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“Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.”
― Shannon Alder, 300 Questions to Ask Your Parents Before It's Too Late [Paperback] Shannon L. Alder

“People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading their guns.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand you because of their own ego, fear and lack of spirituality. What's sadder is when they are Christian.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“As long as we keep the elephant in the room and we persist ignoring it, we won’t be capable of unlearning people from ‘phubbingâ€� their way through life. ("Even if the world goes down, my mobile will save me")”
― Erik Pevernagie

“Sleep is like a cat: It only comes to you if you ignore it. I drank more and continued my mantra. 'Stop thinking', swig, 'empty your head', swig, 'now, seriously empty your head'.”
― Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

“Among her other talents were forgetting what she did not like and ignoring what she preferred not to see.”
― Anna Godbersen, Bright Young Things

“If there was any great lesson in life it was this: No battle was ever won with silence.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“You can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to see the light.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“If there’s one thing I learned in Alanon, it’s that you got to face the music because it just grows louder when you ignore it.”
― Vicki Covington, Bird of Paradise

“When religious people take the stance that they don’t owe anyone that is hurting closure or answers then God is not winning. Conflict continues because of lack of communication, fear and indifference.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Silence is such a lost art. Not every bait requires a response, and not every situation requires a status update.”
― Andrena Sawyer

“You know men!! As soon as you give in to them, they ignore you.”
― Marjane Satrapi, Embroideries

“But ignoring something doesn't make it less real, y'know. Something isn't fiction just because you choose not to acknowledge it.”
― Steven T. Seagle, It's a Bird...

“Each time something more interesting than you turns upâ€� at work, a person, an opportunity—he will ignore you again. The disappointment each time this takes place can be paralysing. I presented the idea of being “enough.â€� Always remember, you are more than enough, always have been, always will be. The narcissist also never feels like he is enough, so he is always seeking attention and affirmation from the outside. If he is never enough, then no one else is either, but he is not aware of this dynamic. It would be an entirely different experience if he sat with you and said, “I am very empty, and I will never feel like I am enough, so I know that I will always treat you like you are not enough, even though you are.â€� If your partner had that level of insight, then he would not be narcissistic.”
― Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

“How is ignoring me working out for you?”
― Steven Magee

“Tell me, since how long you have been handling someone else's storms without complaining a bit while ignoring your own?”
― Nitya Prakash

“To say they are ignoring what is happening at the college would not quite be true, or not quite fair. A few sick strangers--those poor kids, but none from the classes they teach--is only one of a hundred bad stories that must be overlooked every day. To close one’s eyes can be an act of survival.”
― Karen Thompson Walker, The Dreamers

“It will be interesting to see where ignoring me will take you in the long term.”
― Steven Magee

“Any dismissal or ignoring of an inspirational thought is like putting the brakes on creativity.”
― Steven Redhead, Life Is a Dance

“I know it's best not to be bitter about some of the people I've known, she said, but some days that takes a lot of ignoring the facts.
—Ignoring Facts”
― Brian Andreas, Theories of Everything

“Then tell me, if it's so obviously wrong, why were you the only one reacting?'

He had a point. But it was a point that disturbed Terrance rather than reassured him. 'So I should just ignore those things?'

'Yes. And I assure you, after you do it enough times, you'll stop seeing them completely, and all this craziness will go away.”
― Frank J. Fleming, Sidequest: In Realms Ungoogled

“If you don't respect me,
simply ignoring you is a relief.”
― Toba Beta, Master of Stupidity

“Ignoring current and past worker health issues and deaths is facilitating the biologically toxic field of professional astronomy for the foreseeable future.”
― Steven Magee, Toxic Altitude

“Accept it, Ignore it or Change it but don't complain”
― Kunal Tandel (KT)

“Ignoring how much I miss you doesn't make it go away.”
― Hadinet Tekie

“...sometimes I wondered if I heard his breath catch, only for a heartbeat. I never had the nerve to ask if he was awake.

He never woke when the nightmares dragged me from sleep; never woke when I vomited my guts up night after night. If he knew of heard, he said nothing about it.

I knew similar dreams chased him from slumber as often as I fled from mine. The first time it happened, I'd awoken- tried to speak to him. But he'd shaken off my touch, his skin clammy, and had shifted into that beast of fur and claws and horns and fangs. He'd spent the rest of the night sprawled across the foot of the bed, monitoring the door, the wall of windows.

He'd since spent many nights like that.”
― Sarah J. Maas, A Court of Mist and Fury

“After all, the media was flooded with stories about people suffering from post-traumatic stress; his behavior had seemed understandable. It wasn't until the Paris riots that she realized how much he'd changed, as though some dark seed buried inside him had found the ideal conditions for growth. And after he left, she was forced to recognize how she'd changed as well, her determined cheerfulness and willful ignorance, her ability to read the newspaper and then push the unpleasantness from her mind (how typical, how bourgeoisie, how very American, she thought now), as though the world wasn't shifting very much at all, as though everything wasn't disintegrating beneath them.”
― Laura van den Berg, What the World Will Look Like When All the Water Leaves Us: Stories

“It might be convenient for you to want to talk after weeks of ignoring me, but I have class right now.”
― Rebecca Yarros, Fourth Wing

“Doris was talking about the Orwells, and J.C. was talking about his princess, and asking when the cookies would be done, and neither one was really listening to the other. That's the way all conversations, really satisfying ones, are carried on.”
― Ann Petry, The Narrows