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Normal People by Sally Rooney
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it was amazing
Read 2 times. Last read September 16, 2018 to September 17, 2018.

There’s lots to to like about Sally Rooney’s Normal People. It’s mesmerizing and held my attention for hours, reluctantly interrupted only for meals and walking our dog. It features two sadly believable and likely memorable characters in Marianne and Connell. And their relationship—and some of the other relationships featured as sideshows in Normal People—ring painfully true.

So, despite Sally Rooney capturing my rapt attention, why didn’t I like Normal People more and why didn’t I like it as much as some of my discerning and highly respected GR friends? Before explaining why, I’ll admit to the very real possibility that I’m responding to Marianne’s and Connell’s relationship itself, so compellingly portrayed by Rooney, rather than to Rooney’s writing. Despite Marianne’s often detached and cool emotional tone, Normal People felt soppy to me. Yes, overwrought, and I recognize that this very overwroughtness might aptly capture some adolescent—and of course later—relationships. Around April 2011, I began wondering if Connell or Marianne would develop leukemia and would soulfully declare . By 2015, Gram Parsons and Emmylou Harris� version of started echoing in my head.

But that Sally Rooney, she sure can write. 3.5 stars rounded to 4, subject to likely change after further brooding.

Here's a postscript, added after I read Conversations with Friends. My GR friend Lee referred to Normal People as a "grower", presumably meaning that it's a novel that stays with one after reading it. And so it's been with me. Normal People, its characters, their relationships, and Sally Rooney's impeccable writing has remained with me and continues to percolate in my mind. Despite some qualms, and based upon its many strongpoints outweighing those qualms, I'm changing my rating to 4.5 stars rounded up to 5.
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September 16, 2018 – Started Reading
September 16, 2018 – Shelved
September 16, 2018 – Shelved as: to-read
September 17, 2018 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Lee (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lee Excellent review. And I can see you landing firmly on **** soon enough...


message 2: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Thanks, Lee. You may be right. But when you asked, perhaps rhetorically, in your review what did Normal People remind you of, sadly my response to myself was Erich Segal’s Love Story.


message 3: by Lee (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lee Not to worry, it’s a grower, this one...


message 4: by Ace (new) - rated it 5 stars

Ace Very good Dan, I tended to see Marianne and Connell as not in a relationship but as individuals struggling to just be. I surprised myself having so much empathy for them when normally I would have done a big eye roll and expected that they just toughen up a bit. What's happening to me? Have I become a softie?


Gumble's Yard - Golden Reviewer I am not normally a fan of romances but like Connell I find myself drawn to Emma, and this book reminded me of Austen.


message 6: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Gumble's Yard wrote: "I am not normally a fan of romances but like Connell I find myself drawn to Emma, and this book reminded me of Austen."

Very interesting, GY. That’s high praise.


message 7: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Ace wrote: "Very good Dan, I tended to see Marianne and Connell as not in a relationship but as individuals struggling to just be. I surprised myself having so much empathy for them when normally I would have ..."

Oh, Ace, I’ve always been a softie. But I suppose that I became impatient with Marianne and Connell: so much drama!


message 8: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Lee wrote: "Not to worry, it’s a grower, this one..."

Lee, I suspect that you’re correct. After all, Erich Segal’s Love Story was published in 1970: much as we laugh at it, it’s still a minor cultural touchpoint. Can we say the same of any novels on the 1969 or 1970 Booker shortlists?


Denise E. To me, it reminded me of something really sexist from the 50s - like where the girl is supposed to be the guy's "MUSE" or something - but more updated and with an actual narrative on two sides. Did anyone feel this way? Like she namechecks James Salter at some point and I feel like parts of the novel completely reminded me of a Sport and a Pastime. Where the woman is this mysterious SHE. But it was brainier and obviously based on a reciprocal friendship, I think she has a gift for really capturing how people can think too much, and the types of things they can think about their friends saying in college... I really really like her but at the same time didn't like this book. Glad you raised a lot of these points, Dan - I think it just did not work as a love story, while both Connell and Marianne were compelling produced as characters... looking forward to seeing what you make of other books!


message 10: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Sunita, thanks for your kind words. I’ve quoted your comparison of Normal People to Milkman in another setting. Incidentally, in the past two or so months, I’ve seen “soppy� used in both Rhys� Voyage in the Dark and in Less. Rhys was way, way ahead of her time.


message 11: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Denise E wrote: “I really like her but at the same time didn’t like this book�.

Thank you, Denise. I’m glad that you found my comments helpful. Although I did like Normal People, I expect that I’ll like Rooney’s future novels even more.


message 12: by Lee (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lee Hooray! It grew!😁


message 13: by Dan (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dan Lee wrote: "Hooray! It grew!😁"

Right you were!


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