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The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondō
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The book is short and sweet, and the author is bat-shit crazy. But. Here are two take-aways that will stay with me:
If it does not spark joy, throw it out.
And:
"My basic principle for sorting papers is to throw them all away."
Believe me - I have been throwing away (and selling, and donating to Goodwill) with a vengeance for the past few days, and tidying. I refuse to fold my socks though. Folding socks is for people with all the time in the world.
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December 26, 2014 – Shelved as: to-read
December 26, 2014 – Shelved
December 26, 2014 – Shelved as: christmas-birthday-2014
December 27, 2014 – Started Reading
December 31, 2014 – Finished Reading

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Jenny I agree. The author is off her rockers, but certainly making tons of money from this book.


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Amy Amanda Yes people who think or do things differently than you are crazy. It's best when reading a book about improving an area of your life, to read one that encourages you to think just as you always have. Because that is how change happens- by staying closed minded and not changing your thinking or perspective in any way...


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Maggie @amy amanda - I think you missed my point. This book definitely helped me change some behavior. Also, just because I called her bat-shit crazy doesn't mean I don't appreciate her general modus operandi. In fact, I'd venture that it's the bat-shit crazy people who are often the most creative and brilliant (well, when they aren't like Robert Durst). I don't have to buy into all of Kondo's rules - like emptying my handbag and filing my wallet every night - without being able to get value from her book.


Margaret Elder I tried folding one pair of socks AND stacking it vertically -- not for me!


Evonne I thought she wrote socks were to be rolled from the toe to the tops to avoid elastic issues later on. The clothes were to be stored vertically.


Evonne Agree with Amy Amanda the reviewer has a closed mind. A judgmental review doesn't really give anyone a chance to make their own decision.


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Michele Stark I'm with you, Maggie. Totally get what you're saying. And you're funny. Great review


message 8: by Gia (new) - rated it 1 star

Gia @Amy & @Evo
FFS don't get so butt-hurt because someone posts a negative review of a book that you love. It's called humor.


Julie Actually the sock folding bit made me realize why all my husband's nice dress socks (he only had 3 pairs, which he wears just for special occasions) were destroyed despite infrequent use. It was the way the elastic was stretched while they were stored, I'd bet.


Julie Actually the sock folding bit made me realize why all my husband's nice dress socks (he only had 3 pairs, which he wears just for special occasions) were destroyed despite infrequent use. It was the way the elastic was stretched while they were stored, I'd bet.


message 11: by Barb (new) - rated it 1 star

Barb Lawrence I agree with you too Maggie. We don't have to love and embrace other peoples' bat-shit crazy opinions. It's called evaluating for yourself and deciding it's ridiculous.


message 12: by Barb (new) - rated it 1 star

Barb Lawrence It's a cultural difference. She said she was shocked to see socks balled up, but it's common practice in America. Folding them back on each other keeps the pair together. Almost everyone I know does this. And I will continue, and it makes more sense to me than folding and stacking them vertically.


Tegan In all seriousness though, it takes two seconds haha.


message 14: by Barb (new) - rated it 1 star

Barb Lawrence I LIKE the way I do it. It's not about time at all.


Giorgiana She's just a little quirky, she's obsessed with her work and that's good isn't it?


message 16: by Barb (new) - rated it 1 star

Barb Lawrence I absolutely hated the book


message 17: by MJ (new) - rated it 4 stars

MJ yeah. I get it. I was so sceptical of her folding methods. Read the book weeks ago and have been purging ever since. And then (I have no idea what possessed me), last night I caved and folded my socks. I am such a convert. I want to fold EVERYTHING!! Who knew?


message 18: by Barb (new) - rated it 1 star

Barb Lawrence I have no desire whatsoever to follow any of her suggestions. That this book is popular is mind boggling to me.


message 19: by Gia (new) - rated it 1 star

Gia Barbara wrote: "I have no desire whatsoever to follow any of her suggestions. That this book is popular is mind boggling to me."

Same here, Barbara! I found nothing redeeming in this book.

But I suppose if one is a hoarder, it's because one is inordinately attached to possessions...so this business of talking to them and 'thanking them' might help such a person let go of things.


Athena Agree with you Maggie, totally got what you were saying. I'm getting a few good tips from this book but what works for me isn't going to work for someone else. Pick & choose & find one's own path. Cheers!


message 21: by Roxy (new) - rated it 2 stars

Roxy Miller Some good points in this book but some of her suggestions I would never do, such as immediately tossing boxes of new items you've purchased. I guess she has never had to return or exchange anything.


Jenny love you review. it is accurate and it made me laugh.


Salty Barbara, don't be so opaque. Tell us what you thought of the book.


Sarahanne Perfect review. I found the book helpful and some of my attitudes shifting. That said, I was in danger of spraining my eye-rolling muscles.


Rhonda The only thing in order in my house is my sock drawer and my underwear drawer and I had that perfected without her book. I am reading it now because I can't let go of some things lately and need to. So even though some of her stuff sounds crazy, I think some of her suggestions will help.


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Carole Dent I enjoyed this book because it acknowledged that we do have a relationship with our spsces and stuff. And stuff -well most of us have too much. It's a philosophy. I needed the help with letting things go. She's eccentric to be sure, and I am never going to store my books on A shelf in the closet! But I am changing my approach...


message 27: by Sara (new) - added it

Sara Love this review! Haven't read the book but this makes me want to. I didn't think of this as a negative review at all. I love me a bat-shit crazy person. Thanks Maggie.


message 28: by Laura (new)

Laura Bat-shit crazy sums it up nicely!


Juanita I guffawed when I read "... and the author is bat-shit crazy!" Thank you for that moment. I finished the book yesterday and agree!


message 30: by Jade (new) - rated it 4 stars

Jade haha" bat shit crazy". those were my exact words!


Buttoncounter it doesn't take a clinical psychologist to determine that the girl is tilted. Bat-shit crazy, is what I would be called if I started talking to my clothes, and throwing away hammers because they don't bring me joy. She is a freak show. I really don't care who disagrees with me.


Roxanne Yeah I've read 15 pages and I can tell she's insane, but just like many other things we all read every day, there's a takeaway. You don't have to be as crazy as she is for it to work. We're all able to translate crazy into "this is the part that work for me"


Margaret Yup! Bat-shit crazy describes it for me.


message 34: by Sue (new) - rated it 5 stars

Sue Olekoski This IS life changing! I haven't done her method exactly (all at once) but I've started where I can and I see AND feel the difference. The results are rewarding and keep me motivated to keep going. MUST READ if you want to learn a new perspective regarding the management of ALL YOUR STUFF.


message 35: by Melissa (new) - added it

Melissa i want a opion if i should buy the book or not, the reviews are so iffy..!!?? HELP..


message 36: by Prama (new)

Prama I like this review because it acknowledges both the author's kookiness as well as the good points she makes. Sure talking to your possessions might seem weird, but addressing each item you own does make you appreciate what you have, and when you do, you recognize the fact that you don't need all that much to live a nice life.


message 37: by Jennifer (new)

Jennifer I confess, I have started folding my socks and storing them upright. It doesn't take as much time as I thought it might, and it has given me SO much more space in my drawers, to the point that I was able to move some things from the closet into the drawers, and now the closet is much more organized, too. It does sound crazy... but don't knock it 'til you try it! ;-)


message 38: by Scott (new)

Scott Shjefte Darn those socks anyway...


Cathy If you don’t take the “does it spark joy?� thing too literally, then the book can be life changing if you truly want to purge clutter. For example, i hold up a piece of clothing and ask if I feel good wearing this. If no, then I toss it.


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