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The Help by Kathryn Stockett
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I loved it, sorry, but I really did. It is heartwarming and heartbreaking and a bit heart attack inducing when you encounter some of the characters who deserve nothing less than a big kick up their bigoted behinds.

Set at the beginning of the 1960's in Jackson, Mississippi it is the story of three women and the friendships that develop between them. The notable detail is the fact that two are black servants and one is a white woman of the Jackson gentry. The story is told through the accounts of the three women as they move through their different lives but all growing closer and closer in the action that binds them together; the gathering and writing down of the accounts of thirteen black maids for publication in a book ' The Help ' by a New York publishing house.

It is powerful because Stockett manages to create three fairly distinct voices for her heroines and each contributes in her own individual way to the unfolding of the story. The dialogue is, in part, really funny and filled with life and character and at other times astoundingly moving.

However there are a few caveats to my praise. There are rather a lot of peripheral characters who do not add much to the overall moving forward of the plot and confuse the situation somewhat and some rather ridiculous sub-plots which are just total nonentity cul de sacs. Yes, naked man in the garden, i am talking about you.

Whenever i encounter huge pantomime-like villains, or in this case villainesses eg Miss Hilly, my 'is this really believable' gene kicks in. She seemed too petty, vicious and unnecessarily cruel all mixed up into one to be real and her position as Queen Bee seemed ridiculous because why would someone so stupidly egocentric and foul have ever got to the position of fashionista anyway. How did Skeeter, who admittedly at the beginning of the novel was a bit of a WASP though maybe without much of the protestant part, come to be friends with the hideously nauseous Hilly and the crassly stupid Elizabeth. I spent a good deal of her sections attempting to understand how she could ever have been mates with the two of them.

There were some moments of a delicacy and sensitivity which actually took my breath away; the encounter of Skeeter with the perpetually disregarded depressive who was one of the very few white women who shone in terms of her goodness and relationship with her maid and the lesson Skeeter took from that conversation was lovely, the beauty of the burgeoning relationship of Celia, Johnny and Minny climaxing towards the end of the book was truly lovely and I loved the throwaway line of the publisher concerning the Minny character in the book ' She is every Southern white woman's nightmare; I adore her '. She did shine as a great creation as indeed did Abilene.

The publisher herself was something and nothing, a total caricature of hard headed business woman who actually just came across as rude, arrogant and uncaring. One of the premises of the novel was how the white women of Jackson were all scrabbling around desparately trying to see whose chapter referred to whom and the machinations the writers go through to attempt to protect identities.

The thought did cross my mind that Kathryn Stockett has not got the same ability to obfuscate the proceedings; this is her first novel and so presumably the heartless bitch of a publisher knows exactly who she is. Equally presumably Mrs Stockett is banking on two million copies sold protecting her from the cold wind of reprisal and revenge.
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November 13, 2011 – Started Reading
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Jason Mark Skelton wrote: "I loved it, sorry, but I really did."

It's funny how we feel a need to apologize for liking books that we're "not supposed to" like. Great review.


Mark thank you and yep you are quite right; it is a strange knee jerk defense i suppose


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Sketchbook OK. But I flee from "heartwarming" in any flavor.


Mark Sketchbook wrote: "OK. But I flee from "heartwarming" in any flavor."

don't worry. There is plenty of vicious gasp inducing horrid stuff too


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Sketchbook MMm. Reba Brooks facing prison : dat's "heartwarming."


Mark Sketchbook wrote: "MMm. Reba Brooks facing prison : dat's "heartwarming.""

very true lol. You little scamp Sketch


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Sketchbook Reba, the Musical, singing to Rupe, "I Wont Wash Dis Man Right Outa My Hair" ....


Petra in Tokyo I think the book was a lot better than the film where Miss Hilly was indeed a caricature villain.

You were wondering how Skeeter could be friends with her and I was wondering how they all escaped the 60s down there. Everywhere else there was a revolution of young people's social lives and there they were still living like Scarlett O'Hara but with shorter skirts. Amazed me.


Mark Lol but i do wonder whether in very circumscribed and restrictive social structures it is not so much that the revolutionary aspects of the rest of society passes by as rather the stucuture forms a bastion against any unsettling inroads of change until BOOM there is some explosive reaction and the whole house of cards falls down or implodes.


Gary  the Bookworm I think the book was a lot better than the film where Miss Hilly was indeed a caricature villain.

I second that! The movie missed the unique voice which made each woman's story so memorable.


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Gloria Thank you for this, Mark. Another book I've kind of avoided because of it's popularity touted all over. Snobby me.

I'm currently reading The Healing and if you enjoyed The Help, I think you'd enjoy this as well.

Sorry I've been so hit and miss lately on here. My apologies if I've missed any of your other reviews.
Hope all is well.


Petra in Tokyo Mark wrote: "Lol but i do wonder whether in very circumscribed and restrictive social structures it is not so much that the revolutionary aspects of the rest of society passes by as rather the stucuture forms a..."

I suppose that could be so, and perhaps apply especially to middleaged people with established lives. But you would think that every young person, given the benefits of the 60s, was busy rock n rolling and popping the pill before a Sat. night out at the disco. It seems too fictional to think that they would actually prefer a drink at the country club and white gloves to that. But who am I to say, what do I know of the era in that location?


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Mark Gloria wrote: "Thank you for this, Mark. Another book I've kind of avoided because of it's popularity touted all over. Snobby me.

I'm currently reading The Healing and if you enjoyed The Help, I think you'd e..."


It is always lovely to meet you on the threads my friend. Hope all is well. I shall certainly check out 'The Healing'.


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Mark Petra X wrote: "Mark wrote: "Lol but i do wonder whether in very circumscribed and restrictive social structures it is not so much that the revolutionary aspects of the rest of society passes by as rather the stuc..."

Yep, I don't know enough about that era in that place either but i can see how sometimes places can get stuck in a societal cul de sac and if that society has a heavy structure of tradition and reverential kowtowing before 'elders and betters' then the young don't or maybe can't summon up the gumption to bring about the change. In that way the unimaginative amongst them (the Miss Hillys of the piece) ride roughshod because no other possibiities exist.


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Richard Derus As the son of a woman who gave "Two-Slice" Hilly a run for her lacquered, evil money, I have to disagree about the unbelievability of Hilly's social prominence.


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Mark Ouch. You poor bloke. I know there are horrible people in positions of prominence but I always find it hard to imagine nasty people being feted unless people are scared of them and it is the illogical vicious circle of it all i find weird.
By that i mean, why do snobs and bigots get to hold pole positions in purportedly democratic situations when they could just be toppled by people seeing that the Emperor is not so much naked as having no bearing worth admiring. It was that lack of logic to Hilly's rule I found odd. She was only Queen B because she was, not because of any pre-ordained social superiority over the others; (which I hasten to add I would not have been defending anyway)


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Richard Derus Humans live in packs. We don't like to think on it, but it's true, we're pack animals and the 'tude wins over the substance far more often than not.


Dolors It's funny to see how you start apologizing...best-seller, it can't be good! Well, I thought it was a nice reading as well, great review!


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Mark yep you are right Dolors. i think my starting with the apology was in some ways just full on nailing my colours to the mast. previously i had only seen fairly negative reviews on the site.


Marte Skeeter is only friends with Hilly and Elizabeth because they grew up together and was once close, though they are growing rapidly apart. LOOOVED this book, and I will reccomend it on and beyond!


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Mark Good for you Marte.
However my confusion still remains. Why was Hilly so in control? it was her rank unattractiveness with which I struggled.


Nicola Loved this book too. Loved Skeeter.


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Mark Absolutely. It was a great read but I still did struggle with the character of Hilly. She just did not ring true. Happy Easter my friend. looking forward to seeing you for our delayed Poole World Book Night next Saturday x


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