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“A flower bloomed already wilting. Beginning its life with an early ending.”
― RJ Gonzales, Mundahlia

“Don’t listen to those people who suggest you should be “overâ€� your daughter’s death by now. The people who squawk the loudest about such
things have almost never had to get over anything. Or at least not anything that was genuinely, mind-fuckingly, soul-crushingly life altering. Some of
those people believe they’re being helpful by minimizing your pain. Others are scared of the intensity of your loss and so they use their words to
push your grief away. Many of those people love you and are worthy of your love, but they are not the people who will be helpful to you when it
comes to healing the pain of your daughter’s death.
They live on Planet Earth. You live on Planet My Baby Died.”
― Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

“Loss is only temporary when you believe in God!”
― Latoya Alston

“Hart caressed the letters of baby Graham’s name. “Mac likes to say, We’re Mackenzies. We break what we touch. But this little Mackenzieâ€� he broke me.”
― Jennifer Ashley, The Duke's Perfect Wife

“In the game of life;
Sometimes we win,
Sometimes we loss,
Either ways, we should always keep playing.”
― Lailah Gifty Akita, Think Great: Be Great!

“It doesn't seem FAIR, said Anne rebelliously. Babies are born and live where they are not wanted-where they will be neglected-where they have no chance. I would have loved my baby so-and cared for it tenderly-and tried to give her every chance for good. And yet I wasn't allowed to keep her.”
― L.M. Montgomery, Anne's House of Dreams

“When you look back with regret, that (regret, loss) becomes your focus.
Then your focus directs you: you go back to that � again and again.
Choose a new rudder: Look forward now � and focus on your passion with joyful anticipation.
Then your passion will fill the empty space of your loss...and where you land up will amaze you!”
― The Truth AD Infinitum

“It's a happy life and someone is missing.”
― Elizabeth McCracken

“When you look back with regret, that (regret, loss) becomes your focus.
Then your focus directs you: you go back to that � again and again.
Look forward now � and focus on your passions with joyful anticipation.
Then your passion will fill the gap of your loss...and where you land us will amaze you!”
― The TRUTH

“You make me want to do things I’ve never done before. Never wanted to do before,â€� she whispered.”
― C.C. MacKenzie, A Stormy Spring

“He would not want to sound like a haunted man; he would not want to sound as though he was calling from a welfare hotel, years too late, to say Yes, that was a baby we had together, it would have been a baby. For he could not help now but recall the doctor explaining about that child, a boy, who had appeared so mysteriously perfect in the ultrasound. Transparent, he had looked, and gelatinous, all soft head and quick heart; but he would have, in being born, broken every bone in his body.”
― Gish Jen, Who's Irish?

“We were not criminals. We're mothers. The difference was I was not an authenticated mother. I was an illegal mother. I was a denied mother. And I had to come home and live my life after being robbed of my child. It's as if I was an unwilling accomplice to the kidnapping of my own child. So you have to live with the trauma of losing your child and then you have to live with the trauma of knowing you didn't stop it. How do you do that?”
― Ann Fessler, The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade