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A Room of One’s Own
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Jun 04, 2007
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Every woman should read this. Yes, everyone who told me that, you were absolutely right. It is a little book, but it's quite likely to revitalize you. How many 113 page books and/or hour long lectures (the original format of this text) can say that?
This is Woolf's Damn The Man book. It is of course done in an overtly polite British way... until she brings up her fountain pen and stabs them right between the eyes. She manages to make this a work of Romantic sensibility, and yet modern, piercing, and vital.
Woolf was asked to give a speech on "Women and fiction." She ended up with an entire philosophy on the creative spirit, though with special attention to that of women, of course. Her thesis is simply that women must have a fixed income (500 pounds a year in her time) and a room of her own with a lock on the door. It is only with independence and solitude that women will finally be free to create, after centuries of being forced to do as men please because they support them, and to work in the middle of a drawing room with a thousand practical interruptions, ten children to see to, and a sheet of blotting paper to cover the shame of wasting her time with "scribbles," (as Jane Austen did whenever someone outside the family came into the room) when there was a house to keep and a family to raise. She also shows the creative powers of women tortured and hidden through the allegory of Shakespeare's sister, who never had a chance to express her genius and killed herself after being defeated at every turn.
Woolf takes her readers through the history of women writers, and makes sure that the reader cannot fail to see how brief it is and how limited, and why. Woolf states that all modern women should acknowledge their ancestors who fought for five minutes and a few pieces of paper to jot down lines of Jane Eyre, Middlemarch, or Pride and Prejudice. She makes sure that women know that they can reject the framework and the form down to the very sentences that are given to them by men to find their own voice. However, this voice should be, ultimately, sexless. In her view, one should be "man-womanly," or "woman-manly," to write enduring classics. She doesn't let women down easy, either. The end of the book points out all the advantages young women have(/had, 1929) and yet they still don't run countries, wars, or companies, and there's no excuse for that. It's an exhortation to not squander everything the women's movement fought for.
I probably could have said this in a much shorter way: "Damn the patriarchy, find your own way and your own voice in life, seize the day, just DO something. How dare you waste the opportunities that so many others would have died to have."
Inspiring words on any topic, I think. I think I'll keep this by my bedside to reach for when I feel discouraged or lazy or bitter about my future or my current situation in life.
This is Woolf's Damn The Man book. It is of course done in an overtly polite British way... until she brings up her fountain pen and stabs them right between the eyes. She manages to make this a work of Romantic sensibility, and yet modern, piercing, and vital.
Woolf was asked to give a speech on "Women and fiction." She ended up with an entire philosophy on the creative spirit, though with special attention to that of women, of course. Her thesis is simply that women must have a fixed income (500 pounds a year in her time) and a room of her own with a lock on the door. It is only with independence and solitude that women will finally be free to create, after centuries of being forced to do as men please because they support them, and to work in the middle of a drawing room with a thousand practical interruptions, ten children to see to, and a sheet of blotting paper to cover the shame of wasting her time with "scribbles," (as Jane Austen did whenever someone outside the family came into the room) when there was a house to keep and a family to raise. She also shows the creative powers of women tortured and hidden through the allegory of Shakespeare's sister, who never had a chance to express her genius and killed herself after being defeated at every turn.
Woolf takes her readers through the history of women writers, and makes sure that the reader cannot fail to see how brief it is and how limited, and why. Woolf states that all modern women should acknowledge their ancestors who fought for five minutes and a few pieces of paper to jot down lines of Jane Eyre, Middlemarch, or Pride and Prejudice. She makes sure that women know that they can reject the framework and the form down to the very sentences that are given to them by men to find their own voice. However, this voice should be, ultimately, sexless. In her view, one should be "man-womanly," or "woman-manly," to write enduring classics. She doesn't let women down easy, either. The end of the book points out all the advantages young women have(/had, 1929) and yet they still don't run countries, wars, or companies, and there's no excuse for that. It's an exhortation to not squander everything the women's movement fought for.
I probably could have said this in a much shorter way: "Damn the patriarchy, find your own way and your own voice in life, seize the day, just DO something. How dare you waste the opportunities that so many others would have died to have."
Inspiring words on any topic, I think. I think I'll keep this by my bedside to reach for when I feel discouraged or lazy or bitter about my future or my current situation in life.
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Jun 04, 2007 09:14AM
See, HERE is where Woolf takes the kid-gloves off and starts thumping patriarchy about the head and shoulders. This essay-work is inspiring.
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hmmm - i did stand-up many years ago about women & depression and have always mused on whether virginia could have stayed had there been better meds... this is not a tribute to prozac by any means - esp given its target marketing to women. but there is that aspect in which the prospect of millions of brilliant tormented women NOT killing themselves coulda sorta kinda look like the patriarchy shooting itself in the foot. on the other hand, what with the anorgasmia factor, forcing women to choose between sex & sanity is clearly papa P's pocket ace. (i used another phrase here first that was just so unfortunate i had to edit.)
so. a toast to virginia. i am so glad young women still get all het up about the timeless and necessary dream of a Room. the 2nd wave bookstores had fun with this, you know: my fave being Judith's Room.

Yes, martinis all around. I have a shaker ready to go...
Nice poodle, by the way, Jude. Reminds me of my family dogs when I was growing up.
I have GOT to read this book. How's it coming, Kelly? Excellent Axis post, incidentally...

Was the equivalent of claiming Shostakovich would have been alright if only he hadn't been so pissed about being all oppressed and shit.
*throws teacup at Virginia*


.. I don't think. :)



So are you not liking this, then? I really found it so inspiring, I guess I glossed over some representations of people.


None of that interested you?

However, I would definitely respect the man who feels that urgency nonetheless.



'How dare you waste the opportunities that so many others would have died to have', a great statement to any writer!



In fact I think there is actually a section where she rejects some of the opinions of Mary the narrator, who has herself introduced herself by name early in part One.
Yes, but I certainly agree with you that it's a GREAT READ.
Kelly such great review. Funny and very well put. I 100% agree with you and with Virginia Wolf. We should all have a room of our own and keep this book right on the night stand for those nights of doubt.


