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Redeeming Love
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bookshelves: historical-american, married-couple, abuse, drama, christian-fiction, rated-r
Jul 14, 2008
bookshelves: historical-american, married-couple, abuse, drama, christian-fiction, rated-r
I think the purpose of this book was overshadowed by the very dark subject matter. A lot of people have called this a Christian Romance, I find that very hard to believe. The story is about a young girl sold into prostitution at the age of eight who later is rescued by a man named Michael. The books goes into shocking, disturbing detail of the sad life she led. She run’s away from her devoted husband multiple times, which also got old. The whole thing was very depressing and I only continued to read hoping it would get better. I also didn’t like that her husband was suppose to be so understanding yet was still sleeping with her before she even loved him or before they really had a decent relationship. If he really had respect for her and what she had been through he would have waited until she was ready. The book was way too long and way too gloomy. For the subject matter and details given, I would give it an R rating. I wish I hadn’t bothered reading it.
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I worked in a Christian book store for four years and only read this book because we were encouraged to read books so that we could offer suggestions when customer asked. After reading this book, I can say that NOT ONE person that I recommended this book to did not come back and comment how it reminded them how much God loves us, and I believe that the LOVE expressed in the book dispelled the darkness of the story. The book epitomizes what the Bible states� LOVE NEVER FAILS.

There is hope and healing in the sea of sexual violence, but this book did more to propagate violence than to bring it to light.

It reminds me of this scene in A Promise to Believe In, where the main character owns a diner and she refuses to serve the prostitutes that work at the brothel in town. Yet has no problem serving the men who patronize the brothel. The double standard is awful and her character continues to punish the victim instead of the perpetrator.
Thanks for your comment! :)


It has been a really long time since I've read the book and don't remember all the specific details of their relationship though.


I was blessed to be raised by parents who continually taught me about God's love. I've always had a testimony of His love for me and ALL his children. I know that God loves each and every one of us, no matter what.
I read this book about six years ago so I really don't remember a lot of the specifics of the book. I can understand why you liked the story. It affected me differently. First, I have to clarify, I rate my books based on enjoyment. I didn't enjoy this one so I gave it a lower rating. That's not to say it wasn't well written, because it was. I believe the author is a gifted writer and storyteller.
As for the characters. I liked Angel, and was glad she was able to forgive herself and find God. I think she was a victim in every way. She was taken as a child and abused in the worst way and was continually abused as she grew to adulthood. I don't like when victims are portrayed as the ones in need of repentance. I was glad Michael saw something in her worth saving and for taking her out of her awful situation. I wish he would have taken things a step further and truly given her the time to HEAL before consummating their marriage. I wish he would have let her take the time to get to know herself outside of her profession. I wish he would have taken the time to help her find God and to help her realize she hadn't done anything wrong. She did what she had to do to survive. I wish he would have helped her realize that God did love her no matter her profession. I would have respected him more if he had waited to have sex with her. I thought he was selfish to have sex with her before she was in a healthy place. Her whole life she had been trained not to say no. Was she really in a place at that point to tell him she wasn't ready or wanted more time? What their union any different at that point than all the other men she had been with? I think Michael was coming from a entirely different upbringing and background and couldn't understand the trauma she had truly been through. I honestly don't think Michael was a bad guy, again I was glad he was there for her and I was glad they were able to figure out their relationship and if I remember right get back together.
Thanks for your comment, again I'm glad you were able to take away so much from this story. I hope that everyone is able to realize that God does love unconditionally and will always be there for us.




And totally disturbing.
Got through half of it and decided "no more"
Michael at no time in the beginning validated her desire to own her own home and be independent. He wanted her for himself and that was his only desire. So Sarah/Angel was passed oN to another OWNER before getting her desires. Poor girl! Awful men. Wanting to own the women, rather than help them to be the best they can be.

And totally disturbing.
Got through half of it and decided "no more"
Michael at no time in the beginning validated her desire to own her own home and be independent. He wanted her..."
Yeah, I was not impressed with Michael. He was selfish and never took the time to see things from her perspective or give her the space to figure out what she wanted. If he truly loved her, he should have been putting her needs first and in time she would have done the same for him.








While I do disagree with your reasoning (especially your thoughta on Michael Hosea, who should be the leading male literary figure instead of Mr. Darcy), I appreciate your willingness to emgage in polite discourse with others. It's always a delight to read different perspectives that don't throw ad homniems at one another. Thank you for being kind.

And as far as Michael goes...he was perfect. Patient, understanding, willing to fight for his wife,

Even if I do love the story of Hosea and the example of God's infinite love, it's also a story of how yes He loves us but He can't condone or excuse our actions. But He still loves us, puts His arms out waiting for us to accept Him and turn to Him. As far as I am atm it's too predictable and lacking imagination and originality for me. So I say don't feel bad for those who made you feel bad for not liking this book and giving your opinion and honest rating. Not every book speaks to everyone no matter the popularity and it's okay. So don't let anyone boom shame you.










I’m confused why people think it’s so graphic?
