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This is an amazing and moving novel. So much so that tasks, appointments, and everything else in my life were put on hold while I read, laughed, cried, celebrated, hurt, and felt healed. Some friends once told me about a spiritual teacher who would often say, “There is magic in the telling�. The truth in those words vibrates throughout this brilliantly conceived and executed novel.
The author herself talks about the risk of a white woman telling the stories of black women living in an era of slow transition between overt, undisguised racism and a more covert and secretive racism. Yet, many white people of that time did not recognize racism for what it was: the structure of society was simply their everyday life. As long as the black people needed the jobs offered by white society, they would be subject to obeying every command, swallowing frustration, anger, and their own pride � and usually for much less than minimum wage. The consequences of not swallowing were just too dangerous.
This novel, a book about writing a book about the domestic service of black women in early 1960’s Mississippi is a finely balanced, on-the-edge story � like a tightrope walker dozens of feet above Niagara Falls. One slip, one false step, and the entire premise would collapse into the water.
Instead, there is a rare and precious authenticity to these stories that are thematically pulled together by Skeeter - the white woman determined to write the book, and Aibileen � the black domestic worker employed by one of Skeeter’s friends. And then there is Minny. Rebellious, full of anger, intelligent, wise, and good - how she was able to cope with a home life filled with conflict and carry on working fulltime besides is beyond me.
My admiration for so many of these characters started small and continued to build throughout the novel. Their lives, their experiences, their authenticity and humanity touched my soul. I will always be grateful to this beautifully crafted novel for opening my eyes and my heart to a larger perspective.
The author herself talks about the risk of a white woman telling the stories of black women living in an era of slow transition between overt, undisguised racism and a more covert and secretive racism. Yet, many white people of that time did not recognize racism for what it was: the structure of society was simply their everyday life. As long as the black people needed the jobs offered by white society, they would be subject to obeying every command, swallowing frustration, anger, and their own pride � and usually for much less than minimum wage. The consequences of not swallowing were just too dangerous.
This novel, a book about writing a book about the domestic service of black women in early 1960’s Mississippi is a finely balanced, on-the-edge story � like a tightrope walker dozens of feet above Niagara Falls. One slip, one false step, and the entire premise would collapse into the water.
Instead, there is a rare and precious authenticity to these stories that are thematically pulled together by Skeeter - the white woman determined to write the book, and Aibileen � the black domestic worker employed by one of Skeeter’s friends. And then there is Minny. Rebellious, full of anger, intelligent, wise, and good - how she was able to cope with a home life filled with conflict and carry on working fulltime besides is beyond me.
My admiration for so many of these characters started small and continued to build throughout the novel. Their lives, their experiences, their authenticity and humanity touched my soul. I will always be grateful to this beautifully crafted novel for opening my eyes and my heart to a larger perspective.
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Aqsa, I just finished it and I am completely undone - in the best possible way. :)

Debra, I absolutely loved this one - and happy reading indeed! I have a ton of chores and other commitments to catch up on, but this book was worth putting everything else on hold for a few days. :)



Thank you so much, Carol, and I am so glad my review brought back great memories for you! :)

Thank you for your great comment, Julie!! 💖😊💖

I noticed that you also enjoyed this one Bharath! I am glad you did - and thank you for your kind comment! :)

Thank you so much, Antoinette! I am not getting many friends' reviews, either - I have had to go to their Profile page and like their reviews posted there. This was taking me up to 8 hours and more a day (cutting into my reading time!) so I save the "likes" into a separate email folder and then click on the person's name and go to their profile from there. I still miss so many of them due to no notifications, and it makes me sad.

Cherie, I feel the same way you do - this book will always stay in my heart, too. :)

Thank you so much, Dana, and I feel the same way - that I will always remember this story and these amazing people! :)

Thank you so much, Tina, and I am so happy to hear that this is also a favourite of yours! :)

Thank you for coming back and reading my review, Debra! For me, this was one of those reads where it was soooo hard to put the book down!

I hear you, Vanessa! I am going to let these characters and this story "settle" for a bit and then I will download the rental from iTunes. Did you enjoy the movie?


Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Karina! I found it completely engaging myself - my eReader says it took me 14.7 hours to read it and since I only started two days ago, you can tell that my attachment to this book was complete! 😁💖

I really hope I get to love it, and enjoy it the way you did❤️

I really hope I get to love it, and enjoy it the way you did❤️"
Thank you so much, Aqsa, for coming back to read my review - and for your wonderful comment! I am hoping exactly the same thing for you, too! 💖

Thank you so much for your warm and lovely comment, dear JV! I am so glad that you loved this one, too! 💖





Thank you so much, Maureen! This novel really touched me in so many ways. 💖

Thank you, Ineke, for your lovely and kind comment!

Thank you for your wonderful comment, Marialyce - and I'm happy to hear that you felt the movie did this book justice as well. I am going to put a sticky note on my monitor to remind me to download the movie rental asap! I also agree that this book is stunning from so many angles - loved it! :)

Oh, me too, Wyndy! And I am also with you on the many "powerful, unforgettable scenes in this book." :)

Thank you, Angela, for your very kind and encouraging comment! I enjoy reading reviews of books I haven't read yet, but it is a real toss-up because I also love reading reviews of books I have also read - especially ones I love that others love, too. Those memory-feelings are priceless. :)

Yayyy, R - thank you so much for reinforcing for me that both the book and movie are winners! After being shaken up and "shook out" by this lovely novel, I am truly looking forward to renting the movie, too! :)

Thank you so much for your awesome comment, Candi! I love it that you can recall where you were and what you were doing while reading this amazing novel. I am in my 15th year living in my current home (apartment) and the last several years found me reading so many wonderful novels here that I feel I will always associate this place with those marvellous reads . . . no matter where else I might wander in the future. :)

Thank you for your great comment, Sherry! And I am glad to see your vote is also even and equal between novel and movie. I am looking forward to the movie even more now, although I usually need a far larger "gap time" between reading and seeing. :)