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Ask: I’m thinking positively, feeling grateful. I want to travel back in time.
Visualize: I see myself driving a DeLorean and going back in time; it's Saturday and I just decided I won't read this book, thus avoiding another Coelho experience due to being dangerously curious and irremediably naive when it comes to the 'don't judge before reading' issue.
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Much has already been said about the content of this book so I'll just share some random thoughts after being absent for months on here since I've been busy with work, studies, life, pandemic...
Personally, I agree with the power of a positive thought and meditation which help with stress management and improve one's health, even though 'agree' may not be the right term since it's not a matter of belief.¹²³⁴�
However, when I speak of a positive thought, I mean the normally transient positive thought, not the exhausting kind of positivity used to satisfy one's materialistic desires - spiritual beings sure like mansions, expensive cars and other representations of opulence.
I also agree with the concept of gratitude, of course, and put it into practice on a daily basis. And, from time to time, I like the idea that everything's connected, which brings about some trepidation when one sees the other end to which one's supposedly connected and prefers to cut all red, green or uncolored strings in order to preserve one's mental health or even lives - ultimately, that would be one's fault, according to the law of attraction. In fact, one shouldn't even sympathize with other people's problems, that would bring chaos to the individualistic bubble.
In that sense, Byrne and Co. shouldn’t refer to the law of attraction as ‘the secret� if they want everyone to know about it as claimed in the book. This law considers the universe stupid: it doesn’t distinguish good from bad. Following this logic, by calling it ‘the secret� they bring more secrecy to it. They should call it ‘public knowledge�. (Conveniently enough, it does sound like a Seinfeld joke.)
Either way, I'm planning on leaving the country in the near future so I'll test this law and will report the results; perhaps wishful thinking does buy plane tickets. And will eat all the food available on that flight (and in life) since weight is no longer an issue: to lose weight, don't focus on "losing weight." Instead, focus on your perfect weight. Feel the feelings of your perfect weight, and you will summon it to you. Did you really think the solution was a healthy diet and exercise? Did you really think it couldn't get worse? If you see people who are overweight, do not observe them, but immediately switch your mind to the picture of you in your perfect body and feel it.
On another note, it's remarkable that, taking into account the subject Byrne is dealing with, she didn't even try to bring a speck of seriousness to the book. As a journalist, lawyer, reader and human being, I wasn't expecting reliable sources, references to the resources she consulted (otherwise, saying that someone said something in the 1800's might as well be fiction), well-developed theories nor the beauty of a somewhat Proustian language all at once, but there's not even an effort to make it look less absurd.
I'm aware of the fact that there's not much to work with, but it doesn't hurt to give your best to create a book and not a Tumblr post. The way the entire book is presented, the repetitive lectures interspersed with simplistic testimonies, the mediocre writing that made me feel like a native English speaker, the other sources the author mentions... or dead writers that can't state whether their quotes, those loose sentences she uses as evidence, prove they were actually using 'the secret' or not.
For instance, among the quotes, there's one by Einstein asking himself is this a friendly Universe? Naturally, the book speaks about the universe as an entity and the conclusion is Yes, the Universe is friendly... The Universe is conspiring for me in all things (where did I hear that before?). However, that quote is mostly known as is the Universe a friendly place? which could be about us and our attitudes, not the universe itself. Since they resorted to Einstein, it's important to remember he also wrote once a quiet and modest life brings more joy than a pursuit of success bound with constant unrest�.
I'm sure Byrne has been feeling good and reveling in positive thoughts, nevertheless, it wasn't enough. There's a number of factors that inevitably attracted another one-star rating.
And still, the silence is terrifying.
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The eternal silence of these infinite spaces terrifies me.
� Blaise Pascal, ʱԲé

Ask: I’m thinking positively, feeling grateful. I want to travel back in time.
Visualize: I see myself driving a DeLorean and going back in time; it's Saturday and I just decided I won't read this book, thus avoiding another Coelho experience due to being dangerously curious and irremediably naive when it comes to the 'don't judge before reading' issue.
Receive:
Receive:
Receive?
Hello?
*
Much has already been said about the content of this book so I'll just share some random thoughts after being absent for months on here since I've been busy with work, studies, life, pandemic...
Personally, I agree with the power of a positive thought and meditation which help with stress management and improve one's health, even though 'agree' may not be the right term since it's not a matter of belief.¹²³⁴�
However, when I speak of a positive thought, I mean the normally transient positive thought, not the exhausting kind of positivity used to satisfy one's materialistic desires - spiritual beings sure like mansions, expensive cars and other representations of opulence.
I also agree with the concept of gratitude, of course, and put it into practice on a daily basis. And, from time to time, I like the idea that everything's connected, which brings about some trepidation when one sees the other end to which one's supposedly connected and prefers to cut all red, green or uncolored strings in order to preserve one's mental health or even lives - ultimately, that would be one's fault, according to the law of attraction. In fact, one shouldn't even sympathize with other people's problems, that would bring chaos to the individualistic bubble.
In that sense, Byrne and Co. shouldn’t refer to the law of attraction as ‘the secret� if they want everyone to know about it as claimed in the book. This law considers the universe stupid: it doesn’t distinguish good from bad. Following this logic, by calling it ‘the secret� they bring more secrecy to it. They should call it ‘public knowledge�. (Conveniently enough, it does sound like a Seinfeld joke.)
Either way, I'm planning on leaving the country in the near future so I'll test this law and will report the results; perhaps wishful thinking does buy plane tickets. And will eat all the food available on that flight (and in life) since weight is no longer an issue: to lose weight, don't focus on "losing weight." Instead, focus on your perfect weight. Feel the feelings of your perfect weight, and you will summon it to you. Did you really think the solution was a healthy diet and exercise? Did you really think it couldn't get worse? If you see people who are overweight, do not observe them, but immediately switch your mind to the picture of you in your perfect body and feel it.
On another note, it's remarkable that, taking into account the subject Byrne is dealing with, she didn't even try to bring a speck of seriousness to the book. As a journalist, lawyer, reader and human being, I wasn't expecting reliable sources, references to the resources she consulted (otherwise, saying that someone said something in the 1800's might as well be fiction), well-developed theories nor the beauty of a somewhat Proustian language all at once, but there's not even an effort to make it look less absurd.
I'm aware of the fact that there's not much to work with, but it doesn't hurt to give your best to create a book and not a Tumblr post. The way the entire book is presented, the repetitive lectures interspersed with simplistic testimonies, the mediocre writing that made me feel like a native English speaker, the other sources the author mentions... or dead writers that can't state whether their quotes, those loose sentences she uses as evidence, prove they were actually using 'the secret' or not.
For instance, among the quotes, there's one by Einstein asking himself is this a friendly Universe? Naturally, the book speaks about the universe as an entity and the conclusion is Yes, the Universe is friendly... The Universe is conspiring for me in all things (where did I hear that before?). However, that quote is mostly known as is the Universe a friendly place? which could be about us and our attitudes, not the universe itself. Since they resorted to Einstein, it's important to remember he also wrote once a quiet and modest life brings more joy than a pursuit of success bound with constant unrest�.
I'm sure Byrne has been feeling good and reveling in positive thoughts, nevertheless, it wasn't enough. There's a number of factors that inevitably attracted another one-star rating.
The law of attraction is a law of nature. It is as impartial and impersonal as the law of gravity is. It is precise, and it is exact.
And still, the silence is terrifying.
Sep 27, 20
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Thanks for providing such a stellar review of a far-less-than-stellar book. And that was a great clip from Friends..."
Hi Tara! So nice to see you here again. I'm fine, still busy, making plans to live abroad, working too much; a couple of neurons got lost in the way due to this postgraduate degree that I don't know why I thought it was going to be a good idea, but I'm still pretty healthy for now, which is good considering the pandemic is not slowing down here at all.
I hope you and your loved ones are well.
Thanks for reading. Glad you enjoyed this. When I have the misfortune to encounter with such annoyingly positive people, I always think of Parker. :P
That's great! You know, I was very happy to see Allie's book finally published (Zeus knows how long I've waited) but when I gave it a quick look, I agreed with the minority. Hyperbole was funny, sad, relatable. I know she's been through a lot, I'm just not sure I'm in the mood for mostly sadness, unnerving lines, nihilism apparently. Although she's unusually honest so I believe everything she says, I often see the 'everything is meaningless' as a pouty pose with a tinge of artificiality. It gives me On the Heights of Despair flashbacks. However, there are countless 5-star reviews so I'll read it some day. But I know I'm not going to laugh with this one. I'll probably add this comment as a review (?) without the hi-Tara-still-busy-losing-neurons part.

Thanks for providing such a stellar review of a far-less-than-stellar book. And that was a great clip..."
Hi! That’s interesting, where are you planning to live? I’m glad to hear you (and hopefully also your loved ones) are still healthy. Same here, actually. Although given how many people are asymptomatic, it’s entirely possible I’ve already had it ;) And keep up the good work wrt that degree of yours!
Yeah, I bet Parker would’ve penned a similar review for sure :D
I get where you’re coming from, truly. That said, while I didn’t really care for Cioran either, I am already greatly enjoying Brosh, though I have only read the first two stories thus far. Those two weren’t nihilistic or depressing at all. (Spoiler alert: in the first one, you meet a creature known as a bucket crab. And yes, it’s exactly as weirdly adorable as it probably sounds!) Haha nice idea though, to work this into your review. I will let you know once I’ve finished the ratio of sad to not-sad material you can expect to encounter ;)

Thanks for providing such a stellar review of a far-less-than-stellar book. And tha..."
Not sure yet, I'm not too enthusiastic about it since I'd prefer to stay but the "system" is making me reconsider my existence around here. Many Argentinians left the country to go to Spain, Italy, Australia, so I'm gathering information about those destinations and dealing with some paperwork. I have relatives in the US but I don't think the USCIS will be thrilled. If situation presents itself, would you mind telling those fine gentlemen I'm not a troublemaker? :P I'll bring gluten-free blueberry muffins.
Anyway, nothing is possible until next year at least - if there is a "next year", the only thing we need is the sound of trumpets and horses in the sky, for god's sake.
I'm glad! I just skimmed the book, it deterred me from reading further. And when I read a couple of reviews because I couldn't believe what was happening, I nodded. One chapter left me with a "what the hell is this" kind of feeling. I like "funny" weird, not the "unsettling, freaking unnerving" weird. A couple of chapters left me totally indifferent, others were too sad. Perhaps, I'll end up enjoying it when I decide to read it, but I certainly won't be able to say it was love at first sight. I'm really looking forward to your thoughts on it though!

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Ah, I see. I wish you the best of luck with navigating all the paperwork, not to mention with the decision itself. Haha for free blueberry muffins, I’ll say anything you want me to say :D Though given the record number of wildfires we have had this year, and the resulting number of days air quality is considered poor even if you aren’t all that close to any of the blazes (that pesky particulate matter is EVERYWHERE), I would suggest avoiding the hell that is California ;)
And yes, if there is a next year. Quite a surreal time we’re living in.
I am making slow but steady progress on it. I just read a long sad chapter, the one about (possible spoilers) her health scare and her little sister’s suicide. I usually don’t like to discuss this in a public place like this, but her honesty inspired me (hope this doesn’t make you uncomfortable): my little brother also committed suicide, about six years ago now, and also in his mid-twenties. So, while that story was very, very sad, I also found it inspirational that she was willing to be so open about it, and to say that there will probably never be any real sense of closure with that kind of death, but that you have to keep going in spite of that rawness. I don’t know, I just thought she was brave to discuss it so openly. But obviously I am biased :)

Yes, sadly we have our own wildfires to deal with. A pretty multifaceted year; wishing you the best. And thanks. My relatives have lived for decades in the other side of the country, they offered their help but I'm not sure it's the right place for me. It's a big decision, I'm glad everyone around me is supportive. If it were up to me, I'd go to Connecticut thinking there's a charming little town waiting for me, and then I would take over the town's newspaper and report ludicrous news like Tony in After Life. :P Only those who have faced countless struggles of different colors know how nice it would be to have a peaceful life others would call boring.
I understand, and I'm sorry to hear it. Yes, that's actually what I've read in one of the reviews I referred to: certain chapters are helpful for people who went through something similar. Her honesty, the way she deals with her pain through her art, it's all something truly inspiring. It takes courage to be so open, to share with others like you just did.
I haven't been in that situation. I've been dealing with other extreme issues, and it's hard and draining, many ups and downs. I like reading about heartrending and in some way relatable stories but not now. Humor heals, as I always say, so lighter or funny books (or "solemn" ones I find ridiculous) are part of my set of survival mechanisms. It's not denialism, just "describe hell with a witticism and then we'll try to fix it". To make my comeback, I chose The Secret; it can't make me feel sad, unless I think about trees.
Anyway, it's always nice to have a meaningful conversation on here, Tara. Thank you :)

Yes, sadly we have our own wildfires..."
Sorry to hear that you also have to deal with those. And likewise wishing you the best. Haha now I am picturing you in some sort of Stars Hollow type location (I think that was supposed to be in Connecticut) ;) But as you said, it’s a big decision, and I hope you find a place that will feel like home to you, and a sense of peace, but without stagnation :)
Yes, I agree wholeheartedly—if it isn’t the right time for such material, then it simply isn’t the right time. Humor can be tremendously healing. I find that having a strongly developed sense of humor can also function as armor (to a certain extent, of course) and even prevent some of life’s bullshit from damaging one too much in the first place. It really can be a powerful survival mechanism.
Haha it’s probably best not to think too much about those poor trees :D
I enjoyed this conversation very much too, Florencia. Thank you.

That seems like a fair dream! I hope it can work out for you someday. I've spent very little time in Conn as I don't like cold weather.
There's a cute series of short mysteries set in Bellingham, where the protagonist is a reporter who keeps trying to make more interesting news happen.
The Bellingham Mystery Series Volume 1

@Mir That's so kind, thank you! I hope so too. I'm definitely trying to. It's a good thing I don't mind cold weather.
And thank you for your recommendation, I'm adding it. I'd like to read more stories involving journalists.

No need to apologize, of course. And congratulations on finishing, that must feel wonderful! :) Have you made any decisions with respect to where you want to live?
Yes, I finished her book a couple weeks ago now; I was holding off on shelving it, hoping I might be able to come up with at least a short "review" for it, as it meant quite a lot to me, but I have nothing as yet, so I'll just rate it for now. I find it difficult to describe the reading experience. I absolutely loved it. Some parts were stronger and funnier than others, but none were bad IMO. I loved all of her weird descriptions of her childhood, her sister, and I don't know if you've seen this one on her website, but I positively adored her BEAUTIFUL neighbor Richard :D I was also inspired by reading about how many of her struggles she has overcome/is in the process of overcoming, as we briefly discussed before. And she's such a delightful, quirky, funny person, and that shone through in the book, I thought. Though this collection may have been a bit less consistent than her previous book (I don't know if you're familiar with the movie Spinal Tap or not, but here goes nothing haha), it went to eleven so often that I really can't give it anything less than five stars.

Anyway, I hope you read it at the right time, and that you likewise find it inspiring and funny and very, very real :)
Great to hear from you again Florencia!

Thank you! It feels great.
Well, yes and no. Two weeks ago or so I was reading again about all the required documentation, specifically about student visas and my brain mumbled “hell, no� at the idea of taking another course or starting another career; we're exhausted. I’ve been studying most of my life, literally, I think I was born holding a dictionary, so I really don’t want to keep doing it. I already feel like I haven’t lived much because of it. On the other hand, the pandemic is still delaying everything (people are already talking about the second wave here, though I keep asking them, when did the first one end?) so I’m just reading and listening to suggestions, now that I have more time since I had to take a break due to my finals.
Ah, five stars. I’m so glad you enjoyed Allie’s book. I'm sure you'll be able to gather your thoughts and say something about this special book for you when the time is right, and if not, not a big deal. I think it's wonderful to be speechless sometimes. That moment when we have so much to say and can't find the right words to express it, it may be frustrating at some point for some people *raises hand awkwardly*, but it's also pretty amazing since it means we've found something so extraordinary and meaningful that we forget how to properly use our language.
And I loved Spinal Tap. You know, after my first graduation, I had the biggest movie marathon ever to just relax and unwind (yes, I’m a rebel). I selected films from two lists: AFI's 100 Years...100 Laughs and AFI's 100 Years...100 Movies. From 1925 The Gold Rush to 1993 Groundhog Day, I’ve watched them all, including This is Spinal Tap.
Well, Solutions and Other Problems is still waiting for me, we shall see! Thanks so much for sharing your impressions. And for mentioning awesome cultural references that remind me of good times.

Thank you! It feels great.
Well, yes and no. Two weeks ago or so I was reading again abo..."
Haha born holding a dictionary--from what I know about you, that sounds about right :) But I get where you're coming from, and there's certainly no need to rush into anything right away. I'm glad you will have more time now to think things over, and, most importantly, to read! ;)
Thanks for your kind response, Florencia. I agree that the lack of words to sum up the reading experience speaks quite highly of the experience itself. I found the book so wonderful that more than one person will be getting it for a Christmas present from me this year :D
Awesome, a fellow Spinal Tap fan! I think Nigel Tufnel is one of the most adorable characters ever, such a lovable, ridiculous little doofus. And that sounds like a fun movie marathon, actually! I just looked at the laughs list, and found that I have only seen about a quarter of them. Which are your favorites? I've seen over half of their other list though, and there are some excellent films on that thing! And same question for that one, just out of curiosity. I'm actually in the process of creating a profile on letterboxd, and have been thinking about all the movies I've seen in my life lately anyway (and realizing how much fluff I've consumed haha). If you're on that site, feel free to add me:

Thank you! It feels great.
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Lucky people. I can’t think of a better Christmas present than a book which is special to us.
I’m glad those lists caught your interest; so many wonderful options in one place. I ended up enjoying most of them. I’ve consumed much fluff as well; its important lies in the fact that we need balance in life. Great, deep, meaningful films which include heavy philosophical discussions� and fluff: the perfect recipe to make an interesting human being.
Me? Choosing favorites? In no particular order, The Treasure of the Sierra Madre, Modern Times, The Great Dictator, Citizen Kane; for obvious reasons, I absolutely loved His Girl Friday; Adam’s Rib, The Philadelphia Story, It Happened One Night (screwball comedy could be my guilty pleasure); Monty Python and the Holy Grail and Life of Brian, Annie Hall, Chinatown, The Godfather, Dr. Strangelove, Diner, Goodfellas, The Big Lebowski� Yes, I could go on.
I found many of them on your letterboxd profile. I wasn’t aware of that website. On a somewhat regular basis, I’m only on ŷ. And (not because I pay much attention to it but because it’s already there) I created an account there ages ago and it’s just floating around in the ether, recording activity, every now and then I give a “like� to a song, unlike my other accounts on social media which are barren land.
It was nice visiting your profile. By the way, I love the fact that this thread ended up being mostly about anything but this terrible book. :P Thank you.

Thank you! It feels great.
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Speaking of which, I hope you had a wonderful holiday yesterday, and wish you a very Happy New Year as well, Florencia :)
Great point! That balance is definitely necessary, but at times (well, nearly all the time, really) can be pretty difficult to attain ;)
Looking at the plot synopsis for His Girl Friday, yeah, I think I get why you enjoyed that one :p I am embarrassed to admit I haven't yet seen it, but I will add it to my list; I've heard good things about it in the past, and would like to see what all the fuss is about. Ditto It Happened One Night. And I'm very glad we agree on Lebowski, Monty Python, Dr. Strangelove and The Godfather, those are crucial indeed :)
Thanks for taking the time to look through my movies. I have heard of Last.fm, and know a couple other people with profiles on that site, but I don't have one myself. Like you, I'm not terribly into social websites. I looked through your favorite songs, and it seems we agree on quite a few there as well--Led Zeppelin and David Bowie are beyond amazing, and I also really like The Clash, Talking Heads, The Cure, Joy Division, Queen, Pink Floyd, and The Velvet Underground, so we definitely have some common ground. I really ought to listen to more classical music...
My pleasure! I'm so glad we had such an interesting discussion too :)

Thank you! It feels great.
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Indeed, we wouldn’t be human if it wasn’t difficult to attain :P Some things just come naturally. Not trying to force anything is always the best policy for me, and a huge part of being authentic.
I’m not surprised we have some great bands in common. I’ve listened to many genres at different stages of my life. From doom and gothic metal to synth-pop and EBM. Now a lot of classical music and the unforgettable �80s pop songs, and some �60s in between. I have no idea what people are listening to these days...
Wishing you a Happy New Year too! We deserve a break, a return to normality. May the New Year bring us all love, prosperity and, well, vaccines.

Oh wow, I'm quite a big fan of metal, so it's nice to hear you have also been into that! And many of those '80s (and '90s!) pop songs never fail to put me in a cheerful mood, plus they're just so damn catchy. I totally get the appeal there :)
Thank you! Yes, something approaching a return to normality would be nice. I'm cynical, however; I'll only believe it when I see it :p
I see you have a new review up, don't quite have enough time to read and respond this morning, but am looking forward to doing so later on :)

We’re all different, I understand it might be more difficult for others. When it comes to movies (and books), embracing seriousness and silliness comes quite naturally for me. But there are things I know I won’t like so I don’t see the point in trying out the obvious. I already have trouble sleeping, can you imagine after watching a horror movie? I don’t see myself finding a new favorite in anything relating exorcism. (Yup, now I’ll be thinking of someone’s head spinning around for the next hour. I’m that susceptible.)
Please, don’t worry, those lines are inconsequential, but they’ll be here for a while.

Haha whereas, wrt the balance between silliness and seriousness (at least when it comes to movies), I’m more on the human side, as you phrased it earlier ;) And to each her own, of course; you certainly can’t force yourself when it comes to your favorite--or least favorite--things :)
Thanks for providing such a stellar review of a far-less-than-stellar book. And that was a great clip from Friends, too funny :D
I thought of you recently when I ordered Allie Brosh’s new book, recalling that you were also a big fan of her first one. Hopefully we can chat about that in the not-too-distant future :)