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كيف تجذب الناس كالمغناطيس
الكتاب عن اجتذاب الأصدقاء والمحبين والاحتفاظ بهم طول الحياة. ويكشف هذا الكتاب عن وسائل متخصصة وناجحة يمكنك استخدامها لتصبح بمثابة مغناطيس يثير اهتمام الناس ويشجعهم على التعامل معك. وخبيرة الاعلام والاتصال ليل لاندوس تقدّم لك أسرار اجتذاب الأصدقاء في حياتك الشخصية بالاضافة الى تقوية اتصالاتك وعلاقاتك في مجال العمل.
وحتى لو كنت خجولاً أو منعزلاً, يمكنك الاستفادة من نصائح لاندوس لتحقق مايلي :
* تجعل الغرباء يميلون إليك في الحال.
*تتخلص من ذلك العامل الثلاثي القاتل الذي يتكون من الخوف وعم الثقة والشك.
* تجعل كل من حولك يشعر بأن له أهميّة خاصة لديك.
* تعرف متى تبتسم, ومتى لا تبتسم , تعرف لماذا لا يناسب شخصاً مالا يناسب الآخرين.
* تسيطر على لسانك وتعرف مايجب قوله , ومالا يجب, بحسب من تاثه.
* تتجنب أكبر خطأين عندما تقابل شخصاً لأول مرة .
وحتى لو كنت خجولاً أو منعزلاً, يمكنك الاستفادة من نصائح لاندوس لتحقق مايلي :
* تجعل الغرباء يميلون إليك في الحال.
*تتخلص من ذلك العامل الثلاثي القاتل الذي يتكون من الخوف وعم الثقة والشك.
* تجعل كل من حولك يشعر بأن له أهميّة خاصة لديك.
* تعرف متى تبتسم, ومتى لا تبتسم , تعرف لماذا لا يناسب شخصاً مالا يناسب الآخرين.
* تسيطر على لسانك وتعرف مايجب قوله , ومالا يجب, بحسب من تاثه.
* تتجنب أكبر خطأين عندما تقابل شخصاً لأول مرة .
262 pages, Paperback
First published May 31, 2000
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Leil Lowndes
116books475followersLeil Lowndes is an author and internationally recognized communications expert who specializes in subconscious interactions. She has conducted hundreds of seminars in the US and around the world for major corporations, associations, and the general public, and frequently appears as a guest expert on national television shows and major news networks. She has authored ten bestselling books on communications � most recently, How to Talk to Anyone at Work: 72 Little Tricks for Big Success Communicating on the Job � and is published in over 26 foreign languages. She lives in New York City.
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March 7, 2011
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يستهويني كثيراً تحليل المواقف وردود الأفعال ودراسة نفسيات الأشخاص
ومعرفة مايحبون ومايكرهون بالاستناد على الدراسات العلمية :)
أيضاً مالذي يجعل بعض الأشخاص ناجحين في علاقاتهم والبعض فاشلين :(
وهو ماوجدته في هذا الكتاب
كأنه قصص وتجارب المؤلفة في التعامل مع الآخرين باختلاف الجنسين وباختلاف الشخصيات
- مع تحفظي طبعاً على اختلاف البيئات بيننا وبينهم واختلاف الديانة ايضاً :*) -
في العناوين مبالغة في الأسلوب لوهلة كنت أشعر أنها ستعطيني طريقة سحرية خارجة للعادة :D:S
الكتاب مقسّم الى خمس أجزاء :
الأول : كمقدمة
الثاني: اجعل الغرباء يحبونك فوراً !
أساليب في التعامل مع الآخرين
الثالث: الأصدقاء والأحبة
تذكر الكاتبة أهمية الصداقة وطرق تقويتها و..
الرابع: أسرار كيوبيد
تتحدث عن الحب من ناحية علمية وفسيلوجية ...
وأيضاً عن اختلاف التعامل بين الجنسين
وفي نهاية كل عنوان يوجد خلاصة مبسطة
الخامس: شبكة العلاقات
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يستهويني كثيراً تحليل المواقف وردود الأفعال ودراسة نفسيات الأشخاص
ومعرفة مايحبون ومايكرهون بالاستناد على الدراسات العلمية :)
أيضاً مالذي يجعل بعض الأشخاص ناجحين في علاقاتهم والبعض فاشلين :(
وهو ماوجدته في هذا الكتاب
كأنه قصص وتجارب المؤلفة في التعامل مع الآخرين باختلاف الجنسين وباختلاف الشخصيات
- مع تحفظي طبعاً على اختلاف البيئات بيننا وبينهم واختلاف الديانة ايضاً :*) -
في العناوين مبالغة في الأسلوب لوهلة كنت أشعر أنها ستعطيني طريقة سحرية خارجة للعادة :D:S
الكتاب مقسّم الى خمس أجزاء :
الأول : كمقدمة
الثاني: اجعل الغرباء يحبونك فوراً !
أساليب في التعامل مع الآخرين
الثالث: الأصدقاء والأحبة
تذكر الكاتبة أهمية الصداقة وطرق تقويتها و..
الرابع: أسرار كيوبيد
تتحدث عن الحب من ناحية علمية وفسيلوجية ...
وأيضاً عن اختلاف التعامل بين الجنسين
وفي نهاية كل عنوان يوجد خلاصة مبسطة
الخامس: شبكة العلاقات
February 27, 2013
Lowndes gives a series of brief tips for creating and maintaining relationships, both platonic and romantic. Most are common sense or explained much better in other books. Lowndes doesn't present anything unique or compelling. Some of her advice seems disingenuous, such as acting like you know people at a party, or giving cheesy compliments to dates.
I read this book because I picked up some useful tips from her book (). This book, however, wasn't as useful as that one.
I suggest these alternatives: (), (), ().
Notes
� What makes people likeable? Optimism and confidence, according to a survey by the American Sociological Association.
� Phrase things from the other’s perspective.
� Make eye contact and smile when interacting with strangers.
� When you thank someone, tell them why; say, “Thanks for...�
� Verbosity studies show that men speak more than women; men do most of their speaking at work, and much less at home.
� To tell if a person is interested in you, make eye contact and note how they look away. If their eyes sweep down before looking to the side, they’re interested. If their eyes sweep straight across before looking to the side, they’re undecided. If their eyes sweep up before looking to the side, they’re not interested.
I read this book because I picked up some useful tips from her book (). This book, however, wasn't as useful as that one.
I suggest these alternatives: (), (), ().
Notes
� What makes people likeable? Optimism and confidence, according to a survey by the American Sociological Association.
� Phrase things from the other’s perspective.
� Make eye contact and smile when interacting with strangers.
� When you thank someone, tell them why; say, “Thanks for...�
� Verbosity studies show that men speak more than women; men do most of their speaking at work, and much less at home.
� To tell if a person is interested in you, make eye contact and note how they look away. If their eyes sweep down before looking to the side, they’re interested. If their eyes sweep straight across before looking to the side, they’re undecided. If their eyes sweep up before looking to the side, they’re not interested.
January 5, 2013
According to this book, in order to be a people magnet (as a married man), I should do the following.
Hear everything I say through my listeners� ears and, whenever appropriate, phrase what I say from their perspective. Keep my eyes in contact for an extra second with everyone I speak with. Instead of just saying thank you, say “Thanks for . . .� If appropriate, when speaking to people touch them in a gentle, kind, tender way. Instead of having an automatic smile, think about people individually so that the other person makes me smile. Be sensitive to other peoples� body language to determine how they feel about what they are saying and respond to that as much as their words. When speaking to women, avoid gender specific terms, all sexual references at work and do not speak didactically: state an observation (or ask a question) as a preface to stating what I want; soften any requests or commands with phrases like “could you?,� “would you be able to?,� or “could I ask you to?�; be a bit more tentative when, for example, interrupting her with a question: “I’m sorry to bother you but. . . .�; minimize facts and use more feeling words such as I’m pleased, moved, irritated, enthusiastic; add lots of tag lines such as “what about you?� and “what do you think?� to solicit her opinion; show caring and respect in my communication; throw an occasional “I’m sorry� into the mix. To let a woman know I am listening, sprinkle conversation with supportive statements like “uh huh� and “yes, I see.� Also, nod to confirm that I understand what she is saying. Get it into my head that nodding does not mean I agree with her. Tell people how I feel when they criticize me, and give them an ultimatum. Cultivate self-confident movements. Whenever entering a room where I don’t know anyone, spot imaginary friends on the other side of the room and walk toward them, acknowledging every third or fourth “old acquaintance�; then, strike up a conversation with another “stand alone.� When shaking hands, maintain eye contact, touch webs, exert light pressure, and keep palms marble-close and perpendicular to the floor. When hugging, hold on tight, for just a second or two longer, to make it a real hug. In conversation, keep the energy level up by not allowing long pauses; give long answers to questions, and throw the conversational ball back to the other person by asking a question. Talk to strangers. After making a mistake, ask “What can I learn from this?� and “What can I do differently next time?� Tell others they can accomplish their goals and help them take the first step. Grow gifts in all areas—appearance, knowledge, finances, personality, prestige and character. Plan a surprise for a friend to let him or her know my feelings. Let friends know that they’re friends. Get tickets or make arrangements to do something with a man I want to be friends with. Constantly be on the lookout for gifts for colleagues, friends and people I’d like to be friends with. Stand up for what is right. Do thoughtful things for work colleagues. Befriend a Nerd. Don’t hesitate to befriend attractive people. Seek out friendships with physically challenged people. Cultivate and express my uniqueness. Seek out friends of other ethnic groups and nationalities. Capture or recapture my lifelong love. Go to events that interest me—alone. To meet a woman, smile, stand close, then ask an open-ended question. Be prepared to save face with compliments and funny comebacks. Google people. When something is troubling me, talk it out with a woman. If a woman is upset, ask her about it. Ask women for help with social problems. No matter how rotten the activity was, give her rave reviews. Tell my wife of she’s beautiful and I love her. Give my wife one minute of undivided and devoted attention for every hour we have been apart, and every time she walks in the room, give her a friendly look. Network by sharing talents with others, and accept graciously when they offer me theirs. Invite neighbors to my house or to do something. Look up and make plans with an old friend.
I actually thought this book was very interesting. I think the hard part would be to do all these things sincerely and not in a phony way.
Hear everything I say through my listeners� ears and, whenever appropriate, phrase what I say from their perspective. Keep my eyes in contact for an extra second with everyone I speak with. Instead of just saying thank you, say “Thanks for . . .� If appropriate, when speaking to people touch them in a gentle, kind, tender way. Instead of having an automatic smile, think about people individually so that the other person makes me smile. Be sensitive to other peoples� body language to determine how they feel about what they are saying and respond to that as much as their words. When speaking to women, avoid gender specific terms, all sexual references at work and do not speak didactically: state an observation (or ask a question) as a preface to stating what I want; soften any requests or commands with phrases like “could you?,� “would you be able to?,� or “could I ask you to?�; be a bit more tentative when, for example, interrupting her with a question: “I’m sorry to bother you but. . . .�; minimize facts and use more feeling words such as I’m pleased, moved, irritated, enthusiastic; add lots of tag lines such as “what about you?� and “what do you think?� to solicit her opinion; show caring and respect in my communication; throw an occasional “I’m sorry� into the mix. To let a woman know I am listening, sprinkle conversation with supportive statements like “uh huh� and “yes, I see.� Also, nod to confirm that I understand what she is saying. Get it into my head that nodding does not mean I agree with her. Tell people how I feel when they criticize me, and give them an ultimatum. Cultivate self-confident movements. Whenever entering a room where I don’t know anyone, spot imaginary friends on the other side of the room and walk toward them, acknowledging every third or fourth “old acquaintance�; then, strike up a conversation with another “stand alone.� When shaking hands, maintain eye contact, touch webs, exert light pressure, and keep palms marble-close and perpendicular to the floor. When hugging, hold on tight, for just a second or two longer, to make it a real hug. In conversation, keep the energy level up by not allowing long pauses; give long answers to questions, and throw the conversational ball back to the other person by asking a question. Talk to strangers. After making a mistake, ask “What can I learn from this?� and “What can I do differently next time?� Tell others they can accomplish their goals and help them take the first step. Grow gifts in all areas—appearance, knowledge, finances, personality, prestige and character. Plan a surprise for a friend to let him or her know my feelings. Let friends know that they’re friends. Get tickets or make arrangements to do something with a man I want to be friends with. Constantly be on the lookout for gifts for colleagues, friends and people I’d like to be friends with. Stand up for what is right. Do thoughtful things for work colleagues. Befriend a Nerd. Don’t hesitate to befriend attractive people. Seek out friendships with physically challenged people. Cultivate and express my uniqueness. Seek out friends of other ethnic groups and nationalities. Capture or recapture my lifelong love. Go to events that interest me—alone. To meet a woman, smile, stand close, then ask an open-ended question. Be prepared to save face with compliments and funny comebacks. Google people. When something is troubling me, talk it out with a woman. If a woman is upset, ask her about it. Ask women for help with social problems. No matter how rotten the activity was, give her rave reviews. Tell my wife of she’s beautiful and I love her. Give my wife one minute of undivided and devoted attention for every hour we have been apart, and every time she walks in the room, give her a friendly look. Network by sharing talents with others, and accept graciously when they offer me theirs. Invite neighbors to my house or to do something. Look up and make plans with an old friend.
I actually thought this book was very interesting. I think the hard part would be to do all these things sincerely and not in a phony way.
June 11, 2013
بصراحة يستهوينى هذا النوع من الكتب فالقليل فقط يولد و لديه الموهبه الفطريه فى التعامل مع الافراد خصوصا اذا كان الاخر مختلف عنك فى الثقافه و المعتقد و البيئه.
الكتاب جيد التقسيم و مرتب فتجد الكاتبه تطرح الفكره ثم تدعمها بمثال عملى من واقع تجربتها او ما اتطلعت عليه من سير العظماء و المشاهير.
بعد قراءه الكتاب تجد انك اذا استطعت استخدام القليل مما ورد فى الكتاب مثل التمرن على الابتسامه و البعد عن العبوس الانصات للاخر و اشعاره باهميته ان علاقتك بمن حولك تتحسن كثيرا.
قصه مارى ك اش جاءت ملهمه و كذلك ابراهام لنكولن و كيفيه التحدث امام حشد و التغلب على الخجل و ترك انطباع اول ايجابى لدى الاخريين و التصرف بين الحشود و التجمعات.
الكتاب جيد التقسيم و مرتب فتجد الكاتبه تطرح الفكره ثم تدعمها بمثال عملى من واقع تجربتها او ما اتطلعت عليه من سير العظماء و المشاهير.
بعد قراءه الكتاب تجد انك اذا استطعت استخدام القليل مما ورد فى الكتاب مثل التمرن على الابتسامه و البعد عن العبوس الانصات للاخر و اشعاره باهميته ان علاقتك بمن حولك تتحسن كثيرا.
قصه مارى ك اش جاءت ملهمه و كذلك ابراهام لنكولن و كيفيه التحدث امام حشد و التغلب على الخجل و ترك انطباع اول ايجابى لدى الاخريين و التصرف بين الحشود و التجمعات.
March 11, 2015
This book was disappointing because much time was spent touting the things it could do, but didn't deliver. The few examples it had could have been done in 10 pages.
June 5, 2023
I begin to understand the annoying social tendencies of some people; from now on, when seemingly-insane strangers start talking to me incessantly at parties, making too much eye contact, and looking for reasons to brush up against me, I will understand that it's not psychosis on their part (probably) but has come from reading How-To books like this one.
Honestly, this book scared me a little as well as offended. I talk about being a stalker, but good grief, I don't even hold a candle to this woman.
I know she's trying to be light and flippant, getting her message across with a bit of tongue-in-cheek. However, I felt she came across as judgmental and self-centered and that put me off.
Some of the things she said that made me raise my eyebrow and I realize these are taken out of context but even in context, they're still odd quotes:
"Be sure to discharge a little blast of joy into everyone's life"
Um...are we talking giving raspberries here or full on airhorns?
"Our auras our touching"
No. This is never something that should be said outside of holistic therapy. It just sounds creepy.
In addition, I was weirded-out by much of her advice, such as:
Pretend to know everyone at a party where you know no one. Smile and wave to strangers across the room like they're your friends.
Why? Why would anyone do this?
I get the concept: Don't act afraid. Be confident. But I'm thinking maybe drop the wave. Smile at people who look at you, but that's good advice in most settings anyhow when you're trying to make people feel at ease. Maybe not dark alleys at night in crowded cities, but otherwise, smiling never hurts when you don't know what else to do.
However, smiling and waving at strangers makes you look insane or overly-eager (unless you live in a small town, in which case you have to smile and wave at everyone who drives by. In that situation, though, it's assumed you/your family knows the driver/driver's family so you're not really strangers)
When talking to someone, make sure you make extended eye contact, don't allow any awkward silences but fill up space with enthusiastic talking, instead, and find reasons to lightly touch the other person.
GAH! I am going to start carrying mace!
In flirting circumstances, this is fairly typical but she wasn't talking about flirting. She was talking about meeting any, ol' new person. If someone did this to me, especially someone I don't know well or at all, I'd find that person highly creepy! Friends do this regularly, but friends have permission to do this. You're supposed to make lots of eye-contact with your friends. You're supposed to initiate little touches because they're intimate and help keep the bond between you and your friends strong. But doing this to the person who is standing in line behind you at the grocery store? No. Stop. Cease and desist.
Give lingering hugs and always take that extra few seconds to say "thank you" to people.
I agree that really meaning what you're saying, that really making an effort to show you mean what you say, is great. But at this point, everything she wants the reader to do is making me feel uncomfortable and gross, so the eye/hand/mind-meld contact while saying, seriously, solemnly, "THAAAAAANK YOOOOOU" is just more weirdness. And then the lingering hug? Again, with people you know and like, this is great. As a greeting or parting with someone you just met? Not so great! For some of us, it's torture.
And telling men to say to women who didn't like a movie (again, this is out of context but the end result is the same), "I'm sorry the movie was such a bummer but being with you made it beautiful" and following that up with the assurance that "Yes, women love that kind of poetic soul" should come with a giant caveat. SOME women love that kind of poetic soul. Maybe young, romantic women who have never had a broken heart. Or perhaps women raised in an era where this type of statement was heart-felt and came from the lips of Jimmy Stewart. I think a lot of women - at least me and most of the women I personally know - would roll their eyes at this type of statement, or at least laugh and not with "Ah ha ha ha, you're so cute" but more "Eh heh...I can't believe you just said that." What if a woman is trying to figure you out, Mr. Man who just shut her down by telling her being in her company is beautiful? What if she wanted to find out if you could hold a conversation? A debate? Maybe she's testing to see if your tastes are similar. Maybe it's a legitimate complaint and the movie was horrid and a waste of an hour and a half! Does that not deserve validation? Can a guy not say, "I didn't like it, either. Let's go get some ice-cream and talk about ten miserable things that would have been more fun than that movie!" A guy can't laugh and say, "I actually thought it was AWESOME. I'm going to tell my friends to see it...but maybe not with their dates. What should we do now?" The whole "I'm sorry you didn't like it but just being with you made everything fine" line makes it sound like he's blowing her and her opinions off, either shutting her down because he doesn't like whiny complainers or shutting her down because he can't be bothered with her opinions while also disallowing further disagreement because how can you argue with such a compliment?
I wouldn't call that guy back, that's for sure.
I have to say that though I found a lot of the quotes and advice to be questionable, I was reminded to be sincere in my thanks and compliments and to think of others in general. I won't do it her way because I don't want to appear a complete lunatic creeper, but I will remember to do it my way (and maybe still appear a complete lunatic creeper but a sincere lunatic creeper!)
Despite the good reminders, I was put off by the author as a narrator. Sure, she has a happy, chirpy (over-the-top) voice with lots of emoting and inflecting. Yes, I know she's trying to be funny with her little quips. However, I felt she too-often put the rest of the world down, almost as if she felt everyone out there is a lesser being. She talks about a "crabby, old man", using all sorts of epithets to describe his apparently-sour mood. When her story resolves with him going ga-ga over a baby, she does not change her way of describing him. He is still a crabby old man...just one who cannot resist a cute, smiling baby.
Maybe he's not a crabby old man. Maybe he's had a stroke that has paralyzed his face and he has a difficult time smiling. Maybe he just has a severe countenance but is very kind and wonderful. Maybe the attention he showed to the cooing infant should have made her realize that he's another human with normal days, good days, and bad days and reacts just like the rest of us do. In fact, I suspect that's what she was trying to get at but I felt she missed the mark by continuing to shovel on the sour-mood adjectives.
Had that been the only example of giving someone a negative description on purpose, it would have passed unnoticed. However, she is quick to talk about the high school popularity queen who has, so tragically, become a bitter, fat, haggard woman in line at the grocery store. It's so sad and the author feels such pity for the poor woman who was once so popular (though mean).
And her dweeb and nerd friends. Unless you're a dweeb or a nerd...or a geek or a freak or whatever, calling someone else a dweeb or a nerd is rarely a compliment. She loves those terms, though, almost as they're terms of endearments for her socially-awkward friends, the ones only she has the good graces to tolerate, whereas normal, healthy, non-dweeb/nerd society would shun them. In fact, she issues a clause for us to live by: "Clause 24: Befriend a Nerd. I'll open my eyes, look around, and find someone WAY less cool than I am or someone who is not as accepted by my peers as I am. Then I will reach out and genuinely befriend them. I'll let some of MY stardust rub off on THEM."
My, how magnanimous. I'm dazzled.
I am sure this is meant as another cute little tongue-in-cheek quip. But after all the other almost-bullying things she said throughout the book, this just rubbed me the wrong way. She does this type of thing far too often and it comes across as being "you are all so beneath me, but thankfully, I am a wonderful, glamorous person and I shall acknowledge and embrace (lingeringly) you!"
It's probably not what she meant, but that's how I heard it...straight from her mouth.
All in all, I think I got what I needed from this book (the aforementioned reminders to remember to try to be nicer) but I don't think I ever want to meet the author. Not only would I be worried about being manhandled, she came across as being someone who needs to work on her acceptance of others instead of focusing on winning their acceptance. In that light, I have to take what she says with a grain of salt - it's more important to her to gain value from what others think of her than it is to me, thus, her methods offer me very little in the way of making friends and creating lasting relationships.
Honestly, this book scared me a little as well as offended. I talk about being a stalker, but good grief, I don't even hold a candle to this woman.
I know she's trying to be light and flippant, getting her message across with a bit of tongue-in-cheek. However, I felt she came across as judgmental and self-centered and that put me off.
Some of the things she said that made me raise my eyebrow and I realize these are taken out of context but even in context, they're still odd quotes:
"Be sure to discharge a little blast of joy into everyone's life"
Um...are we talking giving raspberries here or full on airhorns?
"Our auras our touching"
No. This is never something that should be said outside of holistic therapy. It just sounds creepy.
In addition, I was weirded-out by much of her advice, such as:
Pretend to know everyone at a party where you know no one. Smile and wave to strangers across the room like they're your friends.
Why? Why would anyone do this?
I get the concept: Don't act afraid. Be confident. But I'm thinking maybe drop the wave. Smile at people who look at you, but that's good advice in most settings anyhow when you're trying to make people feel at ease. Maybe not dark alleys at night in crowded cities, but otherwise, smiling never hurts when you don't know what else to do.
However, smiling and waving at strangers makes you look insane or overly-eager (unless you live in a small town, in which case you have to smile and wave at everyone who drives by. In that situation, though, it's assumed you/your family knows the driver/driver's family so you're not really strangers)
When talking to someone, make sure you make extended eye contact, don't allow any awkward silences but fill up space with enthusiastic talking, instead, and find reasons to lightly touch the other person.
GAH! I am going to start carrying mace!
In flirting circumstances, this is fairly typical but she wasn't talking about flirting. She was talking about meeting any, ol' new person. If someone did this to me, especially someone I don't know well or at all, I'd find that person highly creepy! Friends do this regularly, but friends have permission to do this. You're supposed to make lots of eye-contact with your friends. You're supposed to initiate little touches because they're intimate and help keep the bond between you and your friends strong. But doing this to the person who is standing in line behind you at the grocery store? No. Stop. Cease and desist.
Give lingering hugs and always take that extra few seconds to say "thank you" to people.
I agree that really meaning what you're saying, that really making an effort to show you mean what you say, is great. But at this point, everything she wants the reader to do is making me feel uncomfortable and gross, so the eye/hand/mind-meld contact while saying, seriously, solemnly, "THAAAAAANK YOOOOOU" is just more weirdness. And then the lingering hug? Again, with people you know and like, this is great. As a greeting or parting with someone you just met? Not so great! For some of us, it's torture.
And telling men to say to women who didn't like a movie (again, this is out of context but the end result is the same), "I'm sorry the movie was such a bummer but being with you made it beautiful" and following that up with the assurance that "Yes, women love that kind of poetic soul" should come with a giant caveat. SOME women love that kind of poetic soul. Maybe young, romantic women who have never had a broken heart. Or perhaps women raised in an era where this type of statement was heart-felt and came from the lips of Jimmy Stewart. I think a lot of women - at least me and most of the women I personally know - would roll their eyes at this type of statement, or at least laugh and not with "Ah ha ha ha, you're so cute" but more "Eh heh...I can't believe you just said that." What if a woman is trying to figure you out, Mr. Man who just shut her down by telling her being in her company is beautiful? What if she wanted to find out if you could hold a conversation? A debate? Maybe she's testing to see if your tastes are similar. Maybe it's a legitimate complaint and the movie was horrid and a waste of an hour and a half! Does that not deserve validation? Can a guy not say, "I didn't like it, either. Let's go get some ice-cream and talk about ten miserable things that would have been more fun than that movie!" A guy can't laugh and say, "I actually thought it was AWESOME. I'm going to tell my friends to see it...but maybe not with their dates. What should we do now?" The whole "I'm sorry you didn't like it but just being with you made everything fine" line makes it sound like he's blowing her and her opinions off, either shutting her down because he doesn't like whiny complainers or shutting her down because he can't be bothered with her opinions while also disallowing further disagreement because how can you argue with such a compliment?
I wouldn't call that guy back, that's for sure.
I have to say that though I found a lot of the quotes and advice to be questionable, I was reminded to be sincere in my thanks and compliments and to think of others in general. I won't do it her way because I don't want to appear a complete lunatic creeper, but I will remember to do it my way (and maybe still appear a complete lunatic creeper but a sincere lunatic creeper!)
Despite the good reminders, I was put off by the author as a narrator. Sure, she has a happy, chirpy (over-the-top) voice with lots of emoting and inflecting. Yes, I know she's trying to be funny with her little quips. However, I felt she too-often put the rest of the world down, almost as if she felt everyone out there is a lesser being. She talks about a "crabby, old man", using all sorts of epithets to describe his apparently-sour mood. When her story resolves with him going ga-ga over a baby, she does not change her way of describing him. He is still a crabby old man...just one who cannot resist a cute, smiling baby.
Maybe he's not a crabby old man. Maybe he's had a stroke that has paralyzed his face and he has a difficult time smiling. Maybe he just has a severe countenance but is very kind and wonderful. Maybe the attention he showed to the cooing infant should have made her realize that he's another human with normal days, good days, and bad days and reacts just like the rest of us do. In fact, I suspect that's what she was trying to get at but I felt she missed the mark by continuing to shovel on the sour-mood adjectives.
Had that been the only example of giving someone a negative description on purpose, it would have passed unnoticed. However, she is quick to talk about the high school popularity queen who has, so tragically, become a bitter, fat, haggard woman in line at the grocery store. It's so sad and the author feels such pity for the poor woman who was once so popular (though mean).
And her dweeb and nerd friends. Unless you're a dweeb or a nerd...or a geek or a freak or whatever, calling someone else a dweeb or a nerd is rarely a compliment. She loves those terms, though, almost as they're terms of endearments for her socially-awkward friends, the ones only she has the good graces to tolerate, whereas normal, healthy, non-dweeb/nerd society would shun them. In fact, she issues a clause for us to live by: "Clause 24: Befriend a Nerd. I'll open my eyes, look around, and find someone WAY less cool than I am or someone who is not as accepted by my peers as I am. Then I will reach out and genuinely befriend them. I'll let some of MY stardust rub off on THEM."
My, how magnanimous. I'm dazzled.
I am sure this is meant as another cute little tongue-in-cheek quip. But after all the other almost-bullying things she said throughout the book, this just rubbed me the wrong way. She does this type of thing far too often and it comes across as being "you are all so beneath me, but thankfully, I am a wonderful, glamorous person and I shall acknowledge and embrace (lingeringly) you!"
It's probably not what she meant, but that's how I heard it...straight from her mouth.
All in all, I think I got what I needed from this book (the aforementioned reminders to remember to try to be nicer) but I don't think I ever want to meet the author. Not only would I be worried about being manhandled, she came across as being someone who needs to work on her acceptance of others instead of focusing on winning their acceptance. In that light, I have to take what she says with a grain of salt - it's more important to her to gain value from what others think of her than it is to me, thus, her methods offer me very little in the way of making friends and creating lasting relationships.
April 27, 2013
جيّد !! :)
ما تضمنه الكتاب ليس من باب "لتكون جذّاباً افعل كذا ولا تفعل كذا" بل هو سرد لمواقف ومشاكل حصلت مع الكاتبة في حياتها العادية .. وكيفية حلّها أو التعامل أثناء حدوثها كشخص جذّاب للناس ومن ثم تعهد صغير بين القارئ ونفسه في آخر كل فصل أو فقرة أو فكرة مطروحة يتعهد به أن يطبق الموقف الذي تعامل به الشخص الجذاب في القصة المطروحة كي يكون جذاباً مثله
ما تضمنه الكتاب ليس من باب "لتكون جذّاباً افعل كذا ولا تفعل كذا" بل هو سرد لمواقف ومشاكل حصلت مع الكاتبة في حياتها العادية .. وكيفية حلّها أو التعامل أثناء حدوثها كشخص جذّاب للناس ومن ثم تعهد صغير بين القارئ ونفسه في آخر كل فصل أو فقرة أو فكرة مطروحة يتعهد به أن يطبق الموقف الذي تعامل به الشخص الجذاب في القصة المطروحة كي يكون جذاباً مثله
August 26, 2011
قرأته فلم أصبح مغناطيساً بشرياً.. ولا حتى مغناطيساً لأي شيء آخر!!
أعجبتني بعض الأفكار.. أكرر... بعض!
اما الاخرى فأنكرتها تماماً..
ربما اكتشفت انه لا يجدر بي قراءة الكتب المترجمة.. لا يعجبني تفكير أولئك القوم ولا معتقداتهم الغريبة..
أعجبتني بعض الأفكار.. أكرر... بعض!
اما الاخرى فأنكرتها تماماً..
ربما اكتشفت انه لا يجدر بي قراءة الكتب المترجمة.. لا يعجبني تفكير أولئك القوم ولا معتقداتهم الغريبة..
August 10, 2008
When I first started this book, I didn't think I would be able to make it through due to the author's corny writing style. I'm not sure what other word to use to explain it. What appears to be her attempt at making the book more interesting with corny stories and jokes is just plain annoying.
As I learned to tune out that annoyance in order to make it through the book, there were parts that caught my interest. Many of the tips are just common sense, but she does relay some interesting studies on how people relate. The research studies she sites are the most interesting part of the book.
She offers a number of tips for developing relationships, fostering friendships, and maximizing social situations, but some of these tips seemed ridiculous. For example, when entering a party where you don't know anyone, she suggests that you pretend to see a friend across the room and proceed to wave and smile at the imaginary friend. As you make your way across the room (to get to your imaginary friend), smile and say hello to everyone as though you're a celebrity. Her conclusion is that everyone will think you are so popular, they will be honored if you stop to talk to them. Of course, when you reach your imaginary friend, they have somehow disappeared so you can choose some lonely stranger who will no doubt be charmed by your presence.
She offers a plan of action for men approaching women in a public place, instructing them to look at the woman until she feels his gaze and makes eye contact. How the woman looks away will indicate her interest. Looking towards the floor shows interest. If she looks away moving her eyes horizontally, she is still deciding. If her eyes look upward as she looks away, she's showing lack of interest. Assuming she looks downward or sideways, the man is to check his watch and observe if she looks back within 45 seconds. If so, he should proceed to the next step - which she also outlines with clear instructions.
If you can bear the lame writing style, there are a few interesting research studies, and some helpful common sense reminders, but in my opinion, there are many superior books on finding, building, and keeping relationships.
As I learned to tune out that annoyance in order to make it through the book, there were parts that caught my interest. Many of the tips are just common sense, but she does relay some interesting studies on how people relate. The research studies she sites are the most interesting part of the book.
She offers a number of tips for developing relationships, fostering friendships, and maximizing social situations, but some of these tips seemed ridiculous. For example, when entering a party where you don't know anyone, she suggests that you pretend to see a friend across the room and proceed to wave and smile at the imaginary friend. As you make your way across the room (to get to your imaginary friend), smile and say hello to everyone as though you're a celebrity. Her conclusion is that everyone will think you are so popular, they will be honored if you stop to talk to them. Of course, when you reach your imaginary friend, they have somehow disappeared so you can choose some lonely stranger who will no doubt be charmed by your presence.
She offers a plan of action for men approaching women in a public place, instructing them to look at the woman until she feels his gaze and makes eye contact. How the woman looks away will indicate her interest. Looking towards the floor shows interest. If she looks away moving her eyes horizontally, she is still deciding. If her eyes look upward as she looks away, she's showing lack of interest. Assuming she looks downward or sideways, the man is to check his watch and observe if she looks back within 45 seconds. If so, he should proceed to the next step - which she also outlines with clear instructions.
If you can bear the lame writing style, there are a few interesting research studies, and some helpful common sense reminders, but in my opinion, there are many superior books on finding, building, and keeping relationships.
September 20, 2012
كتاب جميل يحتوى على معلومات و نصائح كثيرة، إنها في الواقع نصائح و معلومات بسيطة لكن إذا تم تطبيقها ستعطى نتائج عظيمة جداً.
الشيء الوحيد الذي لم يعجبني في الكتاب، هو احتوائه على فقرات غير مهمة ، كان من الممكن التخلص منها، مثلاً : "ذكريات الكاتبة" التي تسردها بتفصيل، كما لو انها تفعل ذالك فقط لتكون صفحات كتابها كثيرة. لكن على العموم حياة الكتابة غنية بالتجارب و العلاقات الإنسانية.
أتمنى أن أطبق نصائح الكتاب لأتحول فعلاً إلى إنسان مغناطيس.
July 31, 2019
While I understand what Leil Lowndes is attempting to achieve, I feel like most of the advice given is either common sense or slightly archaic. Written over 15 years ago, most of the book is outdated, based on old, sometimes sexist tropes. While the advice Lowndes provided may have been applicable in 2002, I found that reading this book to be useless in this day and age.
June 27, 2024
DNF
Her style isn't for me. I'm sure there are several helpful tips here, but the ones I've read so far is so bland. And some of her anecdotes feel petty like "Hey! I used to be a loser but now I'm not only a doctor, a best selling author too!".
Yeah, not for me
Her style isn't for me. I'm sure there are several helpful tips here, but the ones I've read so far is so bland. And some of her anecdotes feel petty like "Hey! I used to be a loser but now I'm not only a doctor, a best selling author too!".
Yeah, not for me
June 17, 2022
Was this written in the 1950s? Women, just bat your eyelashes and play helpless so your men can rescue you. Men, don’t be too affectionate with your guy friends or you’ll lose your rep as a “skirt-chaser.� Yikes. The constant barrage of heteronormative gender roles finally got the best of me. DNF.
June 13, 2016
كتاب جميل وخفيف
اعجبني فصل "اسرار كيوبيد" على الرغم من انه لايتوافق مع معظم عادات وتقاليد المجتمعات العربية .
اعجبني فصل "اسرار كيوبيد" على الرغم من انه لايتوافق مع معظم عادات وتقاليد المجتمعات العربية .
February 12, 2017
I wish I could give this zero stars. Seriously. None. This book was awful. Heterosexism. Misogyny... lots of eye rolling and unhelpful advice.
February 9, 2022
كتاب في التنمية الذاتية، في القراءة الأولى للكتاب شعرت وكأنه سطحي للغاية، لكن بعد تعمق كبير به كنت ألاحظ أن كل مايقوله الكتاب ينطبق على ماحولي!
كنت أجد في نقسي غصة عند قراءة كتب التنمية الذاتية، لكن هذا الكتاب لفت نظري للكثير من الأشياء في التعامل مع الناس رغم أنها تبدو بديهية إلا أنها ضرورية ونسيانها يسبب مشاكل كثيرة في العلاقات.
هذا الكتاب مخصص لهولاء الأشخاص المنطويين أو الذين يعانون من مشاكل في اكتساب صداقات، أو حتى هولاء الاجتماعين الذين يحتاجون إلى تحسين مهاراتهم لتناسب الجميع مثلي.
كانت مشكلتي هي الصمت في أغلب الاجتماعات لأنني فعلا أشعر بالراحة عند الاستماع فقط أكثر من ال��لام خاصة مع من لا تربطني بهم علاقة قوية، ولكن بعد قراءة الكتاب استطعت أن اتقبل صمتي بدون شعور سيء، وأن أتعامل معه على أنه ميزة اسمها القدرة على سماع الآخرين وترك فرصة لهم للحديث، مع تعديل بسيط وهو إضافة الإيماءات وهز الرأس حتى يصل للمتلقي أنني مهتمة حقًا، كما يجب عليّ أن أدلي برأيي في نهاية الحوار لأثبت حقًا أنني كنت استمع,
كل شخص سيقرأ هذا الكتاب سيخرج بخبرة مختلفة على حسب مشاكله ورؤيته للأمور،
وقد ركزت الكاتبة من وجهة نظري على كيف تجعل من يراك لأول مرة ينجذب إليك ويحبك، فتحدثت عن كلمات أول لقاء، والابتسامة وكيفية التصرف في التجمعات ومع مختلف العلاقات فعلاقة البنت بالبنت غير علاقة البنت مع الرجل والعكس، وكيف تجعل الإنطباع الأول يدوم بأجمل مما تتخيل، وكيف تكسر الحواجز بينك وبين الناس، وكيف تتخلص من خجلك وانطوائيتك، كلها خطوات قد تبدو بديهية كالابتسامة والم��افحة ولكننا نحتاج إلى من يذكرنا بها بين الحين والآخر
كنت أجد في نقسي غصة عند قراءة كتب التنمية الذاتية، لكن هذا الكتاب لفت نظري للكثير من الأشياء في التعامل مع الناس رغم أنها تبدو بديهية إلا أنها ضرورية ونسيانها يسبب مشاكل كثيرة في العلاقات.
هذا الكتاب مخصص لهولاء الأشخاص المنطويين أو الذين يعانون من مشاكل في اكتساب صداقات، أو حتى هولاء الاجتماعين الذين يحتاجون إلى تحسين مهاراتهم لتناسب الجميع مثلي.
كانت مشكلتي هي الصمت في أغلب الاجتماعات لأنني فعلا أشعر بالراحة عند الاستماع فقط أكثر من ال��لام خاصة مع من لا تربطني بهم علاقة قوية، ولكن بعد قراءة الكتاب استطعت أن اتقبل صمتي بدون شعور سيء، وأن أتعامل معه على أنه ميزة اسمها القدرة على سماع الآخرين وترك فرصة لهم للحديث، مع تعديل بسيط وهو إضافة الإيماءات وهز الرأس حتى يصل للمتلقي أنني مهتمة حقًا، كما يجب عليّ أن أدلي برأيي في نهاية الحوار لأثبت حقًا أنني كنت استمع,
كل شخص سيقرأ هذا الكتاب سيخرج بخبرة مختلفة على حسب مشاكله ورؤيته للأمور،
وقد ركزت الكاتبة من وجهة نظري على كيف تجعل من يراك لأول مرة ينجذب إليك ويحبك، فتحدثت عن كلمات أول لقاء، والابتسامة وكيفية التصرف في التجمعات ومع مختلف العلاقات فعلاقة البنت بالبنت غير علاقة البنت مع الرجل والعكس، وكيف تجعل الإنطباع الأول يدوم بأجمل مما تتخيل، وكيف تكسر الحواجز بينك وبين الناس، وكيف تتخلص من خجلك وانطوائيتك، كلها خطوات قد تبدو بديهية كالابتسامة والم��افحة ولكننا نحتاج إلى من يذكرنا بها بين الحين والآخر
January 14, 2024
There were some decent bits of advice near the beginning of the book, but by the time I reached the 50% mark, it was already going downhill, fast. From fat-shaming the former popular girl from her high school (this just screams insecure and holding onto jealousy for far too long), to detailing how she didn't get a call back for a second date after levelling the tiniest criticism at the movie, suggesting that her date took the criticism personally and was so fragile that single criticism was the reason she didn't get a call back, to the suggestion that men now have to be hypervigilant when out in public now because women are no longer tolerating casual sexual assault and harassment...just ugh.
The bulk of her advice comes down to people pleasing to such an extreme it's unhealthy and can't possibly result in authentic connections.
Skip this one and read Frientimacy by Shasta Nelson.
If you're up for some YouTube videos, check out Charisma on Comand. I love his Game of Thrones breakdowns!
Charisma on Comand also has an online course called Charisma University if this is something you're interested in.
All are much better choices than this one.
The bulk of her advice comes down to people pleasing to such an extreme it's unhealthy and can't possibly result in authentic connections.
Skip this one and read Frientimacy by Shasta Nelson.
If you're up for some YouTube videos, check out Charisma on Comand. I love his Game of Thrones breakdowns!
Charisma on Comand also has an online course called Charisma University if this is something you're interested in.
All are much better choices than this one.
January 14, 2023
I should have known not to be so hopeful that this book would have some sort of dynamic insight I’d never heard about how to better relate to others.
Instead, one ought to read “How to Win Friends and Influence People.�
If for some reason, however, you find yourself tasked to read this, do yourself a favor: read only the first and last paragraphs of each chapter.
This would have made a better bullet point list in an extended Facebook post than a book.
Instead, one ought to read “How to Win Friends and Influence People.�
If for some reason, however, you find yourself tasked to read this, do yourself a favor: read only the first and last paragraphs of each chapter.
This would have made a better bullet point list in an extended Facebook post than a book.
May 29, 2022
كيف تجذب الناس كالمغناطيس
للكاتبة: ليل لاوندس
في بداية الأمر جذبنا العنوان، كما جذبتنا صفحاته الأولى، ولكننا توقفنا عنه بعد قطع عدة صفحات، لم يرق لنا الكتاب للثرثرات التي لا تعنينا، ربما راق لآخرين، لهذا نصرفنا عنه دون أن نكمله، نتطلع لمطالعة كتاب آخر للمؤلفة.
للكاتبة: ليل لاوندس
في بداية الأمر جذبنا العنوان، كما جذبتنا صفحاته الأولى، ولكننا توقفنا عنه بعد قطع عدة صفحات، لم يرق لنا الكتاب للثرثرات التي لا تعنينا، ربما راق لآخرين، لهذا نصرفنا عنه دون أن نكمله، نتطلع لمطالعة كتاب آخر للمؤلفة.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
July 26, 2023
It was outdated to the point that many of her ideas did not apply today. I did not enjoy the narration style.
August 4, 2022
A book about how to attract people, free with audible premium. Well, if this book is going to teach me how to attract people like the author, I don’t want it. This book is 0 stars for these three reasons: The authors ego, the authors privileged and discriminatory remarks, and the authors boring stories (about herself and her friends) as long winded supports to her points.
I wrote a really long review but it was mostly examples and further complaining about how drawn out and offensive this book is for the small nuggets of (somewhat common) wisdom it has. There are a dozen other books on communication out there, including and both of which are free with audible premium.
DNF at 42%, started spring 2022 and finished 8/3/2022
I wrote a really long review but it was mostly examples and further complaining about how drawn out and offensive this book is for the small nuggets of (somewhat common) wisdom it has. There are a dozen other books on communication out there, including and both of which are free with audible premium.
DNF at 42%, started spring 2022 and finished 8/3/2022
September 13, 2017
الكتاب جدا رائع مليء بالافكار الايجابية والحيل الحياتية
*الثقة بالنفس
*اتحدث مع الاخرين من وجهة نظرهم
*اضيف اضافة جميلة على الاضافة الاساسية
*رسائل العين
*كلمات الشكر والوداع وتنوعها وبلغات مختلفة
*الفرق بين الابتسامة الحقيقة والمزيفة المدة الزمنية الابتسامة الحقيقة تكون بطيئة وبشوشة على الوجه
*الانذار لشخص ينتقدني دائما او التخلص منه الى الابد
*الجمال هو ان تشعر انك جميل
*لاتذكر ملاحظات عن جسدك يحط من قدرك
*كوني نرجسية ولكن بدرجة قليلة
*عناق الدب الكبير هو العناق المفضل لدى الكثير
*أعطي لنفسك ولغيرك هبة (أنت..تستطيع ذلك)
*أنا أعز صديق لي
*خطط مفاجاة سارة لصديقتك
*قل لصديقك ( أنت مهم جداً لي)
*قل كلمات حب في المناسبات المشاعرية كزفاف -حفل تخرج
*قدم هدايا صغيرة لزملائك او اصدقائك
*صادق من تعتبره فاشلاً وأعمل على مساعدته وتحسين حالته وربما ينفعني يوماً وينفع الناس فيما بعد
*كن جرئياً ومختلفاً
*كون اصدقاء متنوعون
*إبحث عن شريك يشارك اهتمامك
*شارك مواهبك مع اشخاص جدد(مشاركة المواهب ) ليزويدوك بإبداعاتهم واقتراحاتهم كأعلان لشركتك او كتابك
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October 17, 2018
I listened to the audiobook version of this and was put off right from the get go because of the author's annoying voice and style of speaking. She clearly thinks very highly of herself, but at no point gives any credentials that make me think she's qualified to author a book on people skills.
Once I got past the obnoxious voice, I found an endless supply of platitudes, anecdotal evidence, and dated advice. The book was originally written 18 years ago and it shows. It's filled with sexist stereotypes and the occasional, I have a black friend so I'm not racist story. Cue the eye roll. The nail in the coffin was the fact that two thirds of the book is devoted to finding a romantic partner even though the title suggests it's equally about building friendships.
Heaven help the person who reads this and takes the advice to heart.
Once I got past the obnoxious voice, I found an endless supply of platitudes, anecdotal evidence, and dated advice. The book was originally written 18 years ago and it shows. It's filled with sexist stereotypes and the occasional, I have a black friend so I'm not racist story. Cue the eye roll. The nail in the coffin was the fact that two thirds of the book is devoted to finding a romantic partner even though the title suggests it's equally about building friendships.
Heaven help the person who reads this and takes the advice to heart.
March 25, 2012
الكتاب تكلم عن كيف تجعل الناس ينجذبون اليك وذلك تحت سقفا ربما مزيف احتوى في جزئه الثاني على طرق رائعه لجذب الناس الا ان بعض الناس لن يفضل ان يعمل بها .. فلو ذكرت بدلا من ان ازيف حقيقتي كيف اعدل من تصرفات لكان افضل ..
رأيي فيه :
امممم كنت متحمسه للكتاب .. وكان الجزء الاول منه يشعر بأهمية الكتاب وان قراءته ستكون ممتعه .. الجزء الثاني استفدت منه واكتشفت اني اطبق معظم ما فيه ولم اكن بحاجه لقراءته ولكن ليس كله فقد استفدت اشياء جديده الجزء الثالث استطيع القول انه كان مضيعه لوقتي والرابع كان جيدا الا ان اختلاف المجتمعات لا يجعله مهما بالنسبة لي وجزئه الاخير لوكان ملخصا اكثر لوصلت المعلومات التي يحتويها بشكل ابسط ..
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رأيي فيه :
امممم كنت متحمسه للكتاب .. وكان الجزء الاول منه يشعر بأهمية الكتاب وان قراءته ستكون ممتعه .. الجزء الثاني استفدت منه واكتشفت اني اطبق معظم ما فيه ولم اكن بحاجه لقراءته ولكن ليس كله فقد استفدت اشياء جديده الجزء الثالث استطيع القول انه كان مضيعه لوقتي والرابع كان جيدا الا ان اختلاف المجتمعات لا يجعله مهما بالنسبة لي وجزئه الاخير لوكان ملخصا اكثر لوصلت المعلومات التي يحتويها بشكل ابسط ..
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June 11, 2014
the book is very helpful, its talk about how to make friend. also, if are shy how to elimination this, and how to make anyone Fall in Love with You and to keeping them for life. Uncover the attractive thing for fun.
February 22, 2015
هو كتاب رائع يعطيك خلاصة تجربة انسان محترف .. لا يجب ان تكون مختلفة او تأتي بجديد .. لكن براعتها في انها استطاعت ان تتميز في ما فعله الكل .. لا تجد كل يوم تجارب اشخاص ناجحة على طبق من ذهب ..
المؤلفة لها حساب على تويتر وهي انسانة رائعة !
المؤلفة لها حساب على تويتر وهي انسانة رائعة !
January 29, 2018
جميل ، يتكلم عن تطوير الذات والطرق المختلفة لتنمية العلاقات البشرية.
الهدايا وأثرها ، إظهار مشاعر الحب والإمتنان للأخرين ، وغيرها من الأساليب التي تجعلك إنسان محبوب لدى الأخرين.
كما يتكلم الكتاب عن دور الثقة بالنفس في فرض انطباع جيد لدى المتلقي.
الهدايا وأثرها ، إظهار مشاعر الحب والإمتنان للأخرين ، وغيرها من الأساليب التي تجعلك إنسان محبوب لدى الأخرين.
كما يتكلم الكتاب عن دور الثقة بالنفس في فرض انطباع جيد لدى المتلقي.
January 9, 2012
لطيف لكن متناقض شوي مع كتاب " قوة السحر" ..~بالنسبة لي ماأضاف لي الكثير =)
August 8, 2012
مواقف ذاتية للمؤلفه سواء شخصية أو خاصة باللى حواليها بتقدم تجارب حياتيه كلنا بنعشها و بتقدم نصائح بتسهل علينا المواقف د و بتخلينا نعيش الحياه أسهل و أسعد
June 23, 2013
رائع جدا فيه وسائل مفيدة وممتعه استفادتي من هذا الكتاب عظيمة
بعض الأساليب والأفكار لاتناسبنا كمسلمين لكن خذ من الكتاب مايفيد ودعك من ماتراه لايفيد
الأهم هو الفكرة والفائدة
انصح به جدا
بعض الأساليب والأفكار لاتناسبنا كمسلمين لكن خذ من الكتاب مايفيد ودعك من ماتراه لايفيد
الأهم هو الفكرة والفائدة
انصح به جدا
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