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We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity
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Hooks is such an interesting writer and this is such an interesting book. In summary you could say that the things hooks finds most objectionable in the world relate to the ‘white-supremacist capitalist patriarchy� � a phrase she has more or less made her own. The problem is that we live in a society where all three of these elements of oppression are presented as both inevitable and commonsense. As such, not only is each corner of this triad presented as self-supporting, but those who are clearly disadvantaged by one or other of the corners are often encouraged to seek their solace in one of the other supports to the system of oppression. For black males capitalism is always available in theory as a means to success, while it is patriarchy that is available in practice. As hooks makes clear, real liberation requires being liberated from all three of these systems of oppression and that it is not possible to be liberated from one while being oppressed by either of the others.
This book is a deeply personal account drawing heavily on hooks� life, she is an interesting and powerful academic particularly for the way she does precisely this � illuminating her points from lived experience. But what I found most interesting about this book was the discussion of the differences she sees between Rap and Blues music. For hooks, Blues was a liberating force in Black American society as it allowed a space for Black males in particular to engage with their emotions and to be vulnerable. The patriarchal thinking that appears to offer solace for the oppression of living in a white-supremacist society, such as the United States, has its own strictures and constrains. Interestingly, many of these strictures help reinforce society’s paradoxical vision of Black males as castrated, sex-obsessed, violent, emotionally stunted, over-grown children. The very little Rap music I’ve ever listened to has been strikingly misogynist, obsessed with the possession of status symbols at any cost, violent and angrily anti-intellectual. Bell hooks makes it clear that such music is symptomatic of Black oppression, not a solution to it, it is a kind of false consciousness where ‘the best you can hope for�, the desires you are encouraged to have, merely reinforce your prison walls.
At one point in this hooks makes the point that when asked what sex and race people would like to come back as in their next life, people overwhelmingly say ‘a White male�. People aren’t stupid, they can recognise unearned privilege when they see it. And why wouldn’t you want the free ride white skin and a penis offer? Few people are silly enough to want to come back as a Black woman, say. On the spectrum of human disadvantage, being coded Black and Pink sits at an extreme end.
Black male bodies are a screen upon which society projects its insecurities and fantasies. Myths of Black males as sex machines, as kinds of animals, of being in possession of natural sporting abilities � all present Black males as bodies without minds. Success is defined as either sporting or musical prowess, while intellectual pursuits are too often considered a mark of shame, particularly for Black males. But, as was made clear by Du Bois so long ago, the path to freedom finds its shortest route through schools. The prison-industrial-complex in the US, something which disproportionately discriminates against Black males, is only encouraged and justified by the values endorsed by Rap music � values that stress hyper masculine and hyper capitalist desires where it doesn’t matter how you make it, a Rolex watch, a fast car and an endless string of attractive women on your arm is the very definition of success. Clearly, this was anything but the message of the Blues, where a song is infinitely more likely to be about the pain and loss of being left by a lover than it is to be about fucking bitches in roofless Cadillac.
At the end she quotes the Isis and Osiris myth � where Osiris is hacked to pieces and the parts of his body scattered across the world and where, out of sheer love, Isis travels the world collecting these pieces and then painstakingly putting them back together again. The last paragraph of the book being:
“This glorious myth, the tale of Isis and Osiris, reminds us that no matter how broken, how lost we are, we can be found. Our wounded souls are never beyond repair. Black females and males can use this myth to nurture the memory of sustained connection with one another, of a love that has stood and can stand the test of time and tribulation. We can choose a love that will courageously seek out the wounded soul, find you, and dare to bring you home again, doing what must be done to help put the bits and pieces together again, to make us whole. This is real cool. This is real love.�
But it is also up to Black males to stand by Black females, not merely to offer support, but because patriarchy is a symptom of all of our oppression and so overcoming patriarchy is, thereby, a task on all of our paths to liberation. She talks of how many men are learning this lesson and who challenge sexism when they are confronted with it.
So, I finished reading this book yesterday and then last night went to a talk by an author discussing his latest book. The author was Michel Faber. A lot of the talk was harrowing � he lost his partner a couple of years ago to cancer while writing this book. The discussion of both topics merged and mingled and was painful in many ways, in fact, painfully confronting. At the end there was time for people to ask questions. The first from a man and then three women. Michel then said, ‘Are there any questions from someone without a womb?� I couldn’t really tell you much about what happened after he said this. I wanted to leave, but since he had been so open about his grief I found the implied insult of my walking out before the talk was over impossible to contemplate. Three more questions where asked, all by men (unsurprisingly), none of them referred to his bizarre preference for being questioned by males. I left feeling violated, complicit and angry � I left incredibly unlikely to ever buy or read one of his books again. Those of us with all of the benefits of white male privilege need to be held to account for how we exercise or choose not to exercise that privilege. In remaining silent I condoned what ought to be unforgivable. I can find endless excuses, I’ve used some of them above, but that brute fact remains.
This book is a deeply personal account drawing heavily on hooks� life, she is an interesting and powerful academic particularly for the way she does precisely this � illuminating her points from lived experience. But what I found most interesting about this book was the discussion of the differences she sees between Rap and Blues music. For hooks, Blues was a liberating force in Black American society as it allowed a space for Black males in particular to engage with their emotions and to be vulnerable. The patriarchal thinking that appears to offer solace for the oppression of living in a white-supremacist society, such as the United States, has its own strictures and constrains. Interestingly, many of these strictures help reinforce society’s paradoxical vision of Black males as castrated, sex-obsessed, violent, emotionally stunted, over-grown children. The very little Rap music I’ve ever listened to has been strikingly misogynist, obsessed with the possession of status symbols at any cost, violent and angrily anti-intellectual. Bell hooks makes it clear that such music is symptomatic of Black oppression, not a solution to it, it is a kind of false consciousness where ‘the best you can hope for�, the desires you are encouraged to have, merely reinforce your prison walls.
At one point in this hooks makes the point that when asked what sex and race people would like to come back as in their next life, people overwhelmingly say ‘a White male�. People aren’t stupid, they can recognise unearned privilege when they see it. And why wouldn’t you want the free ride white skin and a penis offer? Few people are silly enough to want to come back as a Black woman, say. On the spectrum of human disadvantage, being coded Black and Pink sits at an extreme end.
Black male bodies are a screen upon which society projects its insecurities and fantasies. Myths of Black males as sex machines, as kinds of animals, of being in possession of natural sporting abilities � all present Black males as bodies without minds. Success is defined as either sporting or musical prowess, while intellectual pursuits are too often considered a mark of shame, particularly for Black males. But, as was made clear by Du Bois so long ago, the path to freedom finds its shortest route through schools. The prison-industrial-complex in the US, something which disproportionately discriminates against Black males, is only encouraged and justified by the values endorsed by Rap music � values that stress hyper masculine and hyper capitalist desires where it doesn’t matter how you make it, a Rolex watch, a fast car and an endless string of attractive women on your arm is the very definition of success. Clearly, this was anything but the message of the Blues, where a song is infinitely more likely to be about the pain and loss of being left by a lover than it is to be about fucking bitches in roofless Cadillac.
At the end she quotes the Isis and Osiris myth � where Osiris is hacked to pieces and the parts of his body scattered across the world and where, out of sheer love, Isis travels the world collecting these pieces and then painstakingly putting them back together again. The last paragraph of the book being:
“This glorious myth, the tale of Isis and Osiris, reminds us that no matter how broken, how lost we are, we can be found. Our wounded souls are never beyond repair. Black females and males can use this myth to nurture the memory of sustained connection with one another, of a love that has stood and can stand the test of time and tribulation. We can choose a love that will courageously seek out the wounded soul, find you, and dare to bring you home again, doing what must be done to help put the bits and pieces together again, to make us whole. This is real cool. This is real love.�
But it is also up to Black males to stand by Black females, not merely to offer support, but because patriarchy is a symptom of all of our oppression and so overcoming patriarchy is, thereby, a task on all of our paths to liberation. She talks of how many men are learning this lesson and who challenge sexism when they are confronted with it.
So, I finished reading this book yesterday and then last night went to a talk by an author discussing his latest book. The author was Michel Faber. A lot of the talk was harrowing � he lost his partner a couple of years ago to cancer while writing this book. The discussion of both topics merged and mingled and was painful in many ways, in fact, painfully confronting. At the end there was time for people to ask questions. The first from a man and then three women. Michel then said, ‘Are there any questions from someone without a womb?� I couldn’t really tell you much about what happened after he said this. I wanted to leave, but since he had been so open about his grief I found the implied insult of my walking out before the talk was over impossible to contemplate. Three more questions where asked, all by men (unsurprisingly), none of them referred to his bizarre preference for being questioned by males. I left feeling violated, complicit and angry � I left incredibly unlikely to ever buy or read one of his books again. Those of us with all of the benefits of white male privilege need to be held to account for how we exercise or choose not to exercise that privilege. In remaining silent I condoned what ought to be unforgivable. I can find endless excuses, I’ve used some of them above, but that brute fact remains.
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Nothing I've read by hooks (she seems to prefer to not capitalise the first letter of either of her names - a bit like ee cummings) has been all that clear about how to end or be liberated from capitalism. The last book of hers I read essentially said that it was important for people to learn how to manage money and not be managed by it and therefore to also constrain what they want and also to build community. However, I'm sure capitalism would survive all of those changes. Increasingly, I think this will become a non-issue, I suspect. We are proving so efficient at destroying the basis of our existence on this planet that all such discussions are becoming purely academic, you know, 'what sort of system should we have produced if we had infinite resources?' Where we get worked up about the first half of that question, but ignore the fact we don't have infinite resources and are already on the accelerating downward slope side of what that implies. Capitalism is proving perhaps the best system at rushing us to our inevitable end, and one where we get to drown in fluffy toys, one-use plastic bags and other shit we don't even need and barely even want.

Does hooks references the Brooks poem from which the title is taken? (Apologies if this question seems obvious; I never know which American poets are read "abroad".)



I was very lucky to hear Michael Apple speak when I was in Manchester a couple of years ago. He's one of the world's major education theorists and a bit of a hero of mine. Anyway, he was talking about race and said something that has stayed with me. He said basically, assume you are wrong. That is, assume that what you 'know' is wrong. My big new learning at the moment is that there really isn't enough empathy in the world and that empathy doesn't start by telling people how they can be better - but by listening to people about why things are.
I couldn't agree more about life circumstances and how they create who we are and who we become. I read a lovely book about China last year where the author warned the West to be careful about what we decide China is to be - an opportunity or a threat. That what we decide will help make China that and not something we might have preferred it to become. But history doesn't offer much hope - we have spent so much time projecting our fears and desires onto people who are 'different' from us it is hard to imagine we will stop anytime soon.
And after reading the string of emails passed between the Ferguson police - oh man, a miracle of a supernatural kind really is necessary for anyone to flourish in such hate-filled soil.


A few years ago our Prime Minister said Sorry to the Aboriginal people, particularly for the stolen generations - that is, where we stole Aboriginal children from their families so they could be saved from such a life - you know, saved from a life of love and care. The previous PM had refused for years to say sorry, so this was a really big deal. The number of lives the stolen generations had destroyed is unimaginable. The arrogance necessary to allow this to happen... But a few years before the PM said sorry we had the Northern Territory intervention - something started by the previous government and which his government continued. There had been outrageous claims that Aboriginal communities in the Northern Territory were seething hotbeds of child sexual abuse. The army was sent in (literally) - more children were removed from Aboriginal communities - no one, not one single person, has ever been charged with these supposed offences. And so yet another stolen generation is born.
As you say, the inability to place one's self in the shoes of those we so easy treat with scorn and contempt is the actual measure of our inhumanity. The inability to even wonder, how would I behave if forced to live such a life, or to see one's own complicity in allowing such a life to be forced on people. If we don't want monsters, we need to stop creating monstrous conditions. And we will only ever do that by learning about the lives of those living under those conditions and for all of us to demand better - especially those of us, like me, who get a free ride.
I've just recently finished The Lives of Black Folk - I'm going to read more of him when I get a chance.



Unsurprisingly Gay was also asked what she thought of Australia, and was super reticent to answer. When pushed she admitted that she was shocked at the lack of diversity in the media here (all she seemed to have seen so far was images of brawny, hyper-masculine white males). It speaks volumes that an American so well versed in the racial issues of her own country is so shocked at what she's found here in Australia.
Enlightening review, thank you.


What an interesting research area. On the flipside, my very white private girls' high school used to use the token Indian or Asian in marketing materials to give the illusion of diversity. Ha!

