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Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters
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bookshelves: literature, historical-fiction, psychological-thriller, gender-bending, favorite-authors, favorites

I wish there were more books like this story out there. Stories about groups of people in past time periods that have previously not been written about are very interesting. We seem to have an uncountable number of books about rich debutantes and heiresses during the Victorian era but not many about working class oyster girls, performers and lesbians. And I am on the record saying I want more books about oyster girls, performers and lesbians -- of any era.

Tipping the Velvet can be generically described as a coming of age and self discovery book. It promises a happily ever after -- one perhaps not imagined but which is rewarding. Sarah Waters has a way with words. Her descriptions of sight and smell create atmosphere and absolutely textually enhance the story. The main character -- "Nan" - is one that I slowly began to root for and like but not a character I necessarily started off caring for. What struck me is how different the world I live in today is from even just the recent past. I cannot imagine having to abandon my family (perhaps) and be completely circumspect about my partner all because my partner was the same gender as myself. And of course I can't imagine that because I have never truly had to do that. Sarah Waters brings such sacrifices and unknown privilege to her readers but she does so in the guise of a beautiful and rewarding story. And yes, there are explicit scenes in this novel.

An interesting aspect of the story is that to be free of the female gender role is to dress as a man and go out in public as a man. Women of this era lived highly restrictive lives and had very restrictive opportunities, but dressing as a man provided a freedom not only from male attention but from the restrictions imposed on females during this era. Being a woman as such a role was a defined during this era was by default limiting. Ms. Waters, plays with this concept. I have read one other book by Waters -- Affinity -- in both novels she effectively equates a woman's prescribed role and a woman's limitations in a society with a society's judgment of distaste for same-sex relationships.

What really surprised me, is the acceptance by several characters of the same sex relationships. I have no framework from which to criticize their acceptance and I hope there was acceptance but I guess I am doubtful if such acceptance is historically accurate.

But if you don't want to go heavy and think about societal analysis, you don't have to. Tipping the Velvet is beautifully written, interesting and yeah there is sex.
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Reading Progress

September 21, 2010 – Shelved
September 21, 2010 – Shelved as: literature
September 21, 2010 – Shelved as: historical-fiction
May 8, 2011 – Shelved as: psychological-thriller
October 24, 2012 – Started Reading
October 24, 2012 – Shelved as: favorite-authors
October 24, 2012 – Shelved as: gender-bending
October 25, 2012 –
5.0%
October 25, 2012 –
10.0%
October 28, 2012 –
40.0%
November 15, 2012 – Shelved as: favorites
November 15, 2012 – Finished Reading

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Stacia (the 2010 club) I'm already loving this. The way that some of the unusual descriptions are included, such as the smell of the oysters on the skin, just adds to the overall charm.


Stacia (the 2010 club) I'm at 40% now but won't have much time to read tomorrow, so I'll check back in with you on Sunday. I find it interesting (spoiler for up to 40%) that there's been so much (view spoiler)


Regina I missed your first post -- sorry! The stuff about the smell, the texture -- the images, just adds so much context. The grayness of the streets and buildings, etc. You are definitely ahead of me, yesterday I ran into a friend on the train on the way to work and took a cab home -- so no train reading. I hope to catch up with you today. I am where they have arrived in London and are setting up house.


Regina Stacia (re your spoiler). I agree, there is jealousy, there is the indication that Kitty has been down this road -- and is Nan telling the story in retrospect?


Stacia (the 2010 club) That's what I'm not sure of yet. It would almost seem that way.


Stacia (the 2010 club) 60% (view spoiler) I can't figure out if she's hiding or discovering herself.


Regina OMG I am so pissed at GR right now. I just typed a very long response with citations and everything and it just disappeared! UGHHHHH!


Stacia (the 2010 club) That stinks. GR eats my reviews every so often. I also had to recently get a new computer mouse because I'd go to highlight something and it would delete my text.


Regina Okay, here I try to go again. It stinks to recreate my thoughts.

I think it was Nan disocverying herself, not hiding herself if looked at from a historical perspective rather than how we view things today. Nan was learning that she could step outside of her assigned gender role and be something different than she ever imagined. She did not like sexual attention from men and dressing as a man gave her a way to not receive that attention as a woman and control the attention in a way she could not have if she went around as a woman.

In terms of her relationships with women, I think the butch style of dress is really interesting. HBO had a min-series called If These Walls Could Talk 2 during the mid-1990s and one of the features involved a lesbian couple from the early 1970s. One was a college girl and the other was a local girl. The local girl represented the modern pull to freer expression and being a modern lesbian and the local girl dressed butch. There was tension between their circle of friends and between them as to how they portrayed their sexuality, it was interesting. But prior to very recent modern times, dressing as a man gave lesbian couples freedom to go out in public (). I loved that Nan discovered this on her own and was not aware that there were others like her. That was kind of funny too.

The ending, as you said was sweet justice but also just sweet. I have to feel sorry for Kitty, but she was so incredibly selfish (similar to Diana but just in a different way). I felt like Nan came full circle -- back to being the type of worker and laborer her family raised her to be.

It was surprising to see that family members accepted lesbians or neighbors did. I wonder how realistic that is.


Regina Stacia (Ace of Skates) wrote: "That stinks. GR eats my reviews every so often. I also had to recently get a new computer mouse because I'd go to highlight something and it would delete my text."

Now that is frustrating too!


Stacia (the 2010 club) The acceptance might have come from them being in England vs. the states? I don't know how open people were in various parts of the world during that time period, but I remember reading the Gemma Doyle trilogy (which took place during the Victorian era in England, so it's not very far off time-wise) and one of the girls decided that she loved women and moved to Paris, where she was allowed to dress more masculine and live her life out in the open.

I do agree that it was nice to see Nan discover who she was without too much outside influence. I'll go check out that article right now.


Regina That is REALLY interseting! I will need to look into that trilogy. The article isn't too interesting, just a quick grab. It is so different from how our society is now.


Stacia (the 2010 club) Yes, I just did a skim on it, but it's still interesting to see where terms got their roots. I never associated the term Butch with Butch Cassidy.


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AH Sounds really interesting, Regina.


Regina Thanks AH. Is read this one slowly but really enjoyed it.


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