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Stoner by John  Williams
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it was amazing
bookshelves: missouri, favorite-books, 60-from-the-1960s

I've read such an excessive amount of books, you might imagine I stumble upon treasures like Stoner every day. Ha! That's hilarious.

I read every day, and I discover through that process many good books and many average books, but rarely do I find a life-altering gem such as this.

Stoner is one of those quiet, slow-paced novels that stabs you right in the heart with its painful, accurate knowledge about life and how most people live it. Yes, it's sad but true; the average person will have a less than stellar childhood, a complicated partnership and end up with a career or a job rather than a youthful dream fulfilled.

Yes, too many people live rather unremarkable lives, and far too many of them suffer, too.

Yet. . . sometimes the snow falls quietly over your little corner of the world, and you feel completely blanketed by its peace. . . and, sometimes a tree in autumn spontaneously drops its leaves just upon you and you look up at the sky in unparalleled wonder. . . and, sometimes a small child reaches out to touch your arm in trust and comfort and you realize the awe of your responsibility, that someone so precious and pure loves you, exactly as you are.

And, that is how this book is. You can't rush it. You need to embrace the moments where you gasp a bit or your eyes fill up with tears, or you feel filled with a hot rage over the injustices that fill this everyman's life.

If you loved Edith Wharton's Ethan Frome or Kent Haruf's Eventide, or Graham Greene's The End of the Affair, then you probably have the heart and the literary taste for this type of slow-moving, deeply-penetrating novel.
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Reading Progress

January 7, 2016 – Shelved
March 6, 2016 – Started Reading
March 12, 2016 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Mary (new) - added it

Mary Breathtaking review


Julie G Mary, how kind. Thank you for reading it.


message 3: by Antoinette (new) - added it

Antoinette Great review Julie. Sounds like my kind of book!!


Carol Julie wrote: "...the average person will have a less than stellar childhood, a complicated partnership and end up with a career or a job rather than a youthful dream fulfilled."

So true. It could be why this novel touched so many souls. Wonderful review, Julie. Thanks for reminding me that I have the novel, Ethan Frome.


³Ò±ð²¹°ùó¾±»å Great review,Julie


Julie G Gary,
Thank you!


message 7: by Bernadette (new)

Bernadette What a wonderful review! I’ve wanted to read this for years and don’t know why I haven’t! Thanks


Julie G Hi Bernadette!
I can NOT recommend this book more. Went straight to my soul and stayed there.


J. Sebastian I love your writing, Julie. Thanks for taking the time; I know I must read this book, and I had never heard of it before.


Julie G Sebastian,
What a lovely comment to read tonight. I thank you. This book is slow, beautiful and heartbreaking. I think about Stoner often, as though he is someone from my past.


message 11: by Antoinette (new) - added it

Antoinette Such a beautiful review, Julie! I loved Ethan Frome and Eventide= I think I need to read Stoner for sure. I can hardly wait to read your first book :)


message 12: by Vanessa (new) - added it

Vanessa I think the writing in this book is going to have trouble topping your writing about this book.


Julie G Antoinette,
I adore you!!


Julie G Oh, Vanessa! Is this my lucky night or what?? Is it because I broke my arm?! Truly, though, this book. . . Damn it, it breaks your freaking heart.


message 15: by J. Sebastian (new) - added it

J. Sebastian Did you really break your arm?


Julie G Yes!! Argh.


message 17: by J. Sebastian (new) - added it

J. Sebastian So sorry about the arm. Get well soon!


Julie G Thank you, Sebastian.


Cecily Excellent review of a favourite I'd never have heard of without GR friends. And I can assure you that his (sadly few) others, though very different, are as good. Possibly even better!


Julie G Cecily,
I also only knew of this "sleeper" through Å·±¦ÓéÀÖ. I am heartened to hear that his others are good, I WILL be reading them!


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Bookish Ally Wow. Julie! Amazing review! I have had those moments - you spoke straight to my heart


Julie G Ally,
Thank you, sweet friend. If you haven't read this little treasure, please, run to the library for a copy!


Ericka Clou I loved this novel and "Ethan Frome, and "The End of the Affair" is my favorite book ever, so based on what you said I need to immediately read "Eventide." Thanks for this wonderful review!


Julie G Ericka,
It's obvious you have excellent taste! Thanks for reaching out to me in friendship and I can recommend Eventide with every cell of my being. Some people prefer to read Plainsong first, but I believe it can stand, boldly, on its own as one of the best novels ever written.


Numidica Julie, I loved Stoner. Thanks for pointing it out, because otherwise I likely would never have read it.


Kaleah Lovely review Julie! I am almost done and oh my goodness, I am in love with this book. I felt all of the emotions you described. I love how true to life it is! Thank you for mentioning other titles similar to this one. I will have to check them out in 2020 because this is just the type of book I love to read!


Julie G Kaleah,
I understand the love. This book is a treasure. I actually just finished a collection by Alice Munro that reminded me quite a bit of Stoner, if you're interested. It's called Open Secret.


message 28: by Sara (new) - rated it 5 stars

Sara The perfect review because you have captured the feeling that permeates this novel. It should be boring, it should be but it isn't, because it is about every man who ever lived and struggled to reach his potential. Incidentally, I loved each of the books you mentioned, so I suppose I had the right heart for this one.


Julie G Thank you, Sara. Isn't this novel just. . . wonderful?


message 30: by Sue (new) - rated it 5 stars

Sue K H I love your review Julie. I just finished this one and happen to have recently read the first 2 Plainsong books and have started on the 3rd. I completely agree that they are very similar.


message 31: by Ottilia (new) - added it

Ottilia Hi Julie, how are you? I'm a little late in commenting your review because I'm halfway through the book. I like to study the psychology of the characters and I wanted your opinion about Edith's behavior... I connected hers with Madame Bovary's: very cold with husband and daughter and dreaming a romantic life. As I said I'm only halfway and maybe she'll change. Maybe tomorrow I'll find out a clue in this question. What's your opinion? Bye.


message 32: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa "Yet. . . sometimes the snow falls quietly over your little corner of the world, and you feel completely blanketed by its peace. . . and, sometimes a tree in autumn spontaneously drops its leaves just upon you and you look up at the sky in unparalled wonder. . . and, sometimes a small child reaches out to touch your arm in trust and comfort and you realize the awe of your responsibility, that someone so precious and pure loves you, exactly as you are."
So perfectly said, Julie. I love this book!


message 33: by Ken (new) - rated it 5 stars

Ken Lindholm I am completely surprised! Four of my GR friends have read this book (average rating 4.75) and yet I had never heard of it until you referred to it in a comment on another book. (At first, I thought it might be about a drugged out skateboarder.) I look forward to Stoner in my 2021 readings!


Julie G Ottilia,
I'm curious if you ever finished Stoner?


Julie G Thanks, Lisa. I love it, too!


Julie G Ken,
I originally thought the same thing! Yes, trust me on this one.


message 37: by Praveen (new) - added it

Praveen I enjoyed your thoughts on the book. Julie! You are an amazing reader. So many books!. thanks for the connection. I read John Williams This year only, in Buther's crossing, and loved his writing.


Margaret M - (having a challenging time and on GR as much as I can) I am even more excited to read this. Terrific review Julie 💖


Lesley R M Lovely review Julie! If this is as beautiful as Eventide then I’m going to fall in love with Stoner. Next book on my list after my present one. Glad you enjoyed it! 💕


Kathleen Your review brought a tear to my eye because it is so true. Beautiful, Julie.


Julie G Praveen,
I am ashamed to admit that I haven't read anything else by John Williams yet.


Julie G Thank you, Margaret. I find it interesting that I think of John Williams as a European writer. . . but, he's not! He was absolutely an American, but, stylistically, he reminds me of some of Europe's best writers.


Julie G Lesley,
Looks like you found out that Stoner is right up there with Eventide!


Julie G Aww, Kathleen. Thank you!


message 45: by Sara (new) - rated it 5 stars

Sara Beautiful review, Julie. This book is one of those you feel so grateful to have read when you close the pages.


message 46: by Keri (new)

Keri Stone What a beautiful review!


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