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We Real Cool by bell hooks
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it was amazing
bookshelves: biography, philosophy, race, social-theory

Hooks is such an interesting writer and this is such an interesting book. In summary you could say that the things hooks finds most objectionable in the world relate to the ‘white-supremacist capitalist patriarchy� � a phrase she has more or less made her own. The problem is that we live in a society where all three of these elements of oppression are presented as both inevitable and commonsense. As such, not only is each corner of this triad presented as self-supporting, but those who are clearly disadvantaged by one or other of the corners are often encouraged to seek their solace in one of the other supports to the system of oppression. For black males capitalism is always available in theory as a means to success, while it is patriarchy that is available in practice. As hooks makes clear, real liberation requires being liberated from all three of these systems of oppression and that it is not possible to be liberated from one while being oppressed by either of the others.

This book is a deeply personal account drawing heavily on hooks� life, she is an interesting and powerful academic particularly for the way she does precisely this � illuminating her points from lived experience. But what I found most interesting about this book was the discussion of the differences she sees between Rap and Blues music. For hooks, Blues was a liberating force in Black American society as it allowed a space for Black males in particular to engage with their emotions and to be vulnerable. The patriarchal thinking that appears to offer solace for the oppression of living in a white-supremacist society, such as the United States, has its own strictures and constrains. Interestingly, many of these strictures help reinforce society’s paradoxical vision of Black males as castrated, sex-obsessed, violent, emotionally stunted, over-grown children. The very little Rap music I’ve ever listened to has been strikingly misogynist, obsessed with the possession of status symbols at any cost, violent and angrily anti-intellectual. Bell hooks makes it clear that such music is symptomatic of Black oppression, not a solution to it, it is a kind of false consciousness where ‘the best you can hope for�, the desires you are encouraged to have, merely reinforce your prison walls.

At one point in this hooks makes the point that when asked what sex and race people would like to come back as in their next life, people overwhelmingly say ‘a White male�. People aren’t stupid, they can recognise unearned privilege when they see it. And why wouldn’t you want the free ride white skin and a penis offer? Few people are silly enough to want to come back as a Black woman, say. On the spectrum of human disadvantage, being coded Black and Pink sits at an extreme end.

Black male bodies are a screen upon which society projects its insecurities and fantasies. Myths of Black males as sex machines, as kinds of animals, of being in possession of natural sporting abilities � all present Black males as bodies without minds. Success is defined as either sporting or musical prowess, while intellectual pursuits are too often considered a mark of shame, particularly for Black males. But, as was made clear by Du Bois so long ago, the path to freedom finds its shortest route through schools. The prison-industrial-complex in the US, something which disproportionately discriminates against Black males, is only encouraged and justified by the values endorsed by Rap music � values that stress hyper masculine and hyper capitalist desires where it doesn’t matter how you make it, a Rolex watch, a fast car and an endless string of attractive women on your arm is the very definition of success. Clearly, this was anything but the message of the Blues, where a song is infinitely more likely to be about the pain and loss of being left by a lover than it is to be about fucking bitches in roofless Cadillac.

At the end she quotes the Isis and Osiris myth � where Osiris is hacked to pieces and the parts of his body scattered across the world and where, out of sheer love, Isis travels the world collecting these pieces and then painstakingly putting them back together again. The last paragraph of the book being:

“This glorious myth, the tale of Isis and Osiris, reminds us that no matter how broken, how lost we are, we can be found. Our wounded souls are never beyond repair. Black females and males can use this myth to nurture the memory of sustained connection with one another, of a love that has stood and can stand the test of time and tribulation. We can choose a love that will courageously seek out the wounded soul, find you, and dare to bring you home again, doing what must be done to help put the bits and pieces together again, to make us whole. This is real cool. This is real love.�

But it is also up to Black males to stand by Black females, not merely to offer support, but because patriarchy is a symptom of all of our oppression and so overcoming patriarchy is, thereby, a task on all of our paths to liberation. She talks of how many men are learning this lesson and who challenge sexism when they are confronted with it.

So, I finished reading this book yesterday and then last night went to a talk by an author discussing his latest book. The author was Michel Faber. A lot of the talk was harrowing � he lost his partner a couple of years ago to cancer while writing this book. The discussion of both topics merged and mingled and was painful in many ways, in fact, painfully confronting. At the end there was time for people to ask questions. The first from a man and then three women. Michel then said, ‘Are there any questions from someone without a womb?� I couldn’t really tell you much about what happened after he said this. I wanted to leave, but since he had been so open about his grief I found the implied insult of my walking out before the talk was over impossible to contemplate. Three more questions where asked, all by men (unsurprisingly), none of them referred to his bizarre preference for being questioned by males. I left feeling violated, complicit and angry � I left incredibly unlikely to ever buy or read one of his books again. Those of us with all of the benefits of white male privilege need to be held to account for how we exercise or choose not to exercise that privilege. In remaining silent I condoned what ought to be unforgivable. I can find endless excuses, I’ve used some of them above, but that brute fact remains.
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message 1: by Emma (new)

Emma Wow. I wish I didn't hear that Michel Faber anecdote. Aside from that, how does Hooks see liberation from capitalism as possible? Simply by rejecting it?


Trevor It was really annoying, Emma - I was with a dear friend and my eldest daughter, so that complicated things too and only made me feel all the more complicit. I really did like The Crimson Petal and the White.

Nothing I've read by hooks (she seems to prefer to not capitalise the first letter of either of her names - a bit like ee cummings) has been all that clear about how to end or be liberated from capitalism. The last book of hers I read essentially said that it was important for people to learn how to manage money and not be managed by it and therefore to also constrain what they want and also to build community. However, I'm sure capitalism would survive all of those changes. Increasingly, I think this will become a non-issue, I suspect. We are proving so efficient at destroying the basis of our existence on this planet that all such discussions are becoming purely academic, you know, 'what sort of system should we have produced if we had infinite resources?' Where we get worked up about the first half of that question, but ignore the fact we don't have infinite resources and are already on the accelerating downward slope side of what that implies. Capitalism is proving perhaps the best system at rushing us to our inevitable end, and one where we get to drown in fluffy toys, one-use plastic bags and other shit we don't even need and barely even want.


message 3: by Mir (new)

Mir That Faber comment is bizarre. Guess I'll go on not reading him.

Does hooks references the Brooks poem from which the title is taken? (Apologies if this question seems obvious; I never know which American poets are read "abroad".)


Trevor Not obvious at all to me, I'm afraid - yes, she does, but she needed to in my case as I'd have never known what it was referencing.


message 5: by Joann (new)

Joann Gardner Well stated. I am always impressed by your reviews, you are definitely an exception to the rule (you so articulated above, "White male, privilege"). Regarding the comparison between rap and blues I recommend listening to artist's like NAZ and Julian Marley (CD called, Distant Relatives, anything by Public Enemy). Groups that dominated the game, before "the white male" corporate take-over. Why wouldn't the music change, when it is being controlled by the very people who it once, preached against. I'm always surprised at people, and their reactions to black-men (black culture). What are the options when they are denied access (at every turn). What would you do, under the same circumstances? Knowing why you were brought here (to be the enslaved work-source, of free labor, for ever). When that failed, we were left to our own devises. The fact that many survived, didn't revolt, sought education, equal rights, and normal lives, is a MIRACLE, of the super-natural kind. On a positive note, I loved your comment about Faber. I always find your reviews amazingly sensitive, given the subject matter(s).


Trevor I will find some of this music, Joann, and try to listen over the weekend.

I was very lucky to hear Michael Apple speak when I was in Manchester a couple of years ago. He's one of the world's major education theorists and a bit of a hero of mine. Anyway, he was talking about race and said something that has stayed with me. He said basically, assume you are wrong. That is, assume that what you 'know' is wrong. My big new learning at the moment is that there really isn't enough empathy in the world and that empathy doesn't start by telling people how they can be better - but by listening to people about why things are.

I couldn't agree more about life circumstances and how they create who we are and who we become. I read a lovely book about China last year where the author warned the West to be careful about what we decide China is to be - an opportunity or a threat. That what we decide will help make China that and not something we might have preferred it to become. But history doesn't offer much hope - we have spent so much time projecting our fears and desires onto people who are 'different' from us it is hard to imagine we will stop anytime soon.

And after reading the string of emails passed between the Ferguson police - oh man, a miracle of a supernatural kind really is necessary for anyone to flourish in such hate-filled soil.


message 7: by Joann (new)

Joann Gardner Exactly. We have been "used, abused, slandered, lied-on and cheated at every turn. It isn't a reflection of our character, that we live in ghetto's (or steal, or use drugs), we are exactly where we were "positioned" to be. We speak like the people we were exposed to, act like them (Southern whites, and the greed machine), that is at the root of all evil governing this country. Why are we held to a greater expectation than the people who used us, sold our children, and offered no-way out for the majority. The miracle, is the talented-tenth (W.E.B Deboise), who raise NO MATTER what is done to them. When I hear the comments, about ghetto's and drugs, I want the opportunity to ask - if WE did to your children (and families), what was done to us, where would you be (mentality, and physically)?? Could you be as passive, forgiving? I think not. To appease themselves, the majority MUST turn us into monsters, or savages who DESERVE what was inflicted on us. Trevor, most Americans (even liberals), would NOT be open to the books you read. Most Americans (over 50) still live in "whites only" communities. Michael Apple sounds like an enlightened person. I find that TRUTH is relative to the amount of money involved in telling it. Truth makes people uncomfortable, but - they will NOT give anything up, to make things right.


Trevor At the moment the thing that is ripping my heart out is the plight of asylum seekers here in Australia. It is beyond awful. We are locking people away in concentration camps, literally spending billions of dollars to torture people. A report was released last month into how children are being treated in detention (yes, we even put children into these hell holes) that detailed the mental illness this causes - so that many of them are seeking to poison themselves with cleaning products, cutting themselves and god knows what else. Others have been repeatedly physically and sexually abused 'in our care'. And we get away with this because they are defined as 'other' - they are terrorists, rag-heads, Mussies. All of the debate since this report's release has been about the supposed political favouritism of the person who commissioned the report, virtually nothing has been said about these children. It is unimaginable that a report into the sexual abuse of any other group of children in Australia would be virtually ignored - racism has real life consequences, hatred justifies even the unjustifiable.

A few years ago our Prime Minister said Sorry to the Aboriginal people, particularly for the stolen generations - that is, where we stole Aboriginal children from their families so they could be saved from such a life - you know, saved from a life of love and care. The previous PM had refused for years to say sorry, so this was a really big deal. The number of lives the stolen generations had destroyed is unimaginable. The arrogance necessary to allow this to happen... But a few years before the PM said sorry we had the Northern Territory intervention - something started by the previous government and which his government continued. There had been outrageous claims that Aboriginal communities in the Northern Territory were seething hotbeds of child sexual abuse. The army was sent in (literally) - more children were removed from Aboriginal communities - no one, not one single person, has ever been charged with these supposed offences. And so yet another stolen generation is born.

As you say, the inability to place one's self in the shoes of those we so easy treat with scorn and contempt is the actual measure of our inhumanity. The inability to even wonder, how would I behave if forced to live such a life, or to see one's own complicity in allowing such a life to be forced on people. If we don't want monsters, we need to stop creating monstrous conditions. And we will only ever do that by learning about the lives of those living under those conditions and for all of us to demand better - especially those of us, like me, who get a free ride.

I've just recently finished The Lives of Black Folk - I'm going to read more of him when I get a chance.


message 9: by Joann (last edited Mar 05, 2015 04:26PM) (new)

Joann Gardner I'm aware of your history, it's as "colorful" as these United States. I guess having an apology is "at least", a step in the right direction. However, if aboriginal's (around the globe), were honest - they must be shaking their heads, that the people who stole their lands, raped and killed them off - are sorry (wow, the irony). We are never honest about our feelings, because OUR feelings, can get us killed. I "do" understand migrating to different lands, THAT is normal (natural), what I don't understand is NOT being able to share (or live in peace with the people you found there). IF anyone should be mad (or bothered), it seems (to me), that the people being invaded should be the ones with the attitude????????. Thanks for your insight. I can't wait to hear your thoughts about "The Souls of Black Folk".


Trevor /review/show... - I really enjoyed it, a fascinating book by a fascinating man. In the comments people have recommended I read his biography - which, eventually, I will do.


message 11: by Rachael (new)

Rachael Mullins Last night I saw Roxane Gay speak as part of The F Word series at the Wheeler Centre. One of the audience questions came from a high school teacher asking *how* you get young people to understand (and empathise with) the experience of inhabiting an 'othered' body. The answer? That there is no easy answer.

Unsurprisingly Gay was also asked what she thought of Australia, and was super reticent to answer. When pushed she admitted that she was shocked at the lack of diversity in the media here (all she seemed to have seen so far was images of brawny, hyper-masculine white males). It speaks volumes that an American so well versed in the racial issues of her own country is so shocked at what she's found here in Australia.

Enlightening review, thank you.


Trevor I really love the Wheeler Centre - such a great idea and the talks go for just long enough. My thesis, in part anyway, is looking at the images Victorian schools use to promote themselves in their marketing materials. I've found that mostly the populations in the photos are about 20% more white than the local suburb population would imply they ought to be and have about 10% more females than the school population actually has. But research has shown that there is white flight from schools that are seen as having too many 'other' kids in them - so there is incentive for schools to look whiter than they are.


message 13: by Rachael (new)

Rachael Mullins The Wheeler Centre is smashing it right now. Very excited about seeing David Mitchell in a few months.

What an interesting research area. On the flipside, my very white private girls' high school used to use the token Indian or Asian in marketing materials to give the illusion of diversity. Ha!


Trevor Tokenism is one of the big themes - mock inclusiveness too. This video from a very, very white girls' school is interesting - but skip through to about 1.45 to about 1.55. It is worthy of that Chris Lilley guy, although, I guess he would be taking the piss whereas I assume this must be serious. Naturally, a direct link needs to be made between the charity work of the girls and the recipients of that charity. Naturally too, this is the only time you see the Aboriginal girls in the whole video. And I love that 'Rasing' isn't spelt right - even in the best of schools... Notice too that the two Aboriginal girls are the only ones in sports uniform, while the proper girls are in blazers.




message 15: by Emma (new)

Emma It's also good to see they are taking maths or science seriously by getting an Indian guy in for that at 5:15.


message 16: by Rachael (new)

Rachael Mullins Ah, Firbank. Wouldn't have expected anything less.


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