"If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, Infinite" (William Blake)
For a long time, I knew that one of my fa
"If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, Infinite" (William Blake)
For a long time, I knew that one of my fav bands, "The Doors", has taken their name from this book, so I understood there would come a day in which I will read it. That day came last week, and since then, I've read it twice (it's a short book).
"The Doors of Perception" started curiously, and I liked the beginning. Then I thought, "Well, maybe it is not my cup of tea", and then I shifted to "Wow, this book is fantastic and eye-opening."
I would not say I'm interested in peyote, but I genuinely enjoyed how Aldous Huxley explains his transcendental journey to his inner self by consuming mescaline. He has many interesting thoughts and talks about art, music, religion, nature, education.
"Most men and women lead lives at the worst so painful, at the best so monotonous, poor and limited that the urge to escape, the longing to transcend themselves if only for a few moments, is and has always been one of the principal appetites of the soul. Art and religion, carnivals and saturnalia, dancing and listening to oratory -all these have served, in H. G. Wells's phrase, as Doors in the Wall. And for private, far everyday use there have always been chemical intoxicants. All the vegetable sedatives and narcotics, all the euphorics that grow on trees, the hallucinogens that ripen in berries or can be squeezed from roots -all, without exception, have been known and systematically used by human beings from time immemorial."
I'm sure I will re-read this book many times and maybe do a proper review. :)...more
A fantastic collection of daily meditations which I have been listening before going to bed. It has helped me to refresh my mind, to be calm and it haA fantastic collection of daily meditations which I have been listening before going to bed. It has helped me to refresh my mind, to be calm and it has made me think and reflect on many of the philosophical ideas. I foresee many re-reads. :)...more
That's what Nora Seed is doing in the multiverse presented by the "The Midnight Library". She is consulting the boLiving the Schrödinger's cat's life.
That's what Nora Seed is doing in the multiverse presented by the "The Midnight Library". She is consulting the book of regrets of her root life and trying to find the best place for her. Unavoidably, Nora is facing essential questions like "What is success?", "Is success money?", "Is success fame?" and "Is happiness the aim?".
The book's whole concept is unique, and there are many life lessons in the story.
"The Midnight Library" is big on mental health and suicide prevention. I found that the story is reflecting real experiences of the author Matt Haig which makes it even more special. The book is also full of little pearls of wisdom that I loved collecting.
A pleasant surprise was that the story starts with Sylvia Plath's quote:
"I want to live and feel all the shades, tones and variations of mental and physical experience possible in my life."
Like in all good stories, there is a librarian, and they have a superpower.
"Librarians have knowledge. They guide you to the right books, the right words. They find the best places like soul-enhanced search engines."
One of my favourite parts is this chess allegory.
"And even if you were a pawn � maybe we all are � then you should remember that a pawn is the most magical piece of all. It might look small and ordinary but it isn't. Because a pawn is never just a pawn. A pawn is a queen-in-waiting. All you need to do is find a way to keep moving forward. One square after another. And you can get to the other side and unlock all kinds of power."
An important point that patience usually leads to big rewards:
"It was interesting, how life sometimes simply gave you a whole new perspective by waiting around long enough for you to see it."
Another favourite part was this yin & yang volcano allegory:
"The paradox of volcanoes was that they were symbols of destruction but also life. Once the lava slows and cools, it solidifies and then breaks down over time to become soil - rich, fertile soil. She wasn't a black hole, she decided. She was a volcano. And like a volcano, she couldn't run away from herself. She'd have to stay there and tend to that wasteland. She could plant a forest inside herself."
One of the most definitive moments in the book is what Nora has learnt in the end:
(Written By A Nobody Who Has Been Everybody) "It is easy to mourn the lives we aren't living in. Easy to wish we'd developed other talents, said yes to different offers. Easy to wish we'd worked harder, loved better, handled our finances more astutely, been more popular, stayed in the band, gone to Australia, said yes to the coffee or done more bloody yoga. It takes no effort to miss the friends we didn't make and the work we didn't do and the people we didn't marry and the children we didn't have. It is not difficult to see yourself through the lens of other people and to wish you were all the different kaleidoscopic versions of you they wanted you to be. It is easy to regret and keep regretting, ad infinitude until our time runs out. But it is not the lives we regret not living that are the real problem. It is regret itself. It's the regret that makes us shrivel and wither and feel like our own and other peoples worst enemy. We can't tell if any of those other versions would have been better or worse. Those lives are happening, it is true, but you are happening as well, and that is the happening we have to focus on. Of course, we can't visit every place or meet every person or do every job, yet most of what we would feel in any life is still available. We don't have to play every game to know what winning feels like. We don't have to hear every piece of music in the world to understand music. We don't have to have tried every variety of grape from every vineyard to know the pleasure of wine. Love and laughter and fear and pain are universal currencies. We just have to close our eyes and savour the taste of the drink in front of us and listen to the song as it plays. We are as completely and utterly alive as we are in any other life and have access to the same emotional spectrum. We only need to be one person. We only need to feel one existence. We don't have to do everything in order to be everything, because we are already infinite. While we are alive we always contain a future of multifarious possibility. So let's be kind to the people in our own existence. Let's occasionally look up from the spot in which we are because, wherever we happen to be standing, the sky above goes on forever. Yesterday I knew I had no future, and that is was impossible for me to accept my life as it is now. And yet today, that same messy life seems full of hope. Potential. The impossible, I suppose, happens via living. Will my life be miraculously free from pain, despair, grief, heartbreak, hardship, loneliness, depress. No. But do I want to live? Yes. A thousand times. Yes."
The idea and the whole story are brilliant, but I couldn't properly feel the book's spirit. It felt awkward in some moments. Despite that, I enjoyed the book, and I think it is worth reading....more
"To attain knowledge add things every day. To attain wisdom subtract things every day." (Lao Tzu)
"Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less" is no
"To attain knowledge add things every day. To attain wisdom subtract things every day." (Lao Tzu)
"Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less" is now among my fav non-fiction books. It is a wonderful and an essential book for productivity and not only (there is a little bit of leadership and wellbeing too).
The book provides a lot of influential stories and examples that would help you see the benefits of being an essentialist and apply them to your work and life.
Essentialism is not a new concept and has been out there for thousands of years. What this book is about, is building a system and having a process to plan your tasks betters and be more contributive.
How the author, Greg McKeown, explains it in the shortest possible way is "Less but better". The book is about making efficient choices of what to invest your energy and time in, so that you achieve more. The tricky part is that you need to question yourself what is essential and eliminate everything else. That's not an easy task, but it is rewarding and would matter more in the long run.
You would need to ask yourself some tough questions to be able to eliminate the non-essential. You would need to challenge your assumptions and embrace the fact that it all comes with the trade-offs. It would also require serious discipline to trim out the competing priorities that distract you from your true intentions.
"The word priority came into the English language in the 1400s. It was singular. It meant the very first or prior thing. It stayed singular for the next five hundred years. Only in the 1900s did we pluralize the term and start talking about priorities."
Your choices define your goals "by design". If you don't make deliberate choices, they will define your goals "by default". Preferably, it would be best if you decided what to do with your schedule and not leave it to other people to choose this for you. What I liked a lot in the book was the chapter dedicated to the fact that you have a choice, and by being more selective, you will feel greater freedom to do your work.
"To discover what's essential, you need five elements: - space to escape and think - time to listen and observe - opportunity to play - time to sleep - selective criteria for making your choices."
The section about "playing" was explained very well: A non-essentialist would think that play is a waste of time while the essentialist knows it is how our brain works. By playing, we become more creative and inquisitive, get new ideas, and this is how we explore the world.
"The word school is derived from the Greek word schole, meaning "leisure"
Imagination is the source of every form of human achievement. And it's the one thing that I believe we are systematically jeopardizing in the way we educate our children and ourselves.
Stuart Brown, the founder of the National Institute for Play, has studied what are called the play histories of some six thousand individuals and has concluded that play has the power to significantly improve everything from personal health to relationships to education to organizations' ability to innovate. "Play," he says, "leads to brain plasticity, adaptability, and creativity." As he succinctly puts it, "Nothing fires up the brain like play."
Another of my favourite chapters teaches us how important it is sometimes to say "no" and there are many examples of how to introduce yourself in doing it.
There are two stories among all the stories in the book that stuck to me. The first one is that taking an essentialist's approach can be compared to organising your closet. It can get disorganised pretty quickly, even if you purge it frequently. Without a system for dealing with it, you will end up at the same place as at the beginning - a messy closet. What an essentialist would do is to explore it, then evaluate and eliminate what is not needed.
"Instead of asking, "Is there a chance I will wear this someday in the future?" you ask more disciplined, tough questions: "Do I love this?" and "Do I look great in it?" and "Do I wear this often?" If the answer is no, then you know it is a candidate for elimination. In your personal or professional life, the equivalent of asking yourself which clothes you love is asking yourself, "Will this activity or effort make the highest possible contribution toward my goal?" Part One of this book will help you figure out what those activities are."
The other great story that fascinated me was that of the two airlines. Southwest Airlines made a deliberate choice of their business model, and they thought about and embraced the trade-offs.
"Rather than try to fly to every destination, they had deliberately chosen to offer only point-to-point flights. Instead of jacking up prices to cover the cost of meals, they decided they would serve none. Instead of assigning seats in advance, they would let people choose them as they got on the plane. Instead of upselling their passengers on glitzy first-class service, they offered only coach. These trade-offs weren't made by default but by design. Each and every one was made as part of a deliberate strategy to keep costs down. Did they run the risk of alienating customers who wanted the broader range of destinations, the choice to purchase overpriced meals, and so forth? Yes, but Kelleher was totally clear about what the company was—a low-cost airline—and what they were not. And his trade-offs reflected as much."
Then Continental Airlines tried to apply the same business model on top of their primary model. They acted as non-essentialists and thought they could do it all.
"They called their new point-to-point service Continental Lite…and adopted some of Southwest's practices. They lowered their fares. They got rid of meals. They stopped their first class service. They increased the frequency of departures. The problem was that because they were still hanging onto their existing business model (Continental Lite accounted for only a small percentage of flights offered by the airline), they didn't have the operational efficiencies that would allow them to compete."
I would highly recommend this book to anyone. It's a short book and definitely worth the read. "Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less" is now among the books I like to gift the most together with "Never Split the Difference" and "Atomic Habits"....more
Fantastic essay on feminism. It’s a very short one, but it feels complete as it touches on many different areas and misconceptions about what feminismFantastic essay on feminism. It’s a very short one, but it feels complete as it touches on many different areas and misconceptions about what feminism is and what it’s not.
Feminism is a term that is indeed heavy with baggage, so this book comes as a much-needed conversation everyone should have with themselves and their friends.
Many things in the book are so relatable and click easily with me. Gender equality has gone a long way, and we are indeed more equal now than before, but there is still a lot of unconscious bias in both men and women. Therefore, we should all be feminists as gender equality will make not only women happier but also men.
Some notable quotes:
“If we do something over and over, it becomes normal. If we see the same thing over and over, it becomes normal.�
“A woman at a certain age who is unmarried, our society teaches her to see it as a deep personal failure. And a man, after a certain age, isn’t married, we just think he hasn’t come around to making his pick.�
“Culture does not make people. People make culture. If it is true that the full humanity of women is not our culture, then we can and must make it our culture.�
“The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing how we are. Imagine how much happier we would be, how much freer to be our true individual selves, if we didn’t have the weight of gender expectations.�
“A Nigerian acquaintance once asked me if I was worried that men would be intimidated by me. I was not worried at all—it had not even occurred to me to be worried because a man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the kind of man I would have no interest in.�
“A world of happier men and happier women who are truer to themselves. And this is how to start: We must raise our daughters differently. We must also raise our sons differently.�
“I looked the word up in the dictionary, it said: Feminist: a person who believes in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes. My great-grandmother, from stories I’ve heard, was a feminist. She ran away from the house of the man she did not want to marry and married the man of her choice. She refused, protested, spoke up when she felt she was being deprived of land and access because she was female. She did not know that word feminist. But it doesn’t mean she wasn’t one. More of us should reclaim that word. The best feminist I know is my brother Kene, who is also a kind, good-looking, and very masculine young man. My own definition is a feminist is a man or a woman who says, yes, there’s a problem with gender as it is today and we must fix it, we must do better. All of us, women and men, must do better.�...more
It's a good book, and it almost ticks all of my boxes but not quite.
The things that I liked about it: - The story - The maths and physics conce3.5 stars
It's a good book, and it almost ticks all of my boxes but not quite.
The things that I liked about it: - The story - The maths and physics concepts - The original ideas (especially unfolding a proton in different dimensions) - The philosophy embedded in the story
Unfortunately, it felt a bit slow for me, and it somehow was missing integrity. The ending was powerful, but I felt a bit disappointed after all. I was told the second and third books build the story much faster, but I will probably get some rest from the series and maybe continue later....more
Such an exciting book! I was so exhilarated after reading it the first time, so I decided to read it again, setting a new record in my reading historySuch an exciting book! I was so exhilarated after reading it the first time, so I decided to read it again, setting a new record in my reading history.
It's a fantastic, educational and mind-altering book, and I'm baking a big fat review explaining WHY....more