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I really love this idea. Look forward to reading about how your experiment goes 😊

Trina wrote: "I really love this idea. Look forward to reading about how your experiment goes 😊" My experiment is almost finish. Started six and planning to finiah 4. One I already read and it will be my last post in the series, probably on Wednesday.

Hi Adina, I thought this "dated" book would be a hoot but it ended up offering some practical advice.

Helio wrote: "Hi Adina, I thought this "dated" book would be a hoot but it ended up offering some practical advice." Yes, some of it seems useful.

I read this years upon years ago in college. Even then it was older, but I realized then that there were some enduring truths in its pages. At the time I was struck by how revolutionary this book must have been when it was first written, and then over these following decades I've come to appreciate its direct message. I don't recall all of it now, but it doesn't surprise me that many are still learning from this book.

Long time since I read this at my dad's insistence, as a child. Looking forward to your reactions, Adina!

Jan wrote: "I read this years upon years ago in college. Even then it was older, but I realized then that there were some enduring truths in its pages. At the time I was struck by how revolutionary this book m..." It seems that there still are some thruth in there. Looking forward to discovering more.

Janet M wrote: "Long time since I read this at my dad's insistence, as a child. Looking forward to your reactions, Adina!" I hope to finish it next month, if i don't start other books that I shouldn't.

... why would a review of a book need how and where you found the book and your brief life history? The first paragraph adds nothing to the review.

Padfootprong wrote: "... why would a review of a book need how and where you found the book and your brief life history? The first paragraph adds nothing to the review." That's because it is not really a review. It's about a personal challenge that I created to get rid of some unread books in my library. I shared the personal information for my friends that followed that challenge. I will write a more "proper" review when I'll finish the book. To be honest I wasn't expecting to get so many votes and appear on the first page of community reviews. Still, I usually add some personal details in my reviews and I don't feel guilty about it. I don't pretend to be a professional reviewer so I write whatever I want. I am sorry if some people don't like that but that's ok with me.

Adina, for what it's worth, your method of downsizing sounds like a great idea. I may try it myself - and thus free up more living space, lol.

Props to you for reading a self help book despite hating the genre - I get your feeling! I for one can't help but feel like they're patronising and they lack literary value. Hope you enjoy it through the end! Also, your method of getting rid of unread books is great - I too have hundreds of them that I need to tackle.

This is a great goal! When I like an author I tend to purchase all of their books from used bookstores - but then I have all of these books that I haven't read. :( I should do this and see if I can't knock out a few of those unread books!

Janet M wrote: "Adina, for what it's worth, your method of downsizing sounds like a great idea. I may try it myself - and thus free up more living space, lol." Let me know if you suceed.

Andreea wrote: "Props to you for reading a self help book despite hating the genre - I get your feeling! I for one can't help but feel like they're patronising and they lack literary value. Hope you enjoy it throu..." Agree. This one is also patronising and yes, not much literary value. There are some useful advices but mostly is talk, talk, talk,

Adina wrote: "Janet M wrote: "Adina, for what it's worth, your method of downsizing sounds like a great idea. I may try it myself - and thus free up more living space, lol." Let me know if you suceed." I used to do that but I gave up because I ended with some books that weren't so great by a certain author or getting bored by the writing. Now I go one by one.

Adina, I love your idea for downsizing. It's always such a hard thing to do, but before you realize it, you become inundated with books, and some hard choices must be made. I would love to see how this idea works out for you. Also, I like the personal touches in anyone's reviews. Å·±¦ÓéÀÖ is much more than just straight-shoot reviews. The personal tidbits in reviews is what makes me relate to the reviewer as if I were talking one on one with the reviewer about a book.

Cheers. I didn't meant to offend, it was just an observation. I hate when I am looking up recipes and the blog goes on and on about their cleaning dog and how they got married 800 years ago before they actually get to the recipe. I think I just came one such post to this review of yours so had to put that down. Again, no offence. Feel free to write whatever you have to :)

The problem with all self-help book is that they are not actually self-help. Someone else is telling others what to do, almost like a cult leader. You're spot on vis-a-vis condescending tone.

Igor

Padfootprong - I find it interesting that you felt the need to critique the writing of this review, when you have never written a review on this site yourself. As for your criticism of free recipe blogs - if you want recipes without commentary, maybe buy a cookbook? That's their blog and you are welcome to just not read it. Who would want to spend large chunks of their time just cooking food and typing up recipes without being paid for that? People only continue to do it because the personal color commentary that annoys you is what they personally find enjoyable - they are building a community and connecting with their readers and other bloggers. I'm not even a blogger, so I don't have a dog in this fight. I really don't mean to cause you offense either, and I am not saying that sarcastically.

Adina - I feel like self help/instructional books never age well. My mother-in-law gave me a baby guide type book when I was pregnant with my second child (um, I already had a kid, what are you trying to tell me? LOL) and this baby book was written before I was even born. The advice was basically the opposite of most things that are recommended now. Society and culture and norms change too quickly for a long shelf life for these kinds of books, but I'm glad to hear at least some things still applied. :)

Regarding your comment "ones that tells you how smart he is and that she is the only one capable to tell you how success is achieved. 

all too true

Padfootprong wrote: "Cheers. I didn't meant to offend, it was just an observation. I hate when I am looking up recipes and the blog goes on and on about their cleaning dog and how they got married 800 years ago before ..." Ok, no problem. I actually like those blogs. I guess we all have different tastes.

Igor wrote: "The problem with all self-help book is that they are not actually self-help. Someone else is telling others what to do, almost like a cult leader. You're spot on vis-a-vis condescending tone.

Igor" Thank you. I see that especially in the older books of this type.

Holly wrote: "Padfootprong - I find it interesting that you felt the need to critique the writing of this review, when you have never written a review on this site yourself. As for your criticism of free recipe ..." Haha about you MIL giving you a parenting book. Books about raising babies come in so many forms and types that even the current ones contradict themselves. Sleep schedule/no schedule, breastfeeding by demand or at 3 hours etc. Makes one dizzy, I don't even want to think what would be written in an old book.

Ps. Even some cookbooks have personal information such as Jamie Oliver's which I like.

Helio wrote: "Regarding your comment "ones that tells you how smart he is and that she is the only one capable to tell you how success is achieved. 

all too true" I agree with me. :)

Holly wrote: "Padfootprong - I find it interesting that you felt the need to critique the writing of this review, when you have never written a review on this site yourself. As for your criticism of free recipe ..."

What does my writing (or not writing) a review have to do with anything?

I do own several cookbooks (around 25 of them) and precisely for the reasons you mentioned :) Maybe it's just me but I like being efficient - when I go to a restaurant, I just want to eat - I don't really care what the chef has been doing with his life; when I call 999 about an emergency, I want the dispatcher to send me help and not tell me about her life history; and when I am deciding whether or not to read a book and look at the review, I want to know what the readers thought about the book. Again, it's my personal opinion and the way I like things. If you like all of the other information, good for you :)

Conversely, I tend to like sites that are to the point and don't pollute the the information, like BBC Good Food. Pure recipes. No fuss; StackExchange sites. Direct answers to questions, no faffing about. These sites will draw me way more than others that have unrelated information. Again, note that this is just the way I like things and I'm not forcing it on you :)

@adina, apologies, I seem to have hijacked your review for something entirely unrelated and moot!

Padfootprong wrote: "@adina, apologies, I seem to have hijacked your review for something entirely unrelated and moot!" No problem

Finding it hard to read it online please I need help

I really don't understand how this book grew to be so popular.. Don't you think this is a disappointing simplification on human interaction? If we would use this at work per example, would anyone ever take us serious? Just blowing along with everyone's opinions and never making a point. Others would not have the change to get to know us, cause we would never talk about what we like.. I dunno but I really didn't like this. Have you tried to use it irl? And what were your experiences

Most books like this are retrospective wisdom, like everything in life. You don't know in advance that something is going to work, and context is everything.
Igor

Job wrote: "I really don't understand how this book grew to be so popular.. Don't you think this is a disappointing simplification on human interaction? If we would use this at work per example, would anyone e..." I agree. I am not a fan of these kind of books so i do not have too much experience in using them. i haven''t applied this one so can't say if it works.

Igor wrote: "Most books like this are retrospective wisdom, like everything in life. You don't know in advance that something is going to work, and context is everything.
Igor" I agree with you on that.

Good review Adina. I also feel that books in these kind of genres are mostly repetitive and invaluable. But I kind of liked this one. Pretty fair advices here in the book. And especially relevant today. And if someone is so inclined to apply this one, it might work well.

Suyog wrote: "Good review Adina. I also feel that books in these kind of genres are mostly repetitive and invaluable. But I kind of liked this one. Pretty fair advices here in the book. And especially relevant t..." Maybe i should apply some advice as well but I would have to re-read it.

Adina. Thx fir your honest review. I read this years and years ago while working in Corp world. We had a consultant come in and give us some exercises that Dale Carnegie used for memorizing and public speaking. Forgot must of what he taught but has helpful in creating and remembering email passwords!! Also I was afraid of public speaking. And the tips were good. Common place now but not then. He would of poo-pooed the use of power points as uncreative and boring. Every talk should be unique and to your audience.

Q wrote: "Adina. Thx fir your honest review. I read this years and years ago while working in Corp world. We had a consultant come in and give us some exercises that Dale Carnegie used for memorizing and pub..." Thank you for your comment. I agree that powerpoints are not very good attention grabber.

I had the blues because I had no shoes, until I walked down the street and saw a man with no feet.

I read this years ago. One of Carnegie's insights has stayed with me, i.e. no one, not even the worst criminals, will accept the fact that they are bad people.

Believe it or not Dale Carnegie courses still exist and use this book as a model. My son took the course and it really improved his confidence level. I don’t think it’s directed at a sophisticated intellectual crowd but it really helps those who are shy or socially awkward.

Michael wrote: "I read this years ago. One of Carnegie's insights has stayed with me, i.e. no one, not even the worst criminals, will accept the fact that they are bad people." That is a good one and true, probably

Just checked, I gave it 3 stars as well, but in this day an age with motivational captions on social media most points are probably known to us. I can understand its pull in those days of baby boomers and no Internet.

I feel the same about the condescending tone of many self-help books. This one, especially. This book is so outdated now, I lowkey judge the people who take it so seriously (and they are usually men). In any case, great review. Hope you have a nice day.

Sai wrote: "I feel the same about the condescending tone of many self-help books. This one, especially. This book is so outdated now, I lowkey judge the people who take it so seriously (and they are usually me..." Well, it is a very "masculine" book.