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Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott
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There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed. - Ernest Hemingway

One writer I know tells me that he sits down every morning and says to himself nicely, “It’s not like you don’t have a choice, because you do—you can either type or kill yourself.� - Anne Lamott
I have not always felt much like writing. My writer’s block, if that is what it was, and not merely the tardy development of some creative muscles, occupied a large portion of my youth. Writing papers for school was not merely a chore but a horror. I am not sure when chips were first broken from that large mass but I do recall actually having some fun as a high school sophomore, in otherwise weak report on Midsummer Night’s Dream, describing the play as “Shakespearean Slapstick.� Writing did get easier, but was never less than challenging. I have had occasion to write a bit of this and that in my working life, but my employers have all been consistent in finding no use at all for what writing ability I may possess. That impulse found its way into letters, and, for disparate periods, journaling. I managed to crank out a newsletter for the baseball and softball teams I managed, but those days are well back in the rearview. For the last fifteen years or so, I have been cranking out reviews here on ŷ, and seem to have found a rhythm. This is by no means automatic. Every one of these things, well, with one or two exceptions, takes real effort. But it is possible. It is not horrifying. I am comfortable in knowing that when I read a book I can definitely produce a review, not always a good review, but at least one that is not completely embarrassing. At the very least, it is not cadged from the kid sitting in front of me, or helped along by . I have developed my own system, an approach to how to go about it. I could probably keep at this until my ashes are strewn, but there is a piece of me that would like to take on something larger, something less reactive. And so the horror returns. It is quite clear that just because a person can write book reviews, that does not mean a person can necessarily write an actual book. My inner child begins to whine, “but I wanna, waaaaah.�

So here we are. No shortage of ideas, but massive supplies of anxiety, fear, ignorance, and self-doubt. What’s an aspiring writer to do? I may not be able to tamp down the emotional/psychological impediments, but I can try to address the ignorance piece. And one way to begin this process is to look for some advice. Which brings us to Anne Lamott. My Christmas list for 2014 included Stephen King’s On Writing and Santa came through, but his assistant, my elfin book goddess tossed in another, Lamott’s Bird by Bird (or as it might be referred to in some parts of my home borough, Boid by Boid) as well. I will be getting to King’s book in time. I had read BbB many years ago. My ambitions were different then. I expect there are times when certain books and certain readers converge. You can read a great book and not appreciate it because of where you might be in your life, but connect with it totally if you catch it at the right time. I may have incorporated a bit of this book way back when but now was definitely a propitious time for a refresher.

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Ann Lamott - image from Salon

Of course, you will be at diverse stages in your writing interests, if you indeed have such urges at all. Not everyone does. There are many ways to transport the inner to the outer and writing may not offer the right means for most. But, as you are reading this, I expect there is a good chance you like to write, and maybe want to kick it up a notch. If so, Lamott’s book is a wonderful place to find a helping hand. In fact, it is a masterpiece of the genre, rich with wisdom, offering a host of ideas about how to get from not-writing to writing, in manageable, small pieces. One thing about this book is that it is very funny. I laughed out loud a lot while reading it, which can be awkward on crowded subway cars. Hopefully some of the techniques here will provide some bandages for the Hemingway quote at the top.

She offers advice on how to get moving when you are stuck, provides cheerful, uplifting support for trying times, and permission to allow your creative process to work through its issues, up to a point. She lets us all know that Almost all good writing begins with terrible first efforts, which is very, very good to know. There are chapters on plot, character, and dialogue. Some explanation of technique. Lamott is echoing in print the writing class she teaches.

The book is eminently quotable. My personal favorite, however second hand it might be, is
E.L. Doctorow once said that “writing a novel is like driving a car at night. You can see only as far as your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way.�
Although this does ignore the obvious, that in making that trip one already is aware of the destination, and the route, still, it gives me hope. Maybe an inability to see the entire picture from the beginning does not condemn my efforts, or yours, to failure. One concern I have is that whatever I write, as seems to be the case for every idea I have ever had, has already been done, probably multiple times, and probably better. Lamott has a quote for this:
Mark Twain said that Adam was the only man who, when he said a good thing, knew that nobody had said it before. Life is like a recycling center, where all the concerns and dramas of humankind get recycled back and forth across the universe. But what you have to offer is your own sensibility, maybe your own sense of humor or insider pathos or meaning. All of us can sing the same song, and there will still be four billion different renditions.
If you are considering writing more generically, as opposed to having a specific project in mind, Lamott offers a wealth of assignments designed to get the wheels turning. And for those who dabble in analyzing books, there is plenty of intel on structure, and the dynamics of story-telling, all of which are relevant to reviewers of books.

If you harbor no aspirations to writing, Bird by Bird offers a warm, illuminating and entertaining look at some of the things writers go through, provides some insight into the process of writing, and some of the challenges writers confront. If, however, you are a writer, aspire to be a writer, or indulge in analysis of writing, Bird by Bird will feel like a kindly mentor, an older, wiser sibling maybe, who can take you by the hand and offer a gentle nudge in the right direction. Your writing may or may not soar, but Lamott’s excellent tutorial will certainly add a few feathers to your wings. Maybe those will be all you need to finally take that step away from the nest and let your creativity take flight.

Review first posted � 2/6/15

Publication date � 1994



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Reading Progress

January 9, 2015 – Shelved
January 9, 2015 – Shelved as: to-read
January 15, 2015 – Started Reading
January 20, 2015 – Finished Reading
February 5, 2015 – Shelved as: nonfiction
February 5, 2015 – Shelved as: on-writing

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cameron No doubt, as I've said before one of the best books on writing I've ever read. Her chapter on the "shitty first draft" was an eye opener for me and hilariously funny but also specifically instructive. She's attained a considerable status as a good writer in recent years and I keep meaning to read more.


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Puja And you say you 'I can definitely produce a review, not always a good review, but at least one that is not completely embarrassing'? Buddy, if you ever decide to write a book, consider at least one book sold cos I'm buying it. Loved your review and want to now read this book because of your beautiful review. You write very well, period.


Howard Thank you for this outstanding review.

I have read this book a couple of times and will probably read it again. I have also recommended it to friends and loaned it to two who did read it and later thanked me.

I think it is a great book for aspiring writers, but it is also a handy guide to life. When I am faced with any task that at first glance seems overwhelming, I remember her father's advice to her brother on how to approach such a problem: do it "bird by bird." It works.


Will Byrnes This is definitely a top-of-the-heap item on writing


Will Byrnes Puja wrote: "And you say you 'I can definitely produce a review, not always a good review, but at least one that is not completely embarrassing'? Buddy, if you ever decide to write a book, consider at least one..."

Thanks, Puja. Maybe if I think of it as a VERY LARGE review�.


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NickReads great review Sir:)


message 7: by Lynda (new)

Lynda Writing is like sex; you don’t have to wait until you’re an expert to begin doing it.

So don’t keep dreaming � keep writing. You, my friend, can do this.


message 8: by Liz (new) - rated it 4 stars

Liz Great review I'm a big fan of Anne Lamott


Will Byrnes Lynda wrote: "Writing is like sex; you don’t have to wait until you’re an expert to begin doing it.

So don’t keep dreaming � keep writing. You, my friend, can do this."


Thanks, Lynda. We will see.


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j I am a kid !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


message 11: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Nicholas Vosberg wrote: "I am a kid !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!..."
I'm happy for you


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Great review of a great book! As Sam said: "It's the f*cking keys!"


message 13: by Caroline (last edited Feb 13, 2015 01:03AM) (new)

Caroline A great review Will, and I loved the E.L. Doctorow quote! It's the sort of thing you hear and want to trust, but are not really sure that you can....

A thousand good lucks with your efforts. You have certainly got the art of doing reviews 100% nailed.


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After I reread your review, again today, and after reading many of your reviews here at ŷ, I think you've managed to turn off "Radio KCUF" and are listening to your muse on high gain. You have amazing writing talent, Will, a real gift. There's a book in you.


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What a beautiful and personal review, Will, thank you.
I have to read this one, it's already on my TBR, heard lots of great things about it. (I'm writing my first novel, am at the 5-year mark....)


message 17: by C.L. (last edited Jun 02, 2016 05:14PM) (new) - added it

C.L. Savage Nice review. A tip for your future in writing, please use more paragraphs. Large blocks of text are hard on the concentration of the reader.

Also about encouragement, everyone when using the English language uses the same 26 characters and a handful of punctuation, plus the space key. Not really a lot to inspire one, but there you go. We all recycle, re-use words that others created, phrases and ideas. Rarely do we invent a new turn of phrase or a new word entirely.

So what's stopping you? Recycle away, just don't plagiarize. Arg, recycle without copying. So difficult, but so fun is the creative process.


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Lynne King A lovely review Will and I'm sorry that I missed seeing it at the time. I actually had a comment in my feed this morning from Gisela on Steve's review. Well one thing led to another and then I saw your five star rating and was quite inspired by what you wrote. The book is thus ordered!

A book is definitely inside you! The question is when?


Akanxa Padhi I am 100% convinced I have to read this book. Thanks to your review.


message 20: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Thanks, Akanxa. It will definitely be worth your time.


William Jr. Great review of a timeless book. I will be keeping an eye on the other book recommendations of the reviewers on this page. Lamott is not just a writter, but an artist in the purest sense of the word.
Thank you for such a thoughtful and thought provoking review.


message 22: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Thanks, William. Timeless indeed.


message 23: by D. (new) - added it

D. About 5 years ago, Anne Lamott spoke at our local community college. I made sure to sit near the front: she has an informal manner and was very patient with a variety of questions in her time here in Troy!


message 24: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Clearly she knows of what she speaks, and is comfortable communicating that knowledge.


message 25: by Fred (new)

Fred Nice


Steve I've already read her book. It was good. Now I want to read yours, Will, with hopes that it'll soar higher than any boid Ann or anybody else can imagine! (No pressure, though, right?)


message 27: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes No, no pressure. 😰


message 28: by Tatevik (new)

Tatevik Great review!


message 29: by Tatevik (new)

Tatevik Great review!


message 30: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Thanks, Tatevik


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Laura I love your reviews Will! You consistently tell me things I didn't know, make me chuckle, and add books to a list I hope to read through at some point. I hope you keep them coming for years to come. :)


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Narayanan  Kanagarajan Your review of Ann Lemott's Bird by Bird is excellent. Not all can become writers, though all are having the ambition, the degree of which may differ from person to person. You have narrated your ambition of becoming a writer in a practical way with a tinge of slight humour. We all have a feeling that we have taken a leaf from someone though initially we might have felt proud of being 'creative'. We are picking up good words, idioms, metaphors from the books we read and from the speeches we listen to in our daily life. We then add our flavour a bit and choose our style to produce our effects, whether writing or reviewing. Everyone would certainly get that flavour and style when one is serious about the task.
Hemingway, Mark Twain, E.L. Doctorow, Ann Lemott, Will Byrnes are no exceptions, exception being , of course, Adam, as he was believed to be the the first human sent to the Earth by God. No chance of copying!
NB: I have picked up 'tamp down' and ' kick it up a notch' from your review. I was impressed with your final sentence
"Maybe those will be all you need to finally take that step away from the nest and let your creativity take flight".


cameron Eat instructions for writing I ever read. Funniest memorable chapter?
“Shitty first drafts�.


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Will Byrnes Laura wrote: "I love your reviews Will! You consistently tell me things I didn't know, make me chuckle, and add books to a list I hope to read through at some point. I hope you keep them coming for years to come..."
Awww, thanks, Laura. Much appreciated.


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Will Byrnes Kanagarajan wrote: "Your review of Ann Lemott's Bird by Bird is excellent. Not all can become writers, though all are having the ambition, the degree of which may differ from person to person. You have narrated your a..."
Every writer stands on the shoulders of those who came before.


message 36: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes cameron wrote: "Eat instructions for writing I ever read. Funniest memorable chapter?
“Shitty first drafts�."

Isn't that redundant?


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Forrest I'm usually loathe to read books on writing, largely because I have probably heard an awful lot of it before, and partially because any time I spend reading about writing is time I'm spending not writing.Of course, this doesn't stop me from reading the occasional article about writing, since I know I need to keep working at an understanding of the craft. But a whole book is a hard-sell for me. You might have sold me. I might have to give this one a look.


message 38: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes I will be interested to see what you think if you get around to it.


Amelia Strydom Your review certainly does justice to one of my favourite books on writing. I've read it a few times over the years and always find it encouraging. And funny and - as you put it - eminently quotable. Have you read The Getaway Car by Anna Patchett? I reread it often as well.


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Will Byrnes I have not read the Patchett book. Looks interesting.


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phyllis;) it is


message 42: by JumbleofJargon (new)

JumbleofJargon Excellent review Will. I appreciate hearing your personal writing experiences. I admire your determination to write in spite of the your valid fears/apprehension towards the daunting, soul-sucking task. You've inspired me to give this book on writing a try. Stephen King's memoir on the craft gave me mixed feelings and resulted in an indefinite hiatus from books on writing. I recently found this comic book I made in 4th grade and remembered how much I loved creating worlds and characters that had the courage and self confidence annndd mutated gene that comes with benign powers (whether figurative or literal) that I lacked. This book might be the impetus I need to rekindle the joy I felt in my youth.

Honestly, I would totally sign a petition for reading subway cars where sudden bursts of emotion are not frowned upon. The bain of my existence is that most people in my life don't read for pleasure. As the A train leaves my neighborhood and goes to Manhattan, it's nice to see more people read. I wonder if they, like me, are suppressing the emotions their text elicits.


message 43: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes I wonder if they, like me, are suppressing the emotions their text elicits.
Or enjoying rich internal lives


Jacqueline Masumian Nice review, Will. BbB and the Stephen King book are the best! Now, as for your hoped for writing projects, just start scribbling!!


message 45: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Thanks, Jacqueline


PattyMacDotComma Wonderful, Will! I'm glad I've been able to enjoy all your practice pieces here, if that's what they end up being. Maybe you could start with a blog while you take us through your process.


message 47: by Will (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Thanks, Patty


message 48: by Schehani (new) - added it

Schehani Highly motivating review, Will. Passionate, sincere, serious, effort revealing the strengths of the book for the aspiring readers and wanna be writers.

Writing may come naturally to some, who are introverts but feel an intense desire to pour out, to say what they can't normally in front of others. Writing equips in such case, with an effective way out, a sort of natural catharsis for one's invisible but self imposed limits. But writing is also a way of lucid expression to the extroverts alike. They also feel it the natural way to think more, to say more, to interact more, go reflect more, and to laugh and share and hypothesize more. So Writing comes as a natural via media to both the introverts and extroverts,alike.

Writing, we must admit, is not limited just to the natural writers who, being either of the above, sit down and pour their heart out. Even they have to struggle, run a hurdle and sometimes, a marathon; other times, it could be a bad day like anyone else, in life. After all, we all are human beings, with kaleidoscopic vagaries of moods, thoughts, pains, disappointments, hopes and laughter. Writing, in fact, can also be cultivated by one who has no previous natural talent, but, during the journey of life, one has no option but to squeeze out ones thoughts and emotions into the ink, be they readable or not.

We all were drafts first, ready to learn, relearn, and improve after each fall; we made it to from infancy to childhood to adulthood and so on. Every creative form of expression, can be learnt by constant, consistent, passionate, unfurling practice. Hence, the saying goes: practice makes it perfect. I myself am not loaded with natural instinct of writing but, the journey of life comes with so many sights and sounds with individual texture and color for everyone, that one comes to a ' cafe moment ' , which exhorts you to write to have a dialogue with your self. May be, initially, it's not for the strangers, but it does work to open up channels of communication with the self- two birds sitting on a wire back to back chirping on their own, but now turned around to twitter to each other, with a connect.

We all readers are actually, one of the three persons. We may or may not desire a deliberate journey to write but, by avidly reading and absorbing the emotional colors painted by writers, we may as a miracle happens, start writing because we would feel a sudden urge to say something, a word or two, with 'our own' streak of insight or reflection, a creative recycle going on for ages. Remember, miracles happen rarely, but sure. Miracles can also be expedited: if we can just start writing 'that one thought, one sentence, one question, one paragraph!' in the moment, we need to seize it. Just for the sake of remembrance, or clarity for your evolutionary trail. But by but, word by word, sentence by sentence, thought by thought, reflection by reflection, we grow, and we grow and evolve from mine person to another, each day if we are conscious of our weaknesses and admit our pitfalls and commit to reform. We all are either a spaghetti or a perfect soup, or a hearty drink. Whatever we are today, we can't be the same we were yesterday; we can be what we are not today, but we still can be. The key is to imagine the destination where we want to be, and take the ride how so invisibly slow, it doesn't matter. We must ensure we are on the road, by whatever means, moving at a snail's pace, the better.

Thanks for exciting me to say what I thought I should say it but haven't Saud it yet myself.

God bless you and your family. amen.
Best,


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Schehani *bit by bit


message 50: by Will (last edited Aug 24, 2019 09:09PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Will Byrnes Thanks, Schehani. Back at you.


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