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Study for Obedience by Sarah Bernstein
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it was amazing
bookshelves: booker-2023, netgalley, canada

Also Winner of the Scotia Giller Prize 2023 (Canadian prize).
Update! Yes! So happy and surprised that it was just shortlisted to the Booker Pize 2023

Longlisted for the Booker prize 2023

Book 7/13 and the last I plan to read before the shortlist is announced in two days.

'The question of innocence is a complicated one' � Sarah Bernstein about the novel

Pfff. I am in such a confused state. It is my favourite novel from the ones that I’ve read from the longlist and I have no idea why. How can I share what I loved about Study for Obedience when I do not even know why. It is different from the others, is stands out both in themes and writing. It is a very strange novel, the writing is peculiar, sometimes impenetrable, meditative, meandering, sometimes darkly funny. There’s a lot of metafiction inside, which mostly passed me by. The very low rating probably reflects that and I do not think it is a novel that would appeal to everybody. Nevertheless, I thought it was extraordinary.

I will copy a bit of the synopsis from the Booker website � A woman moves from the place of her birth to a ‘remote northern country� to be housekeeper to her brother, whose wife has just left him. Soon after she arrives, a series of unfortunate events occurs: collective bovine hysteria; the death of a ewe and her nearly-born lamb; a local dog’s phantom pregnancy etc, She notices that the community’s suspicion about incomers in general seems to be directed particularly in her case. She feels their hostility growing. Inside the house, although she tends to her brother and his home with the utmost care and attention, he too begins to fall ill”�

The story is narrated from the point of view of the woman. From the beginning, she keeps pointing out her obedient character and her lack of own personality and ideas. She was born and raised to serve and she does her best to be the perfect carer also her brother. She bathes him, feeds him, dressed him and even administers homemade health remedies.

“I continued to spend the long years since childhood cultivating solitude, pursuing silence to its ever-receding horizon, a pursuit that demanded a particular quality of attention, a self-forgetfulness on my part that would enable me to bring to bear the most painstaking, the most careful consideration to the other, to treat the other as the worthiest object of contemplation. In this process, I would become reduced, diminished, ultimately I would become clarified, even cease to exist. I would be good. I would be all that had ever been asked of me.�

It soon becomes apparent that her narration cannot be trusted, that maybe she is not that innocent, that maybe she is not as obedient as she want us to believe. The author confessed she was reading a lot of Shirley Jackson at the time she wrote the novel and it does have a similar atmosphere, it could easily be classified as a bit of a folk-horror story.

It also a novel about xenophobia, and how easy we can start blaming or categorize strangers based on external factors or their culture. Yes, it is also a story about Jewish culture and its persecution, even the survivor guilt is mentioned.

Thirdly, it is a novel about language and its absence. Language is mentioned extensively in the novel. She has problems communicating with the locals because she does know the language, her job was to transcribe lawyer speeches, she mentions silence as a way to be obedient. The author pushes the boundaries of language with the narrative voice, it plays with it and the meaning of words.

Finally, it is a novel about the traditional role of women and the dangers of imposing it.

I will end my disorganised exposition with an extract from an interview with the author from the Booker Prize website, which explains better what the author tried to do with the novel:

“I was trying to think through what it might look like if certain (usually feminised) characteristics associated with passivity could take on a kind of power, especially over the people reinforcing those sorts of gendered norms. That idea comes from the painter Paula Rego � that obedience can, in a sense, also be murderous � it can be harmful to the person demanding obedience. I was also interested in the question of innocence and the really bizarre expectation that, in order for someone’s suffering to be recognised as legitimate, that person needs also to be innocent � whatever that means. The novel’s narrator is a character who has been disempowered and badly treated in a variety of ways and who has also abdicated moral responsibility in other areas of her life, so the question of innocence is a complicated one, for her as well as for us. The question of agency is I think also complicated by the narrator’s sense of her own fatedness � her sense of living in a cycle of history she can’t work her way out of. �

I received an arc of this book from Netgalley and the publishers in exchange for an honest review
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Reading Progress

August 1, 2023 – Shelved
August 1, 2023 – Shelved as: to-read
August 1, 2023 – Shelved as: booker-2023
August 1, 2023 – Shelved as: netgalley
August 1, 2023 – Shelved as: canada
September 15, 2023 – Started Reading
September 15, 2023 –
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September 18, 2023 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by John (new)

John Banks Looking forward to hearing what you think about this one Adina.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) John wrote: "Looking forward to hearing what you think about this one Adina." I loved it. I finished it last night and managed to scribble some thoughts.


Alan (the Consulting Librarian) Teder Such an excellent and honest review Adina, thank you! It is terrific that you admit to the impenetrable nature of this novel but still give it a 5-star rating. I certainly hope it makes the Booker shortlist on Sept 21st. It is also nominated for Canada's most prestigious award the Giller Prize.


message 4: by David (new)

David Interesting book, Adina. I am curious about her reference to Paula Rego, who does equally disturbing paintings. Thanks for your review.


Yahaira I think you figured out how to share it


message 6: by Jan (new) - rated it 3 stars

Jan Great review, Adina!


Jodi Adina, you did a perfectly wonderful job of explaining this book and why you loved it! I've read several reviews of the book, and I understand it now much better than I ever have, thanks to your review. So, thank you!🙏


message 8: by Baba (new)

Baba Amazing review Adina :)


message 9: by E. (new) - rated it 5 stars

E. Thank you for articulating so many of my own feelings and thoughts that I couldn’t put words to. I agree this novel is astonishing and am glad it’s been picked up for awards.


message 10: by Dmitri (new)

Dmitri Thanks for your review Adina! I’m always on the lookout for new Bookers. I’ve had good luck with them in the past.


message 11: by Fran (new)

Fran Hawthorne THank you for your review. The novel sounds fascinating. (Yikes, I don't know how anyone could judge a major prize -- Booker, National Book Awards, Pulitzer... by definition, all the finalists and long-listers must be terrific. How to choose among them?)


message 12: by Daphna (new)

Daphna Great review Adina. It's amazing how the reviews for this one run all the gamut from DNF to 5 stars. On my TBR list it goes!


Glenda This is an excellent review Asian. I’m enjoying this as well.


switterbug (Betsey) Adina, that you for your very honest review--and I love that you loved it despite it defying easy interpretation. You did a great job of writing this review!


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Gissia wrote: "Great review! While I haven't had the chance to read this novel, based on the synopsis, it appears to be a confessional story that focuses on a woman's journey towards finding a meaningful connecti..." Not exactly. It is a bit more sinister.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Alan wrote: "Such an excellent and honest review Adina, thank you! It is terrific that you admit to the impenetrable nature of this novel but still give it a 5-star rating. I certainly hope it makes the Booker ..." It made the shortlist. yey. i barely made it to the comments.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) David wrote: "Interesting book, Adina. I am curious about her reference to Paula Rego, who does equally disturbing paintings. Thanks for your review." Yeah, they fit with the book.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Yahaira wrote: "I think you figured out how to share it" Thank you, Yahaira.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Baba wrote: "Amazing review Adina :)"

Jan wrote: "Great review, Adina!" Thank you Baba and Jan


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Jodi wrote: "Adina, you did a perfectly wonderful job of explaining this book and why you loved it! I've read several reviews of the book, and I understand it now much better than I ever have, thanks to your re..." Thank you Jodi. I hope you will read it some day.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) E. wrote: "Thank you for articulating so many of my own feelings and thoughts that I couldn’t put words to. I agree this novel is astonishing and am glad it’s been picked up for awards." Thank you. i am also happy it got shortlisted.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Dmitri wrote: "Thanks for your review Adina! I’m always on the lookout for new Bookers. I’ve had good luck with them in the past." I've had luck with most of them. Some I could agree with from time to time.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Fran wrote: "THank you for your review. The novel sounds fascinating. (Yikes, I don't know how anyone could judge a major prize -- Booker, National Book Awards, Pulitzer... by definition, all the finalists and ..." It is hard, and also deeply subjective.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Daphna wrote: "Great review Adina. It's amazing how the reviews for this one run all the gamut from DNF to 5 stars. On my TBR list it goes!" Yes, it is an atmospheric novel and if one cannot get into it, let's say, it can be difficult to appreciate.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Glenda wrote: "This is an excellent review Asian. I’m enjoying this as well." Glad you liked it.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) switterbug (Betsey) wrote: "Adina, that you for your very honest review--and I love that you loved it despite it defying easy interpretation. You did a great job of writing this review!" Thank you Betsy, glad you loved it.


Left Coast Justin Your review is like catnip. I love books that eat you up and you aren't even sure why or how. The invisible hand of the author planting seeds in your mind......Adding.


Glenda This is an excellent review Adina. I'm still scratching my head trying to figure out how to review it. Your review the closest. I will continue to ponder this. That being said, I found myself enjoying it and gave it 4 stars.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Left Coast Justin wrote: "Your review is like catnip. I love books that eat you up and you aren't even sure why or how. The invisible hand of the author planting seeds in your mind......Adding." Thank you so much. As a cat person, I appreciate it.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Glenda wrote: "This is an excellent review Adina. I'm still scratching my head trying to figure out how to review it. Your review the closest. I will continue to ponder this. That being said, I found myself enjoy..." Thank you. Let me know here when you do find you words. I miss a lot of reviews, unfortunately.


Antonio Paola I just finished this book and your review hit it on the nail. I loved it. I love her writing; it's prose, but at times it reads like poetry in its repetition of her thoughts about her brother, the townspeople, and her own self worth.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Antonio wrote: "I just finished this book and your review hit it on the nail. I loved it. I love her writing; it's prose, but at times it reads like poetry in its repetition of her thoughts about her brother, the ..." Thank you Antonio. So happy you loved this as much as i did.


Mark  Porton This is a wonderful review Adina, one of my favourite's of yours. Isn't this a brilliant book? Interest you mention Shirley Jackson - there was a touch of the dark tale of Jackson's The Lottery in this one, have you read that? But you summarise this one so well - it was hard work at times but well worth it. Great stuff!!


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Mark wrote: "This is a wonderful review Adina, one of my favourite's of yours. Isn't this a brilliant book? Interest you mention Shirley Jackson - there was a touch of the dark tale of Jackson's The Lottery in ..." Thank you so much Mark. I really needed this since I feel a bit of a review burnout and not sure why I am doing this sometimes. Yes, I read The Lottery and We Have Always Lived in the Castle. Actually, I think I might write something about the latter. It is almost its turn.


Diane Hamel This book just received Canada’s Giller prize.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Diane wrote: "This book just received Canada’s Giller prize." I know. So excited it won.


Rosalind Strange book - not a story but a narration - it culminated in nothing being clarified for me


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Rosalind wrote: "Strange book - not a story but a narration - it culminated in nothing being clarified for me" It was strange but I liked that. However, i can see how it could not work for others.


Ellen Watts Interesting, I recently read a Shirley Jackson book for the first time and I think I enjoyed this more for having that sort of feel in my mind already


Leslie What an excellent review, looking forward to a challenging read😊


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Ellen wrote: "Interesting, I recently read a Shirley Jackson book for the first time and I think I enjoyed this more for having that sort of feel in my mind already" I think that it helped having that feeling, for sure.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Leslie wrote: "What an excellent review, looking forward to a challenging read😊" I hope you will like this one


John Fenlon Great review, I'm glad I came across it. I just finished the book today and had similar confusion, and wondered if I was missing something, despite really enjoying it.

I am curious: Did you at any point detect incest hinted at. The relationship with her brother seemed quite sinister to me.


Magdelanye Hmm Adina, it may be that your appreciation of suspense and mystery has allowed you to love this book but as I work on my review I fear, carrying on with Justins analogy, the book is like a poisoned seed that sprouts doubts.
My disenchantment with the narrator surfaced early. All the innuendo. I like how you broke it down to 5 themes; shame certainly runs through all of them. Her passive aggressive tactics certainly alienated me.
I'm with Rosalind,


Magdelanye And yes John her relationship with her brother seemed rather all encompassing. The heavy yuck factor for me, the bathing and the dressing, the open doors and demanding gazes.
Reminds me somewhat of Eileen


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) John Fenlon wrote: "Great review, I'm glad I came across it. I just finished the book today and had similar confusion, and wondered if I was missing something, despite really enjoying it.

I am curious: Did you at an..."
i think i did. it was quite faint and decided to ignore because I really dislike books about nicest.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Magdelanye wrote: "And yes John her relationship with her brother seemed rather all encompassing. The heavy yuck factor for me, the bathing and the dressing, the open doors and demanding gazes.
Reminds me somewhat of..."
I do not like incest books at all either.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) Magdelanye wrote: "Hmm Adina, it may be that your appreciation of suspense and mystery has allowed you to love this book but as I work on my review I fear, carrying on with Justins analogy, the book is like a poisone..." Maybe you are right about the mystery thing. It is a tricky book to categorise. i could have read it at any other moment and hated it. It is a strange one.


message 49: by John of Canada (new)

John of Canada I had set a limit on the number of new books I was going to read for now. However after reading your fabulous revue, I have decided to add this one. Maybe I should stop reading your wonderful reviews for a while so that I won't be further tempted.


Adina (notifications back, log out, clear cache) John of Canada wrote: "I had set a limit on the number of new books I was going to read for now. However after reading your fabulous revue, I have decided to add this one. Maybe I should stop reading your wonderful revie..." Haha, or you could only read my reviews and limit your books added to only the best. Joking, I have dubious taste.


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