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Bear by Marian Engel
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it was amazing
bookshelves: 2018, canada, bestial-acts

There is something so formal and restrained and lovely and lonely about this novella. Startling things happen, sure, but in such a matter-of-fact way that it hardly seems to be out of the ordinary when a human woman, somewhat late in the novella, begins to find passionate fulfillment in an erotic and increasingly risky relationship with a bear.

I'm overcome with delight at how Marian Engel portrayed these scenes. And I'm overcome with gratefulness at the way Engel refuses to anthropomorphize this animal: the bear remains a bear, musty and uncivilized, farting and shitting on occasion, as animals do; and the animal seems neither exploited nor surprised by his explorations of the woman's body; and the woman in turn seems to need nothing from a bear than that it be a bear.

And I come back again in my thoughts about the novella to this idea: that this is a restrained, almost genteel story. The eroticism is presented in such a matter-of-fact way that there was no discomfort or prurient revulsion or anything at all in my head as I read, except a fascination at the way this restrained writing about a bestial relationship allowed all kinds of mythological and sociological implications weave into and out of my thoughts as I read. I remembered Pasiphaë having sex with a bull, for instance. But deeper than any of these connections with mythological stories I felt a connection with bear and woman as the meeting of two extremely lonely creatures, who find solace in one another, and even, yes, love. Remarkable.
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Reading Progress

July 20, 2018 – Shelved
July 20, 2018 – Shelved as: to-read
August 4, 2018 – Started Reading
August 4, 2018 – Shelved as: 2018
August 4, 2018 – Shelved as: canada
August 4, 2018 – Finished Reading
March 20, 2019 – Shelved as: bestial-acts

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Robin Truly fascinating, Lark. Especially contrasted with the 1-star reviews out there... consider me intrigued!


Lark Benobi and--CANADA


Robin Yes, O, CANADA 🇨🇦
How did I not know about this one til now??


Lark Benobi at first I thought it would be something like Mrs. Caliban (another novella I love that has at its core a unusual, if determinedly heterosexual, relationship), but no, this is quite different.


Lark Benobi Elyse wrote: "I may need to pass on this book --lol

Try this one, then, Elyse--Mrs. Caliban.


Cecily Fascinating - and possibly an interesting counterpoint to read after enjoying Chouette.


Lark Benobi Cecily wrote: "Fascinating - and possibly an interesting counterpoint to read after enjoying Chouette."

Cecily, as I began to write Chouette I was thinking about this book, and also Mrs. Caliban by Rachel Ingalls, The Pisces by Melissa Broder, and the movie The Shape of Water, and among other things I was thinking about how hetero they all are--all are stories of a human woman who takes a male beast as a lover, and I thought about how ridiculous that is, I mean, if your character is passionate about making love with a fish, does it honestly matter to her whether or not the fish has a penis?

One editor interested in acquiring my novel would have required me to change the owl-lover in the book to a man-owl. Some reviewers have asked "how a woman make a baby with a woman owl?" and they seem not to be worried that it would be just as impossible for a woman to make a baby with a man owl.

Anyway those were some of the thoughts I had as I began to write, for better or worse!


Cecily lark wrote: "Cecily, as I began to write Chouette I was thinking about this book, and also Mrs. Caliban by Rachel Ingalls, The Pisces by Melissa Broder, and the movie The Shape of Water, and among other things I was thinking about how hetero they all are..."

I'm not (yet) familiar with Mrs Caliban or The Pisces, but I enjoyed The Shape of Water and yet I had never really considered the ludicrousness of their being hetero. It's both funny and sad - and I'm certainly glad you were true to your vision for Chouette.


Cecily I see now by what you mean by "formal and restrained". Although I did feel the delight you did, it was a fascinating read in terms of how I, as a reader, didn't feel the way I thought I should.


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Kim Lark I have just finished this book and you have taken the words right out of my mouth! Perfectly reviewed for how I feel. The novel was beautiful, heartbreaking and unapologetic.
In fact my friend lent me the book and asked what I thought and I've just screenshot your review and said "this!" :)


message 11: by Lark (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lark Benobi Kim, I’m delighted to know you felt the same way!


Emily M Yes, this is such a wonderful book, and as you say, genteel!


Emily Rooker Great review!


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