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A Room of One’s Own by Virginia Woolf
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Every woman should read this. Yes, everyone who told me that, you were absolutely right. It is a little book, but it's quite likely to revitalize you. How many 113 page books and/or hour long lectures (the original format of this text) can say that?

This is Woolf's Damn The Man book. It is of course done in an overtly polite British way... until she brings up her fountain pen and stabs them right between the eyes. She manages to make this a work of Romantic sensibility, and yet modern, piercing, and vital.

Woolf was asked to give a speech on "Women and fiction." She ended up with an entire philosophy on the creative spirit, though with special attention to that of women, of course. Her thesis is simply that women must have a fixed income (500 pounds a year in her time) and a room of her own with a lock on the door. It is only with independence and solitude that women will finally be free to create, after centuries of being forced to do as men please because they support them, and to work in the middle of a drawing room with a thousand practical interruptions, ten children to see to, and a sheet of blotting paper to cover the shame of wasting her time with "scribbles," (as Jane Austen did whenever someone outside the family came into the room) when there was a house to keep and a family to raise. She also shows the creative powers of women tortured and hidden through the allegory of Shakespeare's sister, who never had a chance to express her genius and killed herself after being defeated at every turn.

Woolf takes her readers through the history of women writers, and makes sure that the reader cannot fail to see how brief it is and how limited, and why. Woolf states that all modern women should acknowledge their ancestors who fought for five minutes and a few pieces of paper to jot down lines of Jane Eyre, Middlemarch, or Pride and Prejudice. She makes sure that women know that they can reject the framework and the form down to the very sentences that are given to them by men to find their own voice. However, this voice should be, ultimately, sexless. In her view, one should be "man-womanly," or "woman-manly," to write enduring classics. She doesn't let women down easy, either. The end of the book points out all the advantages young women have(/had, 1929) and yet they still don't run countries, wars, or companies, and there's no excuse for that. It's an exhortation to not squander everything the women's movement fought for.

I probably could have said this in a much shorter way: "Damn the patriarchy, find your own way and your own voice in life, seize the day, just DO something. How dare you waste the opportunities that so many others would have died to have."

Inspiring words on any topic, I think. I think I'll keep this by my bedside to reach for when I feel discouraged or lazy or bitter about my future or my current situation in life.
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June 4, 2007 – Shelved
May 29, 2008 – Shelved as: favorites
May 29, 2008 – Shelved as: fiction
July 22, 2008 – Shelved as: brit-lit
June 1, 2009 – Shelved as: always-on-my-mind
July 29, 2009 – Shelved as: 20th-century-early-to-mid
September 11, 2009 – Shelved as: owned
September 19, 2010 – Shelved as: vita-virginia-violet-and-kindred
June 8, 2011 – Shelved as: grande-dames

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message 1: by [deleted user] (new)

See, HERE is where Woolf takes the kid-gloves off and starts thumping patriarchy about the head and shoulders. This essay-work is inspiring.


message 2: by Kelly (last edited Aug 25, 2016 11:13AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly Good! I am off to give yet more of my disposable income to Borders for this book after work. Like they don't have all of it already... Damn good books.


message 3: by Amanda (new)

Amanda You owe it to yourself as a woman??? That's a pretty resounding statement. Kelly, did you just add this to your "currently reading" shelf today? I see the other posts are from about a year ago... Anyway, I'm intrigued now and am looking forward to hearing your thoughts. Placing it on my "to read" shelf as we speak...


Kelly I've been reading this for a few days now. I'm glad I could intrigue you. So far, it is certainly worth the read. I'll be sure to let you know what I think in the end.


message 5: by Amanda (new)

Amanda Oh, lovely. I think we should discuss it over tea (or martinis). :)


Taylor Sounds like something I would love.


message 7: by Kelly (last edited May 29, 2008 06:04PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly You would. Very inspiring. Way to kick your ass into gear when you're feeling listless or discouraged. Also, she's an ass kicking woman in general. Just like you. :)


message 8: by Jude (new)

Jude hey i used to kick ass feministically in public on occasion. i was silenced by a UU church. can i have a martini too?

hmmm - i did stand-up many years ago about women & depression and have always mused on whether virginia could have stayed had there been better meds... this is not a tribute to prozac by any means - esp given its target marketing to women. but there is that aspect in which the prospect of millions of brilliant tormented women NOT killing themselves coulda sorta kinda look like the patriarchy shooting itself in the foot. on the other hand, what with the anorgasmia factor, forcing women to choose between sex & sanity is clearly papa P's pocket ace. (i used another phrase here first that was just so unfortunate i had to edit.)

so. a toast to virginia. i am so glad young women still get all het up about the timeless and necessary dream of a Room. the 2nd wave bookstores had fun with this, you know: my fave being Judith's Room.


message 9: by Amanda (last edited May 30, 2008 12:05PM) (new)

Amanda A UU church? Well that seems a bit anti-UU if you ask me. What was up that, yo? I'm oftentimes disappointed in the UUs... Oh well.

Yes, martinis all around. I have a shaker ready to go...

Nice poodle, by the way, Jude. Reminds me of my family dogs when I was growing up.

I have GOT to read this book. How's it coming, Kelly? Excellent Axis post, incidentally...


message 10: by Rebecca (last edited Feb 17, 2009 02:06PM) (new) - rated it 1 star

Rebecca I found her remarks on Charlotte infuriating.
Was the equivalent of claiming Shostakovich would have been alright if only he hadn't been so pissed about being all oppressed and shit.

*throws teacup at Virginia*


Kelly I'm sorry you'll have to refresh my memory as to the particular remarks, it's been a bit. Do you mean the remarks on Charlotte Bronte?


Rebecca Yes. I tend to be overfamiliar with the great and the good.

*waves to Shosty*


message 13: by Kelly (last edited Feb 18, 2009 07:50AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly Ahh, I see. Well I'd have to go back and read the passages in question, but how are the situations of Shostakovich and Bronte comparable? I mean, Shostakovich wasn't a woman locked away on the moors with an austere Protestant minister father and a Shakespeare's sister problem was he? I get they're both oppressions, but I don't know if Virginia meant to say what you think she said.

.. I don't think. :)


Rebecca Virginia was comparing Charlotte with Jane Austen claiming that whilst they both suffered the same restrictions, only Charlotte allowed her consequential bitterness to afflict her work.


message 15: by Kelly (last edited Feb 19, 2009 07:44AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly Ahhhh, I see what you're saying. Yeah, that's a bit hard-ass of Virginia, I agree, though I can understand it being a part of her whole "movin' on up," thing. I do disagree with her, however- I think there can be bitterness seen in Jane's work, she's just better about masking it. It is quite prominent in Persuasion and Mansfield Park, though. Definitely lets it show there.


Rebecca Austen's steeped in bitterness.


message 17: by Kelly (last edited Feb 19, 2009 12:46PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly Somewhat agreed?, she just doesn't throw it out there emotionally like the Bronte girls do. Also, I don't know if "steeped" is really the word. I do think that bitterness is present, again, especially in her later novels like Persuasion, but certainly not in Northanger Abbey, or Emma. Or if it is there in the earlier novels, it is at a low level.

So are you not liking this, then? I really found it so inspiring, I guess I glossed over some representations of people.


message 18: by Rebecca (last edited Feb 21, 2009 09:29AM) (new) - rated it 1 star

Rebecca I was disappointed. It was just so meandering and I learnt nothing, aside from Woolf's dining preferences. ;)


Kelly Huh. I had such a different experience of this book. I'm not sure what you were expecting to "learn," but I really liked the sections of the history of women writers- the ones that dealt with how hard it was for these women to have time to write these books, and how they themselves considered them "scribbles". A Room of One's Own with a lock on the door and a steady income. The idea that with these two things, one does not have to be anyone's conception of a woman, and may be an artist... or in a broader sense, oneself. I really liked that. Also, the kick in the ass reminder that women of today have so many more advantages than their sisters have and we're still not taking advantage of them like we should. I also really was interested in the idea of leaving behind one's gender in order to create a true classic, the "man-woman," that she speaks of. It's a controversial idea, certainly, but her case for it- I definitely learned something from that. It isn't so much learning as putting ideas you know in the back of your head and making them clearer, making them resonate. Reminders of the thread of female creativity and progress.

None of that interested you?




Jesse Wouldn't you say every man should read this too?


Kelly I've decided that the answer to that question is yes, of course. Just not with the same urgency that I would say that to the women.

However, I would definitely respect the man who feels that urgency nonetheless.


message 22: by Manny (new)

Manny I was feeling that I urgently needed to read this before I read your comment #28. It does indeed sound inspiring. Thanks for the review.


Kelly Then I tip my hat with respect to you, sir! I hope you do. It gave me such a boost of energy and general ready-to-kick-ass attitude by the time I finished it, I hope everyone has that experience.


s.penkevich Great review!
'How dare you waste the opportunities that so many others would have died to have', a great statement to any writer!


Kelly I'm just seeing this, but yes! It's the most fired up Woolf I've read. Most of the stuff I've read by her gets the rage out sideways or dryly or beautifully, but this is pretty straightforward, which I think that it needs to be on this topic.


message 26: by Vera (new) - rated it 5 stars

Vera Coelho i cant stop reading this book. Is like i dont have a job. The only job is to finish the book. amazing


Wayne You do realise this book is fiction and that the views expressed are not necessarily those of Virginia Woolf.
In fact I think there is actually a section where she rejects some of the opinions of Mary the narrator, who has herself introduced herself by name early in part One.
Yes, but I certainly agree with you that it's a GREAT READ.


message 28: by Judith (new)

Judith Great review, thank you.


Kelly Thanks!


message 30: by Tzu (new) - rated it 5 stars

Tzu Reyes Every woman and men should read this.... I believe.


Kelly I agree.


message 32: by [deleted user] (new)

Kelly such great review. Funny and very well put. I 100% agree with you and with Virginia Wolf. We should all have a room of our own and keep this book right on the night stand for those nights of doubt.


Abide Aşıkoğlu Great review


Kelly Thanks!


message 35: by Gaurav (new) - added it

Gaurav Excellent review!


Kelly Thanks!


message 37: by Greg (new) - rated it 5 stars

Greg Kelly, every man should read this, every lover of reading should read this.


Sayeh


message 39: by Norhan (new) - added it

Norhan Zaher what an amzing review


Kelly Thanks!


message 41: by Mari (new) - added it

Mari Mendoza Makes me want to read it! Thanks!


Kelly Hope you do! It's a great shot of motivation.


message 43: by Kelsey (new)

Kelsey Dangelo-Worth I read this in college and loved it. I also loved Orlando. I need to read more of her. The book I just finished today had a lot of Virginia Wolf references, and it made me read her Wikipedia page. Incredible life she lead.


Kelly Incredible for sure! I just bought the big biography of her by Hermione Lee, supposed to be great. Excited to read it! (PS- If you haven't done Mrs. Dalloway yet, I rec that as your next Woolf!)


message 45: by tara (new) - added it

tara Wow. Impressive review.


message 46: by Jane (new) - rated it 5 stars

Jane Andrade It’s a bold book for sure, mainly if we consider it was written in 1928. Woolf doesn’t go easy on patriarchy and shows how much women have fought to have their ideas written down. So, we must go on, no matter how hard it takes.


message 47: by Blythe (new)

Blythe Wonderful review, thank you.


Taruna Very well written review


Kelly Thanks!


message 50: by Paul (new) - added it

Paul Edkins I will read this and hope to become a better man.
Great review.


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