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The Dream Lover by Elizabeth Berg
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This historical novel about George Sand is a real slow burner, and unfortunately doesn’t get much better as it goes along. Berg makes the mistake of trying to be too comprehensive about Sand’s life; it would be better to just choose illustrative vignettes or representative love affairs (e.g. with Chopin) rather than include them all. There are two different timelines, 1831�1876 and 1804�1831, such that they eventually meet up and then the one continues the story through to the end, but together they’re still just a chronological slog.

A question most people will be pondering is: why the male name and persona? Berg has a few theories. First, Sand had a sense of needing to make up for the death of her baby brother. Second, as a young reporter in Paris she could get cheap theater tickets (standing or benches), whereas women could only take box seats. Lastly, male dress conferred both anonymity and liberty: “There was an expansive freedom, not to say power, in wearing men’s clothes.�

A few tense mother–daughter relationships provide the novel’s thematic patterns. After her husband’s death, Sand’s prostitute mother left her with her mother-in-law in the French countryside (Nohant) to go to Paris with her other daughter. The irony was that Sand repeated her mother’s mistake by leaving her children with her husband, Casimir, so she could go to Paris to work and take lovers. She had a good relationship with her son, Maurice, but her daughter Solange was very difficult and pretty much hated her.

Many of Sand’s lovers were mercurial, immature young men. They were artistic but lazy and dependent, and Sand took care of them as if they were additional children. With actress Marie Dorval, however, Berg posits that Sand found her one true love. Whether this amounts to a hypothesis that Sand is bisexual, I’m not sure. As the title suggests, Berg emphasizes Sand’s devotion to the idea of love: “what consumed me most was the search for the absolute in love. First it was my mother I dedicated myself to, then God [a short time in a convent school], then a series of lovers...What we want is not the object of our desire but desire itself...One is not living when one does not use the parts of oneself that are most vital, most especially the need to love and be loved.�

The Dream Lover reminded me a bit of some of Julian Barnes’s French-set historical fiction, or maybe Lisette’s List, but the first-person narration lacks verve. Berg has loads of previous work, but most looks like chick lit, so I don’t think I’m tempted to try it. Likewise, this hasn’t really inspired me to seek out Sand’s fiction; I imagine I’d find it dated and melodramatic compared to Gustave Flaubert et al. (though I will read the one paperback of hers I think I have on shelf, Majorca).
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Reading Progress

October 23, 2014 – Shelved
October 23, 2014 – Shelved as: to-read
February 27, 2015 – Started Reading
March 2, 2015 – Shelved as: read-via-netgalley
March 2, 2015 – Shelved as: writers-and-writing
March 2, 2015 – Shelved as: historical-fiction
March 23, 2015 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Esil (new) - added it

Esil Good review Rebecca. I have this one to read from Netgalley. I keep starting it and not quite getting into it. I will have to bite the bullet at some point but based on what I've read so far, I suspect my reaction will be similar to yours.


Rebecca The ratings are looking pretty low so far. I had high hopes for this one as I usually love fictionalized biographies of writers. Berg had great material to work with but I think got bogged down with chronologies and details rather than focusing on character and voice.


Melissa I completely agree with you. The author tried to cover her entire life and if felt more like a boring non-fiction memoir than a novel. I finally quit about half-way through!


Rebecca It took me nearly a month to read...never a good sign.


message 5: by Jody (new) - rated it 1 star

Jody I don't have to leave a review because you nailed it! I totally agree.


Christine Dosa Try some of other Berg's novels. I don't consider them "Chick-Lit" at all. Talk Before Sleep is particularly satisfying.


Rebecca Thanks for the recommendation! I'd be willing to try another of her books.


Christine Dosa Glad you are open to it and I hope I haven't given you a bum steer!


Dependablepetsitter I really liked the book on CD. It was fun much more fun to listen to while driving. They speak all the French accents and it seems more real !


Rebecca Oh, that does sound fun!


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