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The Viscount Who Loved Me by Julia Quinn
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Oh, what a shame. This was nothing at all like the Kate and Anthony from the TV show.
Whereas TV Kate always seemed confident, in control, smart and genuinely unimpressed with Anthony’s rakish ways, we now got a meek, virginal, demure doormat that swooned over the handsome viscount (even when he was being a creepy arse) and who was impossibly jealous of her beautiful sister. Like, seriously, what on earth was this!?
And don’t even get me started on Anthony, because his character could have made me cry with disappointment. He was, quite frankly, repulsive. He was unbelievably arrogant, painfully sexist, uncomfortably similar to a rapist, annoyingly emotionally stunted, infuriatingly rude, and just, overall, an awful person.

I like my romance heroes to kiss the ground their love interest walks on, and definitely not spit on it like our dear Anthony did. He treated Kate with the utmost disrespect and non-stop hostility. And I do mean literal hostility since he stepped on her hand on purpose and followed that up by kicking her in the stomach. I don’t know what kind of surreal scene that was, but it was straight-up abuse, yet it was immediately ignored afterwards.

Also, the amount of times this guy pointed out that she was “not beautiful� got on my damn nerves, and the way he just kept on kissing her and devilling her honour, without any intention of marrying her and without her true consent, made me want to strangle him. He played with Kate’s feelings without any qualms, and would have kept on pursuing her sister in marriage until the end if it wasn't for society forcing him to marry Kate due to them being caught in an “uncompromising position.�

And, of course, after they do get married (which we don’t even get to see and just completely skip in the book?), we are immediately graced with this horrendous scene: Kate asks if they can wait a week to have sex, because the marriage was very sudden and she’s nervous about losing her virginity. Anthony’s response was literally just “No.� He then goes on about how she would be taking away his rights by not giving him sex, and Kate is like “Oh, right, OK.� And then they have sex, no problem. I was baffled, because what the hell was that??!?

All in all, I’m very disappointed. I really had higher hopes for this, and neither character was anything like I expected. I wasn’t even the biggest fan of them in the TV show (I actually preferred season 1 over season 2), but gosh, the TV version was the best romance in the world compared to this monstrosity!

I can’t summarize their relationship as anything other than a rude, abusive romance starring a sexist man-whore and an insecure doormat. Bah. Even when they were married, he still refused to fall in love with her and she was just like "oh he treats me so well, I'm so lucky". Girl, grow a spine please, because what in the actual hell is wrong with you. Their entire dynamic was just skewered because Anthony always felt superior and Kate always felt inferior. He would always have the upper hand.

It’s all such a waste of potential as well, because I do feel like this author has a very pleasant and charming writing style with just the right amount of humour and wit. If only she had been able to write better characters and a less sickening romance�


'Bridgertons' series:
1. The Duke and I - 3.5 stars
2. The Viscount Who Loved Me - 2.0 stars
3. An Offer From a Gentleman - 3.5 stars
4. Romancing Mister Bridgerton - 3.5 stars
5. To Sir Phillip, With Love - 3.0 stars
6. When He Was Wicked - 3.5 stars
7. It’s in His Kiss - 2.0 stars
8. On the Way to the Wedding - 2.5 stars
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Reading Progress

July 9, 2023 – Started Reading
July 9, 2023 – Shelved
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: 3rd-person-pov
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: dual-pov
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: enemies-to-lovers
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: hardcover
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: historical
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: love-triangle
July 9, 2023 – Shelved as: romance
July 9, 2023 – Finished Reading
July 11, 2024 – Shelved as: regency

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martina (chaos version) WHAT??!!! i LOVED tv kate and anthony what the fuck is this???
i’m sorry for this awful experience 🫠


message 2: by Sheena (new)

Sheena I’m so sorry you didn’t like this Imme! I have heard not great things about the books 😬 so I’ve decided to stick with the tv show.


Imme van Gorp @martina � idk but it was a DISGRACE! This wasn’t anything like the TV show and Shonda Rhimes deserves a freaking award for turning this mess into an actual romance that doesn’t make you gag😭


Imme van Gorp @Sheena � I actually liked book 1, even though it wasn’t as good as the tv show. But this� this book was just uncomfortable.


Madigan Likes to Read I read these books years and years ago when I was a different person and had different expectations of romance. I'm afraid to ever re-read bc I'm thinking I'd experience the same kind of disappointment you did with this book. Great review!


Imme van Gorp @Madigan � Ah yes, I get that. I also feel like I’d have such different opinions now about some of the books I liked years ago! Sometimes it’s better to just not look back, and spare yourself the disappointment😅


message 7: by Dann (new)

Dann What the heck- he stepped on her hand?! What even is this?!


Imme van Gorp @Dann � right!?! It was so random and just so easily accepted as well, cus Kate didn’t even get angry? I don’t think she even commented on it. This was somehow just okay??? But it WASN’T💀💀 straight-up abuse fr


Kati *☆・゚ I was honestly never interested in Julia Quinn's historicals, even in my strongest HR phase. I don't even know why they are so damn popular. But I enjoy the hell out of what Shonda Rhimes is making of it. 😍


message 10: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Kati � I’ve never had a HR phase, and these are actually one of the few I’ve read in the genre (mainly because they are, indeed, so popular, so I thought that must mean they were good -> I should have known better tbh lol). The reason I’ve never read much HR, however, is because I do feel like it’s kinda an excuse for a lot of authors to write sexist and problematic romances under the idea of it being “historically accurate�, and I just cannot stand that� Of course, I know they’re not all like that, but I have yet to find them😅 You maybe got any recs for me from back in your HR phase??🤣


message 11: by Cara (new)

Cara Great review nonetheless, lovely💕!!!!!!! I'm sorry this one disappointed!!!!!!


message 12: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Cara � Thank you, gorgeous🤍


message 13: by Lilyya (new)

Lilyya ♡ wth? he literally assaulted her ? why didn’t i know this before ? the way that’s the first time ever i hear that a character in a show/movie adaptation is better than book’s character🙃 i knew i had to stay away from this series since i saw what Daphné did to try to get pregnant but the way some things are simply banalized in this series is insane plus, it was written in the 21 century 💀im sorry you had to go through this and terrific review as always, lovely!💘


message 14: by Kati *☆・� (last edited Jul 09, 2023 02:18PM) (new)

Kati *☆・゚ Imme wrote: "You maybe got any recs for me from back in your HR phase??"

Yes, ofc I have. 😁 I'm a big fan of Lisa Kleypas' HRs. My absolute fave of all time being Devil in Winter. It has a redemption arc tho, after the book before but I could tell you all about it if you like to try. I also love the connected "The Ravenels" series by her. I have favorites there as well but all in all I loved the series as a whole. Message me and I clue you in if you're interested. ❤️


message 15: by Kati *☆・� (new)

Kati *☆・゚ Please keep in mind again tho, that I'm a generation older than you and actually not always detect the subtler sexism and misogyny. 🙈


message 16: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Lilyya � no but fr, it was straight up assault, and the book didn’t even acknowledge that this was anything abnormal. There’s also a scene after they get married where Kate wants to wait for a week to have sex because their marriage is super abrupt and she wants to prepare to loose her virginity cus she’s nervous, and he was straight up just like “No. It’s my right to get sex.� And she was just like “Ok.� And I was like ????wtf????
It’s actually insane that the TV show manages to turn this romance into anything remotely resembling a normal romance because this whole thing was just insane to me


message 17: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Kati � Aww thank you so much! That’s actually very helpful cus there are literally an insane amount of HR books and I find it impossible to figure out which ones would be good and which ones wouldn’t be. It’s difficult because I don’t know what to look for in that genre since I don’t know anything about it🤣 I have actually heard of the Wallflowers series before though (from which you highlighted the third book), so I might have to check that out first. But the other series you mentioned sounds good too🤔 Also, don’t worry, I get that not everyone will find the same things sexist as I do, and I guess I’ll just have to find out if your recs can withstand my delicate feminist sensibilities as I go🤣🤣


message 18: by Noah (new)

Noah wonderful review!! i remember thinking about starting this series after the first season aired, but decided not to after seeing that they were written in the early 2000's lol


message 19: by Kati *☆・� (last edited Jul 09, 2023 03:00PM) (new)

Kati *☆・゚ Imme wrote: "I get that not everyone will find the same things sexist as I do, and I guess I’ll just have to find out if your recs can withstand my delicate feminist sensibilities as I go🤣🤣"

haha, well that leaves me to hope you won't shred my faves to pieces then. 🤣 But no, really, I think LK writes great heroes and strong heroines as well as engaging plots. Hope you'll like it.


message 20: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Noah � hahaha that’s some pretty smart reasoning tbh🤣


message 21: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Kati � Ah that does sound very promising!! I’ll keep my fingers crossed, but I think it’ll be fine ;)) thank you, sweetheart <3


Lau ♡ Great review, Imme!! It's interesting because I first read the books (and i only watched one episode of season two) so there wasn't any expectations for me going into it. I can imagine being very very disappointed if you loved the characters, they kinda did whatever they wanted with them in the TV series. I remember being super pissed because Penelope spent season one pinning for Colin when she was so much more than that in the books (she was also pinning, but it was not her whole personality!! I found Eloise was more interesting than her in season one!). ANYWAY I also hated Anthony in the book but I did like Kate. But, again, i didn't have anything to compare. Sorry it was such a miss 😭😭


message 23: by L Ann (new)

L Ann I loved the Netflix series and even considered reading the books but after reading several reviews for the first two books in the series I decided against it. It seems as though the Shondra treatment is what really made the series stand out. Your review really confirms that for me. Sorry for the miss. 💗


message 24: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Lau � ah yea in the books Penelope hasn’t had a personality either though, because she hasn’t actually been in any of them yet😭 I think she had one scene this book and none in the first. And Eliose also has had only one scene yet. I kinda want more of both of them!! It’s super shocking tbh, because I didn’t like Collin in the tv series AT ALL but he’s without a doubt my favourite sibling in the books so far!?? Like, they’re legit all so different or just� absent💀🤣 and to be fair, it’s not like I hated Kate in the book; I just didn’t respect her. She was super weak and pathetic, which is indeed a sharp contract to what she’s like in the tv series. Anthony, however, MY GOD, that man deserved to be strangled in this book. Pure fury is all I have for this dude😭😤


Lau ♡ @Imme yesss SAME! I loved Penelope on her book so i was pissed (she was my fav) and Colin was also my fav in the books 😆 that's why i was very angry when they added that part in season one about him falling in love with someone who wasn't Penelope 😡😡 but well, I've come to the conclusion that it's better to treat them as different things, because they changed waaay too many things 😂😂


message 26: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @L Ann � ah yup, the books are nowhere near as good as the tv series! The first book was still enjoyable for me though, but this second one was a legit dumpsterfire🥴 I completely get why you’d rather skip the whole thing lol


message 27: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Lau � OH MY GOD i cannot tell you how happy I am to hear you complain about him falling in love with someone else in the TV series, cus I thought that would be part of the books as well, and I was DREADING that so much. I hated it� so I’m super glad it won’t be in the books! Phfew, that’s a relief! I’ll definitely take your advice about treating the books and tv series as separate things cus they truly did change so much (this book alone already proofs that lol)


message 28: by Mai (new)

Mai H. I remember enjoying the books for what they were but I enjoy the changes the show brought about


message 29: by Meags (new)

Meags It’s official: I can’t read these books. They sounds like trash compared to what the show has done with the core basics. Every review I read makes me feel sympathy-cringe for how gross the Bridgerton men come across on the page. Sorry it wasn’t a win, Imme, but fab review. Xx


message 30: by lila � (new)

lila ⋆ OH NO, i hate that kate and anthony were butchered like this 😭 but ugh i hate it when the power dynamics are skewed like that, it's the worst. :( hope you enjoy your next read more Imme! <3


message 31: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Mai � yes that’s how I felt about the first book too, but this one was just too intensely bad for that😭 the changes made in the show really came as a godsend there lol


message 32: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Meags � That’s probably a smart choice! The men in these books really are about as sexist as they come, and Anthony really takes the cake in that regard. The show was soooo much more progressive and modern, so that’s probably why they changed the sexist too! Luckily.


message 33: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @lila � yess I hate it too😭 in the show it always felt like Anthony was pining after Kate, but in this book he knew he could have her if he wanted to. He just didn’t want her💀


message 34: by Amina (new)

Amina As one who has not watched the tv show or read the books, bcuz honestly, it's not my cup of tea, so I'm not too sure of how much is the same or not. But I can definitely see your frustration and vexation with this book, Imme. 🥺 It's a shame that it didn't work out so well for you. Still, wonderful review as always! On to better books that are waiting out there for you. 🥰


message 35: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Amina � honestly, I don’t even mind it that much when shows and books are different, but it is very jarring when one has a confident woman with a man who adores her while the other one has a doormat with a man who abuses her. It’s such a weird contrast, and I was so disappointed that the book was like this :( but oh well🥴


message 36: by Zainab (new)

Zainab Qadeer - Hiatus till May I will be staying from this because i LOVE KATE AND ANTONY from the show and this just makes them sound like a bunch of deranged creeps love the review imme 💗💗


message 37: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Zainab � EXACTLY! This is nothing like the show and this whole book was just insanely WRONG


Southern Lady Reads I've heard this thought quite a bit that the books are different that people either love one or the other!


Vanna (on-hiatus) Saw your review and couldn’t resist commenting ❤️❤️ You have nailed it! I read these books when they initially came out.. and loved them; but after seeing the Bridgerton series; I cannot imagine rereading.. the stories are now more progressive, inclusive and just so so lively.. I mean you feel every emotion.. especially this book!! I felt that the actors Jonathan Bailey and Simone Ashley brought such feeling, heart and emotion� the plot in the book is just poor imitation now.. I cannot wait for the other stories; especially Colin’s since it was my least favorite book so I’m intrigued


message 40: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Southern Lady � I don’t even mind so much that they’re different, I just care that this book was so problematic😔


message 41: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Vanna � honestly, I don’t think I would have been able to stand the sexism in this book even without the comparison to the much better tv show, but I do totally get what you mean! Seeing the two things next to each other, points out the flaws within the book even more!!🥴


message 42: by Rain (new)

Rain What!? He stepped on her hand and kicked her? What a jerk!! I read this series a billion years ago, and have no desire to reread it.


message 43: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Rain � It was actually insane, cus they just acted like it was the most normal thing in the world😟


message 44: by Federico (new)

Federico DN Ugh! So sick and toxic! And there are six more of these monstrosities? Imme please put this series on hold and read something cheery next! I like defending your honor but I can't keep burning everything down xD. Hope something way better comes your way hun <3. Fingers, and toes, crossed.


message 45: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Federico � LMAO i’ll try my best, but I keep picking up books lately that I think I’ll really enjoy only for it to be dreadfully awful😭 maybe it’s my own fault though because I never learn; even after this monstrosity, I wasn’t even planning on quitting this series entirely🤣 i mean, the first book was fun, so maybe this was an outlier??🥴 (yes, i am delusional. yes, it is a problem)


➦Paulette & Her Sexy Alphas❥ 🤔Sang. I'm so Sorry it didn't live up to your expectations, Imme�! But what a Great review


message 47: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Paulette � thank you, darling🩵


message 48: by allison � (new)

allison ☆ Damn he really stepped on her damn hand🤺🤺🤺


message 49: by Imme (new) - rated it 2 stars

Imme van Gorp @Allison � literally😭


message 50: by A (new)

A Mac Oh wow, this sounds awful! Especially compared to the TV series - can't believe that the characters were so awful in this one. Fair review, Imme! Do you think you're going to read more of the series?


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