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Married to a Bedouin
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Surprisingly enough, I enjoyed this a lot. A really interesting look into Bedouin culture, and deciphering all the accented, dialectical, bizarrely-transcribed Arabic was a lot of fun, even if it did make me realise what an embarrassing mistake I made in my oral exam last semester.
Most interesting, though, was the narrative voice. Taking the book at face value, which is probably stupid - she even said at the end that she left out a lot of the bad stories because she's not interested in remembering them - Marguerite is a truly interesting personality. For a New Zealander to slip so easily into the life of a Bedouin woman, to adopt their cultural quirks and foibles with so little resistance and so much ease, seemed utterly extraordinary to me. That someone could be open-minded and open-hearted enough to grow to love it as she did, I can barely believe. Probably this says more about me than it does about her.
I did find it strange how little she questioned the things that were going on around her. Everything was reported as if by a totally impartial observer: the example that really struck me was when she talked about the men bringing over second or third brides from Egypt. I was expecting some small attempt at analysis, or at least empathy, but there was nothing; no hint that they might have experienced loneliness and culture shock from being uprooted from Cairo to a cave in the desert of Jordan, nothing really except a comment that she couldn't understand their accents. But this is typical of the book, really: no emotions are described except for her love for her Bedou husband. Strange, and interesting.
Most interesting, though, was the narrative voice. Taking the book at face value, which is probably stupid - she even said at the end that she left out a lot of the bad stories because she's not interested in remembering them - Marguerite is a truly interesting personality. For a New Zealander to slip so easily into the life of a Bedouin woman, to adopt their cultural quirks and foibles with so little resistance and so much ease, seemed utterly extraordinary to me. That someone could be open-minded and open-hearted enough to grow to love it as she did, I can barely believe. Probably this says more about me than it does about her.
I did find it strange how little she questioned the things that were going on around her. Everything was reported as if by a totally impartial observer: the example that really struck me was when she talked about the men bringing over second or third brides from Egypt. I was expecting some small attempt at analysis, or at least empathy, but there was nothing; no hint that they might have experienced loneliness and culture shock from being uprooted from Cairo to a cave in the desert of Jordan, nothing really except a comment that she couldn't understand their accents. But this is typical of the book, really: no emotions are described except for her love for her Bedou husband. Strange, and interesting.
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