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Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man by Emmanuel Acho
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If we can truly integrate white people and black people together, working in tandem, that’s when our world will make its joyful noise.

My non-reading husband was actually the one to turn me on to this title last week when it was released. Unfortunately for him, the wait list for the hard copy is about eleventy trillion long, but yay me I got first dibs on the Kindle version : ) He has settled for watching the videos (on You Tube???? me = old timer so I have no idea) while I ploughed through this sucker in one day.

Like most books regarding the subject matter at hand, the people who really need to read it will be the ones who absolutely don’t due to the fact they are too busy picking out the perfect madras shirt to match their tiki torches while gathering in the town square in order to wave their confederate flags with their knuckle dragging brethren.

As for the rest of us who aren’t super busy like those snowflakes (hehehe, turned the tables on ‘em didn’t I?), inside this book you’ll find nearly every topic you could possibly have questions about when it comes to the current state of race relations in America. From white privilege to “reverse racism� to implicit bias to the “N� word and “thugs� and “angry black men� to gangs and black on black violence to cultural appropriation to “Karens� to systemic racism when it comes to racial divides as far as income, housing, the criminal justice system, etc., this is a book that does not shy away from any uncomfortable conversation.

As far as I’m concerned, it should be required reading. What puts Uncomfortable Conversations above some others is that it not only encourages you to talk the talk � and it REALLY encourages you that the talking is the first step (hence the title, duh) � but also teaches you how to walk the walk. From book and film recommendations (both non-fiction as well as fiction), to music, to websites where you can research various subjects in greater detail on your own, to reputable charities which to donate money, to civic and philanthropic volunteer opportunities, there’s really no excuse after reading this to claim ignorance when it comes to actively becoming anti-racist. And if you determine your comfort level has an ending point and you don’t want to/can’t accept the responsibility of being a true ally at least you gained some knowledge and learned the only bad questions are those that go unasked. (But really, all of us can do better than only talking � simply voting might be enough to start making changes in your neck of the woods when it comes to taxes, zoning, schools, etc.)


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Reading Progress

November 17, 2020 – Started Reading
November 17, 2020 – Shelved
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: i-read-it-right
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: liburrrrrry-book
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: it-s-all-in-the-name
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: like-this-or-we-cant-be-friends
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: read-in-2020
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: smort
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: ripped-from-the-headlines
November 18, 2020 – Shelved as: oprah-told-me-to
November 18, 2020 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Erica (new)

Erica I, like your husband, watch these videos on the YouTube. I suspect the reason your husband turned you on to this last week is because that's when Emmanuel Acho released his birthday video in which he's dressed all fancy and says "It's my birthday! And my book's birthday!"
Is the husband going to read this even though he is non-reading?


Kelly (and the Book Boar) He saw the author on ESPN because Covid = ESPN is never NOT on my effing television : ( Then he started watching the videos and asked me to reserve the book. In theory he's going to read it . . . . in reality he has read one book in our 25+ years together so I'm not gonna hold my breath.


message 3: by JanB (new)

JanB Very thoughtful review Kelly! I love that the recommendation came from your husband, even if he will never read it 😉


Kelly (and the Book Boar) Thanks Jan! We’ll see if his turn ever comes around if he actually turns some pages 🤣🤣🤣


message 5: by Kelli (new)

Kelli My husband never reads either! It’s a life I don’t understand. I loved these videos & had no idea about the book.


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