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Gay Bar by Jeremy Atherton Lin
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I'm of two minds here. On the one hand, it was kind of fun tagging along with Lin to the hangouts of his past. I'm familiar with many of the ones in San Francisco and it was amusing to revisit them. On the other, I found him--to use a dated phrase--too cool for school. I thought the book was overwritten and that Lin was kind of impressed with himself. Maybe that's the only kind of person who is going to write a book like this in the first place, which is fair. There were just certain literary conceits that seemed unnecessary. Why is his partner--whose identity is certainly not hidden in the acknowledgments--Famous Blue Raincoat, Famous for short? Why can't he just be Jamie? Lin has clearly thought a lot about the idea of himself in these spaces, which is partially the point of a memoir like this, and by extension relates to how all gay people might experience gay bars, but it also ends up reading as remarkably self-involved at moments.

I also agree with some other reviewers who were disappointed that there wasn't more of a social historical overview of the development of gay bars and their wane in the wake of apps and online dating and hook-up sites. There were snippets of history thrown in, to be sure, but not in any organized fashion. Perhaps the publisher's description of the book was just a bit misleading on this front, which may not be the author's fault.
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Dennis Holland Although I see that I enjoyed this much much more than you did, I do agree that referring to his partner as Famous, etc. was an unusual choice. I found it a bit distracting and I’d nearly stumble over it while I was reading. I’m not a writer but I think it would be challenging to write about and include your romantic partner when writing a memoir. I wonder whether calling him by something else made him more of a mysterious “character� through it all? It’s an obvious reference to the Leonard Cohen song which has a very mysterious quality itself.


Gerhard Nicholas, great review! I am yet to read this, but to my mind the sub-title 'Why We Went Out' does imply a kind of sociological approach, which is what piqued my interest in the first place.


Nicholas Dennis wrote: "Although I see that I enjoyed this much much more than you did, I do agree that referring to his partner as Famous, etc. was an unusual choice. I found it a bit distracting and I’d nearly stumble o...". I actually think he explained the use of Famous somewhere in the beginning (Leonard Cohen, etc.), so it wasn't confusing, per se. It just felt pretentious to me. I think for me this might have just been a bit of a mismatch between expectations and what the memoir actually was.


Nicholas Gerhard wrote: "Nicholas, great review! I am yet to read this, but to my mind the sub-title 'Why We Went Out' does imply a kind of sociological approach, which is what piqued my interest in the first place." Some people seem to have really enjoyed it, but yes, do not expect survey of the rise and fall of the gay bar. There are definitely moments of history in there, but it's not very systematic about it.


Gerhard Nicholas wrote: "Dennis wrote: "Although I see that I enjoyed this much much more than you did, I do agree that referring to his partner as Famous, etc. was an unusual choice. I found it a bit distracting and I’d n..."

Nicholas, I think you have to be a bit of an exhibitionist to write a 'memoir' like this anyway, which could explain the author's self-absorption. :)


Gerhard Nicholas wrote: "Gerhard wrote: "Nicholas, great review! I am yet to read this, but to my mind the sub-title 'Why We Went Out' does imply a kind of sociological approach, which is what piqued my interest in the fir..."

Ah ha, thanks for that! Looking forward to reading it. Reminds me of Around The World In 80 Gays..


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Dustin I think having a nickname Famous, you are left to your imagination and could assert yourself or your ideal guy there. If it was Chad or Nick or something you could make some assumptions.


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