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“People pleasing doesn't allow you to receive.”
― Abiola Abrams, The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love

“If you find yourself craving approval, you are low on self-love. Stop grasping for a few scraps wherever you can. Go home and make yourself a feast. Love yourself deeply today.”
― Vironika Tugaleva

“Because children take everything personally, they believe that if they are being mistreated, it's because they haven't been “good enough.â€� Being good as an adult makes them believe, incorrectly, that they have some control in life. They think that they will be rewarded for their goodness and that it will protect them from harm.”
― Marcia Sirota

“We may call it "people pleasing," but it is entirely self-serving because it is really all about keeping myself comfortable. Boiled down, it could be more accurately called "me pleasing.”
― Emily P. Freeman, Grace for the Good Girl: Letting Go of the Try-Hard Life

“The biggest mistake we commit in life is to think that others will get affected by our action and we shall leave some effect on them..
In this hope, we make others' reactions our priority and fail to perform the task we're supposed to do right at the moment.”
― Himmilicious

“People-pleasers feel they must constantly be performing acts of service to others to gain acceptance. That requires a lot of work, effort, and energy. From the book: Removing Your Shame Label.”
― Eddie Capparucci, LPC

“If they were there for you when you had nothing, they are the ones worth having now. If they only notice you because of what you have gained, are they worth having at all?”
― Donna Lynn Hope

“The increased desire to please God and seek HIS approval will decrease the desire to seek approval from man.”
― Yvonne Pierre, The Day My Soul Cried: A Memoir

“See no good, hear no good, speak no good; and the people will eventually find you good!”
― Huseyn Raza

“So she prayed, Lord, give me patience. She knew that was not an honest prayer, and she did not linger over it....it cost her tears to think that her situation might actually be that desolate, so she prayed again for patience, for tact, for understanding--for every virtue that might keep her safe from conflicts that would be sure to leave her wounded, every virtue that might at least help her to preserve an appearance of dignity, for heaven's sake.”
― Marilynne Robinson, Home

“If I were surrounded by people who always approved of me, I wouldn’t need such a deep relationship with my own sense of right and wrong. And you know what that means? It means that other people’s approval is actually a hindrance, more than a helper, when it comes to self-discovery.”
― Vironika Tugaleva

“Be wary of the praise of men; don't let it pump you up unnecessarily and don't let it paralyze your progress”
― Bernard Kelvin Clive