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The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brien
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I've read reviews of this seen this book pass me by at the library, but for some reason was always reluctant to read. Why? Maybe just hits a little to close to home, knew many of my friends brothers who served, some lived, some of course did not. My own husband was in the Air Force at this time, not sent to Vietnam, and not yet my husband, still just a friend. He did though unload the bodies of returning soldiers who did not make it through their service. It was thankfully near the end of the war.

Years have passed, and the Sisters group decided to read and discuss this, so I decided now was the time, it was now or never. We had a great discussion, for some reason I was under the misapprehension that this was non fiction. It is not though it is written as if it was, which caused a bit of confusion as to how we perceived what we were reading. Was what we were reading true or not? In fact the author discussed this in one of the stories, if it is not true but could have been true how does that change how one feels about the book. That did bother me a bit.

In the end I decided it didn't really matter because these stories in all their grimness, terrible situations, and yes occasionally humor, were an unfortunate and very unfair set of circumstances that these extremely young men found themselves shouldering. It made their experiences personal, gave these soldiers names, and detailed all the guilt they felt when they survived, or made a wrong decision that cost lives. A beyond terrible situation for me in their late teens or early twenties to have to handle. All wars are terrible but the way these soldiers were treated when they returned was surely criminal. At least as a nation, if we have learned nothing else, we have learned to treat our returning soldiers with the respect they deserve, and as the heroes they surely are.
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January 22, 2018 – Started Reading
January 22, 2018 – Shelved
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January 30, 2018 – Finished Reading

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Phyllis Runyan Diane, my daughter read this and kept at me until I got a copy. I haven't read it yet but I will get to it. I couldn't watch the Ken Burns program about it although I heard it was excellent. My late husband was there twice and I just can't watch it yet. Anyway, I'm rambling. Thanks for your thoughts on this book. It has encouraged me to read it sooner than later.


Angela M Great review, Diane . Yes hit close to me as well .


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Cheri Wonderful review, Diane. I have this on my list to read, but am not sure when I'll get to it. It's definitely a hard subject to read about for many of us!


♥ Sandi ❣	I too lost a number of friends and class mates in that conflict. But I went out and get the book as soon as I knew it existed. I was looking for answers. To this day one of my favorite books. Nice review.


Marialyce Wonderful review, Diane, of a powerful book. I am still struggling though with its veracity. It was a pleasure reading and discussing this book with you.


Canadian Jen Wonderful review, Diane. This was an impactful one.


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Diane Barnes Years ago, I read a Tim O'Brien novel titled "In the Lake of the Woods". It was a mystery about a man who may have murdered his wife. He left his readers hanging about the outcome, leaving it up to their opinion as to his guilt. It made me so mad I refuse to ever read another book by him.


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Holly  B (slower pace!) Very nice review Dianne!


Lorna Diane, your review is very insightful as to the feelings of those of us who remember that time all too well. It is on my TBR list so hopefully this year!


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☮K Beautiful review, Diane.


message 11: by ٳ� (last edited Feb 01, 2018 09:09AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

ٳ☮ I teach this book and I love that you mentioned this divide between reality and fiction. In “How to Tell a True War Story,� O’Brien touches on this topic do the details matter if I got the feelings right? My favorite line: “that’s a true war story that never happened.�

He did write a memoir about his experiences in Vietnam. It’s worthwhile to see him talk about this book. And I would highly recommend Matterhorn.


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Wendy Great review Diane


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Kaceey Great review Diane!


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Dana Wonderful review, Diane!


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Lyn Enjoyed your review, Diane. Like Elizabeth, I would also highly recommend Matterhorn by Marlantes - excellent book!


Norma ~ The Sisters Wonderful review, Diane! 😊


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Sharon Metcalf Fabulous review Diane.


Diane S ☔ Thank you so much everyone. Appreciate all your comments.

I do have Matterhorn in my audible library, just waiting for me.

Diane, have that book in my personal library. Will read sometime but not in my near plans.

Elizabeth, this book is on our high schools summer reading list. Interesting that one of the topics is reality versus fiction, as a group some of us did struggle with this.


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Carol Dobson The horror of Vietnam will continue to haunt. A wonderful review, as usual, Diane; compassionate and understanding about the terrible situation these young men faced, far from home. Your last words echo the similar experience of soldiers in Britain after WW1. They had been wounded and mutilated in the trenches and when they returned home they were ignored and left to beg pitifully on street corners without legs and often blind. I had an elderly neighbor, (a vicar's wife) of 90, many years ago who had witnessed their suffering and told me about it and could not understand how society could be so cruel.


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JanB Well-said Diane! I enjoyed reading and discussing this with you!


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Sara The second excellent review I have read on this book today. I think for those of us who were there and lived it, lost men to the war or had them come back not quite the same, it is a double edged sword. I want to read it, and then there is part of me that finds it difficult to do. I did watch the Ken Burns series and it awoke a lot of feelings in me that might have been better left buried.


Diane S ☔ Thank you, Carol, yes this war does continue to haunt.

Thanks, Jan, ditto!

Thanks, Sarah. I could not watch the documentary, but felt it was time to read this. Glad I did it with a group of women I admire.


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Susanne Brilliant review Diane! Sounds like a difficult yet important book to read!


Diane S ☔ Thanks, Susanne and yes it was.


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☯E  Ginder Interesting review. I never read the book, but I always thought it was non-fiction based on other reviews read.


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Roxy I read this book 8 years ago, and found it very powerful. I was also in the Air Force at that time, posted at Dover AFB, but thankfully in Computer Operations. I am gratified every time now when someone, upon finding I was a WAF, thanks me for my service.


Diane S ☔ I thank you too, Roxy. You are the first woman I know who served at that time.


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Mary Beth Great review Diane! Looks like a tough read. Glad you enjoyed it.


Diane S ☔ Thank you, Mary.


Diane S ☔ I always thought this was non fiction too. But it isn't.


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Joan Great review, like you I had stayed away from this one as it seemed too close to my heart. Having read your review, I’m going to try it - perhaps I can find a GR group to read it with me.


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Cherie I have the book sitting on my desk. Let me know, Joan.


Diane S ☔ Thanks, Joan. Hope you and Cherie can do a buddy read.


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