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Hidden Valley Road by Robert Kolker
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Yikes. This was a disturbing read on so many levels and so dense. It’s a work of nonfiction. Mimi and Don Galvin decided to have 12 kids. Why???? Six of those children, all male, developed schizophrenia. Yet, the parents were too busy trying to be the Joneses rather than addressing what was going on in the household - beyond the mental illness. Abuse - physical and sexual. With Mimi defending the sick ones at the cost of alienating the healthier children.

The parents did try to get the boys help eventually, but much remained unknown about the disease and the argument for nature vs nurture was pro environment in the 1950’s. We learn about the history and barbaric treatment of schizophrenia in the early years, with softer approaches emerging and nature - genetics - taking a front seat to the origins or expansion of the illness.

Much healing had to happen for those without the illness. Mostly away from the family from which it took place. The resentments, the forgiveness and the hope for a future that will better understand and accept schizophrenia and for those who suffer with it and around it.
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Reading Progress

April 7, 2020 – Shelved
April 7, 2020 – Shelved as: to-read
November 18, 2020 – Started Reading
November 25, 2020 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Cheri (new)

Cheri Jen, this sounds fascinating and gut-wrenching, at the same time. Looking forward to your thoughts!


Canadian Jen It is Cheri!


message 3: by Judy (new) - added it

Judy Great review!! I tried to finish it but just too much extra stuff that could of been left out!


message 4: by Canadian Jen (last edited Nov 25, 2020 08:48AM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Canadian Jen Thanks Judy. A lot of bioscience
In it that won’t appeal to everyone for sure.


message 5: by Kaceey (new)

Kaceey Excellent review Jen!


message 6: by Angela M (new)

Angela M Terrific review, Jen.


message 7: by Debra (new)

Debra Great review, Jen!


message 9: by Jennifer (new) - added it

Jennifer Welsh A good, gut-punch of a review, Jen. I've been on the fence. It'll probably be one of those books I read far in the future?


Kelli This was a tough read.


Canadian Jen Kelli wrote: "This was a tough read."

Agreed.


Canadian Jen Jennifer wrote: "A good, gut-punch of a review, Jen. I've been on the fence. It'll probably be one of those books I read far in the future?"

I get it. I'm not sure I'd recommend it as it is dense and a lot of bio science/genetic stuff. I think it really depends on your interest as it reaches above the family dynamics.


Canadian Jen Brenda - Traveling Sisters Book Reviews wrote: "Great review, Jen!"

Thanks Brenda!


Canadian Jen Thanks Kaceey, Angela & Debra!


message 15: by Jennifer (new) - added it

Jennifer Welsh Jen wrote: "Jennifer wrote: "A good, gut-punch of a review, Jen. I've been on the fence. It'll probably be one of those books I read far in the future?"

I get it. I'm not sure I'd recommend it as it is dense ..."


Interesting. I do like that, actually, so that's helpful, thank you. :)


message 16: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Excellent review


Canadian Jen Maureen wrote: "Excellent review"

Thanks Maureen!


message 18: by Wendy (new) - added it

Wendy Wow! This sounds like quite the book!


message 19: by JanB (new) - rated it 5 stars

JanB I also found this a fascinating (and horrifying) look into the effects of schizophrenia on this family. Such a tragedy on many levels. Terrific review Jen!


Canadian Jen Wendy wrote: "Wow! This sounds like quite the book!"

It's a good one but a tough one, Wendy!


Canadian Jen JanB wrote: "I also found this a fascinating (and horrifying) look into the effects of schizophrenia on this family. Such a tragedy on many levels. Terrific review Jen!"

It really was fascinating. Thanks Jan!


Marilyn (not getting notifications) Fantastic review, Jen💕 This sounds like a hard one to read. Some people should not be parents. Those poor children!


Canadian Jen Marilyn wrote: "Fantastic review, Jen💕 This sounds like a hard one to read. Some people should not be parents. Those poor children!"

Maybe not to so many! Hard to treat them all as equals especially when all end up suffering :(


message 24: by Kathleen (new)

Kathleen Great review, Jen.


Lindsay L Great review Jen! I hope to read this


Canadian Jen Thanks Kathleen & Lindsay!


message 27: by Karen (new)

Karen Fantastic review Jen!


Canadian Jen Thanks Karen 😊


Meredith (Trying to catch up!) 12 kids? That's scary enough. This sounds like a very intense book. Fantastic review!


Canadian Jen Lol I agree, Meredith! 2 is enough for me! Thanks


message 31: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Sounds like a difficult read Jen, but great review 👏🏻


Canadian Jen Thanks Maureen.


message 33: by Cheri (new)

Cheri This sounds both disturbing and a bit intense, but am glad that you found much to enjoy about it despite that, Jen! Excellent review!


Canadian Jen Cheri wrote: "This sounds both disturbing and a bit intense, but am glad that you found much to enjoy about it despite that, Jen! Excellent review!"

Thanks much, Cheri!


message 35: by Susanne (new)

Susanne Wow... this sounds like a seriously intense and truly difficult read Jen! And it's non-fiction which is even scarier! Just wow. That said, your review is excellent! Thank you for sharing!


Canadian Jen Susanne wrote: "Wow... this sounds like a seriously intense and truly difficult read Jen! And it's non-fiction which is even scarier! Just wow. That said, your review is excellent! Thank you for sharing!"

Well, thank you for liking it :)


Libby Great review, Jen. What an unfortunate family. I did enjoy learning more about the history and treatment of schizophrenia.


Canadian Jen Libby wrote: "Great review, Jen. What an unfortunate family. I did enjoy learning more about the history and treatment of schizophrenia."

It's incredible how the treatment was then - but honestly, for so many mental illnesses - but it is fascinating to read about. Thanks Libby


message 39: by Barbara (new)

Barbara I avoided this book. Your amazing review allows me to continue to avoid the book. Sounds like a heartaching and tragic situation!


Canadian Jen Barbara wrote: "I avoided this book. Your amazing review allows me to continue to avoid the book. Sounds like a heartaching and tragic situation!"

I read this 2 years ago and it is still so vivid. Very heartbreaking and heartaching.


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