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“The worst grudge is being told that you are forgiven, yet your sins are still glowing in their hearts like a burning coal.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

“Be happy by forgiving or forgetting or doing both, but we can gain no happiness by holding grudges.”
― Dinesh Kumar Radhakrishnan

“Once you decide to forgive, you initiate the healing process. Forgiveness gives your soul permission to move on to the higher and healthier ground of emotional recovery. Forgiveness is to your soul what antibiotics are to infection. It is the curative agent that will help to fully restore your soul. It doesn't immediately remove the pain of defense but it does start you on the road to recovery.”
― Will Davis Jr., 10 Things Jesus Never Said: And Why You Should Stop Believing Them

“Most people are only doing the best that they know how to do.Blaming and holding grudges only brings more pain.”
― Maggie Cox, Bought: For His Convenience or Pleasure?

“Don't focus on her hiss. Remember her purr.”
― Donna Lynn Hope

“And the past, for those foolish enough to subscribe to it, holds a grudge harder than anything known to man.”
― Jobie Hughes, At Dawn

“You can do the right thing that seems wrong to others, or the wrong thing that seems right, and its actually puerile to await recommendation when what you are about to do doesn't concerns anyone.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

“No one knows how to hold a grudge like a proper Southerner.”
― Charles Blow, Fire Shut Up in My Bones

“Don't carry a grudge.”
― H. Jackson Brown Jr.

“A long held belief based on a perceived reality that is rooted in a diminishing view of yourself or others probably is not serving you.
Today is a good day to let go of one of them.
Today is a great day to let go of one of them-if it's a secret grudge you've been harboring
for years.
Particularly if that person is YOU.”
― Dave Rudbarg

“I remember everything,' Bette Midler flatly notes. 'But you know how in life, you tend to hold grudges? Well, I don’t do that any more. Bad, bad stuff. I did as a young person, but it just wore me out. Oh, it really did! How many times can you wake up in the middle of the night gnashing your teeth? It’s so boring. Give it up!”
― Antonella Gambotto-Burke, Mouth

“In my experience when a friend unloaded about a boyfriend or spouse, the listener soaked up the complaint and remembered it long after the speaker had forgiven the offense.”
― Sonia Sotomayor, My Beloved World

“A grudge is like a cesspool; forgiveness like a flowing river.”
― Chris Northrup

“I'm sorry. I behaved like a jerk.
You did.
Is that forgiveness?
I'm not sure. I think it's an acknowledgment of imperfection. And an admission that I believe time is too short to hold a grudge.”
― Janet Mullany, Hidden Paradise

“..."Charming people, when not actively shooting one another," a friend had once said, which was so unkind, but, like so many unkind comments, had a grain of truth in it. They did shoot one another and had been doing so for centuries. They did bicker over and brood on long-dead history--or history that should be long dead. The problem with history was that it refused to lie down and die.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Forgotten Affairs of Youth

“Hatred, rancor and grudge, they are not humanity elements; but you need to have them to survive.”
― M.F. Moonzajer

“Don't hold grudges. Life's too long.”
― Brian Spellman, Cartoonist's Book Camp

“...Obyann, you're talking about the Landemere-Ramaldah border dispute of 1416. Damn it, man, that was in the time of our grandfathers.”
― Andrew Ashling, The Invisible Chains - Part 2: Bonds of Fear

“Though some may see their shortcomings as the greatest evil from the pit of hell, while some throw invectives at God for bringing them into a cruel, problematic world. These shortcomings are transient, the greatest evil does its work and needs no interrogation, their invectives are just a waste of time, and the world is the most sweetest to those with a functional taste buds.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson