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Dale makes it clear in the book that unless you have a sincere and genuine interest in people, the priciples won't nessesarily work. You don't state which ideas you thought were "fake". I can't recall any that I would consider fake or manupulative

Most were manipulative. Manipulation is telling someone how nice of a person they are in order to get them to do something for you. I would agree with most of his ideas if there wasn't an apparent ulterior motive at play.

I agree. Just be yourself, honest and sincere and be interested in other people instead of trying to sell yourself, and the rest will follow, and it will be authentic and sustainable.

I took the class, and you could have taken the words "used-car salesman-like" out of of my mouth. Ugh.

I completely understand how you could feel that. If I were you, I would probably feel exactly the same way. Now, I could be wrong about this, I'm certainly not the author, and I have been wrong many times in my life, but I think perhaps his message might have been that you should train yourself to actually feel this way, amd act this way in life, rather than using it as a parlor trick to dupe people into doing what you want. Please tell me more about why you feel the way you do, I am interested to understand your viewpoint on the matter more thoroughly.

Russell wrote: "I completely understand how you could feel that. If I were you, I would probably feel exactly the same way. Now, I could be wrong about this, I'm certainly not the author, and I have been wrong man..."

Russell, you are truly a great man! you are really a man who read, understand, and apply Dale's principles correctly. I really like you!