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To Sir Phillip, With Love by Julia Quinn
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I wanted to enjoy this book so badly, the premiss set up in the previous book & the letter writing was a different way in to the story, leaving the London Scene was also refreshing. I liked Eloise's appearances in the earlier instalments and will admit to much of my curiosity for this series stemming from her appearances in the YouTube clips I've seen of the show - what a firecracker...but this was not it! She hardly seemed like the character we saw glimpses of in previous books and in any case...

Sir Phillip ruined this read!
WTH is up with the tempers & tendency towards violence for the men of this world? Perhaps a product of the time & it is becoming increasingly apparent that these are the kind of men this author writes but they are such hard passes...I cannot with them! 🤬 Their overbearing reactions are not romantic and should not be glorified as such 🤢

Poor Marina, my heart broke every time she was mentioned. Not solely because of the circumstances under which we met her but the life she led 💔
She deserved so much better, I know the mental health awareness we have gleaned since this was based and indeed probably since this was first published absolutely colours my opinion but it is what it is and I cannot get over it 😖

The twins, Eloise (for the most part) & super surprisingly to me considering how much I've bemoaned the Bridger'bois when they are the MCs - their more entertaining appearances as side characters in this stopped me breaking my phone in anger over Phillips macho-man antics & thoughts 🤦‍♀️�
I was also slightly saddened not to see the interaction between Eloise & Hyacinth from the second epilogue of the previous book + the reaction to the reveal therein ... but I guess that was possibly written after this books publication 🤔 so 🤷‍♀�

One other thing I liked was the snippets of Eloise's correspondence at the start of each chapter - but even that touching glimpse into her past was not enough to pull my disappointment away from almost every action of Phillips 🙄

Seeing as the first book & *THAT* scene got a 2.5* rating...Phillips shenanigans in this and the mistreatment (imho) of Marina prob put my "enjoyment" of this read on a par with that one despite the twins adorable antics in attempting to be beastly (an aside but I need to work that word more into my vernacular teehee) & the bro'vention scenes were a reminder why I like reading about this fam despite the male love interests carry on.

Francesca is next and seeing as she has barely appeared in any of the books so far I will admit to being more than a little curious to learn more about her & honestly at this point am not holding out much hope for her love interest but will try to "measure my expectations" (soz YouTube drahmz ref) and limit any propensity I may have towards ranting 🤐 *whispers* but I make no promises some things may be beyond my self control 🤗😅
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Reading Progress

September 22, 2021 – Started Reading
September 22, 2021 – Shelved
September 22, 2021 –
3.0% "Not sure I like this handling of Marina's mental health 😖
Product of time or no...No bueno"
September 23, 2021 –
11.0% "I'm already #TeamGunning for MVP - altho hopefully the kiddos may get in on that action 😈😝"
September 23, 2021 –
45.0% "Lolz the 4 brave horsemen 🤭

Much as I'm not necessarily the biggest fan of how the Bridger'bois behave towards their love interests...the familial interactions keep me tuning into this series!
Nappies indeed 😂🤣"
September 24, 2021 –
73.0% "Wow, just wow...I hope we are not supposed to be swooning for Sir Philip because #HARDPASS 🤦🤯

Not officially a Bridger'boi but yet somehow at the same time maybe worse 🙄"
September 24, 2021 –
95.0% "Much as I liked Eloise before this book, I think I'd rather have read more about A & C from the second epilogue..."
September 24, 2021 – Finished Reading
September 25, 2021 – Shelved as: 2-point-5-stars
September 25, 2021 – Shelved as: library-loan-bnl
September 25, 2021 – Shelved as: read-in-2021
January 11, 2023 – Shelved as: rage-reads
April 6, 2023 – Shelved as: read-ebook

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Lau ♡ Great review, Aoife! I'm sorry this one was such a disappointment. I hope you have more luck with the next one. Tbh, I couldn't stand Francesca but maybe you have more luck than me 🍀❤️


Aoife - Bookish_Babbling Lau wrote: "Great review, Aoife! I'm sorry this one was such a disappointment. I hope you have more luck with the next one. Tbh, I couldn't stand Francesca but maybe you have more luck than me 🍀❤️"

Oooh interesting, i know so little about her as we've seen her once maybe twice on page before?! 🤔
Sorry she didn't work for you, if she doesn't work for me I may end up RIP'ing this series as so far the men as love interests are just not where it's at! I'll be lucky if i don't do permanent damage to my teeth/jaw from how they grind my gears 🙈


message 3: by Paige � (new)

Paige ♠ I still haven't read any of the books in this series 😅 I honestly still can't decide if I want to or not... especially if many of the love interests verge towards tempers and violence. Not really my thing either 🙈 But amazing review, Aoife! Hopefully you like the rest of the books more 💕💕


Aoife - Bookish_Babbling Paige � wrote: "I still haven't read any of the books in this series 😅 I honestly still can't decide if I want to or not... especially if many of the love interests verge towards tempers and violence. Not really m..."

It's a style of male MC writing i don't gravitate to and rather dislike as i think it feeds into the toxic masculinity we've been inherently conditioned to accept on so many levels - but at the same time it is what it is and has + still does happen sadly 😕
The banter between the siblings and indeed back and forth between MCs at times is entertaining as historical romance reads often are but I admit the male love interests really don't cut it for me...but each to their own and there'll never be any judgement from me. Everyone reads for diff reasons & likes diff things - hopefully if you decide to pick the series up you'll enjoy them as so many others have - my brain just works diff & I cannot buy into these being "good" guys. It is worth bearing in mind that these books are 2 decades old, i think, and obviously set in the 1800s - so i really should not take them this seriously 🤗


Lau ♡ @Aoife I'll be sad if you stop bc I love Hyacinth's book and was hoping you enjoyed it too. It's my favourite. Now I'm nervous bc Francesca's was my least fav, BUT I know a lot of people love it, so I hope it's your case do you'll read Hyacinth's 😂


message 6: by Aoife - Bookish_Babbling (last edited Sep 25, 2021 01:37PM) (new) - rated it 2 stars

Aoife - Bookish_Babbling Lau wrote: "@Aoife I'll be sad if you stop bc I love Hyacinth's book and was hoping you enjoyed it too. It's my favourite. Now I'm nervous bc Francesca's was my least fav, BUT I know a lot of people love it, s..."

Tbf hun, i prob will. They're quick reads, I'm a glutton for punishment at times & tbh have enjoyed the glimpses of Hyacinth so far...will see if i pick up Gregory's book - i haven't had the best luck with the Bridger'bois 😉


message 7: by NE (new)

NE I totally agree. Somehow Phillip managed to be worse than Anthony and Benedick. Didn’t think that was possible but JQ proved me wrong 🤷🏾‍♀�


Aoife - Bookish_Babbling NE wrote: "I totally agree. Somehow Phillip managed to be worse than Anthony and Benedick. Didn’t think that was possible but JQ proved me wrong 🤷🏾‍♀�"

Right?!
I guess it's an achievement of sorts 🤷🤣🤪


On the Same Page I really didn't like this book either and have come to the conclusion the author is very hit or miss for me. I enjoyed Anthony's book though, so I will read a few more and skip the ones I've heard iffy things about.


message 10: by Aoife - Bookish_Babbling (last edited Oct 01, 2021 04:27AM) (new) - rated it 2 stars

Aoife - Bookish_Babbling On the Same Page wrote: "I really didn't like this book either and have come to the conclusion the author is very hit or miss for me. I enjoyed Anthony's book though, so I will read a few more and skip the ones I've heard ..."

I feel ya!
I'll prob finish this series as have only 2 books left, they're quick reads and i have the ebooks from my library so why not 🤷‍♀� ... well I'll deffo read Hyacinths but may bail on Gregory depending on how maddening it winds up being in his head 🤗

But I'm deffo not sold on reaching for any other books by this author unless they have changed how they write their male protagonists...i am so over the macho'man antics 🤢


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