Lark Benobi's Reviews > Bear
Bear
by
by

There is something so formal and restrained and lovely and lonely about this novella. Startling things happen, sure, but in such a matter-of-fact way that it hardly seems to be out of the ordinary when a human woman, somewhat late in the novella, begins to find passionate fulfillment in an erotic and increasingly risky relationship with a bear.
I'm overcome with delight at how Marian Engel portrayed these scenes. And I'm overcome with gratefulness at the way Engel refuses to anthropomorphize this animal: the bear remains a bear, musty and uncivilized, farting and shitting on occasion, as animals do; and the animal seems neither exploited nor surprised by his explorations of the woman's body; and the woman in turn seems to need nothing from a bear than that it be a bear.
And I come back again in my thoughts about the novella to this idea: that this is a restrained, almost genteel story. The eroticism is presented in such a matter-of-fact way that there was no discomfort or prurient revulsion or anything at all in my head as I read, except a fascination at the way this restrained writing about a bestial relationship allowed all kinds of mythological and sociological implications weave into and out of my thoughts as I read. I remembered Pasiphaë having sex with a bull, for instance. But deeper than any of these connections with mythological stories I felt a connection with bear and woman as the meeting of two extremely lonely creatures, who find solace in one another, and even, yes, love. Remarkable.
I'm overcome with delight at how Marian Engel portrayed these scenes. And I'm overcome with gratefulness at the way Engel refuses to anthropomorphize this animal: the bear remains a bear, musty and uncivilized, farting and shitting on occasion, as animals do; and the animal seems neither exploited nor surprised by his explorations of the woman's body; and the woman in turn seems to need nothing from a bear than that it be a bear.
And I come back again in my thoughts about the novella to this idea: that this is a restrained, almost genteel story. The eroticism is presented in such a matter-of-fact way that there was no discomfort or prurient revulsion or anything at all in my head as I read, except a fascination at the way this restrained writing about a bestial relationship allowed all kinds of mythological and sociological implications weave into and out of my thoughts as I read. I remembered Pasiphaë having sex with a bull, for instance. But deeper than any of these connections with mythological stories I felt a connection with bear and woman as the meeting of two extremely lonely creatures, who find solace in one another, and even, yes, love. Remarkable.
Sign into Å·±¦ÓéÀÖ to see if any of your friends have read
Bear.
Sign In »
Reading Progress
July 20, 2018
– Shelved
July 20, 2018
– Shelved as:
to-read
August 4, 2018
–
Started Reading
August 4, 2018
– Shelved as:
2018
August 4, 2018
– Shelved as:
canada
August 4, 2018
–
Finished Reading
March 20, 2019
– Shelved as:
bestial-acts
Comments Showing 1-13 of 13 (13 new)
date
newest »

message 1:
by
Robin
(new)
-
rated it 4 stars
Aug 05, 2018 06:40AM

reply
|
flag


Cecily, as I began to write Chouette I was thinking about this book, and also Mrs. Caliban by Rachel Ingalls, The Pisces by Melissa Broder, and the movie The Shape of Water, and among other things I was thinking about how hetero they all are--all are stories of a human woman who takes a male beast as a lover, and I thought about how ridiculous that is, I mean, if your character is passionate about making love with a fish, does it honestly matter to her whether or not the fish has a penis?
One editor interested in acquiring my novel would have required me to change the owl-lover in the book to a man-owl. Some reviewers have asked "how a woman make a baby with a woman owl?" and they seem not to be worried that it would be just as impossible for a woman to make a baby with a man owl.
Anyway those were some of the thoughts I had as I began to write, for better or worse!

I'm not (yet) familiar with Mrs Caliban or The Pisces, but I enjoyed The Shape of Water and yet I had never really considered the ludicrousness of their being hetero. It's both funny and sad - and I'm certainly glad you were true to your vision for Chouette.


In fact my friend lent me the book and asked what I thought and I've just screenshot your review and said "this!" :)