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“It is said that man is wolf to man. I find this very unfair to wolves.”
― Frans de Waal, Primates and Philosophers: How Morality Evolved

“Many of us imagine carrying out dramatic changes in impoverished places, but few have the patience for the small, time-consuming, and seemingly endless details that make it possible.”
― Deni Y. Bechard

“MILFs rule Bonoboville”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Deep in the heart of the hot, wet African rainforest, there lives a tribe of peacemakers who share a multiplicity of pleasures and make a very special kind of love. South of the sprawling Congo River, in the midst of war-ravaged territory, some 2,000 miles from the arid Ethiopian desert where the oldest human fossils have been found, lies this lush and steamy jungle paradise, the only natural habitat of the bonobo.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Both bonobos and common chimps are as close to humans as foxes are to dogs. I don鈥檛 know about you, but that鈥檚 closer than I feel to some of my human relatives.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Puritans, like poachers, shoot to kill your inner bonobo”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“In Bonoboville, the females gently but firmly rule the roost, keeping the males gentle and firm”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Mommy, Daddy, what are they doing?鈥� a little girl asked, watching the bonobos play. Her forehead and palms were pressed against the glass, as if she thought she could break on through to the other side and join them if only she pushed hard enough.

鈥淟ooks like they need private time!鈥� her father barked back, steering the girl away from the window as her mother brightly proposed, 鈥淟et鈥檚 go see the hippos!鈥�

Not everybody is quite ready for the Bonobo Way, and far be it from me to push it on anyone, especially some stressed-out parents at the zoo.

On the other hand, maybe they鈥檙e more ready than they realize. Ready or not, its moment has come. The time is now for human beings to step up to the plate and protect our kissing cousins from extinction, as well as learn as much as we can from them about our noblest and kinkiest characteristics, our capacity for peace (even world peace) through pleasure, more satisfying relationships, better communication, hotter sex and deeper love.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Release your Inner Bonobo”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Party like a bonobo!”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Lana is a voluptuous brunette with a seductive smile and big, sparkling, cocoa eyes. Flirtatious and fun-loving, she has a couple of boyfriends, but enjoys her gal pals just as much, if not more. Though she loves to party and play practical jokes, she鈥檚 a conscientious mom and respected leader in her community. Gentle yet assertive, she can be fierce when crossed, but she鈥檚 also quick to forgive, turning hostility into harmony with remarkable empathy and a playful flair. In many ways, she鈥檚 just like a lot of wonderful women we all know. But Lana is not a woman, nor even human. Lana is a bonobo.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Interestingly, bonobo percussionists prefer a tempo of 280 beats per minute, the syllabic rate at which most humans speak.”
― Dr Susan Block

“Like my prehistoric hunter-gatherer ancestors, I hit the road fairly often in my footloose youth. From Yale鈥檚 Dramat to Afghanistan鈥檚 Bamiyan Buddhas, from the tantric ashrams of Kathmandu to the libertine scenes of the C么te D鈥橝zur and deep down into the dungeons of New York鈥檚 aptly named meat-packing district, I searched and researched sex, love and the politics of pleasure (mostly among humans)...

All of that searching and researching climaxed when I met my favorite research subject, who turned into my primary research partner and 鈥減rime mate,鈥� my charming Prince Max. Unlike so many sex researchers who fall in and out of love (with their research as well as each other), we鈥檙e still researching, still married and, almost three decades later, more in love than ever thanks to a little bit of luck and the Bonobo Way.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“I loved the zebras, the cheetahs, the fruit flies, the octopi and the rest. But The Nature of Sex 鈥渃limaxed鈥� with a species I鈥檇 never heard of before, 鈥渂onobos,鈥� which the narrator also called by their Latin/scientific name Pan paniscus. I knew 鈥淧an鈥� as classical Greek mythology鈥檚 horned and horny god of the wild, so maybe I shouldn鈥檛 have been surprised. But when the bonobos started swinging onto my screen, well鈥� what can I say? Today, I鈥檝e got a whole book鈥檚 worth of stuff to say, but back then, I couldn鈥檛 utter a word. Imagine looking into an evolutionary funhouse mirror and seeing a side of yourself you鈥檝e never seen before, shocking yet deeply familiar.

鈥淲ho are these vibrant, joyful creatures that look so much like me, only hairier?鈥� I wondered. 鈥淎nd what鈥檚 with all the sex?鈥� They weren鈥檛 just going at it for procreation. They were engaging in sex for recreation and interpersonal communication, very much like humans, but without the pretense, hypocrisy and shame. I got very excited, but no, I still didn鈥檛 want to have sex with them. I wanted to have sex like them (at least occasionally), in that playful yet deeply meaningful way of theirs I started calling the Bonobo Way.

But would it keep our sex life out of the dreaded sinkhole? Only time would tell.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“I squinted through the big window, a portal to another world, trying to get a better view of the primal love scene before us. All I could see was a mass of wriggling fur and finger-like toes until my eyes focused in on one male and two females kissing, ear-tonguing and giving each other enthusiastic oral sex, punctuated with occasional somersaults, smacks and nibbles on fruit and leaves. Sometimes they interacted as a threesome. Other times, two would cavort together, while the third played with herself, alternating between fingering and using a red rubber ball as a kind of sex toy, rubbing and bouncing it vigorously against her large pink vulva.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Bonobos are... ambassadors from a primordial world of peace through pleasure, inviting us in one kiss at a time.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Though bonobos tend to be a lot hairier than us鈥攁nd they don鈥檛 build houses or churches or Pentagons like we do鈥攖hese primates look and act remarkably human. They often even go beyond the merely 鈥渉uman,鈥� and enter the realm of the truly 鈥渉umane.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Studies are one thing, but then there鈥檚 just the way bonobos make you feel. They鈥檙e so 鈥渁lmost-human鈥� on so many levels that science doesn鈥檛 even know how to test yet. Just look into any bonobo鈥檚 big brown eyes, and you may well feel like you鈥檙e connecting with a living version of the Missing Link.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Meet the bonobos, the rare and marvelous 鈥渕ake love not war鈥� great apes who swing through the trees as well as with each other.”
― Susan Block, The Bonobo Way

“Behavior doesn't fossilize. This is why speculations about human prehistory are often based on what we know about other primates. Their behavior indicates the range of behavior our ancestors may have shown.”
― Frans de Waal, Our Inner Ape: A Leading Primatologist Explains Why We Are Who We Are

“We humans will be diminished if we cannot even protect the animals closest to us, who share almost all of our genes, and who differ from us only by degree.”
― Frans de Waal, Our Inner Ape: A Leading Primatologist Explains Why We Are Who We Are