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Tipping the Velvet
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Sep 21, 2010
bookshelves: literature, historical-fiction, psychological-thriller, gender-bending, favorite-authors, favorites
I wish there were more books like this story out there. Stories about groups of people in past time periods that have previously not been written about are very interesting. We seem to have an uncountable number of books about rich debutantes and heiresses during the Victorian era but not many about working class oyster girls, performers and lesbians. And I am on the record saying I want more books about oyster girls, performers and lesbians -- of any era.
Tipping the Velvet can be generically described as a coming of age and self discovery book. It promises a happily ever after -- one perhaps not imagined but which is rewarding. Sarah Waters has a way with words. Her descriptions of sight and smell create atmosphere and absolutely textually enhance the story. The main character -- "Nan" - is one that I slowly began to root for and like but not a character I necessarily started off caring for. What struck me is how different the world I live in today is from even just the recent past. I cannot imagine having to abandon my family (perhaps) and be completely circumspect about my partner all because my partner was the same gender as myself. And of course I can't imagine that because I have never truly had to do that. Sarah Waters brings such sacrifices and unknown privilege to her readers but she does so in the guise of a beautiful and rewarding story. And yes, there are explicit scenes in this novel.
An interesting aspect of the story is that to be free of the female gender role is to dress as a man and go out in public as a man. Women of this era lived highly restrictive lives and had very restrictive opportunities, but dressing as a man provided a freedom not only from male attention but from the restrictions imposed on females during this era. Being a woman as such a role was a defined during this era was by default limiting. Ms. Waters, plays with this concept. I have read one other book by Waters -- Affinity -- in both novels she effectively equates a woman's prescribed role and a woman's limitations in a society with a society's judgment of distaste for same-sex relationships.
What really surprised me, is the acceptance by several characters of the same sex relationships. I have no framework from which to criticize their acceptance and I hope there was acceptance but I guess I am doubtful if such acceptance is historically accurate.
But if you don't want to go heavy and think about societal analysis, you don't have to. Tipping the Velvet is beautifully written, interesting and yeah there is sex.
Tipping the Velvet can be generically described as a coming of age and self discovery book. It promises a happily ever after -- one perhaps not imagined but which is rewarding. Sarah Waters has a way with words. Her descriptions of sight and smell create atmosphere and absolutely textually enhance the story. The main character -- "Nan" - is one that I slowly began to root for and like but not a character I necessarily started off caring for. What struck me is how different the world I live in today is from even just the recent past. I cannot imagine having to abandon my family (perhaps) and be completely circumspect about my partner all because my partner was the same gender as myself. And of course I can't imagine that because I have never truly had to do that. Sarah Waters brings such sacrifices and unknown privilege to her readers but she does so in the guise of a beautiful and rewarding story. And yes, there are explicit scenes in this novel.
An interesting aspect of the story is that to be free of the female gender role is to dress as a man and go out in public as a man. Women of this era lived highly restrictive lives and had very restrictive opportunities, but dressing as a man provided a freedom not only from male attention but from the restrictions imposed on females during this era. Being a woman as such a role was a defined during this era was by default limiting. Ms. Waters, plays with this concept. I have read one other book by Waters -- Affinity -- in both novels she effectively equates a woman's prescribed role and a woman's limitations in a society with a society's judgment of distaste for same-sex relationships.
What really surprised me, is the acceptance by several characters of the same sex relationships. I have no framework from which to criticize their acceptance and I hope there was acceptance but I guess I am doubtful if such acceptance is historically accurate.
But if you don't want to go heavy and think about societal analysis, you don't have to. Tipping the Velvet is beautifully written, interesting and yeah there is sex.
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September 21, 2010
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September 21, 2010
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literature
September 21, 2010
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historical-fiction
May 8, 2011
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psychological-thriller
October 24, 2012
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October 24, 2012
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favorite-authors
October 24, 2012
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gender-bending
October 25, 2012
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October 25, 2012
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October 28, 2012
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November 15, 2012
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November 15, 2012
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I think it was Nan disocverying herself, not hiding herself if looked at from a historical perspective rather than how we view things today. Nan was learning that she could step outside of her assigned gender role and be something different than she ever imagined. She did not like sexual attention from men and dressing as a man gave her a way to not receive that attention as a woman and control the attention in a way she could not have if she went around as a woman.
In terms of her relationships with women, I think the butch style of dress is really interesting. HBO had a min-series called If These Walls Could Talk 2 during the mid-1990s and one of the features involved a lesbian couple from the early 1970s. One was a college girl and the other was a local girl. The local girl represented the modern pull to freer expression and being a modern lesbian and the local girl dressed butch. There was tension between their circle of friends and between them as to how they portrayed their sexuality, it was interesting. But prior to very recent modern times, dressing as a man gave lesbian couples freedom to go out in public (). I loved that Nan discovered this on her own and was not aware that there were others like her. That was kind of funny too.
The ending, as you said was sweet justice but also just sweet. I have to feel sorry for Kitty, but she was so incredibly selfish (similar to Diana but just in a different way). I felt like Nan came full circle -- back to being the type of worker and laborer her family raised her to be.
It was surprising to see that family members accepted lesbians or neighbors did. I wonder how realistic that is.

Now that is frustrating too!

I do agree that it was nice to see Nan discover who she was without too much outside influence. I'll go check out that article right now.

