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Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne
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it was ok
bookshelves: non-fiction, reference

Admittedly I didn't read every word (or chapter) in this book. The basic premise being that kids are experiencing stress in small doses often enough that they behave similarly to kids that suffer from one big stress and have post-traumatic stress disorder. And so we simplify. I guess I was already sold on the "simplify" idea and mostly just read looking for a few ideas. We implemented the "half the toys, then half them again" to eliminate superfluous toys, while putting a few more imaginative, creative toys easily accessible (P paints every day now...which isn't a problem, we just had to gear up to deal with the mess more often!). I do admit that P noticed nothing missing, and did pull out a few of the toys she hadn't touched in ages, so we must have done something right. But the big question is...what do you do for gift-giving periods when you are trying to not add more "stuff"??

Some of the other chapters just weren't applicable yet, though some day they might be. Neither of our kids are old enough to be enrolled in tons of activities, so they have ample free play time. We are making an effort to keep the laptops out of the play area since that was impacting play negatively.
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message 1: by Cindi (new)

Cindi One thing we have done during gift giving times that I hope to continue is to make the family vacation the family present. If we needed camping supplies for the family trip, we might buy some of those for presents. Or, one year I made t-shirts for everyone with the name of the place we were going and wrapped those up.


message 2: by Amylouise (new) - added it

Amylouise Adira @Cindi, neat ideas! Thanks


message 3: by Kate (new)

Kate For birthdays, we ask people to bring their favorite memory of the year. This has been somewhat successful: we've gotten a lot of great memories and friends warm to this easily, but it's difficult for family who don't visit often and grandparents insist on buying gifts...


Doris We have started doing service minded birthday parties. I asked my kids if they want to raise money or do a project. They can pick a charity and I ask parents of invited kids to please donate money to the chosen charity. Or they choose a project, like picking up trash at a park. I was not sure how my kids would react, but they loved it.
For Christmas, I get each child one gift and so does my husband, and they get one gift from Santa. This is also the first year we have done this and they were happier this year than last.


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