simplifies and makes practical the ways to heal damaged relationships.
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The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a 1992 book by Gary Chapman.
It outlines five general ways that romantic partners express and experience love, which Chapman calls "love languages".
By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other.
Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction.
A newly designed love languages assessment will help you understand and strengthen your relationship. You can build a lasting, loving marriage together.
For men and women of all ages who want to express love to their spouse in a meaningful way, and improve overall communication.
This book speaks straight to the needs of troubled spouses and simplifies and makes practical the ways to heal damaged relationships.
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賵 丕睾賱亘 丕賱賳爻丕亍 鬲鬲賮賯 丕賳 賱睾丞 丕賱乇噩賱 丕賱丕賵賱賶 賴賷 丕賱毓賱丕賯丞 丕賱丨賲賷賲丞 丕匕賳 賱賲丕 賳鬲毓亘 丕賳賮爻賳丕 賮賷 丨丿賷孬.
廿賳 匕賱賰 賲賳 賲賵乇孬賳丕 丕賱賮賰乇賷 丕賱匕賷 賷噩亘 丕賳 賳睾賷乇 賮賷賴 賯賱賷賱丕 賱賳 賳賲丨賵賴 賮鬲賱賰 氐丨賷丨丞 毓賳丿 亘毓囟 賱賰賳 賱賷爻 丕賱賰賱.
賵 賱匕賱賰 賷噩亘 丕賳 賳賮賴賲 丕賳賮爻賳丕.
賯亘賱 亘丿兀 賮賷 丕賱丨丿賷孬 毓賳 禺乇丕賮鬲賳丕 丕賱禺丕氐丞 亘丕賱丨亘.賱賳毓賵丿 賱賱賵乇丕亍 賯賱賷賱丕.
賰丕賳 賷丕 賲丕 賰丕賳 賮賷 賯丿賷賲 丕賱夭賲丕賳 丕賲賷乇 馃ご丕丨亘 丕賲賷乇丞 馃懜
賵 賱賷毓亘乇 毓賳 丨亘賴 賰丕賳 賷禺乇噩 賲毓賴丕 賮賷 賳夭賴丕鬲 馃彇
賵 賷鬲丨丿孬丕賳 賮賷 賲賰丕賱賲丕鬲 胤賵賷賱丞 賵 賷賴丿賷 賱賴丕 丕賱賴丿賷丕.
賵鬲賱賰 兀賲賷乇丞 馃懜賮賷 睾賷賲丞 丕賱丨亘 丕賱賵乇丿賷丞 丕賱乇賵賲丕賳爻賷丞
鬲乇賶 丕賳賴丕 賵噩丿鬲 賮丕乇爻賴丕 匕賵 丨氐丕賳 丕亘賷囟馃 賵 賱鬲賰鬲賲賱 賮乇丨鬲賴丕
.賯乇乇丕 丕賳 賷鬲夭賵噩丕馃巼 賱鬲鬲賵丨丿 賲賲賱賰鬲賷賳 .
賵 亘毓丿 丨賮賱丞 丕賱夭賵丕噩 賵 丕賳鬲賴丕亍 卮賴乇 丕賱毓爻賱 賵丕賱匕賷 賯囟賷丕賴 賮賷 鬲乇賰賷丕 -賱丕賳 賯氐丞 毓卮賯 丕爻胤賵乇賷丞 賷噩亘 丕賳 賷賰賵賳 卮賴乇 毓爻賱 賮賷 丕爻胤賳亘賵賱 丕賱丿丕乇噩 賮賷 鬲賵賳爻-.
毓丕丿 丕賱夭賵噩丕賳 丕賱賶 賯氐乇 賵 亘毓丿 賲丿丞 亘丿兀鬲 丕賱禺賱丕賮丕鬲 賮賷 丕賱馗賴賵乇貙
賮 賲毓 丕賱夭賵丕噩 鬲丕鬲賷 丕賱賲爻丐賱賷丕鬲 (鬲賳馗賷賮 丕賱賲賳夭賱 ) 賱賲 賷毓丿 賯氐乇丕 .
丕賳鬲賴賶 丕賱丨賱賲 賵 亘丿兀 賲爻賱爻賱 丕禺乇丕噩 丕賱賯賲丕賲丞 賵 睾爻賱 丕賱賲丕毓賵賳 賵 賰賱 鬲賱賰 丕賱丕卮賷丕亍.
賵 亘丿丕 賰賱 賲賳賴賲丕 賷賰鬲卮賮 賲丿賶 丕賱亘賵賳 丕賱匕賷 亘賷賳賴賲丕
賵 噩丕亍 匕賱賰 丕賱爻丐丕賱 賱賲丕匕丕 鬲夭賵噩鬲賰 責
賴賳丕 丕爻鬲賷賯馗鬲 賲賳 丕賱鬲毓賱賯 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 賮丕賱匕賷 賰丕賳丕 賮賷賴 賱賷爻 丨亘賸丕
賵賴賵 丕賱賮氐賱 丕賵賱 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵 丕賱匕賷 賷毓鬲亘乇 賳賯胤丞 賯賵鬲賴
丕賯鬲亘爻 賲賳賴 :
"丕賳 鬲噩乇亘丞 丕賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱丕 鬲毓鬲亘乇 丨亘丕 丨賯賷賯賷丕 賱孬賱丕孬 丕爻亘丕亘
1) 廿賳 賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱賷爻 毓賲賱 廿乇丕丿賷丕 賵 賱賷爻 毓賲賱 賵丕毓賷丕 賮賰賲 賲賳 賲乇丞 賳丨亘 丕賱卮禺氐 丕賱禺胤兀 丕賵 賳丨亘 賮賷 賵賯鬲 睾賷乇 丕賱賲賳丕爻亘.
2) 丕賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱丕 賷毓鬲亘乇 丨賯賷賯賷丕 賱丕 賳 丕賱卮禺氐 賱丕 賷亘匕賱 噩賴丿丕 賮賰賱 賲丕 賴賵 賲胤賱賵亘 賴賵 丕賱丨亘 .
3) 廿賳 丕賱卮禺氐 丕賱匕賷 賷賯毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱丕 賷賴鬲賲 丨賯賷賯丞 亘鬲卮噩賷毓 丕賱賳賲賵 丕賱卮禺氐賷 賱賱胤乇賮 丕禺乇."
丕匕賳 賲丕賴賵 丕匕丕 賱賲 賷賰賳 丨亘丕 猬咃笍 賴賵 鬲毓賱賯 毓丕胤賮賷
丕匕賳 賲丕 賴賵 丕賱丨亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷責
* 丕賳 丕賱丨亘 丕賱賵噩丿丕賳賷 丕賱匕賷 賷乇亘胤 亘賷賳 丕賱毓賯賱 賵 丕賱毓丕胤賮丞 .
丕賱匕賷 賷乇鬲亘胤 亘丕賱廿乇丕丿丞 賵 賷鬲胤賱亘 丕賱賳馗丕賲 賵 賷毓鬲乇賮 亘丨丕噩丞 丕賱賶 鬲胤賵乇 丕賱卮禺氐賷 : 匕賱賰 賴賵 丕賱丨亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷 鈾ワ笍.
丨賷賳 匕賴亘鬲 丕賲賷乇丞馃懜 鬲卮賰賵 鬲睾賷乇 夭賵噩賴丕 .噩丕亍 丨賰賷賲 丕賱賲賲賱賰丞 賵 丕禺亘丕乇賴丕 賴匕賴 丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲 .
丕匕賳 賲丕 丕賱丨賱 賴賱 兀胤賱亘 丕賱胤賱丕賯 賵 鬲賳賮氐賱 賵丨丿丞 丕賱賲賲賱賰鬲賷賳 責
噩丕亍 噩賵丕亘 丕賱丨賰賷賲 賴丕丿賶 賵 乇夭賷賳:
亘賱 賷亘丿兀 賲卮賵乇丕賰 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷 賱賱丨亘 賵 丕賰鬲卮丕賮 賱賲 兀丨亘亘鬲賴 賵 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 禺丕氐丞 亘賰賲丕
賴賷丕 鬲匕賰乇賷 賲丕 丕賰孬乇 卮卅 賰丕賳 賷賮乇丨賰 丨賷賳 賷賯賵賲 亘賴.
孬賲 匕賴亘 丕賱丨锟斤拷賷賲 丕賱賶 丕賲賷乇 賵 胤賱亘 賲賳賴 賳賮爻 丕賱卮卅.
賵 丕氐亘丨鬲 賱丿賷賳丕 賯丕卅賲丞 亘賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻丞.
*丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱丕賵賱賶 : 賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲卮噩賷毓 :
丕丨丿賶 胤乇賯 賱賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賱賶 丕賱丨亘 賵 鬲禺賮賷夭 賱丕 賳賯氐丿 賴賳丕 鬲賲賱賯 丕賱夭賵噩 丕賵 夭賵噩丞 亘賱 鬲丨賮賷夭 卮噩丕毓丞 賱丿賷賴 .
賵 賴匕賴 賰賱賲丕鬲 賳爻鬲毓賲賱賴丕 賮賷 乇睾亘丞 賴賷 丕賵 賴賵 賷爻毓賶 賱鬲丨賯賷賯賴丕.
*賱睾丞 丕賱孬丕賳賷丞 : 鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲
*丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱孬丕賱孬丞 : 丕毓賲丕賱 禺丿賲賷丞.
賴賳丕賰 賰丕賳鬲 賲卮賰賱丞 丕賲賷乇 賮夭賵噩鬲賴 賲賳匕 鬲夭賵噩丕 賱賲 鬲賯賲 亘胤亘禺 丕賰賱丞 賱匕賷匕丞 賱賴 丕賵 鬲乇鬲賷亘 丕賱賲賳夭賱 .丕賵 鬲爻丕毓丿賴 賮賷 亘丨孬 賷賯賵賲 亘賴.乇睾賲 丕賳賴丕 賰丕賳鬲 禺丿賵賲丞 賮賷 賮鬲乇丞 丕賱禺胤賵亘丞
鬲丿禺賱 丕賱丨賰賷賲 賴賳丕 賵 賳亘賴 丕賱夭賵噩丞 丕賳 賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賴 丕毓賲丕賱 丕賱禺丿賲賷丞.
丕賱鬲賷 賴賷 丕賷囟丕 賱睾丞 丨亘 毓賳丿 丕賱丕賲賷乇丞 丨賷賳賴丕 賳馗乇鬲 丕賱賶 夭賵噩賴丕 賳馗乇丞 匕丕鬲 賲毓夭賶
賵 賯丕賱鬲 賱賴 :丕賱賲 鬲賰賳 鬲爻丕毓丿賳賷 賮賷 賲卮丕乇賷毓賷 賵 鬲賯丿賲 賷丿 毓賵賳 賱賵 丕賱丿鬲賰 賮賷 賲賳夭賱 賱賲丕匕丕 鬲賵賯賮 賰賱 賴匕丕.
丕噩丕亘 丕賲賷乇 亘亘爻丕胤丞 丕賳賴 賲賳 賳賯丿賰. 賵 丕賱丨丕丨賰 賮賷 丕賱胤賱亘.
鬲丿禺賱 丨賰賷賲 賵 賯丕賱 : 丕賱賳賯丿 賵 爻賷賱丞 賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丨丕噩丞 賱丕馗賴丕乇 丕賱丨亘 乇睾賲 丕賳賴丕 睾賷乇 賮毓丕賱丞.
賵 賴賵 丕賳匕丕乇 丕賳 禺夭丕賳 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿 夭賵噩鬲賰 賮丕乇睾 賱匕賱賰 鬲亘丿丕 賮賷 丕賱夭賳 .
賱丿賷賴賲丕 賳賮爻 賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 賱賰賳賴賲丕 賱賲 賷鬲賵丕氐賱 賱丕賳 賰賱 賲賳賴賲丕 賱賲 賷丨丕賵賱 丕賱噩賱賵爻 賱賱丨賵丕乇 亘丨囟賵乇 丕賱丨賰賷賲
*賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 丕賱乇丕亘毓丞 : 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕.
丕賳 丕賱賴丿賷丞 賴賷 卮卅 賷賲賰賳 鬲賲爻賰賴 亘賷丿賰 賵 鬲賯賵賱
:"丕賳馗乇 丕賳賴 賷賮賰乇 賮賷 "賵 丕毓胤丕亍賴丕 鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丕賱丨亘
*賱睾丞 丕賱禺丕賲爻丞 : 丕賱丕鬲氐丕賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷.
賯亘賱 丕賳 賷睾丕丿乇 丕賱丨賰賷賲 賯丿賲 賱賴賲 賴匕賴 丕賱賳氐丕卅丨 :
丕賳 丕賱丨亘 賴賵 毓胤丕亍 賵 賰賱 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻丞 鬲丨孬 毓賱賶 毓胤丕亍.
賵 丕賱夭賵丕噩 毓賱丕賯丞 賱賷爻 賲卮乇賵毓 賷噩亘 丕賳 丕爻鬲賰賲丕賱賴 丕賵 賲卮賰賱丞 賷噩亘 丨賱賴丕 賴賷 毓賱丕賯丞 鬲鬲胤賱亘 丕賳氐丕鬲 賲賯鬲乇賳丕 亘丕賱鬲毓丕胤賮 賵 鬲賮賴賲 丕賮賰丕乇 丕賱胤乇賮 丌禺乇 賵 賲卮丕毓乇賴 賵 乇睾丕亘鬲賴.
賵 乇睾賲 丕賴賲賷丞 丕賱丨亘 賮賴賵 賱賷爻 丕賱丨丕噩丞 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷丞 丕賱賵丨賷丿丞 賱丿賷賳丕.
賮賯胤 賱丕丨馗 毓賱賲丕亍 丕賱賳賮爻 丕賳 賲賳 亘賷賳 丨丕噩賷鬲賳丕 丕賱丕爻丕爻賷丞 :丕賱丕賲丕賳 賵 丕賱孬賯丞 亘丕賱賳賮爻 賵 丕賱丕賴鬲賲丕賲 賵 賱賰賳 丕賱丨亘 賷乇亘胤 亘賷賳賴賲.
賵 丕賱丨亘 賱賳 賷賱睾賶 丕賱禺賱丕賮丕鬲 亘賷賳賰賲丕 賱賰賳 爻賷噩毓賱賰賲 鬲亘丨孬賵賳 毓賳 丨賱賵賱 賱賲卮丕賰賱賰賲 賮賷 噩賵 賲賳 丕賱兀賲丕賳.
賵 鬲匕賰乇賵丕 丕賳 丨鬲賶 丕胤賮丕賱 鬲胤亘賯 毓賱賷賴賲 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻 丕賯鬲亘爻 賲賳 丕賱丿賰鬲賵乇 乇賵賷爻 賰丕賲亘賱 :
"賮賷 丿丕禺賱 賰賱 胤賮賱 禺夭丕賳 賱賱毓丕胤賮丞 賮賷 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丕賳 賷賲賱兀 亘丕賱丨亘 賮毓賳丿賲丕 賷卮毓乇 丕賱胤賮賱 亘兀賳賴 賲丨亘賵亘 賮兀賳賴 爻賷賳賲賵 亘卮賰賱 胤亘賷毓賷 賵 賱賰賳 毓賳丿賲丕 賲丕 賷賰賵賳 禺夭丕賳 丕賱丨亘 賮丕乇睾丕 爻賷鬲氐乇賮 丕賱胤賮賱 亘卮賰賱 睾賷乇 爻賵賷 .賮丕賰孬乇 丕賱爻賱賵賰丕鬲 丕賱爻賷卅丞 丕賱鬲賷 鬲氐丿乇 毓賳 丕賱丕胤賮丕賱 鬲賰賵賳 亘爻亘亘 丕賱乇睾亘丞 丕賱賲賱丨丞 賮賷 賲賱丕 丕賱禺夭丕賳".
賵 毓爻賶 丕賳賰賲 賮賴賲鬲 噩賷丿丕 丕賱賮乇賯 丕賱賵丕囟丨 亘賷賳 丕賱鬲毓賱賯 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 丕賱匕賷 賱賵賱丕 鬲丿禺賱賷 賰賳鬲賲 爻鬲賳賮氐賱賵賳 .賵 鬲亘丿兀 乇丨賱丞 亘丨孬 噩丿賷丿 毓賳 丕賱丨亘 孬賲 賮卮賱 賵 胤賱丕賯.
賱丕賳 賲賮賴賵賲 禺丕胤卅 毓賳 丕賱丨亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷
賵 丕賳鬲 爻賷丿 丕賲賷乇 丕乇噩賵 丕賳賰 賮賴賲鬲 丕賳 賱賷爻 丕賱丨丕噩丞 丕爻丕爻賷丞 賱賱賲乇兀丞 丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲 亘賱 賴賳丕賰 賱睾丕鬲 丕禺乇賶.
賵丕氐賱 丕賲賷乇 賵 丕賲賷乇丞 乇丨賱鬲賴賲丕 賮賷 鬲胤賵乇 丕賱乇賵丨賷 賲毓丕 賵 丕賱丨亘 賵 毓丕卮 亘爻毓丕丿丞 賵 丕賱賴賳丕亍 賱賰賳 亘噩賴丿 賰賱 賲賳賴賲丕 賵 丕賱鬲夭丕賲賴賲丕 亘丕賱毓胤丕亍 丕賱賲鬲亘丕丿賱 .
賵 胤賮丕 胤賮丕 賵賮丕鬲 禺乇丕賮丞馃槉
!! 丕睾賱亘 賲毓賱賵賲丕鬲 丕毓乇賮賴丕 賮賯丿 賯乇丕鬲 爻丕亘賯丕 丨賵賱 賴匕丕 賲賵囟賵毓 賱匕賱賰 鬲賳賯氐鬲 丕賱賳噩賵賲
丕卮噩毓 毓賱賶 賯乇丕卅鬲賴.禺丕氐丞 丕賳賴 賷囟乇亘 丕賲孬賱丞 賵 賴賳丕賰 賲禺胤胤 丕禺乇 賰鬲丕亘 賱賷毓賱賲 賰賱 卮乇賷賰 賱睾鬲賴 禺丕氐丞.賰鬲丕亘 賲賮賷丿 亘爻賷胤.
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丕賱賷爻 噩賲賷毓 丕賱乇噩丕賱 鬲鬲賮賯 丕賳 丕賱賲乇兀丞 鬲丨亘 丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲
賵 丕賳 丕賱卮毓乇丕亍 賵 丕賱乇賵丕賷丕鬲 夭丕丿賵丕 賲賳 氐毓賵亘丞 賲賴賲丞 賱賱乇噩賱 責
賵 丕睾賱亘 丕賱賳爻丕亍 鬲鬲賮賯 丕賳 賱睾丞 丕賱乇噩賱 丕賱丕賵賱賶 賴賷 丕賱毓賱丕賯丞 丕賱丨賲賷賲丞 丕匕賳 賱賲丕 賳鬲毓亘 丕賳賮爻賳丕 賮賷 丨丿賷孬.
廿賳 匕賱賰 賲賳 賲賵乇孬賳丕 丕賱賮賰乇賷 丕賱匕賷 賷噩亘 丕賳 賳睾賷乇 賮賷賴 賯賱賷賱丕 賱賳 賳賲丨賵賴 賮鬲賱賰 氐丨賷丨丞 毓賳丿 亘毓囟 賱賰賳 賱賷爻 丕賱賰賱.
賵 賱匕賱賰 賷噩亘 丕賳 賳賮賴賲 丕賳賮爻賳丕.
賯亘賱 亘丿兀 賮賷 丕賱丨丿賷孬 毓賳 禺乇丕賮鬲賳丕 丕賱禺丕氐丞 亘丕賱丨亘.賱賳毓賵丿 賱賱賵乇丕亍 賯賱賷賱丕.
賰丕賳 賷丕 賲丕 賰丕賳 賮賷 賯丿賷賲 丕賱夭賲丕賳 丕賲賷乇 馃ご丕丨亘 丕賲賷乇丞 馃懜
賵 賱賷毓亘乇 毓賳 丨亘賴 賰丕賳 賷禺乇噩 賲毓賴丕 賮賷 賳夭賴丕鬲 馃彇
賵 賷鬲丨丿孬丕賳 賮賷 賲賰丕賱賲丕鬲 胤賵賷賱丞 賵 賷賴丿賷 賱賴丕 丕賱賴丿賷丕.
賵鬲賱賰 兀賲賷乇丞 馃懜賮賷 睾賷賲丞 丕賱丨亘 丕賱賵乇丿賷丞 丕賱乇賵賲丕賳爻賷丞
鬲乇賶 丕賳賴丕 賵噩丿鬲 賮丕乇爻賴丕 匕賵 丨氐丕賳 丕亘賷囟馃 賵 賱鬲賰鬲賲賱 賮乇丨鬲賴丕
.賯乇乇丕 丕賳 賷鬲夭賵噩丕馃巼 賱鬲鬲賵丨丿 賲賲賱賰鬲賷賳 .
賵 亘毓丿 丨賮賱丞 丕賱夭賵丕噩 賵 丕賳鬲賴丕亍 卮賴乇 丕賱毓爻賱 賵丕賱匕賷 賯囟賷丕賴 賮賷 鬲乇賰賷丕 -賱丕賳 賯氐丞 毓卮賯 丕爻胤賵乇賷丞 賷噩亘 丕賳 賷賰賵賳 卮賴乇 毓爻賱 賮賷 丕爻胤賳亘賵賱 丕賱丿丕乇噩 賮賷 鬲賵賳爻-.
毓丕丿 丕賱夭賵噩丕賳 丕賱賶 賯氐乇 賵 亘毓丿 賲丿丞 亘丿兀鬲 丕賱禺賱丕賮丕鬲 賮賷 丕賱馗賴賵乇貙
賮 賲毓 丕賱夭賵丕噩 鬲丕鬲賷 丕賱賲爻丐賱賷丕鬲 (鬲賳馗賷賮 丕賱賲賳夭賱 ) 賱賲 賷毓丿 賯氐乇丕 .
丕賳鬲賴賶 丕賱丨賱賲 賵 亘丿兀 賲爻賱爻賱 丕禺乇丕噩 丕賱賯賲丕賲丞 賵 睾爻賱 丕賱賲丕毓賵賳 賵 賰賱 鬲賱賰 丕賱丕卮賷丕亍.
賵 亘丿丕 賰賱 賲賳賴賲丕 賷賰鬲卮賮 賲丿賶 丕賱亘賵賳 丕賱匕賷 亘賷賳賴賲丕
賵 噩丕亍 匕賱賰 丕賱爻丐丕賱 賱賲丕匕丕 鬲夭賵噩鬲賰 責
賴賳丕 丕爻鬲賷賯馗鬲 賲賳 丕賱鬲毓賱賯 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 賮丕賱匕賷 賰丕賳丕 賮賷賴 賱賷爻 丨亘賸丕
賵賴賵 丕賱賮氐賱 丕賵賱 賲賳 丕賱賰鬲丕亘 賵 丕賱匕賷 賷毓鬲亘乇 賳賯胤丞 賯賵鬲賴
丕賯鬲亘爻 賲賳賴 :
"丕賳 鬲噩乇亘丞 丕賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱丕 鬲毓鬲亘乇 丨亘丕 丨賯賷賯賷丕 賱孬賱丕孬 丕爻亘丕亘
1) 廿賳 賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱賷爻 毓賲賱 廿乇丕丿賷丕 賵 賱賷爻 毓賲賱 賵丕毓賷丕 賮賰賲 賲賳 賲乇丞 賳丨亘 丕賱卮禺氐 丕賱禺胤兀 丕賵 賳丨亘 賮賷 賵賯鬲 睾賷乇 丕賱賲賳丕爻亘.
2) 丕賱賵賯賵毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱丕 賷毓鬲亘乇 丨賯賷賯賷丕 賱丕 賳 丕賱卮禺氐 賱丕 賷亘匕賱 噩賴丿丕 賮賰賱 賲丕 賴賵 賲胤賱賵亘 賴賵 丕賱丨亘 .
3) 廿賳 丕賱卮禺氐 丕賱匕賷 賷賯毓 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 賱丕 賷賴鬲賲 丨賯賷賯丞 亘鬲卮噩賷毓 丕賱賳賲賵 丕賱卮禺氐賷 賱賱胤乇賮 丕禺乇."
丕匕賳 賲丕賴賵 丕匕丕 賱賲 賷賰賳 丨亘丕 猬咃笍 賴賵 鬲毓賱賯 毓丕胤賮賷
丕匕賳 賲丕 賴賵 丕賱丨亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷責
* 丕賳 丕賱丨亘 丕賱賵噩丿丕賳賷 丕賱匕賷 賷乇亘胤 亘賷賳 丕賱毓賯賱 賵 丕賱毓丕胤賮丞 .
丕賱匕賷 賷乇鬲亘胤 亘丕賱廿乇丕丿丞 賵 賷鬲胤賱亘 丕賱賳馗丕賲 賵 賷毓鬲乇賮 亘丨丕噩丞 丕賱賶 鬲胤賵乇 丕賱卮禺氐賷 : 匕賱賰 賴賵 丕賱丨亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷 鈾ワ笍.
丨賷賳 匕賴亘鬲 丕賲賷乇丞馃懜 鬲卮賰賵 鬲睾賷乇 夭賵噩賴丕 .噩丕亍 丨賰賷賲 丕賱賲賲賱賰丞 賵 丕禺亘丕乇賴丕 賴匕賴 丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲 .
丕匕賳 賲丕 丕賱丨賱 賴賱 兀胤賱亘 丕賱胤賱丕賯 賵 鬲賳賮氐賱 賵丨丿丞 丕賱賲賲賱賰鬲賷賳 責
噩丕亍 噩賵丕亘 丕賱丨賰賷賲 賴丕丿賶 賵 乇夭賷賳:
亘賱 賷亘丿兀 賲卮賵乇丕賰 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷 賱賱丨亘 賵 丕賰鬲卮丕賮 賱賲 兀丨亘亘鬲賴 賵 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 禺丕氐丞 亘賰賲丕
賴賷丕 鬲匕賰乇賷 賲丕 丕賰孬乇 卮卅 賰丕賳 賷賮乇丨賰 丨賷賳 賷賯賵賲 亘賴.
孬賲 匕賴亘 丕賱丨锟斤拷賷賲 丕賱賶 丕賲賷乇 賵 胤賱亘 賲賳賴 賳賮爻 丕賱卮卅.
賵 丕氐亘丨鬲 賱丿賷賳丕 賯丕卅賲丞 亘賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻丞.
*丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱丕賵賱賶 : 賰賱賲丕鬲 丕賱鬲卮噩賷毓 :
丕丨丿賶 胤乇賯 賱賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賱賶 丕賱丨亘 賵 鬲禺賮賷夭 賱丕 賳賯氐丿 賴賳丕 鬲賲賱賯 丕賱夭賵噩 丕賵 夭賵噩丞 亘賱 鬲丨賮賷夭 卮噩丕毓丞 賱丿賷賴 .
賵 賴匕賴 賰賱賲丕鬲 賳爻鬲毓賲賱賴丕 賮賷 乇睾亘丞 賴賷 丕賵 賴賵 賷爻毓賶 賱鬲丨賯賷賯賴丕.
*賱睾丞 丕賱孬丕賳賷丞 : 鬲賰乇賷爻 丕賱賵賯鬲
*丕賱賱睾丞 丕賱孬丕賱孬丞 : 丕毓賲丕賱 禺丿賲賷丞.
賴賳丕賰 賰丕賳鬲 賲卮賰賱丞 丕賲賷乇 賮夭賵噩鬲賴 賲賳匕 鬲夭賵噩丕 賱賲 鬲賯賲 亘胤亘禺 丕賰賱丞 賱匕賷匕丞 賱賴 丕賵 鬲乇鬲賷亘 丕賱賲賳夭賱 .丕賵 鬲爻丕毓丿賴 賮賷 亘丨孬 賷賯賵賲 亘賴.乇睾賲 丕賳賴丕 賰丕賳鬲 禺丿賵賲丞 賮賷 賮鬲乇丞 丕賱禺胤賵亘丞
鬲丿禺賱 丕賱丨賰賷賲 賴賳丕 賵 賳亘賴 丕賱夭賵噩丞 丕賳 賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿賴 丕毓賲丕賱 丕賱禺丿賲賷丞.
丕賱鬲賷 賴賷 丕賷囟丕 賱睾丞 丨亘 毓賳丿 丕賱丕賲賷乇丞 丨賷賳賴丕 賳馗乇鬲 丕賱賶 夭賵噩賴丕 賳馗乇丞 匕丕鬲 賲毓夭賶
賵 賯丕賱鬲 賱賴 :丕賱賲 鬲賰賳 鬲爻丕毓丿賳賷 賮賷 賲卮丕乇賷毓賷 賵 鬲賯丿賲 賷丿 毓賵賳 賱賵 丕賱丿鬲賰 賮賷 賲賳夭賱 賱賲丕匕丕 鬲賵賯賮 賰賱 賴匕丕.
丕噩丕亘 丕賲賷乇 亘亘爻丕胤丞 丕賳賴 賲賳 賳賯丿賰. 賵 丕賱丨丕丨賰 賮賷 丕賱胤賱亘.
鬲丿禺賱 丨賰賷賲 賵 賯丕賱 : 丕賱賳賯丿 賵 爻賷賱丞 賱鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丨丕噩丞 賱丕馗賴丕乇 丕賱丨亘 乇睾賲 丕賳賴丕 睾賷乇 賮毓丕賱丞.
賵 賴賵 丕賳匕丕乇 丕賳 禺夭丕賳 丕賱丨亘 毓賳丿 夭賵噩鬲賰 賮丕乇睾 賱匕賱賰 鬲亘丿丕 賮賷 丕賱夭賳 .
賱丿賷賴賲丕 賳賮爻 賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 賱賰賳賴賲丕 賱賲 賷鬲賵丕氐賱 賱丕賳 賰賱 賲賳賴賲丕 賱賲 賷丨丕賵賱 丕賱噩賱賵爻 賱賱丨賵丕乇 亘丨囟賵乇 丕賱丨賰賷賲
*賱睾丞 丕賱丨亘 丕賱乇丕亘毓丞 : 丕賱賴丿丕賷丕.
丕賳 丕賱賴丿賷丞 賴賷 卮卅 賷賲賰賳 鬲賲爻賰賴 亘賷丿賰 賵 鬲賯賵賱
:"丕賳馗乇 丕賳賴 賷賮賰乇 賮賷 "賵 丕毓胤丕亍賴丕 鬲毓亘賷乇 毓賳 丕賱丨亘
*賱睾丞 丕賱禺丕賲爻丞 : 丕賱丕鬲氐丕賱 丕賱亘丿賳賷.
賯亘賱 丕賳 賷睾丕丿乇 丕賱丨賰賷賲 賯丿賲 賱賴賲 賴匕賴 丕賱賳氐丕卅丨 :
丕賳 丕賱丨亘 賴賵 毓胤丕亍 賵 賰賱 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻丞 鬲丨孬 毓賱賶 毓胤丕亍.
賵 丕賱夭賵丕噩 毓賱丕賯丞 賱賷爻 賲卮乇賵毓 賷噩亘 丕賳 丕爻鬲賰賲丕賱賴 丕賵 賲卮賰賱丞 賷噩亘 丨賱賴丕 賴賷 毓賱丕賯丞 鬲鬲胤賱亘 丕賳氐丕鬲 賲賯鬲乇賳丕 亘丕賱鬲毓丕胤賮 賵 鬲賮賴賲 丕賮賰丕乇 丕賱胤乇賮 丌禺乇 賵 賲卮丕毓乇賴 賵 乇睾丕亘鬲賴.
賵 乇睾賲 丕賴賲賷丞 丕賱丨亘 賮賴賵 賱賷爻 丕賱丨丕噩丞 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷丞 丕賱賵丨賷丿丞 賱丿賷賳丕.
賮賯胤 賱丕丨馗 毓賱賲丕亍 丕賱賳賮爻 丕賳 賲賳 亘賷賳 丨丕噩賷鬲賳丕 丕賱丕爻丕爻賷丞 :丕賱丕賲丕賳 賵 丕賱孬賯丞 亘丕賱賳賮爻 賵 丕賱丕賴鬲賲丕賲 賵 賱賰賳 丕賱丨亘 賷乇亘胤 亘賷賳賴賲.
賵 丕賱丨亘 賱賳 賷賱睾賶 丕賱禺賱丕賮丕鬲 亘賷賳賰賲丕 賱賰賳 爻賷噩毓賱賰賲 鬲亘丨孬賵賳 毓賳 丨賱賵賱 賱賲卮丕賰賱賰賲 賮賷 噩賵 賲賳 丕賱兀賲丕賳.
賵 鬲匕賰乇賵丕 丕賳 丨鬲賶 丕胤賮丕賱 鬲胤亘賯 毓賱賷賴賲 賱睾丕鬲 丕賱丨亘 丕賱禺賲爻 丕賯鬲亘爻 賲賳 丕賱丿賰鬲賵乇 乇賵賷爻 賰丕賲亘賱 :
"賮賷 丿丕禺賱 賰賱 胤賮賱 禺夭丕賳 賱賱毓丕胤賮丞 賮賷 丕賳鬲馗丕乇 丕賳 賷賲賱兀 亘丕賱丨亘 賮毓賳丿賲丕 賷卮毓乇 丕賱胤賮賱 亘兀賳賴 賲丨亘賵亘 賮兀賳賴 爻賷賳賲賵 亘卮賰賱 胤亘賷毓賷 賵 賱賰賳 毓賳丿賲丕 賲丕 賷賰賵賳 禺夭丕賳 丕賱丨亘 賮丕乇睾丕 爻賷鬲氐乇賮 丕賱胤賮賱 亘卮賰賱 睾賷乇 爻賵賷 .賮丕賰孬乇 丕賱爻賱賵賰丕鬲 丕賱爻賷卅丞 丕賱鬲賷 鬲氐丿乇 毓賳 丕賱丕胤賮丕賱 鬲賰賵賳 亘爻亘亘 丕賱乇睾亘丞 丕賱賲賱丨丞 賮賷 賲賱丕 丕賱禺夭丕賳".
賵 毓爻賶 丕賳賰賲 賮賴賲鬲 噩賷丿丕 丕賱賮乇賯 丕賱賵丕囟丨 亘賷賳 丕賱鬲毓賱賯 丕賱毓丕胤賮賷 丕賱匕賷 賱賵賱丕 鬲丿禺賱賷 賰賳鬲賲 爻鬲賳賮氐賱賵賳 .賵 鬲亘丿兀 乇丨賱丞 亘丨孬 噩丿賷丿 毓賳 丕賱丨亘 孬賲 賮卮賱 賵 胤賱丕賯.
賱丕賳 賲賮賴賵賲 禺丕胤卅 毓賳 丕賱丨亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷
賵 丕賳鬲 爻賷丿 丕賲賷乇 丕乇噩賵 丕賳賰 賮賴賲鬲 丕賳 賱賷爻 丕賱丨丕噩丞 丕爻丕爻賷丞 賱賱賲乇兀丞 丕賱賰賱賲丕鬲 亘賱 賴賳丕賰 賱睾丕鬲 丕禺乇賶.
賵丕氐賱 丕賲賷乇 賵 丕賲賷乇丞 乇丨賱鬲賴賲丕 賮賷 鬲胤賵乇 丕賱乇賵丨賷 賲毓丕 賵 丕賱丨亘 賵 毓丕卮 亘爻毓丕丿丞 賵 丕賱賴賳丕亍 賱賰賳 亘噩賴丿 賰賱 賲賳賴賲丕 賵 丕賱鬲夭丕賲賴賲丕 亘丕賱毓胤丕亍 丕賱賲鬲亘丕丿賱 .
賵 胤賮丕 胤賮丕 賵賮丕鬲 禺乇丕賮丞馃槉
!! 丕睾賱亘 賲毓賱賵賲丕鬲 丕毓乇賮賴丕 賮賯丿 賯乇丕鬲 爻丕亘賯丕 丨賵賱 賴匕丕 賲賵囟賵毓 賱匕賱賰 鬲賳賯氐鬲 丕賱賳噩賵賲
丕卮噩毓 毓賱賶 賯乇丕卅鬲賴.禺丕氐丞 丕賳賴 賷囟乇亘 丕賲孬賱丞 賵 賴賳丕賰 賲禺胤胤 丕禺乇 賰鬲丕亘 賱賷毓賱賲 賰賱 卮乇賷賰 賱睾鬲賴 禺丕氐丞.賰鬲丕亘 賲賮賷丿 亘爻賷胤.
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April 20, 2021
賲賳 兀乇賵毓 賵 兀賴賲 丕賱賰鬲亘 丕賱鬲賷 賯乇兀鬲賴丕 .
賰鬲丕亘 爻賴賱 賵賵丕囟丨丞 兀賮賰丕乇賴 噩丿賸丕 貙 賵賷鬲囟賲賳 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱兀賲孬賱丞 賵 丕賱鬲噩丕乇亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷丞 貙 賵丕賱鬲賷 鬲賯乇亘 丕賱兀賮賰丕乇 亘胤乇賷賯丞 賲賲鬲丕夭丞 .
賴賵 賰鬲丕亘 賲賴賲 賱賰賱 卮禺氐 貙 賱兀賳賴 賱丕 賷賯鬲氐乇 毓賱賶 丕賱丨亘 亘賷賳 丕賱兀夭賵丕噩 貙 亘賱 賷賲賰賳 鬲胤亘賷賯賴 毓賱賶 丕賱丨亘 丕賱廿賳爻丕賳賷 亘賰賱 兀賳賵丕毓賴 賵 兀卮賰丕賱賴 .
兀賳氐丨 丕賱噩賲賷毓 亘賯乇丕亍鬲賴 貙 丨鬲賶 賱賵 賱賲 賷賰賵賳賵丕 賵丕賯毓賷賳 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 兀賵 賲鬲夭賵噩賷賳 .
賰鬲丕亘 爻賴賱 賵賵丕囟丨丞 兀賮賰丕乇賴 噩丿賸丕 貙 賵賷鬲囟賲賳 丕賱賰孬賷乇 賲賳 丕賱兀賲孬賱丞 賵 丕賱鬲噩丕乇亘 丕賱丨賯賷賯賷丞 貙 賵丕賱鬲賷 鬲賯乇亘 丕賱兀賮賰丕乇 亘胤乇賷賯丞 賲賲鬲丕夭丞 .
賴賵 賰鬲丕亘 賲賴賲 賱賰賱 卮禺氐 貙 賱兀賳賴 賱丕 賷賯鬲氐乇 毓賱賶 丕賱丨亘 亘賷賳 丕賱兀夭賵丕噩 貙 亘賱 賷賲賰賳 鬲胤亘賷賯賴 毓賱賶 丕賱丨亘 丕賱廿賳爻丕賳賷 亘賰賱 兀賳賵丕毓賴 賵 兀卮賰丕賱賴 .
兀賳氐丨 丕賱噩賲賷毓 亘賯乇丕亍鬲賴 貙 丨鬲賶 賱賵 賱賲 賷賰賵賳賵丕 賵丕賯毓賷賳 賮賷 丕賱丨亘 兀賵 賲鬲夭賵噩賷賳 .
May 23, 2020
When I finished reading this book yesterday, I thought the first 70% of the book wasn鈥檛 that bad. Hell, I can even go as far as to say that it had pretty good points for someone new to relationships.
Now that I鈥檓 writing this review, I don鈥檛 think I can hold back because the remaining part of this book is fucking trash and I have to talk about it!
If you鈥檝e ever been in a relationship where there鈥檚 healthy communication, I think all the advice given by the author won鈥檛 sound so revolutionary. That's because you don鈥檛 have the fancy words to label the ways you show your love to your partner.
But, I don鈥檛 want to drag this book down completely as I feel that this has some good points in the beginning. 鈥淟ove language鈥� is a metaphor for the actions you take to show your love for your partner which results in a full love tank i.e. satisfaction in a relationship.
After the emotional high of love wears off AKA honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, it leaves us with the reality that the person we are with is not as perfect as we had once imagined. In this situation, we have to make efforts to sustain love and cultivate intimacy.
All of this is fine until the author ruins everything by attempting to save the relationship of a woman who has been abused. Using religion, he manipulates her to have sex with her husband (because his primary love language is physical touch). I鈥檓 not even exaggerating this. I found it wrong and vile.
If he had given the same advice to a man, I鈥檇 be angry too. But this is especially disgusting because, in many cultures and communities, women are told to just put up with the abuse or sweep it under the rug. I just cannot believe he gave this advice using such pleasant words.
It takes two to be in a relationship. It should be the decision of two people to make it work. If only one person is putting in efforts while the other person couldn鈥檛 care less, it鈥檚 best to give up because this is an unhealthy dynamic.
It was wrong on his part to give such advice to the vulnerable woman who was in a dilemma of whether she should stay with her abuser or leave. It just plays into the mentality that a good girl can fix a bad guy if she loves him enough. We should wonder about something else. Is the guy even worth loving? Short answer: No. Long answer: HELL NOOOOOO!
Secondly, he talks about how a relationship can be revived even after there has been sexual infidelity. I鈥檓 neither an expert in the field of dating and relationships nor have I read any research papers or statistics, but I feel there should be a line that cannot be crossed.
In my opinion, certain actions should be forbidden and considered the last straw in relationships for eg, cheating, abuse, and some other serious offenses (murder?).
I think aiming to make every relationship work by applying the love language rules is idealistic and unrealistic. Sometimes, people just aren鈥檛 compatible. There might be a hundred reasons for not being together. I don鈥檛 think all problems can be solved by applying the five simple rules.
All in all, read the first 70% of the book as it is sensible. For the rest, hurl the book out of the window and forget about it.
Now that I鈥檓 writing this review, I don鈥檛 think I can hold back because the remaining part of this book is fucking trash and I have to talk about it!
If you鈥檝e ever been in a relationship where there鈥檚 healthy communication, I think all the advice given by the author won鈥檛 sound so revolutionary. That's because you don鈥檛 have the fancy words to label the ways you show your love to your partner.
But, I don鈥檛 want to drag this book down completely as I feel that this has some good points in the beginning. 鈥淟ove language鈥� is a metaphor for the actions you take to show your love for your partner which results in a full love tank i.e. satisfaction in a relationship.
After the emotional high of love wears off AKA honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, it leaves us with the reality that the person we are with is not as perfect as we had once imagined. In this situation, we have to make efforts to sustain love and cultivate intimacy.
All of this is fine until the author ruins everything by attempting to save the relationship of a woman who has been abused. Using religion, he manipulates her to have sex with her husband (because his primary love language is physical touch). I鈥檓 not even exaggerating this. I found it wrong and vile.
If he had given the same advice to a man, I鈥檇 be angry too. But this is especially disgusting because, in many cultures and communities, women are told to just put up with the abuse or sweep it under the rug. I just cannot believe he gave this advice using such pleasant words.
It takes two to be in a relationship. It should be the decision of two people to make it work. If only one person is putting in efforts while the other person couldn鈥檛 care less, it鈥檚 best to give up because this is an unhealthy dynamic.
It was wrong on his part to give such advice to the vulnerable woman who was in a dilemma of whether she should stay with her abuser or leave. It just plays into the mentality that a good girl can fix a bad guy if she loves him enough. We should wonder about something else. Is the guy even worth loving? Short answer: No. Long answer: HELL NOOOOOO!
Secondly, he talks about how a relationship can be revived even after there has been sexual infidelity. I鈥檓 neither an expert in the field of dating and relationships nor have I read any research papers or statistics, but I feel there should be a line that cannot be crossed.
In my opinion, certain actions should be forbidden and considered the last straw in relationships for eg, cheating, abuse, and some other serious offenses (murder?).
I think aiming to make every relationship work by applying the love language rules is idealistic and unrealistic. Sometimes, people just aren鈥檛 compatible. There might be a hundred reasons for not being together. I don鈥檛 think all problems can be solved by applying the five simple rules.
All in all, read the first 70% of the book as it is sensible. For the rest, hurl the book out of the window and forget about it.
August 25, 2023
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October 3, 2015
Before I start in on the reasons why I didn't like this book, let me mention the good parts of it. As someone who just got married, I value ideas about how to strengthen a lifelong relationship, and the book did have some good ideas. It's always good to be reminded that I should be looking for little things I can do to make my spouse happy, that even if I'm happy with everything in a relationship I should be checking in with my spouse to make sure he's happy too, etc.
I've always thought personality quizzes were fun and this book has a certain appeal because of that. There is something fun about trying to discover your "love language" and your spouse's, and see what that says about you both. Just to establish, the 5 Love Languages in the book are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts. I can see how in certain instances, thinking about the love languages could strengthen communication in a relationship. For instance, if one spouse really communicates most strongly with physical touch but that doesn't come naturally to the other partner, they might feel unloved until the other partner learns to show love through physical touch.
Finally I appreciated how the book suggested mindful, practical ways to maintain a relationship over time. It talks a lot about the "in love" experience at the start of a relationship and how that's different than developing a lifelong, sustaining love. It reminded me of a quote from an Adrienne Rich poem: "I choose to love this time for once / with all my intelligence." To me, loving with intelligence means that once those crazy feelings of infatuation at the beginning of a relationship subside, and you and that other person start to see each other's flaws, to learn about them as an individual and not an ideal you've built up in your own head, you still choose to love them (or, if you see that they are abusive or mistreating you, etc., you choose to end that relationship and love someone else who respects you).
I think in a lot of our TV shows, books, and movies, there are two kinds of relationships: the young lovers who emerge victorious at the end of a romantic comedy, perfectly in love and just starting out with their lives, or the middle-aged married couple who nag each other and take it for granted that romance and sex are off the table permanently. It's kind of a sad pattern that I definitely don't want to be true in my own marriage. So to circle back to the book, I did appreciate that it was very practical about how to consciously nurture the love in a relationship; it doesn't assume that once the honeymoon is over, things will fall apart.
But I still gave this book a 1-star rating. Even though it brought Adrienne Rich to mind, Gary Chapman is no Adrienne Rich. It's kind of a bumbling mess written by someone with maybe a slight Jesus complex. I noticed that even though platonic love is discussed, every example of a romantic couple in the book is a heterosexual couple and the book presumes, consistently, that the only form of acceptable romantic love is between a man and a woman in a Christian marriage. It was also openly against open or polyamorous relationships. I understand because I am not interested in that for myself--but I wouldn't judge someone who wants a non-monogamous relationship, because it's all a matter of personal choice. I didn't like that the book assumes so much or that Chapman feels he can tell people what's best for them.
I also think too much emphasis is placed on finding your one true love language. Yes, I did just say personality tests are fun, but while reading the book I really connected with several of the love languages described almost equally. It's nice when my spouse compliments me, but it's also nice to hold hands with my spouse, or when he does the dishes for me, or gives me a gift, or when we spend quality time together; I can't really differentiate between the niceness of those different things. Yet the book really insists everyone has one love language and maybe one secondary love language. It smacks of someone trying to sell me something and I don't like that. It's also kind of creepy and weird to read about all these troubled couples who host Chapman in their homes for the night while he's traveling for seminars, just to beg him for marital advice. Reminds me of televangelists who prey on their flock. I'm wary of self-help books to begin with, I only read this one because I've heard good things about it, but it reinforced my view; I don't need to be sold on the idea of love or preached to about it.
My biggest problem, which came close to the end of the book, is one example Chapman gave of how the miraculous love languages work. A woman came to Chapman who was so sick of her marriage, she was on the cusp of leaving, because her husband didn't care about her at all anymore. All her friends were telling her to get out. She said she hated him and asked Chapman, "can you love someone you hate?" Which of course he decided to meditate on by reading the Bible. OK, I can dig it; the Bible has some good quotes and advice even if you're not religious. In fact I have no problem with the words of Jesus Chapman chose to share with this woman--love thy neighbor, treat others as you want to be treated, if you give a measure it will be returned to you until your cup runneth over, etc (I'm paraphrasing because, lazy).
OK so that's all fine. But then Chapman is all, "what's your husband's love language?" and she says "physical touch" and he's like "well you need to touch him and have sex with him more" and she says "but I don't want to" and he says "well yeah that will be hard but just think of Jesus" I AM NOT KIDDING. I laughed as my valuation of the book instantly crumbled before me into sad, atheist dust. It's not directly expressed in the book, but this lady basically hints that her husband is verbally, if not physically, abusive and at the very least totally negligent and uncaring. Well of course the suggestion works and he starts to come around and love her back in her own "love language" but any respect I had for the book disappeared at that point.
Also, even though as I've said I'm all for choosing love and loving with intelligence, some of the suggestions Chapman has are just laughable. For instance, every day you should ask your spouse "how full is your 'love tank' on a scale of 1 to 10?" and then if it's less than 10, you're supposed to do something to "fill their love tank." I'm sorry but I just can't with that childlike, pandering language. You can choose to love mindfully without teetering over into this totally clinical, almost bureaucratic method.
FINALLY, and this review is so long now I know nobody is reading at this point but oh well, all of the advice is totally directed at middle-aged couples who have basically fallen out of love, so a lot of it was not applicable to me. Also, a lot of the advice is the really basic flavor (listen to each other, give your spouse undivided attention, give your spouse little gifts or notes to remind them how much you love them) you could get anywhere, that honestly should just be common sense by the time you're married. And finally finally finally, the "love languages" are nice and all, but I can see so many instances where troubles can arise in a marriage that the love languages couldn't fix. For instance, disagreeing about money/family/politics, if one partner is downright abusive or uncaring or habitually cheating, if a partner withdraws to the point where they won't do anything to help fix the relationship despite how strongly you're speaking their "love language." The end. Phew.
I've always thought personality quizzes were fun and this book has a certain appeal because of that. There is something fun about trying to discover your "love language" and your spouse's, and see what that says about you both. Just to establish, the 5 Love Languages in the book are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts. I can see how in certain instances, thinking about the love languages could strengthen communication in a relationship. For instance, if one spouse really communicates most strongly with physical touch but that doesn't come naturally to the other partner, they might feel unloved until the other partner learns to show love through physical touch.
Finally I appreciated how the book suggested mindful, practical ways to maintain a relationship over time. It talks a lot about the "in love" experience at the start of a relationship and how that's different than developing a lifelong, sustaining love. It reminded me of a quote from an Adrienne Rich poem: "I choose to love this time for once / with all my intelligence." To me, loving with intelligence means that once those crazy feelings of infatuation at the beginning of a relationship subside, and you and that other person start to see each other's flaws, to learn about them as an individual and not an ideal you've built up in your own head, you still choose to love them (or, if you see that they are abusive or mistreating you, etc., you choose to end that relationship and love someone else who respects you).
I think in a lot of our TV shows, books, and movies, there are two kinds of relationships: the young lovers who emerge victorious at the end of a romantic comedy, perfectly in love and just starting out with their lives, or the middle-aged married couple who nag each other and take it for granted that romance and sex are off the table permanently. It's kind of a sad pattern that I definitely don't want to be true in my own marriage. So to circle back to the book, I did appreciate that it was very practical about how to consciously nurture the love in a relationship; it doesn't assume that once the honeymoon is over, things will fall apart.
But I still gave this book a 1-star rating. Even though it brought Adrienne Rich to mind, Gary Chapman is no Adrienne Rich. It's kind of a bumbling mess written by someone with maybe a slight Jesus complex. I noticed that even though platonic love is discussed, every example of a romantic couple in the book is a heterosexual couple and the book presumes, consistently, that the only form of acceptable romantic love is between a man and a woman in a Christian marriage. It was also openly against open or polyamorous relationships. I understand because I am not interested in that for myself--but I wouldn't judge someone who wants a non-monogamous relationship, because it's all a matter of personal choice. I didn't like that the book assumes so much or that Chapman feels he can tell people what's best for them.
I also think too much emphasis is placed on finding your one true love language. Yes, I did just say personality tests are fun, but while reading the book I really connected with several of the love languages described almost equally. It's nice when my spouse compliments me, but it's also nice to hold hands with my spouse, or when he does the dishes for me, or gives me a gift, or when we spend quality time together; I can't really differentiate between the niceness of those different things. Yet the book really insists everyone has one love language and maybe one secondary love language. It smacks of someone trying to sell me something and I don't like that. It's also kind of creepy and weird to read about all these troubled couples who host Chapman in their homes for the night while he's traveling for seminars, just to beg him for marital advice. Reminds me of televangelists who prey on their flock. I'm wary of self-help books to begin with, I only read this one because I've heard good things about it, but it reinforced my view; I don't need to be sold on the idea of love or preached to about it.
My biggest problem, which came close to the end of the book, is one example Chapman gave of how the miraculous love languages work. A woman came to Chapman who was so sick of her marriage, she was on the cusp of leaving, because her husband didn't care about her at all anymore. All her friends were telling her to get out. She said she hated him and asked Chapman, "can you love someone you hate?" Which of course he decided to meditate on by reading the Bible. OK, I can dig it; the Bible has some good quotes and advice even if you're not religious. In fact I have no problem with the words of Jesus Chapman chose to share with this woman--love thy neighbor, treat others as you want to be treated, if you give a measure it will be returned to you until your cup runneth over, etc (I'm paraphrasing because, lazy).
OK so that's all fine. But then Chapman is all, "what's your husband's love language?" and she says "physical touch" and he's like "well you need to touch him and have sex with him more" and she says "but I don't want to" and he says "well yeah that will be hard but just think of Jesus" I AM NOT KIDDING. I laughed as my valuation of the book instantly crumbled before me into sad, atheist dust. It's not directly expressed in the book, but this lady basically hints that her husband is verbally, if not physically, abusive and at the very least totally negligent and uncaring. Well of course the suggestion works and he starts to come around and love her back in her own "love language" but any respect I had for the book disappeared at that point.
Also, even though as I've said I'm all for choosing love and loving with intelligence, some of the suggestions Chapman has are just laughable. For instance, every day you should ask your spouse "how full is your 'love tank' on a scale of 1 to 10?" and then if it's less than 10, you're supposed to do something to "fill their love tank." I'm sorry but I just can't with that childlike, pandering language. You can choose to love mindfully without teetering over into this totally clinical, almost bureaucratic method.
FINALLY, and this review is so long now I know nobody is reading at this point but oh well, all of the advice is totally directed at middle-aged couples who have basically fallen out of love, so a lot of it was not applicable to me. Also, a lot of the advice is the really basic flavor (listen to each other, give your spouse undivided attention, give your spouse little gifts or notes to remind them how much you love them) you could get anywhere, that honestly should just be common sense by the time you're married. And finally finally finally, the "love languages" are nice and all, but I can see so many instances where troubles can arise in a marriage that the love languages couldn't fix. For instance, disagreeing about money/family/politics, if one partner is downright abusive or uncaring or habitually cheating, if a partner withdraws to the point where they won't do anything to help fix the relationship despite how strongly you're speaking their "love language." The end. Phew.
January 5, 2024
Gary Chapman, a marriage councillor (and pastor), comes up with 5 basic ways that people use to express (romantic) love:
- words of affirmation
- gift giving
- acts of service
- quality time
- and physical touch
He also, very daringly, theorises thatmost all marital problems are caused by the participants' lacking language skills, i.e. them having different ways of expressing love. In his defence, Mr. Chapman spends over 200 pages coming up with increasingly looser definitions for said love languages to support his claim... so he might as well be right by the end.
For all my hatred of the self-help/self-improvement genre in general, I'm fairly lenient when it comes to qualifications I require from authors writing these books. As long as they're fluent, are not boring me and try to make a modicum of sense, I'm willing to give them a chance. Yes, 9 times out of 10, I end up disappointed but no one can say I didn't at least give them the benefit of doubt.
I mainly view these kinds of books as advice from some "well-meaning" busybody intent on sharing their coping mechanism with the world. Had this book been a 2-page essay, I wouldn't even have considered it all that bad...
The good part is how he explains/illustrates the mistake in difference of communication: like not just lobbing (empty) praises at someone who wants to see action. He also makes a valid point in people not handling the difference between the long-term more sedate pace of love and the initial passionate falling in love phase.
The bad part is in fact mostly due to the specific examples with which Chapman chooses to illustrate his concepts. Though I give him props for changing some of his more sexist anecdotes from the first editions, he still has some very problematic ones.
Off the top of my head, the one where he makes the husband listen by literally repeating the wife's complaints word for word. And later he suggests to a woman whose husband constantly screams and belittles her, that she should have sex with him more often... among other things. Dunno about you, but outside of some very dubious BDSM scenarios, I can't see this ending well.
And the weird part is how almost all of his patients are ambushing him. Maybe this is my modern, scheduling-oriented self speaking, but did people in the 60s and 70s just randomly walk up to councillors and start pouring their hearts out... whereEVER? Or is this just a cultural(ly rude) thing where other people's personal time is not meant to be respected?
Score: 2/5 stars
I think I should make this official:all most popular books give me allergies. No really, you should see how the mere mention of Oprah's name has me break out in literal (i.e. metaphorical) hives. Additionally, I spent three quarters of the allocated reading time dreading having to start the book.... so there was no way I was ever going to like it.
Apparently there are 2 versions of this book, with the 2nd edition (from 2015) being the more "palatable" one for the contemporary reader. Having gone through the first half of the first edition, I can tell you that the general idea remains the same and the overall traditional Christian undertones are still very keenly felt through both versions.
Alternately, I'm told that myBS religious tolerance is ridiculously low, for someone living in a predominantly Christian society. *cue immature raspberry blowing*
- words of affirmation
- gift giving
- acts of service
- quality time
- and physical touch
He also, very daringly, theorises that
For all my hatred of the self-help/self-improvement genre in general, I'm fairly lenient when it comes to qualifications I require from authors writing these books. As long as they're fluent, are not boring me and try to make a modicum of sense, I'm willing to give them a chance. Yes, 9 times out of 10, I end up disappointed but no one can say I didn't at least give them the benefit of doubt.
I mainly view these kinds of books as advice from some "well-meaning" busybody intent on sharing their coping mechanism with the world. Had this book been a 2-page essay, I wouldn't even have considered it all that bad...
The good part is how he explains/illustrates the mistake in difference of communication: like not just lobbing (empty) praises at someone who wants to see action. He also makes a valid point in people not handling the difference between the long-term more sedate pace of love and the initial passionate falling in love phase.
The bad part is in fact mostly due to the specific examples with which Chapman chooses to illustrate his concepts. Though I give him props for changing some of his more sexist anecdotes from the first editions, he still has some very problematic ones.
Off the top of my head, the one where he makes the husband listen by literally repeating the wife's complaints word for word. And later he suggests to a woman whose husband constantly screams and belittles her, that she should have sex with him more often... among other things. Dunno about you, but outside of some very dubious BDSM scenarios, I can't see this ending well.
And the weird part is how almost all of his patients are ambushing him. Maybe this is my modern, scheduling-oriented self speaking, but did people in the 60s and 70s just randomly walk up to councillors and start pouring their hearts out... whereEVER? Or is this just a cultural(ly rude) thing where other people's personal time is not meant to be respected?
Score: 2/5 stars
I think I should make this official:
Apparently there are 2 versions of this book, with the 2nd edition (from 2015) being the more "palatable" one for the contemporary reader. Having gone through the first half of the first edition, I can tell you that the general idea remains the same and the overall traditional Christian undertones are still very keenly felt through both versions.
Alternately, I'm told that my
January 20, 2016
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October 15, 2019
I found this book useful without being preachy and guilt ridden. Gary Chapman is a marriage genius. I felt like I was in couple's therapy without paying hundreds an hour. He used Jesus as an example once, for anyone avoiding religious text.
As we all know marriage is hard and it is a daily choice to love but after the honeymoon bliss is over can we still have a happy marriage? Did the other person suddenly change or did we change without thinking about it?
There's so much static in our daily lives; work, bills, kids, money, climbing the social ladder, other people, resentment, exhaustion etc. We start to take our relationship for granted and it starts to surface as anger and hate.
So in 5 steps you find your way toward a more loving, enjoyable partner bc of the way you love him. Chapman doesn't promise easy; he promises a happier emotional love tank which can make the marriage reborn.
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
QUALITY TIME
RECEIVING GIFTS
ACTS OF SERVICE
PHYSICAL TOUCH
Which fills you up? Which fills them up?
Side note: I discovered WORDS OF AFFIRMATION makes me feel loved.
His first is: PHYSICAL TOUCH and second QUALITY TIME
As we all know marriage is hard and it is a daily choice to love but after the honeymoon bliss is over can we still have a happy marriage? Did the other person suddenly change or did we change without thinking about it?
There's so much static in our daily lives; work, bills, kids, money, climbing the social ladder, other people, resentment, exhaustion etc. We start to take our relationship for granted and it starts to surface as anger and hate.
So in 5 steps you find your way toward a more loving, enjoyable partner bc of the way you love him. Chapman doesn't promise easy; he promises a happier emotional love tank which can make the marriage reborn.
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
QUALITY TIME
RECEIVING GIFTS
ACTS OF SERVICE
PHYSICAL TOUCH
Which fills you up? Which fills them up?
Side note: I discovered WORDS OF AFFIRMATION makes me feel loved.
His first is: PHYSICAL TOUCH and second QUALITY TIME
January 4, 2025
This is a book that everyone should read at least once. it is imperative to know how you need and express love so that you know how to ask for the type of love that you need to feel fulfilled and happy in a relationship. It is also essential to know how to give the love that your partner needs to feel fulfilled so that the balance stays on top.
I love that this book can tie in a dash of religion without being preachy and alienating others! Bravo Gary Chapman!
Definitely worth a read! 4.5 Solid Stars! I already went and bought a copy to share.
I love that this book can tie in a dash of religion without being preachy and alienating others! Bravo Gary Chapman!
Definitely worth a read! 4.5 Solid Stars! I already went and bought a copy to share.
August 20, 2020
Chapman used many real-life examples from his own marriage, and of couples that he had counselled across the years, to illustrate the concepts in his book and how they can be applied to address different marriage/ relationship issues and circumstances. These are case studies help us to identify similarities and lessons for our own relationships.
In the book, he also offers 2 pages of additional ideas and suggestions for each of the 5 love languages, as well as separate love language profile surveys for husbands and wives (to identify your primary love language). If you enjoyed the ideas in this article, do get a copy of The 5 Love Languages from Amazon
In the book, he also offers 2 pages of additional ideas and suggestions for each of the 5 love languages, as well as separate love language profile surveys for husbands and wives (to identify your primary love language). If you enjoyed the ideas in this article, do get a copy of The 5 Love Languages from Amazon
February 14, 2009
I would never have read this book on my own but was urged to read it after a debate with a friend of my roommate. It's written by a marriage counselor and directed towards couples, but it can be applied to all relationships, both romantic and platonic. The author's theory is that there are five major ways to express love (the five love languages). Each of us has a primary love language, and relationship problems occur when others fail to express love to us in that language. It's an interesting theory but WAY oversimplified, and I was extremely bothered by one of the real life stories where the author encourages a wife to stay with an abusive husband and rescue their marriage by learning his love language. That's crap! The book is written from a religious perspective, and I struggled a lot with that as well. Overall, I wasn't so impressed, but I did conclude that my love language is Quality Time, and I've been surprised by how much insight that has provided into how I operate in relationships. For that alone, it gets two stars instead of one.
December 13, 2017
This year I'm doing a Reading Challenge; so I have 26 books with specific subjects that I need to read.
BOOK21: A book that will improve a specific area of your life
I think every married couple should read this at least once.
Do the quiz and know what Love Language your partner speaks.
For the advice given in this book I give a five star rating.
The writing on the other hand was not that good. He tends to "speak" down to the reader, making you think - I am not that stupid. Also he repeats himself A LOT!
Reading this I think is the easy part: to practice what suggest is the difficult part.
August 10, 2015
The author says love is a choice. He says that the infatuation that people experience in the beginning of the relationship is not real love. It is something else. Real love takes work while the infatuation period is instinctual and effortless. But isn't it the stuff we dream of and wish would last forever? Can we really accept that we will only get that chance at the beginning of the relationship and that thereafter, in order to remain monogamous, we must accept that it is not for us to feel ever again? It explains a lot. But I accept his theory with the angst of a romantic.
Yet anyone who is married and holds married life as a value that must be maintained must at some point consider the notion that making the marriage work after the honeymoon can be a matter of personal choice. And in so choosing, there are actions that communicate that willingness to different people psychologically. These are the five love languages that the author discusses: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Giving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch. I will not go into any details of what is meant by each of these here. The titles are somewhat self-explanatory, with the exception of the last one, which does not necessarily refer to sex. The author explains each love language along with the concept that most people are chiefly responsive to just one. He also discusses how to determine your own as well as your spouse's, and even provides some optimistic advice on how to practice the love languages with an unreciprocating partner. Despite the author's Christian underpinnings, as a non-Christian, to me this did not detract from the relevance of the author's ideas.
In fact, these "love languages" are not confined only to the marriage relationship, but may also serve to strengthen bonds with children - or perhaps any other person you need to communicate your love and support for. I especially found the chapter on children the most valuable because it not only expands the concept beyond the marriage relationship, but also drives home the point. We might have a choice as to whether we wish to stay married or not - but our children are ours forever.
And this brings me back to the point about marriage. Far from being ready to claim mastery of the ultimate male-female partnership, I have reflected upon it a great deal. In an age where the divorce rate challenges the age-old institution upon which the family is built, one must ask how marriages were ever successful in the past. Some may point out that they really weren't, but that society simply forced two people to be miserable by making it taboo to separate. And this then begs the question, why would the world's varied cultures and divinely inspired religions condone this relationship again and again? In fact, I would venture to point out that for the vast measure of our recorded history marriage has not only been a standard, but has also been traditionally arranged! What ancient wisdom allowed such "life-sentences" to form such a firm foundation for the basic building block of society?
I suspect the answer lies right here in this book. As hard as it may be to admit, the commonplace yearning for finding a new and exciting fling is quite likely an unfortunate addiction to a desire that in its very nature is meant to be only a temporary rush that pulls two people inexplicably together at the heart during their initial engagement. It is later, through maturity and insight into what makes the other person tick that we can choose to make each other perpetually happy and foster the bonds of enduring love. This book provides some valid insight into this process. It is light and easy reading that I think every couple should invest some time into, again and again.
MM March 1, 2005
Yet anyone who is married and holds married life as a value that must be maintained must at some point consider the notion that making the marriage work after the honeymoon can be a matter of personal choice. And in so choosing, there are actions that communicate that willingness to different people psychologically. These are the five love languages that the author discusses: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Giving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch. I will not go into any details of what is meant by each of these here. The titles are somewhat self-explanatory, with the exception of the last one, which does not necessarily refer to sex. The author explains each love language along with the concept that most people are chiefly responsive to just one. He also discusses how to determine your own as well as your spouse's, and even provides some optimistic advice on how to practice the love languages with an unreciprocating partner. Despite the author's Christian underpinnings, as a non-Christian, to me this did not detract from the relevance of the author's ideas.
In fact, these "love languages" are not confined only to the marriage relationship, but may also serve to strengthen bonds with children - or perhaps any other person you need to communicate your love and support for. I especially found the chapter on children the most valuable because it not only expands the concept beyond the marriage relationship, but also drives home the point. We might have a choice as to whether we wish to stay married or not - but our children are ours forever.
And this brings me back to the point about marriage. Far from being ready to claim mastery of the ultimate male-female partnership, I have reflected upon it a great deal. In an age where the divorce rate challenges the age-old institution upon which the family is built, one must ask how marriages were ever successful in the past. Some may point out that they really weren't, but that society simply forced two people to be miserable by making it taboo to separate. And this then begs the question, why would the world's varied cultures and divinely inspired religions condone this relationship again and again? In fact, I would venture to point out that for the vast measure of our recorded history marriage has not only been a standard, but has also been traditionally arranged! What ancient wisdom allowed such "life-sentences" to form such a firm foundation for the basic building block of society?
I suspect the answer lies right here in this book. As hard as it may be to admit, the commonplace yearning for finding a new and exciting fling is quite likely an unfortunate addiction to a desire that in its very nature is meant to be only a temporary rush that pulls two people inexplicably together at the heart during their initial engagement. It is later, through maturity and insight into what makes the other person tick that we can choose to make each other perpetually happy and foster the bonds of enduring love. This book provides some valid insight into this process. It is light and easy reading that I think every couple should invest some time into, again and again.
MM March 1, 2005
April 29, 2025
Good information. Can see how it could be helpful to many people. I think it would鈥檝e been better to frame it in terms of any relationship versus just marriages though. I think the concepts and principles apply to everyone nonetheless, and I appreciated that it was written agnostically (Chapman is also a Baptist pastor).
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