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Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness
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This very small volume was not an easy read. Mr. Styron eases us into his own story by relating stories of other writers and artists who experienced deep depression. Some made it through but most did not. His stories are liberally laced with a depth of understanding that he acknowledged could only come to those who have experienced it.
We are not talking about a few days or even depression over a week or two, but rather months where the elevator keeps going down no matter how many times one thumps the Up button.
The rawness of Mr. Styron’s descent into deep depression is what made it difficult to read. As he said, the wide variety of symptoms and idiosyncrasies of depression continue to make it difficult to treat. There is no simple ‘cure� and no ‘one remedy suits all� like there are for other diseases and illnesses.
The relentless descriptions of the reality he was being bombarded with every day for months were an education that I will not soon forget. I will also never forget that he did succeed in moving through it; just as his elevator skimmed the rock bottom of his life, it changed direction and began a slow and laborious climb upward again.
Not without a near-crisis, and not without a lot of help. He emphasizes that point and also has some solid advice and words of wisdom to pass on to anyone who lives with a sufferer of depression, be it family or friends.
Oh, and he also said he hoped that a better word would someday be found for this disease as he felt “depression� to be too dull and boring and not even close to describing the fierce and painful storms that occur in the mind and emotions of those suffering from debilitating depression.
I do recommend this book to anyone who may be confronting depression themselves or that of a family member or friend. It could help to save someone’s life.
We are not talking about a few days or even depression over a week or two, but rather months where the elevator keeps going down no matter how many times one thumps the Up button.
The rawness of Mr. Styron’s descent into deep depression is what made it difficult to read. As he said, the wide variety of symptoms and idiosyncrasies of depression continue to make it difficult to treat. There is no simple ‘cure� and no ‘one remedy suits all� like there are for other diseases and illnesses.
The relentless descriptions of the reality he was being bombarded with every day for months were an education that I will not soon forget. I will also never forget that he did succeed in moving through it; just as his elevator skimmed the rock bottom of his life, it changed direction and began a slow and laborious climb upward again.
Not without a near-crisis, and not without a lot of help. He emphasizes that point and also has some solid advice and words of wisdom to pass on to anyone who lives with a sufferer of depression, be it family or friends.
Oh, and he also said he hoped that a better word would someday be found for this disease as he felt “depression� to be too dull and boring and not even close to describing the fierce and painful storms that occur in the mind and emotions of those suffering from debilitating depression.
I do recommend this book to anyone who may be confronting depression themselves or that of a family member or friend. It could help to save someone’s life.
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You are most welcome, Celia! I sincerely hope that you find inspiration from these pages. Although it's not a cheerful story, I did find it inspiring.

Thank you so much, Jennifer! I have been faithfully "liking" reviews but not daring to comment because quite often when I went to post them, the error message would come up. Another GR friend was also having this problem but she would just try again an hour or so later and could get back on. By then, I would have my nose back in a book so I would just wait until the next day - when it would usually happen all over again. hahaha

Reading your comment has sent chill bumps up and down my arms, Meredith! Thank you so much for your lovely feedback!


You are unfailingly kind and generous in your comments, Victoria - thank you so much. The elevator experience came to me as I was writing my review - I visualize as I read and in this book the feeling I got from his descriptions of what he was experiencing was of a small, dark box - the elevator image that came while writing my review was based on a real elevator ride deep into the earth into a gold mine.


You are so welcome, Melissa - and thank you for your lovely comment. What a beautiful soul you are to help out your family in this way. It is definitely not easy to be a caretaker for someone going through this torment, but I think Mr. Styron offers help in the way of encouragement and understanding. His wife stood by him and was there for him the entire time. Once he came through it, he realized just how valuable her patience and endurance had been.


I agree, Melissa. Books have an amazing ability to make a difference where no amount of family discussions alone seem to help. :)

You are so welcome, Laysee - and thank you for your supportive comment. I agree that this is a very important and helpful book.


You are most welcome, Bernadette - and thank you for your kind and caring comment! There must be a way to come up with a better "label" - if someone could invent it, I would definitely sign a petition to send to the medical agencies.

Thank you so much, Kendall! It was indeed a very emotional read and strangely, I was left with not only more knowledge about this debilitating illness, but also more hope. This book really needs to be required reading for all medical specialists in mental health, too. It is vital that they realize that each case is going to be uniquely different and that they will need to work harder to get past platitudes and their favourite drug of choice if their intent is to really help people.

Great way to express it, Holly! It is definitely a powerful read!

When I read this review of yours, I had not yet read anything by Mr. Styron, but I am finishing up Sophie's Choice today and now I am sitting up, paying close attention. What a writer! I am only so sorry that he suffered like this.

When I read this review of yours, I had not yet read anything by Mr. Styron, but I am finishing up Sophie's Choice today and now I am sitting up, paying close attention. What a writer! I am..."
Thank you for your lovely comment, Julie! Sophie's Choice was my first read of Mr. Styron's work - I read it shortly after it came out in paperback and experienced a book hangover for a long time after. I, too, was sorry to hear that he suffered this illness - and I was also inspired by how he didn't give up, but kept looking for solutions so he could return to wellness. Inspiring!


Thank you for your kind comment, Stacey. It does have a lot of hope in it and could be inspiring. At the same time, I completely understand that certain books will call us only when we're ready - and some may never call us at all. :)

Mr. Styron says that the most mystifying part for doctors is that each person is different and what works for one does not necessarily work for another. My wish is that you, along with your family and doctor, are able to find what will work for you in a long-term remission.

Thank you, dear and talented JV, for your most generous comment. I am humbled. 💖
Apologies for the hiccup: edited for a typo and I know the site does not handle edits well.

Thank you so much for your perceptiveness, Paula! It was definitely a tough read, although there is also hope and inspiration within it that helped to balance it out. :)

Thank you for your kind comment, Paromjit . . . xx