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The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz
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it was amazing

I'd like to propose this book as required reading for the course, Life. Make four simple agreements with yourself and living becomes so much easier, so much lighter:

1. Be impeccable with your word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don’t take anything personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don’t make assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always do your best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

What I love about this book
* It's a short, captivating read. I love the efficiency of receiving so much thought-provocation in so little time.
* The agreements are applicable to everyone, everywhere, regardless of religion, gender, age, etc.
* Stories, anecdotes and examples from various beliefs are intertwined throughout, spotlighting their common bottom lines: love, life and peace.

Possibly the most life-changing book I've ever read. No, really. ?

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message 1: by Janice (new)

Janice I agree with you, Mikaela. I used the 4 agreements to help me in dealing with a difficult employer. Basically, I have tried to memorizze the 4 agreements and use them in everyday life.


Joyce I don't know why but it was the most life changing book I have read. I constantly apply the agreements to everything and it is such a great way to live!


message 3: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Do you think these ways to look at life are suitable for modern generation?


Joyce I certainly do. They are timeless. Even if a person can't get their head around the stories of the ancients he talks about they can apply the 4 agreements and improve their life. It is never a bad time to not take things personally, not make assumptions, be impeccable with your word, and do your best! I have never found any time that those 4 things when applied to my situation would not improve it.


message 5: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Joyce wrote: "I certainly do. They are timeless. Even if a person can't get their head around the stories of the ancients he talks about they can apply the 4 agreements and improve their life. It is never a bad..."

interesting... did you read "a crossing or the drop's history" by Anatoliy Obraztsov?


Joyce Melissa wrote: "Joyce wrote: "I certainly do. They are timeless. Even if a person can't get their head around the stories of the ancients he talks about they can apply the 4 agreements and improve their life. It ..." No, but I might have to add them to my "to read list" Thanks!


Darrin I agree that the agreements themselves are great and the concepts are effective. My issue is with the book itself. The agreements are fantastic, the BOOK is terrible.


´¡²Ô»å°ùé²õ Ramos Thanks Mikaela, you comment made me want to read this book so bad. I'll get it and read it as soon as I can.


Malola "I'd like to propose this book as required reading for the course, Life." = Dude, have some self respect.


message 10: by Serdal (new) - added it

Serdal Ben şahsen çok girişe kişisel gelişim kitabı okuyan birisi değilim. Öğretilerini sevdim ama sanki kitap çok tekrara düşmüş gibi bu kadar kısa bir kitabın bu kadar çok tekrara düşmesi garip geldi .Oktay Sinanoğlu'nun kitaplarını hatırlattı ;eğer uygulayabilirseniz bu dört anlaşma kötü şeyler değil ama kolay mı çok da kolay olduğunu düşünmüyorum


message 11: by Be (new)

Be Nice @malola, fair.


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