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It Starts with Us by Colleen Hoover
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I don't dislike It Starts with Us per se, but it does feel more like a long and unnecessary epilogue to It Ends with Us rather than the separate, worthwhile story it should've been.

I remember vividly the experience of reading It Ends with Us, how every page felt riveting and every moment essential. There were so many memorable scenes, so much emotion embedded in the pages. I sobbed my way through it, especially that ending that completely gutted me. To prep for this book, I reread the ending, and sure enough, it walloped me again.

So it's rather disappointing that this story didn't do anything for me. There was no emotional punch, no compelling conflict. It took me days longer to read this than I anticipated because I didn't feel any pull to keep going. And now having finished this, I'm already unable to point to a single memorable moment because there honestly weren't any.

But then, that's always the fear when an author gives in to fans and writes a sequel or prequel they originally had no intention of writing, isn't it? That the result would be mundane, at best an unnecessary add-on, at worst ruining the legacy of a previously amazing work. (I'm looking at you, Harry Potter and The Hunger Games.)

More spelled out isn't always better. Whatever I had imagined in my head for Lily's future, it was more interesting than what I got. And in fact, to spell out Lily's future in the way that this sequel did took something away from the difficulty of Lily's decision at the end of the first book. Part of what I loved about that book was the nuanced and flawed characters, while this book distilled everyone down to either just a good guy or a bad guy.

The other issue is that there is no real conflict or surprises in here. Sure, I enjoy reading a happy ending as much as the next person, but not for 300+ pages. It's clear without having read a single page of this book what will happen and who will end up happy. And sure enough, the story progresses and ends exactly the way you'd expect. And that just does not make for an enthralling read.

This all sounds rather harsh, but it's really not that bad. It was an alright way to pass a few hours if you're not quite ready to leave the world of Lily and Atlas. This pleasant and unexciting story won't leave you breathless, but it shouldn't offend either. Just be ready to forget about it almost as soon as you're done.

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See also, my thoughts on:
It Ends with Us
Verity
Reminders of Him
Regretting You
Ugly Love
Layla
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November 1, 2022 – Started Reading
November 1, 2022 – Shelved
November 5, 2022 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by [deleted user] (new)

Splendid review, Yun. It's amazing how many sequels should have been left to our imagination....


message 2: by Holly (new)

Holly  B (slower pace!) Some good points Yun and Great review! 💗


message 3: by Taina (new)

Taina Garcia Great review, Yun. I think I’ll leave well enough alone. I love the feeling I was left with after “It Ends With Us.� Thanks for your insight. 👍🏼🙂


message 4: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Splendid review, Yun. It's amazing how many sequels should have been left to our imagination...."
Totally agree! Thanks, Bob!


message 5: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Holly wrote: "Some good points Yun and Great review! 💗"
Thanks, Holly! 💖


message 6: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Taina wrote: "Great review, Yun. I think I’ll leave well enough alone. I love the feeling I was left with after “It Ends With Us.� Thanks for your insight. 👍🏼🙂"
Thanks, Taina! I don't think you're missing anything by skipping this book. It brings nothing new to the table, unfortunately. 😕


message 7: by Nilguen (new)

Nilguen Huh! Thinking twice now, whether to read the sequel. It Ends with Us was such a delightful reading experience to me. Fabulous review, Yun 💕🫶💕


message 8: by Peacejanz (new)

Peacejanz Thanks for the review. peace, janz


message 9: by Beth (new)

Beth Thanks for the honest review. I have to say, It Ends with Us didn't really click with me. I didn't actually like any of the characters and didn't finish it 😬. Maybe I I was just in a bad mood and should give it another shot?


Georgia Neindorf Totally agree with you here, Yun!


message 11: by Katerina (new)

Katerina Yun, at this point in time, if you give a book 3 stars or under, I take it out of my TBR, no questions asked. This one wasn’t even on my TBR, though, I gave up on CH after 7 of her books. No hating, just not my cup of tea. I liked the idea of It Ends With Us, because trauma needs to end somewhere if it’s going to end. Great review! 🌟


message 12: by Jonathan (new)

Jonathan K (Max Outlier) Nice review of a book that failed to hit the mark Yun. Similar to you, I'm not a fan of authors whose narrative meanders, characters are flat and plot drags endlessly. As to sequels, this is the Achilles Heel of film too and the studios that produce them seek nothing more than profit


Margaret M - (having a challenging time and on GR as much as I can) A pity this wasn’t a winner. Wonderful review and totally get what you are saying Yun 💜


message 14: by Canadian Jen (new)

Canadian Jen Sounds a little disappointing, Yun. I did enjoy It ends With Us but will likely not get to this one. A fair review!


message 15: by Rachel (new)

Rachel Hanes Wonderful review Yun! 💗 Sorry you didn’t like this one as much as you had anticipated.


message 16: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Nilguen wrote: "Huh! Thinking twice now, whether to read the sequel. It Ends with Us was such a delightful reading experience to me. Fabulous review, Yun 💕🫶💕"
Thanks, Nilguen! 💖 I suspect if you keep your expectations low, it might be okay? But it definitely doesn't hold a candle to the original book.


message 17: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Peacejanz wrote: "Thanks for the review. peace, janz"
Thanks, Janz!


message 18: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Beth wrote: "Thanks for the honest review. I have to say, It Ends with Us didn't really click with me. I didn't actually like any of the characters and didn't finish it 😬. Maybe I I was just in a bad mood and s..."
Thanks, Beth! Honestly, I've never given a book a second chance and had it end up with a different result. I'm of the opinion that life is too short to read a book you don't connect with twice! 🤗


message 19: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Georgia wrote: "Totally agree with you here, Yun!"
Thanks, Georgia! Glad it's not just me that felt lukewarm. 😕


message 20: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Katerina wrote: "Yun, at this point in time, if you give a book 3 stars or under, I take it out of my TBR, no questions asked. This one wasn’t even on my TBR, though, I gave up on CH after 7 of her books. No hating..."
Thanks, Katerina! Ha, I hope you're getting some good recommendations off of me, and I'm not leading you astray! 🤗 With CoHo, she's a hit or miss author for me, though her books that I love, they are among my all-time favs! But I know she isn't for everyone, and after 7 books, I think you gave it a good shot lol!


message 21: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Jonathan wrote: "Nice review of a book that failed to hit the mark Yun. Similar to you, I'm not a fan of authors whose narrative meanders, characters are flat and plot drags endlessly. As to sequels, this is the Ac..."
Thanks, Jonathan! I totally agree about film sequels. I don't remember that last good one I saw.


message 22: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Margaret M - semi hiatus wrote: "A pity this wasn’t a winner. Wonderful review and totally get what you are saying Yun 💜"
Thanks, Margaret! 💖


message 23: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Jen wrote: "Sounds a little disappointing, Yun. I did enjoy It ends With Us but will likely not get to this one. A fair review!"
Thanks, Jen! Yeah, you won't miss anything by skipping this one! Just imagine a happily ever after and that should suffice lol. :)


Meredith (Trying to catch up!) Fabulous review, Yun! Sorry this was a disappointment. I hope you love your next read!


message 25: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Rachel wrote: "Wonderful review Yun! 💗 Sorry you didn’t like this one as much as you had anticipated."
Thanks, Rachel! 💖 Always a bummer when that happens, though I should've seen this coming!


message 26: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Meredith (Slowly Catching Up) wrote: "Fabulous review, Yun! Sorry this was a disappointment. I hope you love your next read!"
Thanks, Meredith! I hope so too! :)


message 27: by Jayme (new)

Jayme Sorry it didn’t wow you! Terrific review! 💕


Tanya Been waiting to read your review on this one. I agree that it was definitely an unnecessary epilogue. I liked it but didn't love it either😅


message 29: by Wendy (new)

Wendy Excellent review as always, Yun! Sorry this one didn't give you the feels the first one did.


message 30: by Barbara (new)

Barbara The New York Times wrote an article about Hoover and how she's become successful without the industry backing her or supporting her. That so intrigued me that now I want to read one of her books.
Great review Yun!


message 31: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Jayme wrote: "Sorry it didn’t wow you! Terrific review! 💕"
Thanks, Jayme! 💖


message 32: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Tanya wrote: "Been waiting to read your review on this one. I agree that it was definitely an unnecessary epilogue. I liked it but didn't love it either😅"
Thanks, Tanya! I'm glad you enjoyed it a bit more than me, at least! 🤗


message 33: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Wendy wrote: "Excellent review as always, Yun! Sorry this one didn't give you the feels the first one did."
Thanks, Wendy! Eh, maybe I expected too much... no way does lightning strike twice in the same spot/series lol.


message 34: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Barbara wrote: "The New York Times wrote an article about Hoover and how she's become successful without the industry backing her or supporting her. That so intrigued me that now I want to read one of her books.
G..."

Thanks, Barbara! If I remember correctly, she's one of the few (only?) authors to self publish and make it big! If you ever do give her a try, I'd be curious to see your thoughts! :)


message 35: by Jaidee (new)

Jaidee Is it about pleasing or making a quick buck...mewonders ?


message 36: by Kay (new) - added it

Kay Ahh shoot, I got this one coming up.😄Terrific review Yun!


message 37: by Tina (new)

Tina Sorry to hear this one was a little disappointing. Sounds like it might be hard to live up to the first book. An excellent and honest review Yun! 💫


message 38: by Shey (new)

Shey A 300-page romance book without any conflict? That sounds... illegal, but I'm glad Colleen Hoover made a lot of money out of it. 😄 Loved your review, Yun! IEWU sounds heartbreakingly beautiful. I just added it. 💖


Gillian Fantastic review Yun! I’m sorry you don’t love this book. I hope your next read is better!


message 40: by Angela (new)

Angela Terrific review, Yun. Shame it was all rather meh, especially since the first book had the feels. I hope your next read is a winner!


message 41: by Debbie (new)

Debbie W. I agree! No prequels or sequels, please! Leave well enough alone!


message 42: by Yun (last edited Nov 06, 2022 09:10PM) (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Jaidee wrote: "Is it about pleasing or making a quick buck...mewonders ?"
That's a good question! Or maybe giving in to fan-mania pressure without a solid story.


message 43: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Kay wrote: "Ahh shoot, I got this one coming up.😄Terrific review Yun!"
Thanks, Kay! I hope you enjoy more than I did! Will be curious to see your thoughts! 🤗


message 44: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Tina wrote: "Sorry to hear this one was a little disappointing. Sounds like it might be hard to live up to the first book. An excellent and honest review Yun! 💫"
Thanks, Tina! For sure. Maybe my expectations were just too high!


message 45: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Shey wrote: "A 300-page romance book without any conflict? That sounds... illegal, but I'm glad Colleen Hoover made a lot of money out of it. 😄 Loved your review, Yun! IEWU sounds heartbreakingly beautiful. I j..."
Thanks, Shey! Ha, it should be illegal lol! When you get to IEWU, I hope you love it! Will be curious to see your thoughts! 🤗


message 46: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Gillian wrote: "Fantastic review Yun! I’m sorry you don’t love this book. I hope your next read is better!"
Thanks, Gillian! I suppose now I don't have to have FOMO lol. :)


message 47: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Angela wrote: "Terrific review, Yun. Shame it was all rather meh, especially since the first book had the feels. I hope your next read is a winner!"
Thanks, Angela! Maybe my expectations were just too high after book 1. It's just too much to expect lightning to strike twice in one series.


message 48: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Debbie wrote: "I agree! No prequels or sequels, please! Leave well enough alone!"
Yes exactly! Can't think of a single time when a sequel or prequel has come later, that it has worked out well.


message 49: by Debbie (new)

Debbie W. Yun wrote: "Debbie wrote: "I agree! No prequels or sequels, please! Leave well enough alone!"
Yes exactly! Can't think of a single time when a sequel or prequel has come later, that it has worked out well."


The Testaments by Margaret Atwood wasn't too bad, but some readers would probably disagree with me.


message 50: by Yun (new) - rated it 3 stars

Yun Debbie wrote: "The Testaments by Margaret Atwood wasn't too bad, but some readers would probably disagree with me."
Ah! I didn't love the original, so I haven't read the sequel. But good to know there is at least one decent one out there!


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