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The Examined Life by Stephen Grosz
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it was amazing
bookshelves: 21-ce, case-studies, nonfiction, us, psychology

These subtle, fascinating case studies are psychoanalysis condensed. They run about 6 or so pages each. Everything inessential has been stripped away. We get the problem, the diagnosis, and the resolution or its semblance very quickly. There's the nine year old with autism whose hyper-acting out includes spitting in his analyst's [the author's] face five times a week for a year and a half. How far can one's compassion go? Or the HIV-positive patient who can do little more than sleep during his sessions. When the author presents his case at a conference, an American doctor asks: "Why are you wasting your time with this patient? He's going to die. Why not help someone who's got a future." The author is outraged. And as it turns out, the protease-inhibitors arrive in time and the patient lives for many years, is in fact still alive at the time the book is published. The essays are so lean, so fleet of foot and this is somehow connected � this brevity, this concision � to their ability to move us. I cannot recommend this slim volume highly enough. It's a near miraculous feat of writing.
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Reading Progress

July 8, 2015 – Started Reading
July 9, 2015 – Shelved
July 9, 2015 – Shelved as: 21-ce
July 9, 2015 – Shelved as: to-read
July 9, 2015 – Shelved as: case-studies
July 9, 2015 – Shelved as: psychology
July 9, 2015 – Shelved as: us
July 9, 2015 – Shelved as: nonfiction
July 13, 2015 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Karen (new)

Karen Wow- seems interesting !


message 2: by Erin (new)

Erin Definitely on my to-read list now. Thanks


Mercurialgem Thank you for sharing that link. This stood out:

Mr. Grosz quotes Isak Dinesen, who observed that “all sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story or tell a story about them,� and he goes on to argue that stories can help us to make sense of our lives, but that if “we cannot find a way of telling our story, our story tells us � we dream these stories, we develop symptoms, or we find ourselves acting in ways we don’t understand.�

Anything in the book about being lost as far as a career or purpose of one's life?


William2 Yes, there's much truth in that. I have posted a quote by VS Naipaul that deals with that subject. It's a quote from his novel The Enigma of Arrival.


message 6: by Lynne (new) - added it

Lynne King This sounds a super book William.


William2 A TKO. :-)


message 8: by Toni (new) - added it

Toni William, your reviews are always a gift. Thank you.


William2 Belated but no less sincere thanks, Toni!


message 10: by e (new)

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i wondered about this man, and i still do, especially for being reminded. every life gives an opportunity to another.


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