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Burned (Burned, #1)
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The format in which the book is written is, to say the least, slightly on the brilliant side. The content was intense and emotional. I love this book, because I hate it. Let me explain why. At first as I read the book I got too cozy with it, I assumed like with so many other books, that this one would end up happy, that somehow the main character would get out of her own personal hell and have a better life. I was in for a bitter and harsh awakening.
The further I got into the book the more upset I got, how could people betray anyone the way that these characters betrayed Pattyn (main character). How could a community allow that kind of abuse. Then it hit me. This is real.
In a way, the context is a bit misconstrued, a lot of people got upset over the fact that it misrepresented a Mormon community. A few months after reading it I was able to step back from the book and see that this book was not focused on it being a Mormon community. It was part of the lifestyle and description but being Mormon wasn't the focus. People had misinterpreted it. What it's really saying is "If this can happen in such a supposed tight knit community, it must happen anywhere". Of course some of the details in the book seem a bit extreme but that's more likely for entertainment purposes, to keep the reader in it. Abuse happens in every culture. Even the ones that think themselves far too refined for such a thing.
Now back to why I fell in love with hating it. It's the kind of book that makes you so emotional and upset that even after you've read the ending, even after you've gotten the roughest blow to the gut, you go back and read the ending over and over again hoping you missed something, hoping you might find something that says "hey it's ok" but it doesn't because life isn't always pretty and it doesn't always end up ok. I found that really damn depressing, but if a book can make me so angry I throw it against a wall, it's a damn good book. The purpose of literature is to incite emotion, to make you either hate or love the characters, and if you're really lucky, you'll find a book that does both. This is really one of those books, but I don't suggest reading it unless you've taken your Xanax for the day. You're going to need it.
The further I got into the book the more upset I got, how could people betray anyone the way that these characters betrayed Pattyn (main character). How could a community allow that kind of abuse. Then it hit me. This is real.
In a way, the context is a bit misconstrued, a lot of people got upset over the fact that it misrepresented a Mormon community. A few months after reading it I was able to step back from the book and see that this book was not focused on it being a Mormon community. It was part of the lifestyle and description but being Mormon wasn't the focus. People had misinterpreted it. What it's really saying is "If this can happen in such a supposed tight knit community, it must happen anywhere". Of course some of the details in the book seem a bit extreme but that's more likely for entertainment purposes, to keep the reader in it. Abuse happens in every culture. Even the ones that think themselves far too refined for such a thing.
Now back to why I fell in love with hating it. It's the kind of book that makes you so emotional and upset that even after you've read the ending, even after you've gotten the roughest blow to the gut, you go back and read the ending over and over again hoping you missed something, hoping you might find something that says "hey it's ok" but it doesn't because life isn't always pretty and it doesn't always end up ok. I found that really damn depressing, but if a book can make me so angry I throw it against a wall, it's a damn good book. The purpose of literature is to incite emotion, to make you either hate or love the characters, and if you're really lucky, you'll find a book that does both. This is really one of those books, but I don't suggest reading it unless you've taken your Xanax for the day. You're going to need it.
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August 1, 2006
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June 22, 2007
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While I can certainly agree that there are misconceptions about the Mormon community, and the way it is often depicted by the media is a very skewed and erroneous vision of what might really and truly be there, your response doesn't really target the message that this review wants to convey, and instead comes off as a bit accusatory and aggressive. I don't think that any religion should always be viewed by its negative interpretations from people far outside of the equation, but I feel as though in this case, you only saw 2 sentences of the post and felt emotionally attached to a context that has been placed on the term "Mormon" by a larger society of people willing to disregard it. I am not one of those people. Feel free to comment on any of my reviews, but please maintain a sense of cordiality and a healthy perspective. Keep in mind that your faith has some beautiful aspects to it, and that sadly, some people, even within that faith, taint its actual meaning and intention.
Do not carry the burdens that others toss on you as if they are your own stones. Every religion has a crazy zealot, and every race. It's a matter of maintaining perspective and proving others wrong by showing your side of reality without resorting to defensiveness and aggression. Your point comes out a lot better if it doesn't look like you're taking everything right through the heart.
I hope this didn't offend but its the best I could do on no sleep and at 8am.





Also... as a side note, I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (often called Mormons), and this character has every reason to feel the way she did in her specific situation because while I know of the beauty and love and goodness of my own experience with the church, I also know of the tainted experiences that others like Pattyn have suffered by people who twisted and the church as a weapon. There are abusers everywhere. And to be honest... Ellen Hopkins picked a church that works really well for this scenario. Because if you take the beliefs and culture and demonize them, this story is absolutely plausible. It sucks, but I can鈥檛 deny it.

my sentiments exactly